Episode 8 "Tips and Tricks for single guys"

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here we are back again yes i actually i lost count of which one this is i already forgot yeah there's too many to count now there's too many back again to say back again yeah um first off welcome 2026 yes new year now oh gracious new year new me probably not no still the same new year New Year, same bitch. Yep. But first, we are... By the way, with... NC Howie. And Dirty Max. Yes. So, I hope that you guys had a great Christmas, great New Year's, great Hanukkah, whatever it is that you...

Happy Holidays yeah whatever it is that you guys celebrate i hope you guys are happy we can say happy holidays holidays yeah hope holidays oh my gosh hope everyone's a hoe hope everyone was a hoe in 2025 and have hope everyone is more of a hoe in 2026 yes i have a feeling i'll keep up my hoe status in 2026 that's great love it I don't know.

and hope everyone is more of a hoe in 2026 yes i have a feeling i'll keep up my hoe status in 2026 that's great love it um but today we are going to talk about etiquette yeah kind of a lot of single guy do's and don'ts yes sorry i guess we could say how to be a single guy in the lifestyle but also a little because we're going to kind of touch on the content creation because a lot of it goes hand in hand it does you know kind of inter intermingles a little bit yes how you should act um and we we came up with this from our last um hotel takeover that we went at livestock connections um because like we said in our last podcast they do a fabulous job at um vetting their single guys so we figured that we would talk about yeah um kind of how to be a single guy in the lifestyle from like a hot wife and her husband's perspective.

Yeah. So first, we're going to start as far as maybe before you. So say you're a single guy. You're going to a lifestyle club party or club party tonight these are things that you should do before you even get to the party yeah so um first off you should look at the website um or the event page yeah first make sure you're allowed to come because there are some I don't know.

um first off you should look at the website um or the event page yeah first make sure you're allowed to come because there are some nights um some nights some clubs some events that single guys are not allowed i feel like general rule at most clubs it's usually like friday night to single guys and um saturday night they're not allowed yeah i could be wrong but it's most of them like trapeze ykw was like that yeah um i'm pretty sure the house in raleigh is like that yeah i think so most most of your clubs that i feel like that's kind of like a general rule it seems that way so if you're going on if you want to go on saturday night double check to make sure because you might not get in yes um so first get on the website event page whatever it is look up the um rules for the attire um to make sure that you are dressed appropriately before you go um so that you don't get there and you are not dressed the way you're supposed to be and you can't be there anyways don.

Don't allow like baseball hats, like t-shirts, like holy jeans. Yeah, you have to have, like you can't just show up and like. I mean, you're there, like we said in our last podcast, you're there to impress. Right. You want to. You're trying to stand out from everybody else. So look better.

You don't have to wear like a three-pooch suit or like a tuxedo or't have to go there all that but um i mean you can wear clean clothes i mean it's not like you got to go to the mall and spend a couple hundred dollars on um like dress clothes and stuff like that i mean for shit's like you can go to sheen or amazon and buy a whole wardrobe for less than 100 bucks yes you know a nice button-down shirt speaking from experience um it you can wear a t-shirt make sure it's a clean t-shirt maybe go out and you know buy a t-shirt that you've never worn before with nothing on it you know a clean black t-shirt goes a long way like you can make a clean black t-shirt look good you can wear it dress can dress pants tucked in and it looks classy it does um make sure your clothes aren't like wrinkled like like look like you are there to pick up a chick like you want to be um you want to impress them um so first clothing make sure you look Um, maybe go get a haircut a couple of days before, or if you do it at home, trim, like trim your hair up, trim your beard up.

If you have one, like you want to make sure that you look good. So those small little details that you do make a huge difference. I mean, the majority of the women there, they're doing the same thing.

