Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than herself. Armed with this revelation she decides to "interview" Mr Jones in order to dig into how men may view the lifestyle experience differently than women. Snapshots We start off by sharing two newbie "hot tub" snapshots from listeners. Mr Jones shares a "messy" story with good friends while Mrs Jones tells how she caught herself flirting at a vanilla event while Mr Jones was out of town. Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18! Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!
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Well, hello everyone. I'm Mrs. Jones. And I'm Mr mr jones and we want to welcome you to episode 34 of the we got a thing podcast it's a friday night and we are mixing it up tonight yes in case you didn't notice we just did things backwards speaking of mixing it up what what are you drinking oh i'm chocolate martini. Oh. And that's in honor of our new unicorn friend. Oh, that's right. She sent us some pictures last weekend. Yeah. Making herself a chocolate martini. Yeah. Yeah. That was some fun texting going on last, that was last Saturday night, I think. Yeah. Yeah, it was.
Yeah, so we do have a little bit of a unicorn update in a minute. Yeah. Now I've lost my train of thought. Well, we switched things up because I'm kind of taking control tonight. You are. I am.
So when we did our episode last month on deepening our relationship, I realized in the middle of the podcast that, um, I epiphany where i it finally hit me that it was really true that you have been affected more deeply by the lifestyle than i have i've seen more change in you more growth in you than i've seen in myself guilty yeah so we we kind of hashed that out last month on the podcast but i had this idea in my head that i wanted to interview mr jones and that's been kind of in my head for a few months but then after last month it all just kind of uh came together you realized i might have something interesting to say yes mr jones has something to say after 33 episodes you're gonna let me talk yeah you've never talked before.
Oh my goodness. You're the star of the show. It's your voice. Seriously. I'm the producer. No. So yeah. So tonight I've got some questions I'm going to, uh, to deliver to Mr. Jones and we'll see how he responds. Okay. But before that. Yeah. Yeah. So it's Friday night.
I'm drinking a chocolate martini what are you drinking uh basil hayden oh kentucky bourbon whiskey with an e hello our friends in singapore that was for you i think yeah you're drinking satan juice yeah yeah so we have had a busy family month again i know the holidays are over they won't stop coming yeah our family is just it's been wonderful but it's been very um busy i like that it's been wonderful but yeah i know yeah so it's all about balance right we talk about that all the time. Yeah, I'm not complaining. Yeah. So let's see.
So we started, we podcasted last time, like the first Friday night in January. And the very next night was my work party that we had here at our home. Yeah. And I was a little nervous about this work party because, you know, the last few parties we've had at our home have not been vanilla. Yeah. So this one was vanilla. You were worried about what? And these were my work friends, including my boss. Yeah. And his hot wife. What were you worried about? Did you think that you were going to not be able to contain yourself or? I wasn't worried about myself at all. Oh. You were worried about me?
Yes. That's right. Yeah. You sat me down. I was sitting on the landing at the bottom of the stairwell and you came up to me and you bent over and you put your finger in my nose and you said, you behave yourself tonight. I tapped him on the nose and I said, you need to behave tonight. Who, me? These are my coworkers. Yeah. And he was like, what? I'm always good. Yeah, I can behave when I need to. Yeah, right. But then we didn't end up being the naughty ones. Well, I think there were about 35 people or so. Yeah, yeah. And maybe we had an after party with the cool people.
So there were probably about... Well, some people just wouldn't leave. Yeah, there were about, what, 10? Yeah, I think there were about 10 of us at the end. Yeah, that stayed, and somebody got the idea. Mrs. Jones, and where she works, she's like considered this prudish... I miss goody-two-shoes, yes. Goody-two-shoes, and so when someone announced that they wanted to play Cards Against Humanity, what we've never played before, I mean, we know about the game, they all were giggling because they thought they were going to embarrass Mrs. Jones. Because I might have to say the word penis.
That's right.
And so when these words came up and they would always look at you and they were giggling to see this prudish Mrsish mrs jones you know saying words like that it was fun it was hilarious yeah it was all i could do to just not say you know let me tell you about mrs jones but i didn't no he was very good he was the perfect host and an absolute gentleman yeah there were some cute girls here too yeah yeah i do work with some very attractive ladies yeah yeah so that was a fun party yeah it was a fun yeah very vanilla but we had a good time yeah so that was the saturday um the beginning of january and then like during the week that that following week we got to have our dinner with our new lady friend.
Yes. Our unicorn. The first dinner. The first dinner. Yeah. So what do you think, Mr. Jones? I'm intrigued. Yeah, so am I. I know. Yeah, this was our first time meeting her and we went out to a restaurant and got to know each other probably for a couple hours. I mean, it was a typical first date. And then we decided to, well, she contacted, we contacted her after because we all had a good time. And she was very honest with us.
And she said, you know, I think I need to, can we just go out for a no expectations for the second time and we did we went to a winery yep and and i actually was um let's say i don't know relief's not the right word i was impressed i guess and and i agreed that um it was a very wise move on on all three of our parts to meet again yeah a public setting and just make it a social afternoon. And we did that, and we had a fantastic time. Yeah, well, one of her main focuses is on the other woman. So she wants to make sure that you're comfortable with things and that you're comfortable with her.
I felt like I was kind of the third wheel at that point in time. Well, and I, and what impresses me about her is that she's very, um, concerned that she wants to make sure that the wife is comfortable and that she understands what the wife wants out of the experience.
So it's not just about her and the husband husband and the wife's just kind of the third wheel she she wants to make sure all three of us are on the same page and all three of us understand what our desire is and that's what we talked about on the second date yeah the second date was much more um like the conversation was much more sexy and provocative of the second date. And we did. We talked about each one of us talked about what we were trying to get out of this sort of relationship. So it was a lot of fun. Yeah. And then we actually put a date on the calendar. Yes.
