episode 11 Revisiting our first trip to Nashville

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famous words back again we are yep a little different environment this time though yeah well we had different environment last time too yeah we did yep so we're uh coming live to you from the virginia beach virginia area we'll say that yes the virginia beach area so So, first, we are, by the way, with NC HotWave and Dirty Max. Yes.

so first we are by the way with nc hot wave and dirty max yes and you know our dogs are our dogs are closer in the frame today uh so today we're gonna talk about we're gonna revisit our first time going to nashville yes and we went to a they were hosting a swinger society event I'll see you next time.

we're gonna revisit our first time going to nashville yes and we went to a they were hosting a swinger society event is it at the red room red room okay yes we always get the red room red door and the red door confused the red room yeah and it's in the nashville area it is um i can't say exactly where it's at because i think you have to buy tickets before you go or before they give out like specifics yeah they don't give it out until because it's just outside nashville it's not really in the heart of nashville it's kind of outside nashville a little bit right but anyways we went there um we rented a like an airbnb a couple other couples that we were close to at the time so we're gonna kind of it was a it was a long weekend it was like a wednesday to sunday yeah we decided to we had never into nashville before so we decided hey let's leave wednesday um we stayed in a hotel on wednesday night the airbnb we had just from thursday to sunday yep um so we left wednesday we it was a long-ass fucking drive it was like nine hours or something stupid it's a beautiful beautiful drive for the most part most time it's kind of boring though though.

Yeah. This was before, like, 40 had the, you know, whatever from the hurricane. Yeah, the big washout. So, this was before that. So, that part of the drive was absolutely beautiful. So, we got there Wednesday night. We just kind of, like, chilled in our hotel room. We worked a little bit. We did. We made some, like, TikToks and whatnot.

Yeah, we made some reels,iktoks there were background yeah um then we got up the next morning we were gonna go live we went live on because this was back in the era of okay you go live on tiktok do well and then like all right like we're promoting we never said like we're going live on only fans we're like oh we're going live on our spicy site spicy site whatever blue and white page however you got to say it to get people you know be like oh man she's fucking hot let me you know oh she's gonna go fuck after this let me see that um but yeah and then it the tiktok live got banned account got banned it was my like biggest tiktok ever it was a huge buzz kill um but we already had plans to go live on my spicy side after that and so we did a shower live that's right we did that day yep um and so we did the whole spicy live it was great we finished yep turned it off and we went to finish showering.

And there was no water. And, yeah. The whole hotel lost water. Yeah. Yep. So, like, literally just got done. And then, okay, so I guess it's time for us to go because there is no water.

So, and it wasn't like they told're just like oh oh yeah sorry you know this happened yeah so we leave our hotel and which we stayed right outside nashville so that way then the next morning we would literally get up and we drove like i don't know it's like an hour hour and a half maybe at the most yeah it wasn't super far yeah into like downtown nashville but you forgot the best part was that it snowed the night before or it snowed overnight so there was i don't know like and a dusting to an inch it wasn't anything yeah it wasn't anything dramatic but it was like dusting to an inch and like girl math not guy math yeah Um, so we got to, I don't think we went to we didn't go to the airbnb first no we went because it was so early so we didn't have to or we couldn't couldn't get in until later um so we went to nashville of course when you go to nashville what do you have to do you have to go buy like cowboy boots well it's the first time we've ever been to nashville so it was like all right like we're gonna do it we're gonna like go all out like yeah you know we're gonna do it we're gonna do it right new boots new pants new shirts yeah like new outfits for every day yes so we went all out for that and so we decided to go shopping yeah so we went to downtown n, went, and the boots are what?

Like, buy one, get two free, buy two, get three. I don't know. Or maybe it was, like, buy one, get three free. No, it's buy one, get one free, or buy two, get two. I can't remember how much it is. It's, like, it's.

It's a it's ridiculous like the like it's insane the way that it works but yeah i can't remember exactly what it is but it's the little boot store like right on broadway yeah so i think i got three pairs i didn't get any okay so it must have been buy one get two free um so yeah i got three pairs it was like buy one full price get like the second one for like extra like x amount of money and then like you got the third one for like even cheaper it was like the more you bought the the cheaper the cheaper they got or something yeah um So I tried to get you to buy a pair, but you couldn't find anything you wanted.

