More couples with Bi men

Well lay back and enjoy!

I have more men on here. Wanting to give me oral then women.

We all wish that James

I love seeing all the open minded people in threads like these. I just wish there were more closer to where i live.

There is not a Bi friendly or an oral Bi designation. I believe there are many men that are Bi to the point of touch and oral but that’s all but they can’t lost as Bi. The designations need to be changed.

Unfortunately the CDC stats do not differentiate between men who are out and in committed relationships and men who are married and cheating on their spouses by cruising rest area bathrooms.

Personally, I'd feel safer with a bi guy whose wife knows he's bi and is supportive, than a straight guy who is cheating on his wife with multiple women.

In my humble opinion I say just be honest....I mean you want to meet people who are compatible...right?....At least give a hint that you are open to various scenarios for anyone who might not be....plus bi play is certainly not necessary to have an extremely erotic rendezvous so hopefully more people understand that.....hope everyone is enjoying the Holiday Season

I have no issues being around bi men.

I have read that safety is a concern for those that shun the bi guys because they typically are at higher risk (similar to gay men) for STI's. Personally, I would think only those that participate in anal sex would be higher risk, but there is not a way to differentiate different levels of bi-ness here, so they all get huddled into one group.

"The weird thing is that we rarely hear straight women worry that a bi woman or lesbian will try to hit on them. But straight men are afraid to be in the same room with a gay man because they think they’re going to hit on immediately."

This is because straight men assume that bi or gay men will treat them with the same level of disrespect with which straight men treat women.

I guess we’ve never fully understood the double standard that exists with bi women vs bi men.

It seems that bi women are almost a requirement even when there’s no girl/girl play, whereas bi men are more of a turn off for a lot of people.

If every discusses fantasies and play rules ahead of time and all agree, go have fun. It seems the labels just get in the way.

The weird thing is that we rarely hear straight women worry that a bi woman or lesbian will try to hit on them. But straight men are afraid to be in the same room with a gay man because they think they’re going to hit on immediately.

Onehorneywife - I can see a couple with limited contacts being on the fence with this. Kind of the proverbial trading the bird in hand for two in the bush. Hopefully your input helps with that decision.

That we did.

Onehorneywife - "Oh, and all the other couples we played with ran away."

That sucks :-( Sounds like you more than made up for it though in the added interest from others that were looking for Bi play.

Much of the same for us. Did fairly well when we were listed as Straight/Bi. Had a number of couples we played with often but limited interest as a whole. After we/I got more openminded about bi play we changed up our profile to reflect what our preferences are. As a result, we have had way more contacts from couples and single guys listed as "straight" and bi. Oh, and all the other couples we played with ran away. OMG he is bi now. Never once tried anything with those guys.

Guy4u2tri.....I agree with what you said about couples/guys posting as straight but once everybody is naked, you find out otherwise. We started out as a straight posting and learned the same thing from couples/singles we met.....They wanted some bi action from the male. We enjoy finding select males for 3some fun and receive MANY inquiries, as well as couples with bi males. It tends to become a more relaxed atmosphere when all the cards are laid out that everyone involved is bi and not afraid to admit it....

I had a straight profile on here for many years. Almost every couple and single that reached out to me was listed as straight when they really weren't. After a while I became much more curious myself but didn't dare to put that on my profile because I was worried about labeling myself. Then I came up with this second profile and listed myself as bi curious and I got way more attention. Enough that I don't even use the other one and let it go to a free account. The funny thing that I noticed though was that I didn't have a problem getting certs on the straight account but on this one not so much.

people telling other people why they do things and what they are thinking is not cool. You do you. Let everyone else do them.

Meaning still just curious?

I stopped being curious in 1993. ;-)

or not beyond curious

MNJFLA - I believe what you're describing is known as "bi-situational", which is of course not an available selection here at SLS. It's probably why at least some of the people listed as "bi-curious" list that way, even though they are beyond curious.

I understand people posting bi or bi couples. Might scare off potential male players, if they are curious or new to the concept. Some men are looking for bi oral, me for one would be interested in bi oral with a younger guy if we both hit it off. Not anal with a guy at this point, this language could be a deal breaker for some. My wife is bi and loves the taste of another woman, or the woman tasting her. We report as being straight as we do not want to scare off potential play partners. Yes more and more guys are posting bi curious. As we get into the actual act of swinging with someone, our inhibitions are lowered. We get very horny and may be willing to try more things with the opposite sex. Just some discussion here, wish you all well, feel free to message me anytime....

I think there are more both bi and cpls with bi males than are listed....there are also more bi events so people are finding each other

We've found some bi fun in a mmf really adds enjoyment. So, changed up our profile. Like others mentioned, interest seemed to increase in our profile since then.

It is really a good thing that more men are comfortable being open about their sexuality. It’s been taboo for too long.

We also get a few replies but everyone is so far away