So we'll have to stay tuned tuned for that that's coming up soon yeah um but so i'm drinking a chocolate martini tonight in honor of our unicorn friend because last saturday night she sent us a a picture of her beautiful chocolate martini she made with all of the ingredients in the background that's not the picture i was thinking sent. Oh, well, I'm talking about the chocolate martini right now. Yeah, whatever. I like the first picture that she sent better. Yeah. Well, I did too, actually. Yeah, and then we had family come into town again. Yes, we did. Yeah. And we all had to go out to dinner.
and then we had family come into town again yes we did yeah and we all had to go out to dinner and uh and then we had a family dinner yeah yeah so for the family dinner i had this bonehead idea that we could grill pizzas for like 20 people yeah and it worked really well because you just got a new grill and everything was working great and you have your nice pizza stone and I had the assembly line going and then you were getting fussy what were you fussy about?
well don't get me started on the pizza well because you people there's really only one legitimate pizza and that's pepperoni everybody likes pepperoni yeah you're right everybody does yeah so what happens is you people stand inside and you make your pizzas with artichokes and barbecue and pineapples and i did not have any of that mushrooms i did have mushrooms and peppers and all this other crap yeah and you pile it up and then what happens then then you know what happens i'm the only one that wants pepperoni right well guess what people take they they say they take a piece of their pizza oh i'll take a piece of pepperoni too no you won't that's my pizza if you want pepperoni pizza make your own i made six pizzas two ofoni.
No, no. And one of them was pepperoni and Italian sausage. I know, but you know what was left over after everybody left? Why? Like two bags full of the garbage pizza that had the whole garden salad on it. No, the pepperoni gets eaten because everybody likes pepperoni. So next time, I'm to like cook mine last. Okay. And you can stand out in the garage and eat it all by yourself. I don't take a piece of pepperoni pizza and then take a piece of somebody else's pizza. That's rude. I didn't put names on the pizzas. I know. Yeah. Anyway. Family. Back to sexy talk. Okay. Then we had our friends.
We had a couple come over that we've played with a couple times. Yeah. And they came over to our house. And we had a nice, sexy evening that time. We did. That was just a nice, relaxing evening.
Yeah, and at a certain point in time when you meet a new couple and then you play once or twice and then you get to that point where you're really comfortable with each other and then the transition's much smoother and that's the way this night was yeah it was pretty easy yeah we were all very relaxed well and it was very hot oh and you used your strap on but you were the receiver this time yeah yeah so what what was the different i mean what compare the two so well what's not to like i had a like crazy sexy lady who so our friend she was putting it to you i know so it's funny because you like come up with all these nicknames in your head for your lifestyle friends and she's just she's our energizer bunny friend yes she is she can she just has so much energy and she's just, she's our Energizer Bunny friend.
Yeah, she is. She can, she just has so much energy, and she's just so happy. Yeah. And, yeah, so she had lots of energy that night. She did. She got me good. She did. So what, which did you like better?
So it was really fun, and I have absolutely nothing to complain about, but I really like and i want to talk to her because i haven't really talked to her about that experience since we were together you know what she thought about being the giver because i really like being the giver yeah it's like really and i said this last time it's really empowering yeah and and i might be somewhat of a control freak so maybe that's right up my alley i don't know yeah i like watching you with with it on yourself yeah you were the giver because you know i've seen you the receiver before you know with other men oh that's true so i liked watching you better when you were you were the giver but this time i had like a gorgeous lady i was beautiful hair hanging down.
I was like watching her. She did a good job. Yeah. And we got to help her put it on and get it all cinched up right. That's right. Yeah. No, she did a good job. She did. She's talented. Yeah. In many, many ways. That's a great Christmas. We're getting our money's worth out of that naughty stocking gift yeah so you know girls are lucky because I I got to get fucked by her and then I gotta get fucked by her husband I mean yeah shoo win-win that was really fun yeah good for you yeah fun times and then lastly we had dinner out last weekend right with a couple of listeners who happen to be in town.
And they are going to Desire Pearl with us in November. Yeah, so it was nice to meet them face to face. Got a little advance meeting going on. Yep, and they're from the northeast part of the country. And we're down for the the weekend so really enjoyed meeting those guys so did we cover everything i think we did yeah okay well when we come back what's happening i guess you're gonna you're gonna say what's happening that's right you're the boss yeah mr jones and me i'm in charge give her a strap on and she takes over the podcast. We'll be right back.
okay well welcome back to segment two of our podcast and tonight's episode is called mr jones and me a guy's perspective on the lifestyle i'm ready yeah we're gonna we're gonna dig inside of your head tonight put it to me figure out what's going on in there bring it on yeah because i think a lot of times you know we're um when we talk about the lifestyle and talk about all the emotions that are involved i think um everybody's very sensitive to the women's lifestyle because you know we've talked about this before we're we're somewhat vulnerable and and they always say that women are in charge in the lifestyle and and that's true because if we're not comfortable, then of course our, our significant other is not going to be comfortable.
But, um, you know, what, what is it that makes you guys comfortable? What motivates you?
I mean, the, the stereotype I think is that all guys just want to you know fuck a beautiful woman yeah but i don't think that's what it's really about for most of the men in the lifestyle that's my suspicion yeah i got a hypothesis through you yeah so we're gonna get inside of your head and see what motivates you okay are you ready i'm ready all right here we go okay all right okay so let's go back to the beginning what initially drew you into the lifestyle oh that beginning yeah what what was it that you found intriguing you know i think a lot of guys just have this fantasy that a naive fantasy that we just want to see well for me it wasn't being with another woman is it much it was i wanted to see you with another woman and i would fantasize about that and when we would watch you know swing or when we would watch porn together you know it was the girl girl stuff that was initially what i fantasized about and so when we first started talking about it that was in my mind was yeah i'd like to see mrs jones play with another woman so you're just talking about me right now yeah.
So did you never fantasize about you being with another woman? With me being? No, I didn't. You didn't. Okay. No, it wasn't in my realm of my universe at that point in time. And I mean, I guess I probably thought about it i but it wasn't something that i fantasized about and there's a difference so after 29 years of marriage that was just kind of all tucked away well i don't think i allowed my mind to go that far that it could really happen yeah because you know when you're first getting in this, it's hard to imagine what all this is like.
And I don't think I ever gave myself the opportunity to think much past you being with another woman. That's interesting, because that isn't the way I processed it all at the beginning. This isn't about you. I know it's not, but I really think that's interesting that we had a very different approach inside of our own head. Yeah. Huh. I'm learning something new tonight. Good. I like it. Good. Okay, so how do you compare those thoughts with where you are now? How do I compare those thoughts?
Okay, so initially you're saying oh you only thought about me being with another woman and you know you wanted to watch that so okay so fast forward to you know present day three years later oh so now where are we reality and fantasy um well the first thing that i realized was that there's a big big difference between reality and fantasy because when i fantasized about you with another man and another woman you know they were they were like like a porn star they were they were like a toy. They had no personality. They had no emotional attachment.
