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Erotica is incredibly important in the female world since 90% of us use our imagination to get aroused. Now, I'm going to say that I like reading dirty stories too. You do. I find them incredibly stimulating. I know. That's when I first found out about dirty stories was you were reading them. My browser history.
The only dirty stories I grew up with were those romance novels with, you know, the men with the long hair and the, know the fabio the fabios yeah bodice rippers as they call them yes we would we the girls would pass those books around they were the pages were so tattered and i remember we'd sit in math class and we so dumb we we tip like the teacher did now we tip the the math book up like we're reading it like a novel right meanwhile the the smaller book is inside well who reads a math book like that right it's not like nobody yeah so of course looking back the teacher is like um put the book away you know and then And then we'd be like, oh, what do you mean?
Like the math book? I don't understand. And then he'd come over and he'd try to confiscate it and, yeah, all that stuff. It was hilarious. It was great. Good times. Junior high. Woo-hoo. I had discovered a book.
It's funny because my parents bought the books for me they were medieval kind of knights in shining armor kind of fantasy books more like conan not like magic but more like knights during the the dark ages and the crusades which were i mean a horrible period of time but the stories were really interesting and um the main character falcon was um well he he was very talented with with the ladies and so there were there were pretty extensive sections of the books where he he like had his way with the women and they enjoyed his his ministrations did your parents know that these no i don't think they had any idea that that was in there i had them all dog-eared and stuff because i'd reread those sections over and over again it was awesome oh that's great i love i loved reading those books when i was a teenager they were fabulous things you can get away with I know.
And now know it's kind of sad as we're we're in may's masturbation month and and getting back to to to things that you know maybe we haven't done before changing scenery changing positions trying different toys right trying you know new things getting out of the rut and we've all just gone for the quick fix of porn right right we've kind of gotten away from all the other fun audio and literature things that are out there which is what we're going to talk about today right yeah so along that that whole theme of maya's masturbation month and trying new positions.
Like all of us have been masturbating forever and, you know, you always do the same thing every time. Cause it works.
Cause it's effective, but, um, yeah, there's the school of thought of change it up, try something different, explore your own personal solo sexuality yes in different ways so let's let's talk about something as an alternative to video porn let's talk about sex baby let's talk about you and me let's talk about all the things that do i forgot the rest of the words let's talk about sex erotica in the broad sense is literary and or artistic work that deals with subject matter that is erotic sexually stimulating or arousing but not considered pornographic and according to a study done by omgs and the kinsey institute 90 of women use their imaginations to get aroused we had talked about that earlier when we first opened up so in light of all this we've combined the internet for your erotic listening reading pleasure and some viewing pleasure so we scoured the internet we gathered all this cool stuff for you all to uh to to to explore right and we're gonna like we have a list we have a list of like uh 11 of them cool things to masturbate to uh-huh that's gonna be fabulous all right so here we go what's the first one quinn uh quinn is audio erotica for women uh the youtube of audio porn where you get to be the star of the show instead of the voyeur and I never thought of it that way when they said that i was like oh yeah because you really get to be in that spot yeah because mentally you you're pick you can picture yourself in a situation if you just got the the audio cues right like you're hearing the story you don't have a picture in front of you so what do you do well you have to imagine what it is yourself i always insert myself into those situations anyway so like i can picture that uh-huh this so this this website you can well as a listener you can also submit your own content and you can read their erotic fantasies and stories and the sexy audio that they have it is is phenomenal there's all kinds they've got masturbation sessions guided masturbation sessions narrated scenes erotic sounds of people having sex that would be terrible it's amazing you can choose between raunchy or sensuous you can choose between male or female or female female or male male etc etc any kind of combination that that you know tick know, tickles your fancy.
They've got dirty talk, domination, like all of it. And, and all are rated with this cool fire sign for your preference of, you know, if you want maybe soft and sweet, you know, or you want just hot and dirty. Nice. Nice. I mean, I'm, I'm remembering a lot of the experiences that we've had especially at like hotel parties and the sounds coming through the wall so the the whole audio stimulation like i can't see it i have no idea what they look like but i can hear them and i'm picturing what it looks like and it looks looks great in my head. So I can imagine these stories being a lot of fun.
And we've spent several evenings with our ears to the walls after events, listening to all the people bang headboards and have a good time. Very nice. We're just walking down the hallway, and you hear. Yeah. The rhythmic thumping and sque and here's bb up against the wall my ear pressed to the door while you know the other people that were like trolling the halls with trying to find a party they're like get away from the door what are you doing i'm like i am listening you gotta come over here are you hearing this this is great like come over here.
