Swinging Downunder does the Curious Couple – P27

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Speaker1: This is C. And this is D. And this is Swinging Down Under. So we had a little bit of a treat as well whilst we were at Naughty in New Orleans. A delicious little snack. A delicious little snack. Although we didn't get to snack. No, there was no snacking. There was no snacking. We managed to catch up with and talk with T&A. T&A. We had a little bit of an interview. A few mishaps on setting it up. There was a few tos and fro's. And unfortunately, in the end, T actually got A out of bed. She was having a little cat nap in the afternoon. And he kind of woke her up to come and chat to us. So thanks, T, and sorry, eh? And it was great to talk to you both um this will be the interview now we're just giving a nice little intro and yeah let's say that we really enjoyed our time with the guys and and desperately hope to catch up with them again sometime in the future he's taking his clothes off yeah time to get this party started all right well this C&D. We're swinging down under, and we're here with T&A from The Curious Couple. Thanks for joining us on the Bed-O podcast. Podcast-O Bed-O. Podcast-O Bed-O. Thanks for having us. Yeah. This is cool. And just so everyone knows, we may have had a few little problems with our mics um there's a shot up and all that sort of shit um so uh if you've got any problems any issues then what's your email address swinging down under all your complaints to tna they'll be happy to um to vet them for Oh, absolutely, that was true. Fantastic. We're actually here at Noddy in New Orleans, 2016. So it's the, what's the biggest lifestyle event in the world? That's what we've heard. Yeah. The biggest convention that's lifestyle related. I think they even claim the biggest event. I think that's what the website says. There certainly are a lot of people here. There are. What, 1,800 people? It's a lot. It's more than mean it's this hotel is enough this hotel is supposed to be fully taken over i certainly hope it is after the discussion on the um mattress in the hall last night yes yeah can you imagine being here with your kids several times we've walked out of our hotel room and there's just naked people in our hallway or naked people at the elevator like that's what what are you staying on? 11. Yeah, that's actually the Lauren Babydoll's floor. I was like, are we on the nudist floor? Yeah. We just didn't know. I've never seen that woman in clothes, actually. The one that we keep walking by. Yeah, and it doesn't matter what time it is. Maybe she's a nudist. Don't judge. Don't be judging. No. I'm just surprised. I'm surprised. don't be judging no no no i'm just god i'm just surprised i'm surprised judging people i actually called myself i walked out and same as you guys there was a nude lady and she was bending over right and i'm like i walked out and as i walked Yeah, I'm like, nude. That actually came out. So you were like, moly. Then you were just like, nude. My internal monologue is supposed to be internal, but it wasn't. No. Excuse me, I can see your butthole. Nice time, Monty. Or tail. Or tail. There were a few girls walking around, a few ladies walking around with their tails in last night. Really? Like butt plug tails? Butt plug tails, yeah. No, I missed that. I'm sorry, I missed i missed that yeah actually like walking all the way through the lobby yeah she was doing some kilometers yeah it took it took me by surprise wow did you point at her and say like no but now i should have yeah you should have the whole time you know what they're thinking damn aussies Yeah. All right. I have some questions here that we're actually going to run through. So I'm prepared for the first time in podcast history. Second time. I'm going to say bullshit. I'm going to call bullshit. You're calling it? All right, fine. Yes, because you have your iPad out every time we do this. And the room is the cleanest room in the hotel right now. It is. This is true. I can attest. Because you're lovingly anal. Sounds hot. The marriage proposals just keep rolling in. Alright. Okay, so you guys have a podcast. You're at 47 episodes. What has changed from when you first started to now? I was like, oh. To now. And don't say sound quality like us. Which kind of seems to be going backwards again. Were you aware we've had 47? I would not have been able to tell you the number. That's because you quit every five.
Speaker2: I do. I do.