They're going to get their hair done they're getting their makeup done you know they want to feel and look their best so they want somebody else that's you know like well he didn't really put a whole lot of effort into making himself look good but I went through and did all this like you know obviously it's not really important to him yeah you know you need to show that you've made the same effort as the women are like the women that you're trying to impress and like try to fuck at the end of the night like you need to match their um i don't know the best word for that match their vibe as far as i wouldn't say energy because it's not really energy yeah match the match the level of effort that they're putting there you go to stand out perfect um but I mean it goes back to as far as like you said before you're going to an event or something like that you can go onto the website and see what who else is you know coming yes so you can kind of get a feel for who's going to be there possibly you can always send messages and you know don't just be like hey you know i'm gonna be at the party you know hope to see you there like type something out have good grammar i mean you all the technology with like ai and like chat gbt yeah it can help you write some shit if you can't write something yeah yeah so if you're trying to you know send send a face picture you know or like a clothed body picture if you don't want to show your face or something like that don't just start off the gate with you know dick pic yeah that's the like biggest turn off you can do because it's not like you're just walking around naked and this girl's gonna know exactly who you are but you're like oh yeah this is the dick that i found oh yeah that's you right there that's him right there yeah um but yeah so um your attire make sure that your hair like haircut trim your beard uh trim your like y'all need to do some like manscaping down there like it it boggles my mind the ones that like don't and it's not like i'm saying like you need to do that right before you show up to the party you don't have to be like completely shaved but you know but you can also tell somebody who shaved last week or even two weeks ago versus somebody who has that part of their body has never seen a razor in their entire life like trim and always like they always say if you trim your bushes that makes your deck look bigger yeah so you might you know you trim you might add an extra inch or two down there um so i mean that's a big thing and that may not be a big thing for everybody no i'm sure there are some people that people everybody's different like a little bit of hair right on there but i feel like that majority of people is smaller than the you know the vast majority of people that do like you know because a lot of people think okay well if it's trimmed up shaved clean or it is clean you know the vast majority of people that do like you know because a lot of people think okay well if it's trimmed up shaved clean or it is clean you know versus you know maybe it's not exactly 100 cleaner than you know clean as one that is shaved kind of thing yeah and that's just our take on it yeah that's just our opinion like obviously everybody's entitled to their opinion in the way that, um a single guy to look um this is just like overall is what we've seen what we've experienced and like other people that we've talked to in the lifestyle um so let's see clothes hair manscape um shower like shower do like a thorough like don't just go and like you know be like oh i showered you know after i left the gym and i went home and you know chilled on the couch and threw some new clothes on and threw a bunch of cologne on no at the end of the day we can smell the stink and we can smell the cologne okay so yeah you can you can smell both and they don't really smell good together um so take a shower um put some deodorant on like one trick maybe put a little like of extra deodorant on yeah and then you can put your cologne on but make sure you shower and make sure you put deodorant on please one thing that i learned from somebody is take some deodorant lift up your sack and just put a little bit of deodorant right there because then if a woman goes down if you don't have time to like clean up right before you're gonna play most likely it's just like put deodorant in your armpits you naturally have body odor that comes from down there yeah like it's gonna kind of cover some things up and you know yeah kind of help you out so like oh like this must clean down here yeah so just like take the extra um effort to make yourself look good and to make yourself smell good yeah um and like i don't know if this is like this is probably just a me thing it very well maybe but as far as like taking care of yourself like cut your fingernails like i don't know about other women the amount of men that i can see even just in pictures that don't trim their fingernails boggles my mind and this goes hand in hand with single guys in the lifestyle and in content creation yes i'm like cut your fucking fingernails like yeah i'm sorry but a it looks bad and b if you're gonna be doing something on a woman why the hell you don't want your dirty fingernails all up all up in her stuff that like that's a huge turn off to me yeah um but also like as far as content creation and lifestyle the same thing goes when you're going to create content with somebody yeah absolutely take a shower yeah put deodorant on if you're like say you're in miami okay and you guys like you're going to film content with somebody and you have to walk maybe even like a quarter of a half like either a quarter or even half a mile yeah to get somewhere um when you get there maybe even like take your own towel just in case like the hotel or the airbnb whatever it is they're staying in doesn't have like an extra towel just be like hey do you mind if i rinse off or hey do you mind if i go in your bathroom and just like freshen up um even if you don't take showers there there's many other ways to where you can freshen up to where you don't smell like you just walked a mile in 100 degree weather just saying like that's that's a big thing that's a huge turnoff for women because i feel like we really try like i'm super like picky about like making sure i smell good like certain lotion scents and everything like that so i feel like that's a big thing for for lifestyle and content creation i'm the same but at the same time like as guys don't just douse yourself in fucking cologne we go places all the time and it's like holy fuck like this guy like poured the whole bottle of fucking cologne no like when you put cologne on like one or twos, that's all you need.

