New Year, New Play - Lifestyle Resolutions for 2026

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Speaker1: All right, we're sharing a mic as we go off to share ourselves with others. Huh, sweetie? No? You hate me. Okay, you ready to go? Yes. All right, let's do this in 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Welcome back, everyone, to an all-new episode of the My Secret Seduction podcast. I'm John. And I'm Sue. And today we're going to be talking as we're heading on over to IPG's Hotel Takeover for New Year's in Scranton. We figured we'd talk about New Year's resolutions, but of course, we're going to do it with a swinger twist. Now, I know you said you forgot to think about this, but do you have some ideas, Sue? I have maybe one or two. Okay. All right. Do you want me to get things rolling? Yeah. All right. So my first New Year's resolution, okay, is that even though we say no expectations, we're always saying that. We're going now. To me, if I just even spend the weekend with you, or it's not the weekend, but these two nights with you, it's a win, as far as I'm concerned, because we're getting away with each other, you know. But my New Year's resolution is to be a bit more outgoing, because I know there's this whole thing about, you know, you don't, the men don't get aggressive, the men don't step up, and there's a difference between being aggressive and then just being a complete wallflower. And I think sometimes I come across as a bit of a wallflower. when we're at events. And then if you're not feeling it, then nothing kind of happens. I mean, what do you think of that assessment? Yeah, I mean, I think that makes sense. I think we can both be wallflowers at events and things like that. So, yeah, I actually have a similar type of resolution. And it's to be a little bit more, actually to work on my flirting. I'm a terrible flirt in terms of I'm not good at it. And I want to get better at flirting and being a little bit more suggestive because I can, you know, talk to people and have a great conversation and be interested in them. But I, you know, struggle with kind of making that like transition over to flirting. So I want to try and be better at that. Why do you think that is? Because when we met, you were a great flirt. Yeah, I was a flirt with you. I didn't think I was a flirt with you. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. You had your ways of flirting with me. And you had your ways of getting my attention. I mean, look at how much, because, you know, and someday maybe we'll tell that story of how you and I actually met and the communication lapse that happened between us, Thanks to somebody who tried to stop us from getting any further with each other. And because of that, I was extremely the wallflower, our first date. And you had to do. And you were flirty. I mean, you know, asking to put your legs up on my lap at the movie theater because your legs hurt. And other little things you were doing to sort of show me you were interested in me. So you can flirt. I wasn't really interested. My legs really did hurt. I'm kidding. Well, I don't know. That's different. That was like flirting with somebody I was out on a date with, which is kind of different. I don't know. I guess. I don't know. I don't know what it is. Do you think it may have something just to do with the fact that we always equate flirting with someone we're interested in romantically? Maybe that's what it is. Or maybe it's just, you know, to some extent, like a fear of rejection. Like, what if I get flirty and they're like, oh, my God. And, you know, run away, basically. Well, I mean, that's the same thing with anything when it comes to the lifestyle, when you think about it. True. That is true. I don't know. I don't know. I guess I always just feel a little bit, like, a little bit awkward. And then sometimes when I'm in a groove, Not. There have been times where I think I was flirty and being better about it. But I think I just get caught up in my own head too much. I think that's really what it is. I think you get flirty when you're given the cue to be comfortable with the guy. If the guy's comfortable with you, you're comfortable then to flirt with him. But if he's more straightforward and just like talking about his kids or about his dog or something, then you just fall into that pattern too. I mean, eventually, yeah, it does lead to some play because, you know, someone says something. But like the flirting itself, like one thing you and I have barely ever done at events or parties or anything is just dance with other people. You don't dance with other guys. I don't dance with other women. And I guess that's part of my New Year's resolution when I say I'm putting myself out there. If I like someone, it's like, I'm going to ask them, and I'll ask the husband first, and say, is it alright if I dance with her? I'm going to do that. Okay, yeah. That's true. Yeah, that's a really good point. I don't really dance with other guys. So, I don't know. You know what? I like to dance, but like, sometimes when I, a couple of times I have danced with other guys, it feels weird. Really? I don't know. I don't know. You know, like, I'm not really comfortable or I feel... See, I also get, like, caught up in, like, you know, in, like, not looking stupid when I dance and worrying about that, too. That's just a big bundle of anxiety. I think, though, with most guys, you'd have a better chance dancing with them than you do with me because, you