In today's episode of the Swinging Single Podcast, host AC Maxwell invites listeners to join him as he delves into the fascinating world of swinging. In this episode, AC shares his expert advice on 12 essential questions that swingers should ask other swingers before engaging in any swinging activities. These questions aim to create a safe space, establish boundaries, and foster open and honest communication between partners.
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all right everybody welcome to the swinging single podcast the platform for sharing the unique perspectives of me ac maxwell as your host i will take you on a personal journey through the ups and downs of my years as a swinging single male please note that while my experiences will undoubtedly provide valuable insights it is essential to understand that my views may not be aligned with your own. So. least note that while my experiences will undoubtedly provide valuable insights, it is essential to understand that my views may not be aligned with your own.
So with that, what we are going to talk about today is something that I think everybody should be talking about is that what are the 12 swinger questions you should ask other swingers when you go meet them for the first time or hell even if you even know them for a while you should ask them but that's what we're going to be talking about what should we ask your other fellow swingers when you have a chance to talk to them take it away former president barack obama the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared I don't know.
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So, if you're a newcomer stepping into the world of swinger clubs or attending meetups for the first time, or even if you are a veteran, it's natural to be curious about the kind of interactions you'll have. You might find yourself pondering the types of questions that other couples you meet there might pose to you during your encounters. While the conversations you engage in with any couple you meet can span a wide array of topics, there are certain inquiries you can almost certainly anticipate being asked.
These questions are part of the initial getting to know you phase and can help establish comfort and compatibility among the participants.
So as you prepare for your new new experience it's helpful to keep in mind that a few standard questions might come your way serving as a foundation for discussion you'll find part find yourself part of so for the past 26 years i've been swinging and doing all that kind of stuff so i come up with you know things that some questions I always ask and you know I have 12 of them there's probably about 15 20 of them but I go the 12 that I think are probably one the most telling that you will see when you meet a couple or you meet anyone in the swingers lifestyle so with these questions once again they are important these questions are important to me not maybe not all of them are going to be important to you or maybe some of them like some of the things you never thought of if you're new to the lifestyle this will help you maybe talk to people and see if you are compatible with those people since now that you need a connection if you need a connection some people are just down the fuck and don't care.
They don't even want to know your name. Just, you know, are you clean? Good. Let's go put a condom on. Let's go fuck. All right. And that's it. All right. So you got those. So you got those type of people. Then you got, you know, the people that need a connection. And I think these questions are really for the people that need connections.
And also this is a great way start a conversation not towards going sexual you don't you know single guys always get blamed that oh all we think is think about pussy go yeah that's all we think about because that's why I'm at a club I want to fuck some pussy but I can also have conversations about a lot of other things and this will help maybe a single guy out or a couple that you know is looking to play that we're not all about just sex and all that me I'm not gonna lie like I said I'm honest with you guys I want you to be honest with me I'm just in the lifestyle for sex and that's it I just want that my lifestyle is separated from my personal lifestyle so once I leave that club I don't know you you don't know me we're good to go so let's talk with number one number one probably one of the most common ask questions that a swinger should ask another swinger is what are you into now these are not in order so this is not like you walk up to someone hey what are you into you can if you want to but it's not necessary so number one is what are you into this is a common question that couples often pose to one another within the context of meeting a meeting or an interaction this can also be for single singles you listen to this too this is also for you just not couples it serves an open-ended inquiry designed to uncover the specific experience, preferences, interests, and desires that another couple might be seeking in their experience.
When I go to hot wife clubs or hot wife party nights, I ask, what are you into? What are you looking for? And, you know, right off the bat, they might say someone like you, something like that or anything like that. What are they looking for? If they're not looking for someone like me, I always offer my services. Say, hey, I know that guy. You're looking for someone who's six foot tall, who has six pack abs, eight inch cock. All right, that guy has it. Want me to go talk to him? I'll bring him over, stuff like that. I always offer my services.
But by asking that, I'm not going to waste my time. So she says, I'm looking for, you know, we're here when I'm at a hot wife party.
We're just here for by asking that i'm not going to waste my time so she says i'm looking for you know we're here when i'm at a hot wife party we're just here for black guys i'm not going to bother with that couple anymore because i know what they're looking for so it's you know maybe that could be your first question you ask not i don't personally ask that it's how you're doing that that very simple basic question all right because you can read a you can engage lot with someone if they're interested in single men and all that by how you're doing, how they respond. It's couples too.
You know, not every couple goes to a club as they're looking for other couples. They're just one of those people, you know, they're unicorn hunters, which I think is a very disrespectful term to women saying that you're a mythical creature that isn't real, but okay, whatever. That's another topic, but then they're only looking for guys or they're not looking for anything at all. They're just there to watch people have sex and they're there to be watched. All right.
So by asking this question, couples are looking to gauge compatibility and understand the way of initiating a candid conversation about expectation and desires, which can help in determining if there is mutual interest in progressing with any shared experiences or activities so if you are a bbw couple and you walk up to them a couple and say hey what are you what are your interests after maybe a minute or two talking and they say well we're looking to fit you know average size couples and you're bbw so know, that you're not going to be compatible with them and you're and you know, you're not going to be doing anything with them unless the couple's lying.
But then if they say, yeah, you're BBW, oh, we're looking for other BBW couples and we will on a BBW couple. And now you're just like, OK, OK, check it out. Let's do this. OK, now, you know what's going on. All right. So that's that's pretty good all right so that's so far so good you know their preferences all right the question lays the groundwork for open and honest communication honest communication we have to be honest with you just tell someone you're not interested don't lead them on i don't know how many times this same guy couples laid me on saying, oh yeah, yeah, we'll do this.
We'll do this. But they have no intention of having sex with me. I always hear when I was, you know, when I date vanilla, I always hear women know in five minutes that they're going to fuck you. Okay. So after five minutes, you should be able to say, Hey, AC, we're not, we're not interested in you. You know, my wife wants something else and I'm not going to get hurt. I'm not going to cry.
I know a lot of single guys out there are fucking pieces of shit that will say bad things or do bad things to you because you get rejected i'm used to rejecting 20 plus years in this lifestyle i'm so used to being rejected it's not going to hurt my feelings that you stayed i'm not interested actually you should ask me do you know any guy because i'm in the lifestyle i know all these guys i've seen who they screw. I seen if they play safe, see if they go bare back or wear condoms and all that. I seen it. You should probably say, Hey, AC, you know, any, you got any good recommendations?
