Episode 3 Our first Good and Bad club experiences

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well here we are back again episode number three yes yeah back from our dallas trip oh that was a lot of fun yeah managed to get strep throat when we were there yeah it's great yeah always uh yeah always actually we'll talk about that when we go into our first experience or at first club too, too. Yep. So. But, first, you're now listening to, by the way, with. NC Hotway. And Dirty Max. All right. So, today we're going to talk about our first club experience. That'll be good.

So, our first club experience was at Ykw yep it stood for you know where yes yeah um which was in fayetteville north carolina faytonam faytonam fort bragg fort liberty whatever it is they call it these days. So that was our first club. Oh, goodness. Okay. So we... Trying to think of where we... We probably found it from like SLS or something. I think that is. I think we saw it on the SLS and it showed that they were having a party. So we like RSVP'd to it. So let's backtrack a little bit.

So when you're on SLS, you can go on and they have like a calendar of like events and most of the time all your clubs will put all their you know events that they're having so that way then people on sls will know like hey and you can do like a certain radius like you know 50 100 250 miles whatever it may be so like say you know our location is set to myrtle beach but hey let's go to you know miami for the weekend let's get on sls let's see what's happening in the swinger community down there while we're there for the weekend you know it's you're able to do that so that way then it's not just you know people that are set to your location you can set it to a different location and see what's going on be like hey let's take a trip here let's see what's going on kind of thing so i think we probably found it there um and then like you know they had like a website whatnot you could go on there and see what it looked like and had their events on there and i can't remember do we go on a friday or saturday night i want to say saturday night because probably friday night was probably guys usually yeah i think yeah i think we went on saturday night i think we were nervous to go on friday night because it was it was single guys like sausage fest yeah is what they always refer to it as yeah um so we okay so first we We tried to go there one time.

We pulled into the parking lot. We sat.

so we okay so first we tried to go there one time we pulled into the parking lot we sat there i don't know maybe five ten minutes and now mind you it was it was not in the it was like an industrial park which i understand you know have to be discreet about yeah like these you know towns and cities they don't want these swinger community like you don't want to be driving along the interstate with your family and you know have this bright colored building that's like swingers fuck here like on their on their front door like they're like okay like we'll we'll allow this to no i'm not talking to you um like we'll allow you to have this in our in our town but it's like you kind of have to stay over here and be kind of discreet so it was in like an old warehouse building like there was like i don't even think there were any signs i think there was just like their logo on the door and that was it and you could tell where it was at because you know okay why is this industrial park parking lot full of cars at 10 p.m on a Friday night like and it like you walked in the like the back door almost yeah because it was just like a side door maybe yeah just like one little like like concrete set of stairs up to like this like double steel door with like a little logo on there and you opened up the door but anyway go ahead about your you know we pulled into the parking lot and yeah so we pulled into the parking lot this was the first time we tried to go um sat there for like five ten minutes maybe watched people walk in um and we were like i don't think we're ready for this yep so we turned around and drove back home mind you we're a good hour and a half maybe a little more away from there so we just drove an hour and a half away to sit in a parking lot for five or ten minutes to turn around and drive an hour and a half home like nope we don't want to do this just kidding uh maybe next time yeah um so when we did actually decide to go yeah i do think it was a saturday night probably um we had been talking to a couple that was on sls yeah we found them on sls and then i'm pretty sure it went to like either kick but i think it went to snapchat i think we were in that was probably like the beginning of when, like, hey, like, let's move these conversations to Snapchat.

Like, it's a little bit more, like. These people are actually legit. Yeah, like, less likely to, you know, be, like, fake people. Like, you can, you know, send, like, a live picture right now. Like, I know this is you. There's no way of faking, you know, a snap at all. But we had already been talking to them.

