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We are are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and today we got a special episode for you we're sitting down with i think some people refer to him as mayor george is what i would have would have heard we're gonna have to get an explanation on that one but uh he's a former television and commercial director uh and he's a single male been in this in lifestyle for over 10 years, and he's kind of here to talk to us about that, about being a single male in the lifestyle and how to do that successfully. He also is an OnlyFans content creator, and you might know him as the Hot Wife Hunter.
So, Mayor George, welcome to the podcast. Hi, you too. Thanks for having me. Well, we're glad you're here. So, usually the way we like to start our podcast is kind of the way we start most lifestyle conversations. Tell us a little bit about yourself. Sure. I hail from the Lone Star State. I'm born and bred Texan. Traveled the world, discovered this lifestyle. It's going on 11 plus years now. And when it began, it was an incredible start to an amazing journey.
And I've made so many amazing, incredible, fantastic, I'll run out of adjective friends in this over a decade journey and i found my family flat out and i've never looked back i said to someone the other day i don't even see the horizons of the vanilla world anymore um and that feels that feels pretty good so yeah okay so i guess you used to be in television used to direct commercials and things things like that. That's kind of your background? I did. I effectively retired from my own company in 2019, GHM Creative.
I was a producer-director for television commercials for 20-something years, and I got into television shows as we were coming up on the pandemic so I started uh directing for television back in late 2017 early 2018 and I was doing that for um more reality-based things and I was actually involved in shows that were piloting that were coming out and the c-word hit in 2020 and it shut all that down so some of that actually is coming back on to life so i may be pulled out of retirement we'll see that's going to be an interesting thing to discover there being the vanilla world of production their take on who i've become because i'm not going to hide it i have i i i have created the the hot wife hunter character and it's out there so there's there's probably not going to be uh much hiding that so we'll see how they how they take it but for the most part i'm not in front of the camera so it's a little different as a director i can kind of i can get away with more than i could if uh if i were being interviewed to star on some kind of reality series and then they said well what have you done before have you ever done television like i've done porn does that matter no so we're good okay yeah you can find me on pornhub so yeah we'll see but yeah that's that's uh that's what i come from is uh television production and i'll bring a little that into this world and it's fun so i try to have um creativity injected into my uh content creation when i can so creators have responded that pretty well they have a lot of fun with me as i turn them into superheroes and and um assassins and spies we have fun it's it's pretty neat yeah i think that that's how we first came across you i think is some of some of our friends have made content with you and we saw some of the the teasers and clips and stuff on on twitter and social media and i'm like this this is a different you know usually most only fans creators it's an iphone on a on a stand somewhere um not too much visual and 3d effects and people flying and and superheroes and stuff like that so i think you definitely with your background bring a different perspective to to talk content creation absolutely for better or worse because it is it is more work it would be so much better i'm very jealous of of the creators that literally hit record and sex so i'm a little jealous of that but i still love i mean it's what it's what feeds me creatively so um i'm open to doing those straight into it scenes but it's i even then i still find myself thinking about where are we though you know are we uh criminals on the lamb are we uh superheroes you know whatever but anyway you can't you can't turn it off huh no i can't so when you sent us your bio part of what you said is you know you've been a single single man lifestyle for 10 years and I think you put it in there by choice.
So can you just explain what that what does that mean? You know, for me, what that means is I'm not actively looking for a partner emotionally, relationally, relationship wise. I'm not currently. And honestly, and everyone I know has that same romantic idea of, oh yeah, that's what you think, and you'll find your person.
But honestly, this is just where I'm at in life, and it has nothing to do with how I navigate the lifestyle, as in I want to do this by myself, selfishly, not selfishly, or if I want to do it with someone that may or may not get me in the door to something, or do I want to be in love in this lifestyle? It's none of those things for me. It's outside of that. I honestly just don't want to say bye to anyone else. I've said it recently. I've said I'm done with dating and I'm done with pets. The two things that I don't want to say bye to anymore are women and animals.
So it's been too hard on me on my emotional bandwidth over the years. And I'm sure most people would say anyone who's been in love and fallen out of love or had a breakup, they're not fun. So I'm having a great time and that by choice isn't that I'm closed off completely, but I'm certainly just not out there looking for for love or looking for someone to to partner with in this lifestyle.
what is what is that that can come front-loaded too with the idea that this guy you know i hear it from couples um husbands that are friends of mine they're like man screw you they're like you have the best of both worlds. You know, we're all playing. And my wife, I can tell, is upset with me because it's something that I didn't even realize I did wrong. And you're over there waving bye to us because I've got to go home with her and take this spanking that I don't know really quite sure why I'm getting it, but I'm getting it. And you got to just enjoy yourself and go home and sleep peacefully.
So they said it's the cat bird seat. They're like, man, you've got it made. I'm like, ah, yes and no, but it is, it could be nice. But yeah, I do end up home alone, sleeping quietly, peacefully in my bed with nobody to snuggle. But I still really enjoy my lifestyle journey. And it's been amazing all the way through. So Dan was a single guy. And he also, when he met me, said he did not want to be married or date anybody.