Because like I tell other guys, we need to network with each other, be friends with each other. We're not stop trying to compete with everybody and be in a network.
Ensuring that all parties include, include involved are clear, have a clear understanding of what each is looking for thus enhancing the potential for a mutual satisfying encounter taking one for the team happens all the time in the swingers lifestyle a lot of swingers deny that it ever happens i couples still sit there and say hey we never take one for the team bullshit you have taken one for the team if you swing for more than a year you're taking one for the team because trust me a lot of those guys you probably fucked your wife fucked probably wouldn't have a she probably wouldn't have any you want to give them the time of day same thing with the dudes the dudes probably would have some girl and all that so and it's just one of those things where we got to be honest and open communication tell what you you're looking for.
And if they're not what you're looking for, then don't be shy to say, hey, we're not looking for someone like you. Maybe later. Maybe we'll play down the road. I had that happen to me. When I was going to DJ's Island, there was a beautiful couple. She was a blonde, big fake titties.
She fake titties at the time nice ass great it's just sexy as hell only thing she wanted for me ac was to dance she didn't care about the sex she wasn't and she never said anything about it and i even asked you know you know do you play with single guys she goes yeah but you know i'm very picky with the single guys i play with so no no big deal so you know a couple months go down there she's always there i'm there we talk we bullshit i can dance gentlemen single guys and even couples of guys even the hubbies learn how to dance it's not that hard you just got to move your body because you know what women love that and women adequate that to fucking sex for some reason it doesn't always ring true but they do so you know what you do learn how to dance Thank you.
you know what women love that and women adequate that to fucking sex for some reason it doesn't always ring true but they do so you know what you do learn how to dance take a dance class or two so i'm at dj's i've been known them for four to five months already every time i see them they always go on saturdays i'm dancing with her throwing around the dance we're having a great time so one day she finally finally says, you know, AC, you know, uh, I really like you, you know, would you want to play with me anytime? I go, I was like, Oh, let me think. Uh, no, you're not my type of said, fuck.
Yeah. I want to play with you. Let's go. And we went in the back of the rooms. They had a bunch of rooms, eight DJ's Island in Beaver Falls, uh, Pennsylvania. If you're ever in Pittsburgh, it's worth the drive to go there.
If it's still open, open it's a great place to go I don't know if it is now actually I can't say that but when I was going it was a fucking wonderful place that was back in the early 2000s so I'm there we get there we go in the back you know she's got her sexy ass lingerie garter belt stockings and all that no panties on and it was just on and and you know you know going down on her eating that pussy you know and what was great about her me and her had a communication so she was like left right left the middle faster slower and all that so she me and her had that we built that rapport where we were communicating with each other and she was telling me what she wants and that experience was great you know me and her I saw her, we would fuck.
We would have a great time because she knows I would deliver the goods to her. So that's something that we have to, when you're talking with your couple, what you're into, you got to figure out what they like. And that's what I always say is communication. Even in the process, even when he has your penis inside of you or your husband has her penis inside of her, still communicate what you want. Faster, slower, harder, whatever it is. Do that. Communicate that. Number two, the second question that every swinger should talk to ask other swingers, how long have you been in the lifestyle?
This is very common. This inquiry holds significant importance as it is often asked by one couple to another with the aim of gauging the level experience and familiarity they have with the lifestyle and questions i can always think it's funny when i see 25 year olds start the lifestyle and after one month they think they're experts in it they know everything about swinging and all this stuff they go to a club one month and they know they're experts in that club and all that. I'm going to tell you 26 years. No, I'm still not an expert in this. I just seen a lot of shit.
I just not an expert in it. And I'm trying to tell you guys, none of the podcasters who do this don't have all the answers. They don't know everything. They have some great advice. I'll give you that. But they don't know always of what's going on. They don't understand dynamics and all that because every situation is different. So asking that is a way to you to engage, say, hey, I'm sitting here.
I'm in the lifestyle, so I want to know, and all that, and you'll find out what experience do they have in the lifestyle, so you can say, okay, well, they're not as lifestyle experience as me, so maybe we can ask them something, and I always ask the veteran lifestylers, you know, what are the good clubs, I just ask what the good clubs, I already know how to act, I already know how to dress. I know how to take care of my hygiene and all that. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. If you're listening, shave your cock and balls. Thank you to the one listener listening. All right. Thank you.
Ask questions. Okay. There we go. Ask them questions.
Ask questions if needed all right so understanding how long another couple has been part of this specific social or social culture can provide a valuable insight into their depth of experience potential apprehensions and the journey they have undertaken within this realm when i found when i see guys or couples that have been in the lifestyle for a long time for a while veterans i would say five plus years they really don't have any hesitations they know what they like they know what they're there for the newbies the younger crowd now that's a different story they're new they don't know what they want they're going to start doing things that maybe they didn't anticipate doing and it might cause problems which i always address in my other podcasts but you know you understand what they're where they're coming from and like i said newbies learn from your veterans talk to them understand try to learn try to have a mentor mentee a mentor couple something like that especially if you're a young in your 20s couples because you know i always said swinging for a couple in their 20s i don't know i you know i swung as a couple as a in my 20s as a single guy i was never with a girl swinging i didn't get my first partner into i was in my 30s so but i can't imagine you know being in my 20s and swinging i could not with a girl or anything like that so it's a way of assessing assessing not just come uh the competency or comfort levels but also of understanding the perspectives and dynamics that other couples might bring into play.
This question can lead to discussions about the evolution of their preferences, their lessons they learn, and how they navigate the complexities and pleasures of the lifestyle. That's one great thing. Evolution of their preferences. When I first started, it was all about AC. I was selfish. I wanted a female partner only to get access to other pussy. I didn't care about her feelings or anything like that. And that's probably why I never got a partner when I first started because I was more worried about me. Fast forward to 2024, it's all about the woman.
