P69 – Sex Positions, Pub Crawl & Why We Podcast

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Hi there, my name is C. I'm D. And you're listening to Swinging Down Under. Our journey is a couple through the swinging lifestyle. Are you into open relationships? Or exploring new things in life? This is our podcast. Experiences. Both good and bad. Reviews and events. And more. Here's Swinging Down Under. Come on. Join us. This is C. And this is D. And this is Swinging Down Under, episode 69. You just sprung that on me, you know, you realise that, right? Like I was just, you said you were going to do some testing and then like, bam, we're on. Yeah, I did. So D is currently down, down under.

He'sralia and we're skype recording this interview because that's how technologically advanced d is so welcome to episode 69 today's a big one because we're going to talk about 69 it's episode 69 exactly and position where nobody's satisfied and what better way to celebrate episode 69 than talking about our favourite sex positions? The shit can't write itself, am I right? The what? The shit can write itself, man. The shit writes itself. Yeah, it writes itself. Yeah, okay, cool. So we were talking about sex positions.

Later in the episode at the end, we've got two recordings from some of the people that attended our perth pub crawl so we're going to play them for you at the end of this episode but for now let's kind of jump into a few announcements just real quick before we get started we will be announcing a new segment on our podcast today so we would like to show the world a little bit more about sex positivity sexual experiences exploration and really everything to do with sex in other countries so we are wanting to on every second one of our podcasts interview a couple from somewhere else in the world for about half an hour that'll go on the end of our podcast all about their sexual experiences and and really what how culture kind of plays into that so if you are in another foreign country anywhere in the world then please do reach out to us on cnd at swingingdownunder.com we'd love to get together with you uh upcoming we've got some guy actually a guy from new zealand we've got a couple from toronto canada some people from i think another canadian couple so I'll see you next time.

got some guy actually a guy from new zealand we've got a couple from toronto canada some people from i think another canadian couple so all around the world so really wanting to bring forward some of that differences in you know how people express themselves sexually in other countries and what you know the the history of their country how it, really, because, you know, oftentimes, I'm just getting a bit sidetracked, but oftentimes Dee and I will talk to other countries about when something as, not simple, don't get me wrong, but something as common as when we lost our virginity, right?

And some people from certain countries or certain cities within those countries, they lose their mind little bit like whoa that was young whereas that might be the average age for perhaps an australian whereas the average age for another country could be totally different right yeah we've certainly seen that already yeah and then little things like you know bondage or tantric sex or sexuality things like bondage things like bondage just a little thing it was just a small paddle there was only like little knobs on it it's fine just these little things just little things yeah so if you want to catch up with us every second podcast about half an hour we would love to hear from you we want to bring a little bit of information to the listeners about how people are exploring their sexuality all around the world so let's get together and help people understand a little bit more about your culture through sex.

Yeah, it's like how we understand people's culture through food, but totally different. Exactly. No, it is kind of food. It can be food, I suppose. It can be food, right. So, Dee, I've done my homework. I am curious whether or not you've done your homework about some sexual positions. I've got the lingo down. I've got the descriptions.

You've done my homework i am curious whether or not you've done your homework about some sexual positions i've got the lingo down you've done your homework you've done some searching on google i know my favorite sex positions because they're my favorite sex positions i mean that i've had a manicorn here all week and just been like really trying to figure it out like what's good what's not no that's not what we were doing sorry i missed the beat i don't mean you probably should have just told me his name before you started that would have been the polite way if i knew his name i'd probably mention it oh okay so yeah okay fair enough so he's just been like coming around has he hasn't really left uh it's been it's a bit awkward really i don't really know how to get rid of him now so especially since you don't know his name you can't say like hey you go away exactly yeah i'm gonna go first these are in actually i'll do one you'll do one these are in no particular order of like why are they not in particular order shouldn't it be prioritized the top your your favorite sex position or your least not least favorite but well i have like seven i've got like my top seven shit okay okay now this one most people will know i would imagine reverse cowgirl also known as rodeo drive halfway around the world i didn't didn't really realize that but it kind of makes sense like it's 180 so reverse cowgirl technique of course the guy lies on his back the lady is riding him but facing away is that your number seven this is in my top seven reverse cargo why i like it for for me personally is because i think that you can get a lot of movement out of it you can like stay upright vertical and bounce that way you can kind of like lean forward and like grab his ankles and ride his cock that way and i think there's a like a lot of movement that you can have on and obviously for for me as well i know what he's seeing behind me so that also turns me on like understanding what his view is and i like playing to that a little bit you know like just like riding up the the top of the cock on the tip and just bouncing a little bit there and then going deep and stuff like that.

So that's a great position for me. Also can be really good if you lean forward, you can get some clitoral stimulus there as well. So that's a lot of fun. That's my one of, in no particular order, my top seven. A few questions. Yep. How do you obtain clitoral stimulation?

Well, using my my hands but i'm just saying like it's a good so i'm just yeah i was just curious as to how you like because i'm thinking my testicles are like not up that high for you to get clitoral stimulation from my testicles so i'm just trying to figure out you know where no and there's probably not enough uh there's probably not enough force field in them to be able to rub well enough to to get that stimulation so no it's my hands i'm just saying it's a it's a good lean forward you can rub at the same time as you're kind of bouncing up and down there's free movement uh there's not like anything in the way to stop you from touching your own clit gotcha okay so that's actually my number one fuck off that's my favorite position.

Reverse Cowgirl is your number one. Yep. Why do you like it? Why do I like it? Because of all the things you've just described. You know, the view is pretty awesome. And also I get to play with your cute little asshole when I decide I want to. That's true. And you are a fan of watching a guy's cock slide in and out.