You don't need the whole fucking bottle on you. Yeah, we don't need to smell you and then smell you after you walk away a mile. That's not necessary. I was going to say, was there anything else? Clothing, make make yourself look impressive um manscape hair beard trim cut your toenails or and your fingernails both cut both of them um or at least leave your socks on if you don't cut your toenails We don't want to see that. Shower, deodorant, cologne, minimalized. Yeah. Take some gum, some mints or something. Yeah.

I mean, of course, like brush your teeth, but like also make sure that, you know, if you had a drink when you were there, you're like, oh God, I'm starving. And you had to go get a snack. Right. Yeah. Make sure. You had like a fucking cheeseburger with onions and now you have onion breath. Yeah. You know. Yeah. I'll see you next time.

had a drink when you were there you're like oh god i'm starving and you had to go get a snack like yeah make sure you had like a fucking cheeseburger with onions and now you have onion breath like yeah you know yeah so just make sure you do the like necessary things to yeah i mean we've worked with guys before and i've and they've brought a fucking toothbrush from toothpaste and they're like i'm gonna go brush my teeth real quick before i you you know, we film. It takes like 30 seconds, a minute to do it. Super easy. Especially if you like smoke. Yeah. Anything of any kind.

I feel like that's a big thing because there are some women that don't smoke. Don't like the smell of smoke. Don't like the taste of it. All of those things.

Yeah things so basically look your best and have good hygiene like fucking take care of yourself yeah like just look like you take care of yourself and you it's bad that we had to have these conversations but i feel like we did but it has happened um in the past several times unfortunately um and it's a it's a huge turnoff it totally ruins the entire vibe um and honestly i think it's honestly happened to us more in content creation versus lifestyle for me it has yeah i would say so too just because in lifestyle situations i mean you're either at like a hotel takeover you're at somebody's house you can be at a resort you know there's there's showers readily available and i feel like that's one thing that we always like i'm gonna go you know give me give me five ten minutes i'm gonna jump in the shower real quick i mean for sure it's like you can even go to their if you're going to their room they're coming to your room like you can start out you know girl gets in the shower and then the other girl is like hey do you mind if i get in the shower you guys boom there you go you start fucking playing right there that's an easy way to break the ice start from there yeah um but yes please shower take care of yourself make yourself smell yourself smell good.

Okay, so that's before you get somewhere to where you're going. Once you get there, of course, you are going to see people.

You may see people that you recognize recognize if you went online and found some people you may recognize people there or there might some might be some people that don't go online they just go to the party yeah so they don't know ahead of time like who's going to be there um i feel like when we go to lifestyle parties like you look online and you know who's going to be there and i'm just like, like, I'm just going like, I don't, that's not really something that I pay attention to, I guess. Yeah. Um, cause I'm just there to have a good time regardless of who's there or not.

But yeah, when you, when you get there, you know, don't just, don't just stand around.

Don't just, you know, go to the corner of the room or back yourself up against the wall and just like awkwardly stare you know you can introduce yourself you know strike a conversation i mean at lsc we had somebody that we had our nikes on of course and somebody was like you know actually it happened twice somebody was like hey you know like i like your shoes that strikes up a conversation makes the other person feel good at themselves like you could say like don't just be like oh man you're fucking hot like yeah like that that's a huge turnoff like like you could be like oh you have you know you have beautiful eyes or something like that or you know or like your glasses or you know i love that you know your glasses on you or something like that or you're like i'm pretty sure we've had people say like your tattoos or something like that.

Um, so when you don't awkwardly stand in the corner, of course you're going to a lifestyle party, people are wearing a lot less clothing.