I always say, and I tell these younger couples and these these guys i had a conversation with someone on facebook who talked about why is this there's a stigma against single guys in the lifestyle and some and some guy commented that you know they don't bring nothing to the table i go well and all they want to do is fuck you all they want to do is fuck his wife i go well so you're saying that no couples no male in the couple wants to fuck your wife and should your wife be happy so if she wants a single guy you should let her have a single guy because if a happy wife happy life but you know that's his he's a young cat he's not he's very selfish and i tell you what 100 of the swinging couples who say they would never they don't like playing with single guys if, if given a chance, a female would play with a single guy.
It's just that because the husband's there, they don't want to hurt the husband's feelings or whatnot and all that. I will prove, I can prove it. It will happen. Trust me. Cause I, you know, I have had experiences in my past where we don't play with single guys, but she's handing me her phone number to have an affair on her husband later on that night. Just saying. So it is, it is let the women decide. But my preferences now are, I want to go out to a club, find couples, find single men, or find a single woman to have sex in front of me with my partner. And that's it.
I don't care about sticking my dick in another woman all i care about is that she is happy because if she's happy guess what i'm going to be happy because she's going to make my life a lot happier and that's just uh you know that's the bottom line because ac maxwell said so all right what else uh let's see the lessons they learn what have i learned always wear condoms never ever do not play bareback unless that people can show you a real test, and it has to be a recent one. Don't do one that's six months ago, because guess what? They probably had sex within six months.
So I learned that, all right? Don't ever do that, because I've seen people get herpes, all kinds of STDs, and, you know, even HIV, which is the killer of all killers right there. Not your life, but as a swinger, it will be. How to navigate the pleasures of the lifestyle? Do what you like. Communicate. Love. Do what you love. If it feels good, do it. Make sure you're safe. Make sure it's all consenting.
Consent is the main goal here exploring these areas couples can better evaluate compatibility sheer wisdom and build a foundation of trust and understanding that can enhance their shared experiences i know couples that will not touch another veterans they're they only want newbies for some reason i know the reasons why but i'm not going to say it well actually screw it this is the ac this is a swinging single podcast where we don't hold anything back because they can mold those couples into what they want see if i got two veterans veteran one and veteran a they're not gonna change their shit just for anyone where you got veteran a and a brand new couple that comes in that first night yeah you can mold them you can shape them into what you want want.
It's like when I say I love dating vanilla women because I can mold them and shape them into what I want. Swinging single women, now that's a little more difficult because they've always been on their own. They're used to it. And then there's problems with that. You have arguments because you're not compatible. And I've met a couple in the past month or two, and we're just not compatible because we're not looking for the same thing. They're looking for someone to basically pay for everything, where as they get to play with who they want, I'm not down for playing with them.
Like I said, I'm very careful. Lesson learned, watch who you play with because you might get a burning sensation later on. All right. So number three on the list of 12 swinger questions to ask other swingers. Have you had any experiences with other couples? All right. Now, why you ask AC? Why would you ask that? I go, well, because, you know, some couples are not interested in other couples. Some couples are just strictly interested in single men or strictly single into single women. That's okay. That's what they like. So there you go. So that's why would I ask it?
This inquiry is often presented to those who are newly venturing into the swinger lifestyle, typically known as newbies. it is a question steeped in nuance and anticipation i would ask anybody this you have any experience with couples because you know what like i said i still consider you a veteran if you go to swinger clubs now maybe you don't swap it no one maybe okay say like me and my partner we've been swinging for five years now. But we never play with anybody. We just go to hang out so she could dress sexy and not have to worry about some guy trying to fucking do anything to her.
Because it's very safe when you go to a swimming club. A girl could dress like a total slut. You don't have to worry about it because everyone else is dressed like a total slut. So you don't have to worry about anything.
Third, we might just like having sex with ourselves and people watching and you know doing all that stuff all right uh let's see we got a text message let's see what it is oh yeah anyways all right uh let's see and we never play with anybody we never slap so this answer would apply to us that's saying hey have you been with the couples because you know what i had a girlfriend like that one time we would just she just loved going because she could dress sexy she could do everything slutty and all that and we just had a great time we never fucked anybody we just fucked ourselves we were fucking front of people we will watch people and all that all right trying to do this all that sorry people anyways what else we got so newbies is always a term you're a newbie if you're first there and all that so you know what actually i know some couples that say they're newbies when they go away for somewhere they go off to like new york to go to a club in new york oh yeah we're newbies and all that i don't know whatever the asking of it is not merely an exercise in curiosity but rather a thoughtful approach to understanding where the other couple stands in terms of their journey within this unique sphere of relationships.
Sometimes you might not, some seasoned veterans, swingers may not want to deal with newbies for some odd reason.
Newbies I always thought were the creme of the creme like the single female, but know whatever for a seasoned or experienced swinger couples swinger couples the essence of this question goes beyond the mere fact finding there lies a deep-seated sense of honor and privilege and being the inaugural conduit through which the newbies can explore and experience the multi-faceted world of swinging so there you go that's one of the things you pop your cherry you pop in these people's cherries and all that so you know it's one of those things where and all that let me do this uh you don't have to listen i was just thinking it'll be nice that you listened but anyways going back to this sorry people so popping these cherries is always a good part you always talk about how you pop someone's cherry it's an announcement of rich tapestry of experiences they bring to the table and an opportunity to shepherd those just beginning their exploration and guidance, care an open heart so we're just doing you a privilege we're just doing a the world a community service where we're going to bring you into this now i'm personally i'm very worry of new couples especially when it comes to a male female male threesome and I have done this many times because you never know how the other male will react I would have at one time this is in my early 20s I met another couple another young she was only 19 he was 25 and all that so they called They put an ad.
It was onigslist that's how long ago it was and what i was doing me and the girl were having fun no and it was just one of those things i take off her clothes we're making out we're all three of us are making out he's kissing her i'm kissing her and all that they're going back and forth and all this so i'm hard as a rock he's struggling to maintain and keep an erection so you know she's trying to get him hard while i get behind her and i start fucking her you know i got her and doggy he's laying there on the bed and i got her you know pounding her she's making the noises that you know when you're having good sex she's making good noises well he still can't get hard his dick is limp like a noodle unfortunately which i think if this situation was different if he could get hard i think he would have had a better what do you say a better better reaction to what was going on.
