P87 – Double Penetration, Solo Play and Fusion Vegas

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You're listening to Swinging Down Under, a podcast about the swinging, non-monogamous lifestyle from two crazy Australians with over four years of lifestyle antics to keep you entertained, informed, angry, happy and horny. Join our international swinging adventures. And welcome. I'm C, crazy female Australian sheila and believer of all things love, balance and sexy times. And this is Dee. I'll be doing my best to keep the dad jokes to a minimum, which is probably going to be highly unlikely. Along with that, I'll keep C and check where I can. Did I mention I'm a pilot?

We'll be your podcast hosts for today, so sit back and enjoy the sweet, sweet melodies. G'day guys and welcome to episode 87. We've just returned back home. We're in Singapore right now and we wanted to get a new podcast out to you. A bit of a different style in today's episode though. We have a number of audio snippets that we've taken from various locations around the world, a debrief in particular that's extremely exciting for us to share with you, and we're going to piece it all together to bring you today's episode.

So first up, we're going to share a bit of audio about our recent DP experience, so double penetration.

Now, for those of you who have been listening to Swing It Down Under for a while, over our journey in almost five years, you would know that we've spoken about DP for a while now, but we never actually done DP before and so we have a bit of audio that we actually recorded in the car on the way to the airport after we had the DP so we wanted to share that share a bit of a debrief talking about our experience talking about what we felt what we thought you know the logistics of it and really you know had we actually kind of built this up to be something larger than it really was I guess over the five years that we've been talking about it so that audio of course it is recorded in the car so you can hear some bumps along the way you can hear some indications happening you know some the gps nav man is actually telling us where to go with nav lady and so uh so please do excuse that but we really did want to record that while it was still fresh in our mind so that's coming up soon we're also going to talk a little bit about some solo play so i just got back from vegas in miami so in vegas i attended the fusion events there which was of course the the three event hosts that held that in vegas and then i went on to miami to do a little bit of business down there in miami while i was there i actually went to xbiz in miami which is an adult industry event.

More to come on that in the next episode, but Daryl and I do discuss, you know, what about solo play? So that was also recorded in the car on the way to the airport as well, and we just wanted to discuss, you know, what would that look like, me as a traveling unicorn around the world, you know, if I did want to play, how would we engage with each other? And then third and final is some snippets actually recorded from Fusion Vegas. Now, these snippets were taken from the Sex Uninterrupted podcast. During our time there in Vegas, we sat in their room and interviewed Mr. and Mrs. Smith.

We also sat in with Torrid Souls and talked about the event in general. So some of those snippets are coming up later in the episode. And of course, as always, all of the links that we are talking about or reference are going to be shared in the show notes. So please do check them out because I do give links back to the podcasters that we reference, the different locations that we reference as well. So check them out on there. Please do go over and have a look at that. Those are the three segments in today's episode. First, however, I would just like to mention a few small updates.

The newsletter that we have been producing now for a number of months, we've just hit I don't know.

three segments in today's episode first however I would just like to mention a few small updates the newsletter that we have been producing now for a number of months we've just hit over 500 subscribers so thank you so much to everybody who subscribed if you haven't yet you can just go onto our website swingingdownunder.com forward slash newsletter and you can subscribe there now thanks to our friends in Sonoma we've been talking a little bit about how to make that newsletter stand out a little bit more.

You know, we did produce it because we wanted to bring the community information about just sex positivity in general. But Sonoma have had some great ideas about how to make that newsletter a little bit more worthwhile. So the June version at the end of this month of that newsletter is going to be a revamped version, which is a little bit funny to say after only four months of that newsletter going live.

But please do and check it out and subscribe with us so that's one thing the next is that the not in new orleans update so nin update the two host hotels have now fully sold out there is a third hotel it's an overflow hotel with limited number of rooms after those tickets have been sold that's it the event is absolutely sold out so if you haven't yet bought your tickets for next month it's in like 45 days and you still want to come to naughty in new orleans you can but you will be at the third hotel which is overflow so again the details are on our website if you want to go and check that out we have a number of upcoming episodes that i want to share with you guys as well they're all pre-recorded and ready to go because we are going to be hitting the road soon as i mentioned nin is coming up we're going to BBB in Austin.

