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This is a super sexy pod about a swingers mingle night in Sydney followed by a visit to Our Secret Spot with some play in the bondage cage, the sex swing and a fun few hours swapping with a very sexy couple. We really enjoyed sharing this with you and hope that you enjoy listening.… Read more
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This is C. And this is Dee. And this is Swinging Down Under. Well, guys, it's been a little while. It has been. Sorry about the delay on the next podcast for those of you who are listening and have been asking us on Facebook and Twitter, where is the next podcast? Yeah, we've been having a lot of fun. Yeah, that's true. Sorry about that. Sorry you've become secondary to our fun. Don't tell them that. They'll start listening. Nobody listens to us anyway. It doesn't matter. We've got like Two followers. We do. And shout out. To the two. Yeah. So what are we up to? Podcast seven today?
Podcast seven. Correct. Fantastic. This is actually, I must say, this is a really exciting and very, very sexy podcast. It is. There's a lot that we're going to cover off on this podcast. It was a very big, big evening. Yeah. So we may be, we normally aim for sort of the 45 minute range. I think this time around we're going to be up around the hour, hour and 15. We'll try to maybe squidge it. Squidge it? I don't think we should. I think this is a non-squidgeable episode. We'll see how we go anyway. So tonight we're talking about a mingle that we attended here in Sydney.
So just basically for swingers and couples to meet outside of a club. No strings attached, just to have a bit of fun and a bit of conversation. Yeah, get to know each other. And it's a newbies event, really, to allow people to get...
to get together well it didn't only have newbies but I think it is a newbies event because it allows people to actually get together and have a chat without the pressures of feeling like they're in a club and having and then that same sensation that we first experienced was oh my god if we go to a club that means we're going to have to put out yeah there's the expectation there but this was this was really good and actually this was the first of its kind they're now doing them monthly it's actually put on by our secret spot our favorite club here in Sydney yeah and it's It's a great concept and really good turnout on the first one.
I think they've done one or two since then. And great evening. We had so much fun. Really interesting talking to all the other people and I guess what their interests were because some of them were into bondage and they would normally only go to bondage clubs. But this evening, you know, we got to talk to them too. Exactly. Actually, one of the funniest things, and we actually don't have this in our notes here, is what C actually... I was talking to a couple at the bar, a sexy couple. You were just chatting away, introducing yourself, being your normal bubbly self.
And you remember later on that evening when we arrived in the club. They were there. They were actually there. And they couldn't find the meet and greet group. And they didn't want to ask anybody because they were concerned they might out themselves as swingers. Hence why it's important to wear a black ring. Yeah, wear your black ring. You know, the signal of being a swinger. So we've got ours. We wear them. Actually, we wear them every day. Yeah. Look out for that. Thanks to the Swap Foo's for that. That's the podcast that I listen to.
C hasn't listened to this, but I listen to it to get an idea of, well, I mean, you know, we've got a few people around that have been around this a lot longer than us. So it's quite cool to pick up some tips along the way. Absolutely. So if you see us out in a cafe, notice our black rings, please do buy us a coffee. Or... Or chat a little more and perhaps... Come up and introduce yourself. Why not? Perhaps there might be some fun involved. You never know. So that, I guess, sort of sets the scene for the evening. It is, as I mentioned, a pretty sexy event. We have a lot of fun here.
We actually, after the mingle, we head into the club. Yeah, I mean, we need to set a bit of a scene here because we had a couple that we'd met, or not met, but... chatted to on RHP who actually came along to the Mingle, which was good because we knew a couple there and they were a sexy pair who we'd chatted to quite a lot, we'd actually spoken with. So yeah, they came along to the event and we chatted with them for a while at the meet and greet as well before we headed off to our secret spot or OSS for the rest of the sexy evening. Yeah.
So to backtrack about the Mingle, I think there was probably 20 people, would you say? I'd say probably more like 15 couples, so 30 people total. Yep, great. It was in a really trendy bar upstairs near the club, actually, called Hazy Rose, and that was quite trendy, quite funky. It had velvet couches. The guys behind the bar, obviously... Obviously, I had moustache and that sort of thing. Well, I mean, it's a requirement to be behind a bar these days. Be trendy. You've got to have a moustache. Yeah, or some sort of facial hair. Facial hair, yeah. Facial hair is very important.
Yeah, it absolutely is. I think they were wearing Hawaiian shirts. So dimly lit, quite a kind of a sexy atmosphere, or the potential to be a sexy. It's a 50s sexy atmosphere. Yeah. You know, velvet, dudes with moustaches, pouring cocktails. Absolutely. What was I wearing? Actually, I was wearing my... kind of black fake leather pants and I think a crop top. Yeah. Sans bra, Sans panties. Yeah. Yeah. And surprisingly, what was I in? You were in jeans, a shirt and a lovely jacket. Jeans, shirt and a jacket. Standard. The staple go-to for guys.
