Want to send us a message? In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, including pool games like a unique ring toss game involving a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings. They discuss the poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent, sharing insights on how to make consent sexy and navigate its nuances. They mention the evening s fancy, not formal theme and the lingerie party with a toy demo, including various types of toys and a Sybian demonstration. They end the episode by mentioning their plans for the following day, which include a chocolate factory tour and various excursions.Highlights:Pool time with socializing, friskiness, and pool gamesUnique ring toss game with a catcher and a gentleman throwing ringsPoolside pasties theme and the importance of consentFancy, not formal theme for the evening with a lingerie party and toy demoExcursions planned for the following day, including a chocolate factory tour and crocodile tours Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
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It was a lot of pool time. A lot of pool time, which is really great for connecting with people. A lot of drinking, a lot of socializing, a lot of being frisky and, you know, frisky flirty. And around to, well, there's breakfast, right? And then because drinking and staying up late the night before and you're all out of bed, you have breakfast, maybe you take a little nap. Everyone heads down to pool around noon-ish. And then we had pool games at around two, two to three. And what was our pool game for yesterday? Pool game yesterday was a ring toss, but it was a different kind of ring toss.
It involved strap-on dildos and rings. and the the dynamic was uh you had a a catcher which was a woman wearing a strap-on on the side of the pool and you had a gentleman in the pool throwing the rings to kind of catch them and so there's a lot of you know hip action to try and catch the rings and what was going going on in between the tosser and the catcher? I was the cock blocker. So that kept my guy from moving too far forward to cheat. Although I wasn't really good at that because I really wanted him to win.
so my job also was to collect all the rings that didn't make it onto the strap-on in the pool and then feed those back to him so that he could keep trying multiple times. And what was the object? How many rings did you have to catch? All five. All five rings. And different sizes. So I'm surprised the guy's got the small ring. It was probably a three inch diameter from good, what, 10 feet away, 12 feet away. Yeah. Yeah. They did good. It was three people. Quite challenging. Three people got all five and two people. It was kind of like a tie, I think. Yeah.
So there were winners declared and everyone had a good time. For that round. So later in the week, there's going to be a ring toss. Like a playoff, like a championship? Yes. Oh, that'll be fun. So there'll be one ultimate winner who will get a fabulous prize. Very cool. Yes, yes. And what was the theme yesterday? Yesterday's pool theme was poolside pasties. So even the men wore pasties. Women wore pasties. Men wore pasties. Yeah. And then the day before we had animal print theme.
So we tried to have a theme each day of the week, but super stuff and you know pieces are pretty easy pretty easy theme with the exception of the hair loss which can occur uh and and there were there were some gentlemen who were a little concerned about the removal process that's why there's pre-shaving that needs to happen hey there you go that's that is one way to avoid it okay so hold on a on a second. After pool time, kind of later in the evening, we were going to do it in the morning, but we moved it to the evening because it made a little bit more sense. People went back to their rooms.
They kind of got dressed for dinner. And right after dinner, we did a presentation on consent. um phoebe's been doing a lot of research on consent and a lot of research with the Consent Academy and looking through their materials and talking with them. We had a great meeting with them and we decided to present. It was mostly a talk about how to make consent sexy and how to make it interesting and kind of the dynamics that are involved with consent. Because I think a lot of people feel like they understand consent, but it's kind of nuanced. There's a lot of depth to it. Yeah.
And it's more than just saying yes or no. It's figuring out how to get a yes, how to get and feel confident in the yes, and how to give a yes or a no and feel confident giving a yes or no. There's a lot of factors that are involved in a social setting where you may say yes and you really don't mean yes. So as the person asking, you need to be able to figure out how confident was that person, or what was their ability to give me the yes? Did they really mean yes or not? Right. Or was it kind of a maybe? Is it a cultural thing, social pressure thing?
All the nuances of it, which is what we talked about. And then as the person giving that response, do you feel confident, safe, okay to really give a truthful answer? And we were empowering people with information on how to be better at that and just kind of be aware of the factors that can influence your response. And it's okay. Once you know what they are, then you can just work with it. So we definitely made it sexy and a nice way to interview people beforehand to get a consensual answer that works well for everybody. Right. And this was our first time giving that presentation.
And we're going to continue working on it because we'd like to turn it into an episode where we go into the details and we make it interactive and we present questions. And we can't do, obviously, a group dynamic where you can get group participation with an episode or a YouTube video. but we think this is really important information and it'll really help the community and we want to share it. We want to share it with as many people as we can. Exactly. Last night's theme was fancy, not formal, which was nice because it's humid here. It's very humid. My skin looks amazing. Yeah.
I mean, it's fantastic. You don't need moisturizer for here for just feeling refreshed and all your allergies go away yeah it's amazing it's very very relaxing so people dressed up um usually you know something sexy but not too weighed down. There were some sparkles. Ladies were wearing some nice shoes. Wedges or flip-flops because we are in the jungle and there are some uneven surfaces. And it's hot. Once your feet are enclosed, it gets a little hot. So a lot of sparkly flip-flops. We had some live music with dinner. So there was a musician who played for a little bit, local guy.
