Is swinging cheating?

@R& K: Exactly! The mentality & hypocrisy in the vanilla world is laughable. We have great sex together & swinging has only enhanced it even more!

"Is swinging cheating?"

Nope.

First its no ones business, second its NOT cheating, its swinging together, alone and adding to ones sex life which improves ones overall attitude on all of life's pleasure..

Trues story, working in south Florida had several guys on squad that were cheating on the wife regularly, asked why, they came up with excuse about wanting mores sex, something different, etc .. I said in detail okay, so if your wife wanted more sex, different kinds of sex, different people , you would be okay with that.. there answer OH HELL NO.. I said what's the difference if she goes out vs you.

I told them about swinging and the benefits a real marriage with communication, love , etc have.. they all said Oh I cant let my wife have sex with anyone else.. Hypocrisy at its best!

We have been select swingers well over 25 years now.. and people cannot believe how much our love shows daily for each other , admiration, nice things we do daily for each other.. It works folks if you do it right!

How can anyone think that swinging is cheating.We have never had sex with anyone unless both of us was there.Also there has been times I have had sex with someone when my husband is out of town but I always get his approval and he always will know who it is.

We don't tell our vanilla friends what we do. It's not cheating. Some in the vanilla world may think it is but if you & your spouse are in it together, it's just sex between consenting adults.

I think I would explain to the person that as a couple we have had considerable discussion regarding the lifestyle and our desires and that we both are very trusting and comfortable with each other enjoying the sexual pleasures life has to offer. If they don't like it that is their problem.

How would you respond to someone that you consider a close friend and they’re aware of your “activities” in the lifestyle when they say “y’all just cheating on each other”?