I don't think they had been there either, so it was their first time had been there either so it was their first time as well yeah it was their first time as well um i think we got there and i we were checking in at the front desk but we did the same thing again we pulled in the parking lot we were nervous we left went went to some like gas station or something i just remember there was a crispy cream right there maybe that's what i remember that we probably went to the crispy cream sat in the parking lot for a second and then we're like okay we just need to just fucking do this like yeah like we're not we didn't drive all the way over here again to do this again like we're not about to like ghost these people and like and uh show up yeah it's like all right let's go back so we went back we walked in you like do like this check-in process like your driver's license you have to create like a because it has to be i think for them to operate a swinger clubs like that has to be like a private like members only so you have usually like any like you go to trapeze or anything like that like you have to join as a member yeah you have to join as a member you have to pay like a fee of some sort i think like sometimes they do like a one night fee a month fee a year fee or whatever it may be but they all have their different fees um so we were checking in the couple that we were meeting there happened to walk in behind us i think yeah there were like a couples behind us yeah so they were behind us um so we got all checked in and everything when we got there or when we were checking in I was like I have way too many clothes on like did you feel that way too I was like I like I just felt like I had maybe I felt like I was like, well, but also we were, like, all right, let's, you know, kind of dress to impress.

Like, I'm not going to show up in, like, some, like, holy jeans and, like, a raggedy t-shirt. Like, you know, we wanted to stand out. Like, we want to look good. Yeah, like, we want to look good. So, we waited for a few minutes for them to get their first group of people that were newbies and they made you go sit in this room and watch this video about like the rules of the club and like consent like don't touch people and stuff like that yeah all the stuff that you would think that everybody should know um so we sat in the room while we were in the room.

I'm pretty sure it was like hot as hell in there. For some reason, I just remember. Or maybe I was just really nervous. So I was like starting to sweat. It was probably a combination of both. Who knows? So we watched the video. And then they're like, okay, guys, like here's some. I can't remember when they gave us the wristbands. It was probably when we checked in.

So they gave us the wristbands it was probably when we checked in so they gave us like a little like glow band like a little like you like crack them and the light turns on kind of thing so only people that were there for the first time had those yeah got those so you stand out like a sore thumb already because then it's just like oh my god what do i do with my hands like um so then they take you on a tour of the whole club and well when we walked in there was like you walk into like almost like a big like hangout like meeting place like they had like tables and chairs it really wasn't table chairs it was like old like cafeteria they reminded me of legit like a cafeteria yeah it was like it was like when you walk into like a restaurant and they ask you if you want a booth or a table it's like but there were only boots like that's all it was it's like it was legit boots like like old style like restaurant tables like they had but they had like a dance floor on one side they had like it was byob and then they had coolers you could put your stuff in or i think there were like coolers around on the floor like i think there's a bunch of coolers that people just brought in that were chilling all over the floor they had like chips and like pretzels and like little and i'm pretty sure they had like a fountain drink machine there that you could you could get some drinks there yeah i think they had that and then they had like beds up around that had like little curtains to where people could like you could go up in and play and hang out in and like i remember that was like the first time like we saw like other people having sex like i'm like oh my god like we're like babe like look there's people fucking over there like oh my god, oh my God, look over there.

There's more people fucking over here. Yeah, there's people everywhere. But they had like a little dance floor and like a DJ from what I remember. And then you like walk down this dark hallway, but then there's all these different like playrooms. And each playroom had their own bed, had a window, and obviously had a door.

But it had like the curtains on the the windows like you could leave the curtains open if you wanted to you could leave the door open if you wanted people to come in um you could shut the door if you wanted yeah you could shut the door and have total privacy or you could there was a chain yeah there was a chain to where you could leave the door open so that way then people could see in but they weren't allowed to come in yeah essentially so like I had like different like levels of like when you walk by a room like how you could kind of read the room of whether or not you like people wanted you to come in or watch or whatever and they probably had like a dozen or so of those down the hallway and then they had like a big like group like orgy room that had like multiple beds all the way in the back there was like giant movie screens obviously like playing porn everywhere um they i remember they had like the female glory holes and they had like the male glory holes i'm pretty sure like they had like the little um whatever the the sex machines like the or fuck machines whatever you want to call it i'm pretty sure they had like one or two of those and then they had like its own like shower with like it was just kind of open like you could just go in there like it wasn't like men's or women's like you could just go in there and if you wanted to go fuck in the shower you could just go fuck in the shower you could just do whatever and of course I'm like I'm a little bit of a germaphobe a little bit yeah maybe just more than a little bit and I'm like is this like clean like I'm weird so um we we were almost done I think they walked us to the last place, um, which was rooms that like all had doors on them and you had to do a signup sheet.

