Watching

Yes they are couples that go to clubs just to watch and when they get home they have hot sex it's like watching porn but you're right there. Also some couples start out this way.

We're the same as 'desertfriends2'..
But we also like sharing a bed to feel the motion

That's one of my fantasies to watch a couple. Especially when shes getting off and she creams down his cock. Amazing!

Yes, very much enjoy going to the club and watching others and being watched is very erotic and stimulating.
I enjoy playing with the wife as others watch and enjoy the show. Most men pull their cocks out and stroke while couples just watch and get stimulated. Great place to meet other like minded couples/singles.

I would love to find a woman who would go to events with me and let me watch her with other men. Seems that is the true unicorn I cannot seem to find.

We have enjoyed clubs and house partys. haven't always played with other's we love watching and being watched. I think it just depends on the mood and people in attendance, I can say we have never left unsatisfied whether we full swapped or not

we've been to swing clubs many many times and i don't think we've ever had any real intimate contact - i.e. exchanging body fluids -with anyone we met there. we go for the watch and be watched aspect. I call it simulated group sex. we've full swapped, but always with people we've gotten to know first.

my wife is just too concerned about std's to hook up and exchange body fluids (aside from a little pussy licking, now that i think about it ) with anonymous strangers.

So I'm I but I haven't found a place to play.

That's what we are into, we love watching and being watch. Its even hotter ,when we do it in public around people without getting caught. Some of our road trips are amazing too, because the thought of people driving next to us or parked beside us at lights, makes it even hotter. lol

The sexiest thing about it all is that we been doing this for the last 16 years since we first met. lol.

We are still rocking it at our age and I've seen even older still at it. If you're lucky, there's plenty of play time left.

As you age and you will see life passing by, you will then start thinking about getting in the action before the wrinkles and soft penis start appearing.... Best to get busy by the time you hit 40...Mary Jo

We have enjoyed watching and being watched many times at the club. Really exciting for us. To each their own but it’s what we really like. Just wish there were more in our area as well.

Yup, that's us. We love just being around of "kinkiness" watch and being watch, it is a big turn on to us.

Sure would be nice to find some local couples with the same interest only! Vanilla with a slight swirl...lol.

@Blue,

I would strongly recommend you discuss and decide on that very clearly before you go to the club. Full swap is a plan. Soft swap is a discussion.

hello we are new to the lifestyle and we figured we would start out this way eiether at a club or with another couple then we would see how far it would go

We would prefer watch/be watched, more so on cam, but we also have gone to takeovers, theaters, temptations/ We have more just danced naked (me :-), one mild night with a gal (me), but have met lots of friends that were very respectful and we stay in contact with.

Absolutely. We do most of time unless we find a nice couple we want to play with.

my gf and I been a couple places and had sex 'people watched and let us watch them I got off big time we went to a bar in PA. she was rubbing me a couple beside us saw what she was doing and started doing it to him after a short time she had him out so we could watch great turn on ,so now we sometime go to bars and do what we call a show (we don't swap) and catch other couple doing it 2 its a great turn on

Been to house parties. Watched and performed there quite a few times. We don't swap, so this is our niche. We play online from time to time.

Yes, MikeAndTata!! There are couples out there that just like to be in the same room and watch and be watched. I wish we were a little closer. :)

Anyone from Florida that’s into just this?

@TT

Welcome to the forums.

I would suggest reading the thread fully, or perhaps re-reading it a second time. Many posters in this thread seem to be anything but "all in". As far as being comfortable in your skin when it comes to play style, I wouldn't let anyone intimidate you into believing there is a right and wrong way to set your rules and boundaries. I am constantly amazed (in a good way) at the variety of play styles that seem to work well for different couples. Be prepared for yours to evolve over time and remember, it's first and foremost about what works for the two of you.

Good luck.

I took a friend of mine to her first club a few weeks ago. She just wanted to watch other couples have sex. I swear I've never been harder in my life. We came right home and barely made it past the doorway. That was just about as hot as doing it ourselves in the club

@currentrider,
So glad you noticed and liked what you saw! We have been enjoying letting our pics speak for themselves. But boy, I do hope I still look like this by then!! ;)
~Kira