Dive into the future of pleasure with AC Maxwell on this electrifying episode of The Swinging Single Podcast. We’re exploring how Artificial Intelligence is reshaping the swinging lifestyle—from improving communication between singles and couples to keeping authenticity and connection alive in a digital world.Discover the potential benefits, the ethical challenges, and how AI might keep you safer while enhancing your sexy adventures. Will AI replace human connection, or will it just be the hottest wingman you’ve ever had? Plus, the ultimate prep reminder for your next night out—shave your cock and balls to feel fresh, confident, and irresistible in any era.Ready to embrace the sexy fusion of tech and touch? Head over to swingingsinglepodcast.com for more sultry insights and a community that keeps swinging forward.#SwingingLifestyle #AIFuture #DigitalSexuality #AuthenticConnection #Swingers #SexyTech #ShaveYourCockAndBalls #SwingingSinglePodcast
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Welcome to the Swing and Single Podcast with your host AC Maxwell. For over 20 years, I have been navigating the swinging lifestyle as a single male, experiencing all the excitement, challenges, and everything in between. This podcast is my honest and unfiltered take on that journey, a fresh set of eyes, diving deep into real stories, lessons learned, and practical advice for anyone exploring or curious about the lifestyle.
So whether you're new, seasoned, single, or partnered, or coupled, join me as I share my experiences, bust the myths, and help you swing your best in this exhilarating world.
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Hello, beautiful people, and welcome back to the Swing and Single Podcast, where we explore the wild, wonderful, and sometimes unexpected facets of the swinging lifestyle. I'm your host, A.C. Maxwell, here to guide you through tonight's spicy conversation. Today, we are diving headfirst into the world where technology meets temptation artificial intelligence and its impact on swinging sexy surprising a bit futuristic and even maybe even a little controversial and remember to shave your cock and balls will ai improve improve communication between singles and couples?
Can it keep authenticity alive in your hyper-digital age? What about safety, ethics, and those tricky boundaries?
And of course, the ultimate question, will AI replace the raw, real human connection that makes swinging so electrifying all that on this episode of the swinging single podcast and make sure you go to the swinging single podcast.com to see all things me check it out email me do all that stuff if you have any emails you want me to tackle the situation or you got some story to tell me that you want me to read or you want to come on the show be interviewed and tell me why and go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com I'll see you next time.
story to tell me that you want me to read or you want to come on the show and be interviewed and tell me why and go to swingysinglepodcast at gmail.com Alright, let's get it on because we got to get it on. Oh, and before we get rolling, quick reminder for my favorite prep tip no matter how digital the game gets, never forget to shave your cock and balls, gentlemen Freshmas, my friends, is always in in any area. So, alright Thank you.
no matter how digital the game gets never forget to shave your cock and balls gentlemen freshness my friends is always in in any area so all right let's get into it and this first of all let's talk about this ai we know it's coming around we see a lot of it we see a lot of fake fucking videos now of ai and all that stuff and people question is it real or not my thing is now with me when i see a video i go well unless i see it i can prove it by researching it and Thank you.
people question is it real or not my thing is now with me when i see a video i go well unless i see it i can prove it by researching it and all that stuff i don't believe it i have to see it to believe it now because that's how the world is you know you could do anything on ai people put ai and their profile pictures now bad bad shame on you swingers you should know better you know that you're going to get caught you know're gonna meet one day or meet that people you're not gonna look anything like those pictures or your cock is only about four inches when you have that eight inch pecker all right be honest and just do it tell them you got a sleeve or something fuck it you know but ai i don't know guys i think maybe it's kind of gonna Who knows?
But, you know, that's what we're here for. We're here to discuss it in an adult manner. You know, we're not yelling at each other. We're not Democrats or Republicans here. Alright? So, how will AI will improve communication between singles and couples? That's a good question. I don't know. I don't think so. First up, communication. Swinging is all about connection. Then the negotiation. And honestly, a lot of well-placed words. Couples and seagulls know that a clear, sexy conversation can lead to some of the most intoxicating encounters.
