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Transcript
Speaker1: Hey everybody, it is Toronto Unicorn here, and I am sitting down with a long-time fan of my DTF channel, but I guess it is kind of a down-to-fuck channel when you think about it, because of all the content that's been building there for years. But for anyone who doesn't know, because this is a podcast, I have been in the oversharing world on YouTube for many years now, ever since the COVID-19 pandemic locked us into our homes in Ontario, Canada. And I got bored and I started a YouTube channel. And so I have a fan who reached out to me on a recent live stream on my YouTube channel. And frankly, just as a side note, I like the fans that show up for my live streams. I like the ones that show up and participate. And it shows me who's really watching, who really wants to connect. So I really appreciate that. And basically, he had asked for an interview. And I had suggested that I was open to it. Now keep in mind, I don't normally interview people without a certain agenda. But something told me that I was going to find this a worthwhile experience talking to you, Mr. Anonymous. And I would love to actually dive deep in this chat with you about the Toronto Unicorn journey that you know and what you watched and how it resonated with you and how it might have helped you. I want to see those personal connections that my content's made. So, but for anyone who doesn't know, I've been on YouTube since then, since the pandemic. And I've got over 800 videos and counting on my main YouTube. I also have a few more YouTube channels. One of them's called the Toronto Unicorn Everything Drawer. And the other one is called, oh my God, there's a few of them. Actually, one of those called Toronto Unicorn Spicy. And I was just trying to be creative with the kind of risque content I put out. And, uh, uh yeah it's you got to be careful out there on YouTube um but I also have live unapologetically with Toronto Unicorn and that is a different uh vibe it's it's less sexual it's more uh self-help from a real authentic person who's been through the darkness of life and is you know here to show you some some light through it so anyway so that is uh what i've been up to and so mr anonymous apparently has been watching since the pandemic uh 31 year old male i'm just gonna uh read the demographics you gave me you said you're a 5 11 a family man you're not actually in the lifestyle um but you've been watching since the pandemic uh did i get that right you are very correct okay perfect so uh so you got me you got me one-on-one is there anything you wanted to say to me first off first off i want to say that you are literally the most adventurer most like i don't know how to say like you had so much costumes and i love you and 100 to be quite frank like anyone that's listening to this podcast they should share it and they should subscribe and i i promise you guys you will not be disappointed i promise i appreciate those kind words if i could please i would say i would diddle diddle to that because I like it when people are like, yeah, this is worth your fucking time. Like share, you know, share an interesting episode with one of your most curious friends or, or something, you know, you know, because like you had said, you don't need to be actually in the lifestyle to find the lifestyle interesting, right? you know what and it's crazy because i know a lot of people that's in the lifestyle as well
Speaker2:
and it's been because i know a lot of people that's in the lifestyle as well
Speaker1:
and it's been one of those things like serious or you see like 50 shades of gray or different things and you're like well hold on i might be interested but it's always like you have the uh what do you called fear i don't want to say what somebody is just afraid but sometimes we're curious and sometimes we're afraid i mean what else more can you say about learning something that is just new and your body just reciprocates the same way it's like oh my god hold on we got something here it's we got a pulse there's a pulse there's something is activated when you do that you know um but if you're right i mean sometimes i think we're afraid of what we will find out about ourselves the deeper we get into a lifestyle like this um i know many people who started out in the lifestyle who wanted to just be swingers and ended up being more polyamorous as couples now for anyone who doesn't know what that means swinging is not romantic swinging is you know casual swinging sex it's not really meant to have separate romantic relationships and polyamory is different polyamory is multiple romanticically done, of course. And so not everybody who gets into swinging wants anything to do with polyamory. In fact, some of them are terrified, shitless of polyamory because they're not there. They're a couple that are monogamous for the most part. They want to spice up their feck in marriage. They want to include an extra dick in the bedroom or they want to include, you know, another woman and they want to leave there right and i think that that's also uh you know something i've learned