And I changed mind i changed his mind yeah that is kind of our origin story is we we met in the lifestyle and i was a single male she's a single female and during that it definitely i was of the same mind that you are is that um i've been through love and breakups and that's not fun and this is fun you know being a single male and going out and doing all these things so but i didn't take no for an answer so here we are she basically just didn't give up yeah i just drove him crazy stuck around until we ended up married yeah i love it i love it so lacy you drove that yeah i did totally yeah 100 he was like okay this was a fun week bye and i was like bye and then i was like can i have your number because we like talked on kick you know back then and we were like so then i was like can i have your number can i have your facebook can we go on a date can i come see you can and then eventually uh i went i visited him.
We lived 500 miles apart. I visited him. And then the rest is like history. We were married a year and a half later. And here we are. I love it. She was persistent. I was. She didn't take no for an answer. No, I just had this feeling. For years. I had this feeling about you. But I also can relate to what you were saying about.
Because when I was a unicorn, I can remember feeling the same way about like when a couple when you're with a couple and then you get to leave and they get to deal with the emotions and all of that you get to leave and you're like peace out I don't got to worry about that but it can also be like kind of sad when you're home and you're all by yourself and they're snuggling and get to talk about the experience. And me, I was just like by myself. So I can totally relate to that. Sure. No, I mean, again, there's pros and cons for both.
I've, I've actually done lifestyle as a single and in a relationship.
So I was in a three-year i was in two um relationships inside the lifestyle one i brought her into it and the more recent one was a three-year relationship that she was in it longer than i was so i've seen both sides of the dynamic and i've gotten to to go home to, um, the posts talking about it and reliving it and and for good and bad for better or worse so yeah i've gotten to do both so i feel like i can i can speak to both sides of it and i'm not just um insensitive to what it's like to to be a couple in the lifestyle because that's I've gotten to see a lot of people come into this and grow and some not grow.
One of the things that I've said is there's no better way to pressure test your relationship than the lifestyle. You will find out where the cracks are when you start to really get involved and be active in the lifestyle. I think you can observe it but But if you get into it and you start, and you guys know, I like to say you're pedaling along and one gets ahead of the other. And that doesn't always go well. But the hope is that you see that and that slows back down or you speed up whoever is not in sync.
And I tell anyone my advice to couples, because again again I get to see that and I love I I like to say the lifestyle is full of sexuality and that type of experience but it's the human ant farm that will keep me in this until my last breath because it is is endlessly engaging, interesting and entertaining to watch people interact. And so I've gotten to see couples come in. I've gotten to see couples grow. I've gotten to see couples do the lifestyle. And I always say to anyone, take this slow, do it with intention and do it with each other. And just don't get over your skis.
Don't get out ahead of each other because it can get it can get ugly um quickly so but it's been really amazing to see people come out of the vanilla world it's so full of contention and unfortunately oftentimes um mistrust distrust cheating lying a lot of that stuff that doesn't happen as often in this lifestyle, we can get it done. Anyone can find a way to break an agreement or cheat on one another or find a way to transgress a boundary. But I say, having been married in the vanilla world, that ends. I find the lifestyle about two to three years later.
And that's when I said I found my people because I've never seen more healthy, self-aware, well-adjusted couples as I have in this lifestyle. And that kind of leads me to the next question. I was going to ask you how, you know, you said you've been doing this for 10 years now, but I'm a part of the community. How did you stumble into it? How did you kind of discover? So post-divorce, I moved, uh, this is a rule in Texas. If you divorce in Texas, you move to Austin. So how long were you married for? Just out of curiosity.
Uh, I was, we were together, uh, just less than 10 and married for seven and a half, eight years. So we were together for about a year and a half dating and then we married and um i i got to be a dad to to her daughters i was um the whole package i mean it was it looked like a a a sitcom life it was a vanilla marriage we lived on a a street with a cul-de-sac and everyone got together for for dinners and kids sleep over. So it was the whole package.
And when we divorced and I moved to Austin 2010, 11, 12, that was when online dating was really coming to its own, was into its own so you had plenty of fish okay cupid bumble didn't exist i don't even know what all there is now i haven't done that world in so long i hear there's uh bumble was the last i knew of um and i'm sure there's more since then but back then you never experienced tinder then no. You missed out on that one. Yeah. So let me speed this up. So while in Austin, there's always something amazing to go do. And people would online date almost as a sport.
And it wasn't always for hooking up. It was for you wanted someone to go do something with, go to this live music event, go to – you'd go to – there was things like afro wig pom-pom unicycle racing that's a real thing in austin and um then you might go to acl live and catch an incredible concert and you wanted somebody to do that with so you made these profiles in my point having said all that is this i got good at that self-promotional marketing so hold on to that. Set that aside. I moved back to East Texas when my mother passes away. I'm an only child.
And I went back to make sure my father didn't follow her to the grave. So they've been together for 50 years.
And when I came back to East Texas, the pool of dating shrunk down to about a pin size hold um in the dating universe and i looked into finding a really cute really interesting um woman that also had gotten out of a marriage and did not want to be in a relationship so we were friends with benefits and it was amazing and laying in bed post coitus talking about what we're into she says what like is your what's your jam and i said well i could just show you because that was back before streaming and you had to actually save porn on your computer or go to a website so i bring up i don't know at the time whatever it was and she goes wow you got a lot of like group sex and orgy porn in your in your saves and your favorites.