Again, anyone out there listening, we are still looking for a lingerie for men. Yes. To this point, it doesn't, and I might add, it's not allowed to be tacky lingerie for men. I don't want an elephant trunk out the front of my underpants. No, that's just nasty. So back to the couples. Do you remember any details on the couples? Yeah, there were, I suppose we got to chatting to probably, well, there were three couples. There was an additional couple who was like getting blood from a stone. I don't know whether you remember those. Yeah, I remember those.
So they were really new, really uber nervous. They're about to get married I think in three or four weeks. Yeah and they were so terrified of the whole event and even just sitting down you know offered the male of the couple a chair a number of times and he just wouldn't sit down because he was freaking out. Yeah. But we ended up chatting to those guys later in the evening and they relaxed into it a little bit. A little bit yeah we tried to include everybody when we made people feel comfortable.
Yeah there were three other couples that we sat and spoke with and I had a very sexy young lady beside me with her husband beside her. I mean, they weren't newbies. That was the Bondage couple, wasn't it? Yeah, they were the Bondage guys. So they'd only ever played at Hellfire here in Sydney, which is a B&D club that C and I have not yet attended. I'm sure we'll get there at some point, but not right now. Although we'll talk a little bit more about the B&D, maybe C's a little more interested than she used to be. Yeah, we'll talk about that later in this podcast, actually. Yeah, absolutely.
There was actually another, I'm going to say two couples that were fairly sexy and interesting. There was also another lady there who held events here in Sydney. Absolutely. And the other two couples, and out of those couples, I think one of them called Party People. Correct. And they also hold parties here in Sydney as well. So quite an interesting and eclectic group, I would say. Yeah. So very sexy conversations. Yeah. So it was all the way from brand, brand newbies to people that have been involved in this to the point where they've been organising parties for the last 10 years.
Yeah, absolutely. Which was good. So it was a nice... And, of course, our illustrious hosts. Oh, yeah, absolutely. The owners of Our Secret Spot. Of Our Secret Spot. Sexy and gorgeous as always. Yeah, absolutely. Thank you. She was wearing that black Kitten D'Amore skirt with kind of a slit-up side. Yeah, that was sexy. Damn. Yeah. Yeah, that was nice. She's a petite little thing. She is. She's such a little petite, gorgeous girl. Absolutely. So the evening kicks on. Our friends, R and A, as we said, we'd been talking to them and they actually decided to make it.
Probably should stipulate R is the. Yes. Of the couple. And A is the man. Yes, absolutely. They turned up probably, what, an hour into the event. They'd actually fly. Remember, they flew back from Melbourne just for the event. Yeah. Sorry, did I cut you off? Not at all. So, yeah, they were actually in Melbourne. A was there on work. I think they both were. No, R had flown down for the weekend. Oh. And they organised flights back. because they knew that we were at this event, which was really cool. Way to make us feel special, guys. Oh, yeah. High five on the special.
So from there, we headed off. Sorry, after chatting to those guys for about an hour, the party sort of slowed down there a little bit and we ended up... People started leaving. Yeah, dwindling. Well, people started wandering off to various places, but a lot of the people that were there actually ended up at a... at OSS, which was good. Actually, a bit of detail here. We were all sitting on the same couch together across from the newbie couple, the four of us, but we were intermingling, so I think it was yourself. It was boy-girl, boy-girl. Yeah, with opposite partners.
And, you know, there was like a bit of caressing and leg-touching happening. And I got up to go get some drinks and then decided it was probably a good idea at this point to get some shots, a round of shots as well. Mm-hmm. And I remember the look on the newbies' faces at this point and probably the rest of the bar because it's kind of like, hold on a second, weren't you with her and he was with her earlier and now you guys are not sitting next to you? Yeah, because there was a couple behind. Remember there was a couple behind?
Yeah, there was a group of three people behind where we were sitting. It was hilarious. Talking about us. They were talking about us and they're like pointing at you and pointing at me and trying to figure out, well, no, but she came in with him and it was, yeah, that was great. It was pretty funny. It's pretty funny. But I remember the look of awe on the kneebees' faces. They were, like, a bit disturbed. A bit like we looked the first time we saw another couple touching another couple. Also, they were like, you should see that they thought it was sexy.
