Couple- I agree.
The desire to have skill and do a good job. I listen to a man, listen to when he hitched his breath or when he shutters to read cues to do this or that. The last guy I met., I had my hopes up, nameless faceless crush and was so sad when it was generic. I totally take blame, responsibility because I was worked up to meet him I did not perform as well.
But you would think men would know the first time they meet up for sex with a women the better they do, the more they get!
Sex is like installing floors..
Lay it right the first time you can walk on it for years.
Men should know this