So you're going to want to look at them and like, that's fine, but don't like get lost and like stand there like you just saw a ghost or something like you have to wipe the drool off your mouth yeah like your mouth is like hanging open like you just were like super shocked by something like look at somebody but don't don't make it super obvious that you're just like staring because that makes people feel uncomfortable and kind of a little it's kind of a little creepy let's be honest um but yeah like go talk to people like people are not gonna know i mean people are gonna see a guy standing by himself but they're not like, is he waiting on his wife?

Like, why is he here? Like, is he just, is he just here, like, chilling? So go strike up a conversation. And a compliment is the best way to do it. In worst case scenario, the couple says, you know, hey, I'm really sorry, but, you know, I'm not interested in single guys tonight.

Or, you know or you know like you never know you might strike up a conversation and you might end up fucking the person but you never know until you break the ice and figure that out yeah i do feel like that's one big thing is that in the lifestyles you have to this is a different kind of turn but like you have to know that rejection is going to happen and it's just part of it um yeah start off with the compliment compliments are the best way to start um if you see a woman maybe don't go up to her right away if she's alone like give her a minute to see if like her husband went to the bathroom or like he went to get a drink something like that um just because some people don't don't like that when you know even though you may not have seen the husband leave some people might take that as oh well he waited until i left until right i came up and talked yeah you know or you know if you notice that her husband is gone or if a single female is there or a female um and her husband isn't there for a while you can just walk up to her and say hey you know introduce yourself make compliment whatever it may be and just say hey i'd really like to talk to you and your husband whenever he gets back.

Yes. You know, and it can be just as simple as that. Yeah. Because she might say, oh, well, you know, my husband is okay with, you know, me, you know, engaging with other men when he's not here. Right. You know, or, you know, you would prefer that I'm there and I prefer that, you know, that I'm there.

You might say, oh, well be he'll be right back you know if you just give him like another minute or so he'll be right back yeah or like he had to run upstairs like yeah you know he should be back in a little bit like if you see us together you know in a little bit like feel free to come back up and talk to us yeah that's just the way that we prefer right um but you definitely need to be respectful about it like if you didn't see the husband and you walk up to him and and she says hey like my husband will be right back be like okay cool like i'll come back later don't don't continue to stand there and like wait for the husband to come back um because that could make somebody uncomfortable yeah um but obviously if the husband's okay with it then if that's the way you guys do things then sure like by all means go ahead and talk but just make sure that that's a clear that's clear before you just continue the conversation yeah because that goes I feel like that would go a long way as far as like respectful goes like because if a guy approached you when I wasn't there say I happen to you know walk out the bathroom or hotel takeover, I go up to the room or something like that, and you come back and be like, hey, this guy introduced himself, but he was waiting for you to come back so he can talk to both of us.

I'd be like, where the fuck is he at? Because nobody's ever fucking done that before. Right. The respect level would go way the fuck up with that. Yeah.

That's the way we like it like that's the way we like it that's the way we prefer it um i feel like that's a lot of boundaries for a lot of couples in the lifestyle as if you know you talk to a couple versus just one or the other well i feel like a lot of hot wife couples and a lot of people are going to get this confused because there's so many people that think when you say the term hot wife, they think cuckold and it's, it's not, it's, that's like a very small portion of it that are into it. Most of them are just a stag vixen to where the guy isn't into any type of degrading.

He just wants to see his wife have a good time right so and those guys want to be respected just as much as the woman wants to be respected right and just to clarify that is how we are yeah um he just really likes to watch meet with other guys but that doesn't mean and there's nothing wrong if that's what you like to do and that's works for you that's awesome. But people obviously all over the internet assume when I post something online because I'm hot wife that you're a cuck. It doesn't fucking bother me. It doesn't. No. The comments are great. But just to clarify that.

But yeah, I do feel like that would be a huge, huge thing for respect. And they just like upped their chances of a shitload of fucking brownie points. Yeah. The possibility of doing something. Um, I'd probably be speechless cause I like, it's, it's something that we've never ran into before.

Um, so I feel like that's super important, but yeah, compliments, um um make sure the couple or the wife is okay with it if the husband's not there um those are big things um if they continue the conversation obviously stay and hang out if you read the room read the room if like the couple kind of seems like they're not really like still interested or kind of standoffish a little bit is kind of ending yeah like that's kind of like your cue to like okay like hope to see you guys again later in the night or something like that um read the room and don't just like hang out don't get like pushy or something like that yes yes because as soon as somebody becomes pushy that is like a huge turn off huge turn off um let's see what else i mean i feel like we could go on for a while about different things to you know like go get go get tested.

