Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London

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Speaker1: You're listening to the Wanderlust Swingers podcast with Aussie hosts Kate and Daryl. If you're curious about exploring your sexuality or the swinging, hot-wifing and non-monogamous lifestyle, you've definitely come to the right podcast. Or maybe you just love travel adventures. Either way, we share our personal, sometimes juicy, sexy stories as well as Swingers Club and event reviews, interviews with other sassy people and of course our global swinging adventures. We try to bring you a look into the Wanderlust Swingers podcast with Aussie hosts Kate and Daryl. the diverse lifestyle that the swinging and non-monogamous community has. We hope you enjoy. Now let's get into the episode. Hey guys and welcome to episode 209. We're going to be talking about our two-night Halloween soiree at Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London. Comparing the Friday night kind of single male vibe with a more couples heavy Saturday night. Talk about the dungeon catacombs and a hot soft spot place We had Why Dress Down Rules Matter More Than People Realize and wrapping it up with some success tips. We're heading to Bangkok in Australia. Do you remember that single guy that we slept with in Bangkok that time with all the tattoos on his body? Yes. We found him on field. Yes. I think I'm going to go on a hunt for a single male while we're in Bangkok. Okay. See what's out there. It is called Bangkok for a reason. I put a travel notice up on SDC so we'll see what comes. Comes. What comes. Did you guys like our Hot Takes episode? Quite a few messages about that episode. So great to hear from you guys. Coming up on future Hot Take episodes, we're going to talk about is the hot wife lifestyle trending and does popularity equal poses? And we're also going to talk about using AI to get you laid or sell tickets to swingers event. Is it poor form? So that's some of the Hot Takes episodes we have coming up soon. We also got a really cool message actually from someone here in the Netherlands. Oh yeah? Yeah. Well, his name is Antonio. So I'm going to go ahead and maybe suggest not such a Dutch name. Possibly not. I don't know but he said hello my name's Antonio I'm from the Netherlands and I just wanted to say thank you for all you do for the swingers community it's amazing you just don't show how much fun it can be but also the other side the importance of being responsible both for yourself and for others keep doing what you're doing. Nice thank you Antonio. Cheers Antonio you are a scholar and a gentleman. Fuck you are random. Friday nights we flew into London City re-visited Le Boudoir Swingers Club. We haven't done for quite some time actually it's been what two years? I think longer. Which is crazy because it's a nice club. It's a nice club. and it's a 45 minute flight if you fly straight into london city airport and then it's a quick taxi ride because only losers would wait for an uber when a taxi ride is only like 30 quid it's the same price it was literally the same price and you wanted to walk the two kilometers to get to where the uber pickup is rather than just walking out the front and getting a taxi and i might add you get a london cab if you get into a taxi versus a you know just a regular car i know london cabs are just cooler because they're shaped cooler and More Designed for Cabbage. London Cabs are interesting. The platypi. Okay, here we go. I'll give you a moment. You do have a new platypus fact that you found out. So would you like to quickly share your platypus? Which one was it? I mean, because I've got two in the magazine here ready to go. Let's talk about one though, being that platypi can actually feel wet. They can feel moisture, which is not something that most mammals can do. In fact, it's really quite rare amongst mammals. So there you go. Yeah, that's Daryl's animal segment. I'm running out of things on Platypus. I'm probably going to have to move to something else. So Le Boudoir is in the city centre. It's not something that you get the luxury of having all the time. A lot of clubs are a little bit further away. You need a car or whatever. This is awesome. So yes, we haven't been in a few years. We really should go back. It's a great club. Easy and quick for us to get to. Done. Yes, we should go more regularly. The hotel that's nearby is not so expensive as well. Yeah, it probably works out nearly as cheap as what it does for us to go. here to the clubs in the Netherlands. Although the Netherlands clubs are probably, yeah. A little bit better. Yeah. If you're curious about what Le Boudoir looks like, years ago when we did visit, I think the last time we did the YouTube video while we were there. So that's up on our YouTube. I'll link it in case you're curious if you're looking for a club in London. Truly, it is a good club. And no, we're not paid to say that. We do not get paid money from them. We don't get paid money from anybody. I know, I'm just saying. I think this should be made very clear. Two-night Halloween plan. So we attend both nights at Le Boudoir's Halloween kind of Festivus of Halloween-y-us. My question is, is two nights at a club somehow more exhausting than four nights at Carp Darg? Is it a rinse and repeat? How do you feel about it? No, I think it was all right. I think the issue is that you're just, oh. Dude, I was fine. Long pause. You were lagging. No, I think it's good. I think two days was fine. I think the