
Bi the Way with Nchotwife & Drtymaxx · Ashley & Kyle
Episode 5 Our First Hotel takeover and our first Secrets trip
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We get down and dirty about our first ever hotel takeover with creating content. Then we talk about our first ever secrets hideaway weekend trip and how much sex we had the whole weekend.
Transcript
Welcome back. Hello. We are back again. Episode number five. Yes. Yep. We are By the Way. With NC Hotway. And Dirty Max. All right. So today we're going to talk about our first Hotel Takeover. Yep.
So if you don't know, Hotel Takeover is where a swing swinger group club company can go in and take over the entire hotel whether it might be one night two nights three nights that you know sometimes they do however many nights i guess they really want to yeah but they do they can do a full takeover where they rent out the entire club or the entire hotel and there's nothing but swingers so like if you don't have a ticket there like you can't just be randomly like driving through with your family and be like oh we're tired we need to stay in this hotel like you're not going to stay in this hotel no but they do also do partial takeovers to where somebody might take over just like one floor and then they do like maybe like the you know the indoor pool and like the conference area we have never been to one of those just because we don't want to be like on an elevator with like a big like trench coat or like a big like oversized coat like covering up like on our way to our room like just i feel like it would be like an awkward vibe yeah i'm not really sure about that i feel like i like we would definitely feel awkward and like especially if there's like a little kid that's like oh let's go to the pool and we're just like chilling there like we were just total whores a few minutes ago before we like went back to our room yeah um but anyway we don't have kids so yeah but anyways this was a full takeover first time we'd ever been to one it was done by lsc which is lifestyle connections and they are based in the charlotte north carolina area yes um so it was one night yep um and i think dan and lacey invited us to go yeah um so i was super nervous just because we'd never been to one before i didn't really know what to expect so if anybody knows my husband you'll know that he likes to joke around a lot he likes to joke and mess with me about anything and everything possible.
Kind of sore and smart assness. Yes. More so on the smart assness. So we pull up to this hotel in the parking lot. Now, mind you, let's backtrack a little bit.
Most hotel takeovers are not usually in like you know a five-star hotel because they are expensive so you know they have to go where they can afford to run out of the whole hotel and i'm sure there's a lot of like logistics as far as like the hotel company allowing that kind of stuff to be in their hotel yeah like the hotel manager like i'm sure there's a lot of hoops that you have to jump through to actually be allowed to be in a hotel and rent out the entire hotel as a swinger group yes so you know most of them aren't in the greatest hotels they're not like horrible like like we did survive like like but um i didn't realize that i didn't know like that wasn't something my brain processed so or what i even thought about so we pull up in this parking lot and i'm like this is what we're saying're saying?
Like, you're joking, right? It was like on the south side of Charlotte. It wasn't in the greatest area by any means? No, it was not. And the outside just looked like it needed to be redone like 10 years ago.
So I'm kind of a germaphobe a little bit not like horrible but i i thought he was joking like i thought he was like okay we're here and he was really going to like pull into the next parking lot really um but no he was for real um that's where we were staying so we get there like right at check-in right when you can check in um and which is kind of early there were some people there but there weren't a whole lot of people there because it's like probably two o'clock in the afternoon three o'clock in the afternoon whenever like most hotel like switch over to like the next like when you can check in that's whenever it would sparse that way that it gives the people that stay there like say friday night enough time to check out and then clean the rooms and set up and everything before you can come in to check in yeah for that evening yeah so i think it was like three um so we go we check into our hotel and we get in the room and like the refrigerator's not plugged like was the ac even on i'm sure the ac was on yeah i'm sure the ac was on okay but like the refrigerator wasn't plugged in i was like oh wow like i'm not ready for this i'm not sure i'm okay with this well like the only only rooms that they had like available because we booked it like last minute yeah it was very last minute that we only had like party floor rooms so there was three floors so the first floor is obviously like where the lobby and then there's also hotel rooms the second floor is a party floor which is they set up a dj at the end of it and they play music all night long i'm pretty sure it was like four or five o'clock in the morning they were still playing music so you could pretty much just like leave your door open and party and whatnot so we're like two doors down from there never been to one didn't know what to expect yeah and we end up on the party floor yeah two doors down from the dj yep um so anyways like we go in we get like our stuff all put in the room and then um we immediately go and get ready real quick and go to make content over there yeah um so we made some super hot content yeah with um dan and lacy when we were there yeah we did like some girl on girl stuff yeah we did a girl on girl scene like some both of y'all double- blended dildo stuff and both of y'all had like a little like a little bit of time with two guys yes um and then we did like a couple swap yeah a little scene right there um of course we were super nervous like still super new to like content making other than the first mansion we went to and then the content cabin we did so it's still super nervous and of course like they're pros at this but like they're like all right this is this is what we're gonna do we're just like okay just look we'll just do it like you just tell us what to do it we'll do it um so we made some super hot content with them um and then By then people were like more people were starting to get there they knew a lot more people because they had been to lsc parties before so they kind of had a little group of people that they introduced us to so that way then we weren't like feeling like we're like oh my god we have no idea like we don't know anybody here yes so that way then we're not like feeling like we're following just these two people around the entire time like there are other people there that we got to meet because then right after that we you know we had to get ready real quick yeah and then we went next door and obviously once again we had mexican don't know why we always eat okay well it was the restaurant right next to walked yeah who doesn't love mexican food like it's cheap but yes you eat mexican and then later hopefully we're on it we're all gonna fuck yeah um but side note going back to the people that they all introduced us to one of those couples is actually still a very good like we're actually still really really good friends with that couple um one of like our favorite people to hang out with um but we go to dinner we go have mexican food i'm sure we started having some margaritas and some what is it that you drink there what's the mexican beer yeah there you go there was probably another eight or ten couples.