And I can neither confirm nor deny that we have knocked on doors. We've heard a lot of really good action to ask if they needed a third and fourth. Yes. And we have been taken up on that offer on occasion. I know. And people have done the same to us.
And we were so glad they did it because we had such a good time i was like all right come on in we're like it's christmas yay santa just came way better than amazon i'm just telling you oh yeah it delivered right to your door exactly so good all right this is another one of my favorites literotica um It's literature and erotica kind of squished together. Free erotic fiction and fantasy. 100% original sex stories from a variety of authors. It's broken down by category. It's broken down by series.
You can find stories based on all kinds of different criteria i can't believe it's free it's it's crazy pretty cool yeah it's pretty cool stuff there's a bunch of free stuff in here that we're going to talk about i was really surprised that some of these people are not making money on their stuff and i suspect a lot of this stuff is free for example literatica um, the written word in terms of how much space it takes up on computer hard drives. I know I'm getting super geeky for a second. Uh-oh.
The bandwidth that these companies need in terms of hosting the content is pretty small in comparison to something that's like hosting audio or video, sucks up tremendous amounts of bandwidth and your hosting company or your host provider charges usually by how much traffic how much bandwidth they have to pay for to host your stuff writer how do you get money for it that's what i'm talking about that's what i'm talking about oh you yeah you're talking about the yeah i'm not just gonna throw my shit up there for free but some people just enjoy getting their kinky thoughts out on paper oh and knowing that other people are getting their kinky thoughts out on the thing that they wrote you know it'd be hot as if i'm laying in bed and there's a guy behind a old secretary desk with a old piece of paper and a quill and some ink he's sitting there and some some you know not our normal dress but you know like a peasant shirt or something yes yes the peasant shirt and the boots yes outlander yes and he's writing erotica and he's as he's writing he's is he is he recording what we're doing in the bed in front of him like he's scribing oh this is just me and him i don't know where oh oh i see so he's he's just writing a story and what are you doing while he's writing a story?
Yes. Or I start doing things and then he starts to write it, but he's speaking it as he's writing it. So he's narrating your solo masturbation. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. He starts it, but then I start to, yeah. Oh, this is a good, oh, see, this would be a good little. Now there's a story for somebody to write. Ding. We want credit though in the byline there. Yes. Thank you. Oh, see, this would be a good little... See, now there's a story for somebody to write. Ding! We want credit, though, in the byline there. Yes, yes. Okay, this one's interesting. Go for this one.
Dipsy, or I say Dipsia, but it sounds better if you say Dipsy, but it's Dipsy. Dipsy, yeah. Is it Dipsy? D-I-S-P-S-Ee-a it's the first sensual audio storytelling platform for women's sexual well-being co-founded by women to help other women tap into their inner sexual power and awaken their most confident invigorated selves each story is 10 to 25 minutes long and 50% of their characters are voiced by people of color and over 25% of their stories are queer. Sex is communicative and pleasure doesn't sound performed. It's flirty and romantic.
They have some off-limit hookups as they describe it, some threesomes, and even some BDSM. They also have these wellness sessions that are designed to support listeners with meditation, erotic breathwork, some dirty talk lessons, etc., etc. Right? Yeah, people could learn from that. I know. It's got everything. So I was like, what? I had no idea all this stuff was out there. So my gosh, the next three months are going to be just going through every one of these websites.
just like knit like in depth sure at least for the next month i mean i've been in them but like i have to really get in them because there's so much i just when you said dirty talk i'm just picturing that the really bad dirty talk that i've seen in like movies and stuff where it's like do me in my my wet hole oh my god what no this is the good stuff well no i'm imagining how many people could like actually use some lessons so that it doesn't come out yeah awkward and right almost anatomical yeah i just say lick it yeah suck it let be, let's be a little educational about this too.
Besides just this, a lot of times, one of the best pieces of advice. Yeah. Like that with dirty talk is to just describe what they're doing to you. So don't, don't invent something. Don't like make up. But just literally describe it like, oh, my God, it feels so good as you're sliding into me. Oh, it's rubbing my clit just right. Oh, so should I do that with you, then? Would you like that part? You can do that to me all day, honey.
See, I haven't tried that tried that side of it like describing what's going on to me usually i describe a scenario that we've been in before that always anything for me at all those amazing things about the couple that we were with and the things we did i know okay changing the subject um the next one number five skipped actually was one called sugar cunt oh yeah so uh sex writer toy reviews kink erotica and more so maybe you can describe a little bit more about this because the notes are a little yeah they're a little thin she's she's amazing she's been uh writing for for quite a while and she's she's also has a lot of articles on as she said in her words fat shaming so it it really starts to to bring in you know that that sexual, you know, we're all sexual creatures.