first night wasn't exactly what we wanted, I think, is probably the biggest because it profiles a little bit of a downer for the second night, potentially. So you don't feel as invigorated by going the second time. Okay. So we're going to talk a little bit about what we did, you know, what we got up to, but pre-drinks and costumes. So we actually went to a speakeasy and we met a brand new couple. We haven't met them before. So fuck it. Why not? She is definitely bisexual. I'm just going to throw that out. Could be. Could be. She had that bisexual energy about her and she's definitely looking to gag on clitoris. She was definitely one of those people where, you know, not backwards and coming forwards with their intentions and just their flirtiness and everything like that. I think in the first two seconds, she was like, I just cannot stop staring at your tits. And they are glorious. So, you know, you've got your boobs out. People are going to look at them. Yeah. And then when she had to get up and go to the ladies' room, she was like, oh, oh, excuse me. The way she accidentally positioned herself across your lap. Yeah. So she's definitely bisexual. Great chat. Good energy. Good peeps. Fabulous cocktails. Nice people. Costumes. So we head back. Friday night was kind of just like a general Halloween theme. I purchased this bloody full body suit with my boobs out and I was trying to figure out how to incorporate it into an outfit. You had that great idea of saying, well, you're a vampire because vampires just spill blood everywhere. I do. I've never seen any animal treat its food with such disrespect. Can you imagine if we ate spaghetti bolognese like that? I know. People would think it's a murder site. Exactly. Spaghetti bowl everywhere. Yeah. I mean, even the little whip at the end, you know, when you're sucking in the pasta and you get that little whip at the end that puts spaghetti sauce on your nose. How fast are you sucking in your pasta? So I'm a vampire. You're my victim so you're going to wear a suit. You're a blood splattered vampire. Blood splattered vampire. You've got blood on the corner of your mouth. You've got vampire teeth and you've got a full bloody suit on. I want to talk about these fucking teeth. Fake teeth. Never again. Come on. You from the onset had no indication nor clue of how to use these teeth. They're stupid. They're not stupid. You just didn't make them in time. that actually have proper plastic that you insert using, you know, like it's the plastic that they use for homemade mouth guards. It's like a silicon bag. No, it's not. It's a thermoplastic. And basically you put that into the standard plastic tooth that you would get and then squidge it onto your canines and then it sticks on there. I don't know why you're explaining it. What I just said was never fucking again. I mean, they're so easy to use. You just didn't use them right. They were just such a problem. great span of reach here. You'll see vampire teeth sales drop dramatically because of what you've just said. Oh, shit. We just lost our sponsorship from the vampire teeth company. From Vampires Incorporated. Hey. I like a good vampire tooth for starters. First of all, it's our reach, buddy. Yeah, there's a. And second of all, you're the one bringing it down, dragging us into the mud. By the way, there's a really cool chick on Instagram who has, she's a redneck girl who's had two, her both canines fall out because she's super redneck-y. And she's got vampire teeth as replacements that she can put in and pull out. She's also quite cute and funny. Like she says some hilarious things about her being a redneck and having no teeth. You should look into it. Your definition of very cool is concerning. Yeah. I'm not sure Little Miss going to build a full Harry Potter Lego set can throw any stones about being cool. You shut up about my Harry Potter Lego. I will not have any slander of that on this podcast. the hotel bar, we were kind of all meeting up with this Friday group. So we were going there. We knew some people going. We had... Yeah, so we had a pre-drink to the pre-drink. Pre-gaming the pre-game. We had some people going. We knew Mr. and Mrs. G were going. They had some people going. So there was a group of us both nights. And so we head down to the hotel bar. We catch up with Gab and Bri. First time we saw... Bri, Bri. First time we saw them since Callop. So it was nice kind of catching up. You make me cover up my outfit because of the children. I don't know why you say it like that. Well, my boobs weren't out that much, was my point. But apparently they were a little bit too out for public consumption. So I had to wear a jacket. No, they weren't too far out for public consumption. They were too far out for children consumption in a bar environment that, by the way, is attached to the hotel. Yeah. Which, by the way, has children staying at it. I just don't think it's appropriate. We should hold ourselves to a standard. We should. So how about you shut up just as much about this as I will about your Harry Potter blocks for children. Oh, wow. It actually says 18 plus on the box. No, it doesn't really. Yeah. It's an adult's Lego. It's an adult's Lego. See? I stand corrected. Shut your filthy whore face hole. I stand corrected. It says 18+. I'm actually concerned about what's in it. There's just people scoffing beer and gang bangs in the background. That's the Hogsmeade gang bang. Please don't sue us, Harry Potter people. So we head into the club on Friday night. We get in there, we grab