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We have to talk about something we've been genuinely excited about for months, and our patrons actually got a preview of this already. Jamaica! Yes, we are going back, and actually, we have a great offer for you guys. Yeah, it's Swingcation. It's October 11th through the 18th at Hedonism 2. And if you don't know what Swingcation is, it's pretty easy. Swinger plus kink plus vacation. It's a hosted group with real structure, workshops, lectures, real conversations with experts who are passionate about bringing and bridging that gap between the swinger world and the kink world.
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And use our code at checkout. And you guys, if you have any questions about the event, the resort, or what to expect, just reach out. I mean, we're here for you. We're happy to help. So once again, TicketForPlay.com forward slash Swinky, the code SwingerU-VIP. We really want to see you there. Welcome to Swinger University, your horizontal enrichment program. Lessons that make you hot for a teacher all over again. Here are your hosts, Ed and Phoebe. Hi, this is Ed. And this is Phoebe. Today we're talking about masturbation. If you haven't heard by now, May is National Masturbation Month.
It's coming out today. It's coming out day was May 7th, 2015, and has since taken over the entire month because it is such an important topic. We're going to cover health reasons, techniques, setting the mood, erotic fiction, and stories. We've had two additional patrons sponsor us.
Yesoug sent us a donation and who was the latest one oh i don't remember ed but you are going to find out yes we have two new patreon sponsors doug and adventure seeker 916 thank you very much for your support uh we we really do appreciate it and it's funny because we've had patreon set up forever and suddenly we're starting to get people who are coming in and helping to contribute to all of the stuff that we're doing. Yes, and we're producing additional content behind the paywall, content as in... Extra episodes. Breakfast with Ed and Phoebe. Wait, I talked over you. What did you say?
Behind the scenes photos and details. Yes. We got all kinds of ideas for additional content. Probably some sexy pictures up there as well. Yes, of course. I just got a whole bunch of sexy swinger wares, so I can't wait to post those photos. They look very good. Yeah, Ed got an appetizer tonight while he was cooking dinner. A show appetizer. My eyes were full from looking at it. I got thumbs ups or thumbs down. And a grope or two. Mm-hmm, yes. I got lucky with what I brought in with my haul. Worked pretty good. Yeah. We're actually going to probably do another episode about, uh, swinger wear.
We did one a long time ago, but you know what? Things have changed. We found out some new hot places for swinger wear. And so we want to kind of send that out because people appreciate that kind of stuff. Oh yes. And speaking of swinger wear, we also have t-shirts now up and available on our site ed's own designs yes these are 100 unique one of a kind no one else has them anywhere until someone steals my art i know i know it's gonna happen could happen but we're going to be wearing some of these at PCAP to show them off and to give people kind of a sneak preview of them.
And like I said, they're live. They're up on our website. So check out our merch page. Yes. And see if you like them. And if you have comments about them or you want to see a different color of one of them or something, let me know. We're also thinking about doing a boutique hotel takeover of about 20 couples in Costa Rica. We have been there before, and this is an amazing place, and we loved it.
So we're thinking about doing it just for our listeners and for clarification this was the first costa rica trip we went on not the one that we just correct so yeah yeah it's it's kind of a magical place it's it really is it's quite a bit different than your standard like hotel resort it's really quaint and it's very nice yes it's nice but it's i don't know it's not i won't say rustic but i i guess i say rustic in the sense that when you eat out when you eat outside even the one we came back from recently right it's all open right so yeah it's outdoor seating all the time because the weather's just so fabulous yeah there's a roof over it but it's right it's very it's very open it's very kind of indoor outdoor style yes yes and the the whole place is basically surrounded by a jungle jungle so god you're kind of wrapped and hugged by the jungle the monkeys come right in to the resort it's amazing yeah it's pretty cool it's so cool we're so excited so if you think that you want to do that with us it's about i don't know two three thousand dollars or something like that and then it's for like seven days and everything is freaking included even the excursions that's unheard of and it's just phenomenal it's phenomenal so if you think you're interested we'll put out a poll also look for the poll on twitter and then or just email us because we love your email yeah and we'll tell you all about what we have in mind and what it's going to look like Yeah.
Ooh, getting excited. Okay. All right. Now. Back to the other exciting Ooh, getting excited. Okay. All right. Now, enough business. Back to the other exciting thing, which is. Yes, self-pleasure. Yeah, why masturbate? Well, I don't know.