There's a term for it, yeah there is but i can never remember what it is i like i actually i'm sure somebody will tell me but it's uh when you see the the pussy stretch on the way out and sort of like just cling that extra little bit to the penises yeah like the folds of your labia menorah and majora kind of like pulling down a little bit as you're coming up kind of it's actually kind of your vagina i'm going to say just kind of stretching out a little bit okay cool yeah i actually really like that for those of you remember i really liked it when um there was we were with a single guy who had a immense penis and he was doing that with you you remember that remember that?

Do you remember discussing that? I do remember us discussing that situation. I don't remember us actually doing reverse cowgirl. I actually thought I was... No, you didn't do reverse cowgirl, but his cock was immense. He didn't need reverse cowgirl to achieve the same sort of thing. Yeah, that's correct, yeah. Okay, so what is your second one then since we'll start with you now?

Why are we starting with me okay fuck it i'll go again i don't care um david copperfield is my i don't know i have no idea what the fucking david copperfield is it is also known as the trick or treat it is uh apparently the sex position is the piece de resistance for women who prefer a strong upward stroking motion basically it is me lying on my back and d giving me cunnilingus and there's a pillow underneath my hips so it's raising my pelvic bone um for better uh abilities for d to get in there and it's him giving yeah so cunnilingus me on my back my legs and my knees are up over his shoulders and i'm on a pillow so if you can imagine my hips are raised so my pelvic is raised and my knees are up and my legs are over his shoulders and he is giving me cunnilingus so apparently it is the best way to amplify oral efforts with a slight possible slight of hand trick in there as well so in other words it gives the because my pelvic bone is raised it gives d the option to give me cunnilingus and at the same time he can use his fingers to penetrate me and get my g-spot so that is definitely up there apparently it's called the day of the copperfield i would have just called that the missionary of going down on a chick no but my knees and my legs are up over your shoulders you see so that's not always the case like case.

Like mainly when a lady is getting cunnilingus, her legs are just spread. They're not necessarily up over the top and pelvic bone elevated. So that's the difference. Why I like it? Because it's delightful. So it's the woman who enjoys the missionary of going down on them. Are you hating on my position that I've chosen? Is that what's happening right now? No because you're enjoying it, right? That's the whole idea.

I mean, I've found that as soon as a woman starts enjoying themselves, I actually use that as a bit of a measure when they start to lift the pelvis and push the leg, you know, lift the knees up and back as well.

I thought that was kind of a measurement that i was going all right well it's the david copperfield or the trick or treat that's the uh that's the sex position by the way i was trying to figure out today how many sex positions actually existed out there or what the number is i think it's around 240 245 247 i found very different websites uh suggesting that it was you know kind of around that 240 mark so i'm going to call it 240 but somewhere between 240 250 different sex positions out there in the world no i think there's a lot more than that anyone who's ever read the karma sutra no karma sutra has like 245 yeah but that's not all of them well according to the interwebs but i could be wrong if you practice or know anything about the karma sutra please let us know pretty sure there's no dp in the karma sutra well there you go nor is there dvp nor dap nor what is it tap or tp That doesn't sound right, does it?

No. Nobody wants T-P. No. Well, people do want T-P, but, yeah, I think we know where I went there. There's dead silence on the line while we wait for you to decide what your next sex position is rather than talking about that. My next sex position was the dog.

That's my second favourite, I think the dog position your second favorite now there's some there's some additions to that because uh we certainly had somebody give some guidance on this somebody i was listening to about using a pillow as a uh thrust uh increaser thrust enhancer yeah by like grabbing the pillow either side of of the lady and pulling them back with the pillow whilst thrusting forward yeah so the pillow goes underneath their hips and you can use like one pillow or two or three for increasing yeah and then going into like a dog down position but you can also then use that one pillow if you had it underneath them and to hold on to which also stops you from needing to hold on to other things and then like yeah fuck them yeah with the pillow yeah just make sure people knew the pillow wasn't overhead that's all yeah there's a few things i a few things i really like about that um there's certainly the i mean obviously the penetration and the dog gives quite deep penetration for the guy as well.

But also I like sometimes feeling that I'm in charge and that certainly gives that feeling, whether it's the case or not. I really enjoy it when a lady decides that she's going to, you know, really throw herself back at me as well.

That's really sexy when you know she gets into it i like the fact that i can possibly reach their hair and give it a tug if they're into that sort of thing still like the exposure of the arsehole that's you know a little bit of fun as well but mostly i like the ability one of my well probably the favorite part for me on a lady's body is the top of the hip as it comes back in to give the definition and curve that goes along with that. That is where my hands go. You've just made me horny by your explanation of that position. Good. Why aren't you home for another week?

This is bullshit so that's um that's really cool so and additionally when i'm when i'm thrusting it's nice to see the movement of the like the just i'm gonna call it the the thrust waves as i as i hit her ass you know i can see the the that movement also wave up through her skin quite cool. All right, well, I'm going to skip forward a few because I also had the man's best friend down as a sex position that I liked, also known as Doggy Style. Yeah, okay. There you go. So this one, benefits, deep penetration and an erotic view.

So everything that you've explained there, Dee, but probably slightly more essential way of explaining and i'm maybe i don't know yep um technique this could be your next move entering her from behind you'll be able to thrust deep so that the tip of your penis touches her cervix an open neglected sorry an often neglected pleasure zone but if you do this slowly and gently some women find it painful which is very very true um it is a great position i quite enjoy it i do enjoy thrusting back on d but two things that i will say we and we use pillows a lot like we we use sometimes the one pillow for him to grab and like you know fuck me we use sometimes three pillows to elevate me a little bit and i can use those underneath my hips and i can then lean forward in a bit more of like a downward dog type motion um it also then that position opens up ability for me to then use a toy on my clit as well because there's extra space then down there if i'm slightly elevated in the hips um and yeah and it's a great position for that but yes it absolutely can you know if you aren't ready for play or perhaps you're with a particularly, and yeah, and it's a great position for that, but yes, it absolutely can, you know, if you aren't ready for play or perhaps you're with a particularly, um, you know, a shape that definitely hits your cervix, it can be quite painful or it can also irritate you a little bit.

