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well the cruise is done but we're going to do our wrap up and our final day in this episode in yeah in this series and phoebe's sick yeah phoebe's on day quill right now we're not sure what happened is that dang ac in the room it dries you out so much at night and even though you try your best to hydrate during the trip if you're at all in the pool and or drinking you're gonna get dehydrated quickly check and check yeah so I wasn't in the pool or the hot tub, but I was drinking and I was trying to hydrate. And with the AC, it just got the better of me.
But thankfully, it's just a little sinus cold, although it's kind of making me feel like poo, which is no fun. But anyway. Cool. Here we are so ready to go the last day was was at royal caribbean's own island the perfect day at coco k which was actually an unperfect day depending on how you looked at it for for weather, it was an un-perfect day. It was a perfect day if you were a seagull. Yes, and you liked the wind and the cold and the rain. Or a penguin, maybe. Oh, yes, that's true. But we were not penguins. No. We were hoping for some fun in the sun.
Yeah, so they delayed the off-boarding of individuals, hoping that the clouds and the weather would clear up. And so while the ship was not allowing us to disembark, we decided to do some administrative stuff like go to guest services dispute some charges go look at the photos make that final purchase and you know stuff like that a pack you know lots of packing so we took advantage of that time until we could get off the boat so not very very exciting things, but, you know, pretty much everyone else was doing the same thing.
Unless they were down in the playroom in one of the conference rooms because the solarium was basically closed because it's too damn cool and wet. Yes. Yes.
So after that was done, we decided let's brave it we we were gonna go out and run run down the wharf the plank whatever it's called to the island yeah brave the cold and the rain and we decided not to because we as we were standing out on the dock under one of the lifeboats yes because that was the only cover that we had watching the rain pour down around us and the wind blow uh we eventually stood there for so long we decided that the weather was not letting up there was no blue sky anywhere on the horizon and we were just going to head back in and do something different right right friends of ours though how they did they did go back in the boat with us but then at some point after we were just taking care of business around the ship um they headed out to their prepaid cabana to take advantage of the free food and drinks and i don't think the island was going to give them a refund so they said screw it we're going so they went out for about an hour and got themselves liquored up and and had a bunch of food they said it was absolutely beautiful um if you ever want it was great cold the water was cold because you know no sun and the wind but they said the cabanas were amazing theirs was outstretched over the water uh there's different types of them all over the island some are on the beach some are off the beach all different kinds of styles and and prices from the ship the view of the island looked amazing i mean it was gorgeous and i was actually looking forward to exploring it the irony was in every elevator they have this like rotating video clip of the island and the different activities on the ship and it was hilarious because all the coco kay video clips were like paradise right like people playing in the sun and the water slides and now going up in the hot air balloon or the helium balloon right uh that was not the experience that we had i know so yeah but that's the caribbean for you yes that is the caribbean for you so while they were back on the island as a frolicking and probably doing other things we decided to check out the playroom And I'll see you next time.
back on the island as they're frolicking and probably doing other things we decided to check out the playroom in the conference room yeah so we took off down there and this is one of the things that this ship and we'll go into that the pros and cons of this ship versus the other ship um this is one of the things that the ship did not have a good setup for and that was a watering station and bathrooms yeah and like i said we will we will come back to that but that became an issue for for getting hydrated for for cleaning up um after you had sex so that that to me was a big deficit it was something that they really have to fix for the next cruise but anyway and i went down there we secured a bed it was busy it was so busy people there were a lot of people down there standing and fucking it was it was kind of cool i loved it i love looking around people are bent over people are on the bed people were like all kind of met configuration that you could think of yeah it was there they were all over each other so cool so we got on this bed and you know we didn't go down there with anyone we just let's go buck and watch people and hear all these great sounds and then this beautiful woman walked up to me and introduced herself i mean i just sat my ass on the bed and she said oh my goodness you're so beautiful and ed's tattoos are gorgeous and my my man has some too You'll love it.