Do we talk about the obvious or should we give you some scientific reasons up front first oh well we're gonna give you the scientific reasons of course increases your oxytocin reduces stress it can help you relax to fall asleep and it's a break from pain stress and worry some peace and calm yeah So if you're if you're feeling anxious and tight a nice orgasm will usually relieve all kinds of muscular stress oh yes headaches etc and mental stress so i've mentioned this before in a podcast when i was interviewing a lot when i was in between jobs i would always masturbate before my interview always because I was so nervous and I just needed that the edge taken off and so right before I left the house I was like oh my god and so then I'd get the vibrator down there pull up the skirt stick it over the panties if only they had known what had been going on before that interview yes but it helped so much i can imagine you did it in the car a couple times oh i always used it yes quite often i've probably done it in the car good 20 times i can and i did penetration while driving i forgot about that there was you had a special implement that you had a glove box i i did i'm not going to reveal what it was but it was not a dildo it was a household item and and not like an appliance no but something that was handle like uh-huh uh-huh i was desperate and then i once i discovered how good it was i just kept it in there you're like shit this is great i'm gonna right i'm gonna do this all the time and it's cleverly disguised it didn't look like a dildo at all so it was like so the next time you're looking through someone's glove box and you see something that may not look normal in a car yeah you're like you can look at that and go i wonder especially if it's cylindrical in nature yes yes and i can't wait to get to oh i, I'm not going to spoil it, but we're going to do another episode.
I'm not going to tell you what it is exactly, but it will be experimenting with things, things other than dildos. Yeah. Let's just say that. Yeah. We've, we've got a whole bunch of episodes for May is masturbation month. We're doing like a whole series of these because you know what we really enjoy masturbating and we're all in on celebrating touching ourselves yes so there you go so for for women there's uh there's a benefits for your pelvic floor health so those orgasmic contractions they keep everything tight We'll be right back. There's some benefits for your pelvic floor health.
So those orgasmic contractions, they keep everything tight. They help with bladder control and all the good things that your Kegel exercises are good for. Exactly. You can get all the benefits of Kegel exercises and get an orgasm out of it at the same time exactly and for the men dr felice gersh an award-winning ob-gyn specializing in women's health said this about men's sexual health it's essential for men's overall health that they get rid of old sperm through ejaculation. It's important for prostate health, especially if you don't have a partner. So the question is, how many times?
More than twice a week. So you should be, your doctor states that you should masturbate more than twice a week. Yes. Yes. It's essential. Like a vitamin. Probably more essential than a vitamin. I like it. I like it. I'm all in favor of that diagnosis. Yes. All right. Let's just say you're stuck in a rut. Here are some things that you can do to help with that. You can change your position. Maybe you get on your knees and masturbate. Maybe you stand and masturbate. That's my favorite. Yes. Phoebe's all about the...
I'm all about the standing standing i told someone that in costa rica and they agreed and well he was shocked he was like really oh there was a woman that you were talking to who was like i love standing up and masturbating it's it like creates tension in the legs and you can set your whole body up for yeah you can squeeze your ass and like your legs and i like masturbating standing up too oh just a thing i like when the men stand up and i masturbate them with my mouth it's easy on my neck that's not masturbation phoebe oh well but i'm not going to argue with it if If you want to help me masturbate later that way, I'm your Huckleberry.
Excellent. You can also bend over. I've seen some women bending over and doing that kind of like in this fetal position. That's kind of, you know, um, you can use timing to slow yourself down. I'm a quick masturbator, but maybe you want to switch it up, you know, try, try slowing things down, right? You can change locations, do it on your kitchen counter, do it in the laundry room, do it on the laundry machine, throw some laundry in and do it on the laundry machine. Do that whole spin cycle vibration. Yes. Thing. Never tried it. Maybe I will. Let's do some laundry. I know.
In your car, in the garage. Why not? Hello. It's different.
It's kind of, it's kind of, um, dirty feeling almost feeling almost because you're like kind of like high school dating yeah like yeah because other people get in the car with me and the next time you're in the car with somebody and you're like i sat right there and masturbated right yesterday and you're sitting on the same seat where i did it there's the whole gear shift knob thing too which i've seen before but oh probably use a condom on that case yes armor all's not good for the lady bits no so while we're going with the car theme you could even do it in a private parking garage or if you're feeling extra frisky do it in a private parking garage, or if you're feeling extra frisky, do it in a public parking lot or garage.