Yeah. Yeah. Like you like assign like certain, like what was it? An hour or 30 minutes or something? It was an hour. You had an hour in the room. Yeah.

You could like pick your time slots and there might've been like five or six different rooms back there um and it's like okay like i want to go play at like 11 o'clock so let me go sign up my name like i want to reserve a room like it's like call ahead seating for like a restaurant or something like i'm gonna fuck at 11 o'clock kind of thing yeah and i kind of thought that was super strange it was different yeah it was it was i mean obviously we didn't know because that was the first time we'd ever been to a club um so we after we saw that like we started walking started walking back up to the front and i remember somebody some guy when we were walking by in our line like tapped me on the on the shoulder and was like take that off take that off and he was telling me to take off my glow band so that I didn't look like a newbie and immediately I was like like I don't like I just got like a cringy feeling because I don't know maybe I didn't want him to touch me like I don't know well it was a lot to handle the first time going in there it was it was really overwhelming you know you think about like swinger clubs and stuff like that and you know imagining what's going on in there is completely different than actually what you see like seeing it in person is like literally can be mind-blowing and I think that's what it was it was almost like we were like like overloaded yeah with like all these different images and like you know it's like we watch porn together so it wasn't anything new right but at the same time it was very kind of it could be overwhelming yeah so after we went through the little the tour the people that we were meeting ended up being in the next tour group yeah so we never actually got to meet up and you know hang out with them like we hoped for yeah um and we kind of stood off to the side afterwards kind of like we got back in the big room it's like a little corner like yeah we were just like look like i'm like do we leave like do we stand here like what do we do i feel like we're kind of almost waiting for them to go through with the tour and then we had another couple come up and talk to us and introduce themselves yeah to us um and they're like hey like you know you want to go sit down like we can hang out whatnot and then like we were totally cool with that i'm pretty sure we thought they were both attractive and from what i remember yeah and then i can't remember how the other couple came in or i think we were just sitting at our little cafeteria table yeah and then this other couple just appeared and they're like oh like this is the other couple we're going to hang out with and but they didn't say anything about it until like they came up and we're like right oh shit like are we okay with this like what do we say what do we do i don't want to get up and leave because i don't want them to think well like oh well they're attracted to us but they weren't attracted like attracted to the other couple so we just like sit there and we go along with it and then we're like all right like let's go to a room and then we had to like I remember us like standing there like you're like are you okay with us like you're okay with this like yeah like I'm good like we're we're okay with everything like you know we were obviously like anal and stuff like that like we had like small little boundaries but like this was going to be our like first time like we were going to full swap yeah like this like this was it like it was like it was going to happen yeah so when we went back there to go to a room because obviously by that point we had been talking and flirting and like we were ready to go well they're like we don't have a spot for what was it like an hour maybe might even been two hours yeah because we stood back there for a while and waited so like the anticipation we're like okay well they booked us a room at i don't know i think it was like 12 o'clock or something like that so we waited and waited and waited for a while and then they're just like all right your room's ready yeah and they're like we'll knock on the door five minutes left and we just go in there and we're just like all right like is every like what's just a real quick like are you okay with this you okay with this like um are we good with this and it was just like full force from there yeah um so of course we ended up going in there with both couples yeah since i guess we didn't want to say anything um not that the other couple was unattractive we did not that they were unattractive we just didn't like vibe with them the way that we vibed with the other couple um so we go in there and it's just like i think we started with each other probably that's usually how we always yeah that's really how we do we start with each other and then like we they knew each other better like they were friends like they hung out and stuff like that so i'm pretty sure they kind of started swapping beforehand yeah or like you know in the beginning yeah before we did like we started with each other and then you know and that made it more awkward I feel like because they already knew each other and we were just like what do we do like like we didn't want to be the first ones to make the moves we were like waiting for them to do it and then I think we did yeah I don't remember exactly I mean it was it happened just like that I remember that was the first time that I ever experienced performance anxiety and I never knew that that was a thing like I'm thinking to myself I'm not even 30 years old why can't why can't i get it up kind of thing yes and it was hard because like well it wasn't hard actually the situation was hard because it's like okay like do we just get up and leave like yeah do We like leave like or like i don't want to make it a bad experience for you like if she's enjoying it but then also like i don't want the other woman to think that like she's not doing something right kind of thing or like you're not attracted to her yeah i mean all these things are still true to this day that people have problems with and i just never knew that that was the thing like i didn't i didn't think that you know 30 year olds took viagra yeah i didn't i i mean i didn't know i didn't know that was a thing um i wish i would have known that was a thing so we stayed in the room for the entire time yeah I did do something with the other two guys um I mean I still continue to do stuff with the women like yeah you know I went I you know went down on them they went down on me obviously it was like a you know a gummy worm but you know it wasn't it wasn't a bad experience it was definitely a learning experience for sure yeah for sure um so once our knocked on the door time's up we go out like we get dressed and then I'm pretty pretty sure we just left I don't think we said anything to anybody I think we just got in the car and left we're like um peace out yeah gone yeah i mean and then um it was a really bad car ride home it was yeah it was it's it's when you're not talking to each other and like an hour and a half is a really long ride home um so i don't feel like you i'm pretty sure i was falling asleep it was like 1 a.m in the morning probably maybe later um like i was falling asleep and you were just all in your feels over there because you know you couldn't yeah because i had a bunch of feelings of like you know what's wrong with me like why can't i do this you know i have no problem getting hard anywhere with you right so what's what's going on i didn't think to myself like hey like maybe it was just the situation you're in you had so many thoughts the blood was going to this head and not that head kind of thing like and also keep in mind like this was would have been the first time that you would have fucked another woman besides me so I'm sure that like had your mind racing too um so it was a really bad car ride home yeah um but I feel like the next day or maybe even that night after we get home you started doing research and everything on that and just realized that performance anxiety is real like it is very much a thing and you like we didn't realize how many people in the lifestyle or in the content world both of them um either took viagra or siatlas or whatever it is or like even used a shot yeah and so that was you're new to this yes do not feel ashamed if you have to take something because 99.9 percent of guys out there all take something yes if they tell you they don't they're probably they're probably fucking lying yeah probably not telling you the truth yeah um so yes guys it's it's really good for a woman to fake yeah fake that obviously guys cannot just put your honestly just put your pride to the side and take something i mean like i said i've i've done the blue chew i've done the you know the regular viagra i've done you know cialis you know now i take trimex just because now you know i i don't want the woman to feel like I'm not attracted or, you know, turned on and for them to be able to enjoy themselves because obviously I don't know what a woman goes through, but I'm sure if you're going down and you're like, why isn't he getting hard?

