Episode 7 LSC Christmas hotel takeover 2025

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welcome back here we are yep by the way with nc hotway and dirty max yes so we're gonna kind of like fast forward a couple years i guess yeah we've been kind of trying to catch up for the past you know well not the past three years but like our timeline of the past three years and when we were in the lifestyle heart we aren't still in the lifestyle um but now we're kind of kind of jumping forward to kind of go like more current time frame yes and we'll kind of jump back after yeah we're gonna jump back after but while this one's super fresh in our minds um we want to go ahead and talk about this one so we went to the lifestyle connections party in charlotte north carolina Their christmas party their christmas party this past weekend it's always they said it's always their biggest one yes which is true i mean they sold out within like i think it was like a day or something like that with other rooms or something yeah their room sold out super quick um we were like sitting there waiting for like the time you could yeah it's like they went on sale at like seven o'clock and it was like right at seven i was on there trying to because i wanted a party floor room and i wanted a king like bed yeah just because i know like everyone's like oh you got to get two double beds or two queen beds so you can have a play bed and you can have a regular bed and i'm like no if we want to play with somebody we'll just we'll play in their room we'll make a mess we'll come back to our room clean no not that we make a mess anyways um so and i like being on the party floor just because it's like super like easy like you don't have to like keep going all the way up and down like and if you're on the party floor like when you're doing the room crawl you can literally you're already on the same yeah same.

Yeah. You don't have to go anywhere to go to all, like, the shot rooms and stuff. So, let's start out. We were supposed to be there earlier. Yeah. Shocker. Never on time. We were late. We had planned to make some super hot content. Yeah. We were late. Well, we were late.

well we were late we were running like an hour behind but then when we got there like i said we we paid for a party room floor and there was a big like confusion with the hotel and then with lsc because they had a bunch of people that were missed like messed up rooms and they put us on the third floor which is not the party floor the second floor second floor is the party floor would be the party floor and so we got there we went up there and we're like shit like this isn't it so we went back downstairs the people at the hotel are like oh well i only have a list like you need to talk to the host so we went to talk to those and they were super helpful and they got switched so then that ate up probably a good i don't know 30 45 minutes yeah or so and it definitely wasn't lse's fault it was definitely the like the hotel was super confused it definitely wasn't their fault by any means um and they were very very helpful um with getting a switch yeah yeah there was somebody they were great that was setting up one of the or the dance floor or whatever you want to call it yes and he picked up his phone and called the guy that runs everything for lsc and told us you know told them their names and everything and within like five or ten minutes he called him back and was like hey you know go to the front desk this is the room that you need to tell them what you need to be and everything was perfect after that yes so of course like then we get to a room and we're like all right now we got to get ready like we gotta you know we want to rinse off like we want i have to of course do something to my hair and my face and um but um we made a few a few reels tick tock or, we made a few, but this was really the first time we actually really got to hang out with this particular couple.

Yeah. We had met them once before. Yeah, we met them at Friction earlier this year. Yeah, we met them at Friction, and so it was actually like, even though we didn't actually get to make content with them, it was super super fun for us just to be able to hang out and more get kind of like acquainted with each other. Kind of break the ice a little bit. Yeah. Which was really cool. So we ended up like hanging out with them. Because we're definitely not the type that's like, hey, how are you? I'm so-and-so. Let's get naked. Let's get into bed. Yeah.

We're not like fuck on the first date kind of people.