You know, and that, I don't know, it was just funny kind of seeing that progression of, actually, we might be interested in this. You know, there was that, I don't know whether we are, but now that's pretty sexy. Well, it started with, no, no, we won't even sit with you guys. And then it finished with, We're actually enjoying this conversation. And we're a little sexed up about it. Yeah. Well, if nothing else, they left with that for the evening. They did. Had a bit of fun, hopefully, at home, together. I'm sure they did. I know we always do. We always do, absolutely.
So I guess we headed into the club after this. We did, absolutely. So let's just... It was raining, I do recall. It was raining. And we do like it, well, we like it when it's cold out because the club has a really nice hot spa. Actually, it's heated well in general because obviously if you're going to get naked around the place, then you want some good heating. So even in the hallways near the bar area. Yeah, there's like those electric bar heater things from the ceiling that just, yeah, for you they're okay. For those out there who haven't seen the photo of me, which is probably all of you.
You're tall. I'm 6'2", or 185 for those of you who are in the world of metric, and I'm bald. When I walk under those bar heaters, I feel like my brain is about to spontaneously combust. But actually, this probably leads on to, I know I'm getting a little bit ahead of things here because we didn't get into the spa very early, but we need to talk about appropriate spa temperature. Did we actually get in the spa? I don't think we did. No, I don't think we did. I feel like we did bondage room, pole, swing. Yes. Sex. Good point, yeah. But let me cover this off. Side note, side note.
Yeah, appropriate spa temperature. Got to be careful at spa. Last, it may not have been this event, but last time I got into the spa, I distinctly remember getting to sort of testicular... Boiling point. Level. No, testicle level, going into water... and then feeling like the eggs were going to boil. I was going to come out with hard-boiled eggs. So, yeah, the spa was set rather high. I think it was 45 degrees or something. Too high, guys. Too high. It's a hard one, actually. Like, what is the acceptable temperature? I think 40 – I feel 45 is too high. Okay.
When you – when C can only spend 10 minutes in a hot spa – It's too hot. Yeah, because I love heat. I mean, you'll spend 45 minutes in a sauna. Oh, yeah. Bring it. Yeah, screw that. So I think at this point, I remember us dressing down. So I think at this point we're probably in, actually we were. I was in my Wicked Weasel set. Yeah. I believe. And R, so the female of the other couple. C. Excuse me. R. R, yes. Yeah. Yeah. My bad. She dressed down as well into her panties and bras. Lingerie and her bra.
And we were showing them, you know, we were talking a little bit and there's a little bondage play area. Little bondage cell. Let's call it a bondage cell. Yeah, a bondage cell at OSS. And I said to R&A, have you guys ever, you know, had some time in there or ever done anything like this? And we had only just recently dabbled and... And you hated it. And I said, you know, you should give it a go. Let's, you know, see if you like it or not. Of course, the owner of OSS. Who we're going to call the law. We're calling him the law.
He's more than happy to kind of show people how to tie ropes, how to, you know, use the paddle, use the whip, you know, the wrist action. He's a spectacular rope tyre. He's very good at it. He is. Yeah, they're very pretty knots. And also, so the knots are sexy but also tight, you know, so they're... And also low strain in terms of, you know, it's not one rope around wrist. There'll be five or six loops of a rope, which means it's not going to dig in and hurt unless, of course, you want it to. Yeah. So we invited him in to, I guess, show... He's got to keep saying the law. The law.
So we invited the law in to help us, you know, show... a little bit about the cross. So she was bound on the cross. I think it's called a St John's cross. People, you may correct me on this, but I think that's what it's called. Okay, yeah. So she hops on and the law is showing A, you know, the wrist flick. Oh, no, how to bind. Did she get, she got bound, wrist bound. So the law showed A, how to wrist bind first. Yeah. And then all about the different whips and paddles. Mm-hmm. Now, you've gone through the training on this from the law. How did you go? The law has given me the training.
So I think it was the last event or maybe the one before where C and I, C actually put herself up there. And this is not something that you had even remotely thought of as sexy, but you got invited, I think, by the law to get up there. I think it was probably one of those things where I thought, I don't want to rule this out. Give it a shot. I probably thought, hey, you know, I might not like it, but let's give it a go. We haven't tried that. Let's try it. Do you know what he did teach me? It's all about the subtlety and the softness followed by the crack of a whip or paddle.
It's all about, even with a cat of nine, the sensuality of actually dragging that across the body followed by a quick whip. Nothing really painful, just a spurt, I suppose, of intensity at the end of something that's really sensual and soft. So yeah, he gave me the full, well, not the full, but I went through the rope tying, the wrist binding, and then the learning of how to whip and sensually caress with a whip and a paddle. And then he also showed the inner thigh, the inner thigh whip, which I'm sure you might want to explain this soon because you hated it.