Yeah, like, there was, there was a lot of people there, so we met even more people at dinner. Yeah. Um, and still we, like, that was, what, three years ago, so we still, yeah, we still hang out with some of those other couples to this day, too, um, and are friends with them as well.
So, of course, like, we go have and then gotta go rush and like go back so we walk back and get ready get into our like tight fitting dresses where we just ate mexican food well i didn't get into my typing well yeah sorry i don't even know like it was a animal themed something like safari thing yeah something yeah because i remember like i wore like a um like a cheetah print shirt and like you wore like a cheetah print or leopard print like dress or something like that yeah it's something we got from she that's certainly where we get all of our outfits from um so we got ready pretty sure we took some pictures made some reels yeah because we had to do some like transition reels that we had started earlier in the day yeah so we had to do the second part of that um so we all got ready and went downstairs uh went to the conference room which was the dance floor which yeah most Most high-tech takeovers, they use like a conference room to like turn into a dance floor granted some are better than others because some have bigger conference rooms so this one was a much smaller dance floor but it was still like i mean it was packed with people no yeah that was there was tons of people um and like we had fun like We danced, like dj was good um met more new people downstairs that just like you know some even were like i've seen you on tiktok we just didn't expect that at all um but we'd fun dance dance to other people one cool thing i like about hotel takeover is that most of the time you can bring your own alcohol downstairs or like you can go up to your room make a drink you know refill your cup whatever and bring it back downstairs or like if you need to take a break you need like a breather you can go back to your room and just like like i need to like you need like a little like you need decompress for a couple minutes just for a little bit i can you can kind of go back and do that yeah so you can do that at hotels where they don't serve alcohol yeah which this is one of them yeah um which is cool because then like that saves you on some costs if you're trying to like save money on cost and then you drink what you want to drink um but they did like a before the party started they did a um or when the party started they did like a room crawl because I remember that was the first time going through like a room crawl oh yeah so they had probably a handful of different rooms that were all decorated and different things you can meet people they usually have like free shots and some people went like all out on these like room crawls like they like had like i've seen some to where they have like adjoining rooms and they take all the beds out of one room put it in the other room and it's just like one big ass room that's decorated then they got tables and drinks and little food like finger foods and yeah some of those shots they have in there pretty good too yeah but you have to be careful yeah because you know you go through half a dozen rooms taking a free shot every single time yeah and some have two different shots in there so then you're like pretty quick yeah so you gotta be careful with that but that's where the mexican like the chips like the chips come in because you're prepared um yes the room crawl was really fun pretty sure we've met more people but yeah some people go all out on decorating yeah which is really cool um it's a cool way to meet people yeah yeah just to meet new people and like figure out out where people came from and um so after that then we went down yeah to the dance floor um danced we had a good time yeah we would like dance and go back up to the room and grab another drink and then come back down and dance some more and then go back like we kept like flip-flopping back and forth yeah and then like because i would get hot so we'd have to like walk outside and then come back inside and um generally like you wear your party dress like your nice clothes for i don't know hour or two hours maybe something like that and then everybody goes back and not everybody but people start to go back to the rooms and like switch to their lingerie and yeah slowly throughout the night they start to lose more and more clothes yeah like you know you know it's not a bad thing guys will lose shirts and maybe sometimes pants and then just like i got to the point to where i'm pretty sure i just had like boxers and socks and shoes on and yeah start with that yeah that's that's perfect yeah um and then of course like i i remember going to put lingerie on and i got super hot so went back again and changed into different lingerie um because you have to go you have to take options i have to have options in case i think i don't look good in this i have to go back and change um i'm trying to think so then after yeah it's kind of hard to recall like now over three years ago yeah it's been what we did for one night that was a lot of that happened in one night yeah we should have been documenting this a long time ago we didn't think it was going to be anything like this true um but i know we ended up in somebody's room we did and had like a little like mini orgy we did we did there was some um maybe like three or four other couples maybe yeah i think there was like three or four couples and like i feel like some people would like come in and like watch for a minute and like leave or like um depending upon who it was obviously we don't just you know not random people just come in there and like do stuff yeah um but yeah