You're talking about the people that we played with in your head. Yeah, in my fantasy. Initially, when it's a fantasy, there's no humanness to them. They're just a body. And, of course, it's my fantasy, so they do exactly what I want them to do. And they don't do anything that I don't want them to do. So it's perfect. Yeah. And when I have my orgasm, they disappear. They're no longer in my head. They don't have to get dressed and go home. No.
But when you're dealing with real people, and I don't think it really hit home until the door closes and the clothes come off the first time then it gets real then all of a sudden you're like okay this isn't this isn't fantasy time anymore this is really my wife who's about to possibly have sex with somebody else yeah and that's a the process yeah no kidding and i think maybe the fantasy part of it lulls us into the sense of it's going to be easy and and maybe because we don't have any experience there we think the reality is going to be just like the fantasy and then all of a sudden the other woman or the other man specifically the other man does something that I didn't have him doing in my fantasy.
And then it's like, wait a minute, that's not how the script is supposed to go. And it's not as much as that it would bother me. It was that the script was not being followed because it's a real person. And I think reconciling those those two things and I think we even talked about that during that first eight months you know when we were after we played the first time and before we played the second time yeah yeah we talked a lot about that okay interesting so see I don't really fantasize a lot so I I haven't had to reconcile that. So it's just, it is what it is with me.
That's why you'll never, ever be perfect in my eyes. I'm sorry. That's like the one thing you need to do. I need life out of more. When I was on travel. Oh, Mr. Jones was just out of town this past week, just a couple days ago. I was on travel and I came home and I said, so did you use your vibrator when I was gone? And you said, no. No, I was supposed to. I said, just say yes. I don't care if you did or not. I'm not a good liar. I'm sorry, I'm not a good liar. Can you hear his sigh? This is my life. I know, you just had to say yes.
i don't care if you did or not okay next time you go away i will lie well i'd rather you do it oh my gosh it's no fun without you okay okay anyway anyway okay so we talked about fantasy and reality now let's go back to the beginning again. Oh, what else drew me? Yeah. There's got to be something else. Yeah, I mean, I think seeing you pleasured by somebody else, and that could have been a woman or a man. Yeah. But also the naughtiness of it. Okay. You know, just the idea that this was taboo and that we had been goody-goody all of our marriage. Right. And we had been good church-going folk.
Yeah, we are. Yeah, we are. So that edginess of being naughty and doing something that we weren't supposed to do had an attraction. um and then i think really when we started watching um playboy swing um i began to understand that the people in the lifestyle were really the people that I wanted to hang around with and get to know because people were open and honest and nonjudgmental and seemed like they could talk about anything and have deeper conversations about who they were as people. Um, and so that, that part attracted to me, attracted the lifestyle to me at the beginning. Okay.
So as far as now goes then, so we talked about how reality and fantasy kind of, uh, are separate now, but now, okay. What else about now comparing? Like like so you enjoyed seeing me pleasure by another person right at the beginning yeah has have you progressed beyond that now because that's all about me yeah okay what about you mr jones yeah you forced me into that i know you forced i'm backing you right back into that corner how dare you you force me to have enjoy myself with another woman? I know, right? I know. Yeah, no, I learned, I learned that it's okay to have desires of my own.
And, you know, once I got used to seeing you with somebody, then I started focusing on myself. And that was the progression I took. And I think a lot of it was just me having to be comfortable with whoever you were interacting with before I could let myself go. And when I got to that point, you kind of pushed me, you said, well, you need to tell me why you're in this. And it's funny, because as soon as I started thinking of myself, I think women were more attracted to me.
Or maybe that just my i think that's your perception my perception right because you were actually opening your eyes and yeah and uh you were i think you all of a sudden were brave enough to acknowledge the fact that somebody else was attracted to you yes other than me yep before i think you were almost kind of blind to it because you had trained yourself to be that way for 29 years. Yeah. Well, I mean, the first time another woman, I mean, I think I mentioned this once before, told me that I had a responsive cock. I was like, damn, thank you. Yeah.
I bet you a lot of guys don't get to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So as soon as I started allowing myself to think about what I wanted to do with another woman and receiving that pleasure, definitely that was a shift. Well, and you got brave enough to actually verbalize that to me. Yeah.
Because I think it was one thing to process it in your your head yeah but then i got to you to actually tell me well i at first i thought i would be disrespectful to you yeah you know that i would somehow be hurting your feelings and maybe you would think that i didn't want to be with you so again that was 29 years of thinking one way but to me that that right there that was a very pivotal moment in our relationship as a couple you know not only our our lifestyle journey it was pivotal pivotal but it was for us as a couple for you to actually acknowledge that you were you know intrigued by other women and that you wanted to be with other women.
Yeah, but do you remember what happened to you during that time? Fill me in. That's when we recorded You Belong to Me, Mister. Oh, yeah, right. So as soon as I was able to turn my attention to another woman, the next morning you tapped me right on the shoulder and you said, excuse me, but you belong to me. Well, and that's okay. Yeah. No, it was good sex. I had, oh yeah, it was. That was pretty crazy. There could have been some bruises after that sex. Yeah. In a good way.
It was good because I got it out of you and then i got to watch you experience it and then i got to kind of integrate that into all of my my feelings about the lifestyle yeah before i was always just kind of wondering what was going on in your head because i knew there was more going on in there than you were sharing with me well i'm glad you knew it because i wasn't yet thinking it but well i mean it was it was obvious but you know to get you to actually have the courage to verbalize it and then realize that it was okay and that i wasn't gonna be mad at you yeah you know and then i guess the the people part of it too i mean people for the most part are just as amazing as I thought they were going to be.
Yeah. No, they're more amazing. Yeah. I had no idea we were going to make the friendships that we've made. No. No. So that was, it was what attracted me into the lifestyle. And I was not, I have not been disappointed. No. And continue to meet. Yeah, not at all. I mean, it's been incredible. Right.
attracted me into the lifestyle and i was not i have not been disappointed no there we've met and continue to meet yeah not at all i mean it's been incredible right so what else you got okay so let's talk about some specific experiences uh-oh okay so you have like three years to pull from yeah okay give me something good um i mean just generally speaking it can be general it can be specific okay um i mean there's just a lot of people like us i think that's been a very good experience and we seem to have stumbled over a swinger shamrock when it comes to finding people like us because at first we struggled a little bit but now we're meeting so many people that are like us and the the good the good experience that i can explain is um you know just that there have been And so I'm going to it's because of the type of people we attract and how good we are at identifying people that are like us.
And I think that's made our path a little bit easier than some. Well, and there's so many people out there that have the, you know, the same interests and the same, um, desired outcomes that we have. Yeah.
