Send us Fan MailLifestyle Stories | Winter Wonderland Part 2: Neon Lights and Naughty Nights | Episode 175In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy share all the juicy details from the second half of their unforgettable trip to Louisville, KY, for the Swinger Society Winter Wonderland takeover at Club Tempted. Saturday night’s Glacier Glow Party was nothing short of spectacular, with black lights transforming the club into a neon wonderland. DH Whore-Hey kicked off the night with energy, and The Dom Life wowed the crowd with a mesmerizing live BDSM impact play demonstration featuring glowing whips and paddles.Dan also hosted a heartfelt raffle to support Toys for Tots, raising over $6,000 in donations while giving away amazing gift baskets. DJ Life of Spice then took the party to another level, keeping everyone on their feet with pulsating beats and rave vibes.But the real highlight of the night came after the party. Dan and Lacy headed upstairs with another couple for a steamy swap, which quickly escalated into an epic 6-couple orgy in the iconic fishbowl room. With dozens of onlookers enjoying the electrifying show, it was a night to remember! Tune in for all the spicy moments, behind-the-scenes details, and more from this incredible event!- The Swing Nation -Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -
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BBC. Yeah. Something Brewing Company. I don't know. Yeah. They're really cool, actually. They have. This is like the second or third time that we've done something there. And they have like totally embraced us. So that's really cool. Like we got there there they had um like our own drink menu they had come out with like special drinks like pineapple sunset i don't know and they had pineapple decorations on the table and the girls had like pineapples in their hair it was quite impressive yeah no um i'm glad you brought that up because I wanted to highlight that as well.
You know, there's been lots of talk on social media over the last couple of weeks about Carnival Cruise Line potentially banning the Upside Down Pineapple on their ship, and that was the whole thing. And so, you know, this is like the 100% opposite of that, right? So we've hosted meet and greets at this one bar in Louisville. I think this is the third or fourth time that we've done this. And every time, they lean more into it. I'll see you next time.
opposite of that right so we've hosted meet and greets at this one bar in louisville i think this is the third or fourth time that we've done this and every time they lean more into it i love it and this time yeah they went all out i mean they had upside down pineapple decorations on the tables the girls were all dressed up in pineapple wear and had pineapple stuff in their hair and they had a whole entire pineapple drink menu i mean they were there for it and to be fair i get why because there must have been a hundred people there yeah we were no i think we counted it was like 70 something um but i mean and we're spending money so why not embrace it and they're really awesome so thank you and it's downtown louisville it's like across from the kfc stadium i don't know which one it is but uh they're they're pretty awesome so we all met there it was at 11 a.m who the fuck planned that we did i did not my name is not and i think we did it because a lot of times we'll go to the club like us it's like swinger it totally could have been like noon or something a little better yeah as a swinger society employees will go to the club after and kind of flip all the decorations for the night before but we didn't have to do that this time so it really we could have pushed it back and what's funny is we send out reviews of like the weekend and some people can give us their feedback and somebody actually wrote that like the meet and greet on saturday was entirely too early and like agreed um but we went and we we did that and lots of people came it was a great opportunity to like chat with people i'm gonna be honest i felt like death i didn't realize i had gotten that drunk on friday night but like i was shaking at four o'clock in the afternoon because i yeah i guess i probably would have felt better if I got up Saturday and drank something, you know, or had like some sort of like Bloody Mary or something at lunch.
But the thought of alcohol, like maybe want to gag. So I did not, but I was struggling on Saturday at the meet and greet. Yeah, no, definitely. I think we could have moved it back an hour or two.
Maybe, maybe been a little bit better, but I love the meet and greets and having you like you said you know i think there was close to 80 people there was great and like you said if if you guys follow us um if you live in one of the cities where we're hosting a party maybe you're not ready to come to the actual club and participate in in the club activities but that doesn't mean you can't come to these meet and greets. So, you know, keep an eye out on our schedule, keep an eye out on our parties and stuff like that.
We always will post the weekend schedule, you know, when we come to these different cities and stuff and we'll post where we're holding the meet and greets and what time. And so you do not have to come to the actual party to attend the meet and greet.
If you're just want to meet people and kind of get a get a feel for what this environment what the people are like you can definitely come out to the meet and greets without going to the events yeah and we don't make it like this is not a profit thing for us we just literally set them up we call the restaurant say hey can we bring a big group and they say yes or no we usually tell them how many people we expect and then everyone shows up they buy their own food they pay them like we're not we're not gaining anything it just is people enjoy that and we like help facilitate that so correct and we don't always get to go to everyone just like full disclaimer friday nights there's usually a dinner and we don't get to go because we're typically at the club already getting everything set up and typically sunday we do not go because i get my son back on sundays and i like to get home to him so that's important well and we're tearing we're usually tearing down yes correct we're tearing down but um we have had some people say they didn't know that we do this so it's like a good opportunity to point that out um we pretty much do it in every city that we go to probably the only one that we don't do it for is like a secrets right well because you're at secrets you're at the resort from yeah i know i'm just saying so anyway we did that um in my notes i put i was dying i was dying like somebody said something like i can tell you're not okay i'm like i'm not really i was like staring in space but we after the that we came back to the hotel and i took a three hour nap i was out i think i worked on social media the whole time yeah i think so you didn't have at all i don't think so oh i feel bad yeah sorry babe that's okay but i was out you were yeah yeah I needed it in order to, like, bounce back for Saturday night.