So we got to hang out with them got to share some stories experiences um just got to get to know them better so and they were somewhat they're from the same state and kind of area of the state a little bit yeah so that we used to be so we actually had some people that like we had played with that they had played with and like kind of almost like lines had like crossed almost like or like intermingled almost yeah people that we played with together yeah so it was just cool to be able to talk to them and um be like oh gosh you know this person like yeah and so we had a lot of these people oh yeah we fuck those people too um so it was kind of cool just to have like the mutual friends that we found out we had and just to be able to talk and connect with them more um so of course like i'm like okay well we should probably at least make a couple reels yeah we should at least make a couple so we make a couple and then we're like oh shit like it's time for the the room call the room crawl yeah um so then we're like all right we're gonna go change like let's go get ready and then um we're like we'll meet here so we got up there of course we were a lot closer to yeah they were on the first floor so they had to go down and then meet back up but then they had a bunch of other people that they knew they must have been staying on the on the first floor too because they brought them up as well yeah everybody came up at the same time um but when we were standing up there waiting for them we had a bunch of people um come up and talk to us just they're like oh my god like i've seen you on tiktok yeah it's a tiktok girl it's a tick tock girl or what you got a bunch the only thing you're the only fans girl yeah i got i'm the only fans girl a lot um i got a lot of people are like do i do i know you and i'm like i feel like i know you i i don't know do you um but it was really nice to to meet all of those people yeah um and i like we love when people come up and talk to us yeah um because a lot of times we'll have people afterwards and they're like oh my god i saw you but i didn't come talk to you and we're like why like we're not gonna bite you like we ain't fucking special right my shit still stinks just like everybody else yeah we put our pants on the same way that you guys do like we're not we don't consider putting the stuff out there like yeah like we don't consider ourselves to be on any different level than anybody else that's there yeah um but it was really cool to be everybody um and just to be able to talk to them like learn where they're from and like how they found us and stuff like that um so we talked to a bunch of different people while we were waiting for them to come up um and then of course when they came up they brought all their friends and then all of the other people that we knew were there yeah like came up behind them so we were like all crowded in this in this like hallway it got like real tight yeah we're like i'm like oh gosh there's not enough room in here um so of course we all standing in line giving out hugs and saying hey to everybody um and then we started walking to we started doing all the room curls yeah so we started walking through which it almost seemed like there were more than the last time we had gone to the lsc yeah i definitely felt like there was a lot unless we didn't like the first time we went they just didn't like or we didn't go to all of them or something we might not have knowing us we were probably running late so we may have not probably seen all of the things um and but we started walking through all the rooms and obviously it's a christmas party so they're all christmas themed there was some really cool rooms um i think there was a couple like grinch rooms um and the they all have shots that they like serve to you yeah um there was some really freaking good shots yeah i had to like be careful because them shots i mean most of them have like two flavors so if you go to play you know two shots in the next like two hours you're pretty fucked up like yeah like i'm done like i can't i'm done for the night so it's like you gotta kind of like gotta pace yourself a little bit and then of course we like forgot about eating dinner which yeah we were running late so we're like you know we don't have time to eat dinner yeah so we had a little bit of skinny pop yeah just didn't go very far um but no i'm trying to think there was one that was like chocolate pudding and kalua yeah is that how you say it clue it that oh that was so good.

I could have gotten really, really fucked up off of that real quick. I'm trying to think if there's any other ones that like really stood out. There was like a peppermint vodka one and something else that was really good. There's one that was like a cinnamon toast crunch. Yeah. I didn't try it, but I could smell it.

It was like fireball mixed with i have no idea i don't know what it was it was delicious but it was definitely fireball you could definitely smell that it was fireball everybody said it was like oh this is fireball it's fireball yeah um but it was it was amazing and i'm trying to remember there was one room we walked in that had shots and they had the names above it and one was i can't remember what they said it was like was one of them like santa's cum or something like that yeah it was something along the lines of some like cum of some sort they were sexual obviously yeah and then one was like something booty hole or something like that um and the cum one tasted better let's like let's be honest yeah but i mean it was just obviously alcohol um and then i'm trying to remember we walked into another room and they legit had a santa not obviously it was a oh yeah it's like a dancing santa yeah and if you're if you follow because the video is on your twitter so if you follow her on twitter you can see the video yeah like the girls doing the like they took a dancing santa that's like going like this like a big ass like dancing santa like he was probably like full size yeah like full size and he was sitting on the or he was standing on the bed I guess I should say he was kneeling on the bed and then they had a fuck machine between his legs with a big dildo and had the dildo like thrusting back and forth it's great it was great that was awesome um but then also in their room they the way that they had their um shots set up yeah to dispense them i guess is the best way to say that like dispensers with like hoses and instead of just like just the end of the hose and that's it they had taken a double ended dildo cut it in half drilled a hole all the way through so that way then the hose could go out the end of it so that way then when you dispensed it it looked like it was coming out the end of the dick yeah that that was pretty that was pretty freaking cool um we're like oh my god how did you do this and they're like we just did it ourselves and i was like that is very creative that that was a really cool room some of the shit that like people come up with to like decorate their rooms is pretty cool and like even the ones that like move furniture and shit like that it's pretty cool yeah and then there was one room that i remember they said they had like really pretty like what would you call them they weren't posters because they were almost like canvas almost like it was like a big sheet almost yeah and they had their whole room and they like designed in themselves they were freaking huge they covered the whole wall.