So she's moaning and all that. She stops. I get tired. I'm sweating all over. I want to eat her pussy. I'm eating her pussy. He's on top of her trying to get his dick hard. Still can't happen. I'm going down there and, you know, she explodes and she comes and has a big, powerful orgasm.
She didn't't have apparently she didn't have an orgasm like that with him and he got upset he got pissed off stormed out and threw shit at her us actually as at her but i'm in the way i'm i got my fucking mouth on her pussy and it's coming at me so they get in a huge fight after this because she now this is my fault I should have stopped and just left but I'm fucking like like I said I'm young I'm stupid I'm just there for the pussy if it happened today I would have stopped and left but I'm still going at it I'm fucking eating her pussy out making her cum and blowing her load and she and he comes back screaming at her screaming at know, about that stuff, about needed to stop and all that.
So when he said stop, I stopped, and I just didn't bother, you know, doing anything more. So I get dressed and all that. And they're fighting and all that stuff. And he's talking about you like him more than me and stuff like that. I'm like, dude, I don't want your girl, you know. I just want, you know, I want to use her. And I'm just like, I don't have nothing. And plus, they were in Ohio. I'm from Detroit. I live in Detroit. I went down there, drove it two hours to go see them. I'm not interested in a long-distance relationship, but he's, and this guy's a karate master, too.
So I'm like, oh, boy, I better not fuck with this. So I'm just like, hey, man, I'm just going to go. Thanks for the opportunity. Great time. No problem, you know, and all that.
Second time second time it wasn't as bad but it's still the same thing we both end up you know we meet up at the hotel we get a hotel we go in there we're done dressing her we're making out doing all kinds of stuff to this girl making her calm and all that making her feel like a fucking princess that every woman should feel like all right and we're making out with her we're fucking her you know i got her doggie we do dp this is my first time i tried dp she wants two dicks in her we try it we couldn't do it so she still wants to do dp i stick he's in her ass i'm in her pussy and we're just going at it and she's having a good time she's coming more and more and she's loving it well you know when you talk they start arguing about who's paying attention to who too much she's paying attention to me too much and so on and so on so it's one of those things where as a newbie it's kind of hard it's one of those things I'm like, I don't know if I want to be doing with newbies or anything like that because of the fact that they can take things too much to heart and don't understand the dynamics of swinging yet.
They will get there, but they just don't understand it yet.
So the question gets a gateway into deeper dialogues without boundaries, expectations, and apprehensions apprehensions experienced couples often approach it with a nuanced understanding that their response and ensuing conversations can significantly influence the newcomers initial impressions and experiences within the lifestyle it is not about it it's about creating a nurturing and welcoming environment where the novices can feel safe to express their desires fears and fantasies by being the first to introduce them to the swinger lifestyle experienced couples not only share their wisdom and insights but they also take on a role akin to stewards of the community ensuring that the preservation it values of respect consent and mutual satisfaction this inherent pride in facilitating a positive and joyful introduction to the lifestyle underscores the camaraderie and closeness that defines the swinger community at its best i always say which is very which i always say you got to be very very careful because you get these people who are not good for the lifestyle you know you got people that will try to use people as much as they can blackmail them i have there's a lot of drama in this lifestyle and if you got a new couple and you're a veteran couples and you're full of drama you're going to bring that shit to them and they're not going to stay in the lifestyle that long.
Our goal as veterans is to teach the newbies the right way. Now, everyone thinks their way is right. No, my way is not right. My way is totally different than a lot of other people's ways. All right. It's very different. So I don't understand, you understand you know why couples want that drama they just want to bring the drama for some reason i had no clue why it is like that but save the drama for your mama uh anyways number four the four things you swingers should ask are the swingers. Are you guys planning on playing tonight?
This is always very, if you're at a club, you're at a house party, this is something you've got to always ask. In this unique question of the swinger community, the term play carries with it a distinct meaning. Serving as an understatement of engaging in sexual activities.
This seemingly casual inquiry, when posed by a couple extends me on the realm of mere conversation operating as a nuanced gesture of initiating a more intimate connection by inquiring if you are intending to play tonight the couple is delicately probing not just your availability but also your openness to exploring a potential hookup with them all right this question framed in the context of the evenings with possibilities invites a deeper dialogue about consent interest and boundaries all wrapped in the innocuous guise of whether one is participating in play it is a question that demonstrates the combination of directness and discretion that typifies communication within the swinger community capturing an entire spectrum of unspoken understandings and expectations for the inexperienced this might seem like a simple inquiry about plans for the evening but for those involved involved in the lifestyle, it is a clear, though subtle, overture towards more essential and shared experiences.
Answering this question provides an opportunity for individuals or couples to express their comfort levels, desires, and limitations in a safe and respectful manner.
It is the hallmark of the swinging community emphasis on open open communication mutual respect and consent illustrating how such interactions are navigated with consideration and care this inquiry therefore is not merely an invitation to a sexual adventure but a gesture of respect for personal boundaries and preferences demonstrating the complicated dance of communication that enables the swinger lifestyle to be a space of joyful aspiration and mutual satisfaction. This is one of the things I always ask, are you going to play tonight?
Now, if you're at a TPC, Colette's, TNG, I probably assume you are there to play. Not always. That's where I go wrong. That's where people go wrong.
Not not every couple's there to play with anybody some couples are there just to be there women have periods some of them don't play during that but they do joy go in the club and then they're just they'll say i'm i'm indisposed this weekend or whatever or i think things like that i always had couples tell me it's shark week and i'm fucking didn't even know what the hell that means i thought and i still think it's this dumb ass explanation just tell me on your period i'm a dude i don't understand it's it's human nature it's gonna happen ladies i know but all this stuff is just you know let me know what's going on are you gonna play and if you are gonna play are you interested in me playing with you so it's one of those things where you know it has to be asked some be asked.
Some people don't want to. Plus, it also knows if they say, no, we're not going to play tonight. You know, one, you're not going to you don't have to spend all your time with them trying to work them over. Like I said, I don't spend a lot of time with couples because of the fact that I'm there to have sex. If they're not interested, on to the next person. I know it sounds horrible, but like I said, I'm an adult. We're all adults. We're there for a reason. What's that reason? You're there to maybe make connections. I'm there for sex because I like it and it feels good.
