Want to send us a message? Network, network, network. Every opportunity to connect with other swingers is critical to finding the parties not posted on swinger sites. Networking is fun and connects you with couples and their list of invitees.Over the years our connections to couples in the lifestyle have opened up all kinds of doors for us. These lifestyle friendships provided us invitations to parties, connections to other couples, and a richer experience. This connection also relieves the anxiety that can come with meeting new people, or attending parties that you ve never been to before. Knowing at least one person can really free your mind of worry about not knowing anyone there.We had met this couple at an after party at a hotel takeover. This initial interaction got us invited back for more fun at their house, and a new group of people. This party expanded our circle of friends even more. Each new group brings more opportunity, and better connections.SHOW NOTES:Make the connectionExchange contact informationFollow upGo anyway if you can t play Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
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More and more couples are branching out and hosting in their homes. Lucky us. Yeah, lucky us. we've been in the lifestyle for long enough now where we've kind of seen things kind of grow and shrink and grow yes and i'm not just talking about certain things at the parties but the lifestyle community has kind of shifted oh yeah just in the brief time and i say brief because you know we've interviewed swingers who've been in the lifestyle for like 20 or 30 years and we've met couples who've been in lifestyle for 20 years um who haven't interviewed but yeah it it's always changing. Always, always.
So, you know, we came into the lifestyle at a time where there were lots of hotel parties, lots of takeovers.
There were several venues, like established for several years kind of venues long-standing established house parties and most of those are gone yeah most of those are gone i know and even the hotel parties aren't quite the size that they used to be they used to be like monthly events when we first started And we were spending an awful lot of time and money having great times at hotel parties yes but as you know things change and people change and venues change and society changes and all that this is why you have to stay on top of your your game and just keep networking.
And networking is really important everywhere in life, right? Career, friends, lifestyle. It's all really important to make connections and make friends because you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.
And it's important to kind of keep those people who you run into close so you know you meet an interesting couple or you meet interesting friends like you want to keep that going right it's it's just it's a skill that you already know or if you don't know you if you know it you just continue to do it if you don't know it get good at it right and it's it's good to get better at networking right and i will say i wasn't i wasn't really good at this and and my job networking skills suck but we've gotten really good at the swinger networking and now now we're finally in our groove, I think, after eight years.
Not that it's going to take everyone eight years to get there, but. No. Some people are better at it than us. We were introverts when we started. Yes. And now. Now we're extreme extroverts. No. Extreme extroverts. Extreme extroverts. No. No.
We're're not but we are definitely way more confident yeah comfortable like we're finally comfortable in our swinger skin so to speak because you because you know we know what to kind of expect now so it's like oh yeah that oh yeah sure we've been there done that it's like with anything you know you get less nervous the more you you do something because it's you know practice it starts to get comfortable sure right yeah so we we went to a glow party a local hotel takeover hotel party i don't know if they took over the hotel but it was a local hotel party it was a glow party theme right and after the party which is always so much fun and a complete surprise because we didn't plan on the after party no this was someone we'd met before briefly and they reintroduced themselves and threw an invitation our way and we said sure sure let's go for it yes yeah so it was we kind of stumbled into an after party not literally like stumbled like not drunk stumbled but just surreptitiously stumbled but these are where the connections come in right because people recognize you they're like oh hey how's it going right place by the way we happen to have why don't you stop by ding so we went to this after party and we'd met uh this like i said this couple well one of the people in the couple it was a single two singles who'd gotten together for the party right and lo and behold we're in this after party and we heard a knock on the door yeah come on in because you know because there was a sign on the door there was a pineapple a blinking pineapple sign on the door which of course is an, a very open invitation for anybody to come knocking.
And this couple happened to be a little adventurous, not really nervous. They were interested in meeting other people. And clearly the party wasn't over for them. They're like, hey, this door looks interesting. Yeah. Let's go inside.