know, I tend to spin you around and stuff. Yeah, there is that. You spin me around and I, you know, I kind of like feel like I'm going to go flying somewhere. But yeah, you know what I'm not good at? I'm not good at dirty dancing either. You know, like, I don't know, this feels weird. When you mean feels weird when someone starts to dirty dance with you? Yeah. But you and I dirty dance. It's different with you, though. See, that's okay. All right. I mean, I've had a few dirty dances with some women. I know I say I don't always, but there have been a few. But it's more because the woman initiated it with me. So I'm kind of like, all right, just so you know, I suck at this. But all right. So all right. So that's one resolution for us both. For me, I think another resolution would be, and I know I say this often, I'm in okay shape, but I could be in better shape. And my one resolution is to really get really serious about losing the weight I need to. To feel better about myself. Not so much about how others see me. Because I can't complain. I guess I do all right. But I want to feel better about myself. I get self-conscious when we get into certain situations. And it's not been a good couple of weeks or something. So I'm going to try. And if that means, like cutting back on alcohol, cutting back on certain things. I guess I'm going to have to do it even though, you know, my alcohol and me. Yeah. Well, we've been, I mean, you know, the holiday season is always tough with that. There's just a tendency to want to drink more. Yeah. You know, not have to be at work the next day. Yeah. But, um, I actually, I, I want, and I, I think that I, yeah, I think I have a resolution. I want to be better about my diet. And I mean, it's not really lifestyle related. I mean, it is and it isn't. I do work out on a regular basis and I want to continue to do that. But I also can be really bad about my diet, especially with sweets and things like that. So I definitely want to pay more attention to that going into the new year and try and limit to like just cut back on the alcohol a little bit. You know, because we get into the habit where we get really comfortable and then like we're like opening up a bottle of wine in the middle of the week, whereas. Honestly, we really shouldn't be doing that. We both got to work the next day. Yeah. So, so that would be, yeah, that would be one. Yeah. I don't know. I'm trying to think if there are any others. Nothing really comes to mind right at the moment. I got one more. You got one more. Okay, go for it. All right. So I got one more here. So this is number three, because you've been repeating everything I say anyway. So, and I think you'll, I think you'll agree with this one too. Better. And I know this is going to sound weird because here we are doing this podcast and you're We're probably going to say, but we do. Better communication when we're at events. I don't think we talk enough about, like, we're at Wicked Fun, and we're like, hey, you know, that couple is cute. Let's go over and talk to them. We just sort of sit there, you know. That's part of, like, the whole pushing myself forward, but it's also being on the same page as you, which sometimes I feel we're not. I go with the flow because it's like, well, you know, it's fun. And, you know, people are good people and everything. But I think sometimes like, you know, because you asked me afterwards, was there anybody that caught your eye? And it's like, that's not the time to ask. You know, the time to ask me is when we're we're together and vice versa for me, because I've done it to you, too. And I'm like, well, what about you? Did you see any? It's almost like when we go to these things, sometimes we're acting as our own agents. happens. So, I mean, one thing I want to do with, especially like now with the next two nights in Scranton, is like, okay, what about that one over there? What about, you know, let's talk about it and see if there might be a connection there. And then we can walk up to them. And, you know, as a united thing, be like, hey, you know, we're John and Sue. Yeah, you know what? That, yeah, all right, so I'm copying you. But, no, that makes a lot of sense. We actually, surprisingly, don't really do that. A lot of what happens at these things kind of, I would say, is almost more like one of us all of a sudden starts hitting it off and then the other one's like, okay. And I wouldn't say that's not about taking one for the team. But we don't usually plan in that way. We don't usually say, hey, what about them? What about them? And I think, yeah, that probably would also help us both be more outgoing because Yeah. Yeah, exactly. We're encouraging each other. Right. Because it's either usually like you find someone, you know, and there's been a couple of occasions where it's kind of like, oh, we're going upstairs to the room or we're going in. And I'm like, oh, OK, you know, no complaints. The lady is very attractive and all. But, you know, then it gets a little awkward. Or for that matter, you know, the woman in the couple is coming on to me and we're hitting it off. It doesn't happen as often. Let me put it that way. I'm not trying to make it sound like. But there have been times where it's kind of like, oh, okay. Well, he's nice. And at least you talk to him a little more. So if something happens, something happens. But I'm thinking of one couple in particular when we went to a club in Jersey. She was more into me than you were into him. And it wasn't