If it's the first time you've been somewhere, even if, you know, you could be a single guy and you haven't done anything in months, just go get tested. Yeah, that would that would be extra, you know, brownie points if we were to meet somebody at a hotel takeover party, wherever we may be.

And, you know, we start talking to this guy and whatnot, and we could see play being in the future of that night yeah you know if he says you know hey i was just recently tested you know i have no problem with showing you my results i'd be like absolute fucking literally like that'd be a you know a bunch of fucking brownie points yeah that would be a lot extra that that's just and that just shows that like you went the extra mile you took the extra incentive to do that um and because so many so many guys i hear it all the time like okay when you go to most clubs single guys are always more expensive they do that because the demand in the lifestyle for or not the demand for in the lifestyle for single guys, but there's so many single guys that look to get into the lifestyle as a way to sleep with other people as an easy way to get laid so they have to up the price so that way then it kind of weeds the sleazy guys out yeah so don't complain oh well it's a hundred dollars it's two hundred dollars i'm not even getting laid you may not you may not it's just there's a lot of people that go to there's a lot of couples that go and they don't get laid yeah but you know they're not fucking complaining about it right but still you know it kind of shows like okay this guy is invested into this you know he spent a little bit of money on clothes he took care of himself you know he went got tested he's paid the price to get in you know he's he's kind of paid his dues almost yeah and it kind of it stands out more it does it like instead of you know ups your guy that's just gonna pay 100 200 that looked like he just you know left work and it's like oh i want to get late tonight like like i'm gonna go to this this club real quick and get some yeah good luck yeah okay so obviously you want to like be respectful um and yes testing goes a long way that really can up your chances for that for for any opportunity especially for those um couples that are in the lifestyle that also do content creation because you have to be so much more.

We feel like you have to be so much more careful with who you play with and making sure they are tested because doing it for fun and for work that can very much mess up your work later um if you aren't careful with your fun like i've told you many times before you go to a lifestyle event the people that are there for fun that have you know regular nine to five jobs they go there they catch something monday morning they can still get up and go to work in the next two weeks right somebody that does content creation for for a living they're out you they're out of work for two weeks yeah you know it at least yeah depending upon what it is obviously um so yeah that's that's definitely a big thing for sure um okay so kind of touched on like how to dress um hygiene what to do once you get to the club um and also like you're obviously everybody's out there dancing everybody's having a good time depends on if you're at a hotel takeover or like a club whatever it is when there's a playroom and you just go in there don't go in there and just like stare but also don't just like be like it's not just like this big massive circle jerk that's like there's just like a big wall of guys standing around right waiting to jump in like right like don't go in there and be super creepy like you can obviously go in there and watch in a respectful way don't like sit right next to somebody and be like jerking your meat while they're like that that just like that just makes things really uncomfortable but like that has also happened to some friends of ours when we were on a cruise um like the guy was just sitting there like going to town yeah very awkwardly as he was watching our friends and that made both of them super uncomfortable so much to where the husband walked up and was like dude you need to like you need to go somewhere else like this is making my wife super uncomfortable and it was making him uncomfortable too yeah i mean because it can be if you're just like awkwardly sitting there staring just like yeah going to fucking town like yeah it's so just be respectful be respectful as far as you're not staring i guess you could say and not being not being super creepy.

Okay, so we're going to not sort of backtrack, but kind of talk about single guys messaging online, whether it be through a lifestyle app like SLS or 3Fun or any of those platforms or on twitter or whatever platform you may reach out to somebody whether it be for lifestyle fun or for content creation yes this applies to both of them um like we said before be respectful introduce yourself in the message you know don't just say like one line like oh like i want to fuck you oh like let's link up and fuck or you know like let's let's make some content together like don't don't start the conversation out with that you know introduce yourself tell tell them you know who you are put your links on there like if you have put, put your link on there.