Well, it does go back to that sensual touching. So, you know, the whip's getting kind of, you know, dragged up and down your arms, maybe a little bit on your back down to your lower back, a little bit over your butt and which is obviously naked. So it's very soft and sensual and tender. And then, you know, there's little light whippings So the circular motion of the wrist, kind of a little bit of little flicks. Tap. It's called that rotary whipping. Okay, tap. Yeah. And then a little bit of central and then a little flick.
And generally the law is quite good at flicking on the inner thigh just beneath. Just beneath your pussy. Sorry, it's pretty amazing actually. He's very good at it. I thought I was pretty good as well. You were good, yeah, for your first time. Oh, my God. For my first time, I'm now a virgin again. This is awesome. I've not been a virgin again for like 20 plus years. Stop eyeballing me. So he was showing this sort of same way to do things to one to A. And A was, you know, I guess definitely his first time, but he was a little bit freaked out about hurting R as well, I believe.
I was actually kind of getting involved because it was fun, mainly. And you'd not been on that end? Yes, that's right. I hadn't actually delivered. I'd only been on the receiving end. So I also had a bit of a schooling from the law and A and myself kind of worked on R up on the cross. And I have to say, she was quite enjoying that. Well, actually, because A stopped for a little while, he wandered around because you can get to the back of this cross. Or the front of it. In front of it, yeah. Sorry, the other side, the front of it. And he was actually... Kissing and touching.
He went around and kissing and started touching. Oh, that's right. And I was on the paddle. Tweaking nipples and playing with clitoris and things. Yeah. Doing all the right things. Doing all the right things that she thoroughly enjoyed combined with you whipping her as well. Yep, yep. She did enjoy that. And then I hopped on and kind of the reversal of that. So I think that... Probably you, Dee, were involved with R. I actually, I've got to say, I'll let R. She was taken there? Just her, yeah.
Because I think I came around again to the front of you and gave you some kissing and nipple tweaking. And you've forgotten that bit because you're too much enjoying getting webbed. It was fun. I have to say, super fun and exciting for everyone. We all learned something new and we all got to experience something new. Yes, and thank you to the law. for introducing us to that because I think that's going to become not a standard part of our experiences but it's certainly going to be. Certainly something that I'm glad that we tried.
Yeah, and I think a little light B&D will be something we're interested in future as well. Yeah. Certainly you are from what I've seen. Yeah, I've seen it. It was fun. Great night. So the next thing is actually something that is... Really, really new. You may remember from some of our previous podcasts that I've done a little bit of dancing on the pole for Dee and the occasional audience that tends to be walking past at the time. But at this point, both R and myself are naked.
And so we walk out from the bondage cell to the kind of mingling area where there's some seats in there surrounding a pole. And R and I start to dance on the pole. Yeah, absolutely, and it was really, really sexy. And again, you were offering some advice to R in terms of how to make it sexy, and I was sitting there talking with A, and he and I were both in agreeance as to how sexy you both were dancing together, and I think there was a little bit of kissing. Later on, we were probably only 15, 20 minutes.
Yeah, it was a while, but there was a little bit of kissing, a little bit of breast play, nothing... south of the border. And I've never danced naked on a pole before, especially not in front of people. I think Hara went and sat down for a little bit and then it was just me dancing on the pole. Yeah, and we were just watching. I was kind of up on the pole doing some kind of the leg opening moves and things like that, which was really, really new for me. I thought I'd be more freaked out than I was actually. I thought I'd be a bit more concerned.
And I'm sitting over here right now reliving this thinking my goodness God, it was so sexy. I mean, C is just such an amazing looking girl and you throw her on a pole naked. I mean, it's a room stopper. It really is. And it was amazing. It really was. I think it was other people looking. Yeah, there were people sat down. I don't really remember because what happens is when I'm doing this, it's all about the people that I'm doing that for. So most of the time it's me and I'm focusing on D only. That's all I'm focusing on. Whereas in this instance, I was obviously focusing on D, R and A.
You get into a zone. Yeah, because I'm not, that's what I'm, I'm trying to be sexy for you, you know. Well, I mean, it's one of those things you have to direct it, don't you? You can't have undirected, because then it's just any, any strip club then. Yeah, that's true. If it's undirected. But yes, so I think, so R and C were back up on the pole. R decided, had decided to join you again. And A and I were sitting there chatting and it got, it was, again, we were very sexed up at this point. And I think you, well, yeah, C actually said, do you guys want to head upstairs?