You know, i thought it would be hard to find people that we could connect with and it's really not you know you you just have to look and and do a little bit of digging and yeah and it it it gets easier yeah it gets easier but it's also still a lot of work yes you know you you have to to what to look for i guess and make good decisions right and like i always say you always err on the side of caution right you know and then that usually gets you in the right place yes okay so flip side of the good is the bad yeah Yeah.
I mean, again, I'm not going to be real specific because I think overall the thing that I see that's bad is, initially I thought I was going to say an imbalance between couples, but really what it comes down to is a communication issue between couples that we meet.
Because so many times we go out with a couple and the man will be on one page and the woman will be on a completely different page we've had that happen a few times yeah and and it boggles my mind because you know he will let's just say it's he this time in the situation, you know, he will be full steam ahead and he will be obviously interested and you can just look right next to him and see that his wife has no interest or has a different idea.
So the fact that he's not picking up on that, I mean, there's definitely an imbalance, but what I think is a bad thing for me to see is that they don't communicate or he doesn't listen or something yeah you know so so that understand that what people tell you isn't necessarily the truth right and you have to be the more you're in this and the more experience you get the earlier you can pick up on that and you can extricate yourself from the situation. Right.
And, you know, you and I talk a lot about writing good profiles for the lifestyle websites and how important it is to, you know, have an honest and accurate profile. Yeah. And that's important. But until you meet the couple in person, you just don't know what you're dealing with. Well, I would say there's a bigger potential for imbalance on a profile. Yeah, I don't know this for sure. But I believe most profiles are filled out by one person. Yeah. And so you're always going to get 75 or 80% of one person and maybe 20% of the other person. Yeah. Yeah.
You and I sat down side by side and did our profile together. Yeah. I wrote one paragraph. You wrote the next paragraph. Yeah. So just because you read something on a profile or see a picture on a profile, that does not mean that that's what you're going to get. Yeah. So I don't know that it's a bad, bad experience, but really more of a learning experience about the reality of what people do and what couples do. True. Okay.
So enough of the bad let's go to funny yeah so something funny that's happened in your experience well the thing that comes to mind is one specific experience when you and i went to a meet and greet and it was fairly local and it was for people over 45 and we just barely qualified oh bullshit I don't know.
over 45 and we just barely qualified oh bullshit um you know i understand why there's a bias against age sometimes because in general when you get older it's easier to let yourself go right we went to this meet and greet and i think it's safe to say that 80 or 90 percent of the men had let themselves go yeah let themselves go yeah to be polite about it and when we walked in we started introducing ourselves and i turned around you were gone and i couldn't find you and it was because there were standing around. There were more than five. And I'm not saying that to brag.
I'm just saying that it was like, it was just, I was like in a, in a school of piranhas. They had circled you like it was a meat market. I couldn't even see you. Well, I'm kind of short. Yeah. I know. I was laughing. And there were all these tall gentlemen around me. And I had met a woman. I was talking to another lady. And so I just kind of shrugged and continued to talk to her. And I just kept glancing over there because I wanted to see if you were going to try to get yourself out of that situation.
But I just remember looking over and I see this circle of guys and I couldn't, and four of the other ladies were standing, they just like left what they were doing and they came and circled you. And I thought that was funny. Well, it was fresh meat. Yeah. Yeah. That was funny. Okay. So how about, have we had anything scary happen? You know, beyond the, not really.
I mean, beyond the jealousy and jealousy and and you know we've talked about that ad nauseum so i don't want to get into that again but the reason that comes to mind is because to me that was really the closest thing that touched our relationship yeah so that was a little bit scary uh for a brief period of time but no other than think so. I don't think it's, it's been a pretty smooth ride. Okay. All right. The last thing I can think of is awkward. Awkward. Well, besides, you mean playing with another woman that you've never, you don't know what she likes or doesn't like.
That's a little bit awkward, but it yeah no i mean i think the thing that comes to mind is maintaining friendships after you play or don't play with somebody because you know when you date you know you know how the relationship always changes when you were dating and before you had sex and after you had sex. And it's like that a lot. It's a little bit awkward because some people that we meet that we don't want to play with, we're not attracted to, but we want to be friends with. And so getting them to understand where we are and having them accept that.
And then sometimes we play with people and we have fun, but there is really not a connection that we wanted to maintain. And then that's a little awkward because you've played with them and then you have to say, well, we really did have a good time, but we're just not interested in a second try. And then to have that done to you, to us as well. So it's a little bit awkward to communicate that because it reminds me of high school. I mean, gosh, gosh, what are we going to tell them?
You know, or I know I slept with her and I was drunk or what, you know, I have this regret or she did this to me and now, you know, she, she liked me last night and she doesn't today. So a lot of that comes back to that flashbacks to what it was like being single. Yeah.
And when you're, when you're're playing locally you can't really get away from these people because the lifestyle community is is really kind of small you know even if you live in a large metropolitan area yeah you there that six degrees of separation is like you know incredible the lifestyle community is is so small that recently we received an email of somebody asking us a question about an interaction that they had with another couple and we knew the other couple. And this was not even anywhere near where we live. Yeah, it was from out of town. I was like, oh my gosh, it's a small world.
It's a small community yep that was funny that was very funny yep what's next okay so let's get specific about um how about some struggles uh zero oh come on we're being real here tonight mr jones oh okay so some struggles how about um let's just go chronologically again biggest struggle in the beginning oh that's easy i mean it was self-confidence okay yeah yeah well i mean just just it had been so long since i was out there trying to attract women. And, you know, so again, I'm flashing back to when I was, because you and I met when I was, what, we were 20. Yeah.
You know, so I go back before then and I think of, you know, the struggles that I had with self-confidence then and all that comes rushing back.
So a lot of it was, and I know you're going to roll your eyes when i say this but you know you're so beautiful that when we would be with another couple especially when the female was bi curious or bisexual and they wanted to be with us there was still that gnawing at me like well how much how much of it is that she wants to be with you and how much of it is she wants to be with me so it was something that um i struggled with and it was unfair to you for me to put you in that situation but you know that's that's probably the word i would say well that was the um the biggest struggle that i had at the beginning that, I mean, that blows my mind because, you know, now you're going to roll your eyes at me, but you know, you're, you're a very handsome man and, and you're very fit and, um, you've taken you and I'm not saying this lightly.