Is it something I'm doing? Am I doing something right? Am I not attractive enough?

You know, and so all those things I'm sure go through a woman's head so put your pride to the side take something get a heart on and just have a good time yeah don't think about it then you can think about you it'll be fun for her like it's just fun for everybody then yeah um so definitely don't be ashamed happens to everybody at some point whether they want to admit it or not yeah and the ones that say that it hasn't happened to them they're lying and they're just their egos in their way yep for sure yeah or they take something and then then you know oh no i don't take anything and it's like all right like you keep telling yourself that yeah um so i, I mean, it definitely, well, let's go back.

Because after we left, had the ride home, like, never ended up seeing that couple again other than in passing. We talked to them through Snap a little bit after that. And then it kind of just, like. Kind of went over.

I think, I'm pretty sure he's still on my snapchat to this day i'm pretty sure she is too i think um but it just never happened yeah and that's okay and that's okay like that happens if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen um so definitely the first club was a learning experience yeah for sure um I think that we talked about going back um we never did but this was kind of this was probably 2020 2021 so in the middle of COVID when we're supposed to be socially distancing yes like we're we did a great job of that and I think we talked about going back and then not too long after got after that the club actually closed yeah so obviously we didn't go back after that so as far as my knowledge is it's still not a thing anymore yeah i think they talked about trying to reopen in a different location or something like that we did.

We've heard that for years. But I don't think they ever actually opened back up. Yeah. So I think it's still just a thing of the past. Yeah. I probably wouldn't travel very far to go there. Like maybe hour, hour and a half tops.

If you're in the area I would say maybe yeah like when it was open you know a lot of people rant and raved about it but also at the same time like if that's the only place you've been to there's you don't have anything else to compare it to yeah I do remember I forgot to say this I do remember I went in I can't remember what the theme was I went in there with pretty much like Daisy Dukes and a tank top on and cowboy boots. I don't know why I didn't have socks on. I don't remember why. I don't know. It's just so not me. But I didn't have socks on and I refused to take my shoes off.

