Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker

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They check out swingersociety.net, you create a you sign up for an event and you come hang out with us super easy that's right if you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and tiktok head on over to swingersociety.net can't wait to see you there Tuesday Talks Just send your questions So Dan and Lake said Tuesday Talks Swing Nation got you feeling sexy hey there pineapple people and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern and Southern Girl. And we are back with another rendition. Go ahead. Well, you paused. I know. I was waiting for you, but then you didn't do it, so I was going to do it. A Tuesday Talks. All right. Do you know what the question is? I'm not sure which one you picked. Oh, the Playroom one. Yeah, I kind of do. Do you want me to read it? No, no. Oh it's a bit it's a recording okay sorry let's go to the phone line and listen to this week's question hi lacey and dan my name is elena and i have a question for you guys we were at a party and we started to play with this couple the man in the couple wanted to talk like full-on conversations during the play session. Kind of caused some performance issues with my partner, and it did affect my enjoyment as well. It was our first time at this party, so light way of asking him to be quiet. I mean, I don't need the room silent, but I don't want him to talk to me about the weather or other things that are going on in his life while we play. We your show and we listen every week talk to you soon she sounds like she's like the nicest person ever don't you like get that from her voice i don't she didn't say a name though no i don't think so okay so anonymous couple girl lady lady yeah yeah says that she was in a playroom with a another couple it sounds like and the gentleman of that other couple was a little bit talkative during their play section their play session which led to not only her not fully enjoying herself but it was a distraction to her husband where it caused some performance anxiety for him and then she mentioned something about he you know she's talking about the weather and other things that were going on in his life during said session which is funny because when dan played this for me i laughed because i am kind of known for doing this um mine is more like in orgy sessions like when i'm taking a like break you know to get some water i'll just start up a full-on conversation not even thinking about the fact that people are still fucking i guess it's just normal now for people to be fucking around me so i have no issues like talking about nonsense while it's happening so i struggle with this a little bit too well and I think it might be this as well. Do you think that's a nervous tick? Probably. struggle with this a little bit too well and i'll i think it might be this as well do you think that's a nervous tick probably do you think you do it because you get nervous and it's just like a maybe sometimes or like you're hesitant to like start fucking you know yeah like if you're talking about in that scenario yeah but like if i'm just taking a break and there's somebody over there also taking a break and i just start talking about something like that's probably not a nervous habit that's probably i'm just i'm so used to being in a room full of people fucking but i kind of i could just think you know we've had newer couples that we've um played with before and it's like and they want to play it's not like this is a consent thing but when you get in a room you can tell they're nervous and they'll just start telling you and they don't know where to start like all the stories about all this stuff and they'll just keep talking and i think it's a nervousness thing i think it's a oh man if i stop talking i'm gonna have to do something and not that i don't want to do the thing but i'm really nervous because i don't know what to do like how to start right i'm gonna just keep talking and and because then that that maybe will at least fill the void um for a while i get it so we actually had a difference of opinion we typically kind of agree but i said i would just tell the guy to shut up and fuck me i mean and i was thinking about it even like if you if it like say somebody was like was talking and it was fucking like to me and it was fucking up you're even, like, if you, if, like, say somebody was talking and it was fucking, like, to me, and it was fucking up your, like, you know, like, maybe your dick can't get hard because he wants to, I could even see you going, like, hey, man, you're messing up my mojo or something, you know. But we've had several, like, especially women that are really loud, some of that where we've had to be, like, shh, you know. You did it in a nice, you said you would do it in a much nicer way than I would.