Now, we will tell you that in most municipalities, this is illegal, and if you get caught, you may end up on the sex offenders list. Oh, yes. So we cannot recommend that legally. No. But. But it's a lot of fun. It's a lot of fun. Because I did it. I've done it a couple of times. Because I was in school, I'd gone back to college and received a different degree, and I was – it's stressful. I had a lot of stress, so I had to relieve it in the parking garage. Maybe in her stress relief. Oh, God, it worked great.
All right, so you can also try different things like fruit, bananas, the classic cucumber. Yeah, that's not a fruit. But yes, I think the only fruit you could use is a banana. Your vegetable would be your zucchini, your cucumber, carrot. Actually, are cucumbers and zucchini fruit? They may be fruit no no pit no pit but a tomato's fruit and they have seeds in the middle of them minds want to know maybe it has something to do with the flower could be i see you adjusting yourself over there ed i'm not'm not thinking about anything. Just kidding.
You could try sex implements like, I don't know, something in your kitchen, like the handle of, you know, something. That special grater that's got the rubber nubbies on them. Yes. The handle, not the grady part. Don't put the grady part in. That's bad. Right. Right. Yes. So, you know, experimentation. You could go to your garage, get down your bicycle and put the, you know, two wheels on the ground like you're going to ride the bike. Stand over the bike. And rub on the seat.
And move the bike back and forth the seat over your your lady bits the vulva area and just keep back and forth and back and forth and back not that i've ever tried that i have no idea what that would feel like but you know i've i've heard it it's very nice that's why the indoor bicycle is impeccably maintained. Yes. Sex toys. Get a new one. Or, you know, when you go to someone's house party, ask the host if you could try theirs. Sometimes they usually. Some people share toys. Yeah. Sometimes they have them out. Especially if we've got people sprawled out on our bed.
I'm happy to share all kinds of things with them. Yes. Yes. So don't be shy. Thank you. Especially if we've got people sprawled out on our bed, I'm happy to share all kinds of things with them. Yes, yes. So don't be shy. I have been to a lot of parties where they will have the toys laying out on their nightstand or something, and they're meant to be shared and used. So give it a try because some of them are really expensive, so take advantage. Why not? Exactly. Let's see.
You could try edging or they call it surfing, which is bringing yourself to the edge, maybe backing off, you know, two, three times, however many times you can take it before you just let it go. Right. I haven that in a very long time but when i did do it it was nice i liked it the orgasms were more intense yeah kind of ratchets things up each step that slow build now one thing that you'll want to be be careful of is maybe using toys too much or using any particular type of stimulation overly because you get used to that.
You get used to that particular type of movement or vibration or intensity. And it's good to kind of keep things different, kind of have that variety. Yes. And then else so for that that's true for women although some people say it's not a thing they'll for specifically i will get numb from a vibrator if i use it too often or if it's too strong so the hit can never use it. It will literally like numb my clitoris for an entire week if I use it. It's that strong on me. So I have to be really careful. But I guess other people don't have that experience. Right. Everyone's parts are different.
Yeah. Everyone's parts are different. So there's that for me. So I just, I'm mindful of that. And then for men so there's that for me so i just i'm mindful of that and then for men there's something that is kind of pseudoscience not really proven what is that anecdotal yeah it they commonly refer to it as death grip syndrome and it's kind of what i was talking about where it's you get used to that very hard pressure that a hand, a grip, especially a man's hand, can exert on the penis. And you get used to having that much pressure on it.
And a vagina doesn't have as much grip strength as a fist. Have you felt my Kegels? They're strong. The kegels are strong with phoebe but and she does make me come pretty easily um but it's that friction yeah the level of pressure the consistency and also being able to control it how you want it which is great for for coming when you want to come, but your partner, especially in a swinging situation, they're not going to be able to stimulate you in that exact timing in order to get off.
And so you can run into problems where orgasming with a partner, especially not your own partner, becomes kind of challenging. Right. Um, as Phoebe said, there's not a whole lot of research, like scientific research to study that, but I have heard of that happening before. And of course, you know, Reddit's filled with anecdotal stories about people who have this issue. Right. Right. Um, so some, yeah, something to consider, maybe experiment. I mean, you know, try it. It's always good to mix things up.
And I would say that if you're, if you get used to stimulating yourself with a lot of pressure, you've got to expect that that's what you're used to. It's kind of like, if you only ever had anal sex, you know, blowjobs may just not be exciting for you right and and then you know lastly explore other parts of your body while you're masturbating maybe you know pinch your nipples exactly twist them i like the twist technique oh you know what else i like stick a feather up your butt no you you're all about the feather of the butt week. It's so funny. That's the second time I came up. Tyler Durden.