We got.
sorry babe that's okay but i was out you were yeah yeah i needed it in order to like bounce back for saturday night um we got up and um mr misadventurous couple were we had planned to make tiktoks at 4 30 you woke me up at 4 15 yeah i'm like baby they're gonna be here in like 10 minutes you're like i can't i can't no so i texted her i was like can we do five i think that's what time which i was still ready from lunch so it really wasn't hard to you know but i needed more than 15 minutes so she came they came at five and we made a few tiktoks we didn't take any pictures or anything but they're so they are such a genuinely nice couple i enjoy my time with them and they're they're close to us i didn't realize how close they are to us yeah they're not far from the fact that we haven't hung out with them more is probably something we need to reevaluate yeah well we actually are we're going to atlanta in like a few weeks we're gonna hang out with them in private a little bit more yeah i enjoy I enjoy her.
Yeah, she's fine. She's a ball of energy. Yeah. If you don't know who they are, look them up on Swing or Sadie or TikTok or any of the things. So, yeah. So, after we made TikToks with them, then it was, like, literally time to get ready for the club. This time, you let us get there at 6 was super grateful for considering we didn't even start the tiktoks until five well yeah the reason for that is because we were basically all we had to do is go in and turn the lights on yeah i mean it wasn't there was not a lot of work to be done yeah so um this theme was what was it like oh it was the glow.
Glacier glow. So white glow, I will say, I loved this theme. It was really cool in the club, like white glow. We've seen blue glow before, but I've never seen a white glow. I know they do it. We've just never been to one, and I really enjoyed it. No, I thought it was a great theme, yeah. So I got ready, made my TikToks, all the things that I normally do. And we got to the club at 6. Yeah, turned the lights on, got everything kind of reset from the night before that we didn't already have a reset, and got ready to open the doors. Yeah. I will say, Tempted does a very good job.
They have like, because they know that glow parties are such a thing, like their club is set up for glow parties. Yeah. Like they have black lights that are like permanently mounted in places that they don't usually use on. I mean, they might turn one or two on. So they just go through and turn them all on.
Right, so that club is like pre-wired for glow night as all all clubs should be i mean if you're a swinger you know we like a good glow party i agree yeah but it was fun um so we like we just started setting up i went through and made a few tiktoks throughout the club which is honestly like my favorite part because when else do you get like open playrooms that are nobody is in and so the only problem with tempted is they have pretty risque video or pictures on their walls i have to be pretty careful with tiktok in those pictures the first time you made tiktoks i don't think you fully like realized how yeah like all literally all the artwork on the wall is like nude photos yeah and so it's very you have to be very strategic not to catch those nude photos in the background well if you go back one of them got through no one noticed it on tiktok and it's like a girl with like five dicks in her mouth or something like that it's still up i don't know i felt like it it made it was i don't think we even realized it it was like kind of far back but if you like really look you can see it um but it may it may be down now yeah there's no telling go go find it if it's still up yeah um yeah so that then the doors opened it was time it was time yeah so uh dj jorge opened up, who is a newer DJ.
He DJed for us one other time at Club Tempted. But he's actually been taking lessons from DJ Life of Spice. He's an apprentice, right? Yeah, he's been doing Zoom calls and stuff like that. And it was pretty good. And he was pretty good. I actually really like the music that he played. Okay, listen. I love EDM music. But I also like music that I know the words to.
And I feel like I'm not to bump and grind and a lot of swinger music is not really bump and grind music that's being played does that make sense you're saying that edm music's not no it's not right yeah and And so I like it when someone comes and they play, like, listen, I am a 90s baby. Give me some salt and pepper, some, like, anything like that. I love it. You know, I've thought, and this is a side note, but I've thought about this before, because that is our vibe, right? So it's this, like, EDM house music mixed in with, like, a little hip-hop.
And the hip-hop is definitely, like, 90s, in with like a little hip-hop and the hip-hop is definitely like 90s early 2000s kind of hip-hop and the funny thing is um i'm wondering like 10 years from now or 20 years from now when we're like in our 50s like are we still going to be throwing this same party with the same music and these younger swingers are going to come in and being like god can we play some different like, because I can think of some of the swinger parties we go to. It's like, who listens to this music? You know what I mean? Like, what is this? I don't know. I like it, though.
So I enjoyed him. I thought he did. I know he's still learning. So there's some, you know, room for improvement. But overall, I thought that he did. He was fun. It was a vibe.
He had his, he had like a winter coat on that had like glow lights in it nailed the look for sure yeah he did he did a good job um so yeah that was fun it was it was definitely a slow start a lot of people that's the thing tempted opens at 7 8 or p.m which in my opinion is way too fucking early it's way too early and I love Tempt love tempted but nobody wants to be at a swingers club at 7 p.m but people show up though i'll tell you the reason people show up is to get the seats no i get that but like there's nobody on the dance floor you're just kind of like hanging out well i don't know i i i get what you're saying it's not it does take a little bit more time to build because they have like that i'd say it's really an extra hour or two kind of you know before what most people would typically go to the club but it is that's also a good opportunity to socialize yeah if you're newer i don't think a swingers party or swingers club has to be like full-blown rave the whole time i think you can come you can come in you can mix you can mingle you can talk you can get to know people and then the dance floor gets going you go out and we do that at every club we go to really whether they're you know so if you think about it it makes sense that the dance floor kind of takes a couple hours to get going because people want that time to to kind of talk to people i guess you're right i don't know just seven seems to really fucking early um I'm gonna be honest I hated my out I hated my outfits for this whole event why well you know I'm like hard to dress because like my butt's bigger than my weight you know and it's hard for me to find sizes and we've had a lot going on so it's before I've probably had more time to like really try things on and focus and i feel like lately i've just ordered something and then put it on the day before i felt like i had two outfits um to choose from and they were both like kind of big and kind of wonky i also felt i've put on some weight through the holiday season through thanksgiving not not just december but like through october yeah my mom's with us you know my parents moved in we've been making sourdough bread and cakes and so i felt bigger than i really wanted to be which i've really tried to be okay with that you know that's like a side conversation but I've me and you have talked about I talked about a little bit on social media but I've always been very critical of my weight it doesn't matter if I'm as the skinniest I've ever been or the biggest I've ever been I've never been satisfied I always want the next best thing does that make sense so I've really tried really hard to like just embrace the body I'm in in this season and not be overly Thank you.