is people are afraid of where the next thing will take them to right and i think that's fair but i also think that's why you know you have to go into this lifestyle realizing the empowerment of knowing you can navigate your own journey and pick and choose and oh did that thing excite you well why don't you go down that road a little bit you don't have to go full throttle right like you don't have to um to go all from zero to 100 really quick so can I ask did you learn anything about yourself watching my content well you know I think I think that we shared share the point, especially when there's one of what you expect and what you want. It's all about communication and what you truly see. And me, I'm a people-pleaser. So if it's me and the woman one-on-one, 100%, like, you have attention like I'm more of I'm not going to say that I'm not dominant because I can but there's days where I want you to just go ahead and tell me what you want and just be aggressive how about that right so take turns go ahead if you if you truly seek what you want i'm all yours right and have you had an experience like that yet where someone just took control and let you be the receiver or the person receiving before like have you had that oh yeah multiple times okay and it did something for you um to be honest i think that i love it that way especially if a woman wants what she wants like since you've been watching in the pandemic what first caught your attention about my trying to unicorn youtube channel what was the first video that you were like damn i gotta sit down and watch this girl oh that is an easy And and during the pandemic uh obviously a lot of babies were being made at that time i'm sure um i was going through i forgot what it was i was just going through videos on youtube and stuff and i'm a pretty sexual person. I'm also physical.
Speaker3:
I love, that's my love language. Like, everybody has a different love language. I'm just more the physical affectionate
Speaker2:
person.
Speaker3:
And I just looked through it and I'm like, you know what? Let me type in something. So, you know how YouTube is. It's uncensored. I mean, it's sensitive. So, you can't really type what you want
Speaker2:
Thank you. type in company carefully. So let's just, you know how YouTube is, it's uncensored.
Speaker3:
I mean, it's uncensored, so you can't really type what you want to type, like if you go on or something like that. So I just, hey, you know, I don't know what I said about it. I think it was, I typed in orgy or something like that and it starts saying that
Speaker1:
oh, she's got a beautiful eye. I'm a beautiful eye okay let me go ahead and after that I was gone because it was like your first experience and you was talking about how you you just walked in and this couple was just you had a straight connection with eye and you didn't know if you could interact with the husband but I guess the wife did give you consent you guys had a great night but yeah the husband was more intrigued than what you thought and it was kind of a little awkward, but you loved it. So it was like one of those, like, whoa. She's like literally living a lifestyle where it's just all risky and adventure. And I love it. I can't lie, like, everything down to your, um, what was the big time? On your podcast, the audio one that you were talking about how you and one of your friends your male friends you guys had an effect for the first time and that was one of those that I was like oh hey she is really you got an exploration to yourself like you love to explore you love to see what what how do you say do's and don't right pretty much so the first video was about my first orgy or something like that yeah yeah and believe it or not a little funny note um one of the first times I ever got a video taken off of YouTube with a big, you know, you know, you fucked up message, essentially, was one of the videos called my first orgy. And I remember sitting down and telling it detail and detail, because at that point, I did not know YouTube was going to be upset with me. Okay, I was new to new to the game. I was just oversharing my to my heart's content and YouTube took that video down and gave me you know a strike on my channel and stuff like that so I ended up putting a version of that video on my Toronto Unicorn website as an act of defiance in a way but the truth is ever since then I've had to tailor my content a little bit more tamer and tamer as time goes on, because the censorship on YouTube actually is, unfortunately, it's just fucked. It's too much. I mean, I'm too vulgar for YouTube, apparently. So if I was talking about houseplants all day, I'm sure I'd be fine. But I talk, I talk differently about, you know, alternative lifestyles and stuff. So, so that's actually why I got a podcast was when I talked to Kathy from the Strictly Anonymous podcast, she's been a bit of a mentor to me throughout this journey. And she's like, Oh girl, just go to a podcast. Like you can swear and say, and I was like, no, like, she's like, you're, you're telling me there's a place out there where I can just say the F bombs and like, not get in trouble.