And I go, so I'm a buffet man. I'm like, when all of us go to dinner, I want. Right. So I want everybody at the table to order something different so we can all eat some of everything. I tend to be that way in the lifestyle where I love walking. My favorite setting is to walk into a room full of people that are just down with the get down and everyone's, you've got races and creeds and styles and shapes and all this. And I just love it. I'm an empath and that energy just gets all over. So she goes, that's interesting that you like that kind of backing up again. This is, I am still vanilla.
I truly believe this or not, do not know this exists, this, this lifestyle. So we're 2013 now uh 2012 2013 and she says you know my husband my ex-husband and i we we used to do that i go we used to do what she goes oh we used to be in an orgy zone bullshit she's like i'm serious we would go to dallas so now i'm back home which is hours, Austin, Dallas, Houston, and all those directions. I'm a pinpoint in the middle of nowhere now on my acreage and my farmhouse I restored. So that's where I also was in 2013. I left again after I got my dad where he needed to be health wise with himself.
but there was a time back in 2013 where i'm in east texas i meet her she tells me she likes fucking in groups and says with himself but there was a time back in 2013 where i'm in east texas i meet her she tells me she likes fucking in groups and says my ex and i used to go to dallas do this and she's there and then she ends that with do you would you be interested and i said i don't know let me think about it? Yes.
So I immediately spin a laptop around and typed in the words she had said to me, lifestyle, swinger, party, sex party, Dallas, you know, and at the top were the paid google ads and it said sdc.com I click on this site and it says online now 1,400,000. And I was just like, this is insanity.
And I start to see these profiles and they look exactly like the dating profiles when I was in Austin, except it was predominantly couples the site is even called swinger date club sdc so you're welcome sdc for that plug so the um that's okay with their affiliates you can use it you can use the link in the show notes okay cool so so as you guys know, and as most people in the lifestyle know, SCC, SLS, Cassidy, Lifestyle Labs going out west. So I got very familiar with all of these. But SCC was really, to my mind at the time, because it had this clean, stark, black background, gold lettering.
It just looked really well done. And you started to look at these profiles of gorgeous people. Some of them were unbelievable to me that they were really not only in this, but they existed. I'm like, these people are, that's no way, that's a fake profile. And turns out it wasn't. And you start to reach out. And for us, I made a couple's profile using my Plenty of Fish training. So I made a profile that was pretty extensive. It had a long about us section. And I was being funny. And I say mileage varies.
I thought I was being funny and clever and witty and telling what we wanted, what we didn't want, who we were. Five minutes into this thing going live, ping, ping she was like this little five foot one cheerleader gymnast built body with this incredible little ass and it did not take long for us to get invited to a party and we went and that is going on now like I said, 11 plus years or so. I have to do the math on that. But that house party, I still hold dear some of the people I met at that party that I didn't know a single soul.
We walked in the front door, and it was as perfect of a house party.
Now looking back, and I know what I speak speak of as you could possibly have found yourself stumbling into and they were like hey come on in put your bags over here this is billy tammy sally billy bobby berry carrie terry larry jerry and i was like hey everybody i'm george and they're like hey george and the women are over there running up to her and like drag they're drawing her in and we love your shoes and look at this outfit and i'm like people don't do this in the vanilla world the men want me to not be here the women want this bitch gone because she's gonna steal their man and I was just like this is and the couples are coming up in love they're not coming up and when the wife walks away he's like i hate this bitch we're divorcing no they were like yeah he's sitting there watching her go and they're like you know we've been married 30 years and i still love watching that ass walk away.
And I was like, who says that? Nobody says that in the world I come from. So I just took it all in. And when that was all said and done and we headed home. And by the way, she had the same experience. We we we played together. We played.
I mean, we did stuff because we weren't in a relationship with high stakes um i will hopefully those who are listening will realize i'm not contradicting myself we got out over our skis with big smiles so she was like dragged into a bathroom with a couple i'm like oh have fun and she's like i'm like are you good she's like i love it and i'm like she's like do your thing so she's like just tell me about it later so we felt like people who saw that was like have you guys been together forever like nobody does that but we really hadn't but we were good with not feeling like we had to hold one another's hands to do this because she had done it before i if anything i was the rookie you know so um i get pulled out to to to a a scene and get thrown into a group and then I get pulled another way and people started laughing.
They're like, you look like a doctor doing house calls. Cause I had my little black bag and I'm, and I'm, and they see me across the pool and I'm coming out of, uh, of, of playing and, and I'm like, just I'm sweating and smiling and someone else like, Hey, we heard about you. You're the new guy. And they grabbed me and I'm going and I've got my little bag in my hand. And it was just they're like, you just look like you're going across the pool and making a house call. So it was a blast. And fast forward about three, four months and she got a job offer up north. And I don't mean North Texas.
I mean, like this woman went to Minnesota somewhere and um so we parted ways amicably again we were just friends with benefits having a great time so we went to two or three parties um before she ended up moving away for this job offer here i sit with an sec couples account and i started to scroll to see were there single accounts and there were but there were also a lot of no single males fuck single guys you guys are shit don't contact us and i'm looking i'm like, there's a lot of animosity on here. Do I want to do this?
So I reached out to the help desk and I said, hey, what do I do to switch this account to a single profile? And they were very helpful. And they said, well, you just switch it over and they'd help me do it. And I became just a little blue guy on the screen. And I changed my account to really great guy, which it still is to this day. And there I sat and those ping that we were getting as a couple went to like ping crickets, you know. So this goes on for a while, but I did get to the credit of the people who invited me to the first house party.