I guess he's played for them a number of times, and he was good. Some traditional kind of classic rock kind of sound and helped kind of fill in the background with some music. And then afterwards, we all went up to the Boom Boom Room for a little bit of a lingerie party and a little bit of a toy demo, which was fun. There's an array of toys that the host has provided up in the playroom, and she talked about how to clean them properly and maintain them and some of the uses of the various toys. And there was a pretty wide selection, butt plugs, dildos.
Yeah, so if you don't want to pack any of your toys, there's no shortage of toys here. People brought a lot of their own, but the host also brings a plethora of toys. So she lives down here, and she can store all those here, so it's really great.
And, you know, she's open to you using them, and you just have to wash them up, put a condom on them you use them wash them when you're done and then put them back so in addition to that she also brought out uh from from the the regular sex toys that most people will be familiar with to the kink side with some straps and some spreader bars some some kind of improvised stretcher bars. She didn't bring her St. Andrew's Cross because it's a little hard to put into the overhead bin. Or ship it on the plane. Or ship it on the plane. Underneath, yeah.
So she improvised some stretcher bars, but they'll work perfectly well for restraining. Well, and to clarify, even though she lives down here, she has two homes. Right, right. so right trying to get bringing stuff back and forth is challenging right the there were floggers that she brought out some interesting ones that i'd seen before but not actually played with and it was nice to be able to kind of smack them on your hand and feel how they felt. And then the last demo for the night was the Sibian demo. Oh, yeah. And for volunteers, we had a volunteer come up. Two, yeah, that's right.
There was a second lady who got up and rode the saddle.
One gal was more subtle with her vocal um but you could definitely see what was going on and then the other gal we already knew because she had done a demonstration with something earlier that evening and i was like oh she's gonna she's gonna spout in like two seconds and sure enough like a few seconds she's on there she's very orgasmic and within probably within a 30 seconds yeah she was already yeah squealing with delight yeah and then they got her a second time too right right so that was always fun it's always fun watching a sibian demo and you've had the pleasure of trying it out once and having a good experience um maybe this week we'll we'll try it some more and and see how that works yeah maybe in private maybe in private yeah or a small group a small group i'd be okay with a small group that i know yeah there are about 40 people here so 20 couples yeah so it's a pretty big demo in front of a whole bunch of people.
I'm an exhibitionist, but some things, I don't know. I'm a little picky sometimes with my exhibitionism. Yeah, I think people can relate to that. Yeah. And that's a recap of yesterday's activities today. Well, after, actually. Oh, that's true. Let's talk about that. After. So a bunch of us went down to the pool for a late-night swim, and that was nice and refreshing. And they have beds set up on the back end of the pool where there was some friskiness going on late last night. Really wanted to stay up later, but we have an excursion today.
And a lot of people picked the chocolate factory tour, right, behind the scenes. I say factory because it makes it sound, but it's not this massive, you know, facility. It's local, right? And so we get to see how it's grown.
We get to see how it's made we get to possibly actually make some chocolate i hope so yeah and um of course buy some and bring it back so the um the goal today is to bring back some chocolate and uh possibly massage each other with it and and then of course once it's on you know you have to get it off somehow so right and you don't want to waste chocolate and i've already started writing some checks this morning at breakfast about um the the ability of for that chocolate to get off my body once it's applied so yeah yeah well we're gonna have some fun with i do have some expectations today already i will say we are we are setting things up for some future playtime.
I am. So, today is what, day three? Yes, things need to start happening now. For sure, for sure. But today is mostly a free day, and so a lot of people are kind of breaking up. We've got some zipliners going. We're doing the chocolate tour. And we have some crocodile tours going.
Yep, there's some people who who are going to do a crocodile tour um and a fishing boat uh deep sea fishing yeah i don't know if they're going today or not um because the one person who was interested i just saw him walk by and usually they go out early in the morning so yeah we'll see if that happens um but they'll even cook the fish here which is super cool right so so there you go all right everyone i think that pretty much wraps up yesterday yeah so stay tuned for uh more fun and shenanigans as we report back tomorrow if you like these episodes and you want to hear more be sure to subscribe and if you want to hear more details behind the scenes, we're going to have to record another Patreon episode and get that out this week.
Yes. And hopefully after today, there'll be lots of sexy, juicy content. Maybe we do some recording for one of our sessions and see if people would be down for that. That would be exciting. You know, we have threatened to do that. We have threatened people with a good time. Okay. That's what we're doing. We'll see if we get any takers, any volunteers. That's what we're doing. A little performative stuff. So, yes, we are thinking about doing content like that for Patreon.
So, if you're interested in that kind of content, check us out yeah and audio erotica right and we'll talk to you guys again tomorrow so stay tuned for more from costa rica bye oh one last thing before you go if this episode helped you in any way the single best thing you can do to support the show is leaving a rating and review. It takes 60 seconds and helps new people find us when they're searching for relationship education. And we've made it easy. Visit swingeruniversity.com forward slash review. All the instructions are there. Thank you for being part of this community.