we had like a little a little mini orgy in there and um it was a lot of fun yeah it was a lot of fun um and i really feel like a really big misconception uh like when people think they're like oh my god they're having a huge orgy like they're gonna be in there for hours like everybody's gonna finish like it's just gonna be this big elaborate thing and like i hate to bring it to you guys but it's not always like that like i mean you might jump in and play for five or ten minutes and then leave or you know you might be just like hanging out watching other people play and you know you might not finish in the orgy you might finish later on in the evening with your wife or something like you know what i mean like it's always like i feel like you're seeing it in like a porn is not what really happens right you know like a serial orgy yeah and i honestly feel like nine times out of ten like at a swinger orgy like people don't like guys don't finish um but of course that's also boundaries for some people yeah um whereas like they might only want to finish with their spouse um just because you know there's nothing wrong with that being a boundary if that's what what you want yeah oh yeah but then i remember we went back to our we went back to our room and obviously we're on the floor with the party floor yeah two doors down and i'm pretty sure it was like we probably got a little nap that night like it wasn't really full like sleep yeah we did not get much sleep at all um so if it's your first hotel takeover maybe request to not be on the party floor yes just because like not that it was like overwhelming for us to be on the party floor but like if you're not i mean it can be overwhelming if it's your first if you're if it's your first time going you know you're experiencing all of this stuff for the first time yeah especially if you don't know anybody that's like going and stuff like that all of a sudden then you're like oh shit now i can't sleep like i do remember at one point during um the night i think this was like when we were going back to get ready and everything like that like after dinner that we were hanging out in our room and i guess the door was open so like two other couples came in and then like yeah next thing you know there was a shit ton of fucking people and then there was like 30 people in our room and we're like oh my gosh like this is too much like this is too much and i think i don't know i think it was dan he was like somebody that was with us yeah or that we knew he was like are you guys okay and i was like this is just too many people in that room and then like all of a sudden like whoever it was was like okay and next thing you know like let's go over here and like everybody was gone and it was like oh my god thank you like this is just like too much like going on yeah so it can be overwhelming for sure yeah um we definitely had fun so unless you want like a party to break out into your room like if you go back into your room don't leave the door wide open because that is kind of an invitation like people will stop by and be like oh like what's going on in here and like kind of invite themselves in yeah so like if you want the privacy just go ahead and just like shut your door yeah um that's definitely a big thing yeah but hotel takeovers are a lot of fun yeah um we enjoy going to them i think we've been to two or three of lscs the lscs we've been to three since then yeah um and they're great parties to go to they did um they moved to a different hotel they did move to a better one yes although i will say we did go back we have been back to that same hotel that um i wasn't a fan of um i do take my own pillow now just because that's just something i do everywhere i go yeah um but yeah it was a lot of fun um we absolutely enjoyed it and let's see so first hotel takeover yeah then we were invited to our first lifestyle resort yeah secret tidal way yes okay so we um decided we were going to go to a the lifestyle resort yep secret tidal way kiss me kiss me however you want to say it yeah i pronounced it kissing me yeah just outside of Orlanda.
Which Highway. Secret Highway. Kissimmee. Kissimmee. However you want to say it. Yeah. I pronounce it Kissimmee. Yeah. Just outside of Orlando. Which evidently is not the right way to say it. Um, but this was our first time at a lifestyle resort. Um, I mean, it's Florida.
yeah like what's what's not to love about florida um so we ended up leaving on thursday to drive there we drove thursday because it was about seven ish we're like seven ish hours away from from secrets yes so we didn't want to you know have to leave super super early in the morning and then, know get there and then be exhausted not be able to party and have fun so we drove the first like or we drove there thursday got a hotel off site yes but we met a couple there for dinner we did that we had never met before and we had been talking to them yeah like we haven't like they've been talking to it to us on like tiktok and like we had like group chat and stuff like that yeah but it was just like i i thought they were just like being nice and like wanting to talk to us and be friends with us but like they wouldn't fuck us yeah i have no idea see that's like when like we were like it just went right over our head like and like we're both i feel like we're both pretty good at that yeah uh maybe more so not now but like we used to be really good at stuff just going right over our heads yeah we're like wait these swingers are like trying to like talk to us and be friends with us like they want to be friends with us they want to us too like what um yeah so we stayed in a hotel off-site yeah which was oh my god probably, probably almost 30 minutes away from Secrets.