the next best thing does that make sense so i've really tried really hard to like just embrace the body i'm in in this season and not be overly focused on like the scale or the size of the clothes and i think i've done a very good job do it maybe i lean too hard and do it because i just felt i felt a little bit uncomfortable in my own skin all weekend again we're getting off on a tangent but i think it's okay because i think we have some extra time on this episode um i guess that's the question though right so we always say like we'll be comfortable in your body and you know and you know your weight doesn't matter and i think we do focus too much on that scale but there also is a if you're not comfortable with your own weight yeah then you're going to be uncomfortable and that's going to be yeah it'd be hard for you to have fun you know you want to be able to dress sexy and feel good in those outfits so like there's a line there somewhere where i don't think people like i don't think you need to be obsessed with your weight and yeah have it be like your whole life but you do also want to be comfortable in in your self whatever that weight looks like whatever that is for you i think you being confident feeling confident and and feeling sexy is also important so i guess i just don't know where me either um and and really my goal and it's kind of maybe it's because i turned 40 this past summer and this is just something that i've kind of embraced is just be a little bit gentler with myself just like give myself some grace like and not be so hard if I'm not exactly what number I am on the scale like still have fun still have a good time and kind of like we preach all this equality and everyone you know there's someone for everyone and And as much as I do feel that those all things are true, I just, I need to give myself that.
Does that make sense? I feel like I give everybody around me that, but I want to like, just be kinder to myself. So leading up to this, I knew, like I could look in the mirror and see myself. I knew that I had put on a little wait, and I was okay with it. The week before we left for Tempted, I took some Christmas pictures. And I was concerned because I felt like I was almost setting myself up from failure. I was like, if I take these Christmas pictures and I look like shit, that could ruin Tempted for me.
You know, I would go in with, with like a sourpuss attitude because I didn't look the way that I wanted to. So I knew going in that it was a little scary for me to take these pictures, but the pictures turned out really pretty. Of course I didn't have like clothes on. So like there's nothing pulling, nothing too big, you know, that can, that can, I had sling it bikinis, which is basically completely nude.
I thought they looked really nice i was actually very happy with them so i was like i had a little pep in my step you know maybe it built me like a false narrative i don't know but i really felt like i looked good in those pictures so now see then so then when i saw my outfits and nothing fit right my skirt was too big my you know something was too small it just so i just felt uncomfortable all weekend so that's okay i think like i think i did a really good job of just having fun regardless um i changed a couple of times until i found what i was comfortable in i'm usually like a one outfit a night type of girl occasionally i'll put on lingerie i don't always do it um but you could definitely tell if you watched me that i was uncomfortable like i changed three times the first night and twice the second night until i thought And I did eventually find something that I was really confident in and it made me feel better.
But now, looking at some of the TikToks and some of the pictures people are posting of me, I'm like, oh, my God. I hate it.
Again, trying to be kinder to myself and just, like, embracing the body that I'm in in this moment and being okay with that being posted and not being like can you not post that picture because i look like i ate myself you know no i'm just being honest yeah that was a total tangent by the way sorry about all that no but i get that you know one i think we have the extra time and two i think that's important because i think we've actually had conversations with people that have come up to us and and talk to us about this is i think people see you on tiktok they see your instagram you know they see your only fans page and they're like this girl's got it together like she she's confident she's sexy she's out here flaunting her stuff and and maybe they even see that you are not you know you that you have curves and you're not necessarily like the barbie doll figure and so you know nor do i want to be for the record but people see you and they're like oh like how do i achieve that like how do i get that confident in myself and what i think they don't realize is you're not as confident as you may seem in some of these tiktoks and on some of these platforms but the truth is this is an internal struggle because i have been extremely thin and not like myself and i've been heavier and not like myself so like i think being 40 being much more aware being like i'm realizing that now where five years ago i probably didn't quite understand that i was just like if i could lose 20 pounds i'd be the confidence most confidence bitch here you know and i flaunt myself so i don't know so now you know this has kind of been like a journey for me it's like self-healing healing inside and so now coming into the new year dan and i are like we honestly to travel and do things the way that we do we really have to like take care of ourself like our physical bodies our mental bodies all of those things so like coming into the new year not that i want to i don't want to be like i want to lose 20 pounds i want to do this i just want to feel good when i look in the mirror and make my body feel healthy well and i think that's the Yeah, I think you know as you were talking i was thinking about that i think for us what we need to do is feel healthy like feel and be healthy you know i mean yeah and so you know i think you can be super skinny but if you're taking ozempic doses to the point where you're in the bathroom puking all day then that's what has got you super skinny i don't think that's the answer no um but i also don't think the answer is eating whatever the fuck you want and and which is basically what we've been doing we have been living life right we've been eating which is great but at the same time now you know you get then you one you don't feel healthy because yeah i don't feel you're eating like shit and all that and then two you don't feel confident because now your body i was putting my shoes on this morning and i like grunted and i was like okay that's not that's not good yes yes and i just don't want to feel that way right we are too active of people to you know and like there's i don, but I, I get how it happens and we're at a weird season of life with my parents being in the house to try and make memories and all the things.
