Hot Wives

[quote=euphoria_awaits][quote=calcanfun2]The OP has us blocked, but we'll respond since we are a hotwife/stag/vixen/whatever couple. We've been doing this for nearly 25 years and yes, there are some bad apples. Not weeding that out is a YOU problem. So go to your parties. Make dates directly through this site and other means. Bite down and show your grit. Land on what works for you. Stop being such pussies.[/quote]We're not sure why you seem to think we blocked you because we haven't, especially considering we don't even know you. A little surprised by your post as our question was just one of curiosity. We definitely do more weeding through than most. Your post certainly took an unforeseen turn.[/quote]This is a fair response. Some weird things going on with this site now in the redevelopment and now we can see everything you've posted. Hopefully no harm no foul. We have no hate. Carry on!

" Our question, one of many, is how often do hot wives go to meet a new prospect only to feel that there is no connection?"

I probably turn down 50 guys for every one that I/we agree to meet. Of the ones we meet, I'm maybe curious enough about two out of five to be willing to try an MFM. For actual chemistry at that first meeting? Rare.

"We see and experience it all over SLS how disillusioned guys seem that this is NOT an easy path to getting laid. Maybe hot wives are expected to be into just wanting to hook-up?"

All women in the lifestyle are clearly there solely to jump on men's dicks. The notion that women who openly embrace their sexuality can be even pickier than vanilla women precisely because they embrace their own sexual needs is a constant surprise and disappointment to men. Some of whom think it should be like hiring an escort, except cheaper.

Oh yes.. after dinner and drinks then going home to have sex.. before he leaves I kiddingly say if she is hurt in anyway, well game on.

Yes they saw what I did when they visited our home.. we all laughed and had another drink to say goodbye. Its worked out well

Trust your gut feeling and never be afraid to say no thanks not a match.

The sex when she comes home is off the charts even a special over night for ones birthday. Its fantastic !

Please let us know how it goes in your journey.

[quote=RonKathy]Welcome.. so for "us" we have been doing hot wife.. or in our case stag/vixen combination. Way before on SLS while in south Florida where we swapped via word of those we knew.

We have learned a lot during all our years swinging.. well over 30 years . When we first came onto SLS.. we met those who stood us up, those who lied, were married or in a relationship where the wife or girlfriend had no idea he was on a swing site.

Those who always talked a big game on the old email or even now IM while conversing.. those who collected CERTS for just meeting and never played or even collected CERTS for chatting on an email or IM.. once we said okay lets go , lets meet they always had an excuse as to why they could not meet even though we said your choice let us know when and where.

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On a first meet we now.. meet together. Kathy would meet alone but ran into some liars, kooks and just guys who are flakes.. so we both go on a first meet. maybe a restaurant or bar to verify what you have written.. do you look like your photos on SLS, we have met a handful that look nothing like the photos. Can they host if single if not why, maybe kids at home etc.

We exchange cell number prior and always check out what they have told us.. Yes that was ones business and have plenty ways to verify if what you tell us is the truth.. For us honesty is best policy as we are here for fun times, some dancing and nice dinner and lots of great sex.. its that easy.

We have had long time FWB;s as long as 20 years , some 8 years some just a couple years.

Ones we have now are world travelers, very high profile jobs...but love to have fun and show it in their SLS profile, photos, and wording ... they place some thoughts in a complete sentence and smile .. those who dont place any effort time and thought into photos like bathroom selfies, thug look, speak volumes.. its a hard pass for us

The good ones.. well we take them on vacation, meet them while traveling and just have so much fun.. its what makes our journey exciting![/quote]RonKathy- Thanks for the feedback. As previously mentioned, we process everything that is said when conversing with interested parties and have been lucky to avoid the usual pratfalls. As we're debating wandering into the "hot wife" arena (where she meets someone on her own), this a good idea for us both to meet whomever that would be first and go from there.

[quote=calcanfun2]The OP has us blocked, but we'll respond since we are a hotwife/stag/vixen/whatever couple. We've been doing this for nearly 25 years and yes, there are some bad apples. Not weeding that out is a YOU problem. So go to your parties. Make dates directly through this site and other means. Bite down and show your grit. Land on what works for you. Stop being such pussies.[/quote]We're not sure why you seem to think we blocked you because we haven't, especially considering we don't even know you. A little surprised by your post as our question was just one of curiosity. We definitely do more weeding through than most. Your post certainly took an unforeseen turn.

The OP has us blocked, but we'll respond since we are a hotwife/stag/vixen/whatever couple. We've been doing this for nearly 25 years and yes, there are some bad apples. Not weeding that out is a YOU problem. So go to your parties. Make dates directly through this site and other means. Bite down and show your grit. Land on what works for you. Stop being such pussies.

Welcome.. so for "us" we have been doing hot wife.. or in our case stag/vixen combination. Way before on SLS while in south Florida where we swapped via word of those we knew.

We have learned a lot during all our years swinging.. well over 30 years . When we first came onto SLS.. we met those who stood us up, those who lied, were married or in a relationship where the wife or girlfriend had no idea he was on a swing site.

Those who always talked a big game on the old email or even now IM while conversing.. those who collected CERTS for just meeting and never played or even collected CERTS for chatting on an email or IM.. once we said okay lets go , lets meet they always had an excuse as to why they could not meet even though we said your choice let us know when and where.

.

On a first meet we now.. meet together. Kathy would meet alone but ran into some liars, kooks and just guys who are flakes.. so we both go on a first meet. maybe a restaurant or bar to verify what you have written.. do you look like your photos on SLS, we have met a handful that look nothing like the photos. Can they host if single if not why, maybe kids at home etc.

We exchange cell number prior and always check out what they have told us.. Yes that was ones business and have plenty ways to verify if what you tell us is the truth.. For us honesty is best policy as we are here for fun times, some dancing and nice dinner and lots of great sex.. its that easy.

We have had long time FWB;s as long as 20 years , some 8 years some just a couple years.

Ones we have now are world travelers, very high profile jobs...but love to have fun and show it in their SLS profile, photos, and wording ... they place some thoughts in a complete sentence and smile .. those who dont place any effort time and thought into photos like bathroom selfies, thug look, speak volumes.. its a hard pass for us

The good ones.. well we take them on vacation, meet them while traveling and just have so much fun.. its what makes our journey exciting!

I read somewhere there that needs to be a dedicated thread for hot wife discussions and that is so true. Our question, one of many, is how often do hot wives go to meet a new prospect only to feel that there is no connection? Because the single guys on here leave A LOT to be desired. We see and experience it all over SLS how disillusioned guys seem that this is NOT an easy path to getting laid. Maybe hot wives are expected to be into just wanting to hook-up? As we said, sooo many questions.