so much a taking one for the team. Was that the New Year's? No. No. This was something totally different. I don't even want to say. We only went to the club one time. So I don't want to say what it is in case anybody makes connections. I'll tell you off air. But yeah, I think that's our New Year's resolutions. It's just better care for ourselves so that we feel more confident. Not so much, because I think I do, like I said, I think you're gorgeous, but you won't listen to me. Even though there's plenty of guys who tell you you're gorgeous too, you don't listen. But, you know, definitely better care, better communication in the moment with the two of us there. And just me being better about, you know, putting myself out there, which could lead to both of us putting ourselves out there better, you know. So we're on our way. It's a two-hour drive. Now, the plan is what I'd like to do is, because some people have said, hey, I'd love to be on your podcast, is I'm going to see about if we can get a few people to just come on and quickly say what their New Year's resolution is in the lifestyle, if possible. And then maybe on the ride home, two days from now, you and I can relate some of the things that happened and have some sexy stories, hopefully. What do you say? Sounds like a plan. All right, so let's take a quick break. And when we come back, maybe we'll have some interviews. Maybe, well, definitely, well, hopefully we'll have some. If nothing else, I guess we'll talk about us and having sexy time together. Maybe. We never talk about that. We should actually maybe one day do a podcast on that. Just what our sex life is like in general. Okay. We'll be right back. All right. So no full names. You are? S. J. J. All right. And your screen name on SLS? Travel Couple Forever. Travel Couple Forever. Do you travel a lot? We do. You do. Now what is your New Year's resolution in the lifestyle? So for 2026, we are doing a Bliss Cruise and we have signed up for some parties. So my resolution is to fuck as many people as I can. Especially on the Bliss Cruise. Especially on the Bliss Cruise. There you go. Jay's got a face. I'm very excited about your New Year's resolution this year. I like that. I think for myself, it's going to be more of getting to different events. We've done hotel parties. We're going to do the SLS Cruise. Now I think the Bliss Cruise. And now I think I also like to do the clubs with friends and experience that and get out a little bit more that way. Right. We're going to get to some wicked fun events. to come to Wicked Fun. Definitely want to do Wicked Fun. Yeah. All right. Well, thank you both, guys. We got to get you on a full podcast one of these days. Heck yeah! Absolutely. And I am talking here with... K. B. All right, guys. What is your screen name on SLS or STC? Should it be doing this? 1973. Why 1973? That's my year I was born. There you go. All right. Okay. So what do you two resolve to do in 19? Wow. 2026. For me. All right. So I kind of have two. One is to finally do a DP. And another one is to find a dom. It's to find a dom. All right. I don't know. I haven't thought about this much. I would say probably the old good old reverse. That's what I'm looking for. But, you know, you got to find the lady who's also willing to set it all up because it's kind of creepy if we do it. I got a good wing woman, so. I do. I'm an awesome wing woman. Okay. Well, good luck to you. Hopefully, you know, we'll figure this out. One of us will be like, done it. Sounds good to me. Okay. All right. Thank you very much, guys. Thank you. Bye. Okay, so I am talking here with? Alicia. And Brian. And Brian. You're giving us the full name. Not a shame. No, there you go. All right. What is your screen name on SLS or SCC? It's Digger and Wife on SLS. All right, check them out, folks. Now, what is your New Year's resolution for 2026 in the lifestyle? to be going to either Hedo or on a Bliss cruise is our resolution. All right, there you go. You know, we were talking about a group one before, and I'm still here with S&J. The other S&J. We're the originals, but you guys are. But Jay was saying how we should go on a group cruise. You got to get a whole group of us together on a Bliss cruise. That would be fun. Right? That would be great. That would be fun. It's actually always a lot better when you got a group of people. And even if you wander off. That'd be a fucking good time. That'd be a fucking good time. There you go. I mean, we can kill some of my New Year's resolution with just the eight of us. With just the eight of us? Yeah. Wait a minute. Two, four, six. Who's the... I don't know. We can add two more. We can add two more. Okay. All right. We might not know their names, but we can just add two more. I mean, we're cute, right? Yeah. Yeah, we can pick up two more. All right, so get to work. We're short and cute. Yeah. Yeah, I agree. I agree. Yeah. So get to work. It won't take us very long. No. Meanwhile, here comes Sue. All right, we're over here. Why are you going there? Oh, why couldn't you just leave it at the bar? She hates me. She doesn't hate you. She thinks you're hysterical. what you think? That's what I think. I hate you. S says you think I'm hysterical. Yeah, sometimes. He can be. He said we're all going on a bliss cruise. Okay. Yeah, we're going to do a group. We just find another couple. We have to find one more couple. Okay. So come feed my list for $20, $20. And then we'll have an eight-way. All right. Can I count that high? You have