Yeah, but that's Florida, so it could be like five miles away. True. So we got to our hotel and then pretty much dropped our stuff and immediately left. Went to have dinner. No, we went straight to the restaurant first and then went to our hotel with all our shit.
Oh we did because we were running late yeah sugar yeah um so i'm pretty sure i like changed in the car yep right before um so i because we had been sitting all day like i had to like i wanted to look impressive for these people even though i didn't know they really wanted to fuck us oh okay um so i was super nervous like we both were yeah i was like oh my god what are we doing um so we meet them for dinner and there was actually another couple that came too that we had never met either to dinner yeah are you sure about that i am 100 positive about it what are their initials fuck i don't know what their initials are i don't think that another couple went with us that night for dinner i think you're thinking about a different time because we went to the same restaurant two different times we went secrets okay i don't know okay so anyways we had dinner oh yeah yeah you're thinking about the second time we went to secrets we went to the same restaurant with the same couple but they invited a couple they invited a couple so yes okay sorry yeah i had to jump with a gun i have a hd guys my brain sucks um so obviously the restaurant was good because we went back twice yeah it was it was great I'm pretty I'm pretty sure we've eaten there multiple times um of course it's not that far from secret so it's convenient um so we had dinner with him had a great time like super just like those couples like you meet like you feel like you've known for years like the conversation just like flowed like all night long yeah you could just sit there and um we just sit there and talk to them i feel like for a while um so we had a great dinner i don't think i'm trying to remember when the conversation came up that like it was more than just like being friends with us i think it wasn't until the next day because then we started hanging out with him more like throughout the day yeah because then the next day we had to go to secrets it was we were getting there earlier to try to work to film our first orgy yes with four other couples i think it was yeah it was four other couples um but we got there and we had a room reserved but then the room wasn't ready because it was being renovated so they put us in a different room and that room had problems so we went back up and then just out of pure luck we were we were at the front office when the person was there that owned that condo was like no that room's ready like you guys can stay in it and we ended up meeting the people that own that condo super nice people we were the first people to ever stay in there it was the fire ice room awesome they own i'm pretty sure it's two other rooms yeah so they own three three rooms total i'm pretty sure yeah unless they and like yeah they might have done it since then we haven't talked to them in a while um but we finally got in our room but that was after that's right that was after yeah that was after the orgy yeah so um the couple that we stayed in the cabin with yeah they knew another couple and they were like that couple really wants to like meet you guys and make content with you guys so we're like okay like so they kind of yeah um I'll see you next time.
couple and they were like that couple really wants to like meet you guys and make content with you guys so we're like okay like so they kind of um worked out this this orgy so we met and that was our first content orgy so obviously we had had our orgies off camera yeah um but this was the one first one we did on camera um super hot it was nice because the room had obviously you know the rooms that secrets aren't made for like 10 people to sleep in obviously um but they had there was a king size bed in there there was a big like l-shaped couch in there and there was also a sex wing in there yeah and so we were able to like use all parts of the room one woman could be like in the sex wing and another one could be like bed over the couch getting like double teamed and then like there's still a bunch of room on the bed like but there's like constantly like it wasn't crowded feeling up yeah it wasn't crowded um it wasn't as overwhelming as I thought it was gonna be but I think that's just because like we had already done it off camera a couple times right um so we had fun with it like it was it was a lot of fun um I'm trying to think we had and then well after that it was another girl's idea she was like I We'll be right back.
