AirBnB prices and rules are all over the board. You can get an inexpensive one for just one night, or you can get a McMansion for a week.
If you do book an AirBnB, make sure you know where the owners will be. Some owners treat it like a traditional bed and breakfast so you may not have as much privacy as you hoped for.
Our last big party was at an AirBnB private single family home on about 5 acres. It was set up specifically for group parties.
An AirBnB might be OK if you were planning to get one for a mini-vacation, but otherwise they can be a little pricey and you have a security deposit that leaves you on the hook a bit more than a hotel room does. The point in either is that you may not want to do this out of your home, but if you know and are comfortable with the guys attending, that could be another option.
Many times though you want guys that you don't already know because variety is part of the appeal for these kinds of parties.
Don't Air B&B's have a 2 or 3 day min, kinda expensive......
AirBNB is a great Idea. I recommended that to a couple that was looking for a single male or couple with a hot tub. I told them they'd have a better chance at getting the hot tub and inviting other. the way they were going about it seemed a little tacky.
It’s better to just get a Airbnb for a weekend with At least 3 bedrooms. It’s always better to have at least 1 or 2 more bi girls depending on how many people RSVP in the pre party group chat
We did a bachelorette gangbang part for some friends once. We rented a suite with two queen size beds in it. It also had an adjoining room as well. We had beverages and food and snacks in the adjoining room. The gentleman who were invited we either knew personally or had very good recommendations from swinger friends. The rules and expectations were discussed with all of those invited ahead of time. We only had one guy who wound up coming very late do to his job. We started it out by myself and her putting on a show for the men. It turned out very well. The bride and groom were very happy and it lasted quite a while. They have an interesting wedding album. We did this at a Hilton hotel. The two beds turned out to be very handy for us.
With regard to hotel rooms, I prefer booking at the Residence Inn. I've hosted quite a number of parties, from half a dozen to upwards of 50. The two-level suite is great for the larger parties and the one-bedroom suites with two queen beds is perfect for smaller groups. They all have a couple of TVs if you want to hook up a portable DVD or other player, and, of course, a sink, fridge, silverware, glasses etc.
Noise is generally not a problem except when the parties get bigger than about 15-20. Also, parties in the summer time, when folks might want to duck out on the porch or patio means the door is opening a lot. Same is true when we booked two adjoining suites, where one had to cross the porch.
Someone mentioned that one didn't necessarily have to schedule the party for the evening. I once rented a suite, checked in around 3pm, hosted a party that evening that ended around 111 or midnight, then hosted a second party the following morning from about 9-11am, leaving enough time to do a little cleanup.
Good times. :-)
BYO-C, spell it out if they are that stupid not to have condoms. I was 15 when I started carrying a condom in my wallet.
E&B - I agree. Aside from the money aspect, condoms are not really one-size fits all. When we first started in the LS I thought that was the case because we hadn't used them in nearly 30 years prior to that. I've definitely noticed that some work better for me than others.
I list our parties as BYOB/C when we have them at our house. It also rubs me the wrong way when someome shows up without them and will sometimes give them one chance. If it happens again I'll just take them off our invite list. Some guys see the BYOC and don't know what it means and don't ask.
"Yes, condoms a norm and buy them in advance."
Ive always made the guys bring their own. I always felt that I'm paying for a hotel room and providing a 3-hole slut for them to fuck silly, they can spend $5 to bring a few condoms. It always irritated me when a guy would ask me for one ... do I look like my name is Walgreens?!! LOL
Yes, condoms a norm and buy them in advance. You may want a fluffer.
How do you like the Seniors, 70's and 80's having regular gang bangs in the park woods last year in Connecticut until Cops caught them. All arrested.
Can you just see it the Judge could be younger than and friends with their grandchildren. Judge can only say "case dismissed" when their defense is "Judge at our age we don't know which time is going to be our last".