enough eight. So, I am here with R. R. So, what is your screen name on SLS or STC? Lots of fun in PA. Lots of fun in PA. Now, 2026, what is your lifestyle resolution? Okay. The first is, I want to see more happy naked people having fun. That's a good one. Second is, I want to be a party favor. Ooh. And the third is, I want to remember everybody's names, damn it. There you go. Anytime you want to be a party favor, let me know. Absolutely. You are beautiful. Thank you. You're very welcome. Thank you. Yes, absolutely. And you're wearing the shiny pants. I know, right? I know. Wait, do you love my little gold boots? Oh, yes. They are too stinking cute. They are. Wait, wait for it. I believe in coordination, so I'm wearing a black and gold bra and five. Oh, God, yes. Life is good when you're me. But we can't appreciate it. Not yet. Not yet. All right. We're going to have to come buy your own. Yes. 329 all the way at the end. All right. Tell me your first name. John. John and Susan. I remember you guys. I didn't remember your names. Damn it. That would be my third resolution. There you go. Like you said. Honey, sweetheart. Yes. Thank you so much. Thank you, John. What's your podcast? You'll send it to me. It's called My Secret Seduction. I'll send you the link to it. Please do. Please do. Yep. Thank you. Happy New Year. You too. All right, so we're here with, tell us your names. We're SNL, screen name. Jersey Girl, 196666. All right, so can you tell us what your New Year's resolution for the lifestyle is? Well, very ambitiously, we're going to try to hit all seven continents, if that's possible. All right. Well, I wish you the best of luck there. And if you do, you've got to come back for a special episode and tell us about it. Absolutely. Thank you. Thank you. All right, here we are. So what's your names? Ginger. And Ben. Ginger and Ben, what are your screen names? We're Italian Ginger across everything. SLS, SBC, Cassidy, Kik. You can find us anywhere. New Year's resolution for the lifestyle. Cheers. I want to get in the cruise thing. Start doing the cruises. Expand our group a little more. Our group is Silk if anybody wants to check it out. Okay. What about you, babe? I want to finish our house so we can do house parties again. And I want to get to 2027 feeling like I've done something 2026. Nice. All right. Thank you, guys. Appreciate it. Thank you. All right, there you go, a little taste of New Year's resolutions from some of the folks that we met over this weekend. Most of them we knew already, but some we didn't. Some were, I think, if I remember correctly, first-timers meeting them and such. But overall, how was your experience with New Year's at IPG? I had a great time. Had a great time. Yep. I agree. I did. Started out on Friday. Got there. We got there fairly early. I mean, actually, we got there just before three. So we were easily able to check in. Had a room on the fifth floor. Didn't do a party room again this time, which was good for us, I think. I think I prefer it almost. Really? Because I was going to say, maybe next time we go back to doing a party room. I'd be willing to do it again, yeah. You would give it a try. All right. Okay. But checked in, went and got some wine at the liquor store nearby because there's an Italian restaurant across the street we like to go to. BYOB. And it's BYOB, so we had to get the wine. We met a couple that we met online through SLS, B and K, and had dinner with them. Very nice couple. Yep. It was pretty much just conversation. I mean, you know, talking about our experiences and what have you. Didn't really gel in terms of anything beyond that, though. But that's okay. That happens. You know, there have been times where, you know, I think we've, like, not had, you know, that kind of experience ourselves. So, but it was still a nice dinner. And the funny thing being that, like, you know, while we're there, There's others walking in. Yeah. From across. So, you know, of course, you can tell everybody because they've got the wristband on. So. But after dinner, we went to trivia. Did the trivia. Didn't win. Didn't win this time. Came in second place. Second place. Yeah. One stupid Harry Potter movie and one stupid connections round where we didn't make the connection of it being. Bowl games. New Year's Bowl games, which was stupid. Should have realized that. Oh, well. After the trivia, we got ourselves dressed. No, we didn't. Well, the trivia ended. Then they had the meet and greet. The meet and greet, that's right. They had the meet and greet. And then they did dancing. But we didn't stay long on the dance floor. We went to the pool pretty quickly. We went to the pool pretty quickly where we met. Well, we met actually at the meet and greet even. our friends, J and S, and hung out with them. Hung out with them at the pool. Some more heavy petting going on there again, like last time. A lot of fun. And around midnight, you were done. They were leaving because they didn't actually book a hotel room this time because she was working. So it just didn't make sense. So she had to be at work the next day. So they were like, and they actually don't live far. So it was kind of convenient for them. in that regard. But you were also wiped out. I was. So we were in bed by a little after midnight. I say Friday because I'm still. Feels like, yeah. Right. Feels like a Friday. But it's the Tuesday the 30th. So then we get to the 31st New Year's Eve itself. And you and I were really bad. We ordered breakfast