drinks, kind of take in the space. Still a great club. Nice atmosphere, nice lighting, all the good stuff, right? Friday is single male night. The numbers felt okay for single men, but no one really caught my eye, if I'm honest. I was kind of glancing around, and no one was really taking my fancy. There were a few guys that kind of did come over and try to engage, and I spoke to them for a little bit, but not really taking my fancy. I chatted to some of the single guys. They weren't, none of them really a fit for what we would be looking for. I did want, there was an African-British guy, so he was there, but he wore some of his traditional African garb and he had a really cool face. What would you call that? Like a face necklace? I don't know what you'd call it. It went over his ears and across under his eyes. He had a full headpiece on, right? Yeah, he was rocking it. I really liked what he was wearing. But anyway, that was... It's a good conversation starter as well because then it gives him the opportunity to say like, oh, hey, this is part of my culture. You know, that's really cool. Yeah, I think only small portions are part of his culture. Yeah. The face... Liberties were taken. Yeah, the face necklace. Probably wasn't the thing. A little bit of dancing. What I will say is the DJs. Listen, music is obviously a personal preference. It's been a long time since I've heard. And we heard that a lot. Especially on Saturday. Saturday night. I think that DJs are a tough run, a tough gig, right? So on Friday, I noticed that for whatever reason, he was playing a lot of like 80s pop. Yeah, but it wasn't mixed 80s pop. Like it was just 80s pop. You mixed it or? No. It was just 80s pop. Yeah, there was moments in time where I was like, no, dude. Yeah, let's stop dancing now. I dressed down into my honey bedette lingerie. Daryl, would you like to describe this particular piece? Because it's the new lingerie that you bought me a little while ago. You mean the, it's the see-through, like, one piece that has flowers growing over your boobs? I've just described it. It has a little. It's pretty spectacular. It is see-through. And it does have this black. I think sheer would be the word. Sheer. Black embroidered bits over the boobs and there's little flowers. And it has a PVC black section where your pussy is. And then this gorgeous black chain that goes across the back and down. It drapes down a little bit, which has a rose on it. Yep. Really cute. You bought me that as a little surprise gift. Yep. Which was awesome. Oh, by the way. Because you wouldn't. Because you saw it and went, man, that's too expensive. I went, that's too expensive. Exit. Kate goes there. She fills up the box cart with a whole lot of things. So you get your dopamine. hit, babe. And then goes close. Yeah, serotonin, dopamine, whatever. And then you do it all and then you're like sweet as and then close. You've basically bought it once you've got it in the trolley. You know what I'm doing? It's already bought. Do you know what I'm doing? What? Practically saving money. Practically saving money. I did put all of the outfits that I dressed down into in my lingerie up on our Patreon. So if you're curious what these look like, if you're curious to see what people wear inside of a swingers club, what they dress down into, check out our Patreon and you'll check it out. Now, speaking of dressing down and speaking of looking pretty hot, Yeah, I did. I just said yes. It wasn't very convincing. I don't know what you're going to finish the end of the sentence with, so I need to know that before I commit. It was extremely hot in the club. Yeah, it was warm. Yeah, it was really warm. But we had a good time, so we spent some time chatting with friends that we went to the club with. We spoke to brand new people. We spoke to podcast listeners that are big carp fans. Two on the first night. People kept approaching us and they're like, hey, you guys love carp, we love carp, let's chat about it. voices right across the room. Yeah. His stupid Australian accents. Ah. One person did say that later. Yeah, we picked you like a dirty nose. Yeah. Because, you know. You're loud, obnoxious arsehole. Because Daryl looks exactly like the arsehole. Yeah. We had a friend, actually Bri, who had. Bri. It's got to be Bri, Bri. You can't do one Bri. He had face paint and it hadn't quite dried. He was dried. He had a full face. It was applied on the train on the way into the city. Gotta love these two, yeah. And this became a bit of a game on him pressing. his face on my boobs. On multiple people's faces. Gab's boobs. Our butts. I got a face print as well. You got a face print, yeah, on your chest. And on my face. Which I might add, you let me receive pizza later in the evening with it still on. That was a little game. I do enjoy those guys. They can definitely be silly and they don't take anything, you know, too seriously, which is kind of what we like as well. So we danced, we hung out with Gab and Bri-Bri and just fun, playful energy. The single guys, right. So did you feel that it was... to beat me with a stick. Did you feel it was overrun with single guys? What do you think about the ratios? No, I think the ratio was okay. I think a lot of the people who were there were perhaps not people that have been in a single guy experience before, like a single guy night before. Yeah. I think it was an appropriate balance. I'd agree. For a single guy night. There's always going to be more than usable. But there certainly wasn't, it's not like there