
WANDERLUST PODCAST · Cate and Darrell
Cap D'Agde Swingers Vacation 2025 : Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies
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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties Beach Orgies Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros? We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all. Stick around for the segments: Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit Babylone Nights – The champagne pussy, Cate’s open-crotch challenge, and poolside daisy chains Pool Parties Orgies – Floating blowjobs, public anal, and our DIY beachside orgy Foam Party Madness – cancelled, then back on, then VIP bed debauchery with a Canadian twist Finale Night – cheese, wine, pop rocks, and bouncy ball dick riding What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable Public sex etiquette at pool parties The difference between French and Canadian play styles Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again) Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun Success tips for those thinking of going to Cap D'Agde as a Swinger Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde: The Ultimate Swingers Guide Le Glamour Swingers Club Cap d’Agde Review Patreon – Behind the Scenes Costumes Photos Join Us at Cap d’Agde 2026 – Libertine Events Newsletter Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Hotwife Podcast, Lifestyle Group Play, Foam Party Stories, Sex Club Adventures
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Speaker1: You're listening to the Wanderlust Swingers podcast with Aussie hosts Kate and Daryl. If you're curious about exploring your sexuality or the swinging, hot-wifing and non-monogamous lifestyle, you've definitely come to the right podcast. Or maybe you just love travel adventures. Either way, we share our personal, sometimes juicy, sexy stories as well as Swingers Club and event reviews, interviews with other sassy people and of course our global swinging adventures. We try to bring you a look into the Wanderlust Swingers podcast with Aussie hosts Kate and Daryl. the diverse lifestyle that the swinging and non-monogamous community has. We hope you enjoy. Now let's get into the episode. G'day everyone and welcome to the Wanderlust Swingers podcast. Today we're going to be talking about our Cupdog Swingers vacation for 2025. Yes we are. Should we talk about your new chair and how I've been pushed into the corner in like some sort of shitty cuck chair? Oh, I think we're good. I don't think that's really like poignant for the podcast. It's not at all. Yeah. So we just got back from our second trip to Cupdog, but we're actually going to talk about our first trip, our group visit. We went to Paris, we went to Cupdog. So from Paris to poolside, basically our 2025 Cupdog adventure, which was packed with cheese, wine, champagne, fueled chaos, and a lot of naughty fun. We went to swingers clubs, there was beach orgies, VIP pool beds, and a phone party. I got some tasks. You got your hands very busy and we had a hell of a week. Life updates though. I'm off to Orlando in like 10 days or 12 days. Super, super soon. Yes. Crazy soon, which I'm really excited about. I'm heading over to the party for some Labor Day and I'm also having some meetings over there with some hotels. So hopefully that goes really, really well. But expect some hopeful, sexy, fun updates, which you and I need to talk about. Boundaries. Play options. End up with eight. Labia Minora. And we're also going to the SDC World Party, which is actually right here in the Netherlands. Why is that in the Netherlands, Kate? Well, friends, SDC, many know it. But what many might not know is it actually started as a Dutch company. It did. So it was launched here. It's almost like the founders of Dutch. Yeah, so I think it's their 25th anniversary or something. I'm excited to go to that. Yeah, me too. Although we may get turfed out now. Okay. If you missed last week's episode, I interviewed Kate and Ben, our UK friends who actually joined us in Cup Dog. So go check that out. They pushed boundaries, tried new things and discovered why mingling is half the magic of a lifestyle holiday. And I had some great feedback from people that listened to that episode. So if you're keen to hear not our experience, but somebody else's, that's their first time, go and listen to that episode with the UK people that visited Cup. I should probably listen to that. Yeah, they did a really good job. They're articulate and smart individuals. And they're very attractive. I got a Twitter message and it said that long-time listener and they said, oh, your last episode on Carp was probably one of our favorite episodes you've ever done. And I was like, you mean where it's us interviewing other people? Yeah. That sounds about right. And by us, they mean you. Yeah. You interviewing other people. Right. So let's talk about it. We did a Paris stopover. Actually, this whole trip was large because we had a degustation in Amsterdam. We then went to the club near Rotterdam. but we had a Paris stopover so the whole trip was like whirlwind of all these different places and going to different clubs and doing all these different things so in Paris we had a mingle event at that bar at that bar they're very small where they hadn't been told that there was anyone coming even though you organize that with the owner with the owner and then yeah the bar stuff like we had no idea how many people are coming and I think we said 12 and then like 22 Two turned up? No, I said more than that. No, I said 12 when they asked me how many people are coming. I said, I think it's 12. In fact, what I had not calculated is that it was 12 couples, which means we basically took over the bar. Yeah, so we had a meet and mingle, classic Parisian kind of way where... It's not Parisian. It's just general bars. I mean, how many bars have you had where you've made plans with the owner or slash manager and they haven't passed that on to the people who are working on the day? But they worked their asses off. They did a spectacular job. Yeah, and everybody kind of mingled, got in. But later, we actually went to the infamous club in Paris. So Le Chandelier has been operating now for... Infamous? It's infamous. Because most people hear this name and immediately they're like, oh, strict dress code. Is that infamous? Yeah, it's like one of those... I'm actually okay with strict dress codes. Yeah, but it's one of those like, oh, yeah, those clubs, oh, they just don't let anybody in. It's really hard. It's just a nightmare. And it's actually not any of those. Yeah, every one of our people got in. Exactly. Dressed up. Like they're going on a date. Shorts and a t-shirt. Date ready. Well, I mean, you go on a date in a swingers club, so be date ready. Yep. We took a bunch of big maxi vans over to the club. What was your impression of Les Chandeliers? Because last time we went to La Masque, so what was your impression of this club? I think it's pretty awesome. They've done a very good job given the space they have. It's also all underground, so. So the lighting has been really well done to make it feel a lot more essential. And it's got a lot of cool things on walls and little play areas in different spaces and a good area for mingling and drinking and a good bar and people who know how to make drinks. So it pretty much covers, ticks all the boxes for me. Yeah, I agree. We'll probably not go into like massive like club review detail. I did do a blog on it though. So if you