Like there's my germaphobe coming up. Yeah. But I didn't take my shoes off the entire time. I just, my feet hurt so bad yeah but i didn't take my shoes off the entire time i just my feet hurt so bad but i would not take my shoes off um so it definitely wasn't on the top of the clean schedule but overall it wasn't a bad club it just maybe wasn't exactly our cup of tea yeah okay so enough about that club about that club. Yeah. That was our first club experience. And now we will talk about our second club experience, which was trapeze in Atlanta, Georgia. Yeah. Loved it. Yeah. Loved it.

Great club.

So we trying to remember how we found out about it yes so this is kind of like a little bit of a story that's going to be on a future episode so we have to kind of like jump forward and then jump back kind of but you know we're on tiktok started getting on swing talk and then we started you know finding all the other swing talk people as well and they were going to trapeze as well and we had started talking to some of them so we're like you know what bucket let's just go it was like six hours let's just go down there for one night and then drive back i know that sounds probably crazy to people that are listening to this like why would you drive six hours just for one night but 100 we've done it again we did and you know it's totally worth it 100 but anyways you know we had been started talking to them saturday night they kind of had like this little like mini takeover maybe like there was like a handful of like the swing talk people there we had talked to like one or two of the couples and kind of got introduced to everybody else there yes but you know trapeze is an amazing club always had a great experience there super clean yes super nice once again it's in like an old warehouse you would miss it it's not you know like trapeze like it's literally on like some like back road in this industrial park it just looks like a brick building that's it but on the inside it looks amazing yeah it's super nice on the inside so you i would say like we'll start with like walking into the door um well if you're if you're planning on going down there there's nowhere to stay within walking distance correct you have to get a hotel a couple miles away and you know just drive there or uber there whatever yeah it may be um they do have la parking if you decide they do have that we used that the last time we went there um so when you go in the front door it's it's like a sectioned off room yeah um almost kind of like a office I guess you could say like a little waiting room reception area yeah so you go in there's like a couple computers and whatnot like because you have to sign up if you're not already signed up you have to become like a member like we said before about ykw you know you have to put in like information and stuff like that so you go in there and this one is um byob as well they actually once you sign up and go in and you pay you get your little wristband i think they give you a wristband yeah you get a wristband and it's got a number on it and then they tag all your alcohol with the same number so when you go up to the bar later and you want to drink you can just tell them your number and then they know where to get it from yeah so that way like you're if you have cans like your drinks stay in the fridge, so they're cold.

Or you can take liquor and they have mixers. They don't charge you for those. Of course, you want to leave a tip when you're in there. But that part's really nice. I really like the BYOB. I feel like that's really convenient, especially because then you have your drink of choice, especially when you're picky about what you drink.

you have your drink of choice especially when you're picky about what you drink you have your drink of choice so once you go through the reception waiting area you walk in you immediately can see the buffet of food that they have um love it it's like you know you pass the dance club to go to the buffet like you went around like as soon as you walk around the little walk there's a wall there yeah a little half wall okay so you walk in the dance floor is to your left um and the buffet is to your right i have like a big l-shaped bar that you know is on one corner with a bunch of like pretty sure there's like some high top tables and just regular tables as well yeah over there um so lots of seating near the bar um and near the buffet of course and then because you know obviously somebody wants to talk about food so they have what is it until midnight they have regular food like dinner foods and stuff like that like finger foods like fruit and snacks and stuff like that but they have like full-on like plates like they have somebody like carping meat and like sides and stuff like that like meat potatoes vegetables like you can go in there and get you a whole meal yes but don't i wouldn't suggest eating a whole lot you know yeah um so the food there is great like i don't even i'm pretty sure it changes like every night like they have different like it's not the same thing like if you go there friday night saturday night like it's not gonna be the same thing i'm pretty sure it changes yeah i'm pretty sure it does well we didn't know that when we first went first time we had no idea so we went to like firehouse subs before yeah um great like best most awful thing to eat like let's eat a sub so we can be super you know bloated before we go um so the buffet was great and then the dance floor is really cool there's like the dance floor and then there's a little step up and there's there's almost like a little elevated kind of seating area above that yeah that kind of overlooks the dance floor as well they're kind of like little like booths almost no there's no booth not booths like this style of seating oh it's like a big like long it's like a long like bench yeah across both sides of the wall with like you know like little ottomans or whatever you can sit on little whatever little chair like not chairs little tables like put your drinks on and stuff like that too um so and there's like a stripper pole there yeah right in the middle of dance floor there was a lot of people there a bunch of 80s porn 90s porn playing gotta have the porn playing in the club um so right off the bat like super nice super clean yeah like you know carpeted floors hardwood floor like it's just a very clean and like and almost like when you walk in it feels like a small just club you know there's no beds or anything like that out there.