So it's, uh, yeah, definitely important.

I think for play partners, um, to understand the, the depth and understand the, the capabilities of the particular one not the capabilities but the the shape of the lady um when they're playing especially in a swinging environment because I know for example Dee you have um done this move on a number of ladies and perhaps they've found it slightly uncomfortable and you've had to kind of shift around a little bit yeah yeah absolutely I mean you find it uncomfortable with me sometimes as well depending on on whether we've uh had a lot of foreplay or we're just getting down and straight into it you know the just the extra relaxation of your vagina makes it can be either a pleasurable or something not so pleasurable for you yeah and for those ladies out there who experienced, sorry this is a bit of a sidestep but if you do experience um things like urinary tract infections utis or things that you know you you are irritated after play sometimes depending on the penetration level the the dog position can actually uh irritate you a little bit more and so you may find that after certain positions during sexual play you're more susceptible to getting things like a uti um purely just because you've aggravated the area so that's just something to be uh be mindful of but it's a fucking hot position and i love it and now i'm horny from your description of it thanks d awesome well i'm glad to hear that perhaps your your um manacorn that you've got there will be um out in the background yeah actually my vibrator ran out of uh charge last night so i gotta go put it on charge it's pretty pretty serious situation here in the uh the cnd household well it's the c household just now but yes the cnd household absolutely nothing but porn okay gift porn i.

You do love your gift porn. My next sex physician is the pretzel, yeah. It's also known as the pretzel dip and the camel ride, which was super weird for me. I've never heard it called this, so let me explain it.

But this is basically where you take a lady who's been lying on her back and shift her slightly over to one side she's not fully on her side but she's basically pivoted almost in like a diagonal position and the guy will get on uh basically go into her and penetrate her in a sitting up motion but one leg is over the top of him and the other is underneath him so it's basically like a spoon but he is upright, sitting upright, and she's kind of like off to his side. So sometimes D.

him and the other is underneath him so it's basically like a spoon but he is um upright sitting upright and she's kind of like off to the side so sometimes d like for example on the weekend we were spoons fucking and then you got up and penetrated me from a sitting up motion and then you put my leg over one side of you so that's the pretzel if i can explain it in that way yeah okay i mean i'm not sure there's any other way to describe it other than the way you just had yeah it's tough one but um the benefits of this as well it's a deep penetration so it's like doggy style but you're face to face a little bit but yes you can get quite deep um in in your lady and i guess that's one of the reasons why sometimes we're doing it as well because with the similar motion with the pillow and the doggy style you can grab my legs and my body my hips and and again really penetrate me but with this particular position i mean i can shift around and i can move but i don't have as much control as i would if we're in the doggy position so it really relies a lot on the guy but basically yeah so neil and you're straddling her while left leg perhaps over you and she's lying on her left side and that's going to give you an idea of that and i can post a picture up of this on the podcast to show people what the hell i'm talking about on the line on the line okay yeah i'm not uh i'm not i mean that doesn't fit in certainly not into my top top seven not even into my top 10 i wouldn't think it's um yeah it's uh it's certainly an interesting positions and sometimes I sometimes I do enjoy it but uh not all the time yeah and if I'm going to say a downside with that particular position it's probably the ability to stimulate yourselves like touch your clit while while he's fucking you as well so for me um it's good but definitely it's not something that we will uh generally one use very often or two you know use frequently in terms of like constantly throughout a sex session we wouldn't just use that one position we tend to if we do use it it's because we're doing multiple positions in one sex session yeah i would agree you're up oh am i sex position to batter up my next in line would probably be uh anal but from the front so missionary anal now we mentioned this recently to someone and they were like oh we haven't tried that before um so i don't know do you want to give a little bit of detail because i didn't add this because i knew you were going to add this one so i didn't actually put this one down but do you want to talk maybe about the first time we did it and then why you like it yeah i mean the reason i like it immensely because you get i suppose for lack of a better term the excitement and slash dirtiness of anal but i i also get get to look at your eyes, look at your expression, that sort of thing as well, and understand what you're enjoying, not enjoying.

That's what I like about it. And sometimes we do. So I'm on my back. Again, it's missionary anal. Some of my back D's facing me. Sometimes we put a pillow underneath there, but I don't know.

how often would you say we actually push my pelvic bone up well not that often because it's quite a full-on position anyway so it doesn't really require a lot more a lot else to really push that along I think that's what I think anyway I don't know that it needs anything more to make it to get it more erotic I mean it's pretty erotic the way it sits already yeah and i think personally that one of the benefits i keep going back to and the ability to stimulate your clit um is that you can not only can i get in there there's a lot of room to to use toys on myself my fingers my hands whatever on myself d can do that too he can use his hands his fingers to stimulate me either internally to hit my g-spot with his fingers or outside externally on my clit.

But then he also gets to see all of that. So it's like anal with benefits. He gets to see all of the extra interaction. Whereas if we were just doing doggy style, like he knows, he can feel, he can maybe see or feel the vibrations. If we're doing doggy anal and I'm playing with like a vibrator or playing with my clit. He knows what's going on and he can get that excitement, but this way you get to actually see it. Yes, it's amazing to watch and also really can be quite full on as well in terms of, you know, what you're kind of getting away with, you know. It's like a sneaky, sexy anal.

That's definitely end play too. I wouldn't say we don't generally start our sessions with that. I think we generally finish them. Like that's our finishing. If we're going to do that, we know that we're going to come quite quickly and so we'll actually use that last. Yeah, that would be fair.