of fun um i'm trying to think we had and then well after that it was another girl's idea she was like i want to get a video like a five guys video like gang bang video yeah and of course you're like sign me up i want that too i want to do it so that's where like the her like your famous five guys video came from with secrets yeah and it's still like gosh that video gets sent out on your page all the fucking time because people always want to see it yeah people love it people love it it was great it wasn't like a super like long video um but like it was enough to where like it's just like you laying on the bed getting fucked um like you're using both hands and then like you're like going back and forth between two guys like sucking dick and then like we just like kind of rotate yeah like every guy gets their gets their own spot yeah so everybody just rotated and then i think every once everybody got their turn actually i think there was only one guy that didn't fuck me yeah um but like everybody just took their turns going around and um it was super hot yeah super super hot um love that video both of those videos actually do are great like still sell them to this day yeah so we did the or we did the orgy we did the five guys and then i was like oh like i don't i don't know what else i can do today um but then now we can go back to our room yeah so now we're trying to go finally ready yeah um so we at the very last minute decided we were going to do the room crawl yeah so that's one of the reasons why we were in such a hurry to try to get in our room so that we could set up for the room crawl and of course before we get there after we leave our hotel that morning friday morning before we get to secrets we're running around we're going to target we're going to we need like a bowl we need candy last minute outfits like we're literally like we're so last minute people we're procrastinators awful um so we'll get it on the way there yeah it's fine it's no big deal and they're like oh i don't want to get this on the way there like we don't have time for this and so we go we finally get into our room get everything all set up get our bowl of candy and like i even know like we didn't even have stickers or anything at that time like we just gave out candy and i think that was it yeah um but like people came into our room people talked to us um that was the first time we met one of our um another really good friends of ours um didn't like it took me a while to connect the dots i think like once we started hanging out with them yeah but it was almost like why like why did these people want to be in here talking to me i'm like because they were well i like but i'm like them like why would they like why would they want to do something with me like i just i thought they were like like you just you thought that they're like they were above you almost like you were like yeah you weren't as attractive as they were yeah and like i i feel like i don't know about you but like still to this day i still think that like i'm like they're really attractive but like i don't really see myself that attractive like why would they want to yeah i still i still to this day do that yeah and that's i mean like i feel like that's normal yeah or there's other people that are completely on the other end of the spectrum that think that they're just like hot fucking shit we won't talk about that um so like we met them we met a whole bunch of people like we met multiple couples or one girl that was like oh my god i'm here because i came specifically because i saw you on tiktok and i just thought that was really cool there was a lot of people out there that came in and talked to us and had seen us on tick tock and like couldn't wait to meet us um which i thought was super cool um and then of course like we had tons of candy leftover so yeah but then after that we went to um somebody else was was it was it dan lacy were doing doing their own like it wasn't part of the room crawl it was like after the room crawl but it was like I think it was like a staff appreciation yeah it was something to do with swinger society yeah like like that and that's when they started really passing out more shots because I remember the couple that we went to dinner with and then another couple that we were in the orgy with the six of us got really close and we were like why the fuck do we need to go get ready like we're all you know we're already like in the room like making out with each other like we're ready to go yeah we're getting horny like what is what does this even matter so i'm pretty sure we like got dressed and then like went down to the club and we were on in the club for like 30 minutes and like it was just like boom like we gotta fucking go because like we're already like rubbing all over each other like girls are sitting on the guy's laps like making out with each other like we got to go back to the fucking room yeah we need to get out of here we can't do this in here like we need to go um so i mean the club was great for the you know 30 minutes whatever we were in there um i still can't remember what that theme was i think it was like a homecoming night i think um that are you sure because wasn't um i feel like you had a thing for the tinkerbell was that the tinkerbell that was the next night okay that was the next night okay that was the saturday night's theme yes you're right okay so i didn't say that um i feel like it was i feel like it like it might have been homecoming night okay i can't remember exactly like we were trying to go back and like look at pictures to see but like we have no pictures from that night for some reason probably because we all took shots and got way too horny and we fucking forgot about pictures and we're like fuck that like let's just go but then we went back to one of their one of those couple's rooms and they had that big ass circle bed yes that's a really cool room i like that one that's a cool room and we all had an orgy there i'm pretty sure somebody came in and was like i don't want to join in but i just want to watch and they like just sat because i had like one of those like curved like oh yeah one of those chairs yeah so they just sat there yeah and they watched but we i'm pretty sure we fucked for a long time yeah we were in there for a really long time um i feel like we all just like we all just like switched yeah we just you know like kept switching i don't even know if we like started with our own part like our own partners because we had already like past that point in the um when we were in the club um so we went we did that I don't know if I started in that I'd sit there like we did that okay i'm sitting there like i'm sitting there talking like she i'm like oh my god she's going on and on i can't remember but anyways go ahead but i'm pretty sure we we for a long time from there no we did we did we were in there for a really long time um was it that night we went down to our Thank you.
but i'm pretty sure we we we for a long time in there no we did we did we were in there for a really long time um was it that night we went down to our room after or was that the next night no that was the next night because we kind of used both of the rooms the following night okay um yeah so we were up there for ever yeah i'm'm pretty sure it felt like it was ours. And then what do you do after you... That's right. We went and got food. We went to Wawa and got some fucking chicken nuggets, chicken tenders, or a sub or something. I know.