want to read about the club and the review, go check the show notes. But I would say that I think it's centrally located, which is always awesome. You don't have to go out to the boondockers. So that's nice. The boonies. The boondockers. Yeah, there's an ER there that doesn't need to be there. The boondocks. I like boondockers. It's centrally located, which is great. I think that, yes, the club is on the smaller side, but it is fabulous. I think they've done a good job with the space. I agree with all the things you said. Now, Sunday, they allow and permit single men. I don't think that there was an abundance, like too many. single men, but I would say the single men that were there were there for one reason and one reason only. And that was to play. And so what I mean by that is they were not wanting to talk to people. They were not wanting to dance with people. So we had a friend actually ask them for a dance, which is her lead into going and playing. And the guy was like, I don't come here for that. Rejected her. Obviously they're all there for a reason. But what I found was more interest in jumping into play rather than approaching it from a social side. Okay. Now you found yourself, in a threesome. I really haven't heard this story, so I'm going to hand it over to you to tell me about this story. But all I know is that there was multiple orgasms from you, apparently, and possibly from somebody else. But you went into one of the back rooms, into one of the playrooms, and had a threesome. Yeah, well, you mentioned to me that it was okay for me to play with somebody, and then I found myself in a room with these guys, and we were kind of getting toward that, but I hadn't cleared with you that it was okay to play with them. So I Quickly stopped, said, excuse myself and said, look, I just need to go have a quick chat with Kate and make sure this is all good. I went out, had a quick chat with you. You gave me the thumbs up. And I went back in and basically they'd already started sort of derobing and a little bit of play on their side, some blowjob and that sort of thing, you know. And I kind of fell back into this. Now, being clear, they would have loved to have included you in this as well, but you were dealing with other things at the time. So it wasn't something that you were available for. And we kicked off. Yeah. So, I mean, there was a lot of fun play here. So the, it was predominantly between myself and the lady with a watcher is probably the best way to put it. He was watching and involved and getting involved. But like me, it's one of his interests to see his lady with somebody else. So I was, yeah, I mean, I was deeply involved in going down on her and playing with her pussy. And I think I might've gotten her off while playing with her pussy, but I can't be sure. because, you know, clitorises are always in different places. They're just all over the place. You never know. But anyway, so there were fingers involved and then there were tongues involved and there was a lot of kissing going on. And then he started playing with her as well. And I took that opportunity to grab a condom, put a condom on and double check with them both that it was okay to have sex. And that's what I started doing. And he can say I had a pretty good night. I mean. Tell us about the multi-orgasm. That's what I was getting to. How did that happen? because most people don't ever achieve that. Most people don't have the refractory that can deal with that. And certainly you having any kind of double orgasm is pretty rare. So she was very much enjoying me. And what gave me a chance, I suppose, was we were fucking for a while. I was fucking from behind. And at that point I came. And you can feel a condom start to move around a little bit after you come if you're still erect. have a condom full of gum. You can feel it start to move. So at that point... When you're fucking, obviously. Yeah, I pulled that out, went to grab another condom. In that period, he took the opportunity to slip in, which was a very nice move on his behalf. He continued fucking her whilst I was putting on a condom. When I came back, they both looked at me in surprise and said, wait, what? I said, well, yeah, I mean, we can do this again if you like. So I continued fucking her in the doggy position and legs over the shoulders as well. It always takes a little longer. for the second time around to actually orgasm. So there was a lot more play involved, a longer period. But it was a lot of fun. I think it was engaging for me with her. Really enjoyed actually fucking her. She's beautiful. She's a lot of fun. She also joked on the way through. We joked on the way through. So there was laughter and all the things that make this exciting and interesting. And then during this time, he was getting blowjobs. And at that point, another guy came in. I was about to ask for that. So were you in just a room on your own, just the three of you? Yeah, we were on a side bed to a main stage, if you want to, or a side bed to a main area. There was more people in there. There was heaps of people, but they were all on other beds. So our bed was kind of a semicircle built into the wall. So it was a little bit away, but also there was a side that was available for people to look and, you know, potentially engage. Anyway, while she was getting fucked by her husband, another guy walked over and he was interested in potentially sharing her with him as well. So he took off his pants, though, over the top of her head whilst they were fucking. So her head was now on essentially at the outside of that semicircle. And when he took off his pants, she noticed that he had a full bush and she wasn't interested in a full bush. So she floofed him away. Said no, thank you. Yeah, which was a good call and fine. I mean, you know, she was interested in what he looked like for the rest of him. And in fact, was one of the guys that I think she was looking at earlier. But the whole full bush thing was not what she was interested in. And she made that decision. And he respected that. The guy immediately pulled his pants up and disappeared. I gotta know though, was he shirtless when he pulled his pants down? Or was he shirt cocking? I don't remember. I was off to the side here at this point. Maybe I was just relaxing, watching for a little bit. But anyway, I was very swiftly ready to go again and continued going. That kind of kicked off a good start to the vacation, to the holiday, I think. Yeah, it did. That was a fun night. It was a fun night. A lot of flirting. A lot of flirting. A lot of touching. Yeah, it was a lot of fun. But it was a very good session. I really enjoyed that. Good people, smart people, sexy people as well. And also got to hang out with them for the rest of the week. Yeah, exactly. Kicked it off nicely. Then we helped on a train down to Arg. And we had cheese, wine, and all the things to kick off the next part of our adventure. So we always like taking some accoutrements on the... When we travel on trains. When we travel on the trains. Highly recommended. Yeah, bring wine, bring bread, an ice baguette. Cheese and meats. Cheese and meats. And the rest of the crew had grabbed some as well. Yeah, we definitely had an abundance. Yeah, there was an abundance of stuff. But we got through a lot of it on the way down. Yeah, we did. But I can't, do you remember the other side of the cabin, the train cabin? Like, because we basically started. Took over half. Yeah, took over half of the train cabin. And then we started sort of dishing out food to everyone. And the other end of the train cabin was like, where's ours? Why is it stopping there? So you can't sit with us. Let's talk about Cup. So our Cupdard experience. So we descended on to Cupdard. 