We're going to be on the bed and she said oh my goodness you're so beautiful and ed's tattoos are gorgeous and my my man has some too you'll love it we're gonna be on the bed next to you guys if you're interested feel free to come on over and i said oh i said well we might so then they went over there started getting disrobed and started fucking well other than that hadn't had any conversation with them but right so i was a little hesitant because i didn't really know a whole lot about them they're very attractive and so and i were playing a little bit and we were watching them and they were watching us and i thought i'd like to go over there and just have a conversation with her let's let's have a little bit of a conversation let's do a little housekeeping see what happens let's see what happens so we're sitting on their bed we gravitated over to their bed we're sitting on their bed and there was another bed next to us four they were just getting up to leave so people putting on their clothes changing out the sheets etc while we were having a conversation and i was asking you know do you like what do you like are you full swap soft swap do you like girl play do you like kissing you know what are your boundaries right and so she was giving us answers and then all of a sudden i got a whiff of that fishy smell and i was like oh please don't let it be this sexy couple so i thought well maybe it's the bed next to us and so they got up and they left and after they left i i couldn't discern if it was really them or not and so her her man had just cleaned up, you know, with a towel because they were having sex.
And so I thought, well, it could be them, could be not. So then I thought, I'm going to have to ask. I just am. I can't take the risk of getting BV. And things were progressing quickly. She was already moving over to my breasts and kissing them and touching them. And I thought, okay, hands are going to start moving south, and I'm going to get a bacterial infection if I don't say something. So I said, a little bit of housekeeping. I have a question.
Have you been in the hot tub a lot this trip or in the pool a lot and she rolls her eyes back and she goes oh yeah I've been in the hot tub a lot and I said well that's gonna that's probably going to be an issue for us and she looked she looks at me like, why? I go, well, I'm very sensitive to BV. And I really don't want to get it on the last day of my cruise. And the chances are, if you've been on the hot tub a lot and it's at the end of the week, you might have it. And she didn't even know what it was. So I had to explain it.
And and then her husband looks at me like can't you just put a condom on like uh you could but that does not help at all nope and so the fact that they didn't know about it um was also a concern so i said you guys are so sexy and you're lovely people and we are going to have to pass um just because it's a it's a big risk for me and i just have to be pretty careful extra careful yeah and so that's how i said it it was just super nice and and then we left it very disappointed and you know they continued they were nice and they understood and wished us well and then they went back to having sex and so i was kind of bummed because i was like hmm turn it yeah it was a bummer but anyway i don't have bb so that's good that's a win that was a win and i got to have sex with it so that's always a win.
That was a win. And I got to have sex with it. So that's always a win. What else happened? So we left the room. And then after that, we found out our friends were back on the boat. They hustled back from their island getaway. Yesaway yes people were hungry there was a theme night to be had uh you know strolling up and down the promenade basically with your because it was the last day they made a really simple theme which was just purple exactly purple shirt purple dress purple whatever yes And both her and I had very simple dresses, just pull on and throw on some shoes and off we went.
So we connected with them, went down for dinner, had an amazing dinner. It was so nice. Conversation flowed very easily. We had a bottle of wine. It was so good. And then after that, we decided, hmm, it would be so nice to end the day with couples massages. And so we went back to our place. It was really cool because under our bed, they had extra everything, extra sheets, extra towels, extra bedding. So we made this blanket of protection over the top of our bed because we had to sleep in it that night.
And they came over and we were able to lather ourselves up and still sleep in the same bed at night. We'd even taken a couple shirts, thinner shirts, and covered the lamps so that we had some red. That's right. Kind of shaded the lights a little bit so it was a little more romantic. That's right. We were so clever. We should remember to do that for next time. Maybe take something that's a little less flammable. Well, the lights get hot anyway, so anything you put on the lights is going to get potentially hot. So it was fun. It was a great end to the evening.