was, you know, like what we experienced in Toronto, in the Toronto club where there was, you know, nothing but three, four times versus like the one couple. This was not. Three, there were three. It was, yeah, maybe three or four couples to one single guy or more than that even on the Friday night. I don't know. So we did have one friend, right? They are actually joining us in carp next year. So they're booked to come with us as their first time. She did have a moment where she felt a little bit uncomfortable and it was one of the gentlemen, there was kind of four of us talking in a group and I branched off and I actually was talking to Mr. G and she was talking to the single guy and Mr. G did the right thing at one point. He kind of leans over and whispers and he's like, hey, you good? And she whispered back. She's like, you know what? Not really. Now, this single guy wasn't really doing anything untoward. Not at all. He was trying to pick her up, because that's what he was there for. But he wasn't being forceful or anything like that, because I was keeping an eye on it. Although, oh, you were, okay, because I didn't see any of this. Yeah, I was there. What happened was, Mr. G did the right thing. He's like, hey, good. She said, no, I'm not. So he then kind of put his arm around her and brought her in, and then we said goodnight to the single guy, and he wandered off again. Very respectful, not forceful at all. What I would say, though, is this is a reminder to use your words and advocate for your boundaries. Just say no, yeah. But again, he wasn't really coming onto a But even this, to your point, if you're not used to dealing with a single man... Yeah, it's not an easy thing to do. Sometimes even getting out of a conversation can be tough, and that's what she found out. Quick sidebar, that particular couple that's joining us in CARP also know Ben and Kate, who are also joining us in CARP. Ben and Kate were supposed to come. They couldn't make it. They had FOMO. My question to them is, where were you, Kate and Ben, and you owe me one? That's what I want to say to them. Okay. The playrooms and the atmosphere. So we explored the upstairs playroom. The playrooms were pretty busy on Friday night. The main orgy room was busy, but they were Lots and lots of onlookers standing around fully clothed. Yes. So this became a problem the second night as well. Yeah, I want to talk about it. The pros and cons are kind of mandatory dress down and how this can affect. I think, so I know what you're about to talk about, but I think just to throw something else in there, mandatory dress down of a play area is a whole nother thing that just should be the case. Anyway, moving on. Yeah, but that's what I want to talk about. Oh, I thought you were talking about the whole idea of it's 10pm dress down. Yes and no. It does affect the sensuality, right? When we went up and walked around, I was like, okay, it's pretty busy. At this point, because it's the playtime, there were a lot of single men up in the playroom just kind of standing around because that's... But they weren't... Okay, so being clear, though, they weren't standing there, like, jerking off or anything. They were just standing there watching. Yeah. Right, so I agree with you. It depreciates the sensuality in there. It wasn't in any way oppressive, though. Like, there wasn't... Yeah, they weren't standing over the corners of beds, nothing like that. But they were, and it wasn't just single men, there were couples as well. Quite a few new couples just standing there fully clothed. And that also, for me, I was like, dude, you're kind of messing with the chi in here. It's supposed to be really sensual and you're all standing there fully dressed and just shag on a rock. It kind of, it was a bit different. And I don't think I've experienced that in quite a while because again, we do have mandatory dress down here. So if we go in the playrooms, everybody's already dressed down anyway. So it was a really new, something I hadn't experienced. Post a certain time, of course. because it's all time bound and not necessarily floor bound, which is why I'm saying there what should be the case. If it's not time bound, then if you go to the playroom, you need to be dressed down. I think that's okay. I think it's okay too. Some clubs do have that, so playroom, dress down. Now, while we're walking around in the orgy room, I caught a whiff of something. Yeah, this was interesting. So we discussed this later. I didn't really notice, but not really a surprise. No, so I walked in and we were walking around and having a look at the playrooms because at this point, we did kind of go up there with the idea of, hey, let's go check them out. Maybe let's us play. Let's see if somebody else up there takes our fancy. Parallel play wants to join in. Wandering hands, et cetera. And when I got up there, I was like, eh, with all the people watching and fully clothed. But then the BV. So there was a lady in there, clearly had a quarter whiff of BV. I feel so sorry for her. I feel very bad for her. I feel compassion for the woman who's dealing with it. But the reality of it is that it definitely is a mood killer. Killed the vibe. Yeah, and not just for us. So there were others who reported the same vibe. but there's being very clear nobody knew who this individual was so it wasn't that it was you know that there were any fingers pointed or anything but there was certainly what i what i considered an old wet building smell but apparently that's not what it was no because