When I'm getting fucked from behind, when you're laying me on the bed, what I love is that rough surface of like a comforter or blanket or on my nipples. Oh, on your nipples. Yeah. Yes. So as you're moving me, I like my nipples being stimulated. I used to grab a placemat from the table because they tend to have that nice texture, rough texture.
So when you're saying about masturbating and having sex in unusual places, we should do it in a restaurant because they have placemats there oh my goodness yes great yes and we will definitely get rest arrested if they're open maybe we just hide in the bathroom and do it after they close there you go although there'd be cameras that could be fun though make it onto the narcos most wanted list for violating restaurants across the country yeah okay so you could also set the mood you know i i i will say i don't do this i don't bother with i'm i'm all about the business get down to the business.
I don't bother with it. I'm all about the business. Get down to the business. I don't light a candle. I don't set the lights, except for when we, you know, at night, I do like the low lights. It's nice. Yeah. And when we have people over for fun times, we definitely have the whole mood lighting thing set up so that it sets the mood. And I think that's mostly to make them feel more comfortable.
right although it's kind of fun for us too yeah i'll use scents and smells all those nice aphrodisiac type scents and smells i'll put them in the um the little diffuser and i have some that i wear too which is really really nice you can also put on lingerie for yourself wear it all day long or wear it while you're masturbating that's fun that that would be right how fun would it be if i was masturbating in the bedroom and you walked in and i'm in lingerie uh-huh and my fingers are inside me. Uh-huh.
That would huh uh-huh yeah that that would be nice okay can we talk about october for a second oh my god yeah i've been waiting for this we were invited to be guest speakers for two engagements on a six-star crystal cruise ship with 310 lifestyle couples. And it sails from Montreal to Boston during the peak foliage season. I'm super excited. And honestly, I'm really nervous.
Yeah, it's kind of a version of like a swinger TED talk that we're going to have to oh my god i know and more importantly if you know the brand it's llv luxury lifestyle vacations you may have seen them and they're sexy playmakers with their fun red hats this ship the crystal symphony is classy butler service for every single room, Michelin rated restaurants, full spa, clothing optional, sensual playrooms, like everything, theme nights and international DJ. So it's luxury and nudity? Oh man, this is going to be great.
The bottom line is we want you there with us it's 310 couples and like all their vacations they book up fast they really do their vacations are extremely popular so please come with us and in order to find it all you have to do is go to our swingerlinks.com and look for the llv sensual voyage we hope you'll join us Thank you. it all you have to do is go to our swingerlinks.com and look for the llv sensual voyage we hope you'll join us so some of these uh aphrodisiac smells are bergamot ylang ylang citrus is a really good one nutmeg frankincenseincense, amber, cardamom, peppermint.
I also like vanilla because Ed says all strippers smell like cookies, candy, vanilla. Yeah. I did wear that perfume the other night at the strip club.
They almost made you get up on the stage because you you were way too much of a sexy stripper i was dressed like one it was fun i fit right in it was perfect you can listen to sexy music good clean love has a really good playlist in fact i think they have three playlists now and we have a link to that in our show notes so if you want some romantic music or sexy music or whatever just give it a give it a try it's it's out there it's free just you know yeah press play maybe some thrash metal or oh my goodness no i don't know maybe we did end up at somebody's house once, and they were playing some kind of aggressive rock music because they were kind of like rocker.
Uh-huh. Do we like it? It was pretty hot. When was this? Was this early on? This was early on. These were the people who lived across from the high school in Folsom in the apartments. Oh. Oh. Hmm. Yeah. Oh, yes. Right. That was fun. That was fun. Don't know if they're still in it or not. Yeah, I don't know either. I haven't seen them in forever. You could also consume or smoke weed. Get into the right headspace, right? Like you're stressed out and you're trying to relax. You know what? If it's legal in your particular state, you can use weed to kind of relax you and get you in the mood.
Give yourself a glass of wine yeah yeah or your favorite alcoholic beverage listen to some erotica i would totally do this and and we're and we're gonna have have an entire episode on the erotic and erotic audio and stories. Yes. Oh, my goodness. And it's interesting that you say that because I think traditionally you've used video porn for masturbation.
And now you've discovered audio porn uh-huh and i think you're kind of hooked on it i'm kind of into it like big time yeah we're we're even fucking hot yeah we're even exploring hmm we have microphones i know i might have to give you a little taste of my own masturbation session. You know, it is May. Maybe I do that as a bonus episode for May. That would be kind of fun. Could do some mutual masturbation for a bonus.