Speaker1: I do quit every five. So what's changed? I don't quit as often. like with our relationship or the podcast what do you want yes both you want both of that what well i think just kind of what we were just talking about like we were joking around before we started about how we had level codes to get her get ourselves out of situations and and a was just saying that she doesn't even use that anymore and i think that's a testament a testament to the progression we've had where i mean you had a tough time saying no you had a tough time doing things and now you're much more comfortable in your own skin much more confident yeah on many levels for me and i think i was telling somebody this this weekend the biggest thing like, like, lifestyle-related that's changed for me, I feel like the whole thing has changed. Like, in the beginning, it was about, ooh, we're going to get to see somebody have sex, and we're going to get to do this, and we're going to get to do that. And now it's like, I am meeting the coolest fucking people. And this has become so much bigger than the sex and the whatever, fill in the blank. It's about the connections and the people, and especially this weekend, meeting all the podcasters and developing these friendships that we'll probably have for a lifetime. That's so fucking cool. Yeah, and the other thing, more sex-related, is, you know, it's constant. Take it from the, always a guy. Right? I've got the emotional. Yeah, the ladies are like, I'm so emotionally satisfying. And then the guys are like, yeah, and then there's the fucking. Well, I mean, if we're talking about the progression, like it was. It started, it was just this voyeur experience. And then, you know, we just kind of push the envelope a little bit. And then we back off. And we push it a little further. And now our podcast, we're trying new things that we never thought we'd do and we're not always swinging from the chandeliers but when we do it's like sometimes yeah we process it we talk about it and um you know when sometimes we don't discuss it before we start talking about it on a podcast but that's you know that's a big change where I guess we're becoming more open and confident in talking about things.
Speaker3: Mm-hmm.
Speaker2: So. Have you... But that's, you know, that's a big change where I guess we're becoming more open and confident in talking about things.
Speaker1: Have you ever made her blush mid-podcast or the other way around? He's made me mad.
Speaker3: No, I heard that in the last one.
Speaker1: I could hear that. I could see the table getting written on.
Speaker3: We discussed this.
Speaker1: It was trying to figure out how to hold a microphone with your arms crossed yeah i don't know about the blushing though there's not really probably because maybe not recently but me admitting things on the podcast and you're like oh my god i can't believe you said that okay and then you talk about it to that now. Or he'll put me on the spot because he wants me to talk about like dirty details of things that I'm like, yeah, I had DP.
Speaker2: I have sex. That was it. It was fun.
Speaker1: And he's like, come on.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: And everyone's sitting there going, what happened?
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: They're on their trains and buses all over the world, mouth open thinking, are you fucking kidding me? You're going to stop there? Yeah. I had sex. what else do you need to know what happened like everything yeah so i guess in those moments i'm like okay yeah yeah how much detail is too much detail i suppose that's a good question i think our details tend to be more about the feelings and and what the two of us have experienced because that's really what our podcast is about it's about our relationship and so it's not so much like dirty sexy talk it's more like understanding what happened yeah what happened what you felt what i felt yeah which sometimes can be sexy yeah i'm gonna put my hand up and say most of the time it's very sexy okay good well I'm saying most just because I'm trying not to fanboy over here I'm going to say all the time it's sexy as hell but he really likes in your curtains in your house, they're lovely curtains? yeah, gotcha, gotcha. The explanation of the joke means it's not a joke. Oh, I am so incredibly slow. No, you're not. This is actually notorious. Yeah, this is me. Yeah, she's notorious at not telling jokes well. Yep, moving right on on so 47 episodes i've got here podcasting is time consuming but it's also it can be a little bit financially draining right so you said before you bought a new mac i mean what keeps you guys sharing your stories what makes you want to put them out there this guy um yeah you know it is time consuming and i i don't think of it too much as work even though it is you know the time of doing uh the editing and and notes and preparation and twisting her arm to do it with me and what's the more time consuming the editing the notes or the twisting of the arm yeah there'll be times like, in fact, we've had some dry spells. And it'll be like, hey, let's do that this week. And she's, oh, yeah, yeah, sure. And then that week comes and goes. And it's like, all right, next week, we're going to do this. It's not that bad. I mean, you make it sound like I hate it. I don't want to do it. It's tough when we haven't done something recently. Because then it's like, okay, we're going to generate something to talk about. Some content, yeah. But as far as like the expense and the time it's too much of a passion for it to feel like a job yeah it is and you know and hopefully uh for all of us this thing continues to grow and we figure out ways to i don't know maybe benefit from it and and the benefit right now and why we do this is the people that contact us, that we connect with. It's inspiring, like just the Q&A that we did the other day and to hear people, like we're touching lives. And I think the coolest thing for me is to hear about a couple who goes, yeah, we get in bed at night and we listen to what you guys have to say, then we talk about it. we have our own like discussion and i mean all we're doing is you know bringing people together and opening minds and and opening up lines of communication for that couple as well so i mean and that's actually because it's can i say that's hard sometimes some of the things you've discussed early on is our very first event the reason that c got it so wrong and broke the rule was because she couldn't say no yeah so when i first when i first because i first listened to you guys i'm like you need to you need to listen to these guys because she is having the same right she's traveling the same you need to listen you took my ipad and downloaded like 20 episodes and you're here i travel a lot as well so it's perfect it's cool yeah so and and i mean c certainly traveled a lot of this a lot of similar roads to what you have as well you know some of the some of the things that you know you covered some of the issues as well some of the some of the lady issues that we just don't have to deal with it's yeah penis is robust if nothing else yeah being a girl's hard yeah it is you don't know you don't get to say yes to that oh sorry do you have a favorite story that you've shared to date like yes yes our my favorite is our mix our first Mexico trip and it it wasn't exactly the um the act the sexual act that was so much fun
Speaker2: I don't know. My favorite is our first Mexico trip. And it wasn't exactly the act, the sexual act that was so much fun. What? It was fun. It was fun. He's looking at me like, it's not?