another lady on the walk home randomly mentioned it and i was like we were talking about the playroom and she randomly said somebody without any prompting somebody in there was unwell with bb yeah it is unfortunate you know it just kind of kills the mood, right? And I think you're already on that. Should we, shouldn't we? People close a bit weird. I'm not really feeling it, but maybe we can get in the mood. And then that just kind of piled on a little bit. So we decided to call it. This is the first time that's ever happened. What's that? Sorry. That's that, that. BV in a playroom. There's been, there's been any smell in a playroom or, or room that has been something that we, we'd even discuss. This is the first time we've discussed this happening to us. Yeah. I mean, I think we've played with couples where she clearly had BV. Yeah. This is the first time we've ever noticed this in a club or anything. Yeah. In a bigger environment. Yeah. Yeah. Because again, if it was a small room, like it's, you know, probably going to be a little more obvious, but this is a very large room. So anyway, we're calling it. We decided the sexual energy is just not landing for us on the Friday night, but also I didn't want to fuck up Saturday. As we headed back to the hotel again, we actually head back with that couple. They really made an effort both nights, both of them as well. Yeah. So calling on one of the last couple just purely because they also like to experience the lifestyle in different ways, different clubs, different countries. So that's why I'm calling it that. Head back to the hotel. We fuck each other. Senseless. We actually, that was a good session. It was. I agree. And then we order pizza. I said quality Friday night. How are we going to, how are you going to rate it? The, the sex, the pizza or the, should we discuss the pizza? I feel like that's a discussion topic. It really is not. So let's move on. They left the pizza at the door of the hotel, just on the ground at the door. This is a topic because you sent me down there with fucking smooches all over my body. Then the reception person told me that I wasn't allowed to stay there unless I was staying at the hotel. So I looked so ratty that they thought I wasn't staying at the hotel. And I might add, the hotel's not exactly a five-star hotel here. So I was ratty enough that they're like, yeah, you don't even match the two-star vibe. You look that shabby, you think, that they were like, you're not suitable for a premiere in. You're not suitable for the primary. Exactly. They did you do it either. So then I came back upstairs with the hunted and gathered pizza. Good job, babe. Love you. Piss bump. Saturday night. So day two, Halloween at Le Boudoir. Rinse and repeat fatigue. Let's talk about it. It's finding the right couple, the right space. And we did have a dungeon play session. So you slept until 1pm, which feels pretty standard. Yeah. I, however, was awake from I'm watching Netflix. Yeah, that's because you're a dick. Questioning my life's choices. You did bet me that I wouldn't last until midnight because I was awake for so early. And I just want to say, spoiler, I was eating burgers on the bed at 2.30 after having good sex. So I win. Congratulations. I am the winningest. But yes, yet again, we have pre-drinks. So we catch up with some friends. Drinks at a bar. Well, no, that was pre-pre-lunch. Pre-pre-drinks. And then followed by pre-drinks. At Pinter's Bar, really funny group of people in there. that were dressed in Lord of the Rings. They were so organized that there was not two people that had the same costume. That's not true. There were lots of people with the same costume. Were there? Yeah, absolutely. Sorry to burst your organizational bubble there. I know being organized is one of your favorite things. Okay, fair enough. Why did you just rub your pussy when I said being organized is one of your things? Well, it just happened. Tell me what went through your mind. Do you think it's rinse and repeat? It wasn't rinse and repeat. repeat for me happens day four generally also it's different people whereas the first like if you go to an event or a yeah i mean an event mainly it's it's generally the same people so yeah that's that also becomes somewhat rinsy and repeating yeah so saturday night our group does balloon i think it doubled in size gab and bri bri decide to come back on saturday they weren't supposed to but you know that's just how they roll so they come back down i head down early to order some drinks and snacks you're still getting ready. The snacks remained untouched until you came down. You can't just buy snacks for the group or tell people that the snacks are for everyone. I did tell people multiple times. I was like, hey, I just spent like 40 quid on snacks. Does anybody want any? And people are like, cheers. And then just kept talking. I was like, but the chicken skewers. Yeah, don't worry. I smash the chicken skewers. Eat my skewer. Quick question. Why are you buying 40 quids worth of food? I was hungry and then I was like... Yeah, but why didn't you just buy 10 quids of food for yourself? Because I was like, yeah, people... If I'm hungry, everyone's hungry. I should feed the world. Make it a better space. Whatever, let's move on. So some of them needed cutlery to eat. They weren't finger food. Yeah, the calamari were a bit of a dodgy call. It wasn't just a calamari. So the Wanderlust couple came down. They had another great costume. She had a big headpiece. She looked great. It was the Day of