I remember I was like, I want fucking chicken tenders or chicken nuggets or something like that. And I was right after... Look at us. Talking about food again. That was right after I had bought that big ass fucking dually truck and I decided to drive that in Secrets.
i want chicken tenders or chicken nuggets or something like that and i was looking at us that was right after i had bought that big ass dually truck and i decided to drive that in secrets so six of us had a pile in that truck yeah and then get out of secrets parking and try to find another parking spot for that yeah bad idea yeah but it was a lot of fun yeah like that was it that was like one of our favorite memories of like yeah um a night at secrets yeah um so you know we got our food and like the party goes on until like what is it like four o'clock in the morning so mind you if you walk out like two or three o'clock in the morning at secrets where the pole's at and everything there's dj still guard there might not be a dj but there's still music going yeah there's some kind of music going you know at the hot tub and the pool you can play anywhere except for like you have to be covered up in the lobby i'm pretty sure yeah you have to be covered up in the lobby but anywhere in like the pool area and stuff like that you can you can play you can do whatever um and i feel like there's a lot of people at like that time of the morning that end up in the hot tub yeah um but so we got our food we went back to our room and we were done yeah it was it was over after that um so we get up the next morning i'm pretty sure we were supposed to work the next day we were but then something happened and but now it's secrets it always happens yeah it always happens everybody you know starts drinking and or maybe drink too much the night before can't really just make it happen once to get to the party like they're like i don't want to miss this out like yeah but i remember then we went to the um the pool party but this was back when they didn't have the big ass pool there this was before when they had just that yeah it was just a small pool that was a small pool for that many people yeah i'm pretty sure people were like oh yeah it was like shoulders like barely get in there people sit all around edge and everything like that um so we went to the party we ended up going to the pool party of course you know after we had to probably fucking wawa for breakfast again um so we went to the pool party of course probably drank way too much yeah is that where you got your dick sucked on the side of the pool uh you're jumping the gun again that was the next time i can't give up because that was that in between that was the that was the big pool oh yeah yeah okay no sucking dick on the small pool no sucking dick no dick sucking at this time no not that time okay yeah so we just went to the pool party had fun drank too much um i don't think anything really wrong crazy happened during the day um i think there was some small things that we had to do throughout the day um yeah because there was like tick tock there was like group tick tocks and stuff like that um i think there was some small things that we had to do throughout the day um yeah there was like TikTok yeah there was like group TikToks and stuff like that um I think there was a little like Q&A that they did um or maybe that was the next time I feel like it was that time yeah I think it was yeah like there was like the club area yeah during the day I did like the little um questions and stuff like that um that the swingers society did so a bunch of us went in there and did that um and of course after that it was time to like i feel like it was time to go get ready again yeah and this and obviously was taking a lot longer to get ready this time because this was i can't remember what the theme was, but it was something to do with, like, superheroes and stuff like that.
Was it Cosmel? Cosplay? It might have been Cosplay Night. Maybe that's what it was. Because, like, we were dressed up as Harley Quinn and the Joker. Yeah. There was another couple that they ended up becoming, they were dressed up in the same thing. Yeah.
Turned out to be good friends of ours still to this day um that was the same couple that came and talked to us in the room crawl in the beginning um yeah and then another couple that we were with it was like peter pan and like tinkerbell or something and you had a thing for that tinkerbell wig that she had on i don't know what it was about that tinkerbell wig but of course the six of us again were like stuck up each other's butts I think we stayed in the club longer we did we stayed in the club for a while um a lot longer listened to the DJ had a great time in there um but still went back and that was the night that we went back to our room yes so the room that we were in i don't think it's there anymore i think they took it out of the room the cage it was like a cage that was like waist high off the floor and it was padded on top but it was long enough to where you could lay down in it or you could lay down on top of it yes and if you like on the inside like if you were to lay down inside of it there was like a what do you call it like a psychedelic mirror yeah so it was like all like curved and everything yeah um but it was a good idea from somebody like hey let's get all three women to get into the cage on their knees and then the guys kneel down next to it put their dicks through the cage and then like suck dicks and like it was like a guess who game like who's sucking yeah like guess who's sucking whose day we were like sitting there and like stay in one position for a little bit and then we'd rotate and then we'd rotate it again and then somebody was like oh this is like one of the guys was like we should record this this is super hot and then they record it and it's literally just all of you guys's asses because yeah it's like super dark in the room with like some just like red like ambient lighting in there so it's i mean it was it was a hot it was super hot and of course i had to be the first i don't know why i volunteered to get in there first the tallest one like five nine decides to crawl in there and like oh my god i'm never going to get out of here um but that was super hot we did that for a little bit um and then got out and then we went back we went to our bed so our room had two double beds so that way then like you could kind of play on one bed and then like i'm pretty sure like other people were playing on the other bed or like some like you were just kind of like lay there and like observe other people play it and i remember one of the couples they had this is the first time we had ever been introduced to a magic wand and they had the plug-in version