And then I think after that, everyone just went to bed because we all had to be up relatively early the next day because it was disembarking day. Yeah. Yeah. The next day, we're up at 630. Getting our stuff together, throwing on our clothes. We had showered the night before. We were ready to throw that little bit of extra in our bag. We had them take all of our suitcases because I really like that. I don't have to drag them through the whole ship. Yes, because as we've discovered in our day after, dragging suitcases around is not easy. Four suitcases and two bags, it's just, it gets annoying.
Yeah, it gets annoying. So we had breakfast. We said, you know, hello and goodbye to a lot of our friends. It was really nice to see them at breakfast and be able to have those final goodbyes and then we i think that was it we just waited for our number to be called um yep got off the boat and got our uber that took a little while. It's kind of crazy. Post-cruise Uber is insane. Oh, crazy. Cars zigzagging in and out. And there were a lot of people who were trying to get bags over cars, through cars, around cars.
And Miami-Dade sheriffs directing people and yelling at people and threatening people to get in their car. Oh, my God.
This woman out into all the cars and she wasn't looking in a car was backing up and it almost ran over her foot get out of there lady anyway so we get into our uber and then we go over to our new hotel the one that does not have cockroaches yay no cockroaches it's an amazing hotel in fact oh man where's the flyer i want to read ed run over there go grab that flyer i really want to read to you the history behind this hotel yes it's a hetero-friendly hotel it's fabulous and the history is this it is was built in the 1940s during the art deco glory days the two-story campton building was originally a mixed-use building featuring 16 apartments and 24 hotel rooms now the campton apartment is part of this hotel and haddon hall so all three of these buildings together are the axel beach hotel complex and the miami beach residents could mix and mingle with visitors during that time and in and 43, the Campton served as a training base for the U.S.
Air Force during World War II as the barracks and accommodated 165 military men.
Then in 94, Hollywood came to Campton, appearing in, and that part, that building appeared in Ace ventura pet detective so it's a famous hotel it is and then in 2015 hadden hall joined the campton or the management you know ownership um put that under their ownership umbrella and they were both restored to their original grandeur and turned into a 164 room hotel and is recognized by the national register of historic places and is part of the flamingo park historic district so it's it's fabulous the work the floors there's no carpeting it's wooden pine floors it's the most gorgeous pine i've ever seen the rooms are nice and big and light cute and deco and the bathrooms are gorgeous great color scheme oh yeah tiling like you said is is great like in the bathroom the tile is really cool i actually put that tile in our room our bathroom it's beautiful here the there's three different bars there's a pool there's a hot tub there's music everywhere great music and friday and saturday night basically out on the the main promenade the the main road that goes through this area um backs up to the hotel and there's a glass tile dance floor bar lounge area in the bash it's pretty cool it's gorgeous it's it's in the perfect location so i highly recommend it and so we're here and loving it and then basically recovering from our trip.
And I've got some day quill on board right now, so I'm feeling a little bit better. But, yeah, kind of resting, relaxing, and recapping. And I do want to do a wrap-up of our bliss cruise.
Yeah, we spent a week on and we've you know covered all the day-to-day events and you know we've been thinking about the last cruise that we were on and this cruise and how it was different and how the boats were different and how the experience was different yes the things that they offered the meet and greets the music the entertainment and how did covet affect it those the protocols that are still in place so let's just address covert first and get that out of the way because it's not very sexy sure COVID protocols were, think not everything was open i'm not sure it's hard to tell if portions were shut down just because or if it was because of the health and safety right or just the number of people weren't utilizing it or they had less staff right it's hard to tell yeah well i'm trying to think of some of the examples of things that we could tell listeners that were shut down the escape room i don't think the escape room was open it was hard to tell if the escape room wasn't open or closed or if just nobody bothered right don't know because you walked up to the guy with the zip line and he was bored most of the day i think maybe right five people ever used it backed a lot of the activities were minimally used because we had better things to do.