Yeah, yeah. And so I was like, okay, here's a sparkly black pair. Here's a sparkly white pair. And then I had to get a pair of, like, ankle boots, too. So we did that. And then, let's see.

We went to the Blake Shel shelton yep bar um oh my gosh what's it called old red old red we had some drinks there and then our was that when our friends came yeah we were waiting on one one other couple that was staying with us they were gonna meet us for lunch And we met at at the brandon lambert restaurant yes the um cantina or whatever it's called yes mexican food delicious the drinks were amazing we always have to talk about food because somebody made a comment that we always talk about food so it was great we fucking eat right yeah who doesn't eat like who doesn't eat and doesn't talk about how great their food was yeah so of course we had margaritas it was great um so we had lunch and then i'm trying to remember if we walked around i don't think so because i think by the time we were done eating it was time like we could go check into her like it would be like 30 minutes or something like that to our avnb so like there we didn't have a whole lot of time to walk around anyways because we wanted to get checked in and then there was another couple that was coming in but they were flying in yes so we were waiting on them but then we also had another friend of ours or another couple that was our friends um they were coming in and they stayed the night with us just thursday yes there's a lot of moving parts and it's very confusing because it's almost like three years old now so it is but you have to tell them about how we that was the first time we ever did an instacart order yeah um and had it delivered to our airbnb and i'm in nashville trying to get through traffic using my phone as gps and some fucking like off the wall 800 numbers trying to call me and i'm like no decline decline i'm like why does this fucking number keep calling me so i just keep declining and then all of a sudden i stop we get to airbnb and i think you picked it up i did and you're like it's instacart order they're canceling i'm like what the fuck are you canceling it for like i'm here like don't cancel it like we weren't at the doorstep rig we weren't there and when they dropped it off and i think there was alcohol in it probably um so they could drop it off and you had a fit and they're a big fit so we ended up getting our instacart order it was much later yeah um but we still got it yeah um so we got our instacart order got everything all settled in it was a three-story airbnb yeah it's like a townhouse it was like they had like two bedrooms on the bottom with a garage and then there was a bedroom with like living room and kitchen on the second floor and then the third floor there was two bedrooms and two baths and then there was on that same floor you walked right outside and there was like a little patio on the roof but then you walked up like a set of spiral staircase yes to like an even higher that was actually like a rooftop yeah with a hot tub yeah there was a hot tub it was a huge hot tub yeah like um because i think there was was there eight of us it was eight of us in the hot tub that night um um so that was it was a really nice airbnb yeah um so once everybody got all like settled in and everything we were supposed to grow to eat we had reservations i can't remember where we had reservations some fancy restaurant but it was someplace that was like you had to wear a collar shirt yeah it was like a go-to place in nashville like one of the places you have to go like we made a reservation like a week in made a reservation, like, a week in advance or something.

Well, I mean, we had six people, eight people. There's technically ten of us. Oh, yeah, there was. So, of course, you know, most places you have to anyways. No, there was eight. There was eight. Sorry. But look at us. We're talking about food again. Yep. So, we. One of the couples, they were tired from traveling all day.

So, they were let's just not not go out let's you know stay in and then you know we'll just doordash something we doordash like chick-fil-a or something yeah we end up having chick-fil-a um but i mean that's fine yeah we still had fun we still had a good time we they're like we hadn't seen these friends in a while so it was really nice to see them um i'm trying to remember exactly what we did that night i know obviously we ate our chick-fil-a we got all called up i know we went up to the rooftop to the hot tub we did we did we all hung out in the hot tub for a while and that's like a perfect way to like kind of break the ice as like swingers is like get in the hot tub and you know have a few drinks like it it just starts from there something's gonna start yeah meanwhile this is also january yeah in nashville it was once you're in the hot tub it's fine it's the getting out part yeah the getting out and walking down the spiral stairs was awful it was so cold it wasn't even funny But of course, you you've got a hot tub you have drinks you go back inside and i think we took one of the mattresses from like a bunk bed from downstairs yeah and like moved the family room furniture out of the way and put like a big it was either one mattress or maybe two mattresses and made like a big play play area yeah um and three out of the four couples that were there we were all full swap one couple was only soft swap which was totally fine i mean that's yeah that's not it was still fucking hot like when it came time like if people were like fucking they were just fucking each other yeah And like, and if you're walking into like something like that you it would never say like you walk into like a swear club and there's like a big group you know playroom and there's a handful of couples there you would never know that one of those couples would be could be married it could just you know as like an outsider that just walks in yeah you it's not like oh my god like they are definitely you know husband and wife how awkward they're only soft swap no like you would never know that like they're just never know that and it's not a couple fucking at the end of the day i mean who cares yeah like if that's all if that's what they want to do and that's what they're comfortable with that's totally fine yeah it takes away it takes nothing away from like how hot the situation is yeah and i honestly think it's like not hotter but it's also it's hot in a different sense because you get more creative with things to try it's almost like you're like kind of like when you're fucking your own spouse in a group setting, it's almost like you like I don't want to say show off because that kind of sounds like kind of cockiness, but you kind of do a little bit.