of it yes and that was the only way she could squirt yes and i'm like shit if that's not like i need to like we need to buy one of these um i don't know if you tried it that night or not i don't think i did i think i was scared i still to this day like get scared or like really nervous about like squirting in front of people um or even like having an orgasm in front of people i feel like i feel like i gotta get nervous like doing it on camera is like different than like live like doing it in front of people i don't think i've ever seen anybody orgasm and ever think to myself that's a weird orgasm why do you come like that like now like like the thought is like i know it's just like i get in my head um but anyway so i don't i can't remember if she even used the magic wand i think she just yeah she used the magic wand and showed us that that was the only way that she could score okay and then the other girl was like holy shit like i want to try this and she was just like she was like oh my god like i i can't believe my life happened like we were just like like she was like speechless yeah because it made her squirt too and that was the first time i don't know i think that was the first time she had ever squirted too and it's really holy shit we got to buy one of these so like i'm pretty sure we have one ordered before we even left yeah um but but then the other couple one of the other couples they were staying in the room right next to us which actually wasn't even planned at all it wasn't it just happened to work out that way and they had a big ass shower that had like three fucking shower heads like so every room in Sec is different when you buy a room there you can go through and renovate it whatever and put whatever theme you want in there yeah and most of the showers are usually visible from the outside like they either have like a small window some of them are like completely glass so you can see the whole shower yeah and i'm pretty sure this one was i don't think it was the whole thing but it was a pretty good size window yeah it was a pretty good pretty good chunk where you could see like somebody taking a shower there's an upper room for six people why don't we all just go in there and just go get the shower and fuck yeah well we had like all six shower heads going the shower drain couldn't keep up with it it was like we were like almost like taking like a like a foot bath yeah because the water was trying to overflow outside of the shower I don't know.
the shower drain couldn't keep up with it it was like we were like almost like taking like a like a foot bath yeah because the water was trying to overflow outside of the shower yeah so like we had to like pull the pull the drain out like try to fix it so that way then the water would drain out so we like got out we some more out there and then most of the not most of the rooms a lot of the rooms at secrets also have mirrors above the bed which is super hot to watch it from that too um so we walked on the bed and saw that and then what were you gonna say i remember like so i'm pretty sure it was the night before one of the couples the guy wanted me to come on his wife because i do usually produce a lot yeah and he was like you know i want to like i want you to fuck my wife and then like come on her and like i remember i'm dressed up as a joker so i've got like all the tattoos like on my forehead on my neck he's got one on his like stomach right here all over my hands and everything so i look like i'm like an escaped like convict almost like in this video like fucking his wife but then like obviously pull out and just like come everywhere and it's just like he loved it obviously he's like fuck yeah i can't remember exactly what he said like we still have it on video this day like yes or something like that um which was super hot um so obviously that's not a boundary of ours for us to finish with other people like we're good with that um but it was super hot super super hot so god we played we played in every one of our rooms yeah that whole whole weekend yeah we did we went to every single room um well not every single room ever like the rooms that we had rented each each couple's room that we in yeah um but before we went there like this is like backtracking a little bit before we went there um like we were in the club I don't know what got into me but I just like was feeling myself and I just like made out with a whole bunch of random ass people like I mean they weren't random ass people like I knew who they were but like I just was okay cool and I made out with a bunch of people and then obviously we went back and um had our orgy fun and of course i'm sure we went back to wawa and got some more chicken tenders didn't we it was like four or five o'clock in the morning when we actually went to bed yeah it was and then we had to drive back seven hours the next day yeah back home and then we both were working full-time jobs at the time the at the the time so we were supposed to get up and like go back to work on Monday too um and like Sunday I woke up on the way home and I was like yeah all the way you started getting sick I was like oh my god I feel like shit like complete shit and then I think the next day i called out of work and then then i started feeling the same way and then he started feeling bad and then bam that was the first time we got covered yeah we got covered so if you're a swinger and your kids are sick or if you feel a little sick or you if you were sick a few days before the swinger event don't come yeah or just don't to spread your bodily fluids with your saliva don't don't share that the swinger flu is real like i've gotten strep so many times from being a swinger the first time we ever went to a club that was the first time yeah that was the first time i'd ever had strep in my entire life never had it as a kid almost every single time we go somewhere we usually one of us gets sick yeah because somebody is like oh no i'm fine like i don't feel too bad like i'm still good like no just stay the fuck home okay you don't need to spray at least sleep to yourself like stay away from people but yeah that was the first time we had covet and it was a awful yeah like we were sick like in bed like i'm pretty sure one of our parents even had to like take us to the doctor because we couldn't like function enough to go yeah um so take your vitamin c before you go to a event um and whatever else it is you're supposed to take all your vitamins before you go um but secrets blast yeah love secrets um we have been back several times since then um and absolutely enjoyed it yeah so do you want to answer one other question yeah yeah we'll do we'll do a couple we'll do like two two questions do you have two questions.