And so we've recorded a number of episodes ready to rock and roll. So the first one is going to be about the lifestyle community. So we have enlisted a number of podcaster friends. We're going to talk about what the lifestyle community means to us. So that's coming up. Another upcoming episode is all about male body confidence and penis size and shape and performance. So this was to, I guess, have a different perspective on the boob episode that we did, you know, really focusing a lot on how women feel in the lifestyle. And we wanted to really see how men felt.

And so we went out to the community. We have a number of audio snippets that men have sent us in that we're going to include in our podcast. So keep an ear out for that one.

If you're subscribed already, of course, you're you're going to be able to see that but that is coming and we're very excited to share that with you and then also i do have audio from miami so i have a number of interviews with sex workers i have a number of interviews with cam models i'm talking to the pineapple support team i'm talking to young swingers week down there all in miami so those three episodes are coming up soon we are going to release them with a bit of space between them because we didn't want to just publish so much content out there for you guys.

Before, however, we get into today's episode, I really want to share a piece of audio that our friends and fellow podcasters, That Couple Next Door, sent us. So for those of you out there who listened to That Couple Next Door, you may have noticed that their Twitter profile has been on lockdown and that their podcast rather has been pulled off of the internet. So we have a mention here from That Couple Next Door. They want to share some audio and here it is. Hi, I'm Jay. And I'm Kay. And we're That Couple Next Door. As many of you know, our podcast has recently been placed on pause.

We're in a situation where we fear that we could be outed potentially by colleagues. It's a reminder that consensual non-monogamy is still not widely accepted. Unfortunately, that's true. However, we've had such great fans over the three years or more that we've been doing this, and we don't want to just abandon you, and we really would like to continue to share our story. So, for now, we will release our content through Patreon. So if you go to patreon.com slash thatcouplenextdoor, you'll be able to keep up with our monthly podcast. Until then.

Thank you for sticking with us and have a red light night. Okay, guys. So again, thank you so much to J and Kay. You guys are great ambassadors for the lifestyle pillars of the community. And we're very heartfelt about their situation that is unfolding, but they will be back and we're absolutely damn well sure of that.

But they mention there about patreon so just everybody if you haven't if you don't know what patreon is patreon is basically a platform it's a website where people content creators can go and they can put additional content and listeners and people can come in and show their support by sponsoring them for about a dollar a week so if you want to go and get the that couple next door podcast episodes they will still be releasing them but on the patreon you don't have to actually subscribe and pay for that so they're actually unlocked so you can still access all of their episodes you just have to go to patreon.com forward slash that couple next door fully spelt out and you'll be able to scroll down and see all the unlocked posts while you're there so again i'm going to put that link up in today's show notes.

Please do head over there and you can actually just follow the Patreon and then you'll know when things are posted and updated. So the episodes will still be going live. They're just going to be going live on that particular site because it is a little bit more secretive than perhaps, you know, normal iTunes, et cetera.

While you're over there, we actually are coming up into our one one year anniversary on Patreon so we have 29 supporters right now and we really want to make that over that 30 mark before we hit 12 months so Patreon again people put the content up there personally I write blogs I share newsletter articles I write diaries and we also share some audio snippets and things of that nature exclusive content basically just to thank the supporters out there. So we have two tiers, $1 or $5, and we do really appreciate the support that anybody gives us through Patreon.

So again, patreon.com forward slash swinging down under. I'll put the link down and mention on that. So the recording actually done in the car is from the recent portable recorder that we actually purchased with our Patreon money. So whenever we get those sponsors, what we're doing is we're putting that back into the podcast, putting it back into the community as well, and we have some surprises coming up for our Patreons to support that one-year anniversary, which is coming up in July. So without further ado, let's get on to the first segment of today's podcast, Double Penetration.

Thank you so much, everybody, for listening to Swinging Down Under, as always, and I'll be back after our audio okay here we are it is uh what 10 hours past our first double penetration it is and this is us in a car on the way out to the airport debriefing about it yes debriefing de-panting so so i am currently driving so um i am a little bit distracted in terms of the fact that i'm driving because that takes priority over the podcast not dying does yes it takes a very firm priority and also we have the gps on which means there's going to be the occasional blip-blop and turn left at the lights and that sort of shit.