AI-powered apps and dating platforms have already started changing the game. helping match compatible partners based on more than just a few profile pictures and a checklist of boxes. Imagine AI algorithms learning your desires, kinks, limits, and personalities, making introductions smoother and more intuitive. This means fewer awkward first messages and more electric chemistry right off the bat.
here's the problem one thing i hate about ai algorithms because if you get one damn thing on there that you don't want it will show you a bunch of shit and they're listening to you you ever go on facebook and you're talking about buying furniture all of a sudden you got ads for all these furnitures because guess what your cell phone is listening to to you right now. My cell phone's listening to the swing and single podcast, but oh, well, that's what they get. They want to be spying on me. Guess what? You're going to get to listen to the greatest swingers show on the planet. Swinger podcast.
My bad. All right. So AI chat bots could even help break the ice when you're nervous, when you are nervous or unsure about how to start a bold conversation. Yeah, that's true. It could help. It could. Well, you can do it. I don't know why you'll be nervous online. What's the worst thing they can do? You're not in the person. It's not like you're in person.
The person can slap you, you know, or the person can laugh at your face like I've been laughed in my face by couple at Secrets one time Stuff like that It shouldn't be hard to write a sentence about yourself You can use AI to write that sentence for you Think of it like having a wingman Who knows exactly how to word your opening line Or politically set a boundary without killing the vibe I also told you man, man, use AI to write your ad. You know, you put in all your stuff, all the information, and let AI write it for you because some of you can't write.
You know, public schools don't really teach writing anymore, so, you know, we have that problem, so AI can help you. This kind of technology promises to tear down communication mirrors, allowing couples and singles connect on a deeper, more authentic levels more quickly, whether you're looking for a spicy weekend rendezvous or a long-term swinging partners. All right. So, I don't know. I don't know if it's communication. Technology is going to break down the communication barriers. I think technology gives us more of a numbers game. The numbers are more bigger.
When I first started, there wasn't any internet. There was, well, there was dial-up internet. And you really had to go to a club. There wasn't much online. There was not many people online doing this. But now I think AI, with AI and the internet, you've got more numbers. And swinging is a numbers game.
You've got to kiss a lot of frogs to get to the princes and all that stuff so who knows and here's a catch clear communication backed by ai means less guesswork fewer misunderstandings and ultimately safer play but that brings us to the big question can something so program really keep it authentic all right we'll tackle that question in a minute but i want to first want to talk about the guesswork i think ai is very good at that because you can put in that you're looking for gang bangs you're looking for a female you're looking for a single guy you're looking for full swap couples you're looking for a bisexual couple and all this stuff and they can filter it out for you so you don't waste your time on straight couples straight men gay men or bi men straight females bisexual females whatever you're looking for you can what you're not looking for you can get rid of them and i think you can even block well you can block single men single female stuff like that if you want to uh and all that so on these websites with the ai power they can do that and i see a lot more people go into this and that does take out a lot of the guesswork now you know okay so you you put everything what you don't want now you got now it pulls up everything that fits in your criteria all right so there's no misunderstanding or anything like that but however ladies and gentlemen you should still read the art profile don't still look at the pitch and jerk off to the pitch because pictures because they're hot and all that read their profile and see if they fit because i tell you this a lot of times i see profiles on sdc sls saying they that they don't want single guys or that they want single guys but when you read the profile it says no single guys for somewhere so they might have edited their profile they just forgot that it's in there because they only do the pictures in the headline well that can happen so you just want to make sure if once you get that filter going through with the ai filter make sure you read that profile and all that stuff you know uh safer play uh if you're talking about condoms yes or no because you are human beings ai can't make you force you to put on a condom on your cock and balls and stuff like that so you know you that's up to you safer play maybe you don't get such maniacs but you know what i always tell people this swinging has the same amount of maniacs as the regular world there is no difference there is no only difference is that really yeah the really difference is that Thank you.
this swinging has the same amount of maniacs as the regular world there is no difference there is no only difference is that really yeah the really difference is that we fuck multiple people maybe we swap partnership like that but there's really no difference between vanilla and swinging you're gonna get maniacs there you have to be safe like i said don't ever go to someone's house don't ever on the first date or anything like that uh especially if this is a couple you just met or single a single guy don't go to a couple's house go pay for a hotel room at least that's safe because you never know some couples are nutty and all that stuff you just don't know just because they look nice and all that now can it keep it authentic that's up to you that's going to be your job to keep it authentic and all that stuff.