Or if you have a Twitter, obviously if you're on Twitter, somebody's going to be able to just go to your profile that way. Um, finds this, this is more so about the content creation than lifestyle wise, but you know, push, put some links to stuff to, so people can see what kind of work you do, you know, kind of let the person know like what you're exactly you're looking for. Maybe hopefully, you know, our content kind of aligns with somebody, but also go to their page and see what they kind of do. If you're doing something that they're not doing, most likely it's probably not going to happen.

Right're gonna say oh well you know like for instance if somebody that does nothing but anal reaches out to you like that's not gonna happen like no like that's not something i do um not something i never do but not something i do with other people right um that's something that we share between the two of us um but yeah like just like say hey how are you doing i'm so and so even you could be like i'm new to content content creation or like this is how long i've been doing it um we ask for references from other people. So you if you can see like, who who follows each other and stuff like that.

You know, if you see somebody that you've worked with, and they worked with them, just be like, Hey, you know, I worked with this person, I see you work with them.

You know, if if you know that they're gonna if they had a good time with you, obviously, you know, you can say, Hey, you know, I've worked with this person, feel free to reach out to them to, you know if if you know that they're gonna if they had a good time with you obviously you know you can say hey you know i've worked with this person feel free to reach out to them to you know just double check to make sure that i am a good person to work with yeah and that's something that we do on a regular basis if somebody reaches out reaches out to us to work um especially as a single guy we go to their twitter and see okay who have they worked with somebody can have a big following and make a bunch of content with a bunch of people but if these women aren't having good times with them it doesn't fucking mean shit that just means that they're just figuring out a way to work with all these different women right one time and the next thing you know thing you know, because we had that happen in the past.

We did. We didn't ask for any references. And the next thing you know, he was a fucking douchebag. And after the fact, I had to cancel with somebody else. And they're like, oh, my gosh, I wish he would have asked me. I would have said. How shitty he was. Yeah. Yeah.

But on a positive note, note this is a side note he has was outed um for some shady things he was done and he is no longer anywhere to be found on i don't think so social media and our yeah um but anyways so yes we just if you see that we worked with somebody together like just just say, hey, I've worked with so-and-so, you know, feel free to reach out to them or anything like that. And if you send a message and somebody doesn't respond or say somebody, you know, opens it and doesn't respond, just let it be for a little while. Yes.

You know know unless you're going to exactly the same location you know because some people won't travel to you to do just one shoot because you know you gotta get tested you gotta travel you gotta play stay it's just too much yeah there's a lot of money involved just for one one video or two videos maybe depending on what it is but you know if if you guys are going to be in the same area maybe reach out again later on but after the Thank you.

maybe depending on what it is but you know if if you guys are going to be in the same area maybe reach out again later on but after the second message if they don't respond or they say hey like i'm really sorry but i don't feel like our you know content's gonna align i don't feel like it's going to be mutually benefit beneficial for both of us end it right there don't send a third message asking again or you know if you don't get a response don't send a third message just take the hint move on not everybody wants to work with everybody you know we're all doing this by ourselves we're all our own business owners we don't work for other people you know unless you're working with an agency and then obviously that's completely different because that's all pro stuff and paid shoots that works completely different but if you're just doing content trade and posting it on your own some people just you're not going to want to work with that person and that person might not want to work with you or, you know, somebody else might not want to work with you.

Yeah. So don't, don't take it as, oh, this is an easy way. Everybody fucks everybody as soon as they do content. That's just not how it works. Yeah. And like, speaking of that, I feel like there are a lot of single guys that are specifically getting into content creation because they feel like it's a free card to fuck everybody. And it's not. We have worked with a lot of, I feel like we've worked with a decent amount of single men and done things in the lifestyle with single men.

And you can 100% tell the difference between somebody, a single guy who's in the lifestyle and does content creation versus a single guy that just does content creation. Yeah. The level of respect and...