So apologies for that in advance, but, you know. We thought it would be fun to talk about what happened last night as soon as this happened. So basically we wanted to get this done ASAP. Yes, or ASDP. Or ASDP. So, Daryl, you've been, I guess, fantasizing about DP for a while now. Fantasizing, I'm not sure is the right word, I've been interested in it, it's not a fantasy, it was never a fantasy per se, it was more just something that I thought would be interesting to try. Okay, Yeah, so... There's been a lot of bedroom talk around DP.

We've used toys before and recreated, I guess, what a DP would be like. Yes. In the bedroom and then use that either video footage to share or the discussions and the sexy talk. Yeah, absolutely.

That's been a lot of fun as as well um so the first dp why don't you give us a like an understanding from your perspective what it what it was about and you know what what were the sensations was it good was it bad was it you know amazeballs um well i guess to backtrack a little bit though when we'd always spoken about dp it was always going to well i was under the impression that it would always be you in in my ass in my butt um yes well i mean that was a that was but then yesterday you threw a curveball which would be that somebody else would be in the butt well i just threw it out there because you'd never had anyone else in europe your ass either and I think earlier on we kind of discussed earlier on in the podcast for sure we discussed that being kind of ours or you'd certainly said that but I think we've we've changed along the way with regard to that I think that yeah it was something so basically we were DP virgins and and um anybody else having sex in my ass virgin yes and i think that the the way that we had the positions that we were going to be in i think you also wanted to kind of face me right yes in that particular position so i kind of wanted to see the expressions yeah like what was happening so i guess that means that based on the position that we were in, which was you were on your back, I was straddling over the top of you and then he entered me from behind.

Like, that gives you that option to see me, right? Yeah, but it's not the only way to do it, though. No, no, there's multiple positions. There's ways to do it with me still seeing what I need to see and you not having somebody in your arse. Yeah, so I don't know. So I guess I was hoping that you would actually tantalize on the sensations, but you've thrown that over to me, so as usual, thank you. And I guess that, let me start with the play session.

So you and I were just playing together for quite some time and actually I was having trouble coming, which was unusual for me, so that was a bit frustrating. So we were having sex. It's highly unusual for you, actually. that's something I was actually really I was having trouble coming which was unusual for me so that was a bit frustrating so we were having sex. Highly unusual for you actually that's something. I was actually really I was multiple times actually said I'm frustrated I really want to come.

Something we should dig into at some point because I think there's I mean the only reason you don't come generally is quite mental it's not a generally not a physical issue so I'm interested in what that is what's caused that as well so maybe we can dive into that after we talk about the dp okay so i was having trouble not coming but there's a few times like i was straddling you and fucking you and then we had the vibrator between us and stuff like that so kind of i think one of the things that we thought about was that dp was not going to happen as a let's walk into a room and do dp you know that there would be some warm-up required absolutely for me to to achieve that in terms of stretching in terms of relaxing and everything else that goes along with that so so yeah so we're fucking for a while and then i got on the edge of the bed and you started um playing with me with your.

So you were putting your fingers... You actually asked me to... I did ask you to do that. Yeah, to finger you. And then surprisingly, you know, I actually offered some fingers to your ass and you were like, oh, that's a really good idea. Yeah, you should do that. Like, that would be helpful. Yeah, absolutely it would be. And I think I did actually. Which is funny. Which is funny.

So you were down on the end of the bed on well on the floor on your knees yeah fingering me like a champion yes what was that like that was good actually i really quite liked it i do like playing with you especially i mean this time around you didn't you didn't come which again is quite unusual especially with finger play that's both um vaginal and anal normally that gets you off reasonably quickly like really quickly actually so that was a bit of a surprise i was kind of expecting that you would have you would have come yeah from that alone and i also actually had the vibrator on my clip too yeah so normally that's quite a quick normally for you that's second that's that's an instant I'm definitely going to come.

Yes. I don't think I've ever not come from doing that manoeuvre. No. Keep left. Sorry. But it does mean that you did get relaxed, I suppose, into the mood of being double penetrated potentially. And all the while, obviously our friends are having sex on the bed.

