Porn, Unicorns and Our Intro to Us – P01

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Speaker1: Hey there, this is C. And this is Dee. And this is Swinging Down Under. Well, this is our first podcast today. Should be pretty interesting. We figured we'd probably start off with a bit of an intro to us. Myself, Dee, I'm a professional, work in sales actually, and I'm 40 years of age and this is a kickoff for us. We're about six months in now in the lifestyle. I'm sure C's got something to pipe and add here. Sure. So I'm 30, so we're 10 years apart and we've been together now for six and a half years. I am a professional as well and I guess fairly new to kind of thinking about the lifestyle and I guess we wanted to share some of our experiences over the last six months with you. Certainly if you're thinking about joining the lifestyle or maybe you've just started in the lifestyle we found that researching this sort of thing is really crucial to I guess learning and taking those next steps so absolutely I'm a bit of a researcher myself so I spent a whole lot of time listening to some of the podcasts that are out there and that's actually what's inspired us to get involved in podcasting now because we weren't so much, or I certainly did, and I think Steve's a little bit behind in the podcasting scene at the moment. I've only just picked that up in the last six months. Steve's been listening to podcasts now for about five months of the six, so I am a little bit behind the eight ball at the moment. Yeah, I mean, we've got, well, I've certainly got a couple of podcasts that I enjoy listening to, that I have been listening to for quite some time and I've found some that I don't I'm going to, that I have been listening to for quite some time and I've found some that I don't enjoy listening to and some that I do. So it's interesting to hear the differences of opinion and people who've started out very early in their relationship, I think one of the podcasts I listened to, they started a month in and then there's others that have started a long way in. We're six and a half years in so it's been a very big change for us in the way we look at our lives and the way we look at ourselves and each other. Absolutely and I think that's probably one of the topics that we really want to kick off with here is how do you start actually talking about joining the lifestyle? How do you know you want to for for starters? I think that this is, you know, a massive journey as a couple, but also a massive journey into your own sexual experiences and sexual interests. So I'll let Dee sort of chat about how, you know, his sexual interests, I guess, and how this kind of all come about, because certainly you'll always find there is one key person that, you know, kind of brings the topic up uh first so you know how long did you take when you were thinking about this before you you spoke to me about it well i don't think it was really that long it's probably only about six months i mean we've got a pretty open relationship when it comes to just conversing about things anyways it's not that we're um shy especially myself not shy in saying that things are the way they are or things, and C has never been huge on porn either, to my knowledge. Is that a fair statement, C? Yeah, that's a fair statement. I think that, you know, my sexual growth growing up was a little bit different to everybody else's. Certainly, again, you know, I go back to the fact that I'm learning a lot about myself and really what interests me now. So, you know, sort of even discovering some porn, you know, Dee said, hey, you know, let's maybe download some porn. And I went, okay. You know, and the next question was, so what do you like? And I went, that's a really good question. You know, do I want to see guys delivering pizza and dressing up in cowboy outfits? Do I want to see just out and out gang bangs? I don't know what I like, so I think that was pretty. I think actually you're just on speaking for C, I suppose, right now. One of the things that I found amazing is that when we first started talking about fantasies, you actually couldn't answer that question when I asked you what's your fantasy. I had no idea. Yeah, which is really kind of interesting, I suppose, because, well, coming into this, I thought I knew my fantasies, but it turns out they're a little different to what I was expecting anyway. Yeah, absolutely. So I think that one of the funny things to note about the researching porn was, you know, we started out Googling, you know, what is it? Porn for girls? Yeah, porn for girls, yeah. Girls porn? We didn't want anything that, you anything that oh yeah we didn't want you know the money shot and that sort of money i mean it doesn't interest me at all to be honest and probably that's the one thing we agreed on our tastes for porn yeah um so yeah so we started watching some porn and the first time is really quite funny i uh set up a little what we what we like to refer to now jokingly is as the porn nest which was kind of a picnic rug of sorts on the couch and we sat down with some food and we started I think we had about five episodes of porn which is a bit unusual for people as well which was great we we sat down we watched it we spoke about it you know there was things on there where I was saying that's cool. I like that bit or, geez, I don't like that or that's really turning me on or that's terrible. Yeah, which was quite good. I mean, it was a good intro for you, I suppose, into what, for starters, porn looked like but also what you were into. Yeah, I mean, it ended well. It had a happy ending. It had a happy ending. Oh, no, had a happy ending we'll just put a hashtag lol at the end of that shall we yeah so it did it did have a very happy ending but one of the things we did stumble across across which we i think we both mutually enjoyed and helped us figure out where which way we're heading was the playboyboy TV. TV, yeah. It's one of their shows called Swing, actually, and it goes through some what they call residents living in a mansion, which is the local residence. So there's a few couples that live there and some new, some have been together for 10, 15, 20 years, and you walk through their introduction to the lifestyle and so they join the house and then there's obviously various things that occur. Well, the very first one, the girl gets really carried away, I suppose, and the guy loses his mind and he ends up walking out. That's interesting because there's been a few moments in our introduction to this as well. I don't think anyone's walked out. We've never walked out, but we've certainly had