I don't think we've ever kind of come back from that if it's always like a finished game like a game finisher yeah absolutely i totally agree yeah i wish i could add a sports reference in there but because it's fucking awesome as well okay uh right next one for me so the next one is the gee whiz okay this one is also called the shoulder holder or the anvil does that give you a guess on what it is no okay not even in the slightest this one as well allows g-spot penetration and targeting the g-spot and it is basically missionary with him straddling over the top of me and my legs over the top of his shoulders with him leaning down as well so he's kneeling between my legs i'm raising them over resting my calves on his shoulders and basically he can just fuck me that way this position as well i think gives you a lot of flexibility in terms of me moving and rocking backwards and forwards actually able to then you know give some thrust and then also at the same time d is able to you know control what's happening as well okay yeah that's called the gee whiz the gee whiz huh yeah i likey likey it's i mean just legs over shoulders is what you know it'd be normally known as well you know what it is about that too i i don't know what i kind of feel like that's a sexy very feminine um position for me i don't know why but it just it feels like i can be We'll be right back.

that too i i don't know what i kind of feel like that's a sexy very feminine um position for me i don't know why but it just it feels like i can be i'm like a woman in control you know i'm i'm okay with my sexuality kind of throwing the legs over the top having a good time i don't know that's just kind of how it feels for me yeah okay well there you go all right you're up um the next one down for me would be i don't know the name of it or even if it has a name but you face down with your uh laying down flat with your legs together and me fucking you from behind it's called the flat iron and it's my next position the flat iron yep it's called the flat iron also known as the downward dog or the belly flop the belly flop.

I feel like somebody's just been making up titles for this. Like I don't think it is actually, you know, anything. Well, that's what it's called, and apparently it intensifies vaginal pleasure.

And so she lies face down on the bed, knees slightly bent, hips slightly raised, and for comfort to increase the angle of her hips, place a pillow underneath if you want, want or leave it flat and then you enter her from behind yeah i don't know that i necessarily agree with the uh the the knees bent you know hips raising for me i'm like the full flat you know just like flat flat okay you want a flat flat iron why do you like it yeah well there's one there's really only one reason for it is it's a it's a position of power and it also also the one other reason is that it's it's you know it's not only your vagina that i'm involved with here now i'm talking we're now talking about your legs being together so your legs are tight tightly pressed as well so it's really just intensifying the tightness and you know and also the wetness and also on you know my you know my pubic region is rubbing against your sexy ass as well so that's something else that doesn't apparently it's doing for you we're gonna go we're getting the feedback so i think you got a bit hot and heavy on the other end of the line here, Dee.

The shush. Yeah.

Well, there you go didn't realize i was shush for shushing and my last position is one that i chose because we do this are we up to seven already yeah this is my last one oh wow yeah is that because we had some crossover yes it's because we had some crossover um my last at least we've got some crossover yeah well well yeah yeah what do we got like two or three two or three out of the seven i think we had some crossover but this is my last one maybe you it's i don't think this would be in your top 10 for me this is a good one for um intimacy if also you just kind of want to reconnect, sometimes you can throw a leg over as well.

It also is because I love my neck being kissed and breathed on and all of those types of things. So this is the sleeper hold or AKA spooning, basically the spoon. So spoon fucking in bed on your side, him from coming up from behind you.

Like I said, you you can have a leg you can have a leg over if you want and expose your pussy to play with or you can just leave it so that you're spinning doesn't really matter but um it's a good good position if you just want to kind of like catch up and you know kind of like a nice little wake up player like i said you can throw throw a leg over and if you want play a little uh clit uh stimulation at the same time it's almost like everything revolves around this whole clit stimulation i'm just throwing it out there i'm so i'm talking about multiple opportunity play here that's what i'm about it's like multiple opportunity play and i must also admit you've mentioned having access to the asshole one or two times now so you're i think it So I think you're all about multiple opportunity play too, I feel like.

No, no, just about your arsehole. That's my seventh one. Does that even come in your top ten? Yes, it would be in my top ten, but certainly not toward the top of my top ten. It'd probably be in the lower half, for sure. Interesting.

Okay okay i didn't depending on the i mean it just depends on the the evening you know it depends on what i mean i i wouldn't think it's not really something that i would do in a play session with another couple oh actually that's not true that's not true i would do that if we both wanted to watch you like if i wanted to watch you with somebody else and they they also wanted to watch that then i would possibly do that then actually i think i i early on i i vaguely remember us doing this play whilst we were in same room sex with another couple and i think he was either doing her dog his only partner doggy or missionary or something and we were lying on our sides fucking watching and so you're probably right like it's it's good for a play session if maybe you and your partner want to watch the other couple fucking or maybe you're late in a play session you've been you've swapped around a little bit and you've had three or four positions and then you're kind of like laying there chillaxing and then decide to maybe go for one more session.

Yeah, absolutely. I think when you're, you know, especially for me, if I've finished maybe once or maybe twice even but are still erect and interested and you're still playing on the other side of the bed with somebody else then it's and it's a nice sort of gentle way for for me to play some more with the lady yeah i agree okay any more positions on your list uh yeah absolutely i think there's at least at least one more and that is uh shower sex ah Ah, shower sex. Tell us about the shower sex. Well, I mean, there's certainly at least two ways that I've been or we've been involved in this.

One of them is from behind. That's pretty cool.