Yeah. So that was really cool. They were really pretty designs. And then that's the room that also had the pineapple juice and the rum, which is my go-to. So, of course, by then, we've had a few shots. Yeah. Maybe a few too many. And then we went and started... Of course, we went back to the room. Got another drink. I'm pretty sure we lost our clothes then. I'm pretty sure that's when we decided to wear like, all right, let's... I didn't lose my clothes then. You lost some of your clothes. Did you go downstairs in the lingerie the first time? No, I went downstairs in my dress. Oh.

You of your clothes. Did you go downstairs in the lingerie the first time? No, I went downstairs in my dress. You lost your clothes. Part of them. I think I lost my shirt. Yeah, you had a shirt and jeans on. And then you lost your shirt. And had your jeans and your red suspenders on. Yes. And I kept my dress on.

But we are, I don know if you say like we're known for this but we also are really big nike fans yeah so i don't ever wear heels because i'm trying to be comfortable yeah and i'm also five nine i don't really feel like i need to be any taller and when my feet start to hurt i start to bitch so we just avoid that completely well then you don't have to wear like open toe shoes and it's like you're on a dance floor like somebody step on your shoes yeah or step on your toes or something like that or like you know your comfort but you also look good yeah i mean like i'm sorry but like sandals like you wearing sandals and then you wearing like a pair of like nikes like i'm going with the nikes like those look way hotter than me i'm sorry when i like to wear high tap nikes when i have shorts or like dresses on um i just like the way they look um but we did have multiple people make comments about like our shoes and stuff like that i do feel like that was um some of people's like conversation starter starters towards us um yeah especially like about our shoes yeah there was i i know there was at least one there's two there's one upstairs and one downstairs yeah yeah um that was like how they started their conversation with us was about our shoes um which that's totally cool with me because we can sit here and talk about shoes yeah i mean like we just had to put more shelves in our closet because we keep buying more shoes because we have a problem um so that was cool that like the way that people introduced themselves i do feel like um the single guys at this party were very respectful yeah i don't think that like any lsc party that we've ever been to they do a very good job with their vetting yes because we've never had an issue with a single guy at lsc like you see him walking around but none of them are none of them are creepy none of them are like overly like i don't say aggressive because it's not really like aggressive but like they're not like they're not like coming on to you very strongly right they do it in a very like respectful and like mature way so i'm not sure on their exact like vetting process that they do but they do a very very good job yeah um and we did talk about that will is something we're going to talk about on a future episode as well yeah almost like a how to be a single guy 101 yes essentially yeah um but that was great i i feel like there's other places where we've had issues with single guys but that like they do an amazing job with their entire process of um vetting them um so yeah we went out and danced for a while um of course the dance floor is hot it always is but it's a conference room that they turn into a dance floor yeah so it's not you know whatever how many days out of the year that it's used for a conference room there's not 60 70 people all crowded in there so oh i would say there was definitely more than that there was a lot of people in there so it's hard to you know get the ac system probably isn't designed to keep up with it being advanced but it is nice because there's always like a door that either you can like go out like i think this time the door was like the door was open I think they almost need to set up like a fan um and like the doorway somehow to pull air out of it and then like have like another door open somewhere else so then there's like a cross breeze going across yeah so it gets a little bit more like airflow in there but I mean that's to be expected yeah I mean um you got a smaller room bunch of people breathing and yeah dancing and then you got all the music equipment that's going to put off a bunch of heat too yeah so it's it's kind of fighting the losing battle yeah you know there's only so much that you can really do but it was beautiful they had everything all decorated really nice like the dj was great um i think we danced for a while yeah and then um we had to go back to the room to get another drink yeah um of course and then we just like we were like telling our friends we're like we'll be right back like we're just gonna go grab a drink and we'll be back but then we like we kept running into more people um that knew us and wanted to talk to us which was cool like we we enjoyed that we enjoyed that.