And it depends on what you mean by authentic. Your definition of authentic could be different than my definition or a couple B's definition. So, authenticity and the connection in the digital age. Authensity, the heart and soul swinging. In an age of filter apps, curated profiles, and the-generated pictures, how can we keep it real? And that's what the problem I always have. These fucking people, for some reason, think that, oh, look it, I will use AI pictures. I'll make myself look good. I use these filters. I'll look good. But then you're going to meet these people eventually, right?
Or you're just fucking around and being an asshole and never have any intentions to meet. There are people like that. There are single guys like that. There are couples like that. Thank you.
people eventually right or you're just fucking around and being an asshole and never never have any intentions to meet there are people like that there are single guys like that there are couples like that there are single females i don't know how many times i get a friend request off of scc from a single girl and it's only one picture and she's always out of town and stuff like that and they have one sentence in the profile i'm not fucking i'm not your friend click deny all right That's fucking fake. You know that. It's not even AI-generated pictures.
They don't even use a good picture, but couples will use AI generated pictures to make themselves look better, now, when you meet up, you're going to be found out, and it's just going to make you look stupid, right, that's the only way it's going to go down, because people are going to talk to talk shit about you and yes people are going to talk shit about you and talk about how you know that one couple that didn't look like they the pictures they sent didn't look like them at all stuff like that they were overweight or whatever they were 25 years older and stuff like that so you got to be able to keep it real don't use fake pictures you can i don't blame anyone for using AI to write a profile of what they're looking for and what they're not looking for.
Sometimes people have struggled to write what they're saying or what they feel. So, well, can AI actually help by analyzing not just what we say but how we say it? It can pick up on natural language patterns, emotional cues, and behavioral trends that suggest genuine interest instead of just surface-level flirtation. All right? You're asking, I have no idea about AI. I love it. I use it all the time and all that stuff. So, you know, I like it. But is it going to be able to do all this stuff?
I'm sure it can can but is it going to be robotic or is it going to be more human-like and do we want ai to be more human-like but there's the sexy truth but here's the sexy truth no algorithm can replicate the electric charge of real human chemistry that glance across the room a whisper joke the subtle brush of skin against skin. A, I can help set the stage, but the real dance, that's all you. Like I said, yeah, so you're going to have to really, you know, AI can help you open the door. But once that door opens, that's all up to you. AI ain't going to be able to help you.
You're not going to be at a club and going to have to look at AI to get an answer to something. You are going to have to be that person.
You are going to have to be able to have some charm charisma if you don't got that you're going to probably strike out introverts out there all the introverts out there that are shy and all that stuff you know what i'm talking about you're going to have to come out your shell when you go to the club introverts remember everyone's there for the same reason and everyone's you know i'm going to say something a lot of people most of the people at the swinger clubs are nice are nice people you they come up to you they're not going to bite your head off now there are once as a single male i've gone up to couples and i got my ass chewed out by the couple because why the hell am i talking to them?
I didn't know. There was no wristbands. There's no sign that says we're not just single guys. I just thought I was being nice because you never know. They might be interested in me, but they're just too scared to say something. So I said something for them.
Well, you know, you get your ass chewed out because they're not eating out, but you get your ass chewed out because you thought that will happen yeah sure it could happen but if you're a couple chances are they're no one's gonna yell at you they're gonna be very nice to you they're actually they'll probably especially if they know you're introverted it's your maybe your first time at the club or anything like that they're gonna show you around they're gonna want to be friends with you and stuff like that they might not want to play with you but they'll be friends with you they'll be very friendly all right so like i said nothing's going to replace that human touch that's why i don't like online apps or something like that i want to go out and see i want to feel you i want to smell you i want to do all that stuff you know ai is not for me for these purposes still ai tools can remind us to stay true to our boundaries, right?
Whatever your boundaries may be, nudging us to keep communication honest and consistent front and center. You got to remember, you got to be able to communicate honest and all that. Sorry for all the breathing inside.
I'm'm doing immunotherapy for my allergies and i gotta do this for three years i take three drops a day and it just clogs the out of my nose and it's what it basically is it's giving me a dose of what i'm allergic to slowly and it introduces it to my body so my body will build up immunity to it or whatever and all that so hopefully it works but it's going to take three years hopefully it's not like this all the time i have some good days and bad days i've been doing it for a month now so we'll see only two more years and 11 more months left of this shit so is it going to be able to keep communication honest and the consent front and center?
