Send us Fan MailTuesday Talks: Is the Bush Back in Style in the Lifestyle? | Episode 38In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they tackle listener questions with their signature mix of honesty and humor.This week, Wendy calls in with a personal and intriguing question about female pubic hair. Her husband loves her natural look, so she’s grown it out, but she’s feeling a little self-conscious in swinging circles. However, she’s noticed a growing trend of others embracing their hair too and wonders: is the bush making a comeback in the lifestyle?Tune in as Dan and Lacy explore body trends in the lifestyle, break down stigmas, and share their thoughts on embracing personal preferences while keeping confidence high. Don’t miss this candid and relatable conversation!- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -
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Speaker1: This podcast is intended for adult audiences. Over the age of 18, it contains adult language and situations. The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed in this podcast belong solely to us, and not of any employer, organization, committee, or other group or individuals. This podcast is not intended to be taken as professional advice. Speaker2: Welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast, a podcast by swingers for swingers. We'll be right back. Welcome to the Swing Nation podcast, a podcast by swingers for swingers, where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle. Come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe, Speaker1: interview the experts, learn and grow together. Join the nation. So Lacey, people are asking, how do they get to go to a party or an event with us? They check out swingersociety.net. You create a profile, you sign up for an event, and you come hang out with us. Super easy. That's right. If you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and TikTok, head on over to swingersociety.net. Can't wait to see you there. Sexual health care can be so much more than STI testing. WISP offers services like emergency contraception, help in delaying your period, UTI treatments, and so much more. They even have a product called the OMG Cream that helps provide more fulfilling orgasms for women. WISP provides same-day prescriptions and can give you discreet treatment in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Check out the link in our show notes or go to HelloWiz.com and use code SWING for 15% off. Most people have unprotected oral sex, right? Be honest. Now think about your last STD test. Did your doctor tickle your throat with something that looked like a giant Q-tip? Probably not. Yet that's the only way to check for oral gonorrhea or chlamydia, which are often asymptomatic. You need a better doctor. You need shamelesscare.com. Use coupon code TSN at checkout. Tuesday talks with Dan and Lacey We take a question from a fan And answer it the best we can Tuesday talks with Ben and Lacey We take a question from the fan And answer it the best we can Speaker2: We can We'll be right back. Hey there, Pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and welcome back to another rendition of tuesday talks yeah talking tuesday so what are we gonna like are we ever gonna decide on which jingle uh i don't know i kind of are you just going to rotate let's keep it going we need more jingles guys go download one of these ai apps suno is one i actually just downloaded so maybe i'll even play around with some of my own yeah tuesday talk yeah intros and it's a pretty cool app you literally just like type in there like i want a podcast intro and you can say like you know house music and these i want these lyrics and or even like you can kind of say it's for a swinger podcast with dan and lacy and it will like write the lyrics for your stuff it's pretty cool so maybe i'll mess around with it if people don't send any in but if you want to mess around with it uh or you know maybe maybe you don't want to mess around with ai maybe you want to just you got a guitar you know how to sing i don't whatever your thing is uh i will say i i like all of these new ones but i love the first one because yeah because i liked how he added us in at the end it was kind of it was personal it felt personal to you it did it was it was good
Speaker1:
that one was good yeah we've got a lot of good ones now yeah yeah uh so thank you that that one was from um the uh amorous adventures okay that's cool thank you again for doing that he did a bunch yeah so that was a good one uh so if you would like to email us the best way to do is export it to an mp3 email us your tuesday talk intro jingle at email to the swing nation at gmail.com all right so for this week's question we're going to the phone lines yeah uh and we got this is this is why i love tuesday talks because you never know what people are going to ask and it's always some of the best ones are things i never would have thought about yeah right so let's turn to the phone lines hi dan and lacy my name is wendy i am happily married uh to my husband sean and i've got a interesting um observation just wanted to see if you guys had also noticed this um kind of along the lines of the last couple of podcasts that you've done done on the tuesday body positivity um my husband in the last few years has become quite um turned on with the idea of some small amount of pubic hair and not anything lower than the clit area just all above but it's a huge turn on for him I'd always kept myself very tight you know almost completely shaved but in the last couple of years I've grown it out on the top um made me a little self-conscious playing because it seems like everybody is completely shaved but I have also noticed in some of our friends that some of the females are starting to have hair