I shouldn't say obviously our friends are having sex on the bed at this point in time and they were using a cock ring for the first time and that was all very lovely to look at so I guess from your perspective you're sat there where you're on the ground I'm on the edge of the bed, you're fingering me and you're able to see Yeah, not that I took my eyes off your pussy and assholesehole the whole time, though. Like, I was very engaged with that because you have a very sexy pussy. Okay. So there was that. And so I think, yeah, that definitely, definitely relaxed me.

And then I think we're playing around for a little bit more. Traffic jam ahead. Traffic jam. Good news. There's a traffic jam ahead. And also we're right beside a truck. Yeah. Go away, truckie. On the freeway.

Without trucks darryl you know that it's written on every truck it's hard not to fucking know uh yeah so that was good fun and then i got back on top of you if i'm not wrong yeah or did you fuck me for a while um we actually joined there by session so you laid on Well not laid on top of him but oh that's right that was a good little move yeah so he was so she was on her back he was fucking her missionary yeah or was she on my missionary and then i came up behind him and so my breasts were pressed against his back and then i was like you fucked me from behind so kind of like a little train um pushing on pushing on him and then he was obviously then pushing into her so that was fun for a little while again i think that just that constant further penetration probably also relaxed me a little bit more as well which made made it a little bit easier to actually achieve double penetration.

Because, again, up until this point, I've been pretty adamant that it is going to take a long time and also that it may not even be possible. Yeah, you're concerned about fitting, just purely the physics of getting two penises inside you. Yeah, and we've tried a lot with toys.

and I've tried on my so either with one toy and then you or I've tried with two toys before as well and it's it's taken a very long time i think the last time i sent you video video footage yes it took me about 20 minutes to get both of the toys inside me yeah but i think there's some some perspective here i think they're hard they're hard and also we were kind of playing for much longer than 20 minutes prior to yeah you attempting or us attempting the dp yeah um so so yeah fast forward so i'm straddling you and then um again person first time was in my ass well mean, how did that happen, though?

I said, hey, could you come over and do you want to do DP, basically? I think given the fact that we talked about transitions on the last podcast or on this podcast, whichever one you marry it up to, how was your transition? Traffic jam ahead. What did you transition with?

Well, guess we've been talking about dp at dinner the night before and at lunch that day so i guess there was a general awareness of dp you know we actually had mentioned that we were interested in trying dp and that we would be interested in trying dp with this particular person and that, I guess, you spoke about the person being in my ass, not... Yeah. Yeah. So I think that overall it was a way. And so the transition probably was a little bit, I guess, more forward than it might be if you're in a... So what was the line of your transition?

I said, hey, can you come over here and fuck me in the ass and we'll try'll try DP? No, no, before the actual transition from the couch. Oh, from the shower? From the couch to the bedroom. Oh, to the play session when we first started. Yeah, so I had a shower and walked out of the shower in some lingerie and then proceeded to say, I really want to watch you two fuck with your new cock ring on and then later we're going to do DP. Yes. Yeah, that's exactly what you said. Well, I was being assertive in what I wanted in the bedroom. Yeah, it was a bit of a surprise to most of us, I think.

Well, it was a total surprise to most of us, given we were just settling into actually relax and watch a movie. Mm-hmm. That is what you said also when you asked somebody if they could come over and fuck you in the arse at the DP.

Yeah and again i think because these these they've been friends with us for a while and we've played multiple times i think that those pretty forward conversations are a little bit different than perhaps if it was somebody we have have not played with for a very long time yes or had barely played with you know i think that you have the ability to ask for a little bit more about what you want and i guess if you're a little bit more comfortable you know you can do that too so yeah so i asked for that and then he came over and um he has done many dps in the past and basically just yeah put the condom on lubed up with you know anal lube and then basically proceeded to move into me.

Now, when he was actually sliding into me, it was pretty slow, obviously. Yeah. Just taking it easy. But yeah, the sensation was a peculiar one because it did feel like, you asked me straight away, like, how does it feel?

And I was like, extraordinarily full full um I think that you know it it's hard to even imagine that two things could be in that that space and um but it did take some time to actually to maneuver in there and then to also get a bit comfortable before I started also maneuvering you know um I think I did feel like there's not a lot of opportunity for me to maneuver and that could have just been the position but yeah it felt like extraordinarily full.

I would have liked to have been able to actually have some clitoral stimulation as well but again with the move and being pushed so hard against you that made it a bit impossible. I think we could totally organize that next time.