So it's really, yeah, I enjoy it. Cause it's like, you know, these people have to Monday through Friday of that week, they have to be, you know, mom and dad, or they have to be this certain person at their job. And then on Saturday, then they have to like, you know, okay, well, this is my true self. But then on Sunday, they have to like switch it back off and go back, which kind of sucks that they have to like pretty much live this double life they can't be.

So I can see, whereas like somebody might kind of look up to us like, oh, like, you know, I wish I could be like that open or I wish I could do this or, you know, and it like, I hate it for them because you can't live your life the way that you want to live it yeah you have to kind of portray an image of somebody else or how society wants you to look essentially yeah um but it was nice to see but to talk to everybody so probably like 30 minutes to an hour later um i think that's when i changed so then i changed into like my lingerie and i lost my pants he lost his pants i didn't lose them i just took them off yeah he just took them off he didn't lose them i hope you didn't lose them no um of course kept the same shoes on some boxers yeah yeah i like i had like um my nikes some like high like christmas socks and then like i don't even think they were like christmas boxers i think they were just like red and black they were just red and black and then red suspenders yeah i'm trying to remember i don't even know if you had a hat on no you didn't because you got compliments on your hair yeah um no i usually try not to wear a hat yeah as every as every single podcast we do you have a backwards hat on no like when we go to like events and stuff i try not to like during the day i might wear a hat but then at night like i'm like all right like i want to look at like i want to i'm going to be presentable i'm going to you know style my hair right and i do feel like that's something that's super important when you go like you want to like your best that was one thing that we did talk about like on the way back home was how many married couples i noticed like the woman is very well put together like she's you know got an outfit on that she loves she did her hair she did her makeup you know she's got her nails done and then the guys like got like a wrinkly t-shirt on and some jeans and boots and it's like dude you need to do better like you're hurting your wife because if you're there looking for couples what's the woman of the other couple you know they're gonna say oh yeah you know the woman is really put together but the guy kind of needs to like kind of almost essentially take care of himself a little bit better yeah like do better to make yourself look good so then your wife you know you and your wife looked better as a whole yeah you know you're you're gonna have more success that way and there wasn't there wasn't like a lot of people no there weren't a lot but it was it was something that kind of stood out to me and it's like yeah you know go get your hair cut like trim up your beard like if you want to have a long beard like by all means but like trim it up make it like make yourself look present just take small little steps as a man and you and your wife as a couple will look like like, way better.

Yeah, completely different. Because, I mean, yeah, everyone always says, like, it's about a vibe and everything like that. But still, it's still about looks. I mean, it's definitely about a vibe, but there has to be an attraction there. Like, can a vibe make a person look more or be more attractive? Yeah, absolutely. Yes. Where it just is the opposite as to where, like, you can be super hot but be a total dick and that's – you completely ruin that entire thing. Yeah. But, yeah, that's definitely one thing as well. Always – just make your – like, try to make yourself look the best. Yeah.

Like, especially if you're, like, going to look – like, you're on a hunt to find a couple like yeah it's it's almost like you're going out on like a first date yeah kind of thing like yeah make yourself look decent and it's not major things just take little steps like stuff like that like you'll you'll go farther and you'll have more success in lifestyle if as a guy you just take the little extra steps you know you'll feel you'll feel more confident in yourself you'll you know that confidence will kind of portray on to other people yeah and it's like like when i look at a couple like all the time i'm always like you know they're both attractive I'm not like oh well you know she's really attractive but he's really not yeah but like I'm like you know they're both you know they're an attractive couple like they fit together they they go well together you know they're he's taking the extra steps just like she's taking the extra steps yeah it has to be like a a mutual like thing yeah um okay so anyways our little tangent we got off on um so yeah we went back to the room put our lingerie on an hour later i think we got back down there danced some more well i remember when we walked out of the elevator i had on the suspenders and the boxers and i remember we were walking and i remember one woman stopped and she like kind of looked me up and down and went damn sorry oh yeah i forgot about that i'm sorry i was like where is he going i was like i was like holy shit.

That was like a confidence fucking booster right there. I totally forgot about that. I remember it now. Because everyone stops and it's like, oh man, damn, she's hot. She's hot. I don't ever really get the compliments that you get all the time.