Speaker1: But the coolest thing was the progression of, because what happened, long story short, I wanted to do something that he was not into because he had been kind of left out of this connection connection whatever relationship I'd been building all week and he was like no and I was super excited when I thought it was going to happen like look what I found us this is gonna be so fun and he's like uh-uh and so it was like this low that I hadn't experienced in the lifestyle of what do you mean I don't get to do what I want like this whole two years has been about we want to do something that that i'm excited about and now suddenly you're telling me no like what the fuck and then it wasn't 24 hours later that we worked through it we talked about it we found a way to still make that happen and it was fun for both of us and so i think that was why it was so much fun it was so much fun to talk about and tell the story because it's like communication is so important in this environment and we literally talked ourselves back into this situation that was a no-go and it was just really fun well and I think the question was what was our favorite podcast and unfortunately that podcast we had to then take down because we needed to protect the ones we were talking about yeah and uh unfortunately only a fraction of our listeners got to hear it which um yep we apparently did so we uh you know we loved that podcast i love that podcast just because the enthusiasm that came out of her in that podcast, that I've listened to it several times. So I'm finding a way to share that. Do you go look at your own spank bank of podcasts? Of our own? That's a little weird. I listen to our own podcast several, I edit it, then I make sure it sounds good when I'm on the podcast. What's funny is we're literally sitting in the living room watching whatever with the family. I mean mean i've got two kids right here and you can see him with his headphones on over there like with the computer and he'll look over at me every now and then and just gonna shake his head or whatever like he's editing the podcast so it's kind of funny yeah so that that particular podcast um we're gonna find a way to give to kind of our loyal listeners in a way of uh you know we're starting a newsletter and i think that's going to be one of our things that we're going to you know if you're a loyal listener and you're going to go as far as joining our newsletter you know you're our favorite one and stuff for everybody how did the book writing go sorry just to pull sideways the book because you guys sideways i like that pull sideways is that like going on a tangent yeah i need to start writing all these down i like that one there's a few americanisms that i've written on the inside of my palm yeah i need to start doing that too all my aussie slang terms i'm learning um the book it it does okay i don't really promote it all that much which book are you talking about because we have two now oh really the one that i did yeah yeah the dog i forget the title please your chance to what is it um swinging in the suburbs secret in the suburbs you don't even know what it's called it's so bad but i was just like kind of going along with the stories we told in our podcast and just writing them down and um it's short it's an easy read so the part of why we did it was i had gotten into publishing I think that's an easy read. So the part of why we did it was I had gotten into publishing books on Amazon and wrote a couple myself, unrelated to the lifestyle, and got hurt. Well, he's like, people want to hear this stuff. Yeah, I mean, people like to listen. People like to read. You know, there's different avenues, and it's another way to bring people back to the podcast if they want to hear more and so she just shared her I guess our first year in the lifestyle in a story like form but it was our story my plan was to keep going and I just haven't I started the second one but it does pretty well people are finding it yeah yeah oh that's good that's great to hear i mean um i i'll be honest i didn't buy it yeah well if you've listened to all the podcasts you've heard all the stories yeah yeah okay unless you're into erotica like reading yeah well i'm not yeah i'm not a big reader either yeah i feel like that's probably a different it's not the podcast listeners it's more loyal listener, it's not