Well, the consent is between two people. AI has nothing to do with the consent. You can take that consent and give it or take it back whenever you want. This means couples and singles alike can explore their swinging desires with an extra layer of clarity and competence. Maybe you use AI to clear up some misunderstandings or some problems that you have with reading someone's profile and saying, okay, I don't understand this. Can you explain this a little bit better? You use AI to explain it for the person. And they go, oh, okay, great.
Of course, when you slip into those thrilling encounters, the devil's always in the details, guys. And little prep helps. So I'll say it again.
Shave your cock your cock and balls gentlemen because authenticity isn't just emotional feeling sexy or fresh adds a real boost to your confidence and connection all right there's nothing worse than go i don't know what is with some of you dudes you don't dress you dress like shit at the clubs now you don't shave your cock and balls your balls look fucking hairy and shit And yet you're the same person That's screaming about your wife's pussy being bald You want to have a bald You don't want to fuck a hairy pussy I'm like what is wrong with you I don't mind I don't give a fuck Whatever preference of ladies I like hair on my pussy Because I like fucking women Bald pussy I don't know It's just kind of just weird Why does it always have to be bald you can have a little hair down there you know what's good for the goose goose is good for the gander right so if you got hairy nutsack and a hairy cock well shit woman you run the show you fucking let that hair grow fuck it let's see how he likes it picking out pubic hair when he's going down on you and all that.
If he's going down on you and all that. So, you know, guys, do better. Come on. I've got to do a whole show about that shit again. So, potential pitfalls. What are the ethical considerations that we got to talk about?
Now, let's talk about the darker side because as sexy as ai sounds and fucking ai helps a lot of things all right don't get me wrong i love it like i said i can use it here in swinging but it's not without its pitfalls issues like privacy data security and consent become even more important when intimate details are digital like i said it's it's you walk a fine line there are some shitty people out there that will Thank you. They will tell who you are and stuff like that. All right? Like I said, I always tell people when they come on my show, we're going to use fake names.
I don't want to use a real name or anything like that. I learned my lesson, but, you know, you just don't want to do that all right but you got people out there that will want to do that to someone because you know they feel powerful it makes them feel better about themselves because they're fucking listen if your day if you get off on doctor someone on the internet who's a swinger and all that and you have fun fun, and you get off on that, then you're a fucking loser. No ifs, ands, and buts. You're a fucking loser. Losers do shit like that. Okay, he pissed you off, or she pissed you off.
Okay, let it go. Move on with your life. Go find another couple. Go find another single. There are a lot out there. Alright? So you gotta be very careful who you allow into your digital world. The data security, stuff like that. So just remember, just because Thank you.
all right so you got to be very careful who you allow into your digital world the data security stuff like that all right so just remember it's dumb just because it's ai he's still got some things to worry about because people will put some shit in there i guess i think i heard something that if you put a picture in ai they can remove the remove the i don't know the emoji or whatever you put it over your face and stuff like. So that's another thing to be concerning about.
So, you know, if you have a job where you don't want, where you can't be public about your swinging activities, well, make sure you be smart about it. So what happens if your swinger profile data gets hacked or shared? That's been a very, what is it?
That's always been a topic of conversation since the internet come out remember when Ashley Madison got hacked that dating site for cheating spouses and stuff like that a shitload of people they were going to give the list of everyone on there they also were going to do try to blackmail people that's a possibility swingers websites could get hacked and all that stuff. Now, why? Because people want to use an easy target and won't tell you, oh, well, you know, we'll tell your boss that you're a swinger and so on and so on. So they try to blackmail you.
Or what if AI matchmaking decides it knows you better than you know yourself and starts making choices that you that don't reflect your true desires? Well, that's where you got to go. Fuck this. That's where you got to go old school. You got to override it. Don't be afraid to say no. AI don't know everything. Who created AI? Remember, who's smarter Thank you. Well, that's where you got to go. Fuck this. That's where you got to go old school. You got to override it. Don't be afraid to say no. AI don't know everything. Who created AI? Remember, who's smarter, the computer or the human?