"Great info thus far. Appreciate all the advice. Let us ask, are condoms a norm? Normally she enjoys bareback, but with so many playmates, it might be best? Or do we ask that no one cums inside? Those can be options, thinking, to discuss before right? Who pays for the room? Do we ask for 'contributions'? "
I would think condoms would be the norm, I mean why would somebody let a bunch of strangers fuck her bareback ... telling them not to cum inside and them actually not doing it are 2 diff things ... plus getting preggo is only half the risk. Ive always just paid for the room myself, I know others who get contributions ... it can work either way
We have another theory on the quality of the room. Everyone has said to get a room at a nice hotel. Our thought process sometimes works in the opposite direction. In a nice hotel, you make a lot of noise, ppl hear you and you get kicked out and you're out a lot of $$ ... get a cheap room in what we call a "whore motel" and guess what, nobody complains due to the noise because they all know they're in a whore motel and expect the noise LOL
If you want a nice gangbang, just pay for the room..asking for donations kills the mood..It may take a couple times for a good one to actually happen, maybe the word has to get out a little in the local swinging world that hey, that is a great couple and they put on a super fun time....Mary Jo
Great info thus far. Appreciate all the advice. Let us ask, are condoms a norm? Normally she enjoys bareback, but with so many playmates, it might be best? Or do we ask that no one cums inside? Those can be options, thinking, to discuss before right? Who pays for the room? Do we ask for 'contributions'?
@EdandBritney I'm glad to see that you've found a Sunday party that's to your liking. My luck hasn't been that good.
I've been to a Sunday brunch party once in Sacramento and it totally sucked. All the fun happened the night before. The brunch consisted of leftovers from the night before and and a few fresh items. Only one couple was playing and I was pretty much being coerced into playing but I didn't. She wasn't my type. I would say it was about 6 or 7 of us there including the host. The others that were there mostly came and went. Friends stopping by that was there the night before mostly. I vowed never to attend a Sunday party unless it was part of a Sat/Sun party and I went on Sunday. Of course I didn't learn my lesson and went to a Sunday pool party on the other coast in Tampa. It wasn't as bad but I still didn't like it.
If you want 5 guys you will have to invite at least 15 because you will get a lot of no shows.
"While most people just equate LS party with night time activity, it doesn't have to be if it's on a weekend"
We know one couple who has parties at their house sunday afternoons 1pm-6pm ... works great!!!
While most people just equate LS party with night time activity, it doesn't have to be if it's on a weekend. Check in time for most hotels is 3 pm and a good party can be in full swing by 3:30 and over, or at least ramped down, by 7:30 pm.
At our timeshare, which for all intents and purposes is like a hotel, quiet time is listed as 10 pm. So an afternoon start time not only has people home by a decent hour, it tends to work better for the rest of the hotel occupants. Just something to consider if setting one up for yourselves.
At our parties in Florida, usually at the Double Tree Boca Raton (actually in Deerfield Beach), we booked two rooms. One was a mini suite with an upstairs bedroom. The second was an adjoining room. Since the suite was a corner room, the adjoining served as a great buffer. We did use the adjoining room for playtime as well, but made sure that people knew to keep the noise down in that room.
“ how do you have a gangbang in a hotel room without getting complaints from other guests about the moaning, screaming, and banging going on“
Great question.
My wife is particularly sensitive about being good neighbors. At the last hotel gangbang we attended, we were told that our whole floor was going to be set aside for party goers. After the official gangbang, we ended up in our room with four other couples carrying on until the early morning hours.
At the free breakfast the next morning, there were two couples with about six kids between them. They were complaining about all the noise the night before. When we left and got into the elevator, one of the couples got in behind us. We let them out first as they got off on our floor, and we let them get way ahead of us going down the hall. To our horror, they went into the room next to ours. My wife was mortified.
There’s no way we would have wanted those very young kids to hear the stuff that they undoubtedly heard coming from our room the night before.
So, we’ve now pledged to not attend any more hotel parties unless it’s a complete hotel takeover, or unless we are the hosts and can pick our rooms carefully.
Get a hotel suite with separated bedroom and ask for top floor next to stairs. It’s the quietest.
Just saying from experience . . . .
We had security called on us once and it was just the wife me and one other guy. She gets loud at times. LOL
@hotluvrs I like your K!K idea the closest I've been to that is the husband and wife having separate K!K accounts and all of us in a group chat. Another couple had myself and another single guy in group text.
@OP...Look into a suite type hotel where your guest don't have to pass the front desk. Look up Chase Suite hotel in Tampa and Sonesta ES suites in Atlanta. They should give you an idea of a layout that you want. The doors are outside. they are set up more like apartments. Downstairs has a good bedroom with bathroom and upstairs have more of an open area bedroom with a bathroom. They also have a living room and small kitchen.
If you can get a room further from the main building that would be ideal.
One other suggestion that will help with the prying ears is not to hold it at a hotel. If you already have a single male friend who has a house see if he would be willing to host. That does bring up other issues such as parking in a neighborhood but for 4 other guys and yourself that is only 5 cars for a "party". Of course we have not had much luck in getting guys to show up for such a thing however the logic behind the logistics are much more sound that getting a room and you still have the one guy (host) to play with is no one else shows.