It's sort of standing standing doggy style that's that's pretty awesome and the next one would be just a leg up you know one leg up scenario where where you've got a leg almost up under my under my armpit with one leg still on the ground while i'm fucking you that's pretty cool as well so i like both of those but i'll just group that under shower sex shower sex yep and uh we used to do we have a pretty large shower here in singapore actually it's probably enough for you could probably hold an orgy in there but i don't know how how often do you think we use shower sex in our repertoire not very regularly and that's probably got something to do with the fact that the hot water in our shower is fucking terrible that's true actually i think if the because we have two shower sections and i think if the rain shower worked better it'd be definitely more often in the repertoire well the rain the rain shower for the for those of you don't understand the world that is singapore the rain shower in our bathroom or in our shower is fantastic in that It is not hooked up to hot water and that is because in singapore the water in the walls is generally pretty warm but you know when i like a hot shower i like a hot shower not a sort of lukewarmy middle of the road hot shower exactly so sour sex any other sex physicians from you today g um i think i've covered you know certainly some of my tops excellent you'll notice that 69 wasn't in there d why was 69 not in there for you explain it to me 69 69 is not in there for one simple reason and i think that's because it's it's a good fun move but it's not something that will get anyone toward the top end of enjoyment you know the top end of town it's not at the same time it's pretty hard not even at the same time I don't I think it's pretty rare that even one person get off because generally you're concentrating on what you're doing as well as trying to get off and it doesn't I just don't think that works well it certainly doesn't work for me yeah I think it's a good starter it's kind of like a it's kind of like a party trick almost like you pull it out of your bag of tricks I think visually it can be quite stimulating for the guy the girl you know depending on whether he's on his back she's on her back um you know obviously you can do it either way most people when they think 69 they think the guy's on his back and the girl's on top but you can actually do it the other way around so do experiment with that a little bit but yeah you can do it laying side by side side by side you know that's not the the problem for me is that i don't ever feel like an act i can accurately get get myself to a region of the of the pussy to get you know either a good stimulation on the clitoris or and because of the way you're the way you're situated it's also very hard to get a finger stimulation of the g-spot or anything else for that matter so i always feel like i'm doing half a job when i'm involved in in a 69 yeah me too i always feel like i'm doing half a job or i'm only getting half the the pleasure and the stimulation as well i think also like height plays a big deal into this too right like if you've got two pretty mismatched people in terms of height like i'm just thinking about the couples that we see here in singapore where you might have like a caucasian guy who's quite tall and then perhaps an asian lady who might be shorter i mean their version of a 69 is quite tough right because it's not it's not equally matching up in terms of their height and the ability to do that so I think yeah it's a nice party trick but probably we'd use it maybe at the start of play to fool around a little bit but we certainly wouldn't settle there and we'd move on pretty quickly I imagine yeah so that's like our start play then we have like penetrative sex in the middle and then we finish with the front-facing anal that we're talking about okay that's basically yeah I'll see you next time.

So that's like our start play, then we have like penetrative sex in the middle, and then we finish with the front-facing anal that we're talking about. Is that right? That's basically, yeah, that's basically it. That's Tuesday night? That's repertoire, yep. Tuesday night. So that's everything for today's 69 Sex Positions podcast, guys. Thanks for hanging in with us.

As we mentioned mentioned before we do have some audio at the end of this podcast from two of our friends that came to the perth pub crawl one couple from brisbane which you'll hear or brizzy in australia and another couple from perth western australia these guys have been on our podcast before they've also been on a number of other podcasters and you'll see them on twitter as well and we'll mention their details in the link. But really, really appreciate you guys hanging out with us today and talking about sex position. Send us your favourites or your least favourites.

Maybe that's a cool one. I think you missed something there as well. It's called BrisVegas. What did I say? You said Brizzy. Brizzy, BrisVegas? Yeah, but BrisVegas, you forgot. So, you know, just throwing it out there. Yeah, all right. Somebody once said to me, like, why is it Briz Vegas? And I said, I have no idea. Because it's Brisbane, but, you know, it's like Vegas. It's where all the parties happen. That's an outright lie. If you're heading down to Australia, send D and I an email. We'll tell you where to go. We are actually from Brisbane officially. Well, technically.

Whoa i'm from brisbane yeah okay he's from a much much loserish ville than brisbane but hey you know you can't hold that against him he's a good guy guys just you know stop sending the hate mail okay he loves it and stop trying to 69 me you weirdos and stop trying to 69 him in the street it gets awkward that's something that we didn't actually choose and we haven't done this yet but i was looking at the sex positions today and one is standing 69 and i would like no i want to try i want to try but i'm a little bit concerned about breaking my neck so if you all if you don't hear from us again if the podcast goes dead something happens and we stop replying on twitter it's because we tried the standing up 69 um c fell on her neck and uh that was the end of that story that's all she wrote folks well she fell on her head and that broke her neck yeah fell on her neck broke her neck yep so you can catch us on twitter at at swing down under this is c and this is D.

Ciao, Mabella. G'day, CND. It's Naughty. And Rocket. And we're just going to quickly do a review of the pub crawl you did down here in Perth.

So for a start, we might just say there were three venues, two out of them we'd never been to before, a bit of surprise because we'd we have done a fair bit of pub crawling in that area ourselves that was interesting what did you think of them rocket i thought they were all pretty good venues i think the first one were the first and the second probably be really good for um anything even if you didn't want to crawl like if you wanted to stay somewhere because of the space the third one I thought was a bit less conducive to the whole group thing but that could just be because we'd had a bit more to drink and we were in an in the smaller space talking to people particular people rather than but there was stuff going on outside of that room that adjoined the sort of main bar area which I had no concept of it of what was happening because we were in this sort of small area so it was a bit more separate.

Yeah and the first one was really fantastic because even though it was early in the night so there were very few other people there but it had a roped off area a bit more exclusive area but you could still see whatever else was happening around the place as opposed to it being really separated. Yeah and I suspect that the time of night makes a difference too because there wasn't anyone else there at that first one, whereas at the last one the bar had quite a lot of people in when we walked in. So it's going to be more difficult to sort of know where your group is and have everyone together.

Yeah, and the second venue we missed, that's the one we'd been to before.