going to be much. Yeah, because it's the same stories. It's a lot harder to drive down the freeway reading. Yes, please don't do that. Please don't do that. I don't know what you guys are into in Australia, but don't do that. Well, the other book that we wrote was Beginner's Guide. Yes. So we get a lot of emails about how to get started. And so it's just a basic, like what we did here's what you can do here's the places to look here's how you're going to fuck it up yeah well yeah that could be that could be a whole different book that would have been a long book so we didn't it was more uh you know here's how you get started just basics it's not really a book per se but um it's something that i think you can buy on amazon for a dollar and yeah and eventually we'll just give it away to our listeners on our our website so awesome yeah we we we totally left we're off center we went sideways oh that's okay what was it sideways um i'm gonna skip over the desire my desire question because we kind of covered some desire stuff that was good. We went sideways into desire, so that's good. So this is your first time to naughty New Orleans as well, isn't it? Yeah. All right, okay. It's ours as well. It's a pretty long flight, not going to lie. Yeah, much longer than ours. How long? A total of 24. 24, so. And then, yeah. Do you leave tomorrow? Monday, Monday morning, because we're actually heading to desire so we're getting the morning flight out i'm so jealous for atlanta and we're not looking forward to the flight out of desire because we back to jfk we leave at 7 a.m the day the morning after so there's a little bit of advice don't change that yeah because we had that flight at 6 a.m and we were like this sucks let's move it up and so we did and we got totally fucked spent 24 hours in houston and had we just stuck with our flight we would have made it home fine yeah those early flights are less so one option is you just party all night well that's what we were gonna do yeah and and we're not going to kill each other or two yeah because you'll have plenty of time to sleep so after 24 hours in a plane we i then had to drive three hours as well and c also had to drive in the passenger seat of course which meant she slept while i drove road i'm familiar yeah i know you're familiar yeah except when you've done podcasts in the car on the way back other than that I mean I can picture
Speaker3: the snoring
Speaker1: that's how it goes but yeah we made an agreement as we landed that we would not kill each other between there and the next I know we're going strong this is how the lifestyle is so endearing don't talk to me I won't talk to you and no one gets hurt I don't know.
Speaker4: I don't know.
Speaker1: I don't know.
Speaker3: I don't know.
Speaker1: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker4: I don't know.
Speaker3: I don't know.
Speaker1: I don't know.
Speaker2: I don't know. I don't so endearing don't talk to me i won't talk to you and no one
Speaker1: gets hurt oh sweet what's the biggest surprise so far that you've had in the convention here biggest surprise um surprise i mean we're not taking away from any weird shit that's coming well no i'm thinking like no i'm just thinking there's two different spectrums there's um the i was thinking the We'll be right back. surprise i mean we're not taking away from any weird shit that's coming well no i'm thinking like no i'm just thinking there's two different spectrums there's um the i was thinking the crowd was a little bit of a surprise i wasn't expecting we can go into that or we can go into the um girl that fucked me with a strap-on so which one of those surprises do you want to talk about well i mean was that a surprise did she just bounce up no no no no but how much I liked it was a surprise that was fun um well we you've you've been there as well yeah yeah I mean and you were surprised as well yeah you were the fucker you were the giver I got to do both oh you got did you do both I think we have now yeah. It was fun. Interesting.
Speaker2: But also. Tiring. After a little bit, I was like, I am all over the shop. Like, how do you even do this? I'm like, he was like, yes, exactly. We're not high-fiving each other on this side of the room right now. It's a weird, like, look into what it's like. Yeah. It kind of is. Yeah. We're kind of a big deal. We are. Yeah.