So just 2025, that's, um, how we're going to feel healthy, like legitimately, not just look healthy, but to, to be healthy. I am not going to get on a scale though i'm telling you right now okay my days of scale are over i'd be i've become obsessed with it like i will wake up weigh myself eat weigh myself poop weigh myself like all i mean not that i do that i don't poop but if i did i would do that um okay uh and we're not doing that and do that. I don't poop. But if I did, I would do that. Okay. And we're not doing that in 2025. Okay. We're not doing that. Sounds good.
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We love our sponsors sponsors we do uh something else i want to say is merry christmas i know today is the day after christmas yeah so i go i hope you had a great christmas and spend some time with your family i hope santa brought all the goodies that you desired um i hope you know maybe you had a few few dildos from from lump honey underneath your tree if you didn't your husband's slacking and he needs to go order one now yeah uh you can get your magic wand on there all the stuff that lacy likes yeah uh but definitely merry christmas to everybody uh we've kind of had a weird year this year oh yeah um and definitely you know dealing with lacy's parents and their ailments and cancer and all that scary stuff um it definitely i think has refocused us to family yeah and how important those your time with the people that you love is um so i think that's definitely something that's in our mind this holiday season so you know maybe you're hearing this and you're laying in bed and you're at your parents' house or, you know, maybe you have your kids that are, you know, visiting you for the holidays.
Definitely give them a hug. I know you love them and care about them. Cherish these moments as you kind of finish out your holiday season with your loved ones because it's super important. And the time is limited. Okay. All right right so when we left you um we had just um we went on a tangent we went on a tangent about uh body confidence really yeah um but dj jorge was djing um and he at club tempted and so the way we've kind of do things now is we bring life with spice to all our parties we usually open up with one of the house djs and then we bring in I'll see you next time.
kind of do things now is we bring life of spice to all our parties we usually open up with one of the house djs and then we bring in dj life of spice at like the peak hours and depending on the club and what how long they're open that kind of changes but it's usually 10 to 1 ish is about like that's dance time that's when people are on the dance floor that's when people are dancing and grinding and that's that's when all these connections start to happen that lead to the playroom and so that's the time we like to have dj life of spice i think switching out djs and bringing in a second dj to kind of headline it brings an energy you know i mean because we've done club parties before we had one dj who just dj'd the whole night and it just doesn't seem as eventful if that makes sense no it does it has nothing to do even with the djs i think i just think switching them out and kind of bringing attention to the dj booth yeah kind of gives this feeling of okay now it's time to party yeah for Let let's go you know um now right before at the same time we did that we actually had the dom life come out and do a bdsm demonstration yeah um and so because it was a blackout night uh the dom life who's amazing they brought out like these whips and paddles that were all, like, glow.
And there was two girls and two doms. And the ex-libre was the name of the other dom. So it was Dom Life and ex-libre were the doms. And they did some impact play. So some spanking, some whipping, that kind of stuff. And that was pretty cool. I thought it was good.
I the way they came on a little earlier because i feel like right when the dance floor started like going they did that presentation and then and you had to stay back like they put a table up you couldn't go forward and it just i felt like in a little ways it kind of dimmed the energy nothing to do with them i think they're wonderful i think that was poor planning on our part yeah i do think maybe if we've done it earlier because the whole clearing the dance once people get dancing and going stopping that to then do something and then trying to get that energy to come back is a weird is a weird transition so i do and it's hard because you never know it's hard to predict when that energy is going to start yeah right so it's hard to say okay well we're going to do this this demonstration at this time because that's when the party's going to start at this time we can try to guess that but nine out of ten times we're probably wrong you just never know you just don't know yeah so they did their um their whole thing and then we you know it was just like the club was packed now i tried really hard to do an amazing job on or much better job i guess you should say on my alcohol intake so i timed myself i decided that i would do a shot once every hour starting at like 10 i think i did my first one in 10 um and then ashley and drew from tech talk were there now they uh they had got me shit face the night before but come to find out that their lemon drop shots were three ounces so he had went to the store and bought one ounce shot glasses and so it was kind of like a fun game because every hour i would go find them and be like it's time and what's really fun i was dancing at like 11 o'clock hour and they were upstairs and i just happened to catch them and i like looked at my watch and then he came down and gave me a shot so i thought that was actually it was cute like in a little exchange i think they're really nice people no they were super cool um something else that we forgot to mention is when we took that break with the dom life and they did their uh their bdsm demonstration we also raffled off some prizes oh yeah i forgot and the reason we raffled off those prizes is because people had brought in gifts so if you've been following us on on tiktok or you've been following us on social media you know that we've done a big drive here the last couple of weeks last month or so and um all raising money for toys for tots and we before we even went to the event through swinger society now you know and the people that made donations, had raised just over $4,000 in toys.
And I actually love this time of year. I love when we get to do this. One, because I love showing that the Swinger community is more than just people that like to go have sex, right? We are actually valuable community members that contribute to society in a positive way.