Speaker3:
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker1:
Right. So that's why I got the podcast so that I can be like fuck that shit you know and not get in trouble so all right so you saw that first video you said you like my eyes um so I I appreciate the that so after you saw my first video and you started watching a few other videos what caught your attention next the way you just kept pumping out videos but it was also you just giving your take on everything and it was just like it feels like you're growing with you it's like the audience is growing with you as we're going through the journey and I love that because you're a great storyteller you should write another book wow Oh, thank you. It's true. I think I was not expecting to be a public figure when I started this lifestyle. I started documenting my journeys for a hobby. And then I put them on YouTube. And so I was so new and so unsure of this world and what to expect for myself or for whatever and the years have stacked up I met R who's been my best friend on this journey and she's been on this journey with me almost since you know four years ago met Amelia you know the other the other ladies of course on the channel and and it's all over the years as I became an experienced sex clubber you know and I was like weighing in on oh now I've seen a bukkake night oh well now I've seen a down to fuck night now I've seen sword play night let me tell YouTube about what I saw and so it became a bit of a mission for me to show with my eyes or through my eyes what a sex club experience could be for people who are curious on the outside looking in so that sounds like that did the trick
Speaker3:
Thank you. to show with my eyes or through my eyes what a sex club experience could be for people who are curious on the outside looking in so that sounds like that did the trick it did and I'm not gonna lie that was kind of crazy because I feel like you built like you built this brand off of just a pure I'm going balls to the wall and I love it and the way that you did it was like
Speaker1:
damn she broke records with this and you broke barriers with this what blew my mind is I see all the sensual stuff the sexual stuff and the way that you know one-on-one time or just you know you just speak in your mind when think it was 2022, I looked down at my phone and it says, like, new notification from you. And it says, Foucault Night Live. I'm like, what? You said, like, there is no way. And then just to my surprise, it's like the way you described it you just didn't i want to say i don't want to say like it was not interesting but i think it was more of you were like uh i don't know what to think about this yeah yeah because this is a girl like me keep in mind i don't i'm a girl who doesn't even take cum in the mouth so for me to go and watch a bunch of fucking cum play and shit out of wukaki was kind of outside of my comfort zone in a way too so for me it was always taking something in that i i probably will never be on my knees a part of but that's just because that's not my fantasy right so but yeah i love us a lot of cleanup oh yeah oh yeah and there's people whose kink is to use their mouths to clean it up right so there's all sorts of kink kink stuff in this lifestyle that you can find out about doing during these events and so um so that's why i love the bukkake i even have a whole bukkake playlist on youtube it's literally called bukkake theme nights and it's because i've gone so many times and talked about it that it's worth it because not all the nights are the same right i've gone to nights that were boring as fuck i've gone to nights that you know were blew my blew my mind um you know ours done bukkake you know she's she's told her story back in the day um i just think it's just something that i love that i've shown in a way a bunch of different windows to the same sort of event but all showing a little bit of a different perspective and that's meant to be honest about this lifestyle this life this lifestyle is not all bells and rainbows right sometimes you go and you could have a disappointing night sometimes people will go to the club and they'll think they're gonna have the night that i had in my videos and i just i want to help manage those expectations because yeah some people go to the club and have the time of their lives the first time but sometimes they go the first time and they feel a little awkward or you know maybe it was rainy and there wasn't that many people at the club and so it's hard because you're you I don't know. the first time but sometimes they go the first time and they feel a little awkward or you know maybe it was rainy and there wasn't that many people at the club and so it's hard because you're you know people are building their comfort level one you know inch at a time and so I know my videos help a little bit but but generally my content is also meant to be honest and I think that there was a few videos where I even cried uh in my vlogs because i was like i had a tough night like you know i saw an ex hooking up with a girl like i was like oh you know um after seeing something like that you don't go out you know wipe the tears away and be like it was a great night like no you don't do that you go and you tell them that this place can hurt your feelings sometimes They sure can.
Speaker2:
Right?