I mean, you've worked very hard to maintain your health and your fitness, um, as we progress in our years and it so it blows my mind to think that you don't have a lot of self-confidence well i do now so i guess the reason i'm saying this is because i think the men that are listening out there you know i it you you need to just be confident in yourself or you need to be able to admit that that's one of your issues yeah because we're us men we're good at acting like that's not the case yeah Thank you. You need to just be confident in yourself.
Or you need to be able to admit that that's one of your issues. Yeah. Because us men, we're good at acting like that's not the case. Yeah. Yeah. So what's your advice for them out there? I mean, just kind of own it and... Well, you have to be vulnerable. And that's a tough thing for a guy to do. Yeah. You have to admit something that you perceive to be a weakness. And probably for your whole life, people have told you that it's a weakness, either a father or a coach or a friend. You know, you're not supposed to cry. You're not supposed to show vulnerability. You're a man, be a man.
And so I think to defend men, that's drilled into into us and we don't even realize how much it's drilled into us and then all of a sudden and why it would have never crossed my mind if we would have never gotten into the lifestyle self-confidence would have never been an issue well i take that back because in networking sessions uh in vanilla life i am much more confident now but i didn't think it was that that important to me it didn't bother me that i wasn't i just figured i'm just not that type of guy i didn't i didn't understand the root of it so yeah you have to be vulnerable if you're a guy and you and you not only have to be vulnerable with your spouse but sometimes you have to be vulnerable with the people that you're playing with.
Yeah. So that there's no misunderstandings if something doesn't go right. Right. Yep. Okay, so that was in the beginning. Do you still struggle with things now? Yeah, I think one of the things I struggle with is I think you and I think alike here. I know we do. And that is we enjoy two types of people in the lifestyle. We enjoy having a set of friends that we know and that we trust and that we enjoy playing with and being with. But we also enjoy meeting new people.
If you do the math and you consider the number of free weekends that we have, the more people that we play with, you know, the more cluttered your calendar can get. So one of the things that I struggle with is not being able to have time to be with, you know, the people, all the people that we've been with on a regular basis. But now that we've had a couple house parties, that really helps because we can see a lot of people at one time. Yeah, and house parties are very fun, but you don't really get a lot of quality time with people. No, no, you don't. So that's one thing I struggle with.
And you just hope that the people understand that you do care about them, but it, you don't really get a lot of quality time. No, no, you don't. So that's one thing I struggle with is, and you know, you just hope that the people understand that you do care about them, but you know, what can you do? I mean, you, you, we have balance in our lives and we have priorities and we just can't see everybody. So I struggle with that. We just got an email about that. We did. Yeah.
Didn't, um, we got, we had some say that they were um unsure they had met a couple and they had uh really hit it off with them but the other couple kind of like pushed back the next date because the other couple was really busy and and the the couple didn't know are they just kind of blowing me off or are they really busy? And, and I think that's a really big struggle for people in the lifestyle. Yeah. And I mean, you and I struggle with that and we don't have little kids at home anymore. No. I cannot imagine how hard it is. Right.
To manage your family life and your lifestyle, sexy life when you have children at home.
yeah so you know we have it easy and it's still a struggle yes okay so that's our biggest struggle now okay so now let's switch it up a little do you see um as far as struggles go do you see the lifestyle as a competition because dudes are competitive let's just let's just say men being um yeah yes did you have to think about that a little well i mean if you think about the way that we're wired yeah dudes are competitive hunter gatherers protectors you know you're my property yeah uh yeah and i and i think a lot of guys don't realize it but but that yes yeah and and i know i mean i'm i've been a competitive athlete you know i i know the mindset of of competitors you know and i i was always accused of not being competitive enough maybe I have, it was easier for me to not have that as a hangup.
But, um, and I think that competitiveness gets in the way, just like vulnerability for a man. Um, if you're, if you're looking across the bed and you're, uh, mentally measuring the other guy's cock to see if it's, do you think it's as't good grief me it's just the stuff that goes through our heads you know or you hear your wife making noise with somebody else that she didn't make with you and you're like hey i've never heard that noise if anyone's gonna make her make that noise it's gonna be me and you know what i did that i just just on me.
Remember when we were at Desire the first time and the couple we were with, the gentleman said he was going to try to get you to say that. His goal was to get you to say the F word. Oh, right. And I remember thinking. And this is free podcast. Yeah. And I said, if anyone's going to do that, make her do that the first time, it's going to be me. Yeah, you did say that. I remember that. Yeah, so even I was a little bit competitive there at first. So, yes, it's definitely an issue. Men kind of have to own that because for somebody to tell you that, you may not listen.
But, yeah, I definitely see that as causing an issue. Okay, that's craziness, but whatever. This is the guy's perspective. Yeah. All right. So is there something that you thought you would struggle with in the beginning that didn't turn out to be the case today? Oh, yeah, that's having sex with other women.
I don't know that i thought i would struggle with it but it was something i never imagined myself doing and so i never thought about it and and the reason if i if i were to imagine why i would struggle about that is because i i wouldn't be able to get my mind off of you okay it's not that i didn't think i could physically perform or the woman wasn't beautiful it's that i was struggled with the fear of because i we were so connected all the time and and i was always wanting to look over at you and touch you that that i thought if i lost that if i if i looked away and concentrated on the woman that, that I would struggle.
Um, but that didn't happen. Yeah. Yeah. You're, you're getting very good at that. Yeah. Well, and you know, what's really cool is that we still managed to stay connected. You know, I, I remember at first I would have this desperate need to reach over and touch you. And, and even if it was like your, like your, uh, you know, forearm or your calf or whatever body part I could reach, I would, I would need to touch it. And, and now we still do that, but it's more, um, it's more out of admiration or just... Or playfulness. Yeah, than it used to be out of... I mean, I'm not going to lie.
Desperation was the word that I was going to say. I mean, I was just desperate to touch you and make sure that you were still there and that you weren't a figment of my imagination and I'm laying in this foreign environment all by myself. So I think we've come a long way in that regard. Definitely. Okay, so struggles. Phew. Let's flip it over to something fun again. Unexpected benefits. So, what are some of the unexpected benefits that can just pop into your head?
Well, we talked about people early on, but it's worth repeating, and it's more than people, it's the friendships, all levels of friendships, just people that, I know we're not talking about the podcast, even people that email us that we'll never meet, people that we meet that we'll never play with, people that we meet on vacation or here and play with once and then don't see again, you know, people that we see locally that we enjoy seeing over and over again, and the levels of friendship that come along with that right i never imagined the lifestyle friends supplanting my vanilla friends in my life the way that they have yeah so i said and if you would have told me ahead of time that this was going to happen i would not have considered that a benefit i would have been afraid of that because in my world we had vanilla friends that were very dear to us but when i look back and i think of the things that we did and i think the things we complained about about them you know that was kind of writing on the wall yeah that i agree with you these friendships were definitely a benefit.