Number five, the fifth thing. All swingers should last. Other swingers. Are you planning on returning to the playroom later? Within the context of swingers club, the term playroom refers to a designated area that holds a very special and central role in the club's layout and experience. This exclusive section is exactly designed and reserved specifically for couples who wish to engage intimately with one another or explore connections with others in a sexual capacity. It's a space characterized by its emphasis and discretion, safety, and the libertine spirit of the swinging lifestyle.
Asking someone if they are considering making their way back to the playroom encompasses much more than a simple inquiry about one's immediate plans. It is nuanced invitation that opens the door to potential intimate encounters suggesting a shared interest in exploring the deep and erotic connections that the playroom facilitates this question gently probes one of the openness communicating openness to commune continuing their adventures within the club eagerly anticipating the central and liberating experience that the playroom promises.
Responding to or considering this question allows individuals and couples alike to reflect on their readiness for such experiences, assesses their current state of consent and desires, and communicate their intentions and boundaries clearly. It offers a moment of introspection, an opportunity to gauge one's own level comfort, comfort of level, and interest in partaking in the unique encounters in the playroom is known for facilitating.
Moreover, the question underscores the communal aspects of the swinging lifestyle, where mutual respect, shared excitement, and the journey of sexual exploration are valued.
it's a testament to a supportive and open-minded nature of the swinging community community when members are encouraged to explore the desires in a safe consensual and welcoming environment by inquiring about one's return to the playroom it's just it's not just a query about physical location, but an extension of camaraderie, an offer to partake in a collective journey of discovery and fulfillment that lies at the heart of the swinger club experience. So when you're at a swinger club, swinger clubs can be made or break by their playrooms.
some clubs put a lot of effort into their play rooms and you'll see it because you'll see a lot of people back there a lot of effort into their playrooms, and you'll see it because you'll see a lot of people back there, a lot of people having sex, and a lot of people enjoying them. Others just put you out in an open room and say, here, have at it. They buy a bunch of shitty beds from Goodwill, and they say, have at it. Here you go.
And you notice that people don't go playing allow there a lot you got to have a good size playroom you're going to get people who are claustrophobic and don't want to deal with that type of stuff all right so you know make sure if you're invested in your in your club make sure it's a nice big size playroom where people won't get feel like they're excuse me all up on one another but also make it where people are up on one another because i find that if people are close they tend to you know start feeling okay about asking if one wants to play and more people start playing with them and the orgy happens a couple swap singles play whatever it is so you got to find that balance like i said you really got to go check out other clubs if i'm opening my club like i talked about this one uh if i open the club and i'll do it again so if i open up a club i would want to use I'd learned from, you know, DJ's Island, the trapeze, secrets, things like that.
Other clubs here in Houston, TPC, put them all together and try to take what's good from each club and put it into my back room. Do you have enough rooms? Do you have enough beds? Do you have a good, nice, good old open room, playroom? I always liked the TMZ playroom when it was open here in Houston. There were seats around the huge bed that you had. So you had this huge ass bed, but then you have these seats right there and the seats were not movable. So you couldn't move. But if someone's on, if a couple's on that bed, you are not more than three to five feet away from them.
And you can see people watching you and you can see all that. So, you know, people might be more intended to say, Hey, you want to join us, uh, and all that. And that happened many times when I would take partners or go partners to TMZ. And whenever I had another place like a club like that, always that case. Just like Caliente used to have playrooms and the seats were right next to the beds and you could sit there and watch, do whatever you want. And you always get invited sometimes. Most of the times I would. So it's one of those things where you've got to have a great playroom.
Because if you're not, couples are not going to be interested in going back there. They're just more interested in finding couples to play with outside of the club. All right, number six. And that's what we're all here for.
The six questions you should ask six questions you should ask six out of 12 questions you should ask swingers to other swingers do you guys want to play this question is straightforward and ambiguous it's commonly heard within the swingers community embodying the direct approach many couples take towards expressing their intentions when posed by a couple it is crucial to understand that to understand that this inquiry is less about pressing for a commitment and more about gauging mutual interest in a potential intimate engagement.
Indeed, the openness and candor of communication are hallmarks of the lifestyle. The clarity helps maintain the health and enjoyment of relationships. While it might seem abrupt at first, especially for for those new to the scene this directness is not meant to pressure but to foster a transparent and respectful dialogue about desires and boundaries is important to not to take be taken aback by the forthrightness of such uh there's such a question in this, couples generally do not harbor emotional attachments to the responses they receive, be it affirmative or negative.
Their approach is rooted in a distinct understanding that personal comfort and mutual consent are paramount, and each person's autonomy to make decisions is respected and valued. Responding to such a question thus offers an opportunity to articulate one's own levels of comfort and interest or lack thereof without fearing of offending. It promotes an environment where all parties can feel safe and irrespective to their choices.
Moreover, this question is indicative of the broader ethos of the swinger lifestyle, which emphasizes respect for individual choices and acknowledgement that the personal freedom and agency are fundamental to this socially interactive setting.
Therefore, when encountering a direct inquiry like do you guys want to play it is helpful to see as a straightforward invitation to explore shared interests in a pressure-free atmosphere it's an exemplar of the nate mature responsive respectful communication that encourages honest and open exchanges without expectation desires and personal limits thereby contributing to a more satisfying and comfortable experiences for everyone involved. That's one of the things you always got to ask. Do you want to play? Do you want to play? Don't you not want to play?
And that would help you gauge if that couple is really interested in you and all that. So, you know, you never know.
so you know one of those things is you know you just got to see if they want to play ask there is no harm in asking they say no then you gotta you know what you gotta do gotta move on and all that maybe they're not interested tonight but they may be interested tomorrow night or the week after a year for fuck even a year from now i know people that have been i've been seeing at the clubs for years and you know you only hook up with them that one time after years of knowing them you know you got people that say oh i see you at the club all the time i go well then why don't you say something say hello or something are you not interested or anything like that you know you can say hello i'm not that mean you know i just play one on the podcast but anyways so do you want to play ask and you find out if they say no move on i know some couples have gotten pissed when people say no to them because i guess no one ever said no to them before or they are very sweet and go okay thank you you know they they show you respect but you are going to get those people newbies veterans you know what i'm talking about you're going to get those people when you reject them they get very angry and they don't like rejection grow up people we're all here for a reason all right seven out of 12 things you should ask swingers should ask other swingers do you two engage in activities separately from one another this inquiry taps into a nuanced aspect of the dynamic preferences and boundaries within the swinging lifestyle.