And it was quite funny because A and I were talking and as soon as we both heard that and the response from both of us was yes, within a fraction of a second. It was yes, but there was a head Head nodding. Oh, yeah, yes, yes. Like vigorous head nodding. Vigorous head nodding. Yes. Let's go upstairs. Actually, I think R and I both laughed when that happened. Because it was hilarious. I think they came to go upstairs. And for those listening too, what we mean by upstairs is upstairs is the play areas. So that's where the rooms are, the group play, those sorts of things.
Yeah, so the invite upstairs was one of the funniest parts of the evening for me, actually, because it was... It was so vigorous. The yes was just, it was an instant vigorous response. It's hilarious. So we then proceeded upstairs to, there's a large room which has a bed, a swing, a sex swing, and a couch to watch, to watch the sex swing or the action on the sex swing or on the bed, I suppose. But at this point, I had never been on a swing. No. And A had never played with her on a swing, if I remember correctly. It's a fun room anyway. It's a very fun room.
So we decided, I think, so we got upstairs and because A had never been on a swing, that was the first place that she went. I think we kind of put her there from memory. Yeah, we sort of said, look, which room do you want to go in? There is a private room where the door can be closed and you wouldn't open the door if it's closed because that means that... are in there playing but don't necessarily want to be watched. There's another room where the swing is where the door is actually locked open. So it's bolted open and that's where the sex swing is. So we gave them the option.
We said, you know, which rooms do you want to play in? We haven't really mentioned here that R and A are actually, this was I think their first event, wasn't it? Second event. They were even newer than They were newer than us. Yeah. Yeah. So we were, I mean, realistically, like you said, we gave them the choice of one or the other. Well, actually, we kind of offered ourselves that choice as well. Yeah. I think we all just agreed that the swing room was the better way to go. The swing room was the better way to go. Yeah. I mean, I'm an exhibitionist as well, so I don't know people watching.
It's fun. You know, learn something. Again, try something new. So this was... A night of new again, so quite a lot of things to learn. So we head into the room and the boys had to strip down. So one of the rules of going upstairs is that the boys need to strip down. So they were in towels. And we head in the room. The first thing we do when we walk into the room, so R and A lay on the bed and we decide we're going to have a bit of fun on the swing together.
One of the things we like to do is Whenever we play, I guess, or the opportunity to play with anyone else, we tend to try and play together first just to spend a bit of time together. And so the swing for us was an obvious great option. We tend to start and finish with each other. Yeah. As a general rule. As a general rule, yeah. So we jump on the swing and, you know, two things are happening here. We're spending a bit of time together, obviously having some sex, some amazing sex. But then also being exhibitionist, a little bit infuriated.
front of RNA to kind of show them how the swing is best operated, but also just to kind of get everyone in the mood and just sort of testing how everyone feels about potential play together. So for those of you who, and look, I'll be honest, I've not seen, well, I've not really seen a sex swing that many times before this evening or before getting into this lifestyle. A sex swing is literally what it sounds like. So the lady puts her bum on a swing just like a normal everyday school swing.
But the glorious thing about a sex swing is it's got two foot stirrups, which the lady puts her feet into, which spreads her legs perfectly either side of the man or of whoever's in there. So if you haven't seen one, guys, have a Google. I really enjoy it for a couple of reasons. The first one is obviously I get to have sex with C. But the other is that it's very powerful for the man because realistically the lady has not a lot of control other than how they're positioned on the swing in terms of time or penetration movement or anything like that.
It's really up to the guy to control whether the lady swings out and back or whether he thrusts in and back. It's really cool. Yeah, and obviously a lot of people don't have the option of bolting a swing to their roof if they're renting or they're stealing. So being able to go into a club and actually have a turn on a swing is new and different. And pretty cool. Yeah, there's actually a crossbow bit on top as well. So you can have a little bit of thrusting as a woman if you kind of... You can hang on to the handle on top. Yeah, and you can kind of move yourself backwards and forwards.
So we actually played on that for... for a little bit and then sort of said, you know, you guys should have a go. It's fun. And they certainly did. So A put R on the swing. Well, you actually started putting R on the swing and then you said to A, what are you doing? Get over here. Help your woman get on this swing, if I remember correctly. Yeah, that was pretty funny. Yeah. And then they proceeded to, or A proceeded to start fucking... R on the swing as well. Which, by the way, she loves the swing. In fact, she talks about it often. She does. Fond memories of the swing.
Fond memories of the swing, yeah. So we're sitting on the bed now watching and it's all getting very steamy at this point, as I'm sure you can imagine. Neither of those two, well, I would say that R is probably somewhat exhibitionist, but neither of them are full-on exhibitionists. They're probably on the same level as me, I would say. Yeah, versus me who is, yeah, run around nude everywhere. Yeah. So we then, so after a little bit, well, after a little while of that, those guys sort of looked back over to the bed and ended up moving back over the bed.