There's just, you know, there needs to be some more thought put into the size of the collateral stimulator you know like the vibrator and that sort of thing at that time we only had a really big yeah vibrator that kind of wouldn't fit like magic wand style yeah so i don't know that's my so yeah moving around was tough so i was like trying to obviously come forward and slide down onto you at the same time and try to push back and slide onto him so that that was an interesting um well I just couldn't basically do a lot of that later on I tried a little bit and I was maneuvering a little bit but um you know I do worry I guess like if there's if everybody's getting enjoyment and pleasure out of it, that's probably something that I need to unpack a little bit as well.

Well, I mean, that's a good question to ask yourself. Were you getting enjoyment and pleasure out of it? I think because it was so new. Like, yes, I was, and the experience was good, and I think that it was interesting having somebody, you know, in my ass that's not you, because normally I actually quite enjoy anal play.

is that something you'd do again like without DP do you think I think yes and I think that probably it would be easier for me to come I think the other thing about this is that there's so much going on there's so much going on you're overstimulated and i was already having difficulty coming anyway so i think that yes it absolutely was enjoyable and it was a great experience uh would i do it again yes yeah but i just want to try and figure out how to actually get more enjoyment out of it if i'm not sounding selfish but i really want to be able because i again normally come quite quickly from anal yeah oh yeah no i mean uh so i wasn't talking about the dp i was just talking about having somebody else have anal with you okay yeah that's what's saying i'd like to try that so i can try to come with somebody else yeah and then i think that might also help with with dp so there you go folks there's a whole lot of you know anal uh requirement here from Kate.

She's desperate for it now in her ass. I think though there was a moment there where I did have to say right, I'm tapping out, you know. Yeah. I don't think it's a move that you can probably do all night. We weren't there for long. I mean, we were there for five minutes at best. You reckon five minutes? Yeah, absolutely. So. So, yeah, that's basically all the DP was. It wasn't a long session of DP, which I don't think they ever would be terribly long because I would imagine that most of the time the lady gets off reasonably quickly if they're into DP.

All right, so we had a bit of a pause there because we as i mentioned earlier we are recording in a car on the road at the moment and we drove into a tunnel at which point a truck decided to kind of hang out in our general vicinity so apologies for the for the noise and the interruption there but daryl tell us your experience how you feeling well i mean for me I think out of the three people involved in the DP, there was only one who came, and that was me. I thought it was very sexy.

So as soon as the gentleman slid into your arsehole, I could feel his, I wouldn't say his cock, but I could feel the additional pressure. Yeah. and I could feel the pressure the additional pressure yeah um and I could feel it the pressure moving as well up and down my shaft I did manage to do a little bit of like I managed to do some thrusting and actually get some movement as well which was really nice like to have the double stimulation I suppose of him and also your tight pussy on me We'll be right back.

to have the double stimulation, I suppose, of him and also your tight pussy on me, that was really, that was really nice, then, yeah, so as soon as he was inside you, I could feel him inside you, and then he started actually fucking you, or fucking your ass, and that was also really sexy to have the idea and i could see your face and you were you know you were when when it first happened you there was a expression of sort of i'm not sure but that quickly within seconds disappeared and you relaxed and i could see that you were enjoying it but still cautious because you know first time around as well I don't think first time around on both of those I don't think you were you know I thought the idea of you coming from that was going to be fairly low low chance anyway because you would have I knew you were going to be in your own head about it as well yeah um so yeah it was really sexy to to to feel the movement and to see your face and see you actually your face change to where you were enjoying it um granted you didn't come but you were like I think if we were a little if we if we do it again you being relaxed more would help with that, and I think you actually would end up having an orgasm.

What was it like for you to actually witness a guy sliding into my arse? Well, unfortunately, I wasn't in the position I would have liked to have been. I would have actually liked to have seen the actual penetration.

I was lucky enough for the first time you had vaginal sex with a guy that i got to stand back and just watch him slide into you and it's something that i'll never forget it was really really sexy but uh yeah i would have liked to have seen that as well this time around but I mean unfortunately I was pinned between you between the bed and and you and I was inside your vagina I don't know how I can say unfortunately to that because that's a pretty fortunate position to be in but uh yeah I could feel him I could feel him fucking you which which was really, really cool.

