Tuesday Talks: How to Find Bi-Bi Couples in the Lifestyle

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And today, we are back with another episode of Tuesdayuesday talks we are talking tuesday with dan and lizzie we need your jingles we need them is it over should i give up on the jingle thing i think so babe should we pick one i think we should so we should go back at all the jingles we've got and picked and just pick with just one yeah for now and if somebody wants to blow our socks off you can always send it you don't need us to keep saying it yeah but i'm i'm over it a little okay all right so let's go so if you have a tuesday talk or if you've been thinking about sending a tuesday talk jingle do it now now is the time yeah um save that as an mp3 and email it to us at the swing nation at gmail.com we'll probably keep mixing them up a little bit but we'll be a little more consistent and not do a new one maybe every week yeah okay are you ready to go to the phone lines and hear this week's question i am all right let's do it hey dan lacy my name is uh brandon my wife bill and i have been listening to the podcast for a long time now in our daily community and i guess for a question we were kind of open to just to ask the question we very recent very new in the lifestyle we're both bisexual and that has recently come up in our marriage for almost six years now i for us, we've been having a real hard time locating other couples that are fully bi. We get a lot of the straight guys that are giving me the message, that, the other. In terms of fair play, I guess the question is, what advice would you guys have for a fully bi couple searching for another bi couple another bi-couple in Lifestyle? And granted, we have the SPC. We purchased the Lifestyle membership, and we're going to be attending a first event here coming up next weekend. And I don't know. I guess we were just kind of maybe looking for some advice on how to proceed with that. So thank you, and I hope to get a break, guys. Great guys great question i like it great question um so he wants to know i think brandon was that his name yeah i didn't catch his wife's name but that's okay i missed that part too but um brandon wants to know it sounds like they're new to the lifestyle getting ready to their first attend their first event and they are a bye-bye couple and they're looking for ways to connect with other bye-bye couples yeah now i will say we've been doing this podcast for a while uh three years ago bye couples i think seemed at least seemed more rare than they do now yeah i think the lifestyle has grown in that area at least in my opinion right i think people are starting to be more comfortable with their sexuality and being more open to share it. I just think there's a lot of people out there that maybe still keep that private, but I think it's becoming a little bit better, at least as a bi-female, I feel like that. I'm not a bi-male, so it's hard for me to comment, but from my perspective, yeah. So if you've listened to our podcast for a while, you've heard me say multiple times that before me and Lacey were together, I was in the lifestyle as a single male. And it was very common for me as a single male to be approached by couples that on their profile on SDC, SLS, Cassidy, whatever, it said straight male by by female but when they would reach out to me in conversation in text message exchanging they would often bring up well hey my husband has these fantasies um we're really looking to fulfill this fantasy um and then whatever that was whether that was straight a lot of the the questions i got seemed to be around oral sex where they wanted to like give a blow job together or something like that and then we even had our um our podcast with uh naughty jim and i revealed on that podcast that i actually indulged in that one time it was okay i didn't hate it didn't love it it was okay um but then we just now did a podcast with susan that isn't out yet but it was trends for 2025 and i don't think we even discussed this but i definitely feel like more open sexuality is something that's trending i agree now in the lifestyle i agree it's getting better within our own circles we've had quite a few friends that have come out as males that have come out as bisexual it seems like sexuality in the swinger space is it's okay to be much more fluid yeah than it was a couple years just a couple years ago um you see a lot more you know men wearing thongs and outlandish you know really you know whatever they want to do right and i think you know i think when i first started going to swinger clubs almost 10 years ago you never saw that if you did see that it would probably be uncomfortable for people like what the hell is this dude wearing now it's like now it's very much celebrated yeah i agree um so i think that by couples or by by couples or even just men exploring their sexuality in this space is something we're going to see more and more of as we trend to. It's definitely not perfect, though. And I feel like we have a lot of, I think there's a lot of ground to make up, but I feel like you're right. It's going in the right direction.