I mean, better people. It's Swinger Cruise, so people are hanging out at the pool. Not the Disney Cruise folks. Right. We had much, much more fun things to be doing. And nothing could be, you couldn't serve yourself anything. That. Everything had to be handed to you. Everything. Salt, pepper, ketchup, any kind of condiment, even the water. Plates and dishes like no one handled anything. It was all. Yes. Passed to you. All passed to you. Yeah. So that was a little I mean, I liked it. It was great.
I think that was was perfect way to handle um and less than any kind of contact in that way right but um it just made things a little bit slower yeah things were a little slower but i was going to say in consideration of covid lockdown and we didn't have to wear masks right we're able to wander everywhere in the ship yeah um I'll see you next time.
and we didn't have to wear masks right we're able to wander everywhere in the ship yeah um okay can we talk about october for a second oh my god yeah i've been waiting for this we were invited to be guest speakers for two engagements on a six-star crystal cruise ship with 310 lifestyle couples and it sails from Montreal to Boston during the peak foliage season I'm super excited and honestly I'm really nervous yeah it's kind of a version of like a swinger TED talk that we're gonna have to do oh my god i know and more importantly if you know the brand it's llv luxury lifestyle vacations you may have seen them and they're sexy playmakers with their fun red hats this ship the crystal symphony is classy butler service for every single room Michelin rated restaurants, full spa, clothing optional, sensual playrooms, like everything, theme nights and international DJ.
So it's luxury and nudity? Oh man, this is going to be great. The bottom line is we want you there with us. It's 310 couples and like all their vacations they book up fast they really do their vacations are extremely popular so please come with us and in order to find it all you have to do is go to our swingerlinks.com and look for the llv Voyage. We hope you'll join us. We all got on and off the ship without any outbreak. Oh, my God. Of course, we were all vaccinated and tested before.
It seemed to be pretty unobtrusive in terms of the impact to the cruise and the activities and everything that was going on i agree the extra two days in the fall making it a seven-day cruise is well worth it because you need those two days to basically ease in and like any vacation it's like decompression period. Right.
And you're want that we like that for sure yeah and and i think that we still had two days up front where we were easing into things and kind of getting our head out of real life and into vacation mind space and trying to find our friends and trying to coordinate things and there are groups that came with groups and other people that came with other people so they were very much wanting to reconnect and had a lot of things to say in those two days so we were kind of a little floundery um trying to find those connections and and yeah thanks you're reorienting right exactly and everything out and that does take a little bit of time and then yes go ahead i was gonna say yeah our first experience coming on to the last boat versus this boat oh massive improvement that's right We were basically visually basically visually verbally mentally assaulted coming on the first ship with the drink package do you want it are you sure you don't want the drink packages it became very overwhelming very quickly off the elevator on the elevator sat down to eat like every time you pass someone in the hall that is the first thing they said not hello do you want the drink package that was like the first three days on that ship if i remember it golly so it was that horrible was a huge improvement oh yeah not having to deal with that.
Now, that was a different cruise line, but that was... Yeah, maybe the contract's different with the charter, but we'll see. Hopefully, they never do that again, because it's so nice not to have to deal with all that. Yeah, I'd forgotten about that. That was so nice. That was big. What else? What else? You wanted to talk about something. The design of the ship was something we wanted to talk about. Yeah. The ship was a little different. The Oasis has like a big canyon down the middle. That's the best way to describe it, right? Yes.
State rooms down the sides, and then right down the middle, it's like a big open area area so you've got balconies on the outside of the ship and on the inside of the ship facing each other it's kind of cool right but it does kind of split the boat up and you have two pools so you've got twice as much mc space in fact, I think there was four up top. There were some larger hot tubs, yeah. Divided in the back. And there was a playground water park area and a pool opposite that, and then there were the two regular pools.