And this is one of the ways that we that but two i really enjoyed this year you know and i think going back to enjoying spending time with your family and stuff i like going to you know walmart or the stores and shopping for the toys you know one because we don't have little children anymore yeah so we don't really get to do that but then this year we actually brought your mom with us yeah she really loved it and we let her do some shopping for the kids and that was just a good moment i think yeah no she really enjoyed it's a fun time to do that um it's quite eye-opening to see pushback from like people in the store like what they say you're like like how old are your kids you did it all in one day or you know like because you're you're buying about six seven hundred dollars per buggy per time so it's but it's a lot of fun it's very like warming of your heart if that makes sense so i feel privileged to be a part of of such a nice generous thing no i agree it's something i look for we've done it like four years now yeah no so thank you for everybody that donated to the toys for tots and um really giving us the opportunity to go and do the shopping and stuff like that um and then swinger society did match the first a thousand dollars so that was included in the four thousand in in and uh donations that's something we do every year too yeah so technically we raised 3,000 and then we matched up to a thousand and then covered that but then um club tempted if you brought a toy with you to the club we gave you a raffle ticket and that entered you in for this raffle yeah so we gave away a custom-made cooler that had like a wrap on it and it had like swinger study and the pineapple so you could take it to all your like fun adventures.
And then we did two raffle baskets. Which was actually made by some of our members. It was. So a huge shout out to them. They know who they are. We appreciate you guys taking the time to do the work and donating. We still owe you for ours. We do. We need to pay for that because we actually I have a weird thing with coolers i ordered one you do yeah i ordered one so we need to pay for ours um and then we gave away two raffle baskets that were just like full of swingers study swag sdc membership some other stuff intending to give away i know it was like tickets to their New Year's Eve party.
I don't know what else it was. Yeah, a bunch of fun stuff. So, again, a huge shout out to everybody that donated toys for Toys to Tots. I think total between us and the night at the club, it was close to probably $6,000, $7,000 worth of toys that got donated to Toys from Tots from that event. Which is awesome.
Super appreciative of everybody that donated and gave to that um you know it's for a good cause and i really enjoy that so the rest of the night was really just a lot of partying a lot of fun it's kind of a blur now because it's been like a week and a half um some highlights for me was it was someone's birthday and it's so hard for me to determine whose birthday it was i feel like i know her but i don't know her name and they had a cake and they would put the cake like on her and you had to lick it off not in her vagina like not you know we're not fucking anybody's ph ph balance off but like you know on her inner thigh and you would lick it off so so i was in line to do that oh were you right and i was actually kind of excited about that i don't think i've actually ate cake off a human before yeah not that i can think of i don't think i've ever done that before and so they're like oh dan you gotta do this it's her birthday and i was like okay all right i'm gonna do this and then the music went out oh yeah and i was like blew a fuse like several times so dj life of spice is notorious for pushing it on volume and on bass uh he actually last time we attempted i think he blew the fuses and the manager john was like there's no way you're going to do this again he did it again that's so the music stopped so of course i had to leave and go check on that and it was just a breaker and we got a reset got the music going again and then not it wasn't 10 minutes later we blew the breaker again um and so i think john had to run back real quick and i think there was like two subs that were on the same same switch or whatever and so he had to he had to switch so they weren't on the same breaker or something real quick and to get it so that life of spice couldn't do it anymore well somehow i, somehow I got in line, but like I didn't have a lot of time to wait or like maybe I just didn't, maybe I was impatient.
I don't know. You're probably impatient. So I put the cake on Dirty D's ass and ate it off.
And I did not know, but somebody threw it on my ass and um what can we call him i don't know who you're talking about so i don't know big tuna is that his name on uh discord yeah big tuna it was his name it was one of his names okay so i don't know what i don't know what we can call him so we'll call him big tuna he knows who he is somebody threw the cake on my ass and he ate it off of my ass like ass cheap not the hole or anything like that so it's like a train like a cake you had a cake eating train but i'm confused so if you ate it off of diana's ass well i was did you get it was there another piece that they were holding they were holding the cake so they were so you were doing like a so like you bent over and ate it off somebody's ass and then while you were bent over people put cake on your ass yeah then was there cake on on big tuna's ass no okay yeah it ended there i mean i had i had my body suit on so i had clothes on i mean he was fully dressed but what's crazy is i didn't even know there was cake i thought he was just like been down to like kiss my ass or something um which is totally fine he like 100 has my consent to do that but i was like what is going on so it was kind of have you ever had cake eaten off you before um probably whipped cream i know we do that at a lot of the events and stuff i mean probably i feel like i feel like that whole eating cake off people sounds hotter than it actually ends up being in real life.
Well, what's really funny is like 20 minutes later, I went to the bathroom and to pee. And I looked in the mirror and the cake was white. But it did have a little blue. And I had like blue icing in my teeth. Not major, but enough to be like, shit, why didn't anybody tell me? So I had to get the blue icing out of my teeth. So many people walk around with blue tongs, I'm sure. I'm sure. Yeah. But this is the kind of stuff that you do at a swingers party, right? Eat cake off your friends. Where else can you do that? I don't know. I don't know either. So I did partake in that. Yeah.
I mean, it was just a lot of like mingling, walking around, dancing. It was a good time. Okay. All of that goes on until on till about i think one o'clock in the morning yeah i will say at events these days i feel like i lose you more than i used to yeah and i think it's part of just working the event to where like we're i kind of got frustrated i'm not gonna lie on saturday because i felt like i was looking for you a lot and honestly maybe you're my security blanket i blanket. I don't know. But I feel like I have more fun when you're around. And so I feel like I'm kind of. I bring the fun.