You kind of show off a little bit. You're like, oh man, like let me, you know, let me see if I can fuck her even harder. let me be a little bit more rough with her. Like, you know, let me kind of put in some work. Let me show them how we do it in our bedroom. Yeah. But, no, it was super hot. We all had, like, just our mattresses down there and a big old orgy. And we just had a blast. Yep. And, of course, what do you do after you hot tub, drinks? That was the first time we had crumble. Fucking. One of the other couples door dashed crumble. Oh, yeah. They door dashed crumble.

So, yeah, that was the first time. They popped our crumble cherry. Yep. And then it's been fucking history ever since.

So, I'm sure that there was some crumble afterwards there was i think there was some crumble we had like you know what do you eat after you or what do you do after you fuck you gotta replenish you gotta eat yeah so we did that and of course everybody was like exhausted it was probably like two or three o'clock in the morning yeah um so we all went to bed got us the next morning i remember so there was there was four couples that stayed there was there was three couples it was us and the two other couples that stayed there the entire time but then the first night one couple they only stayed just that night and they were staying with this other couple which we also previously knew as well yes and they came to the airbnb that day to hang out i think they like they had like an early flight or something like that flew in needed a place to hang out until their their airbnb was available to you know go to yeah so we're like just come hang out like it's fine so they walk in no they had already like i think we had they were already there you talked about they walked in when we were doing the yoga that's right yeah so me and um one of the girls that was there we have our blue and white page so we're like hey like let's let's do something together so we did a topless yoga live um it went really well we also figured out that we were like should have picked an easier yoga video because it was kicking our ass big time um so while we're doing our topless yoga in there like the other couple walks in and we're just like hey guys like we'll be done in a little bit um so we finished all that and hung out with them and then i had somebody on my only fans and that requested a video yeah they had a huge kink which i'm sure like when we say something about it like there's other people because i feel like they this guy's like hit up like every single like crater that we know yeah and it's like going through the woodwork or going through the you know down the line of all these different creators yeah it's like he finds one and then he goes to the next and then finds it through them but he had a kink of wearing the guys wearing really tall white socks and boots while they fucked a woman and so there was me and two other guys and he was like in love with you know that i think it was one of the guys one of the guys he loved yeah he loved them he was covered in um he was pretty covered in tattoos yeah um really really pretty colorful tattoos um and he was all about him.

Like, he just was very attracted to him, I guess. But he wanted to see us three tag team you. So not only did we do that video, but we also did that with an audience. We did. Because the other guy's wives were there watching, obviously.

But then these two other couples that were that were you know the one that stayed the night and then the one that came and hung out they were sitting around on the couch and you know like we said we did it on the floor with with the mattresses we did it right there and yeah we did it right right in the family room kitchen area and everybody's just like and i'm like oh okay yeah and one of the couples not the not that stay the night but the other one we had like we'd met them before and hung out with them very briefly but it was not a lot so i'm just like i don't know if they came in and were just in shock or they probably i think they enjoyed it enjoyed the show um so i'm like i guess i'm just gonna put a show on over here today yep um so we did that video super hot i think that was the first time i had ever done anything with you and two other guys no because you had done something your original five guys video was before that oh that was before that that's right oh yeah because um that was a secrets one of the guys was a part of that yeah that video okay um so it was ended up being a super hot video yeah and then we just all hung out and chilled for a little bit after that i mean i had like just put in some work i needed a break yeah but we had another couple that that was local to the the Nashville area and they didn't contact and they were coming over.