69 strong. Yes, really. There were 69 of us. I know there was. Which was quite funny. And based ourselves out of a hotel there that's called Le Jardin de Eden. That is one of the quote-unquote swingers hotels that you can go to and play. I'm pretty sure he butchered that. The Jardin d'Iden? Yeah, for sure. Probably. The Jardin d'Iden? Yeah, I think that's probably closer. Yeah. But yeah, it gave us an opportunity to have some like pill side chill between the chaos because the other part, the other kind of again, quote unquote, swingers hotel, which is the Babylon, is where the big parties happen. So let's talk about our highlights of the week. The first night we kicked off with a red night dinner. So that was basically us almost taking over the restaurant and it was a sea of red and lingerie. And this was the first night. It's always interesting to see how people adjust to the nude village, how they adjust to wearing lingerie out in public. You know, whether they come in a red dress, whether they come in like just lingerie, like how comfortable, I guess, they feel in that level of state of undress at dinner. Well, I think it probably helped that it helps people to ease into this when the pool at the hotel we were at is it's a requirement to be mandatory. So they flex that a little bit, I think, for our group, because there are a few people, us included, who didn't have a room at that point. So there were some late room entries. Oh, we're still naked. Yes, I understand. But I'm not talking about the late room entry that some people decided not to get naked because they hadn't yet gone and showered. Yeah, this is where you've got to come prepared. You've got to come shaven, prepared, ready to roll. Yeah. Stay ready so you don't need to get ready. So yeah, there were some people who took the option to sit at the poolside with clothing or sit at the bar. But yeah, there was a bit of a delay on some rooms, which It was not ideal. Not ideal at all. No, but the Red Night Party, I think, was a fun little mingle. We had dinner at a restaurant and then went into a nightclub. Right. What I do want to say about the nightclub parties in Carp, I think they're all well and good, but I don't necessarily think that they lend themselves to a sexy environment. Not always, no. It depends on how you feel about smoking and going in and dancing. Because most of them are fairly open. Right. So they're considered, most of them considered outdoor. And with that means that smoking is available in a confined area. Yeah. So our group went to one of the nightclubs this night or the bar kind of nightclub place. And again, I think you can make it sexy if you want to. Like we were dancing with people, flirting with people, inappropriately touching people, but. You mean appropriately? Oh yeah, true. Well, it depends on how you look at it, I suppose, doesn't it? Well, no, it's consensually inappropriately touching. Consensually pervertedly. Anyway, so we had a good night, but I don't think I'd go so heavy on the nightclub parties. I think I'd steer away from doing so many of them. I don't think, I mean, they're still interesting and fun and there's still an outing, you know, it just depends. Well, it depends on the individuals, I suppose, as to whether you can run a swingers night every night. I mean, that's, you know, going to a sex, essentially a sex party every night is, that becomes pretty full on after a week. Yeah, I agree. What I think would be good is that if it was like dinner and then go to the nightclub and then bust away early and then go to a a swingers club or a swingers venue. And then if people wanted to peel off or stay at the club or peel off and go back, they could. Yeah. That's what I think is like the creme de la creme. Potentially. I mean, I'm not the, I'm not the target here. You aren't. One of the nights we went to the Babylon nighttime party. There are a few things that happened at this party, but one I just want to lead with is the 169 euro bottle of champagne and champagne pussy story. Daryl. We're leading with that. We're leading with it. I think, I thought we should have finished with that given how fucking much of an epic story. I don't know this story all I know about this story and I've been waiting to hear about it to podcast with you to hear about it I know my card was behind the bar and I know that somebody came over and they said Daryl just bought a bottle of champagne to put up someone's pussy that is the extent of what well third I also know the very attractive lady that this occurred with so yes please take it away and tell your story about the champagne pussy for which I have no idea okay so I was standing chatting with and I need to tick it off the box. And me being a bit of a smartass, basically went to the nearest lady in our group and asked her whether she'd be interested in this sort of thing. Who was the guy talking about that? Was it our Canadian friends? I don't remember. I mean, I'm seriously focused here on the champagne pussy. I'm not, I mean, the conversation prior is something. So she wasn't even involved in this. She was talking to somebody else. No, no, she was just standing talking with her husband and with another couple, I think. And you turn around and you're like, hey, Here's this thing. Here's this thing. I would like to give it a try. What do you think? And it was almost jokingly because I didn't expect her to respond positively, but she's like, fuck yeah, I'm in. And I went, well, this is going to happen now. I mean, I found somebody willing. All I need, the only thing missing from this, I've got a willing mouth, a willing pussy on a very hot woman. I did quickly double check this with her husband to make sure that this was okay before I did it. He gave the nod. So, yeah, I went and bought a bottle of champagne. I came back and I shook it up and I sprayed it on and into her pussy and then proceeded to lick that out of there and maybe had a slight little suck on a clitoris at the time. So, hold on. So, because I was curious about how this whole thing or situation happened. I was like, does she do a handstand and you pour it in? No, she just sat down. Okay, hold on. So, she sits down. You shake, shake up expensive French champagne. You shake the champagne. There's no such thing as any other champagne, Rich. I just really wanted to drive this home. So you shake it up. Yes. And then you spray it into her pussy. Yes. And then quickly get down there and then suck it all out. Well, I mean, you're down there anyway, because you've got to spray it in. So yeah, that's exactly what happened. You use her as a cork, basically. Pretty much. As a champagne cork. Yeah. And it worked really well. Did she enjoy it? Yeah, I think, I think she did. I mean, it's, I don't think it's not something that she's going to get off on. No. I don't, I don't think, but yeah, she's, she got up with a very big smile and was very happy to talk about it. Did her husband do it or any other guys? I think there was one other guy who did it, yes. He also got the sign-off from her husband, but the husband did not do it, so he wasn't involved in that. I mean, it is a, let's say, somewhat messy endeavour because there's fucking champagne everywhere, but it's well worthwhile. I just want to point out that you did this basically in the bar area. Yeah, this was, in