Double penetration

I've always assumed DP mean't 2 in the pussy...

In our opinion DP is great but to have another in her mouth so she is air tight is the ultimate for her. The more the merrier….

Not really into a dp but we love dvp and you’re right highway it’s awesome finishing with that for both parties

I've enjoyed DP for awhile now, and I have to say it's the "peak" of a 3some or group fuck. Once you get into it, that's what you want to end with. Same with the ladies...once she has two cocks pounding her in both holes, she won't want to "downshift" to a single cock.

"and even less with someone other than their regular partner. The problem is that a lot of guys get way too aggressive, either with a finger or their cock, or both. Guys oblivious to this could fix that in a matter of minutes"

Mayhem ... EXACTLY!!! Britney is an anal fanatic, but doesnt let a lot of other guys in there as Too many are inexperienced with anal and just try shoving it in there like they see in porn, I always say you have to cromance the ass" 1st to loosen it up

Fair points, GGMM.

GGMM is correct on multiple things. My lovely lady had someone "not listen". Once. Her rule is that she gets the guy's ass before he gets hers. It helps him learn and understand. And it fun watching the guy go through the mental gymnastics as she slowly inches him to the cliff.

Wife has NO interest in anal, BUT she does love being spit roasted, so it technically IS a double penetration, just not within the commonly accepted definition.

"However there was plenty of context in discussion that was specific to female anatomy and how to make it work."

I got that part (nor did I think you were rude - just wrong). But making a DP work isn't what that specific advice was about, but about how guys could get some clarity on how to properly do anal by using themselves as their own guinea pigs. And since butt sex is butt sex, it's good advice, because if you've had uncomfortable, too rough anal play yourself you might be more careful with partners who are into it and have it be a pleasurable experience for both of you.

mahem, goodgollymsmolly98226 - Yes, you are correct. However there was plenty of context in discussion that was specific to female anatomy and how to make it work. The discussion, as I read it, was specific to a woman. Not male receiving.

You know, just say "you're wrong". I can take that. I don't need to be told I need something stuck up my ass for what was really an innocent opinion in the process of constructive debate.

TallMark took it to an insult level, however. So blocked.

I wasn't trying to be rude. It was a simple observation. I'm sorry if it was received not as intended.

@canyoubelieve these forums need a like button or boner button or something. very hot

"Honestly, I think advice about comforts/discomforts of a female receiving anal carries more weight coming from females. Not males."

Why? Everyone has an anus. It's the one hole we all share. As someone who has had strap-on anal sex with both men and women, my experience is that the same techniques work regardless of gender: go slow, let both sphincters relax, use lube, let the receiver set the pace to begin with.

However Trannies do it best.

Just like sucking a cock, doesn't matter if one is male or female, it's done the same...

Fat end first...

Re: Calcan, I think i read in a recent prev. post that both guys and gals have asses.....I have experience fucking female asses and being fucked in the ass, so YES i know what to do....maybe try a greasy turkey leg up your ass tomorrow....

Mayhem is right about the lube. Someone close by that day had something that worked even in water.
Can't speak for the male and the finger but as a female I enjoy a finger in my ass diuring vaginal intercourse as well.

@calcan - Though a woman's input is certainly welcome, there is little better than first hand experience. A guy can never know what vaginal sex feels like, but they most certainly can be made aware of what anal sex feels like.

Honestly, I think advice about comforts/discomforts of a female receiving anal carries more weight coming from females. Not males.

It's very simple to prep for anal, just use a lot of lube and have a dildo handy and have the lady play with her ass for a minute prior. a cock will pop right in then...Don't get to loose ladies, it feels so good being a bit tight and the guy loves a tight grip..

It seems only a small % of women are open to anal, and even less with someone other than their regular partner. The problem is that a lot of guys get way too aggressive, either with a finger or their cock, or both. Guys oblivious to this could fix that in a matter of minutes.

Unlike a vagina, both sexes have an anus, so a guy can see exactly how this feels. If a guy wants to get instantly better at anal, he should literally try inserting his lubed finger into his own ass. It will (in most cases) become very apparent why slow and steady wins out versus fast and aggressive. It just feels better, at least until things get loosened up. So many guys think they can just plow into an ass like they do a pussy, and as a guess, better than 90% of women won't enjoy that unless they've been very well prepped.

The other problem is that it is the thrusting motion and friction that tends to keep guys hard, so a lot of guys will go soft trying to be patient with anal. I can usually only do anal if taking Viagra. If I don't have to worry about going soft, once I get the head in, I can just let the girl set the depth and pace she wants till things get loosened up.

In case anyone was wondering, Yes, I did take my own advice so that I'd have some idea what the girl I'm doing anal with is feeling. Fingering your own ass has nothing to do with manliness or sexual preference and everything to do with first hand knowledge.

My first DP was at HEDO. I've always enjoyed anal sex and both men had fucked me in my ass previously. The thought of being DPed was hot but doing it in public was over the top!
My husband had never seen me fucked in the ass by another man and asked me when i told him
I wanted a DP who got my ass. I told him it didn't matter and that about drove him over the edge.
My lover got behind me and I slowly sat in his lap taking every inch off his cock in my ass. I spread my legs wide, leaned back against my lover and begged my husband to fuck my pussy. A crowd gathered around us and watched. Hubby came first as I continued to grind against my lover. We kissed deeply as I felt his cock explode in my ass.
Afterwards we all agreed it was the hottest sexual encounter we'd ever had.