in. Yeah. Well, it was. Wait a minute. Had it snowed yet? No. It hadn't snowed. Right. It was extremely cold. We were just, yeah. We woke up, both of us starving. Yep. But we didn't really want to, like, go out in the cold. Yeah. So we did the DoorDash. Did the DoorDash. Pretty expensive DoorDash, but it was nice. Then we went to the supermarket to get some things we needed, including our contribution for the potluck that's always on the party floor on the second day. So did that. And then, like, we spent an afternoon. Basically, you know, we were at a wine tasting, which was very nice. Spent time at the pool, played volleyball again, which... Got very competitive. Got very competitive. You know, and having nude people just, you know, jumping up and down trying to get the ball. That's always fun. That's always fun. And what was it, the eye candy? Oh, right. Every time the ball got hit out of the pool area, we would look for somebody who was, you know, like hanging out outside the, you know, like around the pool to go get it for us. And we would call them eye candy. Yeah. And then we would have them be like, okay, now walk slower, bend over, get the ball. That was, that was fun. It was fun. There was one there. She was tall. Yeah. She was a tall drink of water. Yeah. Very attractive. So after the pool, you know, it's, it's the afternoon of, of speed dating and swing go. Um, you know, I didn't win anything there. You know, met some nice people, though, with the speed dating. And then on to the pre-party. Yep. The pre-party. So that's, you know, potluck, lots of things. Once again, the crockpot of meatballs was there, which was nice. Loved the meatballs. Yep. And, you know, just hung out, chilled, celebrated a 40th birthday with N. It was his birthday. Yep. And had a couple of shots there with him. And then we got ourselves ready for the main event, the New Year's Eve. Comedian. The comedian. And a magician this year. A magician, ventriloquist. Comedian. Comedian. Yeah. It's funny. You know, there were a lot of people there who were like, oh, my God, that was awful. You know, including some of the folks. working there going, that was a train wreck. And I just, I was fascinated with the guy. I knew he was terrible, but he was still a character. And just watching him as he's trying to talk about how things are in New York, you know, and he's, he's got these gestures and he's almost like dancing as he's talking in a way. And, you know, he's doing the standard tricks. He's pulling the rabbit out from, from a tin of flames. You know, he has the thing lit up. And then he puts the cover on it. When he lifts the cover, look, rabbit. Had the dove. But still, all the while, I'm looking at him going, this guy is just so fascinating. He deserves a documentary series of his life. There's just something about him. Well, it was really funny. One of the things, when he started, he was playing the theme music from The Exorcist. Yes. And he said it was his wedding song. Yes. It was pretty funny. There were things that he said and did that were funny. And the magic, you know, was pretty good. Yeah, you know what? I would say, like, there were times where I was like, oh, my God, this is horrible. But then, like, he would do something and I'd be like, all right, that was pretty cool. Or that was pretty funny. So. And his ventriloquist act. Oh, that was funny. Yeah. That was really funny. That was, like, the best part. Yeah. Of his act. Said he got his props from the same, like, you know, or maybe it was Jeff Dunham himself, the But my favorite was the guy that he calls up and he puts a mask, like a big, looks almost like Quagmire from Family Guy, the way the chin was sticking out and everything. And basically the guy's just standing there and he'd already gotten like some basic information about the guy and he just proceeds to do this whole bit. And so, you know, that's some skill there because, you know, to be funny like that and make it work, you know, It's spontaneous. So, I don't know. I think people were being way too hard on him. I think he was a lot of fun. So, then that happens. Then afterwards, we go upstairs for karaoke. You sang, like, three songs? Oh, yeah, I did. I sang one at the beginning, right? Right. Then I did Kiss Me Deadly. Yeah. And I had backup singers, so that was good. Yep. And then we did the closing time at the end. Yeah, that was a nice touch. Like a whole bunch of people who sang. Yeah. Got up and sang that part, you know. And you sang two songs. I sang two songs. I drank enough. You drank enough. My liquid courage kicked in and said, let's do it. You were good. I enjoyed that. Did you? Yeah, I think you did a great job. I thought that was warbling. No, I didn't think so. But it was fun. It was fun. Karaoke is always fun. And then it was downstairs by 1130, back to the ballroom for the ball drop. And, you know, here's the thing, you know, because we were talking about this and we were just listening to another podcast where they talk about events. And, you know, it was funny how the hosts were saying they get complaints from people. And I'm like, who complains? Oh, the other podcast. Yeah. About and they would complain. The other complaints because like, oh, you're making money off the lifestyle. It's like, I'm making money off the lifestyle. running events that you want to go to. And I think about some of the other hotel takeovers we've been to. We've said, don't do a lot. They really rely more on their guests to entertain each other, which