You do. But I felt like I was in a constant state of like, has anybody seen Dan? Have you seen Dan? You know, so that kind of sucks. I don't know where I was.
I mean, there was a few times we had to run and take the toys and put them out in the trailer yeah i mean you weren't doing anything bad you were just a few things that happened there you know this is the thing this is the part prop not problem but this is the reality of hosting an event and trying to party in an event like we we really try to do both and i i think if we didn't have the podcast and weren't so public if i threw events i would just throw the events and not participate in the party part of it right i would just be behind the scenes throwing the event but for us a lot of people i think come to these parties because they want to party with it like they want to hang out with us they want to have fun with us and i want to have fun with them but it's the balance of trying to do both yeah that's the struggle for me yeah um so sometimes i do really good and sometimes not and usually it's not even i don't think it's a me thing it's like what's going to happen yeah you never know how many things are going to happen that you have to run and go pay attention to yeah another thing i remember do you remember that beautiful blonde lady i remember several beautiful blonde women but i think you're talking about the one in silver yes so like i walk out into the dance floor panties on yeah um and i turned around and there's like literally she was she looks like she was fucking miss america like she looked like she had just got done with a pageant and took her crown off and came in she was beautiful she had this like long blonde hair this beautiful red lip she had like a silver like overcoat like button at the front sort of thing with like, like, long blonde hair, this beautiful red lip.
She had, like, a silver, like, overcoat, like, button at the front sort of thing with, like, this silver chain underneath it. The only reason I know her panties were Victoria's Secret is because they were the kind that has, like, the beads on the sides where it says Victoria's Secret. I couldn't tell you what her husband looked like. Like, literally, she was just one of those people, in my opinion. You had a conversation with her. I know.
But she was so like to the point where i was like do you see that girl like to other people like she was like miss america um ended up at some point we chatted with him they're big fans of the podcast which is really awesome i was super happy to meet them honestly i would have loved to have played with them they she was so beautiful like i was mesmerized by her beauty same um and just to wrap this part of her story up later on we are playing and they were outside and i could see them looking in and i was like how do i get them in this room right without pissing everyone off around me which was impossible um not even pissing the people off in the room but everybody else that was outside the room how would you go out there get them bring them in without getting bombarded by everybody else yeah so um but you know who you are i think you're just absolutely breathtaking and hope our path totally my type of my type of girl, too.
Totally your type. Yeah. Yeah. So, at some point, there wasn't a lot of fucking going on. And the Beauty and the Beast couple, which we talked about them already in last week's podcast when we talked about this. But they were there. And they were going up to the playroom. And I saw them. And I was like, where are y'all going? To the playroom. And I was like, fuck it. It's like 1 a.m. Same thing that's going to happen is last night. And I want to say that. They were there, and they were going up to the playroom, and I saw them, and I was like, where are y'all going? They're to the playroom.
I was like, fuck it. It's like 1 a.m. Same thing that's going to happen is last night. We're not going to fuck. I will say at this event, and maybe it was me because I wasn't. I feel like we struggled to get people together for playtime. Well, we didn't this night.
What I'm saying, the Friday night, things kind of started in the downstairs VIP, but it kind of but it was kind of weird and then it kind of stopped and then we went and fucked where normally it would have like we would all went to a room and had like an orgy yeah and so this night yeah it was the same kind of thing where i felt the same thing happening where like everybody like kind of wanted to fuck but it was hard to get people on the same page and it was kind of hard to where were we all gonna go you know because the playrooms usually at this time are packed yeah so anyway right so we go to beauty and beast and they're like we want to go fuck we're like well we want to go fuck too but all the people are running around and we can't get them all together so like let's just go fuck us i basically just invited me and you to their party i don't know what they were planning but i was like can like can we go and you i don't know where you were but i was like get naked we're going yeah so you and i and them go upstairs and the fishbowl room was open which again we had never played upstairs in the playrooms attempted prior to the night before so i was like hell yeah this room's open so um the four of us went in and the next thing i know like all our friend group right in.
So we go upstairs and we're looking for a playroom. For the four of us. For the four of us. And we really would have probably preferred one of those one bed where you can kind of close the door or put the rope up kind of thing. But all of those rooms were full and being used. And so the only room in the entire upstairs that was open and available is the fishbowl room.
And it's called the fishbowl room because it's like a big orgy bed it probably has four or five beds that are all pushed together in there um and then it's it's glassed in and so you can stand it and it literally plays into like the foyer area so there's like almost like a lobby ish kind of thing upstairs in the playroom and so these glass windows face that big open area where people kind of hang out and mingle and they literally play like ocean fish water over the speakers in that room what they do are you sure i'm a thousand percent sure i don't remember hearing they do you might i didn't i don't remember hearing it then but if you go in there when like there's no music playing oh well you go up there you know you were up there several times to make tick tocks yeah no it play pain like like something you would listen to as you if that's not true i'm gonna laugh at you no somebody confirm i'm gonna text i'm gonna text the manager yeah no they play music fishbowl music they do i swear i swear they do and i gave tours and i was like can you hear the water like yeah so either i'm losing my fucking marbles or i don't recall that i'm not saying it's wrong but i don't recall that but if it is wrong that's going to be funny um so anyway we go into this room and you're right it took us a while we were up there looking for a room for a while like you know i don't feel like it was a few minutes right five ten minutes or whatever so we finally go into the fishbowl room not 10 minutes but yeah anyway as we're going into the fishbowl room the rest of our friends show up yeah right so all the people that were downstairs that we couldn't get together to fuck literally started piling in until there was no room and at some point somebody said let's close the um the little velvet rope right and i honestly truth I was a little worried about being in the Beast.