We missed out a little bit of what was happening there because we called a screaming hulk to have some food with another couple so yeah so two of two couples stayed downstairs and ordered some food which is a really good move because I'd gotten to the top of the stairs when Mrs B said oh no I'm going to get food and I just pivoted on my foot and went yep because I'm probably likely to fall down these stairs if I try going down them any later so yeah so that was worthwhile yep definitely a good thing and what did you think of the people so this was a group that had nominated interest and vastly more interest than there was spaces available and C&D and whoever else had gone through and picked the people.

What did you think of that group? I thought it was great. We've been to maybe two meet and greets before in Perth and I don't think we met anybody the same who had been to those things. So it was nice to meet a different group of people. Nice age range. I didn't feel like an old duck, which I had thought I might. And just really welcoming and fun. It was great. Yeah. And there was some benefits to actually meeting a few of the group earlier on in the evening, which was what the other podcast that was being done was about. And so that was a really good thing as well, I thought.

Yeah, so we were lucky enough to be involved in that, which was fantastic, just to have a few drinks and meet a few people. It made me less. I don't think I'm very good at this stuff, going into a big group of people that I don't know and trying to just meet people and, you know, just be friendly and not worry about whether or not they're going to think you're trying to be sleazy or any of that sort of stuff. So having a smaller group and being able to just socialise a bit beforehand was fantastic.

And it was really interesting for me because we had a guy come over who'd heard us on probably By the Byers podcast, I think, and just wanted to say g'day and said he'd been going through all these podcasts in rapid succession because his work allowed him to do that so that was nice to have someone come over do that and I'm sure C&D get that all the time but that was another opportunity just to have something to chat to someone about and get to meet someone who's another really nice person so that was good.

Following on from the three pubs we all, not all of us sorry, a bunch of us climbed aboard the Limba scene and headed off to the club. What did you think of that ride? It was great. It was good having the different situations. It's not a noisy, I mean, it had music, but it's not a noisy dark club. So people could sit in different spots, chat to someone different.

It was interesting to see how people grouped or didn't group and the pole was funny great to have the opportunity of a pole just to provide some entertainment really and there was some pretty good entertainment jay from swinging out west was probably the pole dancing queen i think we were pretty impressed so yeah the ride overall was great good fun didn't have to drive and it kept the group together so there's no kind of wind down while you're in the car driving yourself or in separate taxis driving yourself to the club it's really good yeah i think that's a really good point because i think jay from swimming out west certainly did wind things up that tad more so yeah that's a good point and the club itself so this was a club that we'd never been to before we'd been on the friday night to the other club major club in perth so i think there's probably three or four now but two major ones and this one was this one's a new one as in relatively new built and everything so it's it's um nice and fresh what did you think of the club yeah i thought it was i really like the way that it was set up as a nightclub so there's dancing and lights and music i liked that um i would have liked a tour but I understand that it's very difficult when you've got a bunch of people arriving at once I would maybe have liked even to be able to pick up a piece of paper if they just handed you a bit of paper and said look we'd normally give you a tour there's so many people arriving at once here's just a basic floor map that says you're here here's the loo's here playrooms this playroom has an open door policy whatever just the basics which people might not look at depending on their level of inebriation or whether with a care factor really but I would have liked yeah I agree I think it was a great venue it did have a range of rooms and a great area all that sort of stuff I found the action around near the not lockers they were more pigeonhole large pigeonholes whatever those are called yeah where people were changing where people were putting their stuff where they're also getting changed as well that was quite entertaining as well but I think it was a really great venue and a good pick but as you said that question about what to do in what areas did lead us a little astray astray is probably not the the right word, but it was...

So we all tried to cram into it, so let me take a step back. There was a bunch of us, four couples, chatting, and that was really good. We probably did less exploring because we were more grouped together with that group. Yeah, early-formed group.

Yeah, so we were chatting to them, and then I'm not even sure who came up with the idea but it was brilliant to probably head to room and try one out and we all tried to cram into a room that was way too small and then had to try and back out of that I was at the back end so I didn't really see inside even but then we headed to another room and we're playing there but apparently it was an open room so we only had the door closed yeah we had the door closed we had other people in there who we didn't know which probably wouldn't have been our choice but that was the way things were rolling and then one of the lovely ladies working behind the bar came and bellowed at us that this was a open room and we couldn't close the door and those sorts of rules that we just didn't know about.

And wiser heads might have tried to find that stuff out first. We probably should have, but we probably weren't thinking along those lines at that point when we first arrived. So something simple might be, like you say, as a simple A5, just saying, here's a quick map, here's the rules for each room. Yeah, because we're not experienced club people. That's unusual for us to choose to go and we haven't been very often, let alone played in them. So you live and learn. Yeah, and I think out of the whole set of things, that's a pretty minor thing to have an issue with.

It was not long after that we decided to move on and went back to someone else's hotel, which was really lovely as well, which was a nice end to the night. The other highlight for me... To the morning. Yeah, well, it ended up being a very late one. Yes, that's true. Thank you.

back to someone else's hotel which was really lovely as well which is a nice end to the night the other highlight for me which the morning yeah well it ended up being a very late one yes that's true and the other bit that I find is a particular highlight which wipes out any slight bit of issue with the bedroom or the room issue was having a lovely younger lady come up to me and say we didn't get to play together and we should do that in the future, which made me go, hell yeah. So that's our quick wrap up. Anything else you wanted to cover in that? No, I don't think so.

So thanks C and D, probably more particularly C because I understand that she did a lot of the work on pulling this together.

It's a massive effort to do from a distance and that's a, you know know the outcome was absolutely amazing and i think there's a whole bunch of people in perth who have now got connections to a whole bunch of other people and probably got stories to tell as well so thanks very much for a great night and a fantastic pub crawl and if we were going to um if if anyone was wondering whether well is it worth it and were you going to do it again well if the opportunity came most definitely we would be on the list to come again. And we travelled a fair way to attend the event. We had a great time.