It's an exploration into whether a couple feels comfortable and finds enjoyment in pursuing intimate experiences independently of each other without their partner's physical presence.
The swinging community is incredibly diverse with its participants holding a wide array of preferences that cater to various comfort levels and desires within the spectrum many couples find value and excitement in allowing their partners the freedom to explore connections with others on a solo basis this can be very tricky and where i say that is because i will meet couples and i would talk to the female she would give me her phone number or whatnot she would tell me hubby knows he don't care he's all he i and i know the guy i talked to him you're cool he's cool with you and doing all that later on to find out he has no clue what's going on those nights you take her out you fuck her he didn't know you were out there fucking she was out with friends and all that so it could be it's a double-edged sword when you think about it so with me personally i have stopped doing the dates outside of the club or at house parties because i don't know if the woman is actually telling the truth now if she says i'll ask does your if she says hey i want to go out you know you want to me this night?
I go, okay, I need you to talk. I need to talk to the hubby. Oh, he says, it's okay. I go, I still need to talk. And a lot of them will say, no, no, that's okay. And they'll go on to someone, other fucking dude that will do it for them. But a lot of sometimes just because they're swingers don't mean they're not cheating. They can still be, be cheating and be swingers. It happens all the time, guys. All right. So don't be naive to think, well, you know, swinging is so honest, it's open communication. No, it's not always.
Some couples will, you know, like I said, I had women who they strictly don't play with single guys later on to find out she's banging a bunch of single dudes on the side or being in regular dudes on the side when hubby doesn't know. So it's out there. So be safe. Protect yourself. This is a good question to ask someone so you know where they're coming. So this question, while seemingly simple, opens up a deeper dialogue about trust, communication, and boundaries that inquire and unique to every relationship within the lifestyle.
It acknowledges the complexity of human sexuality and the varied ways in which people choose to express and fulfill their desires the lifestyle encourages openness and respect for those personal choices understanding that each couple navigates their own path through these experiences and like i said you gotta be very careful you don't want coming after you, gentlemen. Ladies, you don't want an angry wife coming at you either. Because from what I hear, that's even worse. So, you know, you just got to think, is it really worth it?
Do you really want to play outside the lifestyle without your partner?
As a woman, I would always say no, because you just don't know what kind of fucking creepy creepy dudes are out there and just because they're swingers don't mean they're not creeper they're not freaking killers and all that they can be you know swingers come in all shapes sizes backgrounds and all that so you just gotta be careful if you and your partner do not align with the concept of playing separately articulating a straightforward no is perfectly acceptable and respected the community places a high premium on consent and personal comfort meaning that expressions of boundaries are not only welcomed but are the crucial for maintaining integrity uh in this all right so it's understood that the freedom to say no without judgment or pressure is fundamental to ensuring that all interactions remain enjoyable, consensual, and true to each individual's and couple's set of rules and boundaries.
Now, if a couple gets upset because you say no, that's a good way to realize that they're not for you. You should never, ever fucking deal with those couples and stay away from those couples. So them not showing you respect when you say no shows me that's one less person I have to worry about. I can go off and find another couple and find another single and have fun with.
Responding to such a question provides an opportunity to reflect on and communicate your relationship dynamics and personal boundaries clearly and ensures that engagements with others are always in line with what is comfortable and enjoyable for you and your partner. This exchange not only fosters a culture of consent and respect within the community, but also strengthens the bond and understanding between partners, making it crucial aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle system. I had a great woman.
I mean, this woman was fucking sexy sexy guys brunette mid-40s fucking tone ass tone tits fucking not a stretch mark on her out there are three kids met her at caliente uh resort and spa in land of lakes florida go over there met her go there take her back outside at night we're on the cabana beds fucking and just having a great time. We fucked for five hours that night. And we were just great. And we were, you know, me and her were connecting and jiving because we're all talking about it. And she told me she was married. So I said, okay, so husband must know she's here and all that.
And all that. And then no big deal. She's telling me all the guys she likes.
If you ever want someone to take you to a club to make you protected i'm your man i'll take you so okay thank you and all that find out you know later on find out she's fucking like 20 different dudes and her husband does not know that she is having sexual relationships with other men outside the marriage he's not a swinger but she is and i always ask her how the hell you get out of the house and she's like oh i just tell him i'm going out with my girlfriends and so on and so on so i would see her at caliente uh with other men and all that and i she would ask me to play and i'm like no i'm not interested like i said i can't do it to your husband or anything like that but you know you we could be friends you know we mean her with bullshit and all that stuff and i was like i'm just waiting for the call when she says oh i got caught by my husband i think she did end up getting caught because i haven't heard from him in three years so hopefully she is okay and all that but anyways this beautiful woman i love eating her pussy her pussy was so juicy and fucking so wet and she squirted a lot man and she was squirt on my face a lot of women hold back so squirt on my damn face baby it's okay i know it's all right give me a facial so you know she'll squirt on my face and all that her fucking pussy was just to die for and like i said it was just too much that she did not tell her husband what she was doing because it was just one of those things where i don't want any the drama i don't want the drama from it and you know you're getting too old for the drama save your save the drama for your mama but it's a shame that she had to go behind her back because i'm i'm wondering you know if she asked her husband hey would she be into would he be into it he might say yes and all that but you know she had a particular group of people that she wanted to play with and so hopefully maybe that's why the husband wasn't into it but number eight eight of the 12 things other swingers should ask other swingers does your life like being with other women this simple question is asking if a woman enjoys being close or having romantic connection with another woman.
Many people use the word bi-friendly to describe women who are okay with these kinds of experiences. It's interesting to note that about 65% of the women who are part of groups where swapping partners is common, like in the swing and lifestyle, are comfortable with this. Asking about this doesn't help understand what someone likes.
It also opens the door to getting to know them better and ensuring that everyone is comfortable and happy with any plans that that might be made it shows respect for personal choices and boundaries the lifestyle communicate communities are all about being open and accepting they believe that everyone should feel free to explore their desires without fear of judgment, as long as everything is consensual. When someone asks if your wife is bi-friendly, they're not asking about preferences.
