Setting up for a GB party

There is no surefire way to damp out the sounds of a swing party in a hotel room. Ckmate2020’s suggestion of getting a higher end room is primo. A few other things we’ve found that can help are:

1) Make sure the bed(s) and couch are far enough away from the wall that they won’t bang into the wall with every thrust.
2) Have some white noise going to interfere with the swing party sounds. Music Or TV (not blaring - that attracts a different kind of attention) helps.
3) Often there is a noticeable gap underneath the room door to the hallway. Put pillows or a blanket in that gap to minimize sound going through the gap.

Like we said - nothing is surefire but these might help.

Re:loud noises

I believe that hotels know that some amount of this goes on. We found out that they knew we were doing this at one of the hotel parties we go to. Unless someone complains, it's not going to be a problem. That's why we tended to do these during the day (shortly after check in).

You coud ask when you got the room if there was one that you could get that's more out of the way. Though probably not needed, you could say you finally have some alone time away from the kids ;-)

Sometimes there may already be hotel parties in your area that are SM heavy and you can see who RSVPd. Saves the hassle of setting it all up yourselves and then being on the hook for the room if people don't show. Of course those aren't happening right now, but something to look for when things start to open back up again.

If you do go to local parties and enjoy this sort of thing, start exchanging contact info with guys you met and liked. One that you met at a party is more likely to actually show when the time comes and you'll already have some idea of their performance.

go for a higher quality hotel room.

don’t expect a Super 8, Econolodge, Red Roof Inn, La Quinta, etc. to be a ‘go to’ spot.

May seem like an odd question but here goes. I often hear of hotel room parties or gangbangs in a hotel room. I imagine the ladies can get quite loud during all the action - how do you have a gangbang in a hotel room without getting complaints from other guests about the moaning, screaming, and banging going on?

And once you get checked in to the room (especially if it's summer), turn the air conditioner temperature down to start cooling the room down. We've been to too many parties where the room heats up quickly with a bunch of (physically active) party guests before someone remembers to turn the air conditioner on. By then the air conditioner has a lot of "catch up" to do to get everyone comfy again.

I definitely prefer two queen beds instead of one king sized. If possible, get a mini suite. It’s good to have a little sitting area to relax and chat before and in between the action.

Bring rubberized bed sheets in case you have a squirter.

We like the idea of having a pre-party Kik group (any group chat app will work). Chatting for a week or so prior to the party let’s people become comfortable with each other, develop a rapport, and start ramping up the expectations and anticipation. We’ve found that it particularly helps with getting single guys to commit to showing up.
I’ve long felt that one of the reasons for the traditional high no-show rate was that it’s intimidating for a single guy to imagine knocking on a hotel door, and then walking into a room full of strangers. Group chat takes a little edge off of that fear factor.

Ive set up several for my wife and a couple for friends. 5 is a good number... thats how many my wife likes. She says any more than that and each guy doesnt get much playtime, plus she says she only has 3 holes so she can only entertain a max of 3 at a time LOL

Yeah if you want 5 to show up, you need to get 10 that say tgey are going to show up

Any advice on what might be needed to stage a GB party once this virus thing is over? Thinking to hold in a hotel room, maybe two queen beds (or a single King). Single lady, maybe two. Thinking maybe max of 5 guys. Want to hear what thoughts are about what is being forgotten.