Yeah, and we'd certainly travel it again. So thanks, C. Thanks, D. Thanks very much. Catch you later. See ya. Hi, I'm Bea. And I'm S. and we're here to tell you about our little adventure we had last week and that was one of many firsts.

So we were lucky enough to go to Perth for the Perth pub crawl that c and d organized which was quite impressive and it was great fun and um the amazing thing for us is we we're queenslanders and i just happened to be working over there for two weeks in southwest western australia and um and then we found this was on and the lions were playing the following day that's right on the sunday and they won by the way and they won which was surprising but um but anyway but on this saturday night on the saturday we um we managed to go on the perth pub crawl but what did we do before that so beforehand we um oh yeah we stayed at the same place that cnd were at and so we um had it caught up with with cnd and also rocket and naughty and also the um s and j from the swinging out west crew and um and i can't remember his name fell from the but he was yeah and he was a lovely fellow but i can't remember his name so i'm sorry about that but um yeah so we we we got we caught up with all our crew and and um and we got to participate in the podcast in the podcast yes that was a first that was one of our firsts and um and so anyways we did all that we turned up upstairs remember everyone else was all glammed up yeah we're all glammed up and here we are el casio and i was there in my birkenstocks and yeah i was there in I made it skirt and very conservative looking.

But it was all, but it was all, it're all glammed up, and here we are, El Cajo. And I was there in my Birkenstocks. Yeah, I was there in my skirt and very conservative-looking. But it was all good, and so we had a great time. And then... We did... Oh, no. What? Rocket and I decided to show our BBs. Oh, yes. That was okay. Oh, yes. Yeah, that sort of broke the ice a bit. Totally appreciated from our end. Yeah. I'm glad.

and um but yeah so so we met the we met all these people and they're all lovely and um and it was kind of like we were kids like i was a kid in a candy shop oh you were definitely a kid in a candy shop and um but anyway the um it was so good putting faces to names yes so all our twitter friends yeah yes so we um so yeah so we did we did all that and we had a nice time and caught up and then we went out on the on the um the pub crawl which is the pub crawl was great fun and so we um that was where it sort of went on a little bit more yeah and we um a lot of meeting and greeting.

A lot of meeting and greeting. A lot of money laundering. A lot of money laundering. Fake money.

a little bit more yeah and we um a lot of meeting and greeting a lot of meeting and greeting a lot of money laundering a lot of money laundering oh yes oh sorry yes that's right i got some i got um yes i got i got miss b over here and um rocket to kiss that was my first little my first little how many times ten times that was my my one party trick and and um i did the party trick yes I know I had the money I had the magic money show me the money and yeah and then yes and so we ended up we're back to the club yes I went to a few different bars and then we end up going to the club which is all fun and then we went to a little room and did what we do had a little play and then um went back to our hotel well no it all sort of started sort of like finished we sort of thought and then naughty said he whispered to me he goes do you want to see if we cannot go back to each one of each other's places and and he went and had a little chat and i had a chat to you and then that was a big first because we've never done that there was a first that was a first it was nice it was really nice i was really good i was a bit i was part i was um i get all excited and got a bit overwhelmed everyone but i was good it was good and it was really lovely they were really lovely so that was nice to do that first yeah lovely people um and what else was and then the following day do we want to talk about the following day already the following day the following day it took about like four days to recover no i'm talking about the football oh oh well you made me walk four kilometers to the stadium and i was a bit sore from the night before but that doesn't matter that was like but it was sore in a nice way it was a nice way yeah so we went to the football and then we had another nice afternoon because our lions beat the dockers which was um surprising but it was also we were there just essentially to see the same stadium yeah that was another first yeah but anyway i um i think we've probably talked enough no i've never talked enough and but anyway so so i want i want to say a big thank you just to cnd it was lovely to meet you both and also to um to naughty rocket as well and and the other guys we we met all the swinging at west crew you know s and j um it was so lovely to put faces to names and everyone was just so friendly yeah and so um so cnd thank you so much for organizing everything and thank you for letting us bring part of your podcast and we hope to see you soon definitely thank you okay bye hey guys it's c here again just real quickly i actually wanted to cover a topic that is a little bit near and dear to my heart i was having a chat to some of our friends over in the states you may know them as the italian couple and i was talking to nick about the reasons why we podcast and i guess you could almost kind of classify this a little bit as a social media buzz section if you really want to and like hold me to my segments but I was chatting to Nick about why why D&I podcast you know really what it means for us to podcast put this out there you know have have our voices out and our opinions out there in the ether and have you know people listening and i guess this kind of came about because there's been a lot of discussion around you know listeners what listeners value in podcasts what people want to hear you know awards for podcasting and participation and and what you know really what you guys get out of it i mean there's so many voices out there there was a recent post on Twitter where someone said, and well, they gave some feedback and they were saying, you know, podcasts these days, they, they're kind of saying the same thing, but in their own flavor.

Another person felt that podcasters, you know, quote unquote, seem to be know-it-alls. You know, really interesting perspectives. And I sat back and I really thought about it. And of course, some of the circumstances surrounding our podcast are our thoughts and our feelings. And some may resonate with some people and not with others, or some may be similar to your journey or completely far and separated from your own journey.

And I guess from my perspective perspective that's one of the values of having such a broad spectrum of voices out there in the world such diverse range of people's opinions because you know whilst one person or one podcast may not be to your journey or your liking or may not resonate with you you're bound to find somebody else out there who really is actually speaking to you and can resonate with you. So I was chatting to Nick about this, you know, D&I and our journey for our podcasting journey has been quite a big one. And yet we keep going.

And really, it came down to having this discussion. I actually made a few notes because it kind of hit me like a bit of a wow factor, but we were talking about, you know, what have we accomplished over the past few years of podcasting?