Speaker1: I mean, we're totes amazeazable was that written on your palm they're teaching you the wrong things oh that's good stuff uh t what's your favorite event favorite event here um well uh the q a yeah the q a was was probably my favorite i i enjoyed um i guess i didn't realize how much i'd enjoy being the one sharing and talking and um so that was fun and just to see to hear that the what i'm referring to is the podcaster's q a and uh apparently last year there was only six people who attended it and this year we. And this year, we had, I don't know, maybe 40, 50 people in the room. Yeah, it was a full room. Yeah. And to think... And I might add, I think it attracted all the hot people as well. I don't know if you guys noticed that. There was, yeah. I mean, yeah, it was the people who listen to podcasts are hot. I'm just saying that. So everyone listening, you're hot. Was it the Jones that said it's because there's younger podcasters now and we're getting the bigger crowd? I think just in general, podcasting is growing and people are finding lifestyle through the podcast. But here's, you know, to kind of, I don't know, the fact that they put us at 10 a.m. on a Friday, they weren't exactly setting it up for success.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: Now, what happens if you put it at 3 in the afternoon, you know, I don't know the fact that they put us at 10 a.m on a friday they weren't exactly setting it up for success yeah now what happens if you put it at three in the afternoon you know do you double that crowd i don't know but it was neat just to have that interaction good turnout yeah so that for me was probably the most fun not that i haven't enjoyed the other ones um we haven't been to a lot of the we've been to two we've been uh um mike and holly did one and uh the joneses did one have you guys been to a lot we actually went to a beginner's bondage one yesterday or the day before just to check it out um and it was actually completely not what you expected no he went into safety stuff a lot which was kind of cool he was and and which ropes to buy too he was like this one is 150 from a sex shop this one you can get at home depot and it's 10 bucks and it's like the same stuff and and he was just really talking about that so and not quite as hard to hide from the kids i would imagine this one's got home depot on it yes you know priscilla's sex shop yeah so that was an interesting take on it i guess some people might have turned up expecting there to be flogging or something yeah and i would have he was talking just talking about kind of well it's it wasn't it wasn't it was basic but it was a lot of those aha things that you you know you you sort of need to know but you don't when you go into this stuff you know very simple things like when somebody has a mask on they can't see and 90 percent of the accidents in the bdsm community actually when somebody falls over and smacks their head against something right and you think straight away yeah actually that makes a lot of sense yeah it's a really good point because the other times you're tied to something which will probably hold you up up. Yeah. And just a little differences too. Like he said that the swinging community, there's alcohol involved with any of the BDSM stuff. There's zero alcohol involved. Yeah, so it's really uncommon for alcohol or drugs
Speaker3: to be consumed at any of the BDSM events.
Speaker1: Because they don't want to kill each other. They actually don't.
Speaker3: He said sometimes they don't allow it at all.
Speaker1: That makes sense. It does, but we're that we're like yeah yeah that really makes sense yeah why didn't we think of that as we're sucking on our you know on our beer in the back row uh i'm actually gonna throw this one at you a have you met any unexpected but interesting people at the event so far that are kind of outside the norm for you outside your norm so people who you would normally gravitate to and that's kind of like your go-to are the people that you kind of find yourself interested in but have you met anyone who's outside of those yeah i feel like i do that more now everywhere not just here um and i I think that goes back to my point about this becoming more of a, like I'm making friends. I don't know if this is a question you were asking. No, I'm more thinking about if you found someone sexy and you're like, I find that person sexy, but they would not be normally in my life. In the box. We actually had that conversation yesterday or so. Related to age. Is that what you're talking about? Yeah. Oh, it can be. Yeah. I mean, age, size. Because I've started to find older men attractive. We were having this conversation yesterday at dinner, and that's kind of new. And it's more, but it does still kind of go back to that, like, I'm attracted to who they are when I get to know people. And I'm realizing that some of that, those old standards maybe are fading a little bit yeah but the reason we asked that question is exact i suppose we probably had that conversation as well you know we we we've met some some people that we would have considered at the yeah well outside our age boundaries yeah um here we're 10 years apart already already so if we then add 5-10 years on top of his age I'm 41 and C's 31 so if we then add 5, 10 years on top of his age... I'm 41 and C's 31. So if we add another 10 or perhaps even 15 years on my age, it becomes a big spread, right? And up until now, we've not really found anyone that C was attracted to who was... My age. Yeah. Well, no, but above that... Well, not here, here but I mean above that spread typically you'd get to an age on a piece of paper and just say nope above that I do that the other way as well like we actually had a really lovely couple contact us and gosh they would have been 26 and instantly I was like oh you were way too young yeah isn't that funny and we're not that much older but i do that too i'm 31 and they were 26 so my age gap between me and them was closer than my age gap with him and so it just made absolutely zero sense i am smoking hot i mean that's the that's the thing that's the difference so that's interesting i get it though and we were we were having that exact conversation. Like you almost can't, you can't just look at an age and make an guess. different so that's interesting i get it though and we were we were having that exact conversation like you almost can't you can't just look at an age and make any assessments well here's an example too we were at desire and there was a couple that we met and the guy was the same age as some of the other couples we were hanging out with but he just they had to be what oh oh okay and that's not what i thought you were talking about. It was like a, he was lacking confidence about it. And