again. Again, I'm not saying anything down below, literally just always on the top. I wanted to see what your guys' thoughts were. If you are noticing a trend or different ways of female grooming, absolutely love your show. Listen to it faithfully every week you guys are amazing looking forward to hopefully someday coming to one of your parties keep up the great work and hopefully you'll have some good answers to my questions have a wonderful day all right so wendy and her husband whose name it seemed like she forgot so i'm curious if she made a made-up name or if she actually forgot her she maybe she was no she hesitated you heard it yeah but maybe she just looked at him like can i can i say it yeah that's what i think they were in the car together or something probably yeah she like didn't think about it until there was a hesitation there yeah no i get it so one get it. So one, she forgot her husband's name. She didn't forget her fucking husband's name. She probably was thinking Dan, I bet, is what she was thinking. Oh, God. And then she forgot her husband's name or what you said. Yeah. I'd like to think she was thinking Dan. Okay. But she wants to know about body hair, specifically the female pubic hair. Well, I think body hair is a pretty big topic in the lifestyle that we somehow have never talked about ever other than i we might have talked about that we have laser hair removal right so me and you are both lasered correct i will say i still have hair i still have a little bit of hair it's like baby fine hair and i months, and you can barely see it. I think if I let it grow long enough, I could get a bush going again. It would probably be a little bit thinner, but yeah. I don't know. It's because I have light hair. It didn't do a very good job. Yeah, we both. I didn't go to enough treatments. Yeah, we both probably could get. I got extra treatments because the lady knew we were swingers and was sweet and gave me extra. Yeah, but or left yeah something happened and so she quit so anyway anyway that's beside the point so we have both been lasered so but she's saying she's noticing a trend with her and her friends and her swinger group she i don't think she said where she was from but that's the she's coming back i think with this generation hair is coming back uh under arms there are teenagers now that don't shave nothing yeah female teenagers that have leg hair armpit hair they have all this stuff yeah um so i think that that hair is definitely in my opinion becoming around more uh i've even noticed like a lot more bushes in porn um i so i definitely think it is a thing um in the lifestyle i don't know if it's as much as a thing as it is but i will say even in the last year you've i've probably seen more of it than correct in previous years so i definitely think that wendy and her husband sean they're on to something they're on to something that body hair pubic hair specifically in women is starting to make a comeback it's also he's not the only guy that's into that we have a really good friend who also shares that kink but his wife struggles with growing hair she's just not a hairy person so it's kind of funny to hear him talk about it like he always wishes she would grow a bush and she's just like leave me alone it's totally there's that um what's that the hot wire there's the only fans creator that we know i can't remember her username i'm trying to think of it but she she has a full bush and that's kind of like her stick is having a full bush and people love it like you said there's porn there's specifically categories of porn for like full bushes and things like yeah and they're like i know i had a friend i won't say her name but she's on only fans and like she was getting waxed so she had to grow out her you know hair to before she went and she took photos and like people went People won't love them because so many guys are into it. So I definitely think there is a space for that i do love what she said about it being neat and like it's not down below and you know she's definitely i think that's important that you're taking care of yourself so regardless if you're female or male I think, you know, it's okay to have hair. I think that's important that you're taking care of yourself. So regardless if you're female or male, I think, you know, it's okay to have hair. I think that's okay. It's like, it's how you trim it and you make sure everything's kind of in the right. And the same for our hair and our head. We want to present ourselves in the best way possible. So I think that if you choose to have pubic hair, I think doing that, you know, a little, a little, I don't want to say, I was thinking like manscaping, but you know, like.
Speaker3:
Thank you. if you choose to have pubic hair i think doing that you know a little a little what i don't want to say i was thinking like manscaping but you know like females yeah i don't know what you call it but i think that's important regardless so i think whatever you choose if you and your partner are both into it and your play partners are cool with i mean i think that that's i think it's all great um variety is the spice of life let me ask you this how do you feel about male body hair or male to be honest with you i'm not in super into either female or male hair yeah i'm not so you would prefer clean shaven yeah on either gender i don't yes um i don't mind some let me just say that like if a girl had a landing strip, I would probably be okay with that or, like, a little.
Speaker1:
And if a guy had maybe, like, just a little, I would be okay. But a man with, like, a full-on bush or anything like that, I would just – that would be hard for me.
Speaker3:
And I think this is guys in general. I really don't care. Yeah. You could have a landing strip. You could have one of them – what do you call it?
