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The simply answer is that they are only looking for other bi couples. So they either want to play m/m and f/f or they want to enjoy playing with both m and f at the same time. Which would mean that they are not interested in singles m or f…
Wayne really, not statistically possible, in a state with 40 million people plus Las Vegas and Reno (by the way, Nevada is open) you think that not one event is being held on a sat or sun. You just don't, or don't want to, get it. Yes, we…
Wayne, The hot dates calendar does not show anything for sat, sun and mon( statistically impossible) for ALL large cities in CA, i.e. LA, San Diego, San Francisco, sacramento, fresno, Las Vegas, and reno, etc(all within 500 miles of us). M…
@ Wayne, the work around that you suggest does not work. We are within 500 miles of every major city in CA., Las Vegas and Reno. When we change the distance to 500 miles, it shows nothing on Sat, Sun, and Mon. So you can not say that it is…
They did this so that they can implement hot dates on the app. If you look at the app it now has a hot dates section and it looks like the hot dates section the website. And the pictures are censored and say, "Sexually suggestive content n…
I am going to take a guess that this was done to implement hot dates on the app. I just checked and now the app has hot dates. This makes sense because the way it appears on the website is the same way it appears on the app. So it seems th…
I had a post deleted also( How childish ). Apparently, you can not voice an opinion about this site unless it is all roses. All I did was point out that the update makes it harder for people to connect. I gave an example that if someone is…
Also, and I don't know if SLS admins are aware, the block feature does NOT work at all on the new app. Every profile that you have blocked is viewable on the app and thus makes you viewable to them as well. This is an issue that needs to b…
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Yes, like the message we got yesterday that said,"Hey". I looked at it and ignored it because of the lack of content. Then get a message from the same person today that says, "Sorry I missed you earlier". You didn't miss me, I am not answe…
If the "Instant" Messaging system is for communicating with people in real time. What are we supposed to use for contacting people that are currently offline? An IM system is not useful for this situation. Yes, you can send an IM to someon…
First, this will be my last reply to this because, as I said earlier, " Sadly, I know that some of you still believe that you are being short changed by free members not being able to answer your email and no matter how anyone explains it…
It was not like this when we joined either, and frankly I was shocked that free members did have so much access without paying. We are, as are most other paying members, glad about this change. Saying that people should be able to check ou…
I don't get why it is so hard to understand that you ARE getting what YOU paid for. Read the TOS. It says,"Free Members do not have access to view the full text of messages sent by other Members or to communicate with any other Member." Co…
A better profile AND a picture are exactly what you need. There is no good reason you couldn't have a photo not showing your face in public and face pics in private. If you are worried about someone seeing your private photo and recognizin…
@Hope, you should list as BI then and you might just get more of what you are looking for. -Beast
Add to it that we are getting IM messages at times the we are not even on the site. So, this makes it look like we are ignoring and being rude to people. Also, management seems to refuse to answer the question, that has been ask several ti…
We have found this to be somewhat true. In our experience, the guys that list as BI are truly BI. It is the guys that list as straight and when contacting us, say that they are bi, are the ones that are not really BI and just trying to get…
While it is correct that free members used to have much more access(SLS has now fixed this issue), that does not change the fact that they are non paying "members" and do not get the same benefits . Paying members, by default, also benefit…
No, what we all paid for is to contact other members of SLS. Again, "free members" are not technically members of SLS. A "free membership" is only for people to come and look at the site to decide if they want to become members, not(as the…
People need to stop saying that they PAID to contact free members. No we did not. We paid to contact SLS members and free members are not technically members of SLS(only paid members are). If you go to Sam's club you can go inside and look…
I agree with Billnsuzie. You acknowledge, in you email to them that, "I know you all are not sure on single guys but". This is the classic, "but, I am different/better than all those other single males and I can change your mind.", scenari…
Ha Ha. Wrong again(not surprising)! You just know everything about everyone and everything, that's rich. Yeah, sorry, no solar panels here. So, your narrative that we received free solar panels and that we are ripping off the taxpayers if…
That's funny, I just paid our electric bill and it was only $57 for the whole month. Which is actually cheaper than what we paid when we lived in MI.
Just get rid of free members/memberships all together and no one will have this problem. Add a 2 week, paid, trial membership to the options available, then every profile on SLS will have the same abilities to contact and reply to others.…
First thing you should do is list yourself as bi-curious. This will bring you more attention for what you are looking for. Then do a search for bi males and couples in your area and post in the hot date section. -Beast
Or, perhaps the reason you flunked is that you don't know the difference between browsers(feeds on leaves, soft shoots, or fruits of high-growing, generally woody, plants such as shrubs), and grazers( feeding on grass or other low vegetati…
I absolutely agree that people should be honest, whether it is orientation, marital status, etc. And, yes this is the place to discuss lying about your orientation. The other day we were contacted by a SM that listed as st8 and said that h…
My apology for lack of signature. You are speaking to Wife. I confess I do not remember MsMolly making that statement. I do confess, I am not committing much of this forum discussion to memory. However! To make up for that failing, I did t…
LOL. So, treating a woman like a goddess is calling her a lesbian after she proposes a capable disagreement. Got it.
"It appears alot of swingers are against bi males playing with them both" Yes, this is correct! A straight male may not want to play with a bi male, nor does he want to be surprised by it, whether it be a sneak attack (a guy trying to touc…
The first thing you should do is be honest and change your orientation from straight to bi. There are bi/bi couples, like ourselves, that will pass by your profile, when looking. We would also say thanks but, no thanks if you sent us an e-…
Also, they should make free members become paid after 30 days, or delete the accounts. This would cut down on those with ulterior motives, because there would be a traceable record(credit card) for all paid members.
I find it interesting that they have deleted emails, forums, chat rooms and IM's; yet they still have front page advertising for swinger cruises and travel. You would think that that would be more of an issue, with FOSTA, than people commu…
The answer is simple; They DO NOT want to play with single guys (bi or st8), the same as if the male half is st8. Just because the male half is bi does not change this tiny but, important, fact. If someone doesn't want to play with you, fo…
What fun! Are we going to wax poetic over OCR now, gentlemen?
Thank you for the discussion; an interesting read.
With the right stimulation, I have full vaginal orgasms. They leave me 'twitchy' for quite some time after the event. Missionary is my favorite position for vaginal orgasm because the weight of his body presses into my tummy and intensifie…