I reached out and said, would you guys be OK with me coming back if I don't have a date, if it's just me? And they said, absolutely. Come on. And so that also I got lucky. I got a great experience, followed up by a great experience, followed up by a great experience. Not everyone gets that. And again, I was just so grateful for that. And when I when I dipped, when I entered into the single version of this lifestyle, I've run up against all kinds of reactions. I've had incredibly welcoming couples.
I've had encounters where I could tell that, and it's typically, and this is a generalization, but for my experience, it's typically been more husbands than wives that were like, who are you and why are you here? And what are you trying to do? You know? And for me, I come from a place of empathy. So I would literally just be kind. And if someone didn't want me somewhere for any reason, I didn't push. I was like, hey, I get it, guys. No, you guys are all going to go play and you don't want an odd number in a fifth wheel.
So I had this idea after falling so in love with the lifestyle that I did not ever want to be ostracized. And on the flip side of that, I also wanted to be invited to anything and everything that I could. So I am the man my mother raised. And that is someone who is gracious and giving and kind. And I'm here to I'm here to help.
And I don't want to cause any problems if I'm not something you would you you want at your event it I'm great with that you know but it didn't happen very often after I'd been in it for a while so and I again I attribute that to my raising I attribute that to how how I was brought up to be um a facilitator of of of fun and kindness and i love it makes me so happy to see people interact even if i'm i don't have to be in it so i would start um holding in my mind the people that i was really enjoying meeting and then others. And I would say, you know what? You guys would love these guys.
And I would gather them up and I'd walk away. And I did that at parties. And I did that on STC. I did that all the time. And that built a family around me. And I'm sure, I mean, I'm aware that this lifestyle is a, is a surface thing often. And by the way, guys, I don't have to suck all the oxygen out of the room. No, you're good. You're good. I'm wrapping it up, which is the idea of what this lifestyle means to me and what it was, what it became, and what it still is, which is this incredible family of people that I like to think I had a hand in putting together.
That makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside, that I can run into people, the crews that we were just on. I can run into people I haven't seen in years and know that I had a part in their journey. And that's pretty cool. I like that. And the side effect to that, whether I knew it, I know it now. At the beginning was I was someone people sought out because of my Rolodex, my wealth of knowledge of couples because I had gone on a date with or played with or not played with, just hung out with. And people would reach out to me and say, what do you know? And I'm like, they're good, man.
You'll really like them.
Or, or hey he or she gets a little ahead of the other and that might be a tough night for you or i'm honest i would say hey that's the couple last weekend that you saw fighting in the yard rolling down the hill into the yeah and they were like yeah i see i'm not judging i'm just saying that's what happened do with that information as you as you wish yeah knock yourselves out so So if it wasn firsthand information i i really try to shy away from it but if i saw it say something see something say something you know so i'm like yeah they may not be good for you but hey if you like that rolling down a hill and with a couple pulling each other's hair out go after me so all right anyway i think now's the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the swing nation podcast but when we get back i really want to get into uh your experiences as a single male and maybe some advice that you'd have for a single males that may be out there and listening to this and then i want to learn a little bit more about this this hot wife hunter series and what you got going on with that i love it sounds good all right guys we'll be right back We'll be right back we here at the swing nation podcast are proud to partner with promessant listen guys we've all been there you're having a hot night with a hot chick maybe a few hot chicks but you need to kind of delay the time before you pull that trigger.
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I won't put you on the spot to thank you name one thank you all right we're back here with george talking all things single males in the lifestyle um hot wifing but kind of from the males perspective which is which is a different uh perspective than we've had on the podcast i'm glad we have it to be honest with you because like we were talking before we hit record the vast majority of our friends play with single males uh but i think single males just get such a bad rap when in fact so many people actually partake in that yeah so i'm curious on your take on that george so we we get messages all the time dms and things like that and they say like oh this lifestyle sounds great and fun and all that but i'm a single male and you know i'm shunned from this lifestyle like you guys you guys don't want single males in the lifestyle um what has been your experience with that you know it it's it's um it's an interesting and often hot-button topic because people bring with them perceptions in anything in life.
And in this, it's been something that I have fortunately not been on the ugly side of more than twice.
and i mean twice at a moment where i was somewhere and i could feel it i could pick up the energy and again it was it was a husband it wasn't a couple and i was just like the guy in the old west that walked in the bar and he's just trying to have a shot and this guy leans on the bar and goes ain't enough room in this town for two of us you know and it was like i'm sorry was me you know so i've never one again i always go back to how i was brought up but i also don't out of just survival instinct i'm not gonna walk into some place with my chest out and be like i'm here aren't you glad you know it's like i i don't even i often i default to most everything in life and certainly this lifestyle of waiting for the hook to come in and yank me out because i I just, it's like, this is such a found my people world for me that I just can't help but think it's imposter syndrome.
I'm looking on my shoulder like this is too good to be true. They're going to, I can't, I'm going to get yanked out of this Super Bowl ticket holding event that I'm at because I just, I'm not supposed to be here. This can't be right. So I walk into any situation I would like to think non-threatening because, again, I don't come in thirsty. I don't come in angling around a husband to get to his wife. If we play, we play. If we don't, we don't.
I am thrilled at, as I told you, the whole human ant farm of this thing and the scenarios I'm describing are typically house parties, curated events, things that are happening at the more public clubs, but it's an event.
