Do single males know how to read.

No wee dont.. no sexx effects us brain

"I guarantee that they were thoroughly perved before anyone wrote is."

As a single male who has looked at rabbit and scamp's profile myself, I can attest that rabbit's pics have indeed been thoroughly perved. Thoroughly.

Rabbit,

Exactly. And with the new IM system the site is actively discouraging well written emails. We've seen it already. An increase in 2 word IMs from couples. Ugh

“The dreaded single male sent you an inquiry. Read his profile, dammit! If that interests you, THEN YOU request his photo(s). ”

No

We already have face and body pics in ourpublic gallery. I guarantee that they were thoroughly perved before anyone wrote is.

We are very clear to open at least face pics if you reach out to us (couples and singles), and to write more than a one line email.

We are always amazed how few do as we ask. All we can assume is they didn’t get past the pics to bother reading our profile. If they won’t give us that courtesy then why should we bother? .

~rabbit~

"a simple No thank you is in order"...

While it may be considered common courtesy, any couple that has done so and gotten the "Why?" response is also gun shy. Nobody owes anyone anything here.

That said, if you are nice and play nice you'll tend to be more successful. People tend to admire and gravitate towards happy, positive, polite and respectful people for obvious reasons. It's also a smaller LS world than people think.

All you singles complaining about the plight of lonely guy need to look at the bad apples.

What you're seeing is simply the market reacting to the fact that 4/10 singles are rude, don't pay attention to simple requests, and/or cheaters sneaking around on their SO.

When you go to the market for apples and 4/10 have worms in them you become suspicious of every single apple you pick up.

We have had several guys openly admit that they read our requests and decided to ignore them. Our response is always the same - "If we can't trust you to follow requests before we even meet how can we trust you when we're naked"

Those are the people you need to be mad at.

It's not easy to be SM here.... don't have anything more to say

I don't know about the rest of you, but I'm offended by "PeoplePlay's" smug and arrogant OP (original post) for this thread.

Hey, peopleplay, can't YOU (and those like you) read? The dreaded single male sent you an inquiry. Read his profile, dammit! If that interests you, THEN YOU request his photo(s). If you're NOT interested, a simple "No, thank you." is in order from you. Why should he be expected to provide you more than cursory profile information as an entreaty to meet? Here you have someone with a friendly interest in the two of you and you whine and complain because he doesn't kiss your butt. If you can't manage your interactions with others politely, then go post your drivel elsewhere.

Bridgetender...Yes. My sarcasm got the best of me with the ‘calling out’ comment. But, seriously, what happened to manners and respect? It’s a lifestyle. However, it’s not a right to be disrespectful. Bottom line, if you can’t get through me, it’s not going to happen. The art of respect and communication is huge. The people we have met, mature and professional. The others with the ridiculous IMs and emails, if they won’t talk to their mother that way, then don’t reach out to us; but, also make me wonder how many are stepping out of their own relationships and marriages. I hold my wife on a pedestal and have so for 35 years. Do you think I’d subject her to the presence of an asshole? I’ve never mistreated or disrespected a woman and I expect the same in return.

I'm thinking it would make a pretty good t shirt in the right circumstances...

In my best NY accent (and I ain’t from there), not for nothing, but Theoretically Available Pussy would be a great name for an all female rock band... I can read, but I’m too lazy to go look for the Rock Band Thread.

BT

We totally have a clubhouse. Nobody male is getting the password though, so move along. ;-)

Every time I hear a bad single male complaint, my first impulse is to chime in that their marital status has very little to do with it. This isn't any different. In my experience, it's a guy thing. Not all guys, but guys in general have piss poor communication skills in the presence of theoretically available pussy.

The ones who do have game and good communication skills stand out whether they are alone or accompanied by a partner.

Mayhem beat me to the punch and in concise fashion ;-)

BT

In my opinion, the challenge is that the SMs who seem to get it already participate here. Even if they don’t ever post, they’re educating themselves by following the conversations. Those who don’t get it, only see this as free, indiscriminate, no-preferences sex. Not that some SFs and couples don’t prescribe to that though. Some like things less complicated, and this complicates things further. For a SM, all it takes is one yes amongst the sea of No’s and blocks...

So, I’m not really sure how the SM community would call anyone out? It’s a kin to asking a bi SF where I might find bi SFs... like they have a clubhouse with a secret knock to get in, or a bar where, on any given Sat night, a SM can easily hit pay dirt. I’m kidding, kinda, but sadly, there really isn’t any way for that type of concerted effort to be successful, beyond the fact that SMs don’t tend to congregate in groups either.

I wish the solution were a simple one.

BT

Unfortunately there really isn't anything that the good SMs can do about the bad ones.

We had to recently change the profile narrative. Too many idiot single males. Obnoxious and can’t read. Not sure why the single male community doesn’t call these folks out. It really just ruins it for everybody. The latest and great unsolicited IM from a blue Gumby. ..’Is this the female? No. Why?’ And death came on upon him...you would think some alleged 38 year old claiming to be an attorney (on his profile) would have learned the art of communication. What a waste of an education. LOL. To single males with honest class...when our interest peaks, you’re still on our radar. Too bad this nonsense puts all of you in the bad wrap category.

Apparently not. Our profile says at least 3 times to not IM but email if you want to contact us. We still get at least one IM from a single guy every few days, which automatically takes them off the list for potential play partners. :(

No offense taken, we just have a reputation of snarkiness to uphold!

~Scamp

Hey there rabbit 'n scamp. I hope I offended no one.
Just trying to add a little humor to the day!

Perhaps I should have added my scribble about a swamp!

Okaaay... that does it! No more tootsie pops for the kids on Halloween.

~rabbit~

Something I scribbled out a while back. For the ladies of course!

I was a young man when I discovered the joys of the tootsie pop. She was once an unknown, but once found became an endless source of shared pleasure! I would look forward in great anticipation to those moments when I could slowly peel back her wrapper and gaze longingly on the sweet treasure in front of me.

There were choices of course, in the color of the tootsie pop. But as I was to discover, each tootsie pop had her own unique and delicious taste and aroma. Mmmm, I’d whisper as I first ran my tongue across its creases, moistening it for a long savory journey. Working deliberately to heat tootsie pop up so its sweet nectar would flow more easily. It was never a hasty exercise, because the tootsie pop would rarely give up its most pleasant surprise that easily.

So I would gently work my tongue and lips in coordinated unison to bring out all the tootsie pop had to offer. But ultimately, I always found myself working more fervently as I got closer to the center of scrumptious tootsie pop. I wanted to enjoy the explosive release of special treasure hidden inside of each tootsie pop. Faster and faster skillfully working my entire mouth until center of tootsie pop released its delicious frenzy in what sometimes felt like an waterfall cascading over my entire face. And ’s when I discovered some tootsie pops ….. have multiple centers!!

Damn I love tootsie pops. How many licks does it take to get to the center of your tootsie pop?

The secret is to have them WANT ice cream.

Then you add the whipped cream, and nuts.

Very clever Mayhem! Perhaps I underestimated the Eskimos! LOL

Unless maybe they actually "want" ice cream ;-)

It was interesting to read the posts in this discussion. Although I believe there are more single males on this site, I also would think it would be in their own best self interests to respect and try to understand the desires of those they contact. Common sense. In full disclosure, I am a single male. LOL

Nobody should be trying to sell ice to Eskimos! No disrespect to the Eskimos intended.