So it was like three and a something yeah and i don't know that that was terrible but it did divide the crowd up and when we went to find people we had to do a patrol of all three pools to try and find them it wasn't i'm going to the pool it's i'm going to a pool so you had to figure out which pool they were going to be at right which you know takes a little bit but that's kind of cool too because you go visit all the pools and see all the shiny people all the shiny people glistening in the sun i didn't see too many people with sunburn, which was good. Not like last time.
I think people were really great getting that sunscreen on them. Yeah, yeah. Of course, a lot of people showed up tan to begin with. Well, there is that. Oh, my goodness.
And then what else about oh the music wasn't as much and wasn't quite as loud during the day at the pool which was nice uh last time it was pretty loud you couldn't really talk and it was just non-stop this time it wasn't non-stop and it wasn't as loud so therefore you could really network and communicate so that was that was nice although i would have liked a little more music well the music was always there i guess the the thought that i have is it was low enough volume where you could actually carry on conversation and maybe that's because it was in between the two pools and so it was a little bit further away oh then on the last ship right they also did have less pool parties because kind of crammed them all in at the last day yeah every day they had i thought two or three and this one they didn't have any until the last day right at least you know from the standpoint that there was like games and activities and loud kind of raucous things going on i mean everybody was at the pool every day except for the days that it was raining or overcast, which was funny to watch because as the rain clouds came in, everybody kind of scattered from the pool.
And then the sun would come back out and everybody would come back out to the pool. Yeah, it was awesome. It was pretty funny to watch. It was awesome.
Networking seemed to be our focus this trip it was different for us than 2019 yeah we spent a lot more time mingling having conversations meeting new people pursuing connections with people mm-hmm and last time we didn't we talked about this it felt like we spent too much time in the room but we didn't like other than changing outfits to go back to some event we didn't spend that much time in the room it was kind of a sensation i had but when we looked back at it when we analyzed it it didn't seem like we actually were there maybe we did because i remember taking naps during the day so i could stay up later and i didn't really do that this time yeah maybe at once but we spent most of our evenings in the solarium like as soon as the for a long time.
I'll only do it once. But we spent most of our evenings in the solarium. Like as soon as the solarium opened, we were in there and we were in there until we went to bed on the last cruise. Correct. I do not regret that time at all. But it was a different kind of fun. Yeah. It was very random. But we had some, well, as some of you have listened on our earlier episodes, we had some great stories from those nights in the solarium. Oh, yeah, it was so fun. Holy crap.
As a matter of fact, somebody had commented on, I think, one of our Twitter posts or Instagram, I can't remember which one about some of the stories from the last one about Phoebe hosing people down. She wanted to hear some more of those stories and I said, well we didn't have too much of that, but some of that. We did have fucking on the top floor of the solarium in the rain. Yeah. That was good. With some good other good friends. They were I'll see you next time. On the top floor of the solarium, in the rain. Yeah. That was good. With some other good friends. They were fun.
He felt really good. A lot of fun. Yes. So it was more about the connections for us this time. Yeah. Less random, more intentioned.
And we've got contact information and we've already started we already started contacting people before we got off the boat and when we were in coco kicks i think we had well you i don't know we might have had self-service anyway we started contacting them early and people have started contacting us and it's nice because when we travel we can look people up or we could choose to travel to their state just to see them and vice versa a lot of people have friends or family in our area and we said absolutely if you're in town you know contact us we'll go out we'll have a good time and yeah we've got lots of stuff to do in sunny california yeah it's actually sunny and not smoky um and i and i think one of the interesting things that we went through the first trip was we were still at a place where we were nervous about making kind of like deep emotional connections.
Not to get Pauly on it, but to be Pauly on it. And we were pretty new when we went on that last cruise. I guess so. 2019, it feels like. I know, it seems like forever ago. It doesn't seem, you know, in eight years, we were already like six years in. So, but then again, it wasn't real consistent. We did take a break for about a year.