C and I were, you know, playing with each other on the bed. I'm pretty sure at this point I was playing with you, Clit, and you had a hand on me somewhere, which was exciting to do whilst watching those guys. And, um, they came on over and I don't know how really to describe where we ended up from here. It just ended up as entwined sex is what our note is because it was... I don't really remember. I mean, I think that I... Oh, no, I do. Both of the boys were on the bottom and both of the ladies were on top.
I remember that because we were both at that stage kind of spending a bit of time with our partners and, but also touching each other. Yeah, that's right. That's how it kind of kicked off. Now, I have learnt that... If there's a group of people that are entwined, it's called a puppy pile. Okay. Thank you again to the other podcasters out there in the world for supplying me with that information. Telling you what it is after you've done it. Now, I'm not sure whether a puppy pile means that it's just a group of four or it's more, but I'm learning along the way. Probably have a Google.
Well, I would, but my work phone might. I'm not sure that I want to do that on my work phone right now. So that's kind of. how we kicked off you know we started kind of touching on each other enjoying each other then actually you and I stopped and it was just R and A were you got involved with we all did no no but I stepped back for a bit and I was kind of sitting on the sidelines and you were involved with there was two you and A were on R yes I wasn't getting involved from a perspective of you know in inserting anything anywhere.
I was just kissing her, touching her, touching her breast, being very sensual with her whilst he was fucking her. So quite a good sensation for her. And then you joined in as well. So it was basically three of us paying attention to R. Because I asked both yourself and A whether I could kiss on R. And obviously her as well. And her, sorry. Possibly the most important person to ask. Yeah. So I asked the group. Let's say I asked the group. Yeah. It was because it was only one sentence and everybody nodded.
Actually, it may have been a nod or it may have just been the thrusting made him look like he nodded, but either way. So we ended up, yeah, all of us on R. And that kind of almost defines the rest of the evening, really, doesn't it? Because I think after us fucking... And you came with me, this is before we'd sort of gotten to this point, I believe you, do you remember? Yeah, I came on the swing. Yes. And then again with you. Yeah. But I think by then, so the, unfortunately at that point, C was a little tired. Yes. A little sore. A little tender, let's just say. A little tender.
So we were all tired. on R and at this point they went out for a bit of a chat. No, it was quite funny. Remember, they're non-smokers. No, she has the occasional cigarette. The occasional cigarette. But it was really funny because I said, we're just, actually she stood up sort of mid-play and said, all right, we're going for a smoke. And A doesn't smoke at all. You can't really, it'd be a bit bizarre for him to stay in the room with us sitting around. No, no, but it was pretty cute because the reason they did that was to go out and have a conversation So they went out and had a conversation.
So I called it the random smoke break. Like mid-play. We're mid-play, we're just going for a cigarette. No cigarettes were had, I might add. I really don't know. Well, I do because I was kissing on her after that. So I know that no cigarettes were had. True. During this time we were having a chat as well. Yeah, absolutely. We sort of said, you know, this is where I acknowledged I'm a little bit tired, a little bit sore, you know. So you were out of play from there on in, in terms of anything vaginal. Internal, yeah. So that was me done. And we said, you know... Poor little kitty.
Do we want to have, you know, is it cool? Are we happy with this? Because this was actually your first, our first time where Dee would be... With another woman. With another woman. So this was, you know... A pretty decent deal, but very, very comfortable. It's a big deal. But we were extraordinarily comfortable with this couple. Hugely comfortable. Really, actually, we've been trying to catch up with these guys since this event. And we are. We're actually catching up next Friday. Next Friday.
We were really excited about it because we thought for a while there that they'd actually, you know, that they weren't going to catch up with us again, and it was really disappointing for us. It'd be fine, but disappointing. But they... the reason we felt so comfortable was that it was just, they're great people and we really get along with them. They're funny, they're intelligent, they're sexy and so they're all the good things and we really feel like you could actually, you could be friends. And also they stop when they wanted to chat. They said, we're stopping, we're going to have a chat.
Which was really cool for us and also we got to debrief. When we, before we did the, before we got to the point of swapping, we actually, sat there as a group and really discussed I mean literally we spent 10 minutes figuring out what was okay and what wasn't which was really cool for us and for them.