is fine. But IPG really just pulls out all the stops. I mean, they've got all the events. Then we're at the pool party and they're going around with fruit cups and shots. to New Year's Eve itself. And they're handing out glow sticks like these. They were like pool toys, but with the glow material inside. And you could actually control it, turn it on and off, which was nice. Glasses that lit up. And there was something else. What about little shots? Well, they were giving out shots, but the garland, the lays. Oh, yeah. The lit up lays. So, you know, everything was like, because the lights were turned out and there's all these, you know, blinking lights. from glasses and all the different things. And yeah, they're giving out shots. They had champagne, of course. Worse champagne, though. Guys, I know you're trying to save some money somewhere, but oof, that champagne was awful. And, you know, snacks on all the tables. And I think to myself, like, God. All of that costs money. Right. Everything, you know, yeah. And then we got hit with the bill for the hotel room itself, and I'm thinking, you know, these hosts pony up the money first for the hotels, you know. So if they don't fill it, they lose it. Because they're counting on the fact that you'll fill the whole thing. So I'm thinking about all that. And then I think about people who say, oh, you're making money off the lifestyle. It's like they're creating an environment that you can feel safe and go to. Yeah. And have a good time. And have a good time, which we do every time we go to an IPG event. Yeah. Every single time. Never a complaint. No. Their events are like whether, yeah, We've never done the Curvy and Fabulous. We've done their IPG. We've done their Silver and Spicy. We put on great events. Yeah. Again, like anybody who's like in the area, you know, like, you know, get to Pennsylvania, Scranton, Pennsylvania, definitely would highly recommend you check out their events because they put on a great, great event. Yeah. They've got, I guess it's Valentine's Day in February and then Mardi Gras is in May. I think so, yeah. Yeah. links for IPGs, so this way you can find them as well. And then we, you know, after we do that, we're like, let's go upstairs and, like, get changed into something a little more comfortable. Now, since JNS didn't have a room this time, you, surprising me, say, hey, you know, why don't we offer them the opportunity to, like, just, you know, if you want, you can leave your stuff in the room, you can change in our room. You never want to do that. When I say it, you think it's an inconvenience. talking about the one time that you suggested we do that. We first got into this when we were at Saints. And you were like, oh, let's offer. And I just was still at that point very just, like, anxious and shy. I'm not just talking about that. But you're also talking about, like, having, like, sharing a room. Sharing a room, yeah. No, that I don't like. That's just a thing with me. But they weren't sharing a room. They were just using the room to drop off their stuff. True. You know? It's like, I don't know, I like my space. I like my space. When the night's over, I like my space. And that's just the way I am. Okay. I know other people, you know, are like, they're fine sharing a room, but I like to have my space. Matter of fact, next time, maybe we'll get two rooms and you can have your own room and I'll have mine. You want that much space? Yeah, I want that much space. All right, you're on. I can deal with that. You know? So, we go back to the room. And Jane has come with us, too, because she wants to change into something a little more comfortable, if I remember correctly. Or at least get out of some of her clothes. And I don't know what it was. We just sort of like are hanging there and talking. And I mean, we've met up with these folks. And there's been like a lot of heavy fighting. But we've never fully engaged. And somehow or another, it just all clicked. And next thing you know, we're having a hell of a lot of fun. Yes, we were. You know, full swap with, you know, both of us 60-90. Yeah. Both of us. S is amazing. Like, just knows what she wants, communicates it well. Sometimes without even saying a word, it's just her body language. You know, okay, I'm doing this right, I'm not doing this right, whatever. And not hang up about her in doing it. And from what I gather with you and Jay. Oh, yeah. No, he was a lot of fun. He definitely has some nice skills there. He does. He has some fun. Yeah. And I kind of surprise myself, too, because you know how I get with 69 sometimes. Yes, I do. Sometimes, like, I don't know, I get, for some reason, that's another weird thing about me. I get anxious sometimes with that. Yeah. I just, I don't know if it's like I just feel super vulnerable or what it is. Yeah, we did that, and that was great. I enjoyed that. Yeah, I have no complaints. And, you know, we discovered something. I don't know if we necessarily discovered. You and I knew it, but I think it, like, hit me these past two days that it's not as well known or often as done. To me... Oh, the side thing. The side thing. The finishing move. When you're done, when you're ready, like, wrap things up and you want to end strong is you lay on your side, ladies. You know, and you kind of spread your legs out a little bit so it's easy for him to get in there. It's my favorite. I love, I mean, I think that's my favorite. And then also riding. Riding. Well, that's the thing. You usually