So we had to like clean up real quick and get ready because then we, we made content with them. We did. We made super, super hot content with another couple. They were very, um, I won't say were, they still are a very attractive couple. Um, and we made content with them. Yeah. We did a couple swap. We did like a couple swap.

And so we were trying to go have fun in nashville yeah we were trying to work too yeah but but it's not work when like it's fun yeah if you enjoy it it's yeah it's not work so we did that couple swap and then i think by then it was like almost time to get ready to go yeah but we so we were going to nashville the swinger society was putting on an event at red room i was gonna mix that um and the friday night they had closed it off to creators only.

We decided not to go to that because we had worked already previously in the day and then we were also going Saturday night and that was not a creators only. That was, you know, anybody that bought tickets to it could go. But we decided that it was Friday night. We'd never been in Nashville before, before this time.

So we figured let's go yeah we want to see on a friday night yeah we'll see what it's like um so us and two other couples yeah the one one of the ones that stayed the night thursday night and then the couple that watched us fuck essentially that was hanging out there yeah so it was us you know the six of us went out yeah went went to dinner you know had some drinks and then we went to a couple other went to like the jason aldean bar we went to um a couple other places and we um like we were all dancing with each other it's kind of it's kind of cool to go to nashville and like go to these bars and clubs and like especially if you get you know three or four couples that are all swingers and then you're like you know like oh like this guy's like kissing this girl but then you know she's kissing this guy and he's kissing that girl and it's just like people probably like what the fuck is going on here i think we started at first where i kissed one or me and one of the other girls kissed yeah and then then we're all like let's all just kiss each other yeah like let's just confuse the fuck out of all these people um so that was super hot like just to confuse people and it's just super hot to do that stuff out yeah people are obviously gonna look at you oh yeah um but we had like we had a blast yeah like first time out on nashville best yeah like couldn't ask for a better time yeah um i think after that we went back to our airbnb yeah because the other two couples that were staying at the airbnb they had gone to the red room yes they had gone to the creators and i um and.

I don't know. I think they worked with some other people there and met some people there. Yeah. So then we ended up going back to the Airbnb. Yeah.

And the six of us ended up all fucking right in the middle of the family room floor again yep i sat there and had like the hottest fucking orgy and one guy finished first and then you finished and then the last guy like his wife was putting in some serious work like she he was straight up like Facebook is that hold on how do you say that Facebooking work like she he was straight up like facebook is that hold on how do you say that face fucking her yeah yeah i was like wait that doesn't sound right um and we were just sitting there like she was just fucking just taking it and she was she was and i remember at one point she was like she stopped and she was like are you a fucking cum or what?

And then she starts like jerking him off and he's like, faster, faster, harder, harder, faster. And I'm like, girl, like she took his shit like a champ. Like she, she did a great job. Yeah. But that was super hot.

I think that's one of the hot things about being singers is not necessarily like fucking but almost like sitting there watching other people fuck like that's a big like that's that's just hot yeah um and of course you know what do we do after we fuck yeah we eat our eat our our little snacks and then the next day we we're actually we got up and I was actually supposed to work again little snacks and then the next day we were actually we got up and I was actually supposed to work again on Saturday um and I woke up and I started my period that day yeah so it happens It happens all the time.

It happens. So we did not work that day. Nope. So.

