Watching

When I was young and wife alive. we had many house parties that did include some watchers.. My wife love to be watched..

A couple traveled in town and contacted me and wanted me to come to their hotel room and get naked and stroke myself while I watch them have sex and take pictures of them . A little different, a little odd, a little quirky, but a lot of fun!

We absolutely love to be seen and be voyuers.....hit us up if u are near and wanna plan an outing!

Just to be clear, there are hotel parties that are held in 1 or 2 bedroom suites and hotel takeover parties where everyone has their own room plus perhaps a public room or 2. Obviously the hotel takeovers are fine for just watching, if that's what floats your boat.

The hotel parties in the 1 or 2 bedroom suites are a different story. These are typically for more advanced players and the expectation is that you're going with the intention of playing. Otherwise, you're taking up the limited space that could have been someone else to play with. You can maybe get away with going and watching one time just to get a feel for it but if you return and do the same thing you'll likely not be allowed back and the other guests will not be happy with you.

We find it very HOT to be watched. As Mayhem knows, we like the OPEN room :) Even better if it is us +4 or more in there. We like to watch as well. I can watch her fucking one guy, sucking another, and she can watch me pleasing a lady while being pleased. Just make sure to change condoms when changing partners.

At Hotel take overs, the play room open too late like 1:30am. So we bring a couple or 2 back to our room, and keep the door open, and the lights on. We will get watchers, and participants :)

If we wanted to have sex behind a closed door, we would stay home.

For house parties, if someone is in a public room playing where private ones are available or in a private room playing with the door open, it's probably safe to assume they don't mind and may even want to be watched.

There is a difference between watching and being in your face about it. Coming right up to the edge of a bed, especially with your dick out is NOT watching.

Generally, private room house party rules are nobody is allowed into the room unless invited, whether the door is open or not.

For smaller hotel parties, we personally don't think it's cool to attend just to watch. These parties usually have very limited space for the number of attendees and it's likely all of the attendees would prefer people that are participating over ones just there to watch.

Not that people will read it, but if you're a voyeur-only and you're RSVPing to a party where others can see your profile, it's not a bad idea to specify that in your profile.

I do enjoy watching IF THAT’S THOSE PLAYING DESIRE. I enjoyed being an audience if that’s what they are looking for. If they want to see me enjoying myself that’s fine, if they want me to join in that might happen. But if they just enjoy putting on a show while I am enjoying it myself what’s the harm? It is all about erotic fun filled adventures.

I used to think it was weird and sort of irritating seeing guys jerking off while watching us, but it's all perspective. What changed my mind? Seeing a girl rubbing her pussy while watching me fuck another girl ;-)

in a nutshell this is us, but we don't just sit there. We like to perform and to be watched.

We go to nudist resorts that hold swinger events, just because we are naked not once did it make anyone more apt to play... neither does booze...

Yeah it was double ewwwwww

Ewwwww

Yeah I know what you mean.
One Friday we walked into the playrooms, it was packed on a 'lite' night. There were two couples in the middle of blowies and some old dude walks over sits by them, whips it out and starts jerking and smacking it around (literally) while turning back to watch the ladies. It was so creepy.

Another Newark guy here. I spent my summers at Dickie Dee's and Frank's pizza on Bloomfield Ave.

Watching and being watched is a huge turn on for us. But it has to be couples only. SMs watching and jerking off just seems creepy.

I grew up in Newark as well.

We used to go to OC every Mother's day weekend for a street hockey tournament in Egg Harbor. Always a blast!! Great area too.

Hmmmmm sounds great. Some pork roll egg and cheese on a Portuguese roll sounds delish.
We actually aren't too far from OC ( my kids soccer team trains/plays 15 minutes from there).

Fokkers:

Being that my wife is a "Jersey Girl" (born in Newark), we should probably head down to Ocean City NJ, and get some Taylor Ham :) :)

You guys would be fun to party with :)

I understand the disrespect thing. That's why I will cum in my condom. It happened to my wife once, where I thought she didn't like it. She said it felt a little degrading, but it was HOT (to her) at the same time. And it was hot to see her face covered in my cum as well as another guys.

Its a time/place thing.

I go out of my way to ALWAYS treat a lady with respect.

Hey I had just witnessed a FMF, 3 girls riding a Sybian, was getting a blowie and the other Mrs. looked pretty amazing but wanted nothing to do with anything..... a man can only take so much.

"You can't play with my toys if I can't play with yours."

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Bad Fokker.... ;^[

Tramp

Totally agree but it just felt weird in this situation. There almost seemed to be a 'disrespect' in the tone he said it.

Folkers:

Oh, but it IS hot!!! If HE is cumming on your wife, while you are playing with your wife...... OMG!! Still hot. Plus HER satisfaction that she was able to make the guy cum. Well, She just fucks me harder because she CAN.

However, I must say I would really, REALLY like to taste the pussy of another woman.

We love too watch and be watched. We did run into a couple last time at the club likes to just watch and play with themselves but he was all up for wanting to cum over the Mrs F while his partner watched. I didn't think that was cool. You can't play with my toys if I can't play with yours.

Soft swapping seems to ideal for those who likes to watch and to be watched. We love to put on a show. Its hot for us....hope it hot for our gracious audience. We also like to turn the stage over to watchees and we can be their fans.