start with the riding. Yeah. Although it's also been seeing more and more lately, you've been doing a lot more missionary. Yeah. You know, the guys all seem to want missionary, the ones you're with. I mean, it's pretty hot. I gotta say, I'm enjoying the missionary. I like looking up at them and just, you know. You and I don't do it. I mean, I'm not that big into it. I'll do it again, like did it with S, but I'm not that big into it myself. I'm more, yeah, ride me or doggy style. But, you know, it worked out that way that she was on. And then I was just kind of like, you know, all right, gently on your side. Let's do this. And yeah. I think she appreciated it. Yeah. It was pretty amazing. But I guess that's something else we could just sort of recommend to everybody. I think like how did we discover it like with us? Like it wasn't like something that we were like. I saw it somewhere. You saw it somewhere. Okay. I saw it somewhere that somebody had suggested it as just something different. Or maybe I heard it on another podcast. Yeah. I forget. But yeah, we tried it one time and you were just like woo. Okay. Yeah. I like this. You like this. So, you know, we finish up, get dressed, and head down to the party. The after party. You're getting back on the second floor. And we, you know, are walking about, and we sort of wander into this one room with people we know. Oh, J&S again. Another J&S. Yeah. Another J. No, not J&S. No. Yeah, they were there. J and S were there, but the people who had the room. Oh, yeah, right. Oh, okay. Yes. B and A. B and G. Yeah, B and G. So, you know, things start happening there then, too. It's like, oh, next thing you know, it's kind of a six-way with you getting it from B. And I just kind of lay there for the most part. Initially, I wasn't even going to get Andre. But G was like, oh, you have to get undressed. I was like, all right. Because I was actually really quite mellow after everything we'd done up in our room. Right. And so I was lying there while, and you were sucking on me while you were getting it from B, from behind. And J and G and S were going at it there, too, the three of them. You know, and it was nice. It was a lot of fun. But like I said, I probably could have just sat off to the side and it wouldn't have made a difference. And again, I was all right with that because I was already in the zone. I had, I think I was also just really finally kicking in mellow. I started trying out shivers. I'd initially done a full one and that knocked me for a loop. When we were home. When we were home, because I was testing it. I figured, oh, let me see how it does. And, you know, you and I can have some fun. And I was like, no, I can't do it. a thing. I'm just, I'm floating, you know. And they really should warn you that they're kind of potent. So what I did was, for this event, I brought them along. I said, I'm going to try it again. And I did half of one. And that seemed to really work. So I'll actually get more bang for my buck then by not eating them. You got bang for your buck. I got my bang for my buck. But yeah, it had really kicked in, I guess. And I was really feeling mellow. And I was like, I'm done. I'm okay with not really doing anything. But, you know, it was still nice. Yeah. Nice little six-way. And then... I had fun. Yes, you had fun. That's for sure. Also, I had fun... Finishing once again on the side. I also had fun with G, too, because she was quite skilled. Yes. Yeah. As well. Yes. So, that was all good stuff. That was all good stuff. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And then we finished the evening back down in the pool. Yeah, and we met friends of ours in the pool. I and I. I and I. Yeah. And, you know, I would have loved to have played with them. Yeah. But at that point. You were done. So fucking so sorry. Well, yeah, now we're getting like, it's like two o'clock. It was like two o'clock in the morning. And honestly. They were tired, too. They were tired. I don't think they were up for really anything. Yeah. They looked like they were kind of just like chilling. Yeah. But that would have been pretty cool. Well, if you could have capped off with three like sessions. Yeah. It was funny, too, because during one of the speed dating, this one couple, the guy goes, you know, how do you manage that when you have four or five encounters a day at an event? And I'm like going, I would love to have four or five encounters a day at an event. If we manage two, we're lucky. You know? And not for lack of trying, folks. You know, four or five. I'm like, jeez. But yeah, another successful IPG event. Another fun. And I keep thinking, I'm like, I feel like it's Sunday. And thankfully, it's only Thursday. I got three days before heading back to work. So, but yeah, that's going to do it for this episode then. Oh, the other thing I do have to also just let everybody know. Yes. So the one thing that is sort of like, I don't want to say it's a tradition with us. Oh, okay. When we go to these events is like the next morning, you always wake me up in a very special way. Yeah, okay. That's true. And that was also. That ends with you on your side again. That was quite lovely both mornings. The side maneuver. The side maneuver. Or the side position. I'm sure it's got a technical term or something. You know, like everything else is, you know, the cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl. Maybe we'll have to look it up. Yeah. It's just saying the side position sounds sort of boring. It's