Yeah. Unexpected. Other You know, that was kind of writing on the wall. Yeah, I agree with you. These friendships were definitely a benefit. Yeah. Unexpected. Other benefits. I know there's something else in your head. Yeah, well, back to you again. I mean, I used to think that you were the main attraction and that I would stick to you.
And that if we got any at all it would be because of you it goes back to the steak and tater thing yeah yeah and again that that wasn't fair to you to for me to to be that way but that was a lot of pressure yeah so it's the personal growth that that was really the unexpected benefit because that's how I was early on, and now I'm completely different, and that blows my mind sometimes when I think about it. So I think our unicorn's attracted to you. I hope so. Yeah, I don't.
I mean, I think by reading her profile and just getting to know her, I think she enjoys friendships with women and, you know, playing with women. But I don't think that's the main motivation. No, yeah, I think, I hope you're right. Yeah. You know what's the biggest difference that I've noticed in myself, though? It's just making eye contact. Yeah, you're good at that now. Yeah, I would, especially even when I'm walking down the street or I'm at work and I'm walking through the hallway, I would make eye contact with the woman and look down.
Because I didn't, again, it was, number one, it was confidence, but number two, it was like I didn't, gosh, I don't want her to think I'm creeping on her or something like that. Yeah. So, and in my position, you know, and having staff work for me, you know, and having to take all that stupid sexual harassment training. I was like scared to death. Yeah. I can't look sideways at somebody. But now what I've noticed is when I make eye contact with a woman, they smile. Imagine that.
You know, and so I think that biggest the biggest difference that i've seen there um and you know we've talked about our relationship a lot but i don't think i i don't think i expected the back to business terms the roi the return on investment that's. Come on. No, I did not expect that there would be so much growth in our relationship. Um, so that was definitely, and we've talked about all that. We just talked about it last episode, so I don't need to dwell on that, but we talked about it in much sexier terms last episode. Do you want me to answer your questions? I'm sorry. Okay. All right.
Um, okay. So unexpected benefits. Yeah, there's one more. I think this is a very important one. All right. I have a different, I have a different sort of respect for women. Okay. You need to expand on that because that could either make a bunch of women mad or a bunch of women really happy um i think without and you know we talked about in last episode how when i was able to disentangle the sex from the love i was able to see see you differently. Right. It's almost the same thing.
When I'm allowed to have an intimate conversation with another woman without you getting upset or her husband getting upset, I get to know her deeply. Okay, I get that. And through that, she's vulnerable enough, And I'm not talking about a physical interaction. I'm talking about looking each other in the eyes and just having heart to heart conversations. You know, in the vanilla world, all of my friends were guys and your friends were girls and then swing land. That's not the case. I talked to women and you talk to the men just as much as I talk to the men and you talk to the women.
So I think that's a big part of it. And the other thing is that, okay, I may get in a little bit of trouble for this. No. In the corporate world, see, I always thought women could rule the world and probably should. You've said that, yes. However, the one drawback that I see from women, I've had some women bosses who have been really good bosses and I've learned a lot from and enjoyed working for.
But they couldn't get along with other yeah there's this there was this cattiness that i often picked up on yeah we can be bitches yeah and that's absent for the most part in the lifestyle yeah women are just friends with each other and so when i see that sort of relationship and i see a woman letting herself be a woman and not being that way with other women, I see them in a whole new light. And so my early suspicions are true. I think women in the lifestyle could run the world. But isn't that funny?
Because we can be with another couple and the woman can be stunningly beautiful, incredibly successful in her career, you know, crazy intelligent and super attracted to you. And I'm like, so okay with it. Yeah. How does that compute?
you know as far as like the competition goes I should be wanting to like claw her eyeballs out and stuff her in a closet and lock the door exactly it's exactly opposite of that exactly right i mean i'm like hey this like incredibly sexy lady is attracted to my husband well and i have fun with him because he's he's a lot of fun to be with yeah and back to our unicorn and I think that's her approach too is, you know, she wants to have that sort of relationship with you. Yeah. And if you two have that, then I'm, you know, I'm in play. Yeah. Or else you would not have that level of comfort. Yeah.
Nor does she want, you know, she doesn't want to pick up on any of that from you that it's going to be an issue right right so yeah hopefully i didn't um make any enemies there but i mean women are smart women are funny women are independent women are sexy they're beautiful in their own way but i think most of all women in the lifestyle are confident and a confident woman is a sexy woman right yeah and it takes that competition out of play i mean we can just all be on equal footing and enjoy each other right so that was an unexpected benefit okay are we done almost okay okay so we reflected back Yeah.
We've talked about the current times. Right. Okay. Are we done? Almost. Okay. Okay, so we've reflected back. Yeah. We've talked about the current times. Right. Okay, so what do you think the future holds for us? We're not talking about the podcast. We're just talking about the lifestyle. We're just talking about Mr. and Mrs. Jones.
Well, the unicorn, I think, is a big thing for me and i and i don't mean i don't it is kind of our last frontier well no it's not don't say that oh what this might be our last episode okay folks sounds like we're signing off no no what i'm what i'm, what I was going to say was, um, here's what, here's what happens. So we'd never considered a unicorn before. Right. Because I knew that you were not interested. Right. And so my mind never went there. I mean, of course I thought about being with two women, but that's as far as it went. And I thought I would like it, but that's as far as it went.
Well, and you've been with two women. It's just, you know, the other husband has been there as well. No, I have not been with two women. Well, you've had two women play with you at once. Was the single guy different than a couple experience? Okay, yes. Okay, thank you. Let me answer the question. All right, I'm sorry. Of course I wanted to be with two women, but I never allowed myself to go there. So now that we've been, well, first of all, I approached you and I said, I think I'd like to meet a unicorn. Right. That's something I don't usually do with you. No, that was a big deal for you.
Right, and now that we've been out with her twice, you know, my mind is now going to that sexy place. And I'm thinking, Oh, my gosh, I'm really gonna possibly do this. What am I going to do? How are we going to interact? What positions could we think of? And how could you two interact? And how could I make sure that I, you know, perform long enough that I can be with both. So that level of thinking did not come into play until not only we met a unicorn, but we got comfortable with one. Right. So I say that because there are things out there that we can't imagine doing now for the same reason.