I know and she was way more bold than than i i i don't know if i would do that but now i'm like hell yeah i'm gonna do that yeah i'm gonna take out a page out of her book for sure we will start what do you have to lose right you open the door you assess the room and you're like hey just checking it you know you can make a decision to stay or go absolutely in the moment you can come in most times people will come in come on in some handshakes some hugs but you know there will be occasions where they're like i'm sorry it's a private party it's just the four of us we've got some you know new people and we're like sure sure no problem you know right yeah i mean people are pretty honest so absolutely i mean and then you just and then I don't know.
got some you know new people and we're like sure sure no problem you know right yeah i mean people are pretty honest so absolutely i mean and then you just and then you know there's just said you know hey we we we heard something was going on in the room you sounded fun we just thought we'd say hi and you just move on to the next room yeah they just knock on every door after that. Tick. Whether they have a pineapple or not. Yes. So this couple knocked and, you know. They came in. They came in and. We had fun.
It started with two couples and then turned into three couples and then they knocked and it became four couples in the room. They were attractive people.
They were were fun they were open-minded and it was a great time it was a great time we all had a good time we of course exchanged contact information because why not exactly they were fun let's have more fun right and then we do we reach out to them first and say hey or did they reach out to us first we followed up so once again following yes good networking practices we followed up after we'd met them and said hey we had a great time you know we looked through the guest list of who was at the party we found their profile we sent them a message oh that's right through the yeah and that's my standard mo right yep so you know you you meet a couple and you reach out to them after an event after a party and just say yep you know it was really nice meeting you assuming of course that you want to reach out to them right and have a second encounter yeah and that's it it's just a simple message yeah and that basically opens the door yep they know that you know that they know that you like them that we know and everyone knows and everybody knows so we kind of exchanged contact information because our profiles were there yep and shortly after that they sent us an invite saying hey we're thinking about having a house party would you be interested in coming and i said we said i'm always interested in coming so just tell us where and when and of course i said absolutely here are here are the best three dates in our calendar and i gave them specific dates right and and we we of course followed up with that because it felt a little forward like we were proposing when they should have their party.
We're open to anything. But these work really well for us. But these work great for us. Anyway. Yeah. So they ended up picking one of those dates, which worked out great for us. So we put it on the calendar immediately. Yeah. And this is the key to this. When you hear about opportunities, people are having house parties, start networking because your normal venue may dry up. When we were in Colorado, the house party there that was very established, several of them, there was some crazy political stuff going on in that community, and some of those house parties were getting shut down.
they were established parties right people could count on them until they couldn't count on them anymore because they got shut down so it's it's key to kind of keeping the community alive by networking and keeping contacts and you know what you never know what's going to happen right and sometimes these house parties these little parties are a lot of fun they're usually yeah they usually are a lot of fun yeah and i always put the date on the calendar anyway and i follow up yep pencil it in right because what happened was they said they're going to have a party.
I put on the calendar but you never really know for sure but it's on the calendar as a holding as a place holder right yeah until you're naked in their living room you don't know if it's actually happening and you make other plans for the weekend in case that one falls through something that you can cancel you know that's that's fluid and we followed up with them before they confirmed with us that it was really happening right because they had posted the party about good two weeks out and so we followed up with them hey just checking in or even more i think it may have been like a month yeah in advance which was fantastic because it gives people plenty of time to make arrangements and have those connections anyway so we checked in with them about four days ahead and they confirmed which was a usually i like to do a week ahead but i i waited um and then they said absolutely we're still holding it so we go we get there early because they said we were super anxious i mean yeah and and they said make sure you're here before 10 30 because I'll see you next time.
we get there early because they said we were super anxious i mean yeah and and they said make sure you're here before 10 30 because we don't want to answer the door after that we're going to be having some fun right you don't want to be you know giving the tours and things like that and there was a fair amount of people there and we were surprised there was actually way more people there at that time than we thought were going to be there we thought it was a small gathering of like six couples yeah and as you know we were i think we were the first couple that was there but more couples showed up as within like the first hour oh i guess we were the first the other couples that showed up after that were more introverted and very very quiet yes the first the first two couples that showed up right after us were so i was a little nervous because english was a second language and so a little bit of language barrier and a little bit of cultural differences and then introversion on top of that more introverted than than us which is which is terrifying right and so we were struggling to keep the conversation going you know you ask a lot of questions and stuff like that and I don't it could be that too.
I mean, I get that all the time. Okay. Can we talk about October for a second? Oh my God. Yeah. I've been waiting for this. We were invited to be guest speakers for two engagements on a six-star crystal cruise ship with 310 lifestyle couples. And it sails from Montreal to Boston during the peak foliage season. I'm super excited. And honestly, I'm really nervous.