There's so many things that go hand in hand yeah um so that's and that's a big thing for us as far as working with other people too um but yes as far as messaging people or mess single guys messaging um and don't don't just like going like if you if you're trying to start this out you know i understand there's a lot of people that don't want to show their face but show your body and don't i don't mean by showing your body just taking dick pics and posting it all over twitter post you know neck down if you have tattoos i don't know where they make fucking sleeves i see so many people that wear sleeves you know that cover up their tattoos and stuff like that it's easily done like you don't have an excuse you can't be like oh well i have a tattoo here you know i can't show my body and it's like no you can you just don't want to take the extra steps to do it yeah you know put a profile picture put you background picture, put like a little bio, put something on there and upload pictures to your own page.

Stop going on Twitter and just posting dick pics underneath everybody else's post and thinking that's the way that you're going to attract people. And then people go to your Twitter and you're like, where's all their content?

And it's like, oh, all they've done is just replied to all these other people with dick pics yeah like put your stuff out there yeah and like if you're just gonna like single guys who sit there and just either send um dick pics and the messages on twitter guys do it on facebook all the time just anywhere that like, do not start a conversation out with that is a very good way to start and to end a conversation super fast because it will, you will start it and you will also end it because that is the end of the conversation.

Um, or say sending a message that says I'm five foot or let me me let me go a little bit better i'm i'm six foot four nine and a half inches nine and a half inches and 220 pounds okay cool like that that doesn't matter like yeah i mean start the conversation out with hey i saw your content you're really pretty or like hey like you have to do it with a compliment start with a compliment like that's the best thing you can do you have to you have to put in the effort and i feel like there's so many guys out there that aren't willing to put in the effort they're just fucking lazy and just want to get laid and yeah i understand at the end of the day everybody wants to get late it's it feels fucking good like but put in the work to make it happen and it will happen yes don't just take the easy way out if you want to take the easy route just use your fucking hand like or go online and buy one of my pocket pussies do that too you get the same fucking result it does um but yeah i do feel like that you like there's a correlation between people in the lifestyle and people in yeah content creation for sure um or if you're a single guy and you know you're you're like die hard like i want to get into this this is this is what i want to do you know reach out to other single guys or other content creators that are single guys and ask them be like hey you have any advice you know what can i do you know i feel like single guys that are really good in lifestyle and content creation or either or doesn't doesn't matter can be one or the other or both would be really good to almost kind of take somebody else and like almost like mentor them take them under their wing yeah and like show them like how you can like dude like don't fucking do that like it's almost like they need another guy to be like bro don't fucking do that shit yeah like do it this way this is this is the way that i am so successful with this do it these fucking ways and you can be in you know in my shoes or you know do these things that i'd go and do yeah don't be afraid to ask for advice yeah from like from any like definitely from single guys like don't be afraid to ask us for advice like um respect is the biggest thing not only for the woman but the man you have to have respect for like you're not gonna be able to like if somebody's not respectful to you but they're respectful to me it's your like it's your say so at the end of the day like yeah you were disrespectful to me you're not getting my wife like you're not gonna borrow right um so i think that's the biggest thing like single guys get a bad rep in the lifestyle because they can be creepy and they can be disrespectful um and so just learn learn your place in the lifestyle yeah that.

That probably sounds bad. Like learn your place in lifestyle, but like you just have to, but still, we, we still had some bad experiences with, you know, couples and it's not just, we did. It's not just single guys for sure. It's not just single guys. It's not just couples. It's not just single women. There's, there's a bad apple in all of them. But at the end of the day, you just be respectful, make yourself look nice, take care of yourself, make yourself smell good and don't be creepy. Yeah. I feel like that pretty much sums it up. Doesn't it? Okay.

So I think we pretty much wrapped up the, the single guy, um, etiquette, however you want to say that. So we are going to answer another question that somebody asked either on, it was either a question on Instagram or TikTok.