Speaker1:
So, okay, cool. So then you saw the Bukkake videos. Is that... you go and you tell them that this place can hurt your feelings sometimes it sure can right so okay cool so then you saw the bukkake videos is that uh is that one of the themes that you're most interested in from the theme nights if somebody was to ask me if that was an interest of something that i want to be a part of no right right no not at all because it's like hey it looks good on film but i don't want to be standing there naked with a bunch of guys in one circle that's just not me and no offense to anyone else not trying to be you know but yeah that's a big big gap from where some people are right they're first of all some people don't want to be naked in public right you know let alone standing dick to side dick with a bunch of other guys trying to get in the same mouth you know so yeah it's not for everyone i mean but you want another it's like think about it it's like if you're a guy, do you want another guy just jacking off and their sperm just fly and hit you? I'm telling you, it's a risk that these guys fucking take. Cause I, I don't think I've seen anyone get asked. No, I have seen someone get accidentally hit with a cum shot, but he was a good sport about it. Cause it hit his leg. So it can happen. but i also think like it is a barrier that some people are mindfucked about like how would i get past that but sometimes it's just the environment still feels safe if that makes sense when you do it especially at a sex club and so it's not a judgmental crowd it's not a bunch of people who are going to criticize you or ridicule you um things like that and so it can actually make people much more comfortable once they've been around the lifestyle for even one or two visits of a club they'll suddenly be more comfortable doing things they never thought they could do even if that's just up close watching something like this let alone doing it right like like i said before i've watched the buukkake circles many times have I ever done a Bukkake circle no have you been accidentally hit with a cone shot no actually because I think I'm onto it I remember in the last podcast I was talking about Tanya DTF Tanya doing a Bukkake circle and I remember in the podcast I have this funny moment because I'm like I remember i was looking down the urethra hole of a man jerking off on tanya and i knew if i could see down that hole that hole could see me and i was like i'm just gonna move so no i don't think i have actually been hit with cum before um but something funny that tends to happen though is if i have uh fans involved in or whatever, and sometimes I don't know they're fans of my content until after the scene's over, which I find interesting. But sometimes they come and, like, reach out and want to shake my hand. And I'm like, yeah, I love that. So I end up, like, you know, like, fist pumping them kind of instead because, you know, like, it's just you have to remember like i just you know yeah i as much as i love to shake your hand i've seen where that hand has been so um yeah it's just a funny little moment i've had with the clubs now the question is i do have a question for you sure have you ever had sex with a fan oh yes I have had sex with fans um I have had sex with a couple a male female couple as well who were fans I even have the title on YouTube I hooked up with fans because I was like whoa um and the guy fans that I've hooked up with they also like charmed me at the. Like I didn't meet up with them because they subscribed to my YouTube or anything. It was like, I met them in real life, found out there were fans. We had chemistry and then we, then we fooled around. Right. So that's how it's worked out for me. But I've, yeah, I've never like met up with a fan with the intention of hooking up or anything like that. No. Of course of course yeah but uh but i have i have a bit of a kink for fans actually because uh my content is my purpose in this in this lifetime um i'm i meant to de-shame sex and uh and like lift barriers social barriers shame barriers for others to be able to feel comfortable you, expressing themselves a bit more openly as well. And so, you know, I feel really good about that. But that's the purpose of my content. And so I like to, to push the barriers, show the things that maybe I won't do it in a sex club, but I think other people deserve to know that they exist. And maybe if they're drawn to it uh they can go yeah so uh bukkake is not something you say you'll you'll personally have an interest in doing but you still clicked on the video so was it because it was something so outrageous to you that you had to
Speaker3:
hear about it i don't think it was more so just the curiosity i think it's just like i'm more of a spiritual person so i love to connect with people and see like their journey and see everything or Thank you. Thank you. Bye-bye.