a few, let's call them brain farts on the way through. Our emotions have gotten a hold of us. Since we got away from the situation and discussed it and ended up in a very good, strong spot anyway, it was fairly interesting at that particular point in time. We've both done that, and we've both made it through it now, even in the short period that we've been involved in this. The good thing about watching the Playboy Swing episodes, I found, again, is a little bit about myself and what I'm interested in. Ramifications, I suppose, to being involved in the lifestyle for the weekend. Probably easier said than done. Yeah, significantly easier said than done. You've really got to be involved in each other to be okay with what's going to happen. And we find this comes up in every podcast and you'll hear this through everything else involved in this particular subject. Probably four or five times every episode for us, I think. Are we communication yeah sorry we we just did that from across the room with some sign language because because we now know how to communicate openly without feeling like you may step on somebody's feelings probably the best way to put it but even communicating that to to other people in the lifestyle it is amazing how open people are, the conversations that you can have. One of the biggest things I've found is that when you sit down amongst a group, it's really, provided you're polite, there's no real way to insult somebody. You know, provided you're polite about the no or the yes aspect of it, people are are generally okay i mean for example turning down somebody in in a club or in an environment like that and just saying look we're not really we're not particularly interested in you or your partner or whatever people don't take that as an insult which is really quite i mean i'm sure we all do i think body language probably speaks for itself we've sort of been on the receipt we of been on the receiving end of that as well. It wasn't a whole heap of fun, but it's better to do that than to feel like you're wasting your time and continuing down the path that is not going to end where everybody's happy or, you know, you're going to have some fun that night. Yeah, so, I mean, just, I guess, wrapping up on the Playboyboy swing bit of the podcast i really found that when we're watching these episodes again i started to learn more about myself and what really turned to be on and i i have to say there's a good four or five episodes there that are still in the back of my mind as just hot hot and sexy oh which ones are those damn isn't that interesting you know this doesn't come up until we're talking to a whole group of people in a podcast. Let's sexy. Which ones are those? Damn. Isn't that interesting? This doesn't come up until we're talking to a whole group of people
Speaker2: on a podcast. Let's go. Now.
Speaker3: You know what?
Speaker1: It was one where they were by the pool and there's a pool. We're connected to a spa. And there's a girl there who is. Or a jacuzzi for our American listeners.
Speaker2: Yeah. Jacuzzi.
Speaker1: And she is sexy. She has the whole package. She has gorgeous skin, amazing tits, amazing ass, the cutest pussy i think i've ever seen in my life and yeah she's kind of perched up and you know just getting pleasured by like three or four people of various genders and it was hot yeah that was on the edge of the i think i know the one you're talking about you do yeah yeah it was hideous it's hard to watch that stuff. It's a real struggle.
Speaker2: A real struggle.
Speaker1: It gave me nightmares for weeks. So I guess, as we said, this is our first podcast, first of many. We would like to talk about a few other things that we're going to experience, our first club, our first couple experience. Yeah, we've got a whole list of things going on here. We'll give you a bit of a rundown of where we're headed. The next podcast will include our first couple experience yeah we've got a whole list of things going on here we'll give you a bit of a rundown of where we're headed the next podcast will include our first club here in sydney now we are sydney based sorry we didn't mention that no we didn't yeah hence the swinging down under yeah hence the swinging down under makes a bit more sense reference if you haven't picked that by the accents as well yeah we're sydney based uh always been in australia we not worked or lived overseas. We've certainly travelled extensively, but we do enjoy Sydney. Sydney's a nice place to visit, and certainly if you're ever down this way, we'd be happy to hear from you. You'll be able to access our emails and a few other things come a few more episodes. We're still in process of setting some of that stuff up but by the time this episode's up there'll be a few following and that'll have all the relevant details on on them as we go but we'll we'll kick into the next one which is our first club which is actually our first event ever yeah as we said before some people join the lifestyle very differently to the next person so we find that some people join by going to you know a club if you have a club in Thank you. Well, some people join the lifestyle very differently to the next person. So we find that some people join by going to, you know, a club, if you have a club in your local city. Some people join by meeting other people in forums or adult sites and perhaps having some quiet personal catch-ups. Yeah, it's as different as every couple is. And we'll talk, I guess, a little bit about the research in the next podcast as well. I mean, why we made that decision. Yeah, yeah, the club was, there was certainly a whole lot of research that went into it before. We were looking at, there's an awful number of strip clubs here in Australia, sorry, in Sydney, I should say, that we were looking at and we ended up deciding on a club to go to. Yeah, so the next podcast in is a club and there's actually some funny things in the upcoming cast. One after that is actually watching like perverts, I suppose. But I think for today we'll probably finish up where we are or for tonight, wherever you might be listening. I hope you've enjoyed this up until now and let me tell you there's some funny and exciting and sexy stories to come from both sides of the podcast. Yeah, and we really hope that you get something out of this and that it helps you in your journey.
Speaker2: Absolutely.
Speaker1: So I guess we'll just sign it off now. And being this is our first time around, we'll just go with our intro and sign off there.
Speaker2: Sure.
Speaker1: So this is C.
Speaker4: And this is D.
Speaker1: And this is Swinging Down Under.