Totally normal conversation so it wasn't just a can this person do that and a head nod they arrived back into the room we discussed it clearly they sort of talked about it and you actually and I said you know look we're talking for a bit talking about how fun it was I think by this stage we had a little bit of a drink as well because it was getting a bit Yeah, well we had a drink of water, we did, we had a drink of water while that went. We were about an hour interplay. The longer, it was about an hour and a half, hour and 45.
Interplay, right, so you would have a little break and we're saying like, oh this is, you know, this is heaps of fun and then I bring up the subject and I say, look, you know, we were talking about this and, you know, RNA, would you be comfortable with D being with R? And, you know, what would... Because, sorry, yeah, and you're forgotten to mention it and I actually interrupted you there and said, oh guys, there's a reason that C doesn't want to be involved is because she's a little tender. Because we hadn't told them that yet. Yeah.
And there was the, yeah, we think we're okay with that and we're interested in it. So that was a pretty big deal, as we said. I mean, I'll let you talk about R, but basically A and I were at this point sitting sort of up on the top of the bed. against the wall naked obviously and just basically sitting closely together and touching on each other. A little bit, not a lot. I think A was a little nervous at that point because we'd mentioned that you were tender and I don't think he really wanted to go near the kitty in case he adds to the damage. Probably.
So as C mentioned, C and A were at the bed head and I was laying across the bed with me as well across the bed. Now, being that this was the first time that I had been with a woman in front of the sea, I actually grabbed her hand and asked her to look at me because I wanted to be sure that it was okay with what was about to happen. I wasn't about to leave my mind. Yeah, and flip out. start punching people, you know, just punching on.
But so, yeah, I wanted to be sure because, again, and I'll stress this to anyone who's new to this, ourselves included, who are still new to this, it's so important to me. You know, I've found the love of my life here. There is nothing that I wouldn't give up to keep C forever happy in my life. So, you know, I was really concerned about her at this point as well. So a lot of people talk about, you know, communication being key and people talk about communication before and perhaps after. We also find communication during is really just little check-ins.
They can be, you know, something as simple as a, you know, you might look at your partner from across the room and give them like the head knob and eyebrow raise to say like, are you good? Or a wink or something. Yeah. And that's really important as well. And sometimes I've actually, I've said to you like, ooh, I'm not so sure, you know. And that's really kind of key to making sure that everybody feels comfortable and is having fun.
See, again, to my podcasting, to our podcasting friends out there, you've really given me some insight into how to deal with that during play because we sort of don't want, you don't want to interrupt play by stopping every time. You know, every time you want to ask a question, you stop. So you get to the point of understanding some squeezes and some head nods and some eye winks. Body language. Body language. And I've known C for a long time now. So I can understand that non-verbal communication in a lot of instances.
But let me be really frank here is when it comes to something very important, like me, first time ever putting myself inside another woman, there was a verbal, are you okay with this? And the verbal response. response from C was yes. Yeah, that's right. Because when it comes to big events, it's like we need to be sure that this is going to work out and not damage our relationship. Anyway, back to the sexy stuff. We've now covered off the moral interlude on what was happening in the room.
So, yeah, I was laying in front of me looking dead sexy with her legs apart and I've gotten the okay from C. So I basically slip into her in the, just in the missionary position to start. And we were going at it for a while and I think then I came down. We were, again, kind of, it was a similar situation as to before where I actually started touching on R and just kind of getting myself involved as well, which was interesting. You need to be involved.
I mean, as a, couple we need we both need to be involved in not all the time like I was sitting back and watching for a bit but it's also really sensual I mean I must say for a woman sexy as hell when you are having people centre of attention you've got somebody fucking you which is fine but then to have another woman come over and be sensually touching you you know really beautifully on your skin and kind of on your breasts and stuff it's sexy like I know that I enjoy it and I can damn well tell you that I was having an app absolute ball at this point. She was enjoying it.
She was, absolutely. Again, kind of getting the attention and also having that kind of sexy female touch. Yeah, and I think then, sorry, you were right, you joined first and then I think A... I think I said, come over here and help with your woman. So yeah, so he came down and started kissing, deeply kissing R as well. So A and R at this point were sort of getting quite involved and... You kind of... Yeah, and A was hard again at this point. So he, I actually said, you know, I said it's time for you to get him back involved with your woman again.
So I pulled out, he came back around and he continued fucking R and he was doing an extraordinarily good job of it by the sounds of it.
And I'm going to throw an estimate out there and I'm not great at whether a woman's actually faking it or really coming but I'm pretty sure she was I'm going to say there was like five or six throughout the evening throughout the evening for R five or six she seemed to be having a good time and then they went into doggy style at the end of the bed and at this point we actually we moved to the couch we were watching from the couch and I ended up getting on the bed but slipping underneath R so doggy style A was obviously behind and I was on all fours and I got underneath her and was just kind of like legs around and just kissing and touching.