So the one time I did get it I was like oh my god like what do I do you were good for the rest of the night right yeah I was good um so yeah we went back down there we danced some more um I'm trying to remember I think we walked up one more time to get a drink and then somebody like approached us and was like hey can I take a picture with you yeah um and I was like of course so we went back to her room took a picture and we ended up staying in there and talking and like chit chatting about all different things like doing this for work and then like having a like vanilla job like we got on this whole little tangent again um so then we got lost again for like another hour i think um and we did get to meet the people that run the lsc we did we did which was really cool it was very nice um to meet them and actually get to like put a face with like the people that run it um super sweet people very nice um and then we met a lot of other people too they're like um we met the people that do like all the the signs and stuff like the shine the signs for the room crawl like to tell you which like shot shot room sorry i'm trying to remember there was probably i think maybe like five or six couples that go through and like decorate everything yeah you You they they do it all just just because yeah you know that's that's what they enjoy doing you know it's it's a good good group and you know stuff like that like i i like going to parties like that you can tell that those people are there because they want to have fun like they genuinely want to be there they're not getting there they're not there because they're being paid to be there i'm gonna make money off of this right it's not an obligation it's something that they enjoy yeah um which is really like it's really nice for a change to go somewhere um but it was very cool to meet all of those people and like kind of hear about the behind the scenes of a hotel takeover.

Because I really don't think people understand how much freaking work it is to do that. Well, even just renting out the whole place. And then there's probably so many different things.

I would assume you'd have to go through the city and the county and all these different things to even be able to allow it to even be there and then try to get the hotel to allow you to be there and yeah like so i don't even want to know like the the hoops that they have to jump through to yeah i can't even can't even imagine um what they have to do um for that yeah so eventually i think we went back downstairs again or no yeah we did we we went back down we finally made it back downstairs finally yeah i think we danced for a little bit longer yeah and then they did like a raffle because for the toys for tots thing i guess when you donate a toy you got a raffle which i guess we donated our toys too early because we never got raffle tickets which is fine that's not that's not the reason why we do it yeah that's not the reason why we do it but they but like the raffle tickets they gave away like a tv they're like a 75 inch tv and like they had like a michael course first which was super cute and then they had like a it was like a snap on bag it's-on bag with a bunch of snap-on stuff in there.

Yeah, they had a bunch of cool stuff. I was like, dang, like, that's awesome. Yeah, I was like, oh, man, I guess we donated our, we put our toys out there too early, but it's okay. That's obviously not why, not why we do it. We, that's like one of our favorite things to do is to like.

Yeah, I mean, we don't have to the toys for todd's you know help out somebody else that actually needs it yeah um and then after that i guess it was like a bunch of people's like there was a decent amount of people's birthdays that were like in there yeah so they set up some chairs on the dance floor i think there was probably like like seven or seven or eight people like in those chairs for like, they said it was their birthday. And so they played like a song. And then anybody who wanted to could go up there and like dance on them. Which was really cool.

And there was one girl that like, she was super sweet. She like totally fangled me. She was like, I can't even talk to you. And I'm like, like, and she was like, Oh my God, can I give you a hug? And I was like, of course. And then I got all nervous when she was sitting up there at her birthday. I was like, man, I should go up there and dance. And he's like, Oh, and I'm like, I'm, I'm scared. So like, I got nervous to do that because I'm just, I don't feel like I'm a very good dancer.

So I didn didn't want to I don't know if I didn't want to embarrass myself or you probably could have just gone up there and just sat on her lap and she would have like been like night made yeah so I guess I should have done that but I was like I guess that was out of my comfort zone and I guess I didn't I wasn't comfortable enough stepping out of that comfort zone you need to work on that i do i do need to work on that i just don't feel like i know how to dance but i guess if somebody wants to laugh at me because i can't dance there's worse things in life they could do yeah um and then after that i was like we were it was it was nearing like midnight i I think.

Yeah. And we still hadn't ate. We were drinking a lot and not all the shots before that. Yeah. So it was starting to catch up to us and we're like, all right, we, we need to go up to the room. We need to actually order some real food. Yeah. The skinny pop is long gone by now. Um, so I'm like, what do you want?