Speaker1:
Bye-bye. i think it's just like i'm more of a spiritual person so i love to connect with people and see like their journey and see everything or it could be just a regular day and just talking about your personal life just the little things when you pick up with somebody you're like oh okay i didn't know that i like that okay well hey we have the same interest so it's pretty much just the interest like you are a polarizing figure you are so I have to say that yeah um the funny part is you know I grew up with a conservative mom like I wasn't taught about sex at all uh sex was no no sex was for producing children and all that and so um but I knew from a very young age that I felt differently and that this was something that I liked talking about I liked hearing about um I used to watch sex with Sue you remember that show from she pushed barriers she she made sex something people talked about finally right um and then my biggest influence ever is sex in the city um i watched that show religiously front to bottom and then start again you know um and kim cattrall who played samantha is one of my idols and uh she also lifted the the bar for for make room for people like me to come up and even, you know, be a little more provocative and even, you know, expand further than Samantha went on the show. Right. Instead of just casual sex being normalized, well, suddenly Bukkake circles are being fucking normalized on my channel. Now, if when I used to be from Vanilla World, I used to be somebody who, you know, went to strip clubs thinking that was the extent of erotic entertainment. And I can see how extreme this looks, this world looks to people. I've been as an outsider, and now I'm an insider. And what I would like to say is these are the people that are standing in front of you in the grocery store, you have no fucking idea who is in this lifestyle. They are every walk of life, every nationality,ity uh every body size you know it is just such a bunch of good outstanding people in society that then go and do their normal jobs after right and that's the thing i didn't really know i thought the people who went into these kink circles or bdsm worlds when i was new i thought they were just you know uh aspects of the population or a subset of but no, they're everybody. They're the people that you might, you know, see at a bank or, or even have a coworker down the road who's somebody that you recognize in the lifestyle. It happened. Um, but I also, I think that the people that I have met in the lifestyle are amazing. There's always going to be a few bad apples here and there, but genuinely, these are people you don't need to mask around you don't pretend you're more uh less sexual than you are right like Mr. Anonymous you said that you are very sexual so I sure it must feel nice to be around or hear other people make make being sexual normal right like let's just you have
Speaker3:
chicken words right out of my mouth because it's so hard because it's like if you're a very sexual
Speaker1:
We'll be right back. right like let's just you have chicken where it's right out of my mouth because it's so hard because it's like if you're a very sexual person or you're very intimate because like me one-on-one funny thing saying that i think that i should hold a world record for what i should um i don't know if it's ever been done by anyone but the longest i think that i've ever been down on a woman is probably three hours and she told me to stop i had a threesome and it was almost seven wow what is it that you like about looking pussy so much the intimacy and then plus on top of it just feeling just feeling the woman's just the vibration the way that she moans the way that she it's like can I make you tap out that's my goal I've done it but it's like is that's my goal like I want you to forget about everything else and I've heard that so many times like when we're in a room it's just us two yeah and there's nothing on this planet it's just us and i'm like that's a whole nother intimacy well oh yeah that's that's exciting yeah because i don't really think about it at all like um i'm not sitting there like oh okay i gotta go use this technique or i'm just going with the flow okay you love it okay use fingers let's do this let's do that it's all about you at this moment and then they forget oh shit you got dick i gotta go to this again i i call it making love to the penis when it's me cock worship similar right and so i i call it like i make love to that dick with my tongue like i just it's a dance we do you know so like you know you know it's just one of those things where i i can relate to having that kind of um kink where i like like going down on people um but i'm not that good at eating pussy not going to lie. I've eaten a few pussies. They've been great experiences and I'm still, I don't crave it the same way I would crave sucking a dick. So I even, I was on FetLife the other day and I was updating my bi-profile just once in a blue moon and I changed from bisexual to bi-curious now that's not an evolution that's a what's the opposite of that do you have illusion whatever i don't even know how you would say that like what that but it means that i'm not so sure i'm a bisexual anymore it means that i'm more curious about fucking women maybe more with like a partner like i like i like the idea of maybe a guy i'm fucking um to introduce a woman to him with me that's something new because i'm always a unicorn now i want to find a unicorn you know what i'm saying right she's like i want to be the one that's in control of the situation in a way yes but i've never