First timer!

Oh boy! Another drunken night of ranting.

~S~

Oh boy! Another single male!!!!

Tony,

Try post a Hot Date ad for tomorrow night. You might have better luck than you will by tossing that out here.

Welcome and good luck!

BT

Hi.

I'm very new to this and I'm attending my first swingers party tomorrow night. I was wondering if a single woman who's in their 20s or 30s to be my date?

There are plenty of women in their 50's who like playing with men in their mid to upper 20's. We met a lady in her mid 60's and that is actually her preference. The big thing is to not get bull headed or expect everyone to play with you or want to. We have all been bombarded by rude sm's who expect us to bend to their whim even before physically saying hello to us. Just be a gentleman. But, there's a myriad of preferences and turn-offs and it can take time to find who you are looking for or for them to find you.

Yes that makes sense. I’m not going to change what I want though so I guess I’ll be here looking for awhile :)

Thank you! The help is much appreciated

Welcome to SLS. First be sure to put up a default pic that is something other than the blue gumby. You have a decent pic up and can simply crop that one for your default pic if you are trying to conceal your face. Next, take a few more pictures of yourself and upload them. We cougars have a tendency to prefer young men who dress well. Wear something nice, set the timer on your camera, and get some good shots of yourself. Stay away from taking pictures in your car, messy rooms, the bathroom, etc. Try and capture your personality. Then put a little more work into the profile and put a paragraph or two into each section. Don't contact a lot of people until you get your profile beefed up with pictures and a better description of yourself and your fantasies. Good luck.

I’m a Bi male and want to experience an older couple! Help!