I don't typically go to clubs or public venues as a single 95.9 percent of the time i have a date because i'm aware that i don't want to not contribute to a lifestyle atmosphere in a way that they would like me to um this is distasteful and it did not come from me but i'm gonna to share it i had a friend of mine who likes to say did you bring a trade yeah that can kind of connotate the idea that one of us is an object right women nor men are objects we are we are fully realized human beings with thoughts, feelings, emotions, all this. But it's fair to say this is often a surface sport.
The lifestyle has a lot of we're a couple, we're good, we're here to heighten this, we're here to put a kink, a twist, a taboo. we want to do something with our sex life um that's outside of just the two of us so whatever that kink is whatever that and that's a hard let's call it something else whatever that thing whatever that thing is you're wanting to do outside of your fantasy right we use the word fantasy a lot whatever your fantasies are there you go thank you so whatever your fantasy is um man do your thing uh but at the same time i do I'll see you later. Joe, thank you.
So whatever your fantasy is, man, do your thing. But at the same time, I do a more live and let live approach. So I advocate for good intentions, good behavior. And this applies to couples. This applies to single males, married males, single females, married females, relationship, not a relationship. Act well, and you should be treated well. I don't think that the prejudice should come into the conversation. Unfortunately, it does.
And for single males, what I've observed, honestly, is more often than not, the complaints are coming out of venues that allow just about anyone to come in that pays the fee. Yeah. That's not a curated single male experience. That is a free for all that you don't know who's going to be there.
You don't know who's going to be standing over your bed jacking off while you're trying to play with a group or with each other and you look up and there's like a pass of a dude standing there pants around their ankles i don't feel like those are true lifestyle people i feel like those who are these men yes single guys who just like want to get laid and i think for me personally i feel like just a random single guy who wants to get laid are the people that make single males in the lifestyle look bad not true lifestylers who have put in the work who have like proven themselves i think that it's just the the guys who go in and pay the 200 to go in and have no idea about what's actually going on.
Yeah, and the interesting part about that, and I'd be curious on your take on this because we host events and parties and we do our own takeovers and stuff. And from the organizer's perspective, right, we want to include single males because we want to include everybody.
Obviously, we limit the amount of tickets that we sell, and that tends to kind of – because we have single males in our group, group they tend to buy up those tickets so we kind of get the same single males that come to a lot of our events we don't get a lot of newer ones but i guess you know we've had this conversation about how do you vet people and i don't think it applies just to males but that that tends to be the one that comes up a lot is how do you vet single males and i don't know if i really see a good a good solid answer right if you're going to go throw a big event and you know have four or five hundred people there and you know you got room for 30 40 males how do you vet each one of those and is there a fair way to do that if you're not doing that with the couples and things like that you know I guess I don't really know the answer to that of what the best policy for that would be yeah so to me i think it's it's two conversations because it's got you've got two venues um backing up to what you talked about with uh what we were alluding to the idea of it's just in a public gen pop general population type setting where you're at a club that anyone can go in the good thing about well-intentioned single males in the lifestyle those men persevere they they succeed because they couldn't get away with what they pulled at the club if they were true lifestyle because we're a community and we all talk to each other yes so i would almost be able to say to a man if you've got if you've had an experience you two had a bad experience at the bar at the playroom at the club at one of these venues arguably that guy's not us because he couldn't pull that shit more than once or twice and he's never invited we know who this guy is now that's setting aside public venue in the house party curated he never would have got invited invite only event they can only pull that arguably once rarely twice can they do a this guy was did you guys see what he did did you hear about you know and and he was overly just whether he's just too friendly thirsty or flat out walked right through consent and ran two fingers in your wife.
All of those transgressions will not happen three, four or five times with a single male who's in the lifestyle. That's what Dan always says.
He always talks about how when he started in the lifestyle, all it took was him to have a couple of good experiences and then friends started talking to friends and that kind of helped you yeah i'm sure you know too jordan so you know when i was a single male and i i would play with couples often after the experience the couple would be like oh my god you actually showed up on time uh you look like you're doing your pictures your dick is actually the right you know the size is in the pictures it's not photoshopped and you came here and you my wife and she had a good experience like almost like they were shocked like that was not the norm for them and then once and that's unfortunate right and once they have that experience then they're like oh well like kind of what you're saying is oh i have this friend tina and she's actually looking for they're looking to add another guy to their relationship and oh i have this friend sally and oh we have this party next weekend you know i mean like it kind of opens that once you give a couple the experience that they want it can open that door and you know and then they go and they leave you a good cert on on whatever website and say oh man dan came in and he rocked my world and if you're looking for a single male like hit him up you get a few of those and all of a sudden the world opens up to you uh as a single male in the lifestyle and that was a hundred percent my experience but i think to your point i agree with you the issues that we have with single males aren't lifestyle single males it's these single males that came into whatever club whether it's secrets or trapeze or any public venue you know at two o'clock in the morning they were wanting to fuck and so they heard that there's a sex club and they went in and paid their money they have no ideas what the what the etiquette is they don't know what the rules are they don't know what people's boundaries are they don't know how to conduct themselves in this space and so they walk into a playroom and grab somebody's ass and then all of a sudden there's about to be a fight you know i mean and they get kicked out but the unfortunate part about that is now this couple had a bad experience and they attribute that bad experience to a single male and so now there's a stigma that single males are problems in the lifestyle absolutely dan i couldn't nothing i could add to that i i agree 1000 and are there exceptions to that sure there are there are a couple in my mind can think of, single males who have survived, who have failed upwards somehow because of good advocacy from someone who wasn't really clear about what was going on.