fact, if you go back to one of our old podcasts, we were basically doing this where we sat. That first trip. The very first trip we went there. Yeah, so, but yeah, it was pretty epic. Well, by pretty epic, So you found out something new that you'd never heard of before or thought about, immediately added it to your bucket list and then immediately crossed it off your bucket list. That's how I roll. So I do have to throw a very big thank you out to the young lady involved in that and her husband for allowing that to happen. That was a lot of fun and it is something that will remain in our memory for quite some time. What is Champagne Pussy? That is Champagne Pussy. That's Champagne Pussy. And totally worth any amount of money that was spent on the champagne. Here's a question though, why not Prosecco? Because Prosecco has sugar in it, and I didn't want to make her sick. The champagne has... No, it doesn't. Well... It was a... I got the Brute, which is the lowest of the sugar varieties, on purpose to make sure that it didn't fuck up the rest of her week. Fair enough. I'm a thoughtful champagne pussy person. You are a thoughtful champagne pussy person. Now, while all of this is going on, me and Georgia Girl are actually trying to start a dance party poolside. was not epic. It was, I mean, our group was... The biggest group, though. Biggest group there. It wasn't super epic. And so, you know, we were, like, really trying to get in. So, me and Georgia Girl tried to start the dance party poolside. Sadly, crickets. Yeah. We tried it, though. I did get a task from you. So, I was wearing see-through, like, broad fishnet matching panties and top and my wig. And you gave me a task because my pussy was... out on display. Basically, it was almost like a crotchless type situation. And you gave me a task. And because I had these open crotch pants, you're like, I want you to get two guys to touch your pussy. Which mission accomplished. That actually did happen. Nice. Well done. Ticked that off my list as well, which was lovely. Ticked that off your box. Danced. Yes, I ticked it off my box. Danced with a few people there and kind of hung out for a little bit. But again, you know, we were really trying to get a party going. And I was super excited because I was in a really outfit, party outfit for me. I really love that outfit. And they did kick us out because we stayed there long enough that they were like, guys, get out. Yes. And so we headed back to our hotel and we're hanging out in the hot tub. Now, by the time we got back, we were like, okay, let's go to the hot tub. But there was another little pussy incident on the way back. There was something to do with a fairly petite lady who happened to be wearing a shirt that said something to the effect of taste me or I taste good. or something like this and you picked her up. Well, I know I asked her whether I should do what her shirt instructed. Which was a taster. Yeah. And so you picked her up, stood her on a rock in the car park and proceeded to go down on her for a little while. Yes, that's exactly what happened. I mean, you summed it up really quite nicely. Thank you very much. Unfortunately, getting her down off the rock, I broke her skirt. You did break her. Which I was not happy about. No, I was. Because it's a really cool skirt. I was unhappy when you told me about that. Yeah, I was. That was an embarrassing moment. and told me what had happened. I had no idea. I was walking in front and her husband walked up and he said, hey, Daryl's just put my wife on a rock and went down on her. And I was like, on a rock? In the car park? She's cute and tiny. So I needed to get her higher so that it would make it easier on my back. But we did head back and went into the hot tub. It was well worth it, by the way, to get her on that rock. To get her on the rock? Yeah. And we need to think of some sort of jingle about petite Canadian girl on a rock. He's an Aussie boy. I'm a petite Canadian girl. In Capdactylo. What a world. He picked me up, set me on a rock. Lick my pussy. Oh, don't stop. My shirt said taste me. I'm delicious. And he did. Oh, so ambitious. Go back to the hot tub. Everybody's in the hot tub. So everybody kind of had the same idea. hanging out in the hot tub. We did have a bit of a misconnection that evening in the hot tub. So there was one part of a couple where she'd partied herself out and was having a nap. And there was a bit of a misconnection that evening as things kind of occur, just sometimes things don't align. And so you don't necessarily get the opportunity to play, which was unfortunate, but great time. I think we kind of salvaged that actually. If I took the initial reaction of going over to that nighttime party and how the evening ended, I think it It actually ended on a high. Oh, I agree. I think it was a great day, great night. And, you know, Champagne Pussy along the way and Rock Pussy. I'm not sure Rock Pussy sounds great though. No. So I need to have come up with a better name for that. High Pussy? Elevated Pussy. Elevated Pussy. There you go. Champagne Pussy. Maple Syrup Elevated Pussy. Yeah. Something like that. I know, not Maple Syrup. Call back for the Canadian side. Hang on, but that's gonna, nobody wants to aid Maple Syrup. That's weird. No, that's bad, bad deal. And you know, Canadians, I've spent some time with Canadians now. They're more than just Maple Syrup. Are they? Yeah, they are. Let's talk about the pool parties. So we went to the famous pool party. I would say Cupdog famous pool party, which happens the high season Wednesdays and Fridays at the Babylon. I think that you can put infamous in front of. I can put infamous in that one? Yeah, that one's definitely an infamous party. Thank you for the sign off. Yep. Now these parties, they start slower, but they get into some really high energy and everybody is having a good... I like the way you use the word high energy interchangeably with groups of people. Yeah. But it's also... Should we start with the proposition that you received when you first arrived? Oh, the guy with the big dick. From the man with the cowboy hat. Yeah, with the big dick. He was known as the man in the cowboy hat. Okay. The man in the cowboy hat, yeah. He had a massive, massive cock. Yeah, but that's what they were leading with. Yeah, no. I mean, there's no way not to lead with that. It got around the corner before he did. Look at my husband's giant cock. Do you want to fuck it? No. Thank you. Well, yeah, I mean, that's because that thing would have... I mean, we would have had to stitch you back together. But yes, I did get that offer. And I think a few people had that offer. And she was certainly, the wife was leading the cause there. Hey, do you want to fuck my husband? You know, sometimes when somebody makes an offer, you can just neglect to mention how everyone else at the poolside got the same offer. Okay, it was just me. He was taken by me. You're allowed to make yourself feel nice about something. He just thought I was the most beautiful creature that he'd ever seen in his life. And he was like, oh, I just need to have this girl. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. That's what happened. And then because I said, He was flaccid for the rest of the evening. They packed up and went home. They did. They left France. They went back to a very far away country that they live. France. I was trying to talk myself up, babe. Yeah, well, I mean, so yeah, he made an offer. He offered. It wasn't even the wife that was trying to rope you in. He used his own rope, which basically was a rope. Is that because he was wearing a Texas hat? Yeah. Rope, Texas, cowboy hat. Yeah, all the things. What I mean by the high energy is that throughout the party, So when we were hanging out in the pool, and you know, there was our group there, and there was a lot of us, and we were kind of mingling with each other, and then also mingling with other people in the pool. And towards the afternoon, there are people naked floating around in the little floaties in the pool. There were people fucking on an air mattress. It was. That's talent. I agree. That is talent right there. That's why I mentioned it, because she was on top even. I saw somebody doing doggy on one of those as well, in the pool. Get the fuck out. Yeah. That is some talented shit. I can't even stand up on a paddleboard. Yeah, I was like, are you guys in the circus? Like, what's going on? It's just a Cirque du Soleil. Cirque du Soleil. Yeah, there was that, but there was also the three girls at the front of the, there were three very exhibitionist ladies. Four in the end. It was a daisy chain that started at the front of the pool and there was four ladies playing right at the front of the pool, kind of on that. With pussies of steel. Yeah. Right, because the. There was some vigorous play there. Yeah, but also the dildo was used. multiple times through the four ladies and a whole lot of stuff that was like, okay, you ladies have some seriously strong, you know, vaginal flora and fauna. Oh, yeah. I was impressed. I mean, I'm surprised any of them walked out, though, because there was a lot of vigorous play. There was a lot of vigorous play. One of the ladies in particular was overly vigorous with her hand gestures. Trying to get people to squirt. Yeah. There were no squirters in that group, thankfully. Yeah, but they were doing a little showcase. The people on the floaties, Like, the reason I bring that up is to try and put people in the situation where they can see the excitement. So everyone's floating around and, you know, you're having a conversation with somebody and there's an occasional naked hot person with a beautiful butt and, you know, you kind of reach out and you give them a spank on their ass, you rub their legs or you push them around on the pool or, you know. I always ask though because I just want to be sure. Yeah. So, yeah, there were a few lovely ladies who I slept on the bum. Yeah, same, same. I think we were... You gave one a kiss as well, didn't you? Yep, yep, I sure did. She had a good arse. She did have a good arse. You know, you see it and you're like, God damn it. God damn it, that bitch squats. She works out. She's got a squat regime. She is not skipping leg day, that's for sure. No, there's zero, zero leg day skipping there. But it is energetic. I also did see some poolside anal and that was a first. Really? That was a poolside first and it was one lady, two guys and there was... Sorry, are we talking double anal now? No, but they were But that was poolside anal. First time I've seen that at that pool party. I feel like there's pre-work to be done for that. I think so. And you know, it wasn't even up on one of the beds. It was actually by the pool. Yeah, because you can't just turn up and go poolside anal. Poolside anal is my jam. Without putting some effort into it first. The potential there. I sucked some poolside dick. You did. You know. Your little poolside slutty. But my point to this is, it is high energy. You do see a lot. And it does kind of draw you in as well. It does. It's hard not to get. You get a bit loosey-goosey. I think it's quite easy to drop some of your boundaries and kind of start to go with the flow. Potentially break rules. Potentially break rules, yeah. When you're surrounded by a whole lot of people that are living their best life without any boundaries or rules. You kind of want to get among them a little bit. Absolutely. It's like peer pressure, but positive peer pressure. Positive peer pressure. I will say, note if you're thinking about going to this, and I'll give some swinger tips for for success at CUP later, as we always do at the end of this episode. But if you are thinking about going to something like the Babble and Pool Party, if you don't get involved, you might as well not be there. I don't mean that from a come out sex... No. But you've got to be there. You've got to be there to watch, to laugh, to, you know... Dance, to mingle. Dance, have fun. Yeah. It's not a wallflower event. No. No. It's not like I sit back and just chill. I think that... You could do that, but you'd... you'd miss the saying you may as well not be there you may as well not be there there's other parties you could go to that would give you exactly the same thing so that's my you wouldn't have to wait in line for them so if you're not going to get involved you may as well not be there doesn't mean sexual engaging interaction but it does mean dancing laughing talking to people going up and mingling with people go to the bar talk to the people to your left talk to people to your right waiting in line with you have a conversation and i think that is one of the things because again otherwise you know that is a It's an extremely fun, heightened environment. It is perhaps out there for some people. But again, you can just absolutely turn up, have a party, have a dance, just be fun. I think if you're not going to do that, then meh. Find somewhere else to be. Find somewhere else to be. Which is not a negative, it's just that... No, but it's a full-on thing. And by the way, being involved doesn't... You can even just be in the middle of the pool, sort of watching what's going on and... But again, if you are in the middle of the pool, I would suggest like when people swim past, Like say hello, engage. Yeah, give them a push around. Give them a push. That's what I'm, that's, you know, that'd be involved enough. Yeah, play with the balls and that sort of thing that are in the pool as well. You know, there was a bit of that for a while. There was some people. I tried to balance on that. I had it between my legs. Didn't work out. Yeah, and then I realised after, that seam on the side of those floaty things. Yeah, they're sharp. They're sharp. Yeah. You know when I learnt that? When I was like six. That they're sharp on pussies? That they're sharp in general. Okay. Yeah, so, you know, I think, Most people at this point in their life have cut themselves on one of those floating things. I think so. Yeah. Maybe not their pussy. It was a lot of fun though. It was. It was a lot of fun. And I think that our group certainly came and enjoyed themselves. And yes, some people did kind of hang back. Some did come. Some people hung back and just kind of, okay, it's not really our jam. And so they didn't do the next, the Friday one. They did the Wednesday one, not the Friday one, which is perfectly fine. But yeah, it's good that everyone kind of tried it and some people liked it so much they did come back on the Friday. I don't think anybody didn't enjoy it. I think some people found it overwhelming. It is overwhelming. It actually starts underwhelming. It does. When you first get there like at two o'clock in the afternoon, there's really nothing going on. Twelve it starts. Yes, but at two o'clock in the afternoon, there's still nothing going on. So from twelve to two, it's kind of just people drinking and chatting. A little bit of blowjobs maybe. Yeah, but nothing you haven't seen in the early stages of a club. Yeah, true. And then from three