And then our community wasn't didn't have a super strong house party here's why we sail on virgin it's adults only no kids screaming at breakfast no family family buffet lines, just champagne at noon, late night pool parties, and people who actually want to be there. The vibe? Think boutique hotel that happens to float. Tattoo parlors, drag brunch, restaurants you'd actually pay for on land. Plus, when you're looking to connect with other couples who know how to have fun, let's just say Virgin attracts a very specific type of adventurous. No wonder Bread Cruiser's here, just your people.
Right.
But in this last year, we've made some really strong friendships and we've really valued those kinds of you know relationships with other couples so in that respect we're different people yeah on this cruise than we were on the last cruise correct i'm not as intimidated or afraid of that that was very much an issue for me people call or will label other people oh they're just dtf and then that label is thrown out to those individuals that don't want to have a friendship or connection or relationship and i in the beginning i was like it's fine with me the know about you, the better, because I was afraid of that intimacy.
And now I understand that the intimacy still isn't going to break us. Right. And you don't really know that until you do it and you try it. And it depends. It's different for every couple.
Now, a couple that's been together for 20 years or 15 years may not have that experience because they're like oh yeah we're solid with the intimacy there's nothing that's going to ruin that and we didn't have that coming in so you know what's that's what's so great about swinging is it's so different based on the development of your own relationship and how long you've been together and so yeah so now i'm not threatened by that anymore yeah and and like this description between the first cruise and the second cruise our relationship has developed our relationship with other people has developed and our personalities as swingers has developed over time and you grow and you change as you experience things.
And we've experienced quite a few things over the last eight years.
And so I think it's, it has affected how we swing, which is kind of cool i'm definitely more confident now uh oh yeah with my sexuality i'm definitely more confident you're flirting yeah i sucked at flirting in the beginning i really did i really hated flirting now she's like dragging people out of the pool i am i'm setting up dates i'm writing checks and then yeah and i'm having to cash them which is so far so good just keep writing those checks baby yeah so it's fun to look back and go wow I've really grown as an individual I've I've expanded this area of my life I've expanded my sexuality I've expanded the confidence yeah it's comforting to me to know that we're still growing too and that we haven't stagnated and if anything our experience keeps getting better yeah go you know we're not it's not like it's not a rut we're not doing the same things we used to do we're not scared of stuff we're trying new things we're experimenting, it's not like, it's not a rut.
We're not doing the same things we used to do. We're not scared of stuff. We're trying new things. We're experimenting and it's, it's working. It's working really well. Yes. And the girl play is getting more expansive for me. Yes, it is. I'm benefiting from that. And girl play with toys is getting more expansive for me. So that's also very, very fun. I've got so much research to do when I get home. Oh, my goodness. I'm so excited. Most, well, yes, some of it on toys and a bunch of other topics, too, for our upcoming podcasts.
Yeah, we've got all kinds of ideas for upcoming podcasts and potentially cross-podcasts. Yeah. Did you want to say a thank you to all again, another one? I did. I wanted to thank all of the podcasters that we ran into and all of the people that we met on the cruise.
sapphic swingers torrid souls two hot wives um the people that we met on the cruise um sapphic swingers torrid souls uh two hot wives um swinger diaries that was great yeah hanging out with them and benefiting from their wisdom yeah um mixed nuts um foreplay one foreplay which we met on the the last day when we were going through yes for breakfast it was like oh my god there they are um that's six i think it was i think it was six we we went back and forth trying to count how many podcasters were on there seven but i thought it was seven but then when we must be seven if we have forgotten anyone oh yeah we'd be seven but still if have forgotten someone, please reach out to us.
Absolutely reach out to us and let us know. And correct us. I'll take the spanking. I think we got everybody. Oh, mmm. Spankings. And I wanted to say this, too, about that. And we've mentioned this to a couple of the other podcasters that we ran into.
And we met other people than podcasters that wasn't our whole goal we weren't putting notches on our podcaster belt by meeting the podcasters but it was it was nice meeting other people who do the same things that we do and are trying to get a message out and educate and inform and pass on what they've experienced right and we've never had that kind of contact other than some messages via, you know, virtual space, either through, you know, Twitter or something. Right. Because we're stuck on the West Coast. Yeah.