I know if humans break a bone, we can go to a doctor, they can reset it, and we're all fine. We tear our ligaments in our knees. We can get surgery. We're fine. I know if a computer gets a virus, who has to fix it? They're human. So humans are smarter. And I think we're smarter than AI because we created it. Thank you. we're fine. I know if a computer gets a virus and who has to fix it? They're human. So humans are smarter. And I think we're smarter than AI because we created it. We just got to watch out for it. So there's also ethical questions. The deep fakes.
Avatars or AI driven profiles masquerading as real people. This I can see is going to be a big fucking problem. Because you got people out there who are losers who got nothing going on in their lives so they live in mom's basement and it goes for both men and women. I've been seeing more loser women in this lifestyle year after year after year now. It's getting very concerning. But now with AI you got to worry about is this a fake profile?
This is why I tell people if you really are interested in their lifestyle and you have a club that's near you or within driving distance of you, go to that club. Nothing will beat going to a club on a Friday or Saturday night, then sitting on the internet, trying to find couples and groups on a Friday, Saturday night on the internet. It's no fun.
Like I said, now you got to worry worry about is this couple you're talking to real or is it a fake listen if they're hot super hot like they're fucking like model hot it's a fake all right there are very few supermodels in this lifestyle and if they are in the lifestyle guess who they're fucking they're not fucking you they're're going to fuck high-top, high-caliber men and women, like superstars, athletes, entertainers, and all that stuff. They're not fucking us, all right?
Now, there are a lot of beautiful women in the lifestyle, a lot of beautiful men in the lifestyle, handsome men in the lifestyle. But once again, if it's too good to be true, it is not true right that's the old saying go by it that kind of deception can devastate trust and ruin what is ultimately a lifestyle built on openness and honesty so many times and it could kill your swinging experience your wife might change say no i don't want to swing anymore. It's a bad experience, stuff like that and all that. You know, it's like when you get your first STD as a swinger.
Listen, you know the risk going in. And with this AI shit, you know the risk of doing it online. It can happen. You're going to maybe get a fake. You might get one of those pictures collected. Don't ever, ever send pictures to anyone. Don't send nude pictures.
Don't send anything to a person have them send the picture first if they don't want to send the picture first fuck it go on move on i'm sure there's a couple all right plus there's risk of ai driving people to rely too heavily on algorithm potentially dampening the messy unpredictable beautiful unpredictable beauty of spontaneous human connection. Yeah. Like I said, I don't fucking get on the apps that much. I just look at where's the party at, maybe who's going to go, and I'm there. I would dread to meet you, like I said.
I'd dread to meet you in person, see you in person, feel you, smell you, all that stuff. Swingers must demand transparency from the platforms they use and stay vigilant about how their data is stored and used. Being informed is sexy and empowering. I noticed that SLS, SwingLifestyle.com, and SCC changed their format a little bit and people are not happy. Now, you'll get used to, you'll get over it, people. Trust me, it always happens. Whenever a website changes, people always bitch about it. I don't like it, I don't like it. But after a while, they get used to it.
They see it's fine, and they move on with their lives and stuff like that. So what about the safety? So AI safety for couples and singles. Safety is sexy, of course. And we're not talking about cons. We're talking about personal stuff. And AI has a serious potential to make swinging safer. From background checks and behavioral analysis to real-time monitoring of consent cues during interactions. AI can be a guardian angel in the digital playground. It can flag red flags you might miss. Keep screen potential partners.
Help screen potential partners that alert you to potential scams or unsafe scenarios. That's what you really need. Scams. Those deep fakes that people, they look real. But look, it looks like fucking Cindy Crawford back in the 90s. What is she doing on here? Or why is someone looking like hers? Trust me, they're not on the fucking. It's like these Tinder profiles. You get these really hot, young, beautiful women on Tinder, and these assholes are swiping on them. Those are fucking just data collectors. That's fake shit. And these guys are like, ooh, she's going to talk to her. She likes me.
It's like when you go to the strip club. Oh, this stripper likes me. Yeah, because you keep buying the fucking lap dances and shit for her, you stupid fuck. got to remember to watch and look for the red flags. If it's too good to be true, it's probably not. All right? Can AI be your guardian angel? Sure, it could be. All right? You can look at things that you might not see. You might, you know, throw their picture in there to see. Say, hey, is this a real couple? Is this an AI or whatever it is? I don't know. I don't know how AI uses that stuff. Like I said, remember, this is all new.