Yeah, it's kind of a version of like a swinger TED talk that we're gonna have to do oh my god i know and more importantly if you know the brand it's llv luxury lifestyle vacations you may have seen them and they're sexy playmakers with their fun red hats this ship the crystal symphony is classy butler service for every single room michelin rated restaurants full spa clothing optional sensual playrooms like everything theme nights and international dj so it's luxury and nudity oh man this is gonna be great. The bottom line is we want you there with us. It's 310 couples.
And like all their vacations, they book up fast. They really do. Their vacations are extremely popular. So please come with us. And in order to find it, all you have to do is go to ourwingerlinks.com and look for the LLV Sensual Voyage. We hope you'll join us. So let's see. Yeah. Then more people started showing up. Yeah. Yeah. Started pouring drinks.
People started snacking a little bit and about god what was about 30 people were there 30 40 yeah probably about that 30 20 30 people yeah way more than we thought which was great so the extroverts arrived and so there was introvert and more introverts arrived so there was something for everybody right everyone kind of just gelled and it got louder and people started having more fun drink yeah you said drinks food all that oh yeah this party had no donations at the door you didn't even have to bring your own alcohol but some people did yeah and the the crowd likeoebe was saying pretty good mix of different people some very new people some people who like this was their first house party and some other people who were much more experienced including uh one of our friends who we've we've interviewed before who hosts her own parties we're pausing for a few minutes because phoebe was getting very hot and had to go strip off some of her clothes phoebe's back and she's wearing much less clothes than she started with i am i was sweating oh my gosh i totally appreciate yeah fleeces is not uh not the appropriate clothing for recording this well the weather's changing and so you know that awkward in between right after summer right before fall it's hot in the day is it cold what's going on you're in between your sweater shorts sweater i had on like five changes of clothes just get naked honey i know i should just be a nudist during this time or just always maybe always yeah just yeah just take your clothes off where were we all right so so yeah the the couples started kind of connecting in terms of social connecting and so the shy couples kind of grouped together and they were having conversations and it was the quiet side of the room the kitchen at this particular point and then the loud people the super yes outgoing extroverted people were on the other side of the kitchen and it was it was probably about an 80 20 split in terms of the room then we all moved to the we gotta get to the good stuff yeah we're gonna get to the good stuff yeah we gotta go so living room yes so we Moved to the living room.
Dun dun they had a dice game that i was nervous about and one of my friends that had actually showed up to the party i knew she's going to show up i said i'm not really into the the whole game swinger game thing and she's like oh we don't have to play him she's like i'm just gonna go to the hot tub when when they start to play i go okay great i'll join you so i had someone in my corner to hang out with but because yes to be clear because swinger games often feel like put your keys in the fishbowl yeah and you pull the keys out and whoever keys you get are that's the woman that you get to take to the bedroom kind of thing like the old school stereotype forced junior high school participation kind of a thing awkward yeah awkward they have that feeling and we have had friends go to vegas for some of these uh parties i don't know it's like a hotel party kind of a thing that had a party the game thing and it literally was like a key party yeah where they were like oh hell no because we see the crazy eyed weird mankini wearing dude in the corner he's gonna get my name out of the bowl and i'm gonna have to make the choice to sleep with that guy well i mean not me personally but the girls right the women that we were talking to one of the guys i guess didn't shower right yes he did he didn't smell very clean at all and they were having a real big issue with that which i understand so the whole thing was not sexy and they were all trying to plan their exit strategy to get away from this game and and the long and short of it is you don't have to plan an exit strategy just get the out just run just run so games at swinger parties can yeah go really poorly and actually even this game that we played it started slow it was a little awkward right but i think part of it was the mood wasn't really like the lighting in the living room wasn't the best it wasn't a cozy environment that the living room had vaulted ceilings and and the seating wasn't accommodating most of the people so right you didn't it it didn't really envelop everybody and part of it too okay so to kind of back up a little bit you're gonna play a game the game is a game of chance and this particular game was rolling two dice yeah so one of the dice was an action and then the other die was a body part if i remember right something along those lines it was kind of like kiss a neck or suck a nipple or yeah so here you have a random chance of rolling something and then having to pick someone from a room who you've just met uh-huh mostly just met or yeah uh there was one other person in the room who two sorry three a couple and our single friend who we had met before and actually played before and so for us everyone else was new yeah everybody else was brand new we'd either seen them at an event or never met them before kind of a thing so here we go dice are rolled yeah people pick and luckily like the host picked someone that they knew and they were comfortable with and so it kind of softened it a little bit and it started kind of opened the room up they gave they did say though if you're not comfortable then you know you don't have to or you can change it to something you're comfortable with so if you don't want to suck the dick of a random stranger that you just met five minutes ago you could maybe go kiss them or or just nibble on their neck or nibble on their neck yeah at least it kept the engagement active so that no one not everyone just stepped out of the game it it it lowered lowered the bar a little bit so that you didn't feel so on the spot.