Like, I mean, it's midnight what like there's not a shit ton of stuff open um so i started ordering food and i'm just laying there on the bed yeah and you like start eating me out and i'm like babe like wait just a second like i really need to get this food like i'm fucking starving and so he's eating me out and I'm literally sitting there on my phone like ordering food um and he's like just just order it just order whatever I'm gonna keep doing yeah what do you want and he's like just order me something I'm like oh god okay and I obviously was super distracted I'm not really good at doing those two things together because um but it was super hot yeah it was nice um it was super super hot um so he ate me out obviously like we fucked yeah and it was super hot and and what or are you looking at me like that nothing just rethinking about that night um he like we fucked we fucked i feel like we fucked for a while yeah i feel like the food took a really long fucking time it did fast food it did which was fine because you know it was nice we were a little busy anyways i'm sure we'll get some comments on here like oh you guys went to a swinger party and you guys didn't even swim with anybody else like okay that's not the point you don't go to swinger parties and like i have to swing with somebody else if you go in there with that mentality you might not have a good time you'll probably be disappointed and leave unhappy um and so set the boundary or set the expectations of I'm gonna go and I'm gonna have fun with my spouse if something else happens great fantastic but don't go in there with expectations because if something doesn't happen then you're going to be upset then you're you know on the way home like oh man like i wish i wish something would have happened like and it's like no you don't have to go there you can be a swinger and go to events and stuff like that and not always swing with people like there's, there's not minimum requirement it's not like okay like do you have where's your swinger punch card how many times have you fucked other people how many other people have you fucked today or like you know it's not like you go and you're like let me see how many people i can fuck tonight like that's not what it's like that's not what it's about that's cool yeah but yeah people need to normalize that there's so many different levels of swinging yeah and like we have obviously been to swinger parties before and we have fucked other people yeah um but like just this particular time it's and it wasn't even like there wasn't anybody we found attractive because there was a there was a lot of people we were attracted to there yeah because I mean I remember that one time I was like babe like they're you know they're pretty attractive yeah one couple that we met yeah there was there was a bunch of people um that we found attractive it's just sometimes we just want to go and have a good time and just fuck each other and eat food yeah because we have to always talk about our food on our podcast right yeah um so eventually we finally got our like after we fucked yeah i was like i really don't feel like putting clothes on so like i had my lingerie bottoms on which was obviously a thong and then put my sweatshirt on so i'm like walking outside the hotel yeah with a shirt and or a sweatshirt and this uber driver is like this like she might been 20 21 yeah and she's she didn't even get out of the car i was like is that like you know doordash and she's like yeah and she's probably thinking to herself what the is going on here like why is this parking lot in this random hotel completely packed and why does this woman only have a hoodie a thong shoes on and then the guy has boxers and a hoodie on i don't think i had a i think i had a shirt i think you put a shirt on yeah i put a t-shirt on yeah um she was probably like i'm traumatized i'm never like delivering anything to that hotel again um but we finally got our food and then once we ate i was like i'm done yeah like because like once you fuck and then you eat it's just it's over like i we wanted to go back out there and dance some more because like at a certain is it 11 or 12 12 the dance floor shut down and they came upstairs to the party floor and then they um have a dj on the party floor and then he i think when we were actually talking to him the next morning before he left yeah he's like i had to shut it down like there was still people up there and it's it's literally they just turn like as soon as you get off the elevator right there it's almost like a little lobby they turned that into like a little like dance floor almost yeah so unfortunately we never made it you never made it to to the the party floor party um because we had drank and then fucked and then ate and then after we eat it's like we're just done yeah the night caught up to us pretty quick it did yeah it did um but we had a great time yeah oh and then we ended up staying up until like that's right because then that couple came back to our room yeah and then we hung out with them some more yeah we stayed up till i think it's like 3 30 or something like that just talking in the room yeah which that's what happened last time last time we went to a party too yeah and me and her in there and then you and um her husband are like you're like falling asleep like we should probably we should probably go to bed um but we had a great time like it's really nice to like even if you like we said before don't swing with another couple or single guy or single um when you're at a party.

It's still nice to be in that environment and be able to just talk to lifestyle people. Like it's, you can just have a conversation about like, Hey, like I sucked this guy's dick like this time. And they're just like, Oh, like, that's awesome.

