Good luck they call the unicorn for a reason. My experience with single ladies are One of three things men, pretending to be females for attention, Posting pictures that are not themselves and show up 20 years older and 30 pounds heavier, or honest and obese. This is my opinion. The single ladies that are on the site that have the goods as advertised can be very select obviously and quite a few of them are at a professional level if you get my drift.
Like we stated previously.. dont discount couples that play alone .. we do frequently!
I went out 150 miles from our area code and got zero women straight or bi
Also, you need photos of you and the wife.
To test to see if you are doing something wrong, search for everything. All ages, couples, single women, single, bi, straight, etc.
If you get 100 hits, you are doing it right. There just isn't any single women in your area.
Also, as other have said, what you are looking for is rare and there are not a bunch of them checking the computer every minute hoping someone will contact them. They have a few dozen to choose from and a few dozen more in person at a club.
So, as others have said, check SLS for clubs in your area, hot dates, events, and groups you can join. You will have much better luck in person.
If I do the same search I did earlier but limit it to straight women I only get 7, vs 28 for straight or bi.
<p>Change the female criteria to "straight or bi" and you should see many more results. The site defaults to just straight and there are not a lot of single females that list themselves as just straight.</p>
<p>If the mobile app is not logging you in, try manually entering your profile name and password. That should fix it. If it is remembering your information, this can happen if you have changed your password.</p>
Dont fall into the expectation that so many other couples fall in to, in that, their expectation is that there is a plethors of single ladies looking for couples everywhere. They are called unicorns for a reason.
Events are the best way to meet single ladies or married/partnered ladies who can play solo. Meeting ppl takes time ... months or years ... they dont fall out of the sky!!
"Wife is looking for a female to join us..."
Single women in the lifestyle have a wealth of choices. Couples, men, other women. Club pricing is usually very favorable and the clubs themselves are usually clean and safe places to meet folks. So, very few single women in the lifestyle bother with online sites.
You might try clubs and parties instead. I'll warn you though that unicorn hunters, which is what couples only looking for women are called, aren't particularly popular, especially if there are other more flexible couples around.
We don't generally seek SFs, but I just searched SFs with 50 miles of STL to see what came up. I searched for any age, bi or straight, but must have pix and be a paid member. Found five total and this was using the website not the app.
Just looking at their headers, two were too young for us and one had a tagline saying BBC only. I expect at least one of the remaining two would get cut from our list if I read the profiles and saw more than their thumbnail cover pic. Even if that one still left turned out to be of interest to us, it does not mean we would be of interest to them.
Finding good matches is tough any way you do it with whatever parameters you are seeking. When you narrow it to just SFs and in an area not known to be swinger heavy, it gets damn tough.
When add to that your profile which has zero photos, only a bare minimal amount of essay info, and a wife listed at straight seeking a threesome with a SF, your chances are essentially zero to none I suspect. I'm not picking on you, I am simply stating a fact.
We aren't really looking for SFs but a search of women within 50 miles of us, ages 25-99, straight or bi, with pics, is a paid member and was online in the last 7 days showed 28. Meeting any of them from online interaction only is unlikely. SFs are by far the smallest group on any site like this.
The best way to find what you're looking for is to attend local LS parties. While we aren't looking for singles of either sex, we know and play with a number of them by attending LS parties. Finding these parties is one of SLS's true values by checking out Hot Dates in the left pane.
Even if you don't like parties, you can use them to make real contacts and get together with them outside of a party. You may also meet women at parties that are not on SLS, or any site for that matter.
"So we use the web version anyone else have that issue. We have uninstalled and reinstalled many times."
The app for SLS sucks. You are better off use the web version.
Having no pictures and only searching for females or really going to hinder your experience as well.
My search came up with 3 within 50 miles ??????? will have her adjust search ???? when we try to load the app it just comes up with login name and password and never loads……. So we use the web version anyone else have that issue. We have uninstalled and reinstalled many times.
Also dont just search for females. We have each played alone and made many dreams come true with what a couple wanted.. one male one female or all with our special FWBs and wife.. think outside the box!
Many couples will have where each play alone.. one just needs to seek and ask!
Once again.. good luck
Just searched your area.. and this is what came up: Displaying 1-20 of 146 Members
I would also highly suggest working on your profile and photos.. says volumes about many things.. seriously we have been swingers well over 25 years and one must put some work into it to get anything out of it..
Good luck, welcome to SLS and enjoy we do always!
Hello all. The wife and I joined this site a few weeks back and seems there is no one in our area? Are we searching wrong?? Wife is looking for a female to join us but we can’t seem to meet anyone. We are in the St. Louis MO area.
Thanks in advance