We feel like we're in a bubble way out in California, in Sacramento, and everybody seems to be everywhere else. Um, so it's, it's harder for us to have those kinds of connections and actually meet people face to face. And I was not surprised, but very happy that we had such positive interactions with, with all of these people. Um, it was, it was great. They're the nicest people, just like all the rest of the swingers on the boat. I mean, it's a good community. Extra special in a little way that they share that same passion that we do to get the message out there that sex is fun. Sex is okay.
Sex with others is great. There's all this great information out there to share. And the more you share it, the more you share it, the more it keeps normalizing the concept that this is not weird. Right. Or unnatural or whatever label you want to assign to it. We're not the freaky people. Yeah.
I mean, we're not any freakier than any other thing that you could think about so absolutely i mean you know so yes just in closing thanks to to all the podcasters for making us feel welcome and being in a sense part of the club yeah and uh that that was that was a huge relief for for us because we we uh we hadn't felt that before and it was good to be part of that oh i do have one educational tip yeah we do have one um for those of you who are still feeling the boat right which we are as a matter of fact i as i'm speaking this sentence i've felt the boat shift i'm still on the boat we have a nurse friend like all you all have a nurse friend we all have nurse friends in the lifestyle because there's so many of them there's at least 50 of us in the lifestyle who are nurses so i'm not a nurse but yes so apparently this boat thing this feeling is normal it's not just you know some of us which is nice to know and you can reset your brain by having your partner get behind you and they can put their hands on your shoulders and compress down quickly and that this compression on your spine by pushing down on your shoulders will send a message to your brain to rebalance itself to reset your equilibrium yeah and apparently it helps quite a few people i don't know if it'll help you but apparently a lot of people benefit from it so the other backup suggestion the prescription part which i may follow instead we'll see yeah the prescription part yes um was that the tequila drink lots of shots of tequila yes multiple shots of tequila repeated over a period of time yes i kind of like that prescription there was another one followed up by the partner of the nurse that said there was another behind technique.
Oh, yeah, that one. Yeah, where the D goes in the V while you're doing the... Right, and then there's repeated compressions. Where the D goes in the A, or the V goes in the V, or the S goes in the V. For all of you, can you figure that out? Strap on. Slot A into. Slot B. Tab A into slot A. Yeah, any kind of something into something. Yeah. So rearrange that however you'd like. Maybe try several of them and see which one works best. Yeah. Oh, wait. Now, okay, I know we said we're going to go.
And we have gotten so far off topic, which is actually kind of refreshing because we're usually very scripted and methodical. I know. It's partly because I'm sad. I don't want to end. Don't let it end. And write us and tell us if you think that airtight can be accomplished if a vagina is sitting on your face. Right. Instead of just a dick, if it could also be a vagina. This was a question that came up because typically, traditionally, airtight is all dicks. Right? And someone said, does it count if it's a vagina? That seems discriminatory if it's not inclusive. Exactly.
So we are dying to hear what you think about that. So let us know if either dick or vagina for airtight. Perfect. All right, everyone. Thank you again for listening. And we will continue this adventure on our next episode. So for now, we're signing off on the 2022. Is this 2021?
Ah, see, I already forgot what year it is it's the drugs it's the dayquil dayquil soon to be nyquil yes we thanks again for listening before you turn off our podcast to take care of all the vanilla things pulling you away please reach out and give us a review i am the first to admit that it's much easier to give a five-star rating which we appreciate but if you could take 43 seconds to type a review we would love it if you want to share a personal story ask us questions or share your comments you can contact us at swingeruniversity at gmail.com check us out at swingeruniversity.com where you can find links to our twitter and instagram feeds thank you so much for listening to swinger university your horizontal enrichment podcast Our Horizontal Enrichment Podcast.
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