[LOCKED]question for all

hey the denver donkeys let the da bears off the hook..... at least my steelers have a winning record. lol

around here it is more like a way to spend a Thursday night.............but it is fun;) only time I have ever looked forward to football nights!

PG

lol my favorite currently is my husband goes to his football game, a single male we know comes over (my husband does college ball, the other guy pro) when I get off work, my kids are at my mom's. The single male and I start playing and usually by the time hubby comes home to join us we have been fucking for an hour or so. Then the 3 of us get to play for a few more hours. Hubby is lucky if I remember to ask him if his team won ;)

PG

what's really cool is having my g/f suck my dick while i'm eating football food and drinking beer watching the steelers play.

Sexy Claire
I would almost agree with you on this one...but Unfortunately, I know some crazy fools that would rather talk football than eat, sleep, or fuck..... Not me babe, I love a good meal topped off with some hot bed time... FJ

Where's the bar at??

I'd like a taste of Claire....lol

She looks pretty good!

CurtnJane...great line. We talk to many singles when out and about but never had the nerve to come out and ask them if they were "interested." So your line is perfect for a single.

~M&T

I sort of don't like the secret language. Actually I should say I don't use it. I listen for it but in a case like yours I find it very easy and un offensive to just ask, " am I missing a golden opportunity here because I need to be slapped up side the head with the obvious". It'll get a laugh or change the conversation to a more serious (obvious) note. People are funny and every couple is different. Somewhere between "suggestive language" and "do you wanna f**k" is a sweet spot. I/We find the simple questions work well.

Curt n Jane

Well, I've also learned that "playing" for us means sex, but for some it just means sexual teasing and flirting, fondling, etc., so what do I really know? haha.

Yep, vanilla is another big word we use. Shell

There is also the terminology: Playing, for instance...most people outside the lifestyle don't use that term to describe sexual play, so keep your ears open for terms like that that only swingers might use. Lifestyle, of course, is one of those terms.

I think you did the right thing because it does sound like they were in a teasing mode, but maybe you'll get the chance again soon.

Gina

I agree with twister; some couples are into the naughty, voyeur, exhibitionist factor. I think they would ask you straight out if they wanted to play. Shelly