And for me, it has been a lot, and we have this term, you know, we always say the community, the community, this, the community, that, but to me, to be able to actually be far removed in a country here in Singapore but have friends who I value deeply all over the world, who I could go and stay with at their house no problems, who would lend me money if I needed it, who would be a shoulder to cry on if I needed it. That's kind of what we always say about this whole idea of the community.

But then Nick brought something to my attention and he said, you know, the podcast, you know, is great, fine, but in actual fact, it's everything outside of the podcast that defines why you would continue to do this. And so, you know, we were chatting about this and I was sitting back going, yeah, you know, you're right. And it hit me like a brick. He said that some people may have made friendships out of your podcast. Some people may have attended one of your events and met lifelong friends.

Other people may have learned and attended their own journey or maybe decided what they like or don't like. And so these are the kinds of things that really just, I thought to myself like, yeah, okay, that's, that's actually really interesting. It's not necessarily the podcast in an essence in itself. It's everything else that comes along with it. And, you know, even I was saying to some friends recently, they host events, they host pub crawls too. And I said, really, does it blow your mind that you may have actually connected two people, four people, six people, whatever the case.

And you may have connected people on a level that these people have impacted each other so much that they're going to be friends for the rest of their life or pants on pants off friends, whatever the case may be. And I thought, Jesus, that's just crazy to even think about. So I guess that's just some of my thoughts on why we podcast, why we continue to podcast. But also, interestingly, one of our fellow podcasters just actually today, Normalizing Non-Monogamy, posted up about a podcast they'd been listening to. And this lady's called Paula Pant. She does this podcast called Afford Anything.

And a particular episode that Finn was sharing was about being able to be authentic.

And Dee and I talk about this a lot, how to remain authentic, how to give our opinion and be authentic, but also give our opinion in a way that's not in your face, that's not suggesting that our opinion is the only opinion or the right way to go about swinging or joining the lifestyle or non-monogamy or the vanilla life or whatever it may be and in this episode Paula describes three things about authenticity and a few of them I mean these are really super interesting but one of them resonated with me and I kind of just wanted to share it because I know that you know a lot of our listeners you are in some way creating something in your everyday life maybe through your work maybe you're writing maybe you're blogging.

It could be anything that you're out there doing. And one of the items that she says is you're responsible for what you do. You're not responsible for how you're viewed. And that resonated with me because of this whole post the other day about, you know, podcasters being know-it-alls. And I thought, it hit me. I thought, wow, that's, that's kind of terrible. I, gosh, I hope people don't really think that podcasters think they know it all, because I know everybody is, is genuinely just telling their story and in the hope that it, that it may help, I guess, even just one person.

I know that's why, that's why we started, we were like, if we get you know thinks that we can help them that's amazing and so I was sitting there thinking about it a little bit glum like this is a bit crappy if if if that's really how this this podcasting community is viewed that you know we're these know-it-alls and then I thought well hold on a second you do need to remain authentic you need to have an opinion and a but at the same time, respect other people's opinions and respect other people's voices.

And so you don't alter your own, but certainly, you know, you do put it out there in a manner that that is respectful without seeming like this, this know-it-all. So I really liked that you're responsible for what you do. You're not responsible for how you're viewed. And, uh, and so, yeah, that's something that I just wanted to kind of catch up with you all about and chat about. And thank you so much, everybody for writing in recently. We've had some really amazing emails. I want to shout out real quick to two, uh, new unicorns, hopefully to the lifestyle scene in Sydney, A and S.

Now I've been emailing with these girls backwards and forwards. They're going to actually go to an Our Secret spot, meet and mingle, I hope soon, and dip their toes into the non-monogamy lifestyle as unicorns in Sydney. So I'm super, super excited for that. And also don't forget, I mentioned it earlier in this episode, we do have already a few interviews underway, but Dee and I are releasing what we hope to be a really special segment. And we want to share and showcase how cultural diversity and sexual diversity happen in different countries.

And we're going to get really into the nitty gritty. We actually have a interview coming up that we're going to record this Sunday. We'll launch it in about two weeks time. And this is with a Kiwi mannequin who is quite the little kinkster. And the reason we want to interview him is because we want to bring flavor to the podcasting community, to the listeners out there, to help you kind of branch and grow and understand how different cultures approach sexuality, how different cultures approach sex in general.

You know, we talk a lot about how you would lose your virginity at what age you know what religion plays into how you feel about yourself how do you look in the mirror and see yourself and look at you know your pussy for example and think yes it's beautiful and i'm beautiful or some cultures don't even look at themselves and haven't even masturbated or used toys and these types of things. Some people grew up in really conservative lifestyles. Other people grew up in very open lifestyle, very open families where they do talk a lot about sex. And so we really wanted to bring that flavor out.

And so we are looking for people all around the world. And we're hoping for a lot of cultural diversity here. So if you are born in something that you think would be interesting for other people to know about, religion, whatever it might be, any country around the world, of course, we do only speak English. So I apologize. It would need to be in English that we'd have a chat, but please do send us an email on cnd at swingingdownunder.com.

And we'd love to email and interview you overpe and we'll talk about anything that you're comfortable with but please help us to showcase you know your beautiful culture to the rest of the world and how that's impacted your sexual exposure and sexual experiences we really want to do that and guys of course as always please do try and follow us on twitter if you're there at Swing Down Under. And of course, please do rate us on any of the feedback locations, ratings where you actually have downloaded this podcast on any of your podcast catchers. Of course, iTunes is there for you as well.

And we always appreciate the heck out of those. So thank you again for listening. This is C from Swinging Down Under. I just wanted to kind of throw that last segment in there as a little bit of a nugget of surprise. I really appreciate you listening. Have a great day, guys. Bye.