Actually getting horny again, just thinking about him in your ass. So I would really like to see you have arse play again with somebody else. So you can stand back and watch, though? Yes, I'd like to watch what's going on and actually see you get fucked, I suppose.

and um yeah and also so yeah granted also that the there wasn't a lot of space in in terms of you know when i was in your vagina so it was um everything was a little more more tight than it would have been normally which is actually a bit of a surprise to me i wasn't exactly sure that that was even achievable because you're generally pretty tight anyway which hence the concern about getting into your getting into a dp situation at all it was interesting though i think it appeared that you were reasonably comfortable after it first happened i understand why you tapped out and just for the peeps at home part of the reason that kate went for a shower before was to um was to shave up the area to tidy up and um you may have nicked yourself as well foolishly yeah prior to the anal part of the sex which would didn't help i think i think that made it quite stingy for you really so i think all in all it was a fucking awesome uh situation i mean we were with people that we trust both both of those guys and that couple uh have i think that a lot of trust with them yeah i think that's that's super important um But now having done it, do you think that our overprotectiveness of that particular position, or do you think that we made that position quite taboo and it's not actually taboo?

Where do you see on that? In terms of the anal sex or the DP in general? Both, yeah. Like the fact that... Oh, I don't think taboo's the right word. Yeah, I can't think of the right word. I think the overstatement of the idea was probably more like it than the fact that there was any taboo. You know, we were kind of hanging on it, I suppose, that it was potentially this big thing. Over-cautious, then. Yeah. Yeah. Well, and I think that was a lot more you than it was me. Yeah, I know, yeah. And so now, though, having done it, do you think that's probably removed some of that? Yeah, I think so.

Yeah. I think so. I mean, not that it's removed the gloss. I think it's still a very, very sexy situation in terms of how... And it's also something I wouldn't do with everybody. Oh, no. The fact that we actually had anal sex with somebody else last night and DP, I think, speaks volumes to how we feel about that particular person. Yes, or that particular couple, actually.

To feel the level of trust trust i guess uh you know because it is quite a vulnerable position yep very to to be in and i think that yeah i'm happy that we were able to yeah to do that yeah i totally agree it was um it was a very sexy very sexy event with very sexy people who we who we care about a bit. All right, guys, I hope you really enjoyed that. And like I said, thanks for hanging in there. That was recorded in the car. So there is a little bit of a bumpiness and more to come, actually. In the next section, we're going to talk about solo play.

Just getting back from my trip, you know, we wanted to debrief about solo play, how we would go about it.

So that's coming's coming up now thank you very much i'm about to get on a plane and to go home to singapore i'll be home for a whole 24 hours or less than actually i think about 20 21 hours i'll be home for before i jump on a plane and go to la and then head over to vegas to head to fusion so i'll be away for about what week and a half two weeks yeah and i expect there'll be some interesting stories from that we just had a discussion in the car prior to making this podcast actually about what our limitations are and stuff and uh i think we came up we settled on uh uh expectation yeah you want to tell people about that we just spoke about you know what would what would be some of the boundaries that we might have so again boundaries you discuss you can discuss throughout all play situations or or play positions or you know with different people really depends on how your relationship works um and in this particular case me going away for so long we just said well what are our boundaries while i'm away you know and are we okay with me playing separately what does that look like what are the requirements you know i opened the conversation with well what if there's somebody i'm interested in kissing you know as a first step would that be would that be workable for us you know and what would what would be the requirements on your side to feel comfortable about it or my side to feel comfortable about it and given this time around it's probably you're talking about a couple generally yeah you know it's not a single as well so um yeah so sorry keep on yeah and so i think from there we kind of said okay well yeah kissing what about sex you know what what would what would be the requirements for the sex are we okay with it how we feel about it and you know again it does come back to that conversation where I would need to let you know what was what was happening with the lead up you know again because one for safety but two so you're not just I guess taken aback by suddenly receiving video of me having sex with somebody um you know I think that you probably want to know what lead up is and that's something we've discussed before on the solo podcast episode and then you know secondary to that is a level of involvement for you so you know taking some sexy photos taking some videos sharing that with you so you can then experience experience it as well well i want to be part of it even though i'm not there yeah and uh and then you know we just discussed the fact that yeah that might that might seem a little bit intrusive for the other people and so that would be again some boundaries that i would be discussing with Thank you.