So, so I would say definitely unicorn is on my bucket list. Okay. Um, you know, outside of this, and I don't even know that you and I have talked about this because I can't imagine you doing it, but role playing kind of intrigues me yeah yeah but see that See, in my mind, if I told you that and I described a scenario and you started laughing like that, it would ruin it. I know. That would be a stretch for me. Well, what I'm saying is in the lifestyle, it doesn't have to be you. Okay, Wow. It just, I, I, I like the idea of, I mean, I'm a pretty imaginative person and I'm not. Yeah.
And so, you know, whether it's a single guy and, you know, we pick them up at the bar or whether it's a single woman or whether it's another couple, I can just see, especially if you get comfortable with a couple or a person and you said, okay, we've done this, we've done that. Hey, I got an idea. Yeah. Because what if one of our friends did that? What if one of our close friends came to us and said, you know what? We trust you guys a whole lot. We have a lot of fun with you. One of my main things is like having sex in public.
Wouldn't you feel like you want to do that for them because they're your friend? As long as they didn't get arrested, I guess. Yeah, well, I'm just using that as an example. I don't know. I just think that when you find the... We know so many people now that there are people that we've interacted with that I would feel like I could say, Hey, what do you think about this? Right? No, I'm with you on that. Yeah. Yeah.
So role-playing, um, and the same, you know, turning that, turning the tables, I would love to help somebody else, you know, fulfill their fantasy or their desire that, that just, because I, I'm a, I'm a people pleaser anyway. So if somebody came to us and they trusted us enough to be vulnerable and say, hey, this is our fantasy, whether it's videotaping them or whether it's you interacting with them while I do something else or I don't know, whatever somebody else would come to do, I would be open to doing that.
But I think mainly to your main point there that I cut you off at the beginning is um just being open to new ideas yeah because if we say what else is there then that starts to close the mind no that's true and i don't want to go there yeah we're having fun so we keep pushing those boundaries. Yeah. Okay. Any parting thoughts? I mean, I just think overall, I don't know how many times, and I'm going to switch into podcast gear here, but I don't know how many times that I've told people through email that the lifestyle is a slippery slope. Yeah, it is for sure.
But I don't feel like it's a slippery slope now that i'm in it only that slope is there as you're anticipating getting in and you have this fear that you're accelerating faster that you then you can control and that things are getting out of hand and you're going to get there and you're not going to know how to act. And then before you know it, it's going to be too late. Now it's more of slightly downhill because we're having fun and we're not fearful of that slope. We're confident that if we run into an issue that we can handle it.
we're both open enough with each other where if we come up with new ideas, we can freely talk about it without judgment.
So what I'm saying to folks that haven't gotten to this point is, you know, just open your mind and allow yourself to trust your relationship and give this a try and see where it goes if you're ready for that because it's some of it's unexplainable how it changes you as a person and you as a couple and i think that's the overall message that of this podcast episode is that you know just for me the growth that i've experienced and i'm not i'm not fearful now I'm, you know, or like, remember when we that I've experienced and I'm not, I'm not fearful now.
I'm, you know, or like, remember when we did the episode on full swap and soft swap and you told me on the podcast that you were ready to full swap and I wasn't, I mean, that was scary because I'm like, you're across the table from me and I'm hearing something for the first time. And that was scary.
It doesn't scare me anymore when, when you want to do something or I want to do something it's not so scary right so that that's really falls into the unexpected benefit but i think that's the overall message is that um well unfortunately a lot of stuff in the in the lifestyle is just trial and error you're not gonna know until you try it yeah you know you can talk it out you can. You can research it out. Yeah, that goes back to the very first question you asked me. And that was the difference between fantasy and reality. Yeah.
And gentlemen, when the reality doesn't match your fantasy, that does not mean that you stop and get out. That means that you have to figure out what the differences are and reconcile those with your spouse right and then try again because it gets more comfortable the second or the third or the fourth time yeah or three years later yeah and then you'll have your own podcast oh no okay no. Okay, well, I'd like to thank you, Mr. Jones. I really think that some of the stuff that you have offered up tonight has been insightful. I think I learned a couple new things about you. Oh, good.
And I think, you know, I think guys are full of, and I'm not saying this disparagingly, but i think a lot of times guys have a lot of bravado yeah and you know this is going to be awesome i'm going to get to fuck all these beautiful women and i'm going to get to see my wife in hot dresses and sexy clubs dancing around and and you know and it sounds fantastic and then you get in the middle of it and it's really overwhelming yeah so i i just i really appreciate you you know throwing some reality on top of the uh the i guess the hormones and the adrenaline that comes with thinking about the lifestyle well i don't want you to think that this is all so unselfish of me because you know what if the guys out there are listening to me and actually uh take my advice and work through this then there's a chance i might get to sleep with their wife so there is some selfishness okay well then i guess i need to thank you because i know that a lot of our listeners are very uh very intriguing and attractive yes yeah I'll see you next time.
Okay, well then I guess I need to thank you because I know that a lot of our listeners are very, very intriguing and attractive. Yes. Yeah. Okay, so when we come back, we are going to talk about some snapshots. Yahoo. Yeah. guitar solo welcome back to our snapshot segment we've got some fun listener snapshots tonight, Mr. Jones. Yeah, well, we didn't blab for an hour and a half tonight. So we have time to sneak in a couple of listener snapshots. Yeah. So mine has something to do with a hot tub. Well, you know, the theme is it's February in Virginia and it's hot tub time. Yep.
And so I thought we had a couple of people that sent us snapshots from hot tub scenarios I'll see first? Sure. Okay, so mine starts out and says, My wife and I started talking about the lifestyle almost a year ago as we started discussing fantasies. Finally, in August, we took the plunge and made a profile on a site. We found a couple at a really wonderful meet and greet that lasted for hours of conversation at two different locations.
We were so excited afterwards thinking we had met a couple that we wanted the same things we did and were attracted to them as well they have a hot tub and invited us over for dinner and hot tub fun to see where things went after some time in the hot tub my wife couldn't take it anymore and jump the other woman i like that yeah way to take charge so she jumped the other woman which i love to see and i saw her moan and melt into as she was finally being kissed the way she had hoped for the other guy and myself just sat dead still in the hot tub not a ripple to be seen probably afraid that the uh the bubble would burst and it would just be a fantasy right so?