the Dead theme. Now, I had a see-through skull dress. that I've had for a couple of years that I bought in Paris. I was like, oh, good. Fantastic. This will do. Why is it you hate? You said to me before this that you hate this. I'm not a fan of Day of the Dead theme. It's super cute. I don't like it. Okay. Where are you guys at? I don't like it. I don't like it. No, we're not doing Pauline Hanson. I just don't like it. What do you guys think? Are you guys a fan of the Day of the Dead theme? I'm personally not a fan. I think it requires too much face makeup, generally speaking, or masks or other things. And I'm just not a fan. I think it looks amazing. Okay, Daryl likes it. I don't like it. How do you guys think? Email at wanderlustswingers.com. Let us know. And if you've got anything better to do. Here's another platypus fact. You wore another one of your suits and you had a skull shirt, which again was just like handy, super dandy. Head back to the boobah. I was also in a pinstripe suit, which is actually somewhat a tradition for that as well. Yeah. For Day of the Dead. Now, head back to the club for round two. I get into my see-through dress immediately as we get in there. Yes. your C3 dress in the bar. Because it's not appropriate. Oh, really? Because of the children. Oh, okay. So that's not appropriate, but having your tits basically flopping out onto the table. Totally appropriate. Okay, two things to that. It was a small... Small? Okay, medium-sized keyhole. Medium-sized. And my tits do not flop out and hit the table. Sorry, they squeeze out and subtly bump the table. Typical Halloween night, though. Pretty busy in the club. Got busy. It wasn't busy when we arrived. Because we got there at like 9.45, so 15 minutes after it opened. And it did get very busy. Yeah, it did get busy. Very busy. Not too busy, though. It wasn't overly full. Again, it's one of those things, because the way the dance in the bar area is kind of set up, when people first come in and there's no one playing yet, it feels crazy busy. But then as things kind of settle out... That's not New Year's busy. That's not New Year's busy, no. No. So, I mean, it wasn't... It was busy, but it wasn't... You could always get to the bar. You could always manoeuvre around people. It was rage-level hot again, I will say that. I was sweating like a whore in church. You're a bit sweaty. Maybe that's the problem. I'm so hot, I get out of my C3 dress and instead I put lingerie on. Yeah, of course, total sense. And then nag you repeatedly until you dress down. Yeah. We met a new couple to the Lifestyles. We kind of had spoken to a few people. We're mingling around, talking to all these different people. We're talking to our built-in group, meeting new people. We're mingling. We're talking to our friends, go back to new people, etc. So what were we doing, babe? So, this newish couple love music festivals and travel and kind of share that kind of same energy that we do. So, we're reconnecting with them kind of off and on all night as we go talk to other people, come back, share a drink with them. Not forcing anything, just kind of letting the chemistry build. And at one point, the three of you, while I was off talking to some other people, had sort of said, hey, let's go find this quiet area. No, actually, it was before that, it was a discussion on what style we have and what we might be. into. We discussed that. That was earlier in the night. You were away. And then we caught up with them again. And then we disappeared again. And then we caught up with them again. I think it was getting to that time of the night where it was either play or sort of just let the night play out. They made the decision to ask us essentially to find somewhere quiet. Yes. And it's nice to be propositioned. And we went upstairs. Absolutely nowhere to perch. Upstairs. So we go down. The same issue upstairs as well again on the people standing with clothes on in the playrooms as well, which was. Just a little annoying. Head downstairs. Down, downstairs. Down, down. We huddle for a little bit and discuss play styles, boundaries, and comfort levels. Again, I wasn't there. I wasn't. I know. I had absolutely no idea. You thought you were a fucking genius, though. You were like, hey, let's stop and talk about this. You better give me my goddamn flowers for that. What? Kudos. Yeah, you'll get your kudos. I'll give it to you later. So we talk about that. I then go to freshen up and grab my hoe and the go bag. Come back. What do you mean by freshen up? What are you doing? Freshening up. I was sweating profusely. You're washing your jage. I'm not going to let somebody go down on me without a freshening up. You didn't say I'm washing my jage. You didn't say I'm freshening up. I was having a whore's bath. Okay, fine. The catacombs are full. I'm not sure we should call it catacombs because that's typically where dead people are stored. They're little, they're catacombs. They're in the dungeon. It's a cellar. Okay, it's in the cellar. It's literally a cellar arch for where you would stack all of your wine. All of your fine wine, like me, that's aging, like a fine wine. Quick tip, if you want others... Getting more bitter and vinegar-like as she gets older. If you want people to join you, don't take up the entire space. Leave room for parallel play, which could potentially turn into more. Also, if you don't want people to join you, take up all the space. Take up all the space. Like every inch of it. Every inch. Just spread yourself out. So we start with