Yeah. And then, you know, we just discussed the fact that, yeah, that might seem a little bit intrusive for the other people. And so that would be, again, some boundaries that I would be discussing with the other couple if I decided to play, which was that, hey, you know, I really want to have some sexy fun with you guys, but these are my boundaries and this is what I need from that play situation. So, you know, boundaries are something you just constantly discuss, I think. Yeah, absolutely. I agree.

I think these will change possibly throughout the event as well and you know it might be after the first time something happens even a kiss that i might change my mind and draw them back back to no i don't want that to happen this is our first time doing this sort of thing especially with couples that or people that I've not met at all and don't know at all um the only play you've done solo is with people that we know and care for yes that's right and this is a whole new new thing for us me going to an actual event on my own you know a multiple day event on my own yeah um which you you would have loved to have been there but it's unfortunate that that you obviously...

I have a job. You have to work. I have a job. Somebody's got to bring home the fucking bacon. I don't bring home bacon. I bring home money. Okay. It's a lot more spendable than bacon. I turn the money into bacon.

But, yeah, so I think it's interesting, and I think we'll see how that event pans out in terms of, you know, I might not even find anybody interesting that I want to play with, or I might not even feel comfortable playing with other people without you i find that highly unlikely that i'll which one that you either of those either of those i file it find it highly unlikely that you won't find somebody at the event that you're into enough to want to play with and you feel you think it's highly unlikely that i'll feel comfortable that i'll feel uncomfortable i I think you'll feel uncomfortable.

But I also think that you'll work through that uncomfortablosity to get to the point where you play with them. Okay. That's my prediction. That's your prediction? What are your overall thoughts about me going away to the event?

I'm going to miss you, course uh desperately i i really don't like spending a lot of time away from you so that's gonna suck um also the the idea of you know the last sex we've had up until now today is uh with another couple involved and i really don't want that to be the case before you go i want it to be us alone yeah so we just spoke about that too it's having that moment of just reconnection just between us yeah I don't I don't think it's reconnection I think it's more that I just want to be with you I don't know whether I like the term reconnection yeah we discussed that a few podcasts yeah it feels um look it's just a word and words only power if you allow them to have power, but I guess I'm allowing this one to have power.

So you want to spend time with me? I want to spend time with you. You want to spend intimate time with me? Intimate time with you. There you go. You want to make love to me? Would you say, or do you want to fuck me? A bit of both. A bit of both. Yeah. A little from Colomay, a little from Colomay. Yeah, I mean, where do you stand on that? That's an interesting reverse question. Uh... You're not so worried, are you?

I would like for you to give me an orgasm and I think that that would be lovely if I think, yeah, I would rather probably if we're going to be intimate, I think that I would rather have some actual intimate time and have you get me off most likely with your fingers and a vibrator and then I want you to then come inside me, basically. Okay. Okay. Well, I can organise that, provided we can organise time for that to occur. Yeah. You didn't bring a vibrator with you, did you? Not in the car, no. No. Well, I mean, you know, worst case scenario, a little bit of dogging.

You're going to try and, like... Get you off in the car. Somehow rig the car up to have a vibrating piece in it. Well, yeah. I mean, I've already done that. Thank you.

you're going to try and like get you off in the car some somehow rig the car up to have a vibrating piece in it well yeah i mean i've already done that okay so yeah so it is something new and different we'll kind of report back on how we feel but i will be there doing interviews and hanging out on the ground i've got some seminars that i'm doing too which is kind of cool but again it is a bit hard not having your partner there because you know i really want to share not just the sexy times but I want to share the moments with Daryl and I want to be able to be on, you know, I'm doing a podcast panel with a few other people and it's like an intro to Swinging or Swinging 101.

And I just, you know, I feel like I really want you there and I want your energy there and I want my partner there. And that's a shame too. So even if you take away all of the potential sexy time and sex, and and you know hanging out by the pool and in bikinis and such like like i just you know that's a shame that you're not going to be there for all of that yeah i agree i agree um but it is what it is and you're going to have a whole heap of fun i'm sure and probably get laid a whole heap as well which Is there a limit on how much? No.