We all deserve pleasure. We all have desires. And, you know, she's, again, trying to normalize sexuality, make it okay for everyone. Right. So she writes a lot about that and other things and does all these great toy reviews um so i would you know check her out too don't discount her she's fabulous very cool okay so now we're down to number five because i skipped that one sorry sugar cunt love her Desires, which is erotic audio stories for women and couples. So again, along the same line as all the other stuff, but this is more designed towards couples.
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I've've been waiting for this we were invited to be guest speakers for two engagements on a six-star crystal cruise ship with 310 lifestyle couples and it sails from montreal to boston during the peak foliage season i'm super excited and honestly i'm really nervous yeah it's kind of a version of like a swinger ted talk that we're gonna have to do oh my god i know and more importantly if you know the brand it's llv luxury lifestyle vacations you may have seen them and they're sexy playmakers with their fun red hats this ship the crystal symphony is classy We'll be right back.
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and in order to find it all you have to do is go to our swingerlinks.com and look for the llv sensual voyage we hope you'll join us fun so are these are these stories that people are reading or are they acting them out? I do not know. Okay. So it's their audio stories. We'll just leave it at that. Yes. Yes. We have to explore some of these. So some of these we found, but we haven't delved into them deeply.
Well, and and some of them you know require payment so some i paid up front i'm like hell yeah here's the credit card but others i'm like i might you know come back to that one later because i've got so much that i want to dive into for the other ones that i already paid for right so and then the free ones so i kind of had to meter my erotic excitement yes yes the other one is an app actually the next two are apps one is called mjoy and the other one is Furly. MJoy is female-based. It's a wellness app specialized in female pleasure and sexual wellness.
They have guided practices and erotic stories. And to be clear, it's E-M-J-O-Y. Yes. Thanks for spelling that out. Because sometimes they do some... Funny... Yeah. Like that could have been a J-O-Y. Yes. But it wasn't. It's a J-O-Y. Yes. And Ferly, which is F-E-R-L-Y, is similar to MJOY. They are mindful and guided practices on building intimacy, confidence, meditation practice, body confidence, and sex practices. I'm going of past all that.
But me it wasn't uh necessarily my thing i mean there was some cool stuff in there for sure um the sex practices part and some of the the sexual wellness was interesting like those guided stuff right you know because your maze masturbation you know the more of the self-focused thing but you know right learning to explore yourself and understand yeah but it's more the audio stuff that kind of really got to me the stories right that's what i really liked and it surprised me so the next one is girl on the net an et it's a london-based sex blogger she writes explicit sex stories and real life sex stories about feminism porn mental health and fet, and fetishes.
And this is free. I don't know how. She's got a ton of shit out there. I don't know why. She's not getting paid, as I was saying earlier. It's all free. It's got to be her personal blog, and she's getting something out of it. I mean. Somewhere. For all intent and purpose, we do this podcast for free. Well, yeah, that's true. We spend, you know, I don't know how many hours producing all the content and recording it and putting it up there. We spend our own money to host. It's our hobby. Yeah. It's kind of our hobby. We enjoy it.
We enjoy sharing with the community and hope it's my hope like putting something out there that people benefit from right um so it it's a little self-gratifying from that perspective but um all right the next one lustery oh my gosh gush yes gushing gushy they have it all everything literature poems short fiction fiery fantasies real life racy renditions podcasts of all topics which all these links are going to be provided in our show notes audio Audio porn for days and videos. And what I love about this site is that, isn't this the one that's all shot in white? Like everything's white. No.
So Lustry is the one where it's real couples. Oh, that's right. I'm getting, see, I'm getting all my sites mixed up.
And we'll talk about them a little bit more in the next episode where we talk about video porn yes they're pink and white they've got more than just video on yeah which is super cool and i love it the real couples oh my god they're super sexy they're real situations they're like in their house in their bed or they're like having a picnic outside or like oh my god two women having a picnic outside oh lord that was hot eating peaches it was it's it's real it's not acted they're like it's don't give away too much from the next episode okay sorry now we're on to reddit and i hadn't reddit is reddit is deep and wide in terms of if you want carnal entertainment reddit has a lot yeah and again free i was in two rooms called r well it's the lowercase r if you're familiar with reddit but if you're not it's lowercase r backslash or forward slash which one is it forward forward slash gone wild audio and then the next one is r forward slash pillow talk audio i'm'm not sure which one I was in.