Yes. But here's the thing. So even if you have the option to opt out, and this is why games are kind of a risky move at a party, because everybody gets to opt out.
Well, the first couple rolls, and the first couple that they pick opts out so then the next person rolls and the next couple yeah then no one's playing if everybody's opting out then there's really not a game then what's the point exactly so thankfully there were some slutty people there and we all decided to play yes and we were all in my friend the one i was counting on as my wing woman who was supposed to go run to the hot tub as soon as the game started she's all in she was all in on the second round oh yeah she's taking her clothes off she's doing lap dances i'm like well if she's in now i have to be in yeah which wasn't terrible for me oh no it was well it was terrible for me too you had me and some other guy in your mouth it was terrible yes so i got the roll the i hate sharing suck suck a dick i think i said that earlier so it's very fresh in my head and it was very nice yeah he was very cute and um his dick was very nice and it was very fun and so then i had his dick in one hand and then you somehow magically your pants fell off i think my pants always just fall off i don't understand and then all of a sudden i was doing two dicks at almost at the same time it was so much fun and.
And then his wife was sitting on the chair kind of behind him. And so I looked over and I looked at her and I motioned for her to come over because I really wanted her to be part of it because she looked a little uneasy. Oh, she was playing with herself. Oh, she was? Oh, yeah. She was touching herself. Oh, okay. I don't feel so bad.
but that uncomfortable look on her face was pleasure yeah the pain pleasure yeah okay good okay good so yes so she came over i just wish i had had her mouth on her husband's dick at the same time my oh yeah i was hot but i was just i was having so much fun between two dicks i didn't feel like sharing right and and they they were a newer couple and so it was it was nice yes they were participating in playing despite the fact that they were fairly new i know but you know once again with what husband isn't gonna turn down a blowjob from from phoebe or any woman uh for that matter yes yes oh my god so it it so the party has officially started oh yes still a little awkward in the in the wings kind of right behind the wherever most of the people were sitting yeah because there were a couple dice rolls where it was like uh no we're gonna pass and there were a couple other couples that kind of passed and we understand later why right one of them passed but anyway it it worked out but it was a little awkward at first yes but once the clothes started coming off and the playing started happening we of course got the terrible idea to just ask the other couple to just go to the other room oh yeah you know what we're tired of playing games let's play some games yes so that was me saying let's go to the bedroom now absolutely so that got started so we went and then everyone else followed which was great because that party needed to get started yes so we went to the bedroom and like i said everyone else followed up there was two rooms that people were playing in but there was a lot of watching in our room yeah a lot of people kind of standing on the sides and watching and a couple blowjobs on the side right they kept flicking on the light which bugged me well because they would lean up against the wall the light switch yeah there's a little butt dialing of the elbow yes anyway that was annoying but uh still had a great time there was two four six couple six people more than that i i it was six people on the bed but then i don't know there must have been 10 or 15 people in that small bedroom yeah there were a lot of people in the bedroom standing around watching and stroking and sucking and it was awesome yeah all the all the good things going on all the all the good feels oh I do want to say we met this couple and they were super sexy why because they were so engaging they were so engaging with their conversation and their confidence that i i was just taken by them i really was they were just great people genuine right and once again pictures do not do you justice on these websites right got to meet people you have to meet them in person because their conversation their intellect their humor They're the things that they're into that you're into is so it makes a huge difference oh yeah personality is is key to all of this yeah so if you have a terrible personality you're fucked yeah you might still be fucked but but yeah having a good personality and having confidence makes a tremendous difference in terms of how you yeah present your that first impression oh my god after five ten minutes of conversation i was like really into them oh yeah i was like oh my god in fact i hope we meet them again oh yeah we'll meet them again yeah we've we've seen them twice now at parties and we didn't get to play with them that night, though.