so it happens it happens all the time it happens so we uh did not work that day no um so i'm sitting on a table sorry bud um so i was supposed to work obviously that didn't work out so i think we just ended up hanging out and honestly yeah because by the time we were we were probably getting up at like 11 12 so we were fucking exhausted like yeah had been drinking all night yeah you know going to bed at like 4 a.m you know that shit catches up yeah and honestly by saturday i feel like we were we've been gone since wednesday yeah we were we almost get to the point to where we're like all right like we're ready to go home yeah like we get like that not like homesick but it's just like all right like I've done enough of this like yeah like we've been here enough days in a row like it's time to go home um it's time to go get our dogs and go like snuggle in our own bed yeah um so I think Saturday we just were lazy I think we probably went ahead and like packed a bunch of our stuff up i'm pretty sure we went like up to the hot tub and like just me and you like hung out for a little bit yeah just kind of just like kind of decompress yeah a little bit i do feel like that's um something that's very important yeah lifestyle make sure like especially when you're in a house with a bunch of people for a weekend house you're at like you know you're at a resort or hotel takeover or whatever you know multiple days in a row like you know go go go sometimes people need to just you know stop and unwind and like reconnect and just kind of like kind of decompress and like kind of like just take a deep breath yeah just make sure you guys are both still on the same page like there's no issues and something like that so that way then it doesn't you know snowball and compound even worse like oh like you know we're totally fine and the next thing you know like you and i like i might be like well fuck this shit like i'm fucking sick tired of this like she did this i got pissed off but i'm not gonna say anything i'll wait till the next day and then like she does something again and then i'm like well fuck I'm really pissed off now, like.

See, it's very important when you're, like, to make sure you, again, communicate your feelings, good, bad, whatever it is, and just still make sure you guys are on the same page. Yep. So, let's see. After we did that, it was time to get ready to go to the Red Room. Yep. So I don't even remember what the theme was, what I wore. I don't think there was a theme, but I don't think we like participated. I think we just wore something nice. Yep. I think that's what it was.

Because I'm pretty sure I just wore like jeans and like a nice shirt or something i really struggle with themes yeah i don't have that like creative mind to come up with outfits and stuff like that so if there's a dress code and i'm not really sure what to wear like follow the dress code there's nothing there's nothing wrong with that like yeah and if you're listening to this and you are like oh my god like I really want to go to this party but you know this theme is you know deep sea you know like what something off the wall that you're like I can't fucking figure out anything just fall back onto the dress code yeah you know wear something nice wear something sexy like wear something nobody's gonna care yeah yeah wear something you're confident in um versus trying to find an outfit you don't like and then you're not gonna have a good night if that's the case um so before we actually went to the red room we ended up there was like a restaurant really close by yeah one of the couples they they left early and they went to the red room but then the other couple hung out with us and we're like hey like you know let's just let's let's arrive a little later you know if it if it opens at like seven or eight you know let's let's show up at like 9 30 or 10.

yeah so we went next door and we had we sat down there was like a sports bar or something um next to it and then we Thank you.

30 or 10 yeah so we went next door and we had we sat down there was like a sports bar or something um next to it and then we sat there at night and we're like all right like i guess we'll go in and check it out and stuff like that which the red room is it's not what you think of when you think of like a swinger club because when you walk in it's like a big just open area it is yeah it's it's a pretty there's like vip tables or like areas like kind of like one or two steps off of the main floor but you go in and it's just like tables and chairs and then like a small little dance floor yes um and they have playrooms and stuff in the back um but it's definitely one of the smaller clubs we've been to for sure yes it was a smaller club but i will say that going to a club is like what you make of it so like if you go in there like if you go in there and you're already in shitty mood or you're just like you're not going to have a good time, it could be the best fucking club out there.

If you're for someone in a shitty mood or something happened before you got there, you're not going to have a good time regardless. I definitely feel like clubs, parties, hotel takeovers, whatever, they're all about what you make of them, too. This just, like, I have to go back and talk about this. It's obviously been three years since this has happened. So I try to go back and remember things before we talk about this. So I remember this specifically because you talked about the VIP tables. So when we went in, we obviously went in a little bit later.

I sat down in one of the chairs at a VIP table. And you were like, hey, babe, I'm going to run to the bathroom. I'll be right back. That's right. So I was like, okay, I'm just going to sit here. I was helping one of the girls with something she was doing in the back. And so I just sat there for a second.