Which means they should be on that. Hurry, because it's been 30 minutes. They should be on my phone then. Yeah, they're on the laptop. Yeah. Yeah, we'll edit that out okay okay so we wrapped up our secrets yeah an episode um our first hotel takeover and secrets um podcast so we um are gonna do two questions from the q a questions that you guys asked us on um instagram tiktok um maybe on youtube to like, yeah, the places that they were asked.
So let's see do you guys ever get jealous yeah absolutely like 100 percent like if somebody says that if we meet a couple they say oh i've never gotten jealous before like i feel like that's more of a red flag than somebody that's overly jealous yeah like if somebody is jealous a little bit then it's almost like a okay these people are like very secure in their relationship like it's it's like love that is kind of creates the jealousy almost yeah but like i kind of like it because so like if another guy thinks he's better than me when he's really not like i kind of get a little jealous but then afterwards like i don't really say i take it out of you but then like i just like you and like be like no like you know who the boss is like pretty much you do yeah um but like i it's totally normal like it's a totally normal human emotion to be jealous um i've got i mean like i'm definitely the more jealous one of the two of us okay um but like it's totally normal it's totally normal to get jealous you but like you have to talk about it like what made you jealous and like most time it's not something that the other person specifically did it's something that's something inside of you like you have an issue with it yeah so like I get jealous if like I think a woman did something better than me or if she feels like she's better than me like I will get jealous about that and that's pretty much what you just said too but like I kind of it kind of turns me on a little bit it turns him on it's not turning on I just get like figure out how to how to make it to where it turns you on and be like oh yeah you think that she sucked your dick better than me nah i'm gonna show you how i like she gave you a gluckluck 9 000 i would give you a gluckluck 18 000 bitch oh my god yeah that works for him it doesn't work for me um i definitely am more jealous of the two but it's normal it happens um you have to talk about it yep um yeah we'll skip that one because i think that one's gonna of the questions is i am bi and i hate that people judge me for that would you say the lifestyle is more accepting yes and no yes and no it's getting there i don't think it's fully acceptable or accepted um just because like i've even noticed this is obviously a question from a bi guy yeah sorry so i have noticed because i when we first started meeting people i didn't say i was bi right i didn't like advertise on our profiles that that I was but then like probably like a year and a half later then I finally was like all right fuck it like I'm just gonna say I'm by now yeah but like even at that point I almost kind of noticed other people not really like avoiding us but like kind of like maybe they maybe they didn't really want to play with us and it's almost like okay just because i do those things doesn't mean i'm going to every single time like right if you want a couple swap with us and only do straight stuff i'm fine with that it's not like i'm just going to be like accidentally be like oh there's a dick in my mouth like yeah like it's it's like it's not gonna happen um but i feel like it's getting there because i feel like there are more guys now that are starting to maybe entertain the idea that they are yes or that it's certain things that might turn them on um but it's still not 100 there like i always use the reference of if you go to secrets you know you're gonna see two girls making out or you know two girls eating their pussies like on the poolside okay now do the opposite with two guys yeah there's probably going to be some people that are like that type of but then there's going to be a lot of guys that'll be like dude that's gross like i don't want to see that but it's like why not like you're in a lifestyle setting to where anything can happen and there's nothing between two consenting adults what does it matter yeah you know we're just here to have a good time their good time might might look different than your good time yeah and that's what we love about the lifestyle is that there's so many different things that you can enjoy and nobody like nobody's supposed to judge you for that um but that is something that i feel like we try to work on yeah like we try to bring more awareness to that and it is hard no difference between the two like as a guy like growing up you know you know you used to always be like oh like that's gay or you know he's gay like shit like that so it's like it's a lot of fear inside of your own self of yeah well no like i can't do this like i can't be turned on this because this is you know this is gay and it's like no like there is that gray area in between like you can like you know sex with both sexes like it is that is a normal thing yeah so it is it is still hard like i still battle with it sometimes yeah but we're doing everything that we can yeah to try to normalize it as much as possible yeah so those are our two questions we were going to ask for today or we are going to answer for today and I think that's it from us today right?
Yeah yeah we have plenty more questions we'll start adding them to the end of each episode. Yeah we will continue to add those but thank you guys for listening and we are by the way with NC HotWave and Dirty Max.