I'm not really sure which it says, do you still seek out couples or singles, or do you stick to the couples in your group um i don't feel like not that i don't feel like we have a group but i really feel like we strive hard to not be in a group yeah like we really try to be ourselves um so i do feel like we like seek out other couples or um other single people i don't feel like we we do but we're not like aggressively seeking out like it's like you know like we're all the time like active on these websites and all these you know swinger apps like actively always trying to look out you know for people we more so like meeting people at events we do we like to meet people at events we're not big on meeting people offline um just because yes we have kind of been catfished in the past well it kind of skips a lot of the steps of okay let me see if these people are interested in me you know we're interested in them let's try to get a group chat going okay well let's you know see what the vibe is in the group chat okay well you know these people really don't talk that well so then you know or they don't really talk as much as we do are they interested in us but then you might you know then it kind of kills the vibe of like oh well maybe they're not really interested that much or you know and it could be as simple as that they don't just really just don't talk as much in a group chat they don't have time for it yeah which is totally understandable yeah i mean everybody's busy like it's just kind of be a turnoff for you as like okay well maybe i really don't want to like go out to dinner with them or something like that because they don't really talk that much right now.

Like, why are they going to go talk to me? Like when we're in person or something like that, but they might talk a whole lot more in person. Yeah.

So if you just meet them in person at these events and clubs and stuff like that, you kind of skip all those steps of, well, you know, it it it kind of step skips a whole bunch of steps of almost kind of like work of like having to see if these people are interested or something like you know what I mean yeah um but I also feel like it's just like we like to meet people organically like we like to just meet them and then I feel like like one of the um group chats we had like we all talked a bunch in the group chat but then when we went to meet each other like me and the other woman talked and like that was it yeah because like in group chats you talk more yeah i talk more online versus you know in person and i talk a lot more in you know, in person.

And I talk a lot more in person than I do online. And I feel like that could really, like, depending on like, if it's a couple, and like, the husband, the wife, and you talk a lot, whereas I don't say as much before we've even met, like, that's a big turnoff. That makes it seem like I'm not interested.

right um but yes we we don't just stick to one group of people do we have people that we like to have fun with yeah that we gravitate towards yeah we gravitate towards because like you know we haven't seen that like we're really good friends with them but haven't seen seen them in a while yes we do but um i do feel like we look not necessarily look for new people but like we're always open to meeting new people situation arise yes if the situation arises um then yes absolutely i don't i don't want to ever um feel like somebody can't come up and talk to me yeah um so yes we are 100 open to meeting new people talking to new people we ain't nobody fucking special just because new people yeah yeah we put our pants on the same way yeah as anybody else we especially we just we're just doing this and we're putting it out there yeah you know we're not up on a pedestal no higher than anybody else no we're still normal people we go grocery shopping we go to the gym like so if you see us like don't be afraid to come up and say something yeah you know don't don't be weird in a way about it but don't be afraid to come up and see us luckily we don't have kids so it's not like you have to like oh like i saw you but you could do it with us you know you can say something you know don't don't like if you see us in like walmart and then like follow us out to our fucking car and then like wait till we're like oh hey like i've seen you online like you know don't yeah don't don't be creepy don't be like stalking me creepy yeah don't be creepy again um yeah like we love to meet new people um whether it's just to meet and be friends with them or meet and be friends with them and the potential to fuck later yeah um we're open to all of those things um but i think that's i think that's a long answer for that question that was it was yeah sometimes we just have really long answers to things we just ramble on yeah we do i'm sure some people probably listen to our podcast and they're like where the fuck are they going with this are they ever gonna like get to what they're saying yeah since we say you know and like a lot um yeah oh i say i'm a lot too yeah all right so we're like if you look at like a map like destination like we don't go from point a to point b we're like point a to point z but we're going through all the different alphabets scrambling all around to get there um so single guys please listen to this podcast yes um, if you have questions, comment on it.

Please let us know. And this is just our take on it. It is. It's just our take on it. This is not like a 100% like one-on-one single guys rule bit to the lifestyle. This is just our experiences and what we have found works for us. Yes.

And I'm sure that there's a lot of other couples that play and you know look for you know single guys in the way that we look for them there's some that don't and that's totally fine do what works for you we're just you know talking about our experiences yes and you know maybe we can help out a handful of people and that's great you know we're not out here like i'm not gonna write a rule book and you know publish some fucking book about it like we're just at the end of the day single men couples single women the lifestyle was 100 about being respectful having a good time so be respectful look your best smell good and we'll have a good time yep so yeah thank you guys for listening that wraps it up it does yep and we are by the way with nt hotway and dirty max thanks guys