She had somebody come up and talk to her so i was just chilling there um he walks away you walk away and this guy specifically comes up and talks to me yeah sits down next to me and talks to me like i know he saw you leave yeah and he sat down there tried to talk to me i don't remember the exact conversation that we had but it was a huge turnoff for me yeah because i specifically know he waited till you walked walked away to talk to me and that's a red flag for us yeah like that is a it's almost kind of disrespectful in a way it's very it's disrespectful to you yeah um so i don't know why i just like thought about that but yes that is a big thing i understand if you go to a club and somebody didn't see you walk away somebody didn't see you go to the bathroom um and came up and talked to me like that's completely different but if you clearly know yeah and see them see you walk away and then come and talk that's sneaky that's disrespectful um so if you're thinking about going up to talk to somebody you know that they have a spouse or you're not sure yeah because they knew give it a minute yeah they know exactly who we were um and they just waited until you walked away um and that's just that's just disrespectful yeah so if it's a couple approach the couple together yeah and if their partner's not with them wait yeah give them a little bit yep wait till their partner comes back or like we said in previous episodes like you're like hey i noticed you know your husband isn't around you know i just i just wanted to catch you and you know i'd love to you know come back and talk to you know you when your husband's here i'd love to be able to talk to both you when you're you know or me and my wife you know my wife's over there you know like i'd love to be able to talk to you when you know you guys are together we actually went to um i guess it'd be more of like a vanilla club it was a a male strip show i guess you could call it studs of steel studs of steel and there was a couple that recognized me when i went up to the bar and you were still back in your chair and the husband came up and you know started talking to me and you know knew who i was and i was like hey you know like my wife's right up there i'm just getting a drink real quick you know after the show or whatever you know we'll come find you so we can talk to you kind of thing yeah like you know i don't want to sit here and have a whole ass conversation with you know without you there essentially right so and that's that's the most respectful thing you can say it's like hey my wife's over there hey my husband ran to the bathroom like we'll come find you when he comes back or something like that that's the most respectful thing you can do um other than trying you know just don't try to care in a conversation when they're not there yeah um when you specifically know they are a couple right um well no so we after that obviously happened you came back i don't even know if we danced really that night no because it was it was kind of i don't know it was weird i don't say weird but it was just like.

And it had nothing to do with the club. No. It was more, it had to do with us. Yeah. We just weren't. Because there were people out there dancing. Oh, yeah. Yeah, they were out there. People were out there having a great time. Yeah. I just don't think that we were, I think at that point, we were just ready to go home. Yeah. And we just, like, we had already bought tickets to go that night.

So we're like,'re like we'll go for a little bit and then so that's just one of the times where it was what you made of it and we were in really great moods so we went back and we had a good time yeah we went back um like a year and a half later or something like that and we had a great time yeah um so it's all about what you may give it as a club would never say anything like bad about another club because that was just we were having an off night yep um and it wasn't like we were off like but we were just like both kind of on the same page but off together almost yes yeah it's not like we were we were on the same page um yeah it just our mood was not ready we just yeah we were ready to go home all those nights of and stuff like that finally caught up to us yeah they were all catching up to us and i'm pretty sure we went back because the couple that left early they didn't get to hang out with us as long so i'm pretty sure we came back obviously you didn't like have anybody fuck you because you were on your period yeah but i'm pretty sure we we played again because i'm pretty sure it was like i don't know three or four o'clock in the morning i remember i feel like multiple times like the saturday night like i'm laying down in bed it's like four o'clock and i'm like fuck i gotta get up early in the morning to drive back we have to get up you have to be out of here before at that time it was 11 now it's freaking 10 a.m you have to be out of airbnb um and then you know the i've said that way too many times nine hour drive yeah let me just take a little that it's like you know get a little bit of sleep um but yeah so we had a great time nashville is amazing i always people always ask us all the time when are you coming back to nashville nashville is like a once a year kind of thing for us when we go we go all out yeah so we try to limit ourselves to how much we go um but we had a great time yeah uh definitely would go back to nashville go back to the bedroom Yeah.

So. I feel like that kind of wraps it up. It does. That was a lot to talk about for that many days. Yeah.

A little more fucking so people won't be you know complaining that we're talking too much about the food not about the fucking well we talk about the fucking and the food but we're the type of people that we're not going to be like oh you know so and so i was fucking her early you know like this and then i flipped her over like i'm not going to go into all the details with somebody else because you know, A, I don't know what these people's boundaries are as far as like how much they want me to talk about them on podcast. Right.

So we'll just say, you know, we play with these people and you know, we had a good time. That's it. Yeah. We had a nice little orgy. We had fun and it was a great time. Yep. So. Oh. Yeah. nice little orgy we had fun and it was a great time yep so yeah I think that's it all right all right thank y'all for listening a little delusional today guys um but thank you for listening and we are by the way with nc howie and dirty max thanks guys bye