They're considering how everyone involved might interact and whether the experiences would be enjoyable for all. It's a thoughtful way to make sure that if any activities happen, they're a good fit for everyone's likes and comfort levels. Answering this question honestly helps keep things clear and straightforward. Ensuring a good time is had by all. Plus, it can lead to interesting conversations and potentially discovering new things about each other's tastes and boundaries.
The lifestyle is rich with diversity and understanding what each other preferences taste tastes taste tastes and boundaries sorry the lifestyle is rich with diversity and understanding with each other's preferences is key to creating enjoyable and respectable experiences together all right bi-friendly i have heard i know couples where they struggle to meet other couples because the wife is not bisexual bi-friendly or bi-curious she is strictly dickly and couples do not want to fuck with other couples that don't have a bi-female. You'll see it in the ads.
If you go to STC, Quiver, SwingLifestyle.com, and all those other, Cassidy, you will find couples where it says they want the female to be bisexual. And that's their right to say it. It's their prerogative.
They do it and all that some couples are not so you know so if you ask and you're what and the wife is not bisexual and you are bisexual it might cause a little problem during playtime so knowing if the wife is bi-friendly or not is always a good thing also i still believe that the lifestyle is not a setting of bi men if the guys are bisexual that's a whole different story that's a whole different ball game you can be you know looked down upon people might not want to fuck around with you stuff like that transsexuals same thing so it's just one of those things where we have to work on the bisexual male it's okay i say i'm bi-friendly when it comes to guys because I have, you know, DP'd women.
Penis is going to touch penis. It ain't mean you're gay. Guys, you fall out of your wife. Wife's on top of me, and she's fucking me hard. I fall out. Husband's there, grabs my cock, puts it back into his wife. I don't see it as gay or anything like that. You know, no ditty, things like that.
So it's just one of those things where we're accepting to buy women but we're not accepting to buy men and i think we should be and it's sad that we're not though couples will be like or whatever but you know that's why you got to talk if your husband's bisexual you better let the other husband know that he's bisexual i have no problem i play with bisexual couples females couples, females bi, the males bi. I have no problem telling them I'm not, I don't want you to suck my dick. I don't want you to do, I don't want to stick my dick in your ass. I don't want you to stick my dick in your ass.
You're a dick in my ass. It's okay. I can say it. And that gives them a way to say, okay, we're going to play with you or not. Number nine, nine out of 12 things swingers should ask other swingers, what are your rules? Very important. This question is very common among couples who participate in the swinging lifestyle, where couples often meet and may become intimate with others. It's a question that simply asks about the guidelines or boundaries a couple sets for themselves when they are with other couples. Every couple in these communities has their own set of rules.
though the pacifics can vary greatly from one couple to another some might have a lot of rules while with other couples every couple in these communities has their own set of rules though the pacifics can vary greatly from one couple to another some might have a lot of rules while others might just have a few asking about the rules is a matter of respecting others it is important before getting into any close or intimate situations because it helps everyone understand what is okay and what is not it's like making sure anyone knows everyone knows the rules of the game and they start playing so that everyone can have a good time without misunderstanding or discomfort understanding the couple's rules rules may can also help in deciding if everyone involved will be comfortable moving forward for instance some couples might not be okay with certain actions or they might prefer everything to happen in one room where they can always see each other.
Getting to know these details avoids problems later on and assures that experiences remains positive and enjoyable for everybody.
Therefore, the answer to such a question includes the boundaries that a couple has agreed upon to keep their relationship strong and their interactions and others enjoyable by sharing and respecting other each other's rules couples contribute to a trusting respectful and safe environment that is fundamental to the spirit of swinging community just like no guy on guys a lot of couples have that no guy on guy shit no problem uh women only the women play and all that so you have these rules and you gotta have when i was i never ever had a lot of rules only time i ever have a lot of rules is when i'm with a partner because she's the one with the rules i don't have any my i'm good with fucking everything and anything in sight i'm just gonna be honest with you and all that.
So that's no problem. But for women, you know, some of the girls that she didn't want anyone with a small penis. She only wanted big guys and stuff like that. Got to be over six foot. You know, she's someone that she's attracted to. And that's no problem. We'll find it. We'll get it. And we'll and I'll make it happen. So know the people's rules. Respect those rules. And like I said, if a couple gets upset about any of your rules, just leave, go on, move on with yourself and have a great time. Do not let that couple that disrespects your rules get the best of you.
Now, 10 out of 12 things that swingers should ask other swingers, your boobs look great. Can I touch them? Many might think that at a swinger event, people just walk around touching each other without permission. However, that's not true. Although touching does happen, people usually ask very politely before doing so. Before asking to touch, it's common for someone to give a compliment, something nice about how someone looks. This kind of interaction serves as a friendly way to start conversations and to see if the other couple might be interested in getting closer.
It's like an informal way to break the ice and get a sense of whether there's mutual interest in connecting more deeply. It's very important to note that everyone is expected to respect each other's personal space and decisions. If someone does not want to be touched, they can simply say, no, thank you. And that response is totally fine and respected by everybody. Disrespect for each person's wishes helps maintain a comfortable and safe environment at these events.
People are encouraged to communicate openly and honestly about their comfort levels, ensuring that interactions are enjoyable and consensual for everyone involved. I had instances where, you know, you go to Caliente is one big one. Beautiful Miss A, beautiful woman, beautiful couple, nice tits, young lady, always at the place. Some woman comes up, grabs on her titty, she backhands the bitch. Now, this woman's a bitch because she just walked up and grabbed her titties. What people don't understand, Miss A has very sensitive tits and she doesn't like being grabbed hard and aggressive.
And you got to ask, she's very nice. She'll ask, she'll say yes.
But when this woman, just drunk woman comes up and grabs her titty, she backs hands her now everyone will say well she was in the wrong for for hitting no she was just protecting it's a natural reaction and she was just protecting herself do not ever touch anyone without asking i tell single guys and i don't understand this i never seen a single guy ever in 26 years ever just grab someone i just never seen it all these couples sit there oh heaven he just grabbed my wife he's grabbing my wife wouldn't take no for an answer i'm like where the fuck were you then because the only thing it takes me for a guy to touch my girl that doesn't want to be touched is like don't touch her again don't do it all right and that's it and they never touch again you know so i don't understand where it's coming from single guys maybe couples are just doing it to bash on single guys because you know they don't bring nothing to the table so-called but it is what it is but couples touch other couples more frequently than single guys and they have more disrespect than single guys ever do to other couples and i see it it all the time at the clubs, but no one says anything because they're a couple.