This is not something that just came, been here for 20 years. So we're going at it as the guinea pigs. 10, 15, 20 years from now, it'll be easy to use and we'll know how to use it. But of course, technology is not infallible and should never replace your gut instincts or open conversations. I always hear of women's intuition, so ladies, use that. Always combine AI tools with your own savvy and clear boundaries. Imagine walking to a club after a freshly shaved cock and balls, knowing that the digital side of your journey has your back, giving you the confidence to fully enjoy the moment.
Now that's the future I want to play in. So, there's a lot of stuff going on with AI, and I mean good things, but there's also bad things, all right? So we just got to be smart and safe. So where are so where are we headed shit if i don't i don't ever talk about you know i don't worry about technology i just wait it when it comes out it comes out i read it i go into the future stuff and stuff like that so i don't know so let's see ai driven romance will only get sexier and smarter hopefully you remember that uh what was that one movie with Sly Stallone and Wesley Snipes where they go in time?
They go to the future, they're in prison, they re-animate them and they come back and Sly Stallone has to catch Wesley Snipes and now people don't have sex. They have this sort of AI helmet they put on, they have that way shit like that i hope it doesn't come to that because i really like being inside a woman but anyways virtual and augmented reality could create immerse swinging experiences before you even meet in person ai could personalize your sexual adventures based on mood chemistry feedback in ways we can barely imagine today. God, I cannot wait for this.
Boy, can people not talk to each other now? Just wait till this happens. No one will be talking. Interverts everywhere. So, yet, nothing really plays the thrill of skin on skin. No, it's not. I know. So, the laughter, the whisper secrets, the touch that no technology can truly mimic. The future is a sexy dance between tech and touch. Those who master both will lead the lifestyle's evolution. Well, I've really seen it all. When I first started, sex was, that was the number one goal for everybody. Everybody went to the club, the swingers club, to get fucked. Not Thank you.
I've really seen it all When I first started Sex was That was the number one goal For everybody Everybody went to the club The swingers club To get fucked Not Connections Maybe But everyone was fucking I mean I seen some of the ugliest people Walking to the swingers club And They'll be banging Four or five girls Or couples Ugly women come in Getting banged Getting banged by every guy in there So it's like It has changed Evolution Now We'll see you next time.
ugly women come in gang banged by every guy in there so it's like it has changed evolution now will AI make it for the better could be if we use it properly we don't abuse it you're going to have a few assholes that will abuse it so we just got to watch out for those assholes so adopting the AI AI means being open, be curious, but cautious. Couples who embrace it as a tool, use an AI to explore boundaries, communicate desires, and connect with potential partners. Can find their swing and experience richer and safer.
For singles, can leverage AI matchmaking to find better matches faster and use digital tools to set clear, authentic intentions? But I still think there's a problem with that for the single guys and single women. There's more single guys than there are single women. And how many of these single women are looking for a relationship? I'm looking for a relationship. So that's where it gets a little, that gray area for AI. How will AI be able to take out who wants a relationship, who doesn't want a relationship, stuff like that.
Always remember, use AI to enhance your pleasure, not replace your natural instincts. And as always, a little self-care never hurts. So take a moment before you dive into the digital playground and make sure you shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. You'll feel fresher, more irresistible. So what do you guys think? You think AI will replace human interaction and swinging? I don't think it will because then it won't be swinging, right? So here's a million-dollar question. Will AI replace raw human interaction that defines swinging? The answer is firm, sexy, no.
AI is a tool, a damn good one in many ways, but it can't replicate the nuance of human touch, the spark of eye contact, the laughter of a bad joke whispered in a dimly room. We are human beings. We want contact. We want to be with our group of people. We want to be with our people. The very few of us are lone wolves. Even the introverts are they want to be around people. They don't want to admit it, but you know, they want to be around people. Swinging is such about connection as it is about sex. I disagree, but you know, that's just me, the pervert of me.