So as the women started exploring each other, my wife finally wanted more and asked the other lady to use her vibe on her. I sat there and watched as this other woman brought my wife to orgasm while they were kissing and using their hands all over each other's bodies. For as long as we may be in the lifestyle, I will never forget that moment of pure joy and ecstasy in her face oh she's hooked now and i can't believe this is real i can't believe this is real yeah that would be a name for a blog or a podcast yeah that's true i can't believe this is real yeah i think we still say we do.
So mine's a quick one, but it has something to do with the hot tub, too. Hello, Mr. and Mrs. Jones. Wanted to share a snapshot. The first time we played with another couple, we were soft swap. It started out naked in their hot tub. It wasn't progressing fast enough, and I finally said, hey, I can't believe these two women have been naked for an hour and there hasn't been any making out. Well, that started the girls to going after each other. Eventually, the guys joined in and we had a great time. After we had had as much soft fun as we could stand, we each finished with our own lovely wives.
The snapshot came afterward when after the other guy finished inside his wife, my wife, with no encouragement whatsoever, went back down on the other woman and basically cleaned her up. Oh, my goodness. It was totally hot. That was a short one, but it was a hot one. Yeah, it got to the point. Yeah. Well, you know what? That's good for the hot tub water, too. Oh, that's true. You know, somebody cleans you up. You don't want that getting into your water filter. Clogs up the filter. That's right. Do you have a snapshot? I do. And I have a non-lifestyle snapshot.
Well, it's kind of related to the lifestyle. But one of the times Mr. Jones was out of town this past month, he was golfing with his friends. So I was stuck here in Virginia by myself. And I went out with my work friends Friday night after work because Mr. Jones was gone. And we went to a brewery. And there were, I think there were like, four couples there. And then me by myself. And my boss was by himself because his wife was sick and couldn't come. And then of course, Mr. Jones was out of town. So there was one other guy there and it was like the neighbor of one of my coworkers.
So I had never met this guy before. So, and we were sitting across the table from each other and he and I just kind of hit it off we had a lot in common about like we were at a brewery so we were talking about beer and then we started talking about bourbon and we were just talking about all kinds of like really silly things but i think i crossed a line and i started actually like flirting with him and I'm sitting next to my boss who is very, very, um, aware, aware of what, of me flirting with this guy that I had never met before. And I think he became a little protective and it was funny.
And it was like, totally, it was totally on the up and up in that I was texting Mr. Jones the whole time Thank you. little protective. And it was funny. And it was like totally, it was totally on the up and up in that I was texting Mr. Jones the whole time saying, I met this guy who is so-and-so's friend and I'm totally flirting with him. And we're talking about beer and we're talking about bourbon and we're talking about this and that and the other. And you were like, Hey, good for you. and my boss was like so stressed out. Yeah. And what did I ask you when I came home?
Well, first of all, when I came home, I said, that was hot. Yeah. I said, you were texting me that you were flirting with another guy that I don't even know. And I was like, wait, come on, where's the next text? Where's the next text? Yeah. But what did I ask you when I got home? I said, did you come home and get your vibrator out? Yeah. And what did you say? I said, no. And I said, you just have to say yes. I know. Just say. I'm supposed to lie. Let's practice right now. Mrs. Jones, did you get your vibrator out and play with yourself? Sure, honey. Oh, gosh. Never mind.
That ruined it it but it was fun and it was the it was fun flirting with this guy but it was then at the same time it was sweet and funny at the same time that that my boss was so concerned about me because he didn't think i could take care of myself yeah and you were totally flirting with the guy and and my boss is friends with you so obviously he he felt responsible yeah yeah that i enjoyed that yeah that was pretty hot but yeah you and i had some fun with that yeah so my snapshot is from the night we had our two friends over yes and you she had done you with the strap on and I had gone down on her and then we started full swapping and I was in her missionary and then she turned over and you were he was doing you doggy style and I was doing her doggy style yeah and memorable i got it yeah and well when i finished i pulled out of her and i took the condom off and i finished on her back yeah and he was watching the whole thing and i could tell that it was turning him on but at the same time i felt like i to be a gentleman.
So I got up and went to the nightstand where you keep our swinger supplies and grabbed a wipe. And I went over to wipe her back off and he said, leave it there. And I'm like, yes, sir, I will. So I kind of felt like I helped him. Yeah. You know, in that regard. So here I am coming on his wife's back. And that's what helped send him over the top with you. And then he finished the same way. He did. Yeah, that was a fun night. That was a fun night. Yeah. Woo. Yeah, it's getting a little warm in here. It sure is. Maybe we should wrap this up. I think we should.
It was a fun night yeah oh yeah it's getting a little warm in here maybe we should wrap this up i think we should it's a friday night so desire pearl yeah yeah we have oh my a few master suite rooms left and today is february what 10th something like that yeah yeah so as of today there are six or seven master suites left. There's a waiting list established for Ocean View. So if you want to get on a waiting list, you certainly can. But we're excited about that. The forum is just about ready. We're about to open that up privately to the sexy people that are coming along with us. Yeah.
And then we can start counting down the days.
If we haven't already already done that already um we have just keep talking and i will pull it up on my event finder if you come to our website there's a couple of places there in the top right hand corner there's a desire pearl link and you can uh click on our affiliate link and book through there or at the bottom of our website there's an affiliate page that jones is recommend and you can open that and you can click on the desire pearl link and book there and it's 273 days from the day we're recording 273 days yes that's a long stinking time yeah um a special thank you to you guys we've been getting quite a few emails lately and we appreciate that.
We appreciate that because it's the emails that give us the ideas for the topics. So we got a couple of good topics coming up here. We do. We got a couple of good topics. And so keep those emails coming.
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We're going to have to find our larger location. That's a big problem or a good problem to have. Yeah. And pretty soon, probably maybe by the time we podcast again in March, I will have a place on our website set up where you can come register your interest to attend our meet and greet if you're going to attend at Naughty in New Orleans. And I think there's an affiliate link on our website to sign up for Naughty in New Orleans as well, isn't there? You would be correct. I don't know.
attend our meet and greet if you're going to attend at naughty in new orleans and i think there's an affiliate link on our website to sign up for naughty new orleans as well isn't there you would be correct yeah so on that same the jones is recommend link at the bottom of our website you're going to find a desire banner a cassidy banner and a naughty in new orleans banner and there's also an sdc banner as well did i forget anything else i think that's it okay Thank you. And a Naughty in New Orleans banner. And there's also an SDC banner as well. Did I forget anything else? I think that's it.
Okay. Well, thanks for listening. We are Mr. and Mrs. Jones. And we've got a thing. What's your thing? I'll see you next time.