So soon as you walk in it's not gonna be like bam fucking right there yeah so it's it's more of just like if you don't go anywhere else in there it's just like you're going to a club for the night you can you can play up around there but it's not like there's a bunch of people playing there right throughout the night and it was earlier in the night when we got there too so i'm pretty sure we got there like as soon as it opened like yeah it was something like that yeah it was early um so we go in there we get there we meet a bunch of the swing talk people we meet the um couples that we had been talking to but one of them actually gave us a ride because they were staying like in the hotel like hotel, like, next to us.

And that's actually, we talked about it on their podcast. That's when we met Ash and Russ. That is when we met them. We rode with, or they got picked up, just like we got picked up. And we all rode together, and that's how, what is she, like? She, like, sat on my lap or something. See, that's the greatest way to meet a new person. Hey, I'm, my name's so-and-so. I'm going to sit on your lap for right now. But that was like meeting those people, like meeting them and the other couple that we met, just super nice people right off the bat.

Like, I mean, somebody we never met was like, we had talked talked to them online but some couple we've never met in person's like hey do you want me to give you a ride like you know we're going to the same place um so I thought that was that was super sweet yeah um so we go we meet everybody we dance um pretty sure that it was somebody's birthday wasn't it because there was a cake i don't remember whose birthday it was was it lazy's birthday no no because that was in march when we went oh yeah yeah um it was it was somebody in that swing talk group it was um dallas okay it was dallas's birthday yeah because she got a bunch of like birthday spankings she did she got a bunch of birthday spankings and then um that was the first time i ever made out with dallas yeah I think she was the only girl that I made out with while we were there probably not but go on um so we had a great time on the dance floor um and just danced with each other danced with some other people and i'm pretty sure i made out with one of the guys we had been talking to um there um i don't whatever um no that was we met ash and beau there we did we.

We did. We met them there and Dallas and Brandon. Obviously, we met Dan and Lacey there. And, oh, I remember, why do we remember the birthday cake? We remember the birthday cake because somebody is just, like, walking by, like, hey, do you guys want some cake?

and, like, they weren't talking like, hey, here's a plate walking by like hey do you guys want some cake and like they weren't talking like hey here's a plate or like a napkin let me have some cake yeah it's like hey I'm gonna put this cake on your pussy and like you you eat it um so yeah I like got cake put on my pussy and then he ate it off and then that was when i made out with dallas but you were um eating cake off cake off of me um so we had a good time we danced and stuff like that um i think they all left to go back to where they were staying no at a certain time i think everybody went back to the diamond club so there's another separate portion of trapeze called the diamond club yes and you have to have a membership for that or you have to have somebody that has a membership bring you back or you have to get there like before you know or right when the club opens and they release so many like extra memberships just for the night yeah but we never got to experience that part of it not that night no um so we're like okay well let's go see what the regular like the playroom up front is about so the playroom in the front you have to be completely naked we have to be completely naked you can cover up in a towel but i think women can wear lingerie okay i don't think that i i don't remember if i had lingerie i think we just covered up in a towel yeah so we covered up in a towel we walk in we like i don't know i don't even think we walked all the way in i think we took like a couple steps in we stepped in and like made like a circle around but it was mostly like there were a few people playing but there was a lot of people just sitting around waiting for something to happen and then it was like poof yeah let's jump in real quick everybody sit around like staring and i'm like okay that's enough i've seen enough like let's go we just walked in walked around and we're like all right let's go get dressed let's put our clothes back on so we walked back out and like we didn't want to leave yet no plus we were the couple that we came with that gave us a ride i think they were back in the diamond club true so we were waiting for them yeah we're still kind of hanging out waiting um so we're like well let's just do something with each other yeah so like there was like a little like private not really private but kind of secluded it was a little darker like area above the dance floor almost and we just played there we just played with each other and we um that was like our first time playing in front of well no because we had played with other people before but that was the first time us playing together where somebody could watch in a club essentially yes so we just put on a show for whoever wanted to watch and we had a great time but we had breakfast we did yeah because at midnight yes the buffet changes over yeah how are you gonna forget the biscuits and gravy yes um the tater tots with the gravy on top they had like bacon and sausage and so you can go in there you can eat dinner party fuck and then come out and eat again and if you want to fuck again you can't do that but by then i was i was like we fucked yeah we ate we checked off all the boxes yeah she got sausage and then she got regular sausage so she's ready to go um so i feel like after after that we went back to it was probably like one two or so in the morning maybe i think we went back to our hotel room yeah and but when we met everybody there everyone was like you have only fans you have only fans and we didn't have one we joked about it all the time I don't know.