o'clock on, I'd say it just starts to get. And then gets more and more crazy until it fucking closes at, what, six o'clock? I think five or six, yeah. Yeah, and by then I saw five arses on five guys moving in unison fucking five women poolside. Okay, here's my question to you. If you're in the middle, so five, and you just happen to be the third person, would you also be fucking in unison or would you try to, like, see-saw it opposite? No, I would be. I'd look around backward just to see, just to have a look at what everyone's saying. I'd just be, it'd be a good photo just to imagine. So that was the Babylon. That was. I will say that a few of our guests really did embrace the nude aspect, clothing optional, but they also embraced the atmosphere. There was an organised beachside orgy. There was. So there was a message in the group chat that one of the couples was saying, hey, tomorrow at, I don't know what time, let's call it three. Tomorrow at three, we're going down to the beach and we're going to go have an orgy. Invitations open to all. Please feel free to come down. We're going to leave the hotel. This time, we're going to go down. And I think there was three couples that were actively playing and then perhaps one or two couples that were just being voyeurs. But I loved that. I thought, absolutely fantastic. That's what you want to see, like a sandy, salty romp and just organized orgy on the beach. As long as it sands, you know. Well, so I spoke to a few of the girls after and I was like, how was it? Do you have fun? Tell me about your experience. And there was one that was like, you know, you just do your best to not get sand. Got to wash your dick. But sand happens. Yeah. That needs to be on a shirt. Sand happens. Sand happens. Cup dog. And then we went, we at one point went to Waikie Beach and we had kind of like a VIP bed experience, which is a bit more chill. So I think with Cup too, you can have these crazy experiences or more energetic experiences like we just explained with the Babylon. But you can also then go over to places like Waikie, get a VIP bed and chill and just have a good time, have some nice cocktails and good food. Good cocktails, good food, yeah. And you can kind of approach it from that aspect. Yeah, because it's not typically very French in terms of the food. No, I agree. Because in most cases, most places you go in France, the food is really quite good. Yeah. Quality wise. Yep. Carp's a little different. There is the option there to get some really shit food. Absolutely. I know. We've done it more than once. Absolutely. There's also, but Weiki's at the other end of that as well. It's nice. It's got some really nice food. Yep. Really nice cocktails. Good cocktails as well. Cocktails are also hard to get. Good cocktails. This is a lot more of a throw stuff in a glass environment than it is a cocktail delight. Yeah, I'd agree with that. Especially the poolside stuff. Expect a vodka sprite. Expect a... I mean... You had to explain what a mimosa was. I did. I had to explain to one of the bartenders what a mimosa was, which I've got to say, if you're a bartender, any bartenders out there who need to understand what a mimosa is, yeah, you need to find something else to do or start your fucking studying. Now, I have been actually putting together a guide on CupDug because a lot of people email us, especially after we do these episodes, they ask us questions. I've been putting together a guide and I'm going to link it in the show notes again. It's basically like how to get there, where to go, what to do, where to stay. I'm just putting together this huge document. So if you guys are thinking about Cup, head there. But La Glamour. So I actually went one of the evenings, you actually hung back at the hotel, you didn't come with me. So I was escorted by a lovely single male friend and him and I dressed and we went to the Le Glamour nightclub together. And it was really nice. He was in his suit and I was in my like C3 night. I should explain that Le Glamour is my least interesting place to go to from even one trip. I've only been once. And that was purely because of the way you were treated when it came to the way you had to dress. Right. So that was a. You kind of burned us that first trip. Yeah. So I was also just not feeling it that night as well. You were partied out. So you just wanted a little respite. So I dressed up, went to the club. and it was good because we actually got there reasonably early, him and I. So we had an opportunity to go downstairs to where all the playrooms are and check them out in their entirety before anybody else was in there. Because later in the evening, it was absolutely heaving down there in the play spaces. And so we got a chance to check out all of the underground play spaces. Great venue, super huge. Again, I also, I know I'm mentioning a lot of show notes here, but I also did a review on this club if you want to go and check it out. You can see it in the show notes. You can see it in the show notes, yeah. There's a lot. Just, you know what, just, Go check the show notes. So I did a review of Le Glamour, the club itself. Great venue. I did have to buy a VIP table because all of the tables or anywhere to sit was absolutely all VIP. So I did have to buy a table just so we can basically put our bags down. But yeah, it was absolutely, it was a really good night. I do like the club, but again, I can fully understand your perspective of feeling burnt from the last time where we were not permitted entry. Were there any challenges that night? No challenges that night. And then the phone party. The phone party that almost wasn't. So it was a phone party washout until it was back on again. So this was the day where the weather was going to turn a little bit and it was raining off and on. And the phone party was initially cancelled, then it was back on again. It never really was cancelled. So we weren't really sure. But then in the end, a bunch of us were like, fuck it. Fuck it. We're going. We're going regardless. We're here in France. We're here in Carp. We're going to have a great time. I don't feel that we started the fuck it. It was Canadians. The Canadians and the Georgia couple. Yeah. Yeah. They were like, we're going anyway. So they were like, come on. We went and got changed into nothing. From nothing to nothing. By changed, you mean we went back and dropped any of the stuff we were carrying. Yeah. Except the swinger bag. We had a great time. We'll talk about it in a second. But there was a Canadian couple and they're absolutely fun. They're so fun to be with. They're charismatic. They're just, out for a good time all the time. But we ended up running into another young Canadian couple. What the fuck is the chances? I mean, come on. And in the pool randomly. And this is why it's so important to mingle. So fucking important to mingle. And so there was this other Canadian couple. And I know at one point I saw the male half of Canadian couple coming, going or coming out of the phone pit or going in. I don't remember. With the new young female Canadian. And he came back and I was like, oh, I see how it is. Like the Canadians just only fuck up the Canadians. I see. That's pretty much how it works. Except if you're Australian, you get to go down under. Well, hold on. He actually said to me, you know that Canadians are the Australians of North America. Sorry. I like it. So it sounds like we might be in with a win for some Canadians. But I thought that was absolutely hilarious. So there was a lot of play. There