I think it was gone wild audio. And there's this woman who's a prolific poster of audio, you know, posts who posts a bunch of stuff of her, you know, audio. Oh, my God. Quality. Like. Yeah. The quality was phenomenal.
and was phenomenal you could hear every breath every like just every subtle things you could see you could hear the the slapping of the the dildo against her body as she got squishier and squishier oh my god fucking hot as hell i was like so here i am doing all this research i'm listening to audio porn while ed is in the background on a work call because we share an office because i was taking a break from work i think it was during my lunch hour i'm sitting there i put up with i'm like i hope he's got the background blurred on his zoom call because i'm over here almost rubbing one out because this is fucking hot right right so great so you have to check reddit out yeah and gone wild audio is fun because people will post stories for for free that they want people to narrate so a lot of times people will pick up stories to narrate, and you'll have the people who do the audio recording based on those stories.
So they'll ask for a particular subject or a situation kind of a thing, and then they'll find a story for it, and then another person will pick it up and narrate itate it oh that's nice yeah it's kind of fun there's a lot of give and take with all that oh the reddit i would do that yeah it'd be fun we could do that okay we could record some stories that then we skip the writing part right right i could go with Patreon. I do enough writing. I don't want to write anymore. I know. So Reddit in general, we alluded to this by saying it was like deep and wide, but there's so much content on Reddit.
And actually, just in general for swingers, there's a whole group about swinging and swingers gone wild. Yes. And there's regional stuff, like there's Northern California swingers groups on Reddit. So we just, in general, recommend Reddit as a place to go check stuff out and connect with people. I mean, you've got so many people chiming in about their experiences and asking advice, and it's a really, really good resource. And if you've got a kink, there's something on Reddit to scratch that particular itch. Like, you like some curvy girls? They got curvy girls. You have a foot fetish?
You got a goth fetish? Oh, yeah. Tattoos, all of it, any of it. Men, women, you name it. The suicide girls. Yeah. Lots of that. Okay. So now this, the last one, is my favorite.
And I'm surprised at this one and and i'm surprised because there's a massive internet collapse like the whole of this site just basically just imploded and disappeared so i'm dying to hear this why do you say it like that i don't understand okay so uh a year or two ago i think it was just before covid there was legislation that passed that to stop human trafficking and basically a lot of sites and materials that had anything to do with sex work or pornography or erotica got shut down. So Craigslist shut down, the, you know, looking for people section. I can't remember what it's called now.
It's been so long. Yeah. It never came back. Well, no, because it's been legislated out of existence.
They can't put it back or otherwise they potentially would be imprisoned or charged or whatever which is why we have sls and cassidy etc etc right private sites private but tumblr was was a direct uh victim of this particular legislation too and so people had extensive collections of images and videos and stuff that they collected and all of that stuff had to get shut down wow i had pictures posted up there that i had to had to disappear wow it's all gone so we've we've given it away or i've given it away tumblr so i'm dying tell me how is tumblr still surviving in this erotic audio i yes i went to the erotic audio section and here they have sounds of pleasure no words incredibly sexy so you have men and women just making pleasurable sex sounds for like two to eight minutes so the one i listened to was this woman who you could tell she started off, like, gently touching herself.
And so she would be like, Right? The ums and the ahs. I'm sorry, I didn't catch that. How did that go again? Could you just do that a little longer? I'm almost there. I'll see you next time. I'm sorry. I didn't catch that. How did that go again? Could you just do that a little longer? I'm almost there already. I'm so close.
this would be the clip for the for tiktok and her experience as you know her sounds accelerated as she got closer and you could tell she was touching herself differently right and she became more aroused and the sounds grew and then when she climaxed you could hear the change in her voice so if you are aware of how your voice sounds when you climax, that's what she did. So it's that something like that. I tend to do that.
And then there's a little more and if you're in the right place at the right time you can actually experience phoebe's vocal usually it's a lot louder when i'm by myself it's quiet unless it's really good you're trying to hide from me yes if it's really good then i'll then i'll be like oh god oh geez oh yeah then i sound more like a dude but usually it's much more subtle well that sounds fun it was so sexy i'm gonna have to check some of these out oh my god yes i know about half of these and then the other half i'm gonna have to poke at a little see look i you had no idea what i was doing in the background while you were working oh i'm doing all kinds of cool research working too apparently i was working some working finger things okay all right to be honest I'll see you next time.
you were working too apparently i was working some working finger things okay all right to be honest like i said earlier i had no idea all these resources were out there i honestly i got stuck in a rut too visiting my favorite porn sites until maya's masturbation month inspired me to look further little did i know there are many more ways to get aroused i am definitely on a new path of self-discovery and with my favorite partner ed i hope you too will be inspired to take the journey with us during may's masturbation month. Oh, one last thing before you go.
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