But again, it still susses itself out over time. But one of the things that, to my mind, we were talking about earlier, did you get this impression as well? When I first started looking out there at what was the single, what was the reception talking about SCC going back a decade and seeing so many profiles with all caps, no single males, no single males.
What I was surprised at was getting out into the community, going on the cruises, going to Desire, going to Keto, going to Secrets, going to Trap, going to Colette and house parties as well, I started to realize there are a ton of silent majority couples out there who do want a single male or female because a four-way match is an incredibly hard thing to put together.
Yeah, but if you don't put that on your profile, then you're inundated with messages from single males yeah so you might very yeah you might very well i almost wonder if that if that's what that is is and this is the same for us we have on our profile like if you're i think ours says if you're a single male like we'll contact you like don't agree don't spam us with your messages because if we're looking for a single male we'll go look at single male profiles find when we think lacy's attracted to and we'll message them that's what it says on our profile doesn't say we don't do it just says we'll message you because because the same reason what lacy's saying i don't want a thousand i don't want to open my inbox and have a thousand dudes that have messaged me and they're all just like hey and most of them aren't even lifestyle dudes they're people that think that sls and sdc are tinder yeah and and honestly lacy to to your point and it's unfortunate how do you find that needle in a haystack that one good guy in the and i'm and that's happened where i've actually written i have a two message rule i will write someone and say hey uh saw your profile you You guys look amazing.
I liked what I read. Check me out. And if you're interested, I'd love to hear back, period, end of sentence, full stop. If I don't hear back and I'm truly, really interested in what I, I don't blanket, but I may send out four or five messages that aren't as personalized beyond that I do read the profile. I will read it through before I reach out. But I may send out something just to get responses to build my friend base, truly, honestly. And I tell people that.
But what I was getting at was when I'm really interested, I will send one more like a week later and go, hey, hey i'm sure and i know that this is in the middle of 5 000 it's a waterfall of single dudes i also to what you said lacy i don't just write the word hey or sub or copy and paste the same message to every god it happens yeah yeah of course it does sure and um i try to i want to put something personal in to let them know i cared about them taking the time to make a profile that's had that right something little i love that blue dress you're wearing you know i mean it shows that you look yeah and i've even seen where they messaged us and said i see that you say no single guys but i've read over your profile i'm super in and like i can respect that i i'm okay with people messaging if they've read over their profile there goes our dm box and they prove but i mean shut up so but the whole copy and paste the whole i and it's funny because i we have discord and we have a huge discord but we're also in trapeze discord or i am and i literally every single day have discord messages from single guys on discord and it's like hey you look beautiful and i'm like i just have to block i want to fuck your pussy yeah that's like the one sentence that's it yeah i got one the other day they want to fuck you and me oh yeah then he goes oh really yeah Lacey know I will say to both of you honestly I feel like you would rather get those than the guys clever enough to trick you because at least when you see hey you can just scroll them by yeah because you they have already pre-unqualified themselves and I think I sit, because at least, you know, you know what you're dealing with when you see nothing but want to fuck.
Hey, hey, girl, you know, and all that stuff. So so I say let them let them keep outing themselves as as as bad actors. But yeah, to the whole idea that single males are a known quantity, but also a wanted quantity with good best practices, single males.
Yeah, and that's the challenge, I think, is how do we get rid of all these spammers, married dudes that are just trying to talk tech sex or get dirty pictures or these people are never going to show up or never going to do anything how do you weed all of them out and get the good quality men that will show up get a hard on and fuck the your wife you know i mean like that's the i think that's the biggest issue in this single male realm is how do you get rid of all the bullshit and find the good quality? I feel like it's word of mouth. Like, I feel like the websites are hard to do that.
I think you have to find a friend who's played with, you know, who knows somebody, who knows somebody. And this is like the being controversial thing, George. And this is what I'll say. You know, me and Lacey, like you're saying, love playing in orgies and stuff like that. And I'm just going to say it.
When you have a group of people and having an orgy there's a lack of hard dicks to fuck girls so there just is normally right there's going to be two or three husbands that can't get hard or or maybe they just want to watch or you know whatever the case may be so you you end up when you end up in a room with five couples there's like one or two dudes fucking and five girls that are trying to fuck like that's been the normal that's the norm and we have these orgies so having one or two or three quality single males in that mix is going to make that orgy a better experience it's just how do you find those couple guys how do you vet them and how do you get them there i do fill a role i'm very aware of of that capacity and one of the the things that I know going into those situations, I enjoy being a facilitator.
I love just being in that environment. But if I'm in an orgy setting, I can tell head on a swivel, situational awareness when a husband or another man in the room is struggling. And one of the things I don't bring with me is distraction in my own mind, whereas it's not uncommon for a husband and wife in a setting for one or the other to lose their happy thoughts. But we're talking about hard dick.