soft swap. I go down on him. He goes down on me. You're playing with the other woman. I have no idea what you're doing. Fucking hell. You were doing stuff. Some heavy petting. Just some sort of enjoying each other's bodies. That's probably the best way to put it. I then asked her, do you like being touched by other women? Do you want me to kiss you? And she was like, enthusiastic, yes. So at this point, I say to her husband. Enthusiastic five thumbs up. I don't know where the other three came from. I said to her husband, hey, let's go. Lavish kind of attention on her for a while. You're going down on a we're bouncing between kissing each other, kissing her, sucking her nipples, you know, all of this sort of thing. I then asked her, Hey, do you like a vibrator? Some of them, not so sure, some kind of not. And I was like, all right, well, let's try this one. We'll give it a go. And I said the same thing to you. You're not going to go full on with a vibrator the first time you go down there. So I get it out of my home bag. You're using it. And again, now I'm kissing her again. I'm kissing the husband. I suck his cock a little bit over the top of her, paying attention to her. And then I believe she came. I mean. Well, I mean, yeah. So part of the way through, she duly took the vibrator from me. because I was causing more problems than use. Hey, you've got to know when to tap out, babe. No, that's mainly because you're like, just cram that thing on my clitoris until my head explodes. So I'm trained in a particular way here. So I'm trying to be gentle, but I'm just not succeeding. Oh, hey. That's a great thing. Because then I had like the option to sit back, watch. A goddess is owning her orgasm, like I'll take it. Yeah, it's all good. And try to play with her G-spot, which I enjoyed trying to find or finding. I'm not sure. Because, again, for many people, there's no tactile location for a G-spot. So it can be that I'm in the right spot and I don't know, or there's a lump there and it becomes obvious. It just depends on the human. And then what happened? Then you got a blowjob? I got a blowjob. It was a fun, amazing blowjob. I just laid back and enjoyed it. And then we swapped back. So you fucked me, he fucked her, her and I were kissing, touching each other, caressing. And then the afterplay. So then we kind of stayed in this little cuddle fun pile, chatting to each other. We're just laughing and having a bit of fun and touching each other for a little bit before realising that we're totally hogging the space and likely being jerks. There was a line of people staring at us like, you know, like a coffee shop when you're sitting there on your laptop and there's no room. Yeah. People just looking at you like. Hurry up and get out. Close the fucking laptop, dude. So I head off, I freshen up again in case you're wondering and then I get back into my lingerie and how many people were watching? Were you paying attention at all? I was not. No, didn't see. I'm going to say probably more than zero. Yeah, but I, well, I mean, when we, got out there were two couples fucking beside it. They were really like, get your shit and get out. There was a couple fucking on a chair. Oh my God. And then there was a couple who had the other chick pinned against one of the archway. This is really funny. So we leave. I got to freshen up. This is not funny. I forget. This is fucking super weird. I forget that my vibrator has been left in this wine cellar area. Alcove. And so I'm like, shit, my vibrator. So I have to head back. There is two people fucking right on the edge of the bed. And my vibrator is, Almost underneath them off to the side. Yeah. So you just did the reach over. I just did the reach over. And I was like. Sorry. Pardon me. Excuse me. I'm just going to grab my vibrator here. Sorry guys. I left my vibrator behind. Just want to collect that. They were cool. Thanks. So they were just like get out of here. Crazy lady. So we head upstairs. By the way just to throw some additional kudos to the couple that was in the alcove beside us when we first arrived. They were putting on a pretty sexy show. They were great. I don't know if you remember that. Yeah. They were fantastic. It was a sexy show. But we had our own sexy show. Yeah. It was really sweet, actually, because the couple that we were there with, because, again, we took up half the alcove. And when the other couple left, we were like, huzzah, and then took up more of the alcove. And there was a moment where the other couple were like, shit, I kind of feel bad. Like, did we kick them out? Did they feel awkward? I was like, no, they'll do their thing. Like, don't worry about other people. You're fine. Yeah, that wasn't a problem. They would finish. Yeah. So we head upstairs. We go for a drink, a dance, debrief. We're chatting to our new friends. We're talking about music, festivals, travel. They like all very similar things that we like. So just having a bit of fun we say goodbye but we swap details and we swap screen names on fab swingers now they told me and i immediately was repeating it like five six seven times because i was trying to lock that shit in to my memory to make sure that i could connect with them that got their details and again i was repeating it all night when i went to bed you said to me like do you have it i was like yep i know exactly what it is good good girl woke up the next morning they'd already sent us a message so that was awesome i was so paranoid about forgetting their screen name but we i know i still