he was like always talking about it. And it was like, your wife is smoking hot. You need to like get on board with this, get rid of this attitude. Well, and he was even opening himself up for input. And I still couldn't just come out and say it. But he was asking. Like the poor guy was just like, why am I so old? I mean, really, that's what he was saying. Yeah, and he wasn't even that old. And he wasn't. And I wasn't and and i even said i mean the comment it's your confidence i mean there's guys walking around out here 30 years older than you are and they think they're 25 and they come off much younger because we all think we're 25 it's only when we do something this guy didn't though we wake up the next morning and go oh shit i'm not 25 anymore why did my knees hurt yes my spine my hip but i think you touched on something there and it was where we ended up it was about the confidence yeah and and the the ability to actually stand up and say hey i'm in my skin like it or like it or lump it. You either think I'm sexy or there's the door. Like it or lump it. I'm making my list. I like that. We forget that some of the stuff we've brought up is not. We've managed to infect the entire community over here. Yeah, right. Taking the piss. words with words Jesus oh yeah sorry yes just throwing that out there
Speaker5: I may not have thought
Speaker1: that comment through
Speaker2: that's what
Speaker1: we've infected the entire
Speaker2: police
Speaker3: we haven't infected
Speaker1: anybody
Speaker3: just
Speaker1: just yet oh my god alright we're going to burn
Speaker2: through these let's
Speaker1: lightning round Thank you. just uh just yet oh my god all right i'm gonna burn through these let's uh let's lightning round we actually go we actually have a party to go to right so yes we do gotta be sitting around on the on the bed podcast all day um you mentioned a few things about what you guys are doing at the moment but what's next i think you're redesigning a website um we're a a newsletter um just a way to i guess we we've connected with so many people but kind of bring it into kind of like an inner circle of listeners because we know we've got some faithful followers and and we've got some ideas about maybe doing some travel groups and and uh just kind of continuing to grow what we're doing yeah travel groups yeah well fun and we we recently traveled with people we knew and had a blast and we're like gosh we know like a lot of great couples what if we could just bring them all i'm you know everyone would probably get along if we like them they'll probably like each other and well at first we even hesitated to do that i mean remember and these are good friends of ours and we're like do we want to travel to a place like this with people we know and feel obligated or whatever it was so much fun it was that's actually the next question i have i have a section b on my list which is because i was actually going to um this is one of the ones where i was going to throw it out if the opportunity presented itself and i mean we won't delve into it too much but the demographic here it was was interesting for me um you know we had no expectations but i guess you kind of come and you're like wow there's a lot of people yeah and you know where they are but um if you find a niche group or a couple that you enjoy or bring with you to an event or a lifestyle resort do you tend to find that you end up just spending your time with them? Yes and no. Joanne, you in? Well, that's the answer I get every time there's a problem in our relationship. What's the problem? Yes and no. Yes and no. It's a gray area. It is. It's kind of gray. You think yes? I was going to say more. You said yes and no, right? Well, but more no than i would have thought because we hesitated to invite our concern was a obligation to do everything with somebody that we were there with and the truth is it's all about the couple's experience so just our experience their experience and yes we'll have dinner with you but we're gonna go do this and it's not like what do you mean you're gonna do this and we're not gonna go it wasn't any of that. I think it would depend on who you're with, though. Because there might be some couples that would need all of your time. I mean, we invited a couple here that we met in Vegas, and they're here, and I don't feel an obligation to them. We've hung out a great deal with them, but we enjoy their company, and we've had fun, and if it got to be too much, I think we would. Yeah, but I don't even think we would just choose to. We wouldn't have to we wouldn't have to yeah we're just hey we're gonna and and that's come up several times just with different couples here hey we're gonna go do this and we go do that it's not like they're gonna go well what do you mean we're not invited i mean we're all here for the same reason we're all here to meet people and have fun and i haven't run into anybody that is a time suck no and just Just to clarify on that, part of the reason we asked that question is you guys may have noticed we're here with some other well there's a group of australians here and um and you know there's been none of that with this group either you know we've hung out we haven't hung out we've done our own thing it's been it's been uh it's been really good in that sort of way it was i suppose one of the concerns on the way in for us given that we've never traveled to an event before and let alone an event with people we know before we were concerned that it was going to be when one of those you know four people walking down the road four people having dinner four people yeah you know i think it depends whether they're play partners as well like if they're play partners or if if they're pants on, pants off, whether you would then be monopolising that side of it as well. You mean you would spend all your time shagging TL? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, well, he's smoking hard. He's smoking hard. He's stuck in the corner by herself. Just, you know. All right. But it hasn't been? No, not at all. No, it it's been great i mean uh we kind of wanted to catch up with them because i mean you guys know and and we're actually about to announce it out to the world because we haven't yet we've just moved to singapore from australia um so we wanted to catch up with them anyway you know we hadn't seen them in quite a while and and they've become very good friends because of the fact that they were the first club we went well second club we went to but what we like um we can say that now because we don't live in sydney anymore we're not going to get we'll just get hate mail we can delete yeah but uh yeah so it's it was good to catch up with them but also good to know that we could still go do our own thing. Yeah.