It's not like, ew, like you suck some other guys dick like that's it's it's just cool to talk to those people um about it yeah um but of course little to little tiny bit of sleep we got yeah got up i had to leave i had to leave yeah it was only a one-nighter it was yeah um which i like the one-nighters but then also it's like like we like them but like we wish there was like an extra night too yeah um it definitely kicks your butt for sure yeah um but very fun lsc party first one we'd been to in a couple years i know the one we talked about before um the hotel wasn't the greatest they did switch it to a new hotel yeah much better much cleaner the only thing is there's not a Mexican restaurant there's not there's not a Mexican restaurant that's the only downfall which is probably why we didn't eat dinner yeah but yes the hotel was much nicer I feel like it was an even, like, a better area as well.

Yeah, it was. But definitely we'll do another one. Yeah. I think the next one they know is generally Valentine's Day. Yeah, they probably do, like, a Valentine's Day. I know they do, like, a... Do a St. Patrick's Day one, or... I'm trying to think of the ones that we went to.

They do one in, like August I know yeah I don't know we'll have to do I'm pretty sure they do like a handful every year yeah yeah we'll have to keep you guys updated posted on when they're doing another one and obviously if we are yeah going to attend so if you're in the Charlotte area or if you want to travel to Charlotte um i'm pretty sure it's lifestyle connections.com i think maybe or.net i can't remember which one it is but if you google lifestyle connections it'll show up the website and it'll it'll show you and you gotta like do like a membership but i don't think i can't remember if i had to pay for a membership or not i don't think i think you did but did, but I don't think it's, it's not, if you do, it's not very expensive at all.

Yeah. It's not something that is, um, super expensive at all. Yeah. Okay. Well, that kind of wraps up our weekend. I know we're probably gonna, like I said before, we're probably gonna get shit. Cause you know, we weren't swingers at a swingers event. It's okay. Yeah. We're fake swingers. We are. Yeah. Whatever. We had fun with each other.

We don't do we don't yeah um we're gonna kind of jump into we've done it on previous episodes before as far as like kind of answering some questions that people have submitted to us various different places social media tiktok all the other different places so um this question that i have it's actually three questions wrapped in one to one so we'll start with the first one it says what are your favorite sex positions my favorite i feel like it changes but like right now doggy with you like you have to be like on your knees completely like your back has to be completely over almost like your face like into the ground or something and the floor and then like i'm i stay on my feet while i'm fucking you but like i put my feet almost in front of your like knees almost so like when I'm fucking I don't fuck like this into you I like so like I'm fucking down and I feel like that that I feel like that kind of hits a spot for you like it kind of does something for you and it doesn't last very long because like my legs like aren't built for that kind of fucking like i mean imagine like you're pretty much kind of like fucking downwards almost you definitely get yourself a good leg workout yeah but it looks really good it does it looks really cool especially in the mirror like that shit looks really hot yeah um okay well mine is doggy i wasn't gonna go that elaborate into all of that well there's so many different ways um but i just like doggy like it's my favorite um maybe because my butt's really big i don't know i just like it looks really cool especially in front of a mirror where we can back shots and face built for thanks babe thanks for saying have a pretty face um okay next question have you ever caught any stds from the lifestyle honestly yeah we have we have yeah we have um and honestly the only way that you can be a swinger and not catch an STD is to be a hundred percent full proof.

Don't fuck other people. Yeah. The moment that you fuck somebody, whether you use condoms or not, you can still get an oral STD. Correct. Yes.

Um, and that is also the next question that says do you use condoms if you can even get if you want to go into it further you can actually get not an oral std and use condoms say a woman gives you know me a blowjob and say a woman gives you know me a blowjob and heaven forbid I have something and then she turns around and goes and eat somebody else out still a way to transfer it people don't think about it they always they always say oh well you know I use condoms I'm good to go no you're not but that is the next question it says do you use condoms if you do oral on other people um and the answer to that is no no and i've never ran into somebody that yeah we have never in the lifestyle in content creation any of it seen anybody that who wants to put a condom in their mouth does like it's fucking tastes like rubber like that shit's gross even if you get where i'm sure it still tastes like a condom well and it's just like that's weird like in your mouth um but we don't we um we will in lifestyle settings if a couple prefers to use a condom, we will use a condom.

Yeah. Our preference is to not use condoms. We go get tested on a very regular basis. Just go get tested. We're adults doing adult activities.