and but when we met everybody there everyone was like you have only fans you have only fans and we didn't have one we joked about it all the time well when we were introduced people were introducing themselves to us they were introducing themselves as their tiktok name yeah and i'm like oh mine's just like ashley like 1991 yeah it was just some generic at that time we used tick tock we had started doing some like swinger stuff like we started using some like swinger hashtags or whatever but we'll get to that within another episode but we didn't we didn't create a name for ourselves like we didn't you know mine was dirty max because i drove a duramax and that was Like, you know, that username for years before this so it just kind of just stuck it's still here today even though you don't drive a duramax anymore and so yeah everybody's like oh my god you don't have an only fans you don't have an only fans start one yeah they're like you're hot like you guys need to start one and i'm like we had joked about it yeah we joked about it for a long time yeah like you even had stickers on your side by side that said only fans and yeah just act like it was like you know that's how we paid for it yeah funded by only fans was you know his side by side and i'm like we i like let's let's think about it babe, we should think about this.

I don't think we thought about it for very long. We didn't. We definitely didn't think about it for very long. Um, but we'll go into that in our next episode. But overall. But that's where the NC Hot Wife name came.

Because before we left from Atlanta in the next next morning we switched all your stuff to nc hot wife and that's that was the day that the nc hot wife name was created and here we are today we didn't think anything about it we were like oh we're from north carolina you know she's hot and she's my wife kind of thing so nc hot wife which i knew what a hot wife was but i didn't really connect the dots at the time i did not i don't think i did no you probably like i didn't know i was super naive i didn't know what a hot wife was i just was like i'm his wife i'm hot we live in north carolina cool like let's go for it so that's where it came from yeah that's where we started and now we're here today yeah and we don't even live in North Carolina anymore um but hands down to this day um we've been back to trapeze twice yeah two times after that since then um still our favorite club hands down oh yeah sure um I won't say we've been to a ton of clubs but definitely hands down favorite club we'll definitely go back it is a good hike for us to get there but we'll definitely go back for sure um so if you're in Atlanta definitely I mean yeah you don't even have to be in Atlanta because we drive six hours to go to Atlanta we do so if you're looking for a good club to go to for the weekend I mean we we've been and just stayed in the city and drove it was what like 20 minutes yeah outside of alana yeah we stayed in the city um make a weekend out of it and yeah just go have fun you can experience friday night and saturday night we haven't been on a friday no we did go on a friday night we did we that later.

But yeah, we did. We did. But it was a great time. We went for an anniversary this past time. But no, great club. If you're looking for a good club to go to, that's definitely a good one. I feel like some people say it's expensive. It is, but you pay for what you get. You get what you pay for. That's the same thing, though. You pay for what you get.

You get what you pay for pay for i mean like you can go in there and eat dinner and then you know eat breakfast and talk and like meals all of the things so we think it's very much well worth the money yeah um great club if you're looking for one definitely look that one up there also is one in fort Lauderdale yeah we have not been to that one we hear it's great as well and so if you want to look those up absolutely yep go look those up and overall we had a great experience no negative or it was a great weekend sad things no learning experiences from that no no all right guys i think we're good yeah all right well that was a lot to talk about that was yeah that was a lot all right thank you guys for listening yep we are nc hot wife and dirty max and we'll catch you next time bye bye