People are running to their computers now to sign up on Patreon just to get that they're like oh hell yeah sign me up we'll see we should do it i mean we've we've kind of hot what if we oh you know what we can't we can do it on patreon because it's behind the visual visual depictions of pornography. They're very specific with their language about pictures and video. Uh-huh. Yeah. Images, they say. Images. Yeah. All right. I'll give that a shot. You could also rub oil on your body or anything that's kind of scented and slippery.
Makes feel good so get the lotion out lotion when you say that you could use those vaginal stimulating oils or gels that they have if you can handle it you know and your your ph doesn't get messed up by it you know try that um the tingling oils the tingles the tingles and and i would say you probably want to rub it on the vulva anyway and not up inside the vagina because that's just crazy no not gonna be nice don't put that in there there are a bunch of techniques out there also and so if you are feeling like you're in a rut or you just want to you know want to try something new you're you know curious there is this website called omgs.com it's wisdoms distilled from 20 000 women ages 18 to 95 and it's really for both men women and couples they they started off with these seasons model like books if you will or or or a movie right and so you buy a season and they've got different topics and videos however i will say on their main page they have an essentials package and an essentials plus plus package so the seasons thing on their fact page is kind of confusing but i am gonna buy the essentials plus plus package and check it out but i've seen some of the previews of their videos.
Like this lady was literally showing they have real people volunteer to lay there naked and explain and show you what they do that feels good to them and why it feels good i learned about the finger walking technique today i learned about the cage technique where she like traps the clitoris between her her upper fingers and her lower fingers between both hands so she she gets off by not even touching the clitoris it's all around it which is gonna be my jam i know it right and it's all hands she didn't even touch her nipples which i thought for sure she was gonna come up and touch and squeeze the nipples because that always kicks me off you gotta try some of that right so i was like oh my god i've learned a few things so you have to this out.
And I haven't even bought the package yet. I just saw a few little freebies. You know, in thinking about this, you know, you're talking about just using fingers. If you're in a play situation with another couple and the guy's maybe not quite getting you there, you've got two hands, you've got fingers, you could easily get yourself there. And I will tell you from a man's perspective watching a woman masturbate while you're fucking her i am not offended at all offense is the last thing going through my head the first thing going through my head is holy fucking shit that's hot i.
Do that some more. You get so turned on by that. As a matter of fact, maybe I'm just going to stop and just watch because I'm getting a free show. Exactly. Yeah. So learning to use your fingers and being able to manipulate yourself is pretty handy. No pun intended. Here's why we sail on Virgin. It's adults only. No kids screaming at breakfast. No family buffet lines. Just champagne at noon. Late night pool parties and people who actually want to be there. The vibe? Think boutique hotel that happens to float. Tattoo parlors, drag brunch, restaurants you'd actually pay for on land.
Plus, when you're looking to connect with other couples who know how to have fun, let's just say Virgin attracts a very specific type of adventurous no wonder breadcruisers here just your people yes yes so they have topics and videos like i was saying earlier and that there's different aspects of the external link litoral stimulation. They even have touchable videos that allow you to practice on virtual vulvas. And they're guided by real voice feedback from these participants. Yeah.
So if you've got a touchscreen or a tablet or something like like that you can actually interact with the screen and try things out right that's pretty fucking hot i know i can't wait to buy this thing and start you know i gotta wait till the weekend but because i'm doing a bunch of other podcast stuff but yes i need to make a date for masturbation the site also educates on penetration ways to stimulate the clit during penetration the area just inside the entrance of the vagina and they have videos with a focus on breath and muscles to kind of enhance the orgasm kind of the tantric thing yes so they've like i said earlier they've got these two packages the first one is 59 bucks you where you get 60 short videos 11 simulations and 15 interactive graphics those those touch and boop boop you know make or moan kind of graphic ones yeah that and then the essentials plus plus is the one where you've got essentials and then you get the inner pleasure and then you get toy techniques so i'm all that's the one i'm That's 119.
You get 12 more pleasure and penetration techniques, 12 toys with textures and temperatures, et cetera, et cetera. And then 250 short videos, 11 simulations, and 130 interactive graphics. 130 interactive graphics. That's a lot of fancy pictures. It's a lot. These people have invested a lot of money into this. It's amazing. It's a women-owned company. They got like, I don't know, $4.2 million angel investment to get this whole thing started. It's phenomenal. I'm all about it. It's fantastic.