Go to your doctor and have an adult conversation if you don't feel comfortable with having a conversation with that you know adult maybe maybe it's like a you know family doctor that you've seen for 20 years and they know your parents and relatives and shit like that go find a different doctor go online there's so many online places that you can go i mean you can go to we go to talent testing services you go there there's no question somebody's not going to say oh well what are you doing that you need you're a married person why are you getting std testing no there's no questions about it right and i understand that it is it is expensive but at the end of the day it's just the price that you have to pay to know that you and your spouse are good.

And then anybody that you play with, you're not going to pass something to them because you can have an STD and be symptom-free. Yes. It happens all the time.

Which is how we had it and didn't know it until we went to get tested because we were symptom free um which causes a lot of like issues because then you're like well shit like who did this come from and then you have to go back and backtrack and then if you have a lot of partners that's a lot of people you got to go through well then also then it goes down to how many partners do your partners have like so if you say you you know and i'm i go get tested december 1st okay well i'm going to go get tested every month and i'm going to go on january 1st say you've had sex with two or three different couples okay well how many people have those people had sex with yeah you know i mean it just it's no snowball effect and you have to backtrack that's why even in the industry they push for the seven week window or 14 week window because it narrows down seven day window seven day 14 day window or 14 day window two weeks yeah i had that mixed up that's why they do those small windows so way then you know these people that are filming you know every day or every other day it kind of narrows that greatly reduces the risk of spreading it to so many other people yeah as well um so long story short yes we have gotten something being in a lifestyle before.

This shit happens. Could we have maybe been more careful in one or two of those instances? Probably. Yeah. But you... It's a risk you take. It is.

It's a risk that you take, but you also have to be adult enough to have that conversation with a potential play partner have you been tested would you go get tested yeah um and honestly if you get defensive about an adult asking you to go get tested that's like a red flag for us or asking about like your test history yeah you know just just be honest that's all you got to do and if somebody a potential play partner and if they were like hey we just got tested you know last week we haven't done anything with anybody else i'm sorry but i don't really i don't want to say it's a turn on for me, but it's like, damn, like these people are taking the extra step and, you know, being cautious.

Yeah, like they're taking the ignition initiative to go out and make sure that they are good so that they don't give it to somebody else.

It's just a responsible thing to do um in the lifestyle and content creation not just content creation it has to be done in the lifestyle too yeah because it's you're doing the same thing you're just doing it without a tv or without a camera on right yeah um so we could spend all day talking about testing and um all of that you tend to go off on like 45 different tangents when we talk about that but yes we are it just it just boggles my mind that there's adults out there that aren't okay with having these adult conversations and yeah you know getting embarrassed about you know asking their doctor because i'm going to take a while i guess say that nine times out of ten if you have health insurance a basic std test it's probably covered under insurance it might be or a good portion of it yeah um but yes we need to like normalize having those conversations with other people um and making it so that it's not an uncomfortable conversation that it is a normal everyday not every day but it's a normal conversation you have in the lifestyle but also at the same time be responsible don't don't say okay well i got tested you know two weeks ago but then you met a random couple at a bar and took them home and fucked them and you know you didn't ask them ask them like when were you tested or something like that you know what i mean so don't don't lie about it and be like oh yeah like i'm good like i you know just to make yourself look better when you go to another couple.

Just be honest. Say, hey, you know, we were tested two weeks ago. We had swapped with another couple. We used condoms. The other people may, it's up to them. Say, okay, hey, we want to use condoms for this. Or they might say, hey, like, we would feel more comfortable if, you know, we waited.

We really want to do something with y'all but let's get texted and then you know let's not use condoms right just and don't get offensive defensive if that's somebody else's way that they want to do things right because it's just like anything else in the lifestyle like we don't particularly do things like with unicorns that's just not our cup of tea um whereas we prefer to do something with couples or like with bulls like we're not gonna judge you if you prefer to wait and use or we're not gonna judge you if you prefer to use condoms versus if you prefer to wait and go get tested um that's that's the way you like to do things so it's not for us to judge just like anything else in the lifestyle like that's why we like the lifestyle because it's very um a judgment-free zone so that was our that was our question questions for the day yeah um so we will do on the next, podcast that we do but thank you guys for listening to our episode today and i guess our next episode won't come out until after christmas will it be it might be after the new year yeah yeah it'll be so 26 yeah um merry christmas and happy new year from us at by the way with nc hot wife and dirty max thanks guys thank you