We can relate as we had the same thing happen to us on a long bus trip. This family of like a dozen turds sat in front of and occupied two sides of the bus. When we got to a restaurant the bitch mom let her parents, husband and anyone else that was with their group cut in front of her. This put us like ten people behind them. People were irate but would not say anything. I being a retired corrections officer and having dealt with that in my prison, fronted her out. She said well I wanted my family to be with me, I stated they would be if they would just wait their turn. She said," well then get in front us if you like". I stated I have better manners than that, and wearing my corrections cap, I told her out loud that my inmates behave better than that. After telling the tour guide what happened they were given the opportunity to all sit on the same side, causing other passengers to give up their seats so their family could sit together. The whole bus was happy when they all got off as a group. Cudos to you for saying and doing something about this... RUDE PEOPLE need to be put in their place !!!
Pet Peeves
People that cut in line at Starbucks. If you don’t have time to wait, don’t go there: it’s not a necessity.
I let my bitch flag fly and would not let an entitled man get in front of me. He can go around to other entrance when there is a line just like I did. He does not get to go in front of me when I have been waiting for four or five cars. He threw up his hands, gave me a dirty look and tried to edge me out with his huge SUV. Nope.
He did get in behind me. I sent a coffee to the person behind him to balance the bad karma a bit.
Bad timing traffic signals, after making a left turn the next light turns red just as you approach it, an additional 3 second delay would keep so many cars moving...Mesa, AZ is the worst for bad timing lights, well it is a big Morman city and hear they own a bunch of the tire/ brake/ gas stations there...Helps their business.....Mary Jo
Free members with no pic and few words on their page.
Contact you thru instant msg or one of their 5 free msgs....
They wanna KIK, or ask for your phone number and some ask for dick pics.
Couples who loudly proclaim they are "no drama" usually aren't...
Couples that live a few hours away that make first contact then expect us to travel to them.
Male half of other couples that can't get it up and things turn into an awkward soft swap.
The couples with "no drama" plastered all over a profile and they are the ones that create the drama.
Couples that say they had a great time and will be back to see us again but drop off the face of the earth.
The forever chatters that never set a date.
The "we only play on weekends" couples. We work every weekend and play on work nights to meet other couples but they can't be bothered to return the favor when we have nights off.
Sorry Dood. I didn’t think anyone would notice.
BT
...In space, no one can hear you scream ...or smell your farts. So, we all know THAT’S wrong now...
Shameless people that fart in the passenger cabin versus lavatory in an airplane.
DELETE FREE MEMBERS
They are a waste of space.
Website had to delete our old emails to make space.
Sorry if was covered already.
How about profiles that mention " we are still new to this Lifestyle" with a profile dated 2001?!
@phxfun
I too have a pretty good idea who and what rabbit enjoys so I will often reach out to couples with an introductory email if I think we might be a good fit. The reason I don't bother to show her their profile initially is likely because there aren't any pics of the guy to show her!
Once we get a reply (assuming we do) and there are pics to view (assuming they have some to open), I show rabbit and we decide together if we want to try to meet.
~Scamp
Not seeing the problem with that NJNYBI...
"Public restrooms with piss on the floor versus in the urinal."
and on the toilet seat!
Public restrooms with piss on the floor versus in the urinal.
Pics with snap chat filters. Bunny ears and cat whiskers are not attractive.
SCAMP----->My theory has always been that one half (likely the male) initiated contact and enjoyed the back and forth but when it came time to actually meet, there either isn't a female half or he was in too deep to introduce her at this late juncture or he did show her and she said no.
We'd guess that is a very strong theory. I am lucky enough to know what the Mrs enjoys. If we get to the second email with a couple I've pretty much made the determination that we'd be a good fit with the other couple. LOL the problem is getting to the second email with the husbands that Scamp describes :~)
It was probably our "wanna fuck" one line email. Lol
~Scamp
Scamp
Must have been something you said.
This is more of a head scratcher than a pet peeve but it is relevant to these last few posts.
We saw a couple was coming to town so we opened some pics. They viewed our profile and when I looked again, they had opened their pics. I showed rabbit, we agreed that we were both interested so we sent them an email.
They replied that we wouldn't be compatible. Lol
~Scamp
My theory has always been that one half (likely the male) initiated contact and enjoyed the back and forth but when it came time to actually meet, there either isn't a female half or he was in too deep to introduce her at this late juncture or he did show her and she said no.
If both were indeed engaged from the start, then my guess is they use the idea of meeting as pillow talk and fantasy fodder but never intended to follow through, or they get cold feet when the time comes to meet.
~Scamp
Thanks AandJ - We do our best, although not always successful to never assign motivation to people's action or lack of action. In our ideal world swingers would be better at just saying no. Responding to an email with a simple no thank you is not easy. It takes a degree of courage to send that initial email insinuating or out right saying........we'd enjoy sex with you two. We try and look at it from the senders point of view. Which is better a no thank you or an email never responded to? In the cases where we aren't interested, we choose the no versus the never.
In the case of our two pet peeves where they wrote us first then disappeared, we still wonder.........was it the possibility we'd say no, or the fact we said yes that made them disappear? It's all keyboard folly until the clothes start coming off. :)
Phx,
We all seem to have the same issue. At least those of us who are serious. At least 4 times in the past 2 weeks for us. Exchanged pleasantries, face pics and agreed - let's meet. Then, gone, poof, vanished. No response to our emails, texts etc. Not even a peep.
It's not you...it's them.
Our pet peeve seems to run in 3s. Over the last month we had 3 couples write us first. So in theory they'd seen our pictures, read our profile and found us interesting enough to send that first email. Then after a few you like us, we like you, let's meet emails..............poof gone never to be heard from again?? We could assign multiple reasons to them disappearing but probably none of them accurate. Having enjoyed this hobby for a long time this has been the consistent mystery. What starts the attraction and what ends the attraction?
We always wonder, were they more afraid we'd say no.............or that we'd say yes :)
When someone starts a sentence with "there's absolutely no difference except..."
When your pics are the only that are looked at......the profile is ignored.