I've been in a couple LT relationships. The ease of calling them up when either their mood or mine, desired
sexual play. The one couple sometimes invited another couple as well ,for playtime fun....Trouble was, the
distance of miles between us....
Even more these days, the closed circle of trusted playmates is the safer choice.
I am in a few long term situations. One couple I see were local, but have since moved a couple hours away. We still maintain or situation, albeit not as frequent.
I prefer long time versus a notch on a bedpost. It is my belief and experience those type of situations bring about a more intense time sexually!
I am currently in several long term ongoing regular situations. ;-)
That's awesome slowandpassionate. Good for all three of you.
I have a friend that I get together with every month or so to fuck. We first got together almost 20 years ago. She was curious and her husband wanted to watch her fuck someone else. We did that several times. She and I fucked while he watched and masturbated. We drifted apart until about 12 years ago when they contacted me again. We had more fun than ever. Eventually he got tired of watching and gave his blessing for us to get together whenever we wanted. Soooo, this meeting involves a few hours of intense fucking, the last time was day before yesterday.
Ongoing is always what I look for, but definitely rare and hard to find. Had a great couple a couple years ago until I moved. It was a glorious year when I was just a few miles from them though.
I'm always looking for longterm over short I don't want a couple that is so needy or I'm so needy it causes issues, however one that intensifies both of our marriages and draws us all together would work great.
I never want to split up a couple ,my only intention is to have fun and them to have fun and be happy.
Sure this is about fucking and getting pleasure but how much more enjoyable would it be with the same 3 or 4 you feel comfortable and safe with
I would be interested in a LTR or even exclusive situation if everyone agreed. A couple meets per month would allow for in and out of bed familiarity which leads to a healthier overall relationship.
Sounds great. Where do I go to interview for this position?
I've only gone as far as playing with a couple several times a year. Enough so that we're friends, but not to the point of creating drama. I have enough respect for my playmates that I don't want to cause either of them problems.
The really cool part of regular/semi-regular play friends is that you learn enough about them that it intensifies the pleasure as you get to try lots of different things that you can't do in just one play session.
We are a couple and had a regular for about a year until he moved out of state. He used to come over and play with the misses 3-4 times a month and sometimes more. Every time he comes to our state we end up spending the night with him. She always sleeps in between us and has a good time. He have known him for years now and consider him a friend.
'...open to the idea of some special feelings allowed to develop...'
That suggests a relationship possibility on the fringes of polyamory. That type of connection tends to be controversial even among swingers, who primarily see the lifestyle as a playground for recreational sex. Emotional attachment can be tricky. Without proper understanding and respect, the door to drama can be opened. I like the prospect of cultivating a deep fondness and affection for the wife being shared with me. I like being free to vary things from primal fucking to more passionate and tender love-making.
In a fantasy polyamorous union, I like the idea of siring children with the other man's wife. But that's fantasy.
I would really enjoy a situation like that. I like the idea of using common interests to build a fun sexual friendship where the sexual and friend part can be balanced. Getting to know someone over a period of time is get because your learn how your partner's body works and can make adjustments in making sure pleasure for everyone is achieved. You also get to build trust and understanding with someone too which add to the building chemistry. I am currently looking for something similar to what you are looking for and I have friends with benefits with couples in the past it takes awhile to find that one person.
I enjoyed an ongoing intimate friendship with a mature white couple that lasted several years. While it was not a regular bi-weekly thing, many times I would get a spontaneous invitation during the week, or on a weekend. We also went out to dinner and to the movies on occasion. And I met up with them at some event parties, one that turned into an impromptu bedroom orgy.
I love the idea of being a regular guest for a couple into MFM. A wife sharing herself me me and her husband is exciting, and I consider it a privilege as well as a pleasure. My first experience with the couple to whom I am referring is detailed on my profile page, for any interested.
Oh they are out there. Just takes patience and weeding the bad out. They usually come about when you least expect them.
Woodandp we finally found one don’t loose hope and don’t look too hard. Yes and the fake and flakes will take the wind out of your sails for sure.
We are kinda looking for this but, the effort has been so disappointing. We are open to this arrangement with the right gentleman or two. So hard cause so many flaky fakes/liars.
In a lot of ways I think a relationship of this kind could be extremely gratifying on so many levels. In all reality it could be akin to creating something akin to extended family with close emotional and physical long term bonds being established. As long as everyone is on the same page few things in life could be more fulfilling.
Under certain circumstances family ties might even be established if desired.
I have always been open-minded, and the idea of being in a relationship with a couple genuinely intrigues me. I understand that relationships can take many forms, and I believe that communication, trust, and mutual respect are essential foundations for any successful relationship, regardless of its structure.
I find it difficult because I find couples looking for the same and yet they simply don't follow through. I also struggle to find that one couple. I would love to go with them to clubs and vacations together.
I prefer a LTR. I’ve had two, both were amazing experiences, and got hotter as time went on… lol
Yes once in Florida for 20 years now in Georgia for 7 years.. but neither one is exclusive. we enjoy select , classy, variety of swingers!
We call the long-term ones FWB who we also travel with!
By the way.. Ashley Madison is for you sir as you are NOT a swinger.. seriously ... but a cheater! We will NOT even entertain any one cheating.. along with many other real swingers!
I have always felt that there must be couples out there who due to their careers, children, and a busy life would like to find one man for a long term ongoing situation.
Maybe a couple to get together once every month or two. The three of us would would to have a great chemistry.
A situation where it would only be the 3 of us playing with no one else involved.
Anyone have a situation like that?
It would have to be the right situation with the right people but I can see it happening. The more relaxed the better
I live near Orlando and would love this. any couples looking for another M?