Well, there were extenuating circumstances with her that night. Oh, yeah. That's right. Which happens sometimes. Sometimes us ladies aren't always available. Yes. Even though we want to be. Not this week. Next week. Yes.
So the night was great yeah as times as we said there was a bunch of soft swap it was mostly soft swap yes that's true sorry go ahead uh it was mostly soft swap and the the new couple who phoebe had been sucking earlier oh yes they played next to us on the bed but we didn't get to engage with them but they were clearly having their time and it was very hot and sexy and we really hope we run into them again yes because they're a very cute couple um but yeah it was it was fun and sexy and it was it was great to have that many people in a room everybody kind of having their own time but everybody being in close proximity so it was a lot of fun right now some of the not so hot moments of the evening because we have to balance that good with the bad there's always a con there's always a con in the evening but you always make the best of it one of the partners was didn't i didn't get kissing i didn't get oral i just got you know face down here's why we sail on virgin it's's adults only.
No kids screaming at breakfast, no family buffet lines, just champagne at noon, late night pool parties, and people who actually want to be there. The vibe? Think boutique hotel that happens to float, tattoo parlors, drag brunch, restaurants you'd actually pay for on land. Plus, when you're looking to connect with other couples who know how to have fun, let's just say Virgin attracts a very specific type of adventurous. No wonder Bread Cruiser's here, just your people. Face down, ass up. That's the way we like to... Oh, sorry. My high school two-life crew just popped out.
Yes, and I don't mind that position, but if that is the only position and that's all I get for the night, I'm sorry. I'm not your fucking glory hole.
right so i was a little a little like disappointed and miffed that that's all i got so anyway that's all i have to say about that but i'm not your fucking glory hole yes yes that's a t-shirt we'll be releasing we will be yeah oh my gosh and then oh my gosh ed doesn't want me to bring this up but i'm gonna try and do it delicately it's a it's a good point it is a good point so there was this couple that we had played with about a year ago at a party and it was one of the hotel after parties i believe and he you know as we've talked about many many times the night is long you've had you know drinks dark it's the room is dark yeah you know and this is a common issue with with men and you're you know and condoms and condoms so all that he had some ed issues that night right yeah for for whatever reason maybe he was really tired that i don't know you know it all plays it all has a factor this is why you have to take a nap you know so that you're up and awake and ready for a long evening don't drink too much and maybe have some red bull something right right so he felt really bad about it i i was i said don't feel bad i mean this this is very common i and i was gracious to him he felt terrible and i didn't make a big deal out of it i really didn't no because i don't want to bruise the ego of a man, right?
And I let it go. And honestly, I've forgotten about it. Lo and behold, that same guy is at the party. The first thing out of his mouth was, oh my God, he brings it up. I'm so sorry.
He's like, I remember that time when we were together and I couldn't get it up and i couldn't fuck you and then and i was like what wait that was you wait remind me what happened totally forgot it totally forgot so he did himself a disservice he had to dig it back up he he he literally dug the skeleton out of the closet and put it out on display right and if he hadn't i would have never remembered no never remembered yeah and so i thought okay just let it go okay just let it go and i didn't add to the conversation because i thought it would just be best for it to just let it die but he kept bringing he went on and i'm like dude this is not sexy and it's not helping yourself yes and then you're like you're like subconsciously reinforcing yes exactly so i was trying to stop him so he would stop reinforcing the negative it was awkward yeah so here we are in that room i'm standing next to ed i see him coming across the room beelining it like like a rocket towards me and he goes i really want a second chance with you.
And I'm like, okay, sure. Dun. What do you think happened? Yeah. Self-fulfilling prophecy. It was terrible. I felt so bad for him. And I'm like, dude, you can't. You can't say that stuff. Right. I forgot. You got to let it go. You got to get it out of your head.
And move on so anyway please we're very women are very forgiving we're very you know most women are very forgiving yeah i am like i'm i'm a realist like it's like i always give people second third chance right because shit happens yeah shit happens right it's not a big deal and and learn from it move on yeah and oh my god i felt so bad for him i yeah but you know what there won't there won't be a third time because i'm sorry yeah because now now it's in your head now stuck in my head. Right. Because of the conversation beforehand and the second time.