was a lot of fun happening. What was your experience like at the foam party? It was a good experience. I mean, the foam party. I didn't actually, I have never made it to the foam in the foam party. When we went last time, they weren't running. It wasn't foam because it was post-COVID. And this time didn't make it into the foam party. And just a spoiler for the next time, which we'll podcast about at some point, I'm sure, also didn't make it to the foam. The closest I've ever come to the foam is the bathrooms, which are like foam adjacent. But the pool was a lot of fun. The pool was a lot of fun. Yeah, because there was a lot of our crew in there, but there were also other people who saw that we were having fun and there was... Another reason why it's so goddamn important to be happy, because then you... other people. You draw in other people. But there were people playing amongst each other in our group. There was a lot of pussy touching and fingering and stuff going on. And just general... Sexiness. Sexiness, yeah. Did you happen to see the lady that was giving a blowjob in the pool, but the guy was above her on the bed, but he had his dick hanging down into the pool? Like he was on his stomach. So she basically was like sucking dick upside down almost? No. You didn't see that? No, more acrobatics. an easier way to do this. But she was like upside down. Was her name Shirley? And then he was like on the bed and had his dick hanging. Yeah, that seems strange. It was a strange position. Didn't see that. So you were a finger-banging ninja. No, I wasn't. You were a finger-banging ninja this entire trip. I touched two pussies in that pool. In that pool. How many other places did that happen? But this young Canadian couple, you engaged with them. Yeah. And tell me about that. obviously very keen on seeing her play with other people and also really wanted to see her fucked by somebody as well but he i was standing there just chatting with him for a while and he literally grabbed my hand he whispered something in her ear she nodded he grabbed my hand and just pushed it onto her pussy so i went but this would be a good time to talk about i guess the consent difference right like he didn't say to you hey i'm about to do this you okay with this he kind of grabbed your hand and put it on her pussy and that would be when you'd be like no thanks So I then proceeded to spend some time with my fingers in her pussy, which was a lot of fun. She seemed to enjoy it. I also enjoyed it. She was playing with my cock as well underwater. So, yeah, there was a bit of that going on. It was a lot of fun. And? Because this story I do know. And then he grabbed my cock and tried to put that in her as well, which I politely declined. And she said she thought that I was engaging in this. So she's like, oh, no, no, it's only with me. protection. I said, that wasn't me. That was him. And she's like, oh, really? And she turned around and looked at him. He's like, yeah, yeah, no, that was 100% me. And she's like, oh, okay, sorry. Because she kind of pulled away from me when that happened, which I would understand. So that was the end of that. Because I'm like, yeah, I just didn't feel comfortable that I was put in that situation. But in their defense, they caught up after we got out of the pool. We were chatting as well. I should say, also, it pissed down rain at this point. I mean, fucking bucketed down. Proper lightning fucking strike. It was raining on and off all day while we're in the pool. But again, we were in the mindset like, fuck it. We're going to have a great time. And we were buying bottles of champagne and just having a great time. And the music was good. It was a very high energy. A nice day. Everybody's in high spirits. Everybody that was in our group in that pool was just having a great time. And I think that other people surrounding us were also just like high energy having a great time. Yeah, well, that young Canadian I came over because... But they also asked for where we were staying and our details because they wanted to try and catch up with us again later. But then I mentioned what hotel we were at and they're like, oh, we can't get in there unless you're staying there. So that put the end to that. Which is a shame because they were a hot couple. Yeah, they were a hot couple. But you're right. So basically off and on, raining all day, but then the end, towards the end of the party, it just... Just fucking pissed down. I mean, it went from being quite reasonably warm... Fun, fun in the water. I actually think it was a good way for that to end. Everyone went from party to, we're getting pissed on, quick, run back. And I got stuck because they wouldn't let us out. Because you were talking to the Canadian couple. So this is fun. I was with sexy British friends and the three of us were, we were all leaving. And the three of us went through the crowd. The three of us went through the crowd quicker. But because you were still talking and flirting with the young Canadian couple. That wasn't it at all. I was trying to give them, they asked me for our details. You got stuck. I got stuck because of lightning outside. So by the time I was at the front, we managed to escape. I didn't know this happened until later. So we managed to escape and the three of us were just absolutely naked running back to our hotel. And yes, there was lightning strikes and all craziness. And then we got back to the hotel and nobody. What, you didn't notice I was not there until you got back to the hotel? I figured you were talking to people. And we got back to the hotel doors and we're like. I could have got struck by lightning on the way back. Where is our crew? You didn't even look back. Where's our crew? It was all for one and one for themselves. That's what it is. Anyway, you guys, they locked you in because it was too dangerous to come out. Yeah, I mean, there was lightning around, so they did that. But they wouldn't let us in the pool either. I don't know whether you remember, but when we all first got out, when it was properly raining, we were like penguining up in the corner. I remember. All right. It was actually a good, an appropriate ending to that particular event. Yeah, so there was, you know, dick sucking, play. There was just really good time, I think, at carp. Yeah. Now, the finale party, We actually did that in one of our friends' rooms. There was wine, some pop rock dick sucking. She also got on the bouncy ball dick thing that somebody had bought with them. I think it was the Canadians actually. And some unexpected German neighbours. So yeah, that was like the final finale. And you got an Eiffel Tower. Yes, and I got an Eiffel Tower vibrating. That's the strangest dildo ever. I loved it. Yeah, I mean, it's not really a surprise given who it came from. Given who it came from. I also put a lot of my outfits up on Patreon as well. So you can kind of see what I'm talking about when I was wearing them. I want to finish this episode with tips for swinger success at Cupdog. I got to ask this on the way to Cup, remember? What should we do? What should we know? What's the tips for those who've been here for? Anyway, give me your point. I think this is a broader topic. I'm just going to try and do this super succinct, but I think this is a broader topic. That you'll cover with someone else? Probably. One, go with an open mind. It's raw sex appeal, not luxury. Yep, absolutely. It is. If you're wanting to stay at a six-star resort, a car, or a five-star resort, you're going to the wrong