Speaker2: Ooh, this one's for you.
Speaker4: What is your favorite opposite-sex body part?
Speaker3: Like, are you a butt girl or an eyes or a smile?
Speaker1: Ooh, that's a good one.
Speaker2: Can I just say, like, body?
Speaker1: Like, I like abs. I like, but that's not... A fit rig fit rig yes a fit rig yeah rigs yeah learn that one from alan illy um i'd say that that's but i like eyes too which is why your eyes were creeping me out the other night yeah yeah they were either gonna get me light or punched. Yes. That's really how... Or maybe both. That would have been weird.
Speaker2: Punch-bucking.
Speaker1: Yes, bucking and punching. Well, maybe you would have ended up in the dungeon. You never know. Somebody could have dragged you in there. That would have been a good place for you that night. It was pretty creepy. It was creepy.
Speaker2: Oh, thank you.
Speaker1: So now everybody out there, yes, I am creepy.
Speaker2: Creepy.
Speaker3: Throw in the compliments my way. I'm the only one who said I'm hot as fuck.
Speaker1: You guys are just keeping me balanced. Are you going to ask the same question as tape? No, I'm going to ask.
Speaker2: No.
Speaker1: It's like, no, I don't care.
Speaker3: Just not setting yourself up.
Speaker1: No, I'm just kidding. No, I'm not going to ask that. I'm going to ask a different one.
Speaker2: It would be a butt.
Speaker1: It would be the butt, right?
Speaker2: I'm curious.
Speaker5: No, I know.
Speaker3: Similar to yours. Like, the abdomen area. right? I'm curious. No, I know. It's similar to yours.
Speaker1: Like the abdomen area.
Speaker2: Yeah? Yeah. Huh. Okay. Go ahead. A fit rig.
Speaker1: A fit rig. We like fit rigs. From here to here.
Speaker2: Yeah? I'm a woman.
Speaker1: So I noticed that where you gestured there also encapsulated the vagina area.
Speaker2: Sure.
Speaker6: It's important.
Speaker1: It's important. And it's important. Is that part of the fit rig? It's important that she has one.
Speaker2: I mean.
Speaker1: It's really it.
Speaker2: I don't have a signature flirt move Oi Oi, how you pick up chicks? Sorry. How you doing? How you doing? You probably just have me go do it. Nice. That is a signature flirt. You can engage the wingman. No, it's just a conversation. And if it's just you know, I can sense people pretty well and if I'm getting the right vibes, it's usually making a girl laugh. He just sticks his finger up her butt. When she's least expecting it. She pulls on her butt-tail butt-tail. Yes, that would probably, yeah. Oh my gosh. Do those just, I guess it... I just... I have so many questions about that everyone's mind just got blown just then I have a lot of questions about that like does it feel like it's in there does it just you stick it in there and then you walk with an extension that's all it is have you ever walked around with a butt plug again I'm just saying I'm not willing to admit that at this point a couple of times in college he was experimenting he just walked up that this doesn't sound like it would be that comfortable i actually did say that when they were doing like they walked i sort of walked backwards and forwards a couple of times and i actually commented to him i'm like that no that doesn't look comfortable being the shopper the sex toy shopper of the group um you can get butt plugs that are designed for walking they actually have a different shape to the outer okay so they're not like they're not around they're they're actually sort of curved up and and flatter so that they fit like a g-string or a long wood sorry your butt can move your butt can move yeah interesting i know a lot and the gestures are awesome but you know what i'm saying, because when you walk, they... Yeah, otherwise you'd just turn it. Yeah, well, you'd be walking around like you had a butt plug in your ass. What's up your ass? Butt plug. Yeah, there's a conversation starter for work. Absolutely. I mean, so we'll share, obviously, your website and link to your podcast and stuff when we put this up. But, I mean, do you want to talk about where people can go to hear more from you guys? So you can find us at thecuriouscouple.com. We're on iTunes. We're on Stitcher. We're on all those. Just look up the Curious Couple podcast. We're on Twitter. And, yeah, we're thecuriouscpl on Twitter. But we appreciate you guys having us on. Thanks for taking the time.