remember their screen name Now, I think so, because it's quite a good... It matches them and what we were talking about. So it worked really well, which was very helpful to us. So wrapping up, we say our goodbyes. They leave because they had some things to do the next morning. We stay. We have some drinks. We did. We danced a little bit more. We called around 2 a.m. It's now my time to fetch the burgers or the food. So I go and get burgers, get the burgers, kind of reminisce about our night, talk through what we enjoyed, fell asleep. Fell asleep. And then the next day, brutal wait at the airport, which was fucked. No sex. Even the morning, the next morning. Yeah, we got up and got ready, left the hotel in an attempt to get an earlier flight and then got absolutely shafted. Anyway, that was our two nights at Le Boudoir for Halloween. Yeah. What'd you think overall? It was good. I enjoyed it. Good experience. It was a lot of fun. Nice weekend away. We'd had that planned for, God, I want to say six months. Yeah, the Sunday was shit. The Sunday was shit. So, let's talk about tips. Let's use the London weekend, what worked, what didn't, and how you can have better nights. Dress down to shift the energy. So, even if the club doesn't technically require it, dress down if you're in play spaces. It does definitely move things. Dress down if you're interested in playing. Dress down in general, I think. It definitely moves the evening. I feel like it shifts the energy a lot for me. So, it moves things into being a little bit more of an erotic energy. And yes, this applies to men as well, not just the women. Definitely dress down if you're interested in playing. if you're in the playrooms. Hang on, hang on. But you say that suits are like men's lingerie. Yeah. That means technically I was dressed down when I walked in both nights. Tip number two, dress down if you're in the playrooms, even if you're just looking. Because you're adding to the environment, right? As long as you're comfortable with this. Yeah. Fully clothed on look is definitely for making kibble the vibes. So, wander, don't anchor is another tip that I have. So, move around the club throughout the night. Different rooms, different corners, different micro groups. Don't stay stuck in one pocket or seat all night. I like seats though sometimes. I know. I had a hanker in for some sitting. Pachant for a seat. Number four, don't only stick with your built-in crowd. So we obviously went there with a very large friend group and people in that group that we hadn't met yet. And it's easy to get stuck only talking to them. Very large. It was huge. We had so many people there. It was amazing. We could have easily fallen into just talking to them only. But the hottest connection that we have of the night was actually from outside of our group, right? Like the festival club. So it's really important that even if you come with a built-in crowd, you still do need to put yourself out there. If you wish to play with people outside of your crowd. And the fifth one is follow-up or misconnection. So check your DMs. We actually had somebody who was shooting their shot. So we had a message from a couple. They reached out via DM and they said, hey, we really missed our opportunity to flirt with you. We missed the window. They actually live up in Manchester. They said, hey, there's this great club up there and this great event that happens at the club. You should check it out. Well, we got nothing on this weekend. Fix the misconnection. and get the opportunity to flirt with you. So we may now be going up to see them in Manchester. That just so happens Mr. and Mrs. G actually also live in the neighbourhood and live in Manchester. So we may actually make a little trip up of it. But definitely follow up on any misconnections that you might have. And that's my tips. Yeah. Yes, I agree on that. Certainly on all of those, especially the last one. So coming up next, next episode, I'm going to be talking about Libertine events in Texas, 280 swingers take over San Antonio. So I'm going to talk about behind the scenes stories, what went well, how it is the playrooms were, improvements in who's there to fuck and more. That's coming up next episode. Please leave us a rating or review if you like what we're doing. Check out the show notes for events, links and everything that I've mentioned in this episode as well as check out the behind the scenes on Patreon. So that's everything we have for our Halloween weekend away. Good weekend. Hellos Weekend was a lot of fun. Yeah, good weekend. Nice to have something on the calendar. Again, I think we booked it six months in advance, so that was kind of cool. Plus, it's been a long time since we've celebrated a pagan ritual, so here we are. Here we are. So, sexy weekend. I had a lot of fun. I thought it was a really good weekend. I enjoyed dressing down. I enjoyed dancing in lingerie. I enjoyed playing with the couple in the wine cellar. Two very enthusiastic thumbs up from me. I agree. And I've also enjoyed during this podcast you trying to keep me on track with your grumpy eyes and It's way too cold in the Netherlands, so we're going down to somewhere warmer in a couple of months. Actually, one month. Oh, my God. It's now 29 days until we leave for Bangkok. Fuck yeah. Get out of here, shitty Dutch cold weather. Thank you so much for listening to the Wanderlust Swingers podcast, and we'll see you again soon. I'm going to go walk the dog in the shitty Dutch weather. It's not great. Thanks for listening, guys. Bye.