Some people/couples see something related to the lifestyle and one or both are curious.
One or both may have cold feet. Maybe one is being dragged into it. It's easier for them to no call and no show than meet in real life. It's easy online or in texts..... But following thru and watching their mate suck and fuck someone else is not easy to deal with.
Ppl get stood up in the non-lifestyle world as well.
Have you tried to nail them down to a day and time ? Maybe they feel it's open ended ?
Fair enough hotlivrs. But then why ask us if we want to meet? In every case, the last communication from them was asking if we'd be open to meeting irl. We respond "sure, let us know when you're free" or something along those lines then poof.
As an isolated incident we get it. Happens all the time. But 6 in a row is weird.
Maybe they’re really not that into you.
Welcome to the world of ghosting... The same thing happens to single males. A guy can have a wonderful conversation and when moving forward in natural progression to meet, poof! The other party disappears, is never heard from again or maybe even blocks the single male.
Couples are not the only one that experience the victimization of cold feet, never intended to meet in the first place, cheating on their partner, etc. Look at it this way, it is one less person you have to deal with. It is one less person in your way of succeeding.
We thought the same thing. But all but one of these couples have multiple certs. Tells us they've actually gone through with it before.
We get that same kind of crap all the time. I think people just like to fantasize about playing but never actually take the final step. It is such a waste of time. We have been going to a couple of different clubs and seem to have better luck meeting others to play at them.
WTF is up with all the couples reaching out, chatting, exchanging pics, saying they're interested in meeting then completely disappearing when you try to set something up?
We know it's part of the site...but there have been 6 in a row that went through that process, said they wanted to get together then became unresponsive when we said we were flexible and to give us a day and time.
"I am not offended by what I have brought to the table. But, just ask, why do people do it?"
Because they can.
People sometimes use drunkenness as an excuse for their own bad behavior.
One time at a house party a woman I had never met before came on to me and we had sex. I wouldn't have even imagined she'd been drinking at all, let alone been "drunk".
A few days later there was chatter going around that got back to me. She was there alone cheating on her husband and was blaming her drunkenness for having had sex with me, and it was being heavily implied that I took advantage of an incapacitated person.
I wasn't really worried about it since I had a zillion witnesses who could (hopefully) support what really went down, but - trouble is still trouble, and I don't like trouble. I took the whole thing as her kind of spinning a tale as a threat in the event anyone would consider spilling the beans to her husband. I never heard about her again.
I have had sex with women who are definitely drunk i.e. let's party wooooooo! - not wasted - and me myself been drunk while doing so. But this was the only instance where anyone hinted at crying foul.
Consent becomes an issue when people over-indulge as well.
There is drunk, and then there is trashed. Lapses in memory fall into that latter class. IMHO drunk people can be fun and trashed people generally are not.
If you have no memory of what you do when you drink, that is a bad sign...
If you have no memory of what you do when you drink, that is a bad sign...
Welp, one of the repeat offenders that habitually viewed my profile, has blocked me within the last three hours of this posting... The trash took itself out! Sayonara!
Now, as far as me drunk, I've been told I become flirty. But, honestly, I have no idea. I need someone to video record me one night, so I can review it after a hangover!
Melvin, combined with alcohol? Oh....boy..... Pure, unadulterated fun!
I have no idea what side of me happens when drunk, other than laughing at everything. I am in need a good drunk night!
FF&DT - I would guess LOL… I warn everyone that what Antonio does I am not responsible for… and over the years I have done some shit…
On a cruise a few years ago I almost got into a relationship with a 27 year old bi-sexual single mother who was one of our favorite bartenders. Izzy was not happy with my behavior…
@tbr, Id appreciate being in on that group text lol
"I just viewed Tbr's profile because his default picture looked like the migraine aura I get before a migraine. Turns out it must be his wife's Christmas outfit. :)"
It was actually my Christmas suit that she decided to model.
I love it when she sends me text pictures...
Lol@fokkers. Antonio the horny alter ego?
When I get hammered, Antonio comes out and the flirting really starts…
Since Christmas is over, I changed my default profile picture to align with New Year's. I also submitted a tag line change; just waiting on SLS to approve it.
I shall let the topic I brought to the table lie and rest. Unfortunately, I am unable to find an answer to the topic and will let it rest.
What say the masses for a new topic of what the fucks, for New Year's kerfuffles?
Why is it that people have to get so hammered on alcohol and start fighting, when they should just enjoy the time with the people they are with?
Isn't the whole point of making up a profile to get people to look at it?
Maybe just take it as a compliment and move on with your life.
I've got a reason...
Maybe they have clicked on your page in the past and someone changes their main pic (avatar). Said person doesn't tie the name and new pic together until they saw the profile.
Or.... As I've done in the past, scrolling thru the forum, accidentally clicked on the pic or name.
Shit happens. Wondering and worrying what about what someone online does is a complete waste of time and energy. I mean seriously, isn't there enough drama in the fora?