They're very like roll with the punches type of couple. But none of this had been communicated or discussed. So, you know, I was like, at first I thought like maybe she wasn't okay with it. I think she was fine. But if you think back to Hedo, they went to big playrooms several times.
Yeah, I know like protective of mine i was just looking out for people you know so i wasn't sure um but very quickly like there was a ton of people outside like people trying to get in um and we happened to be on the other side thank goodness because we were the first ones in we happened to be at the end and um so we really were not a part of the conversation as to who else comes in and who doesn't which is probably like to our benefit yeah i didn't want to be part of that no i don't want to have to like turn people away it sucks yeah so when we showed up everybody kind of showed up and then at some point we got all of our friends that were there at that time into the room and were like close that damn rope because there was a bunch of strangers that we didn't nobody knew that were like we got more room in there and we're like no sorry it's full i can remember one lady who like was hanging over the rope like yeah she's like i want to be in there we don't that.
And here's the thing. And this is the problem with this is we don't know you. We don't know. Well, the proper thing to do is to go to every. And really, we should have done that from the beginning. Let's go to each couple and say, are you comfortable with so-and-so being here? It was all just like a mad rush. Like, think of like people running into a room.
Like, kind of how it was i was like quick close the door and then and we and this is again we always preach this we should you know stop and have a conversation we should have like what are your rules what are your boundaries with everybody that's in the room we never did that because it was just chaotic it was very chaotic people started stripping clothes so who all was in there i I made notes. God, I hope I don't forget anybody. I don't remember. Beauty and the Beast couple. Forbidden Freaks. Yes. That North Carolina couple, we met them at Secrets. Yep, they were there.
Adventure couple that we talked about earlier. The lesbian, which is Devin Nicole. Yes. Which we did confirm that they are okay with us calling them a lesbian.
Yeah, mind they said it was a joke yeah like when they they said hey we have names that were not just lesbians they said they were just joking yeah buvy and duane um were there i'm pretty sure i'm not leaving anybody out i don't know i could be but i don't know there's a lot of people in there so how many couples is that like five one two three four five six including us which makes sense because i fucked five guys i fucked everybody um but one no so you fucked six guys because you fucked me well the lesbians are oh okay girls yeah um she she had a strap on on but she didn't fuck me.
I went down on one of them. The one without the strap on. Yeah. But I was like, I'm going to fuck every single guy in here. That was my... That's a good group. That was a very good group. And here's the thing.
So if our friends are listening and you were at that party and you didn't get into that room it's not because we didn't want you there right it just it just happened that way it just was really sudden we all were right there there was no ill there was strangers trying to get into that room and so we were like close the rope and done and then once we started fucking i don't like who managed the rope and let people in or didn't let people in i don't know and i think it was a general consensus general consensus once we closed that rope, like, just no more people come in. Yeah.
Just because, like, what you're saying. Honestly, there was no more room. Right. Because even if we had friends that showed up that wanted to come in and we were comfortable with it, you would have to stop everybody in that room and say, are you, you know, so it just was a weird situation. And for full transparency, someone did get mad and left. And we've had several conversations with them since then.
typically if something goes wrong or goes sour it's our fault um even though we had no control over that rope um and we were not the you know truth be told we were going up with another couple to have a foursome um but we typically are the ones that get blamed for stuff like this and they they did leave not happy with us um but we've had conversations with them since then yeah i feel like but i can get that i i also understand that like if it was us my feelings would have been all my friends went upstairs to play and then i come up and they're all in a room fucking and then like i go to the end and be like hey can we come in and then people are kind of like oh no sorry we're full my fans would totally i would probably cry just like let's be honest i would i would not want to be nobody wants to be that person so it was not done intentionally no their feelings happened that way yeah their feelings are very valid and truth be told i would feel the same way but it's worth mentioning because if you were in that vip i think you probably heard them get upset from we didn't know we had no idea that anybody had even left or anything because again we were on the opposite side of that so we didn't know what happened anything we didn't even know there was a situation until you know when we got done we came down and they were like so and so got upset and left so um but anyway um back to the fucking uh you miss adventure couple snatched your ass up and that's not where i started i think i started with you actually like me and you fucked a little bit and then i got some time with buffy yes uh so if you don't know energizer buffy well we've been friends with them for probably years now at this point but it's like the last three or four events we have been crossing paths yeah in the wind yeah I've been trying to fuck her for like I don't know six months now or something in the last two or three swing or side events um we keep saying like we're gonna fuck and I'm like yeah we're gonna fuck and then like we lose each other yeah in the night and get caught up in the chaos um so we did not get caught up in the chaos tonight and i got some time with buffy amazing yeah then misadventure couple which is like buffy jr or buffy 2.0 or whatever you want to call her she is also an energizer bunny yeah uh and yeah i got there and i don't think i ever left there for the next like hour and a half i thought it was cute like she just got on what she wanted and just like took control i loved it um not me though i made my way around you were a big whore the only much bigger of a whore than i was the only couple i did not play with was the north carolina couple because i think he had tried the dick shot for the first time and it takes i've never done it you've never done it so i don't know a whole lot about it from my understanding you have to tweak that the the amount you get you know it's not like a you just get a shot and yeah all the nurses in the room were helping him i don't i don't there was something going on yeah so i think he got he got one before um we started playing and then he needed like it needed to have more and so literally by the time he came back in and got to me i was like tapped out i was like borderline putting my clothes on um and i felt bad like i genuinely i knew he wanted and he's kind of like how you said with buffy there's been a couple occasions where we could have fucked and it just hasn't happened and so i was more concerned about like i didn't want him to feel like i didn't want to because i did he just i had already fucked well i mean if you five, I don't know how many, and then you.