Speaker2:
A V. You could have a bikini wax. You have uh for females i'm not super confident and um that's new territory i mean i guess i've been sleeping girls for quite some time but i'm still not like i don't i don't i by far sleep with more men than women so i just feel like the less that's down there the better the easier access you have to the vagina yeah yeah i get it um yeah so for me my personal style if i had to choose between the two i'd definitely go i really don't care honestly you could probably have a full like 70s porn bush and i'd probably still really eat it up yeah yeah probably it even kind of freaks me out when like you go down with me on me with your beard and you're like that's like the flavor saver oh yeah you should keep it a little bit for later on yeah that's what it's all about uh no i think and honestly i kind of want to find a girl with a bush now like i'm kind of kind of thinking about it i'm like that's kind of well kind of different kind of hot yeah maybe i need to hit up uh wendy yeah maybe she's got something going on down there uh but no i think this is what i love about the lifestyle right variety spice of life right you're into that go find a girl that's got it if you're not don't get me wrong i love hairless i love smooth and here's um a little bit of a hot take on this i think the next generation just does not want to do what their parents did right well we didn't want to do what our parents did our parents had bushes were like hair that's disgusting all these old people and their their big hairy bushes and that's gross we're all going to be clean and smooth and shaven and it's like our whole generation did that for 20 years and now it's like the next kids are like screw that be natural let that shit grow you know i mean and so then their kids guess what they're all gonna have smooth fucking vaginas well that's what like when i got because i have laser hair on pretty much everything except for my arms my legs my underarms and people are like what are you gonna do if like bushes come back i'm like i don't fucking care i don't i prefer like even before like if it would start growing out it would be like itchy and i'm like i cannot do this i will say since i've had the laser done on my um genital area i at least shave significantly less yeah i could go weeks now without shaving where before it was like every couple days i had to do it so that part is nice yeah uh so yeah no i think again this is the lifestyle you do you right and if somebody doesn't want to fuck you because you have a hairy bush that's fine fuck them if they you have a landing strip or you have whatever if you have hair down there and they don't want to go down on you i think you might find one out of 100 guys that that's going to be a problem for uh but screw them he probably wouldn't have done a good job anyway because he was worried about i would guess in today's day and age if you had a bush it's actually going to attract more guys because it's different right and this is what lifestyle people like something that's new something that's different something that you know is not something they see every day people are drawn to that and they want to experiment they want to new things. And so if you have a bush and nobody else does, my guess would be you're going to find a lot of guys that want to have that experience.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker2:
And so Wendy, I would rock that bush. I would tell everybody about it or it sounds like she has a landing strip
Speaker3:
or something,
Speaker2:
not a full bush.
Speaker1:
No, I don't think she has a landing strip. I think she just has some hair,
Speaker3:
like she said,
Speaker1:
above her clit. Some hair up there. Yeah. Yeah. Which I actually like that. Like if like if you're gonna do it i think that's the way to do it yeah i want it on my on my face yeah i want to be all up in it truth i can't even watch like bush porn it just have you tried yeah see lacy even got curious she's like oh she's got a bush let me watch this no you know like if i'm scrolling and i start watching the video i'm like oh the girl's got a bush but you don't scroll you scroll a page and there's video thumbnails you clicked into it clicked into it and then i'm starting to watch it and like say there's like three girls and like one's got a bush and like i'm like oh damn like i'm just not into it yeah but i am i'm into it that's good for you i'm into everything though you're into everything that i'm not i don't i can't even grow a bush you're over here i love bushes give me a bush put it on my face no but i mean if if you said would you know my preference would probably be no bush but like since we're in the lifestyle and there's now there's starting to be people out there with bushes like i want to try that out i want to see i want to explore that okay you support it i do are you a little jealous no i'm not jealous at all you do you babe that's cool all right because i can't give you that so i'm fully okay with you doing it with someone else that way. Well, we want your bush, Wendy, so don't be self-conscious. There's at least one guy out there that's into it. No, there's a lot. There's a bunch. There's a whole bunch. Okay. If you have a Tuesday talk question like Wendy did, if you are curious about something and you want to know me and Lacey's what we think about it, or you want to get our, our take on whatever it is that you are thinking about, whether it's lifestyle related or honestly, you can ask us, this is kind of an ask us anything. So maybe you've got a question that has nothing to do with lifestyle. You can call us. And that phone number is. Before we give them the phone number. What? Do you want to tell them? No, I don't want to. We lost the phone. Lacey lost the phone lacy lost the phone no no dan okay this is like behind the scenes dan was like i can't find the phone i'm like huh he's like you had it and i was like um no i did not and for like a week this man has like three days it's been longer it's been like five this man has blamed me for this phone like we've been in like are he's so grouchy to me and so we finally decide to go back and watch the cameras and guess who walks out the front door with the phone not the phone it was in a backpack it was in a backpack so we finally like we leave for an event in like 24 hours we found the phone we finally found the phone And it made it up to me He said sorry He went down on me and then we fucked over the As soon as we found the phone Over the desk so I forgive him for being grouchy Thanks babe Anyway the number if you're ready The phone number to the phone that we found is 972-302-7716.
Speaker2:
One more time.
Speaker1:
972-302-7716.
Speaker3:
All right.
Speaker2:
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