And AI can support that connection but never replace it entirely. The best swingers will use AI to free up more time and energy for the real magic. That messy, thoroughly dance of this human desire. Alright. So, what do you guys think? Email me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com. Tell me what you think about AI and the future of swinging. And is swinging going to, you know, take a turn for the better or worse with AI? You know what I'm saying? Alright, so let's go to, let's help some people out. Alright, so you know, this is my favorite thing to do right here. Help people out. Swingers.
Wife, exit the lifestyle. Dun. Oh, no. You're fucked, buddy. You are fucked. So, we are an attractive couple, married 20-plus years, who always talked about swinging at swinger clubs. I initiated the topic, of course. We listed ourselves at swinging sites and had a few events we attended. We were at a bar wondering who were swiggers, and my wife talked to a couple to invite us to an RV experience. We had a few other swiggers sex sessions, and then my wife stopped swinging. I can't get her back into the sandbox. Just said it wasn't for me. I got no notice in it. Any comments or recommendations?
Recommendations one. Say, okay, it was a great time and move on with your life. Swing an eight for you guys. That's it. I don't know what dude, I don't know what you want. Your wife is not into it. You know why? Probably because you were, maybe you didn't pay attention to your wife. Maybe you were watching her body language. Maybe you didn't take any heretic association. Did you ask her what she wanted, how you make her lifestyle experience more enjoyable?
Or did you get selfish because you got cock, you had a cock and you wanted to stick your cock in other women's pussies, and you just said fuck your wife if You didn't pay attention to her. Gentlemen. If you want your wife to be in swinging. Your number one job is to make sure she has the greatest time of her life. I mean the greatest time. So you tell her. Ask her. Hey baby. What do you want to do? If you have small dick energy.
And you don't want no other guy to fuck her well you better hope she goes into other guys to fuck no i can see that happening small a lot of small dick energy is for younger couples because you know guys are insecure about themselves and yada but you've been gathered 20 years you act like she's not gonna want any other dick. Let's talk about this, people. Let's be for real. You're married 20 years. So let's say you go to Big Donald's every day, eat a Big Mac for 20 years for dinner. You're not going to want nothing else.
You don't want to go over to get a Whopper or go to Subway, get a Subway sandwich or go to Chick-fil-Aa get some chicken sandwiches fuck yeah you are but you guys think with your little brain and not your big brain you go well this is for me i'm gonna this is my time to get pussy from someone else and my wife could get whatever she gets well did you ever ask that your wife want to fuck that dude because i know know there's couples. We don't take one for the team. And I always tell Say, that's bullshit. You do take one for the team.
You might not take one every single day, but you know, I get you what. I bet you once a year you take one for the team. So you fucked. Every man's penis that's been inside you, you have been, you enjoyed it? Of course not.
Because we all lie to each other, because that's how we move on with our lives, and that's how we live, but the problem is, you got to make sure your wife is having a good time, so if you have to bite the bullet and let your wife fucking have whatever she wants, you ask your wife, you tell your wife, what do you want, baby, I'm here to support you, and and listen you might not be down with her fucking other guys if that's the truth then don't fucking swing stay away from it because it's just going to ruin your relationship and I guarantee this relationship is going to be ruined a 20 year marriage is going to be ruined because of swinging because this guy doesn't know what to do he wants recommendations he wants any of this stuff and my recommendation is for her to find go find a fucking find a man that's going to take care of you Thank you.
He wants recommendations He wants any of this stuff And my recommendation is for her to find Go find a fucking find a man That's going to take care of you She probably did it Because she wanted to do it for you Then she learned She didn't like it Why?
Did you ever talk When you got out of the first experience Did you say hey honey what did you like about the experience What did you not like about it that did not like about it which should be really important you should listen but you probably like i said you're probably thinking of your little dick and not your big i mean your little brain and not your big brain and a lot of guys do this it's not just this one guy but that's just dumb like i said i don't understand guys like that or anything like that all right so let's go one more speaking of single single males, so single male question.
I'm a 49-year-old male, me too, who has been in multiple relationships. Good job. Some lifestyle, some not. I have been absolutely okay, 100% with both. I don't need the lifestyle to be happy. Good. That being said, I prefer the lifestyle's that little but thing i have much i have a much different view on sexuality than most people okay what is that view i'm not expecting just anyone to be okay with this but dating is not great these days in general let alone anything extra all right. Dating is fucking awesome. I mean, you got like uber pussy.