I mean, I was pretty fucked out at that point. I felt genuinely bad, but I was like, next time, I promise. I promise I'll fuck you next time. I can't this time, though. Yeah. No, it was a good group. Lots of hot sex. Now, I will say, I'm a very confident person. I was a little intimidated in that situation.
There was a a lot of people watching us and there was a few times where my dick was responding to that yeah so like i would you know i'd get hard and i would fuck somebody i was like oh yeah this is hot and then i would take a little break and i'd like clean up and then go to fuck again and like getting my dick restarted took a little longer than it normally does i mean it still worked we got hard eventually but um you know miss adventurous is a trooper she she put in some work um but it wasn't as and i think it was because of that performance anxiety like we literally were probably literally 50 60 70 people peering in windows at us um and so that can be that you know even for somebody that's super confident and actually really enjoys that um I'll see you next time.
70 people peering in windows at us um and so that can be that you know even for somebody that's super confident and actually really enjoys that um it was it was a little intimidating it was and a little affecting what was going on in the room well in like a sea of people i could only see that miss america girl she was right she was right there that beautiful blonde hair and i like at one point mouth to. I wish you could come in here or something like that. I was totally fangirling over her. I mean, I had a big old crush. So do. But, yeah, it was a lot of people out there.
And what's funny is the next day, one of the security, and I don't know what his title is, but he's very much a big part of helping us get everything going. He's the guy that comes and unlocks gates and lets us see it and all that. He said, I saw you up there having a good time. He said, one guy was fucking you and another guy was choking you. And he was like, damn, how do I get in on that? I was like, we must have put on a good show.
It's like the employees are coming up here and watching so um it was fun it was great and i really liked this because we fucked a little later so basically by the time we got done it was like pretty much time to go closing time yeah which is because that's rough you get done fucking you're like over it and then um you gotta kind of sit there and wait for an hour yeah so um yeah we we pretty much wrapped it up uh when we all went to leave we left a little bit later than everybody else because you know we we kind of stay until pretty much everything's done but you and i by ourselves went to waffle house do you remember that i do remember that yeah and there was like like one or two workers there somebody called in six it was like away it was a shit show we waited at the bar and me and you ate we had not had dinner so because we got there early and we slept late and all the things so we ate and then um we went back and passed out that was that was our last event for 2024 yep nope uh that was it so, a huge shout-out to Club Tempted, the staff, the VIP attendants, the playroom attendants.
Tempted is a good club. We've been all over the world to different events and parties and clubs, and they definitely stand out. They care about that club. They care about their community. They care about their people.
and that's why we're so happy to be um you know partnered up with them and throwing parties there because they definitely um are one of the best probably in the country yeah and they're like a genuine family like the work the the workers care about the facility they care about each other they care about the people there they want everyone to have a good time there's like a lot of heart and soul in that place and for someone who has traveled and seen a bunch of different clubs you don't get that everywhere so shout out to them and all their hard work it does not go unnoticed and i hope they feel appreciated by us because they are and same to our staff on the swimmer society girls that kind of do everything behind the scenes uh you know mandy diana um tara all of you guys you guys they make it happen i mean we we we basically don't have to do much of the planning anymore these days because our our team is so so good at what they do uh so huge huge shout out to them um it was a great event and thank you guys for all your hard work uh if you would like to Come to a party with us, if you'd like to have a Swinger Society party experience, you can head over to swingersociety.net.
We're going to be at Club Colette in Dallas just in a few weeks, really. Yeah, I mean, like before we know it, it will be here because it's the 24th and the 25th of January. Right. And then we're going to go down to Miami in February. And we're going to go party there. We're going to have meet and greets at the Hallover Beach, which is a clothing optional beach. So if you've ever wanted to have the clothing optional beach experience, this is a great event for you. And again, that's a meet and greet that's non-ticketed. So anybody in the Miami area can come out and hang out with us that day.
And then we'll be at Club Miami Velvet that night. Looking forward to that. I don't worry. We're making it through that waiting list. We had friends that were on it, and they got a room yesterday. So if you want to go, please get on that waiting list. You would be surprised how many people just cancel. Yeah, they can't. They book it because they just don't want to miss out. And then something comes up, and they can't go.
So email admin at at swingersuddy.net and then you can also stay um there's an overflow hotel and you can come in on day passes yeah um so you know add yourself to the wait list but then go ahead and book that overflow hotel uh and plan on coming either way um on day passes it's gonna be a huge event um we can't wait to get back to secrets. It's always some of our biggest parties. Yeah. And a good time. Lots more going on. We got Bliss Cruises. We got Trips to Hedo. All kinds of stuff going on. Splash Atlanta, Houston, Naughty in New Orleans. It's going to be a crazy 2025.
We can't wait to do it all with you. I feel like every year I think we can't do any more and then we just keep pushing it. And so here we are. Doing more. Yep. All right. So swingersidee.net, swingersidee.net for all those events, parties, cruises, vacations. Come hang out with us. We look forward to it. Yep. All right. Anything else for the Swing Nation listeners, Lacey? I think that's it. All right. I think with that, in a world full of apples.
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