really seen it from that side i want to be the person that's watching someone maybe i care about a boyfriend whatever getting a good experience from a hot girl like i've never in front of me all the group sex i've had have been with people i haven't been romantic with so they were friends with benefits you know be on the day on the channel just friends i haven't had the hey this is my serious partner do you want to come suck his dick i haven't had that yet so the funny part is my appetite for swinging even though i might be looking at a different perspective is a little less than it used to be i think if somebody you're like you are watching my channel like you said you use the words pumping out videos i used to put fucking six videos up a week sometimes i was like i went to this night now i have this now let's talk about this now let's give advice about blowjobs up you know and over the years i've i've mellowed out a bit now it's about once a week maybe i'll put a video up or twice a week um but i do have like four fucking podcast so it's not because i'm just pulling back on youtube it's about once a week maybe i'll put a video up or twice a week um but i do have like four fucking podcasts so it's not because i'm just pulling back on youtube it's because i've invested my energy into places that i can speak more freely right and you're more and you're way smarter about it now yeah and i learned something yeah it's like you um what's the saying uh work smarter and wear less oh I had that backdrop on my on my computer it was a turtle on a skateboard and it said work smart not hard yeah thank you that's what I'm looking for I am a life hacker and by by by you know by nature um and so I like to not take the long route or the hard route I like to find the ways to not. And I've been pretty successful in my life doing so. And so one of the things that I thought, you know, I'd have to do in this business is, oh, you know, I did actually get a contract offer from a media company a while ago, and they wanted to own some some rights to Toronto Unicorns content. And I went over it with a lawyer. That's the marijuana one, isn't it? What's that? Was it the one with the marijuana, I believe? You said that you couldn't get it. I forgot what it is, because you said it was with your marijuana label, too. Well, that was Abby Hout, right? She wanted to do that. Yes, I remember you told me that you had spoken to her um no for me the issue was this company wanted to buy certain videos that i had made and the like like that likeness of me and i was like fuck no i'm not going to give away the ability for any company to take my content and change it what if they decide what some religious organization bought the rights to my content to to shame it right to cut it into pieces and put you know in a documentary on what happens when you whatever and so i did not i could have got some money and i did not i was like no i'm taking this the authentic route the whole way um because my journey and mission here i hope to make a living doing this for a while but my mission is is to change the world and and not to be light-hearted about that this is to make people feel change change people's worlds in their own lives right you can you can be the same person you were up until the first 31 years but suddenly tomorrow you've decided to let go of people pleasing where it no longer serves you right you can still be a people pleaser and use those in the right places like when you're in bed with a woman but maybe maybe you learn to protect your boundaries a little more um in the rest of your life and in a way you've changed your life right so so that brings me to my self-help channel have you seen my live unapologetically youtube channel i think that i subscribe to it but i've only been subscribed to the actual audio and then your actual toronto uniform so if i have i've only came across it like one or two times i apologize yeah no it's okay i think that's why i love this interview because i'm i'm also able to share with the audience to what i have out there but one of the videos i make is about people pleasing and it talks about how you need to get a hold of your people pleasing before you go into a sex club because what happens if you get into that pure internal peer pressure that you you have to perform something you don't want to do that's not a good situation so people do need to work and they do build up their own personal life skills by joining a lifestyle like this and stuff like that and so the videos that i have on that channel are meant to be you know yeah sex club maybe they're relevant but also relevant in life how do you take your power back uh one of my favorite videos is called how to get people to shut the fuck up and it's just meant for some people yeah because because i i just think some people just need the tool the tool in the toolbox to remember how to to get out of a shitty situation or get out of a conversation they don't want to be in because one of the things that kim cattrall again i'll reference her has said that has changed my life when i adopted it is that she will and i will no longer spend an hour of our lives doing something we don't want to do. And I've lived and I don't regret it. I don't go to birthday parties. I don't want to go to, I don't do things I don't want to do. Um, I, the only exception is like when I make myself go to the dentist, but even still it's because I know I'm, I'm doing something for my long-term high as good. And therefore I it but i don't do it because i'm supposed to i don't shame myself into it um i don't do anything i don't