If there wasn't a, honestly, if there wasn't a conversation about it and it happened the second time. You may not, you wouldn't have even remembered. I wouldn't have remembered and there would be a third time. No. Because the first time I didn't remember. Yeah. Anyway. I'm with you. And the second time, the third time would have actually been a second time and then it would have, right. Anyway, you all get the point. And the final lesson for the night is the not hot. Oh, oh my God. Oh my God, everybody. Oh my God. Oh my God. Okay. So. Rule number one.
Don't smoke other people's pot yes oh my god so we felt comfortable with the house guests yeah most of the people had gone home we were just hanging out naked in the kitchen there was one other couple there that brought this infused something something wonder joint some wonder it was look store purchase so i felt confident about it i thought well i hadn't been taking anything i hadn't been drinking oh well i had drank a little bit that night just a little bit but not a lot and i thought i'll just take a drag well i ended up taking a big drag right and immediately no joke you guys no joke like with a hundred percent regretted it within 30 seconds i was like oh shit that was bad this is gonna be bad i knew it so i went to the bathroom i immediately felt sick nothing happened then i was dizzy the room was spinning this is all a matter of like two three minutes and i'm very sensitive to any kind of anesthesia you know medicines things like that so i'm like this is gonna be a fucked up night thankfully thankfully it was after the party like god thankfully this wasn't like at the beginning of the party this was after we'd had a really good time and it was a great evening and we were winding down for the evening we just didn't expect for phoebe to be winding down by crashing and burning by spinning out yeah and you all know what it's like and the spinning and you know it takes several hours and all of that and it was miserable and thankfully they had a this bare bedroom for us to stay in that night because there was no way i was going to get in a car because that would have been horrible with the whole spinning so you know we slept it off and got up the next morning but i swear to god that resided there was residual effects three days later and to this day i don't know what the it's it's exactly like being hung over oh my god it's like two so bad day two after you've had like a really bad yeah night never again uh-uh nope yeah not gonna do it no strange pot i took a risk and uh it did not it did not bode well for me nope so in conclusion don't do drugs okay uh i have i have the worst i have alcohol so much easier to control well because you can only drink so much so quickly i guess if you were just throwing shots back but that's pretty obvious slower and i don't know and and with with pot it's like you're one cookie away from a really bad experience or a really big inhale and i've had this experience too uh-huh where I've got a pretty big lung capacity.
Oh, yeah. And, yeah, just don't suck that hard on the bone. Just saying. I know. So bad things can happen. Bad things can happen. Yeah. People are just probably, yeah, we're dorks. I know.
You're all probably laughing at us like, my god rookie mistake but so besides not taking other people's weed yeah yeah it's really important that you make those connections with people ask them questions where have you been what parties do you like have you been here or there because they're going to come up with new ideas for different parties or they're going to remember you and invite you to their party right and don't feel like it's you know an exclusive party ever i mean it's not like they're gonna oh we can't tell you because we're an exclusive group no most of the time they want to meet new sexy people yeah always we never run into that give them your contact information obviously and get theirs which is a super important tip because if people don't return your call you know don't contact you then you're kind of left hanging but if you've got their contact information you can kind of keep the conversation flowing yeah and And that way you can follow up because they've forgotten that your card or information is stuck in the wash in their jeans.
Yeah, I know. I swear that's where all of our cards are. Could be. Say yes to house parties, even if you know you can't play that night. It's always a chance to network. Absolutely. Absolutely. I've done it several times, and that other couple that I said was super hot after 5, 10 minutes, that was the same thing. They were there networking. Yep, couldn't play that night. They made friends. They connected with us. They had great fun. Yeah. I know. And then, you know, consider hosting your own party. It doesn't have to be a big party. It could be just a couple couples or even just one couple.
And get started. Get your feet wet. Exactly. And potentially other things. Oh. Yes. All right, sexy people. Thanks for listening. Thank you. The Swinger University needs your help. If you like our podcast, let the world know, or at least tell a fellow swinger or two. Not only will you be helping us, you'll be helping your fellow swing lifestylers. Please rate and review us on Apple, Google, and Amazon podcasts. You can share your favorite episodes on social media. We're at TikTok, at Swinger University, Twitter, and Instagram, at SwingUPodcast.
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