Don't ever put your hands on another human being if they don't ever ask you to. Now, it's okay if you're flirting. You know, like when you're talking to a couple, the female might touch your hand, your shoulder, and all that.
Or may come in and give you a hug or something like that that's okay because she's initiating it and it's no there's no malice to it there's no ill will it's just you know that's her way of showing that hey stick that stick that cock in my pussy later on tonight that's what she's saying to you probably i don't know but just stay keep your hands off each other until someone asks says so and says yes number 11 11 Number 11, 11 out of 12, things you should, swingers should ask under swingers. Which social media platforms do you use?
A lot of couples who enjoy swinger lifestyle usually join one or several online communities specifically designed for people like them. These platforms work kind of like social media, but are focused on the interests and needs of swingers. These special sites are really handy for a few reasons. First, they help couples meet other couples who are also into swinging and who live nearby. It is a great way for people to find friends who share similar interests. Think of it as a way to extend your social circle, but with the people who understand and enjoy the same lifestyle you do.
Second, these platforms are great for keeping in touch with friends swingers often meet new people while on holiday or special swinger getaways these holidays are organized especially for swingers to meet and enjoy themselves in a comfortable and open-minded environment once the vacation is over and everyone heads back home staying connected can be tough these sites make it easier for to keep these newfound friendships alive, even if everyone lives far apart.
Lastly, these online communities are the go-to source for finding about local events, whether it's a party, a get-together, or any other event meant for swingers. These sites will have all the details. It's like having an insider's guide to all the must-attend events in your area or even events happening elsewhere if you're into traveling. So in a nutshell, these lifestyle social sites are a key tool for swingers looking to meet like-minded couples, staying in touch with friends from swinger holidays, and keep up to date with local events.
They're all about making the swinging lifestyle more enjoyable and easier to navigate that is so true i don't waste my time anymore on the swinging websites anymore i just go there for like it said the uh what's his name to know where the parties are know who's going maybe who's going and who's going to be there and know what party to attend because the funny thing is is that i can email 100 couples and i'll get one response back if that too like i said before i only get about out of all those i'm on sdc swings lifestyle.com cassidy and quiver and out of those four i might hook up twice with couples two times a year with couples off that site it's just easier to go to the clubs and go to the house parties.
If I get invited, it's just that easier guys. So I don't really worry about it. Now, what it talks about you, you're making people, you meet people. Facebook is a good way to keep a hold of a lot of them because of the world a lot. And let's face it, most of us are a lot of others. Most of the swingers are in the forties and fifties and sixties, middle thirties.
So so we use facebook more there's a lot of facebook groups that you meet you know you go to a bliss cruise you could say you got uh anything facebook is a good way uh things like that you go to caliente paradise lakes you go to secrets in florida you know you can find these people on facebook and you can communicate keep communicating because sometimes you come back sometimes you don't who knows so social media has been good for that but it's also been bad because you got some badass apples who spread lies and shit about people on there and all that so i don't know anyways and number 12 12 out of 12 things swingers should ask under swingers what name do name do you go by online?
This has to do with the social media. This question usually comes right after one hit we talked about regarding which social media platforms to use, especially those for people in the swinger community. When someone asks this, they're interested in knowing the specific name or nickname you pick to identify yourself on these special websites. They always ask me, what's my podcast name? What's my login name? Choosing a screen name or a username is kind of like picking a fun nickname for yourself.
It's the name everyone on the site will know you by, and it's how you will be recognized in both new and old friends. It could be anything you like, something that shows off your personality, interests, or something entirely random and fun.
These names act like like a handle or label that helps people identify you on the website it's important because it's one of the first things people learn about you online because no one fucking reads your profile anyways because everyone's fucking lazy just look at pictures okay and that's it when you meet someone new at the event or in an online chat room and you want to stay in touch without sharing personal information right away, sharing your screen name is a safe way and easy way to do it.
So when someone asks you for your screen name, they're basically asking you for a key to connect with you within the online community you both are part of.
If a step towards making a new friendship or keeping in touch with someone you just met and possibly share familiar interests with this small price piece of information can open the door to new conversation friendships and even more tight-knit swinger community online and yes do not use your listen if you don't want no one to know you swing do not one user your login name is your first and last name don't be stupid like that There are people out there that still do that for some odd reason. They bitch about people saying their name. But don't use your first name and last name.
Two, if you don't, don't put out tons of pictures and shit like that. All right? Just remember, there are weird-ass people out there. Look at how many times people argue on the Internet about stuff. It's like, why arguing it's just stupid all right i don't argue like i get shit from people all the time oh you know you said this on this podcast i go yeah so what if you don't like it you're all invited on just call in i'll have you on you'll tell me how i'm wrong and vice versa or whatever but social media all that should be very wary of. All right.
So those were the 12 things that swingers should ask other swingers. Now, granted, it's not, uh, it's not everything that everyone would ask, but those are just 12 things I have come up with off my head and wrote about, okay? So anyways, so that looks like that's going to wrap up the show. It's been over an hour, a good hour, and we're having a great time. I'm having a great time. Thank you to that one person that came in and was watching me live and all that.
Remember, you can get me on all my socials, Twitter, YouTube, at Swingin' Single, Facebook at Swingin' Single Podcast, Twitch at Swingin' Single Podcast, Instagram at Swingin' Single Podcast, Twitter at Swingin' Single, capital M, as in M for male, all that. So I hope to see you there. Hope to see you again. Hope you enjoyed my conversation with you and And hope you're enjoying the podcast. Let me know. Get me at me at swingingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. If you want to come on my show, have a conversation, you're more than welcome. We don't have to have video. We just have audio. All right?
So with that, people, have a great day. Gentlemen, shave your cock and balls. Ladies, enjoy the sex. Enjoy your freedom. Remember, ladies, you run this lifestyle. You run this bitch, not men. So gentlemen, shave your cock and balls and make sure you got me feeling good tonight, in a haze.