You got you gotta try it out i'll probably do another podcast on it after i actually buy it and get in there and practice and i will tell you how it all went in fact maybe i'll just record some of those sessions and then you'll be you get the first first hand accounting exactly there's another site that you might like called o.school they are articles it's a judgment-free science-based sexual wellness educational platform with a newsletter and you can search this website for free like all kinds of stuff there's tips on how to have an amazing cervical orgasm there's prostate orgasms there's multiple orgasms and stronger orgasms how do you get them struggles with orgasms yep orgasms.
Yep. The list goes on. So it's basically an entire school about learning to orgasm. Yes. There you go. Yes. O.School. Search to your fingers delight. What else do they have out there, Ed? What else did I find? Well, there's lots of erotic apps and websites so according to a study by omg yes and the kinsey institute 90 of women use their imaginations to get aroused so men are very visually stripped uh driven in their sex drive and women tend to be more mentally driven. So there's nine apps and websites that are mostly women owned. We're going to have links to these. Yes. Yes. We are.
I think I know we're going to have links to all of them. Definitely in the next episode we talk about erotic audio and literature. Got it. So this is more of a tease for what's coming. Yes, because the topic was so extensive and I didn't want to go over our time limit. I needed to put this in a separate episode.
And it made sense to kind of chunk it out like this too so we're kind of giving you because it's very targeted information based on certain topics so it's a lot sexy audio that can have narrated scenes stories erotic sounds of people having sex definitely sounds like fun to me oh yeah uh variety raunchy sensuous domination so you can find all kinds of different types of stimulation for different websites yeah and they have them you know for just male or you know with a male or with a female voice they have female female voices male male voices etc they they really cater to everyone wherever you are yeah yes if you're a woman and you want to kind of experience that male female male experience i'm sure that there's something out there voices so characters and i've heard a lot of the audio recordings where they get into character and they do different voices which is kind of fun and where a lot of times women are the star of the show um instead of being kind of like a voyeur watching the outside and that that has to do with that mental visioning of where you're at right with a porn you you look like it feels like you're watching somebody else do it but with the the audio you can actually picture yourself being in that situation because you can imagine what all of that looks like and who's doing it and that you're the the focus of that instead of the who knows the the blonde or the brunette who's there who doesn't look anything like you and she's faking her orgasms so exactly and and to to go back to some of the the variety they these websites are really great websites and apps are really great they they um they hire all kinds of different people with different accent accents from different cultures people of color and some platforms have over 25 percent of their stories that they define as queer so there's a variety of of of things for you to listen to whatever you are into so i was super excited about it's just so sex positive i could just die it was so great yeah yeah there's some fun stuff too that we discovered which allows listeners or members of the site to actually contribute their content up to the site for other people to enjoy.
Yes. We've talked about that on a number of occasions in terms of contributing to those sites or participating in those. We had a subscription to one of those sites for a while. Yeah, and this was video, but you can also do it for audio.
Audio, writing too all of lots of erotic stories that are out there so yeah i love erotic stories it's it's way better than than reading a lot of other stories for entertainment um because there's sex of course is fun yeah so i i was i was really encouraged by by all these businesses really you know that they they love you know having people write in you try your hand at writing try your hand at voice acting maybe you'd really be good at it you you know make a little extra cash on the side might be really fun do a video with you know you and your partner you know it it's it's very exciting i see it as being very exciting you know yeah a little bit of spending money you know hey it gets you starbucks every week you know something right who knows you could become the next who knows uh yeah yeah then there's also some self-care apps where they specialize in female pleasure sexual awareness and and guided practices so it's not just um you know erot, but it's it's a little more educational.
Yes. Or reference. Yes. Yes. So I was I was encouraged by by that. Also, it was really nice to see that type of content out there, too. It's such a great time to be living right now and have all this sex positivity going on it's it's phenomenal yeah a long i mean not that many years ago all of this stuff was very underground or you could be arrested by getting a dildo in the mail and so now yeah you can go into the local drugstore they have them sitting there right behind the counter yes or like yeah like, yeah, they used to be on the top shelf, right above the lubes and condoms.
There still are. Just depending on which store you're in, yeah. So great. Oh, my God. I love it. We hope we have inspired you to experiment with your sexual pleasure in the month of May and beyond. One of the things we love about this lifestyle is the discovery of new pleasures when swinging with others that adds to our sex life with one another now open those legs in the pursuit of self-love Oh, one last thing before you go. If this episode helped you in any way, the single best thing you can do to support the show is leaving a rating and review.
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