place. This is not the place for that. Even the four- and five-star places are not by international standard four- and five-star. Except for this five-star one that's getting built right now. Yeah, right now. It'll be five-star for the first two years, and then it won't be anymore. Yeah. Because it's used and abused during the season. and then not very well cared for outside of the season because there's no money in it. Number two. Okay, Daryl, give me a number two. Number two would be get there, have fun, mingle, enjoy the crowd. Yep. Because... I think if you come not ready to mingle, it's not going to serve you. It's going to struggle. You're going to struggle with the environment because it's generally a much faster mingle sort of scenario. It's not a... You know, this is not a... Wait and see for them to come to you. Yeah, you've got to be proactive. Yeah, you've really got to be proactive. So that's for sure. Okay. Which kind of almost goes into my third point, which is that you don't need to speak French, but you do need to be able to smile. I think speaking French would really help. I have a caveat. Are you ready? Yeah. Although after our recent visit during peak high season, I'm on a mission to learn French for all the young, sexy French couples that rejected me. Not rejected me, but they just didn't. Just sexy French couples. I threw myself out there to, I think, was it two or three different couples? Three couples. There was a group of people as well, and they were like, no. learning French for next season. Bullshit. I'm serious. Put it on. It's on this podcast. Yeah. I'm going to be learning conversational French for next season. Yep. All right. So I can hit on people. My other one is if you go during high season, book things early. You book everything. Because there were moments that we missed because we just didn't have bookings. Yep. That's my kind of one of my tips for similar success at a cup. Anything else that you want to add to that? I think the one overarching is you've just got to let that come at you so don't you know there's going to be shit there that you think this is not my thing there's going to be things there that you see that if you think oh my god this is amazing or things you're involved in that are really amazing but you've just got a lot that come at you if you've got things that you you know like smoking as an example is not my favorite thing to be around when you're in a sexy environment yep i don't really have a problem with it out on the street but when you're in an environment like that it takes away from the sexiness for me so it was that being involved being in those situations you've either got to say, I'm going to let this fuck with my night or I'm just going to suck it up and say, okay, I'm at carp. I'm only here for this period. I know this is a fun time where I can be a lot more childish, a lot less adult-like and just make decisions that are maybe not the same as I would make in my adult life. You're not captured by your adult-ness. Right, reality. Yeah, by reality. So you've really got to just let it come at you and dodge the bullets you don't want to be involved in but keep a smile on your face while you're doing it. I agree. You will find in that group of people or whatever that you're at when you're not if you're in perhaps something like smoking and it's not your thing if you're smiling and talking to people and they bring and you'll find people who are comrades in that as well and then you just fuck off somewhere else and you can play or you can chat or you can do whatever it's it's you really just gotta and I use smoking as a very succinct example but there's many other things. as well. Don't let something that maybe not be your perfect ruin your night or your holiday. Yeah, which could be the perfect. You've got to be willing to just take it as it comes. Turn on your heels. Make it, you know, there's fun to be had there. There's so many different environments at Carb. You're the only person stopping in the way of you getting in, you having fun. Exactly, of having fun. Because there is, if you're not comfortable at one of those events, there's ten others going on at the same time. Go to Manor. Pick one of the others and just go there and you'll find one that fits. Yeah, and you'll find the people that fit. Absolutely. I think that's true. I think if you're not having a good time, then that's a look in the mirror scenario. I think that's certainly an aspect of it. I mean, don't get me wrong. Some situations happen as well. I mean, certainly there's times that Carver have gone, I'm not enjoying this. Or like I get a UTI and I can't play. Fucking fuck. So there's that. I noticed how you glossed over that. I did get a UTI in the last like two days. Anyway. What do you mean? How many days were we there for? So half of the event you had a UTI. We got a review for the podcast. Oh, yeah. This is actually from the Netherlands. Oh, shit. Yeah, and his name is Mr. Joe from the Netherlands. We got it about a month ago. Three stars. Oh, well. The title is Kate is doing an awesome job. And the description, the subject, the description is Kate is great. Three stars. You know what I love about the Dutch? And I really do because the Dutch and Australians have this in common. Keep it on the real, real. We just tell it like it is in general. And what I can say from this comment and that title is that that gentleman really likes Kate. And the reason for the two stars missing from five is because I'm also on the podcast. Yeah. Hey, Mr. Joe, if you want to see my tits, just tell me. Just say it straight up. Yeah, which is exactly what he's saying. I did put up a photo of me at breakfast in cup with my boobs out. Oh, yeah. On where? Patreon. I didn't want to social media. I'll get kicked off. Yeah, of course. But that was the one you took where I was like having my eggs and I was sitting in the sunshine. I love being naked now. Yeah, we've got a couple of windows in our house that don't. I'm just so embracing it. I need to get curtains on. I mean, it's better if you're in the sunshine in south of France. I'll take it. Yeah, you can do this pretty much anyway. So anyway, if you do like the show, please do give us a Maybe throw some love to Daryl. No, that's fine. I mean, I'm okay with this. Kate is the deserving one for the love on this podcast. How would you rate a cup experience this year? I would give it a solid three out of five. I would give it a nine out of ten. We'll do again. In fact, nine out of ten liked it so much, did it again. Yep, did it again. And would comfortably go back again. If we could afford it. In monies. I know, in time and money. Yeah. going back in 2026. Hell fucking yes we are. We are going back in 2026 and really excited by that. But that has been the Cupdog Swinger Adventure for 2025. What the fuck is happening here? You don't remember that? Oh my god. Yes I do. And this is one of the theme songs. Only because it was played so often. At every pool party. Yeah. Every single event we went to this song came on. How do you feel about it? How does it make you feel? Does it get you excited? No, I still, I didn't really like it there and I really don't like it here. We're going to lead out with that. So that has been the Cupdog 2035 Swinger Adventure. We'll see you guys in the next one. Bye. Thank you for joining us. Thank you for joining us. All right, guys, that has been the One Plus Swingers podcast, and we will catch you on the next episode. Thank you so much for listening, and we'll see you soon.