There was nothing, no kind of insertion, just having some fun, a little bit of play, trying to... You were playing at a clit as well. Trying to kind of enrich her experience. And you did. And mine, because that was also quite sexy. Absolutely. So she, yeah, because she came again and when...
within like seconds of you getting under a really sexy what happened next though was unexpected that was me coming around yeah so yeah you weren't expecting that were you and this was something that actually you didn't like you weren't happy about this only because I didn't know what was going on yeah we've discussed this since and sort of settled the so what I mean by the unexpected was the unexpected rather is that A kind of tapped out and he said... Well, he came. I was like, I'm tired. It was pretty damn sexy. You've got her in the dog, you underneath. You can see you.
You can feel you touching her. I can't blame him. I certainly wouldn't have been able to stand out for a long time. So you tap in and start doing her from behind. And as I said before, this happened within seconds.
and I didn't see any of the lead up or understand what was going on so the next thing I knew is that he was fucking her dog style and I just went whoa you know I didn't have a huge I didn't have a problem with it the thing was that I didn't it was kind of left field for me because I was under her I didn't see any of the conversation that was happening behind the scenes and I also made I suppose probably the incorrect assumption that if it happened once it was I was able to I was able to assumed that I could just do it again, which wasn't really correct. It's also not wrong at the same time.
No. It was just the fact that I was underneath this cove of R and you guys were having these conversations behind her that I didn't see anything. Not to say that it wasn't still really, really sexy. Well, I actually, I mean, it was sexy for you. I can absolutely attest to that because I reached down to touch you and you were just Very, very wet. I don't know how long that bit went on for. Me? Yeah. It would have been probably 10 or 15, I would say. And at this point, again, we all stop for some water because we're hours into play at this point in time.
Yeah, it'd be two and a half hours at this point. I'm going to say it's three in the morning? Yeah, 3 a.m., 3.30. And we kind of go, yeah, that's play done for the evening, but the event didn't stop. there. We sat around on the bed for I'm going to say a good 15 minutes. No longer than that. It was within half hour 45. Just having a chat. Because we didn't leave until nearly 4 o'clock. That's right yeah. And we just spoke you know we were just talking about what a great night it's been. Really again really relaxed really comfortable.
And also digging into whether everybody was comfortable with what happened. And how everyone what everyone liked as well. Like we sat there and said you know I really enjoyed this or you know those kinds things and just kind of recapped on. It was just fun and so relaxed. So relaxed. Which was a bit of a surprise to us, I think. Yeah. But we've since found, and we actually had a really sexy interlude yesterday that we'll talk about in an upcoming podcast. But yeah, we found now that there's a lot of comedy involved in this. Yeah. You've got to have fun. Well, you have to because...
comedic things happen. Like, for example, a man will be mid-fucking and he'll go, oh, well, penis has decided that he's not really into this right now and he's just going to go... So comedic things happen. So you've got to be able to stand up and say, yep, just gone soft. Sorry about that. Can anybody else help me out here? And, yeah, so it's a really... It's a really fun way to have sex. That's the biggest thing, I think, for me, is that it's sexy, it's hot. You also don't want to just kind of play and run. Oh, no, absolutely. No, no, I'm sorry.
You've had this moment with these other people, and yes, it's been fun and everything else, and so I think that the big thing here is it's almost a respect thing, but not as well. It's just good to kind of sit around and just chat with... kind of close off the fun that we've just had. Yeah, absolutely. And again, you've got to remember, we've spent hours with these people having sex in every which way. Absolutely. Every which way. I think we'd run out of... The only other way we could have added...
Well, not added, but the only other thing we could have done was probably added other people or involved other orifices or orify. I don't know. I'm just going to go... So... Yeah, we go... At this point, we're like, look, you know, it's... Yeah, it's almost four. Let's get dressed and let's head home. So, you know, we went down to the locker area, got our stuff, said our goodbyes, and it was just great. You know, had a hug, had a kiss, and basically went home. And always... We always follow up with a text or something after. Yeah, just something to say, hey, thank you. It was an amazing night.
You guys are fun. Amazing. It was fun. Crazy. We'd like to do it again. Crazy. Yeah, yeah. And unfortunately, we haven't got to do it again with these guys yet. But we will catch up with them hopefully Friday, which hopefully means that C might get a little bit of play action as well with A. Because he missed out. Well, I mean, yeah. We'll see how the night progresses. That's right, that's right. But that's it for this podcast. And thank you so much for listening, everyone. We hope that you really enjoyed hearing about our escapades on that glorious evening.
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