want to do now and it's fucking amazing see and that's why it's always be unapologetic exactly because you can life hack life you can get rid of all the the baggage of caring about things that maybe you need to reevaluate why do you care one of the things that i i like to get through to people is oh what if somebody finds out that i'm in this lifestyle well what do you care about what miss betty bob lives you know down the street gives a shit who gives a shit but they actually think right and i think when people get over the realization that you know what power do people even have if they have that information it's just very little unless you give it to them and by giving it to them you're hiding and not pursuing your life and that's that's kind of where i try to help people the most is to get past their own um their own self barrier of what's preventing them from joining a lifestyle they're desperate and wanting to join so I like that response because it's like I tell everybody I tell anyone that I come across my family and friends do not be apologetic for who you are yeah because that's when people want to strip your identity want to tell you how to change things it's okay to tweak things or change this or whatever that's a negative or good for the better or for the worse sometimes but i don't give a fuck there you go and there's no freedom in that right yeah because it's like in every day like if you're going to tell me to be somebody else then I'm like okay be careful for what you wish for right because it might come true because I love people but at the same time I don't care so if you decide to fuck up I'm gonna call you out on me right if you pissed me off. It so much for me to say you know what i think it's time to cut you off but you're not even in the mindset to even think for yourself yeah yeah and if you don't know how to be unapologetic some people don't know how to reprogram their brains and their value systems like so one of the things are said that was really profound for her journey was if you could do anything and you weren't afraid what would you do and she started living like that well what what was that for her well she reached out to me by the way she started as a fan of my content. Did you know that? Oh, are. Yeah. So she wrote me a very long, beautiful email, all about how she felt like we might be kindred souls and stuff. And so she had watched me on YouTube. And so we we met and we had a quick snap. And that was the rest of our lives. Like we're best friends. Basically, we've got a lot of other close friends but she is my ride or die especially on this channel we've both been through a lot um but she came in through through my content too and so she started her own journey uh getting out of a tough long breakup that she was in in the pandemic and she she found the sex clubs and then she found toronto unicorn and then she she found me and then she exploded so her content on my channel is really beautiful too because it shows her journey from the beginning too um and she's a like a veteran now like this girl like she doesn't even fuck other single guys at the clubs right now she's doing her her own vibe right now she's found some great some great dynamics already and uh living up you know the good good side of that world for now so even her um and Amelia Amelia has drifted outside of the clubs as much as we used to go um because she has her own stuff going on outside of that that's that's important to her right so it goes to show this lifestyle ebb and flows for people and it's really cool that you've been on this journey since uh the pandemic i'm happy to have given you content while we were all struggling with that uh time like i really do appreciate how you did everything over the pandemic and yes it is a hundred percent beautiful like you have no idea and. And then also again, I was like, hold on. She's in Canada. How the hell is weed legal there? I know. Weed is so legal here. It's not, it's not stigmatized in the streets, nothing. It's just, and I grew up in a different time. I grew up when you had to go down back alleys and look for cops when you were lighting a joint so like i've i've seen it come from that to where we are now and uh yeah i know it's a weed has changed my life weed is medicinal for me i think it i have adhd so i don't medicate with other things and weed can help me focus and produce content and frankly be funnier so So I like it. It sounds like you, you respect the weed as well. Yeah. This is, what are you talking about, man? I have, well, I have ADHD and PTSD and a whole, a list of other things. Throughout my life and everything that I've been through, weed is my best friend. know mary jane you gotta love her but um every day you know i'm just i'm a normal person i love everyone i'm not the crazy person that you want to say like people would say oh my gosh he's out here beating people no i'm not like that if i see somebody getting beat on then i'm jumping in i'm like one of those like i'm i'm the dark knight right right so a batman so to wrap up this interview is there anything that you would say to somebody who um who is stumbling across the content and answer is there a way that you could speak to them and say why it's worth them watching oh man that's a good one and i gotta think real good for this i gotta i gotta think real good for anyone that's listening right now to this podcast or listening to this interview just just in general i want you to know that whatever kinks interests um just, just scenarios. We might have a general interest
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