So if I found two people every day, so if I stopped with like eight couples, do you think there's a difference on the requirements? No, I don't think there really is. In fact, I would almost challenge you to explore those boundaries yourself. Enjoy what you want to enjoy.

And uh i hope i get to hear about it and enjoy the video and we get to relive it somewhat in our lives maybe if it does happen you can interview me yeah sounds good okay all right well thanks for listening everybody we just wanted to debrief about our dp and talk a little bit about what's coming up for us and uh by the time this gets released i'll already be in the states but um we'll see what happens i guess more to come absolutely and if you do follow us on twitter i'll be doing twitter twitter and instagram lives as well so if you follow our social media accounts you'll be able to see some of the what's happening at the events the room you know what i'm what i'm doing throughout the day and you know my general thoughts or what's happened so if you follow us on social media you'll be able to kind of get the hot gossip before we release another podcast absolutely all right thanks very much guys bye all right if you've hung in there long enough i really appreciate sitting through that audio recorded in the car this next bit is super fun so these are snippets from the podcast that was recorded live at Vegas Fusion or Fusion Vegas rather with Sex Uninterrupted and with Torrid Sol's podcast and also some listeners Mr and Mrs Smith so we wanted to talk about the event we want to talk about you know their first time at the event and then the podcasters all get together and talk about the different types of events over over the course of an hour the full episodes are available on the sex uninterrupted podcast now i will add again the links out of today's in today's show notes so please do jump over and have a listen to the full thing i wanted to pull some snippets out because there's some funny discussions in there that i just absolutely love listening to we had such a great time sitting down and recording this so thank you so much to of course sex uninterrupted torrid souls and mr and mrs smith for allowing me to be part of this it was so much fun that afternoon full of moonwalking and just craziness so head over again the show notes will be updated and i really enjoy bringing this little snippet to you so hope you have fun listening i think once you gave the code once you gave the word then i don't think i think within about three minutes i tried to shut it down yeah because i don't want to be like if she gives the code i I don't want gave the code, once you gave the word, then I don't think, I think within about three minutes.

You tried to shut it down. Yeah, because I don't want to be like, if she gives the code, I don't want to be like, sorry, she said the code, we're out. You know what I mean? You want to acknowledge it. As awkward as it kind of started to get for us, I don't know if it got to be awkward for them, too. It may have been. Right. Who knows?

We don't want to waste anybody's time james yes how do you feel about the schedule the schedule yeah run us through it what do you think schedule schedule we say schedule of your accent don't worry about it oh fuck you guys that's what you've wanted to do i hear because the vulva is like oh hangry we looked at you were like schedule i know i'm british i know schedule i'm with your girl fist pump i just thought you were you thought she had a list my schedule hey james what do you think about the schedule schedule wrong man schedule You're almost Canadian now There you go So Australians or Canadians With a weird accent Alright Alright Let's just tone this down For a second She asked about the schedule And the There you go Did you mumble that?

Sure I don't know That's a Canadian word a canadian one too right sure a a a a sure about sure pillow iriman pillow oh that's camacan sorry okay but i do like to have the actual schedule and i like the app i thought it was a good idea i like the fact that you could look through and get a summary of what most of the events were yeah that was awesome check off the ones that you're pretty sure you want to go to and then it's like oh okay well it's in between what was going on now and do i want to change my mind and it was just as quick as looking at the app so i really like that the one thing the reason why we do it this way is because what we do before we get here to now which is even even more planning, is we book our dinner reservations in advance.

We do. All right, guys. Well, that's it from today's episode. Again, really appreciate the hell out of you for listening. We've had a great month so far for May and we hope to make June and July as fantastic. So we're about to head off for a weekend away to go celebrate Dee's birthday. He is a Gemini and we're going to have a lot of fun being away and kind of doing our own thing. So we'll be offline for a little while, but keen to come back and share with you our experiences. And thank you so much.

You know, we just really appreciate all the support out there in the community and we can't wait to bring you these three updated or next episodes that we already have ready to go. So until next time, join us on social media, Twitter and Instagram. We are Swing Down Under on Twitter and Swinging Down Under on Instagram, which is just kind of kicking off with some stories there. So thank you again and we will be back shortly.