Bad experiences .

Lol

Sometimes, I want a better view of a trainwreck.

I hear ya, mam.

But honestly, it's very rare that we even look at the profile from the emails we get any more. The emails themselves are uninviting enough. Lol

Tramp

Yes! I've seen a lot of posts with the sentiment of
"are you fucking kidding me? Do people not fucking read fucking profiles? " Nope. They don't.

You onow, Ms Maghoy, I don't think you're alone at all.

The truth is, very, very few people seem to read profiles with effort, and even fewer seem to write them with the same.

Our profile use to be twice as long as it currently is, and it even specified that we no longer make personsl meet & greet dates. Did it alter our email? Nada. Lol

So, I shortened it quite a bit, developed my standard "thanks for callin', but we are busy that weekend" reply....and wah lah, problem addressed.

We just go to events, clubs, etc when we're in the mood for an adventure, and it works great.

Tramp

I was going back and forth with this dude and he comes out with
"will you call me daddy and let me tie you up and call you a slut, whore and all sorts of things? he was also about 5 years younger. I can see how people could easily throw their hands up and give up on all the BS you run into here. But the vanilla world also have their fair share of people who play games and like to fuck with people's heads.
I about died laughing. Pretty sure my neighbors could hear me laughing. Nope.
Apparently he did not read my profile! Wtf'ness, people?

I certainly can't argue against that. Lol

Tramp

There are definitely a lot of jackasses, dumbasses and quite a few douchebags.
My problem is getting some guys with short profiles to simply answer basic questions! Sorry, but a picture and profession isn't going to be enough for me to decide on drinks. Who has time to set up drinks on the regular just to find out "wow, if you read my profile, you'd know this would never work" it's a waste of time! "isn't that better discussed over drinks?" probably not!

I have been lucky! All my experiences have been good ones

Interesting, Georgia...

So, I've got a question for you. If you ate a bad meal last night, and it made you sick, how long would you back away from eating?

I get why you'd have no further use for the couple who had the jackass husband. What I'm failing to understand is what this has to do with the lifestyle in general, or your future participation in it.

Did you seriously think that you'd never meet a jackass here? This guy won't be the last one either, but you'll still run across jackasses whether you stay around swinging or not.

If fact, I'll go ahead and warn you that there are quite a few dumbasses too...I happen to belong to this latter group.

Dumbasses and jackasses are related (I think), but there are notable differences. Those of us who know that we're dumbasses are realative harmless. Those who do not know...not so much. Lol

Tramp

Wise move on your part to distance yourself from that particular couple.

Hey I got a question for the single guys and ladies. How do you handle a very bad experience? Usually I just let it roll off my back but this husband was extremely rude and mean. Wife was completely embarrassed and humiliated over his behavior. I was just wondering...I'm stepping back and taking a break for a while...