You could swipe right or swipe left, swipe up, down, whatever, and you get pussy to your door. How's that not? Dating? Do you really? You're fucking 49. You really want to date? No, we just want to get laid now.
You probably just want to get laid, right you want to date okay go take these girls on a date fucking go to dinner go to the movies go to the sport event and go fuck have a good time you got to ask yourself do you really what do you want do you want to get married again or you want to have a relationship or anything like that all right but i think dating is fucking awesome for a single guy these days shit you know how hard it was when i was growing up in my 20s you had to talk to women we couldn't just text or apple or anything like that we had e-harmony e-harmony would took like a whole month to fill out their fucking profile so by within two days you get tired of the shit you say fuck it so you got to go to the bar and people it's it's totally it's easy today the quality of women out there are fucking fantastic i mean i made some i met with some really great non-lystyle people uh over the years on these dating apps still friends with them today so what's he asking i'm guessing i'm asking where should i look for matches that may someday be okay with swapping i've tried the sls but it's old yes okay We'll be right back.
so what's he asking i'm guessing i'm asking where should i look for matches that may someday be okay with swapping i've tried the sls but it's old yes okay buddy i'm gonna help you out man the man 49 year old a 49 year old go to tinder say you're a swinger and leave it at that tell them that you're looking for a potential partner to swap with and do swinging things with go to nudist resorts you go to the swinger resorts, go to the swinger clubs, stuff like that. But also say, my life doesn't revolve around swinging.
I love going to museums or going boating or going fishing or whatever you like to do. But make sure you put that in there. Go, I'm not looking for a monogamous relationship. I am looking for a non-monogamous relationship. Alright? Then put it out there, post it. Guess what? You will get hits. I get hits all the time because I put that, I put it out in my profile. I say I'm a swinger. I go to Secrets Hideaway. I go to Paradise Lakes. I go to Desires. I go to the clubs around the state of Texas, Vegas, and all that stuff.
I'm looking for a partner to go out and enjoy these things things with I am looking for a woman that likes to have sex with other men and women or couples in front of me I put it out there and guess what I get now the majority of the things I never the girls or the ladies that I talk to don't go nowhere they're just curious or whatever then you know I get that one or two a month that really want to meet up, they want to talk about, they might even want to go to a club. So, you know, you get that opportunity. That's where you're going to find these people. Alright? It's out there.
But you've got to ask yourself, what do you really need? Do you want to be a swinger? Then be a fucking swinger. Just tell people you're a swinger. Put it on your dating profile. That's it. You'll get people. Especially if you're a good looking dude. All right, let me see. Let me click on his profile. See if he's got any pictures. Probably not because none of them do. Well, he's got a picture of his car. He drives it. He says, oh, no, it's his first explorer.
Okay, his first explorer, it's first explorer but no no nothing no pictures of him okay well that's one thing you gotta do well i can't see so if you're a really good looking dude you're gonna find girls that are beat maybe they're interested in it and they want to explore it or you might find women that are interested in it or are in the lifestyle and want to join a partner all right you could also depend on where you live if you live depends on yeah it also depends on where you live you know some places are just better at finding people than others all right uh good luck buddy i hope you get what you need i hope you get a partner and all that because i like seeing people succeed, single guys.
You know, I'm not one of those single guys that wants to cock block other single guys. You know, like that one dude at Luna's. There's one dude at Luna's that will always try to cock block people and get couples to go in the couples room with them so he can lock the door and stop everyone else from fucking them. So, you know, I'm not that type of guy. I'm here to help you guys, single guys out. I'm here to help couples out. I'm here to help everybody else. Single ladies help you out too. All right? So, you know, it is what it is. So, with that, all right, you gorgeous wingers.
That's where the future meets the lifestyle in tonight's episode. AI promises exciting possibilities from better communication and safety to deeper, more authentic connections. But at the end of the day, remember, it's up to you to own your desire, honor your boundaries, and show up fully, mind, body, and freshly shaved cock and balls. For more juicy insights and biology-pushing conversations, visit me at swingandsinglepodcast.com. I'm A.C. Maxwell, reminding you to stay curious, stay confident, and above all, stay swingy. The way I shook in your eye of the night.
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