not boring, no. No, it's not boring. So, yeah. So, anyway. I just wanted to just mention that well that's you know that's part of it to the reconnect yeah I always I always feel like you know it's some people say reclaiming what's yours because you gave it away for a while but it's it's not just that it's just that reassurance that everything is good with the two of us yeah yeah and also it's like I have you know when I you know have really good play sessions I'm horned up after that yeah well there's that for for days so you better We'll take a nap when we get home because... Tonight. You got work to do later. All right. I'm warning you now, buddy. She's all mine, folks. I have all of this. But it's now 2026 as we're driving home. Yep. So it's New Year's Day. And with that, after all our resolutions and our friends' resolutions and our sexy adventures, what are we doing coming up? Well, Head on over to WickedFunClub.com for ticket information. Basically, you know, the next couple of months are going to be parties at Wicked Fun. We're doing Cupid's Shaft for Valentine's Day. That'll be February 14th, starting at 9 p.m. at Wicked Fun Club. Then March 14th, we do Aaron Gobralis 2 Scream of the Banshee. So it's going to, hopefully that's going to be like our big, you know. Sequel, because we sold out that one last year. So we want to do Strong there as well. And then April, it's early April. I forget the exact date. We're going to do 2069, The Sex Odyssey. It's going to be a sci-fi themed night. Oh, nice name. I didn't know if you landed on that. Oh, yeah. Well, we're kind of ripping off the adult movie, but we don't say adult movie in the industry. We don't say porn. That's ugly. We say adult movie. years ago, when I applied for a job as a video librarian, not realizing it was for... I'm forgetting the name of the company. It was a cable channel. I don't think they exist anymore. But their logo was Giant Red Lips. And they had a Red Lips couch and everything. And there was, like, porn on all the TVs in the office. Like, talk about an HR nightmare, you know, today with the way the world is. All right? You're just walking through these offices. offices, you know, the folks doing accounting or whatever, they're in their cubicles, but there's TV with porn on all the time. And different porn. It's not even like, oh, we're playing the same thing at the same time because we're all checking it or some nonsense. It's like, no, no, we're all watching porn. And I remember as I'm doing the interview, finally realizing, okay, this is different. And the guy says to me, are you okay with handling adult materials? And I stopped myself for a moment because I'd never heard it referred to that way. I went, you mean porn? It's like, please, we don't use that term in the industry. That's so ugly. It's so ugly. And then you didn't get that job. I didn't get that job. Well, it was funny because I show up in the suit and tie and everything. Yeah. And the guy who comes in the next interview, he's just all dressed down slovenly, whatever. Like he looked like he was more of a fit there. I mean, I say all that, but I did have, experience with adult material. I mean, in a way, I spent two years with the photography section of the New York Public Library basically being their spot checker. And every year, they would send some of the librarians out with $1,000 or whatever in cash, and they had to go buy the raunchiest, nastiest porn magazines in Times Square. And that was back when Times Square was a lot seedier. So, you know, they come in with these big stacks of magazines and stuff. And it was, it wasn't just Playboy. It was like, you know, all the really rough and ugly adult material. It was gay material too, you know. They were buying gay magazines of porn. Because they'd gotten this fellowship from this guy. He was donating like a million. He wanted to archive it. He wanted to archive it. He was like, if you're going to be, you know, the archive of, our acquired knowledge, that includes this. So he was like, you can have a million dollars every year for my fund, but you have to take a thousand of it, go out there and buy the nastiest porn and preserve it. So then they would take it. They would, and this was back in the days of microfiche. So they take the pictures, turn it into a microfiche film. And it was my job once it was processed and developed to go through the microfiche and make sure that everything was legible and clear in terms of words and pictures. So I'm just sitting there for an entire week, and it was me, because they weren't going to give it to the two women. You know, they were, oh, no, that's wrong. Can't do that. And I basically watched, or it wasn't like moving porn, but I'm sitting there rolling the thing and looking at reading articles. And yeah, the gay porn was pretty gay, you know. There were some things that I had confirmed about gay sex. And at that time, because I was like 21, 22. And so I brought that up. And, you know, he seemed impressed enough and all. But no. Still didn't get the job. They told me I came in second. I will say this much. Talk about whatever else. Here we talk about, like, the callbacks. Like, you should always call someone back if you say you're interested in something. They did call me. Oh, nice. And thanked me for my time and let me know I was in second place. So, there you go. That's cool. That was cool. That's a bit of a segue. That was quite the segue. 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