Speaker1: We finally managed to organize it. Yeah, so sorry. That was mostly my fault.
Speaker3: Oh, no.
Speaker1: Now you get a glimpse into his world, though. It's like, really, right now? And I've got her usually pinned down to one room. Yeah, this was tough. Thanks again, guys. And, yeah, this is C&D signing off from Swinging Down during Naughty, New Orleans.
Speaker2: We'll see you next time. Yeah, this was tough. Well, thanks again, guys, and, yeah, this is C&D signing off from Swinging Down during Norton. Norton in New Orleans. Fuck you later. Fuck you later. So that was our interview with T&A. We had a fantastic time, and I'm going to pass over to Dee. Why are you passing over to Dee? So you can talk a little bit about how you felt during that interview. Let's give the listeners. Well, okay. I mean, we've touched on it, but let's just recover it. We've touched on how I had no game during the entire Naughty and Norlands process. So I felt very much again in this particular interview. You were fanboying. I was fanboying, but I also had zero game. I was game free. Yeah. What else? You are you sitting there smiling at me you have a little crush i have a little crush on well it's gonna sound weird now on both of them but i certainly have a crush on a you have pretty big crush on a yeah she's kind of funny she's funny she's cute yeah yeah oh and she's got a rocking bod i mean don't get me wrong so there's no crush on your side. She's cute. Yeah, yeah. She's got a rockin' bod. I mean, don't get me wrong. So there's no crush on your side? Oh, Tia has a fabulous smile and beautiful eyes and clearly a good body. Yeah, and no personality, though, by the sound of that. Just saying. He's a pretty good package. I'm just laughing because you're all smiley over there and you were pulling the piss out of me and now you're all smiley. All right. Well, look, we really like these guys. We think they're fantastic. Listen to their podcast, goddammit. If you're not listening to theirs, then you're not doing yourself justice. It's a great cast full of really poignant information. Fun. Fun, sexy. Some really sexy things in there. That's true.
Speaker1: Yeah, we've enjoyed listening. We loved meeting them. How long have we been listening to them for now?
Speaker3: Well, since...
Speaker1: Well, you started before I started. I started when they were only on their cast three. So, since basically the beginning of their podcasting life. Stalker alert. Yeah, yeah, a bit of a... It's taken him two years, but he's finally got his clothes. The hooks are in. The hooks are in. I don't know. wife stalker alert yeah yeah a bit of a it's taken him two years but he's finally got his claws the hooks are in the hooks are in i've got i've got their twitter name oh god i'm speaking of twitter actually we're just going to do a shout out to uh some contact details for tna from the curious couple so if you guys are on twitter you can get them at at the curious couple but couple is CPL, so The Curious CPL. Or you can find them at www.TheCuriousCouple.com where you can catch up with their podcasts, Twitter feed, their posts. And, of course, they've released two books now. Yes, they have. Yeah, so get on top of that. And also they're rolling out a newsletter as well. So if you go onto their website, I believe that you can connect up and then be part of the newsletter and I guess part of the inside gang. We might be stepping ahead a little bit there because I don't think that he's really up to that just yet. But he's getting there. You can show interest in it later ahead of the game. What I'm saying is sign up now. Sign up now for your free steak knives. Yes, you're now giving out free steak knives. Oh, my God. TNA bobblehead dolls. Oh, my God. But the bobbleheads would be blurred. They would be blurred. Blurred bobblehead dolls. Just with rockin' bodies. I feel like I'm actually going to go make some of those now. That's getting awkward. But, yeah, we had a really great time. It was fantastic to meet these guys. Yeah. Now, you obviously know where we are already if you're listening to us in some way. However, you may not have checked out the website. If you get a chance, we're over at swingingdownunder.com. and there's some fairly interesting images up there of c and there's even a couple of me i know you know for the three girls that listen to this uh podcast but yes there are a whole lot of images of c so you can get to know her a little better and and um get to know us a little better we are going to be spending some more time on our website over the coming months as well. I love the fact that C says that, and what she means is that D will be spending more time on the website. Oh, yeah. Because, I mean, if you touched it, it would smoke and explode. You would break the internet. I would break the internet. Literally break the internet. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Well, that's it for this one, folks. Thanks very much for listening, and and uh yeah we hope you had a good time yeah for now though this is c and this is d and this is swinging down under