So a husband sees his wife possibly get a bit of a disapproving glance because maybe he was performing too well with someone that wasn't her or a host of other reasons that that man might get something in his head another thing that my good friend says um is three states over a fly scratches his toe and he's talking about losing your heart on in the middle of a of a great sexual situation over nothing one of the ones he also uses is when two men's knees touch and he's like man i'm going hard and i'm getting it good and then i feel that other guy's knee and it's rubbing my knee and i start to lose my heart on not because of the i don't have any homophobic tendencies it's the distraction of this knee is hitting my knee right so when i see those types of things and regardless of the reason or the random people they're standing there talking about the yankees game last night oh man or like yeah just laughing and giggling and talking what you know there's a million distractions in a there's a million distractions and i don't often yes and i don't often bring the distractions um with me so i can perform well because i'm not inside boundaries of of a significant other that I've got to keep track of.
There's a lot to keep track. Dan, you know this. There's a lot to keep track of when you're when you're a couple. Lacey, I would say you, of course, as well. But I'm as a man for me, I am a giver, a pleaser, a facilitator. I operate under what I call the approval ceiling, which is as a man, I'm of a competitive gender. Often we brought up in a lot of things that put us at men at odds, like how much do you bitch and what's your four, four 40 and you know, how big is your whatever. So I get into these scenarios and situations in the lifestyle where I want to just help.
I want to be a positive, not a drag on a situation. So it's my happy place. I'll be right in the middle of an orgy. I'm squeezing lube. I'm grabbing lube, pitching across the room. I'm grabbing condoms for people.
And it's not always something that I've had someone that i'm playing with go hey hey i'm down here i'm like oh yeah i know babe i'm loving this but i gotta get loose this guy so lacy has the opposite problems when she plays with the guys that are like super into watching their wife yeah but they're fucking lacy but they're watching their wife get fucked over got hey hey i'm here watch me pay attention yeah like without me yeah that's kind of all it kind of goes to what you said is being a single male you don't have those same distractions because you're not you're not looking to see if your partner's being safe or not being in a situation they don't want to be in or or watching how hot it is watching them get fucked you know like you can be in the moment yeah dan is in the moment too much i'm in the moment i have to remind i have to remind dan that he has a wife sometimes Okay.
is watching them get fucked you know like you can be in the moment yeah dan is in the moment too much i'm in the moment i have to remind i have to remind dan that he has a wife sometimes so my hey well sometimes i revert back to my old ways you do you do i've seen it i've seen it i've seen wives i've seen wives that are just like and i can tell what's happening because he's having such a good time and i've done this in an orgy i've walked by and went like hey man i want to check on your wife i've said to dan hey you have a wife did you forget i will say i am the one what saves me is lacy is actually a little bit of a cuck yeah and actually enjoys watching me fuck other women so most of the time i'm not usually mad most of the time she's enjoying it yeah i love that so it has been a few times yeah but to put a to put a a pin of rose on that cherry on that or a pin and a period at the end of that um i like the romances for lack of a better term I've got with the husbands that I know well, that we look out for each other.
I'm in that situation and I see a couple and I've known them for years, but she's like, Hey, I'm over here. And when that happens, um, did I just get fireworks behind me? I've never seen that before. That was fantastic. What's the thumbs up? Let's try it again. When Bromance? Yeah. Okay, that wasn't it. So I don't know what that was.
I've never seen that before never seen those of you who may be listening and not watching i just had an entire fourth of july fireworks display blow behind my head when i started to tell the story of the men in arms who got each other's backs my point was i will look out for my buddies and make sure i can help see something, say something. I'm like, Hey man, she's going, she's about to go sideways on you. Cause you are not. And he's like, Oh man, thanks. So, you know, I like, I like that whole incestuous family that we're a part of, you know, that freaking family that we're all in.
That's what's made it so amazing to me. But there are Dan, what you talked about with any single male interaction, there are do's and don'ts to what I can do to help myself or to harm myself in this lifestyle.
you know and you've already named quite a bit of them which is first and foremost look like your pictures and be be actually let me back up people might argue the mileage on which is ahead of the other but be on time there it is it's back no idea no yeah that's pretty wow that's pretty funny fireworks again so yeah um one of those distractions he just lost his heart on twice yes but i'm telling you i could fight through that i'm proud of that but but i you know i found my first dirty magazine in the woods and i don't know why porn is in the woods but i swear to you at 13 years old you could find porn in the woods so that's where i first saw what i'm now living the fantasy life of and i have always responded to that so still hanging in there without uh without too much of the the viagra and the cialis if at all and um i haven't yet stepped over the threshold of the dick shots but i got a lot of my friends that swear by it same and i get a little fomo i'm in there because for me when i'm playing um it can be up it could be down it'll be up again because i'm very visual and i see guys that are over there with like fucking just missiles and i'm like this son of a bitch here because i just i've yet to to break to bust my cherry on sticking a needle in my dick but i'm sure it's coming for me no pun intended i'm sure it's coming for me one day but i i bring it up to say this that um i've always loved sex and um i'd like to think health in a healthy way i'd like to think it's not an addiction but i really enjoy being a part of it in any way that i can so um as a single male you you hopefully bring some of this with you that you can't coach, but some of it's learned experience.
But be on time, be who you say you are. And one of the things we haven't talked about is there is also an exit interview. There's an after. To me, there is where I want to make sure this couple, this unicorn, this group knows how incredibly grateful I am because they didn't have to have me here. Again, I didn't like, you know, again, my friend, I didn't bring a trade.
I didn't I came by myself and I was allowed and I was accepted and I will never not be grateful for grateful for that so um i without fail want this these these friends these people i've interacted with to know how much i appreciated it um so while we got just a little bit of time left i wanted to hit on um your hot wife hunter stuff so i wanted to save a little bit of time for that so can you tell us a little bit so for the people listening uh george has used his his movie skills his director skills and really started this series i think it's on only fans i don't know if it's on any other platforms called the hot wife hunter where basically he goes around and fills content with hot wives kind of around the at least around the u.s i don't maybe globally.
Um, but can you just tell us a little bit about what that project is and, and sure, sure, absolutely. So, um, the hot wife hunter is my brand and my character.
Um, the role that I play is certainly, um, derivative of the crocodile hunter, bear grills, the idea of talking to the camera in these experiences um there's a ton of other shows that do it in the um not just adventuring world but in in the the cooking with the hgtv and other types of reality shows where your host is taking you through an experience whether it's a cooking show in a kitchen or it's um riding scooters through bangkok whatever you're doing they're speaking to their audience and my character does that so it's the hot wife hunter if um we are playing if we're just starting an episode i'm interested in what you want to share with me so i like to have the creators that collaborate with me give their audience that they're filming for and mine as well um a little bit more insight into who they are so they might bring something that their fans know nothing about like she's an amazing she's an she is an amazing cajun creole chef or she is a massage therapist or she is a power lifter um i've i've worked with yoga instructors and i've filmed with um uh piano instructors and pilots and we talk about that stuff and that kind of gets put into the episode.
I've worked with botanists, people who garden, and they're into it. And so they bring me in the house and they want to show me the house plants. And then they say to me, I really don't have any house plants. I just wanted to get you in the house.
And that cheesy turn, there's always what i call the cheese ball turn where you have to say something very porn so that you can transition from talking about being a pilot to talking about taking my penis out of my pants yeah so you got to come up with some way to do that and that's and that's what you call the turn for me where i've done this whole opening opening where we learn something about this creator. Then while we're in the middle of it, I will literally be doing something that I think is like, you've got the most gorgeous clip I've ever seen. Guys, come here. You've got to see this.
So then I've become like the crocodile. I'm like, oh, look at the size of that spider. Look at this. Guys,'ve got to come. I don't do the accent, but I do speak to my audience and that's, and that's sort of the, the thing that I think sets the hot wife Hunter apart from some of the other creators. And, and, you know, I'm, I would love to see copycats do it. Cause I'm, I'm interested in that. I love the idea of, of talking to my audience.
Cause I want these guys that are paying their hard-earned money to be a part of this experience with you the female creators um and couples to get more out of the experience and feel closer to you because that's what that's what it is they don't call it they don't call it only watchers it's only fans and the ideas um and and all the others paid for subscriptions and interactions that can be like that they want they want to feel like you're in their life and how better to do that than to really get into your life so the more that creators are willing to allow me in i actually had one creator who you guys have worked with who is an incredible massage therapist this is a true story i was heading their way got up the morning before the shoot and did my yoga stretching and pushed my fucking L5 right out.
And I couldn't stand up straight. They let me stay at their home for three days and recuperate before we did the episode, which was about being a massage therapist. She real in real time, she worked on me and fixed me to the degree that we could get down with the get down. True story. That's right. So it's, it's a, it's a pretty amazing thing. So yeah, the hot wife hunter, it is, um, uh, predominantly only fans. Um, I do run my, my Twitter and Instagram pages with the content that sends you over to only fans, my teasers, trailers, and my, my daily life.
But, um, coming soon will be, um, a lot of the other outlets this year because I'm actually on season two i last year was uh season one 26 episodes um those are all out fans can uh purchase those episodes on only fans um it's at the hot wife hunt and it's been a blast incredible journey it was kind of like the lifestyle journey it started with no one knew i was doing this the good news was because i've been in this lifestyle so long other lifestyle slash creators you know invited me in to film with so so it started with friends and it's moved into creators i didn't know that that i do now and we've had a blast we've done all kinds of things we've worked on cars together um i've met superheroes that one flew away while the wife and i went inside and she literally electrocuted me while we were fucking so that was her that was her superpower she had the electric powers it was very it was very marvel it was cool it was a blast so i have a confession when you hear the word hot wife hunter to me that is almost negative kind of like you oh no no no i want to be honest unicorn hunter is the same thing in the lifestyle that those things get negative uh i don't know it's just not people don't like unicorn hunters they don't like hot wife hunters so when we first met you that was kind of my reaction but but hearing you and then getting to know you and then hearing you that is not at all what you mean by hunter you mean it comes something completely different so my question to you is do you get negative feedback because of that or is it just me being on because i'm going to be honest i was talking to someone about you and i said the name they're like i hate that word i hate when people call that and i was like yeah you're right so i just wanted to bring that up because i i think like when you hear that in the lifestyle that has a negative connotation to it it does um what i found though and i found that right right off the bat again with me co-opting the idea of television series like the Crocodile Hunter.
The idea was the marketing is outward facing to an audience. Those fans, those subscribers, they don't see it that way because they know what they're getting because they are the viewer they are the ones enjoying this content on the creator side i still had not heard that i'm fully aware of the negative connotation of a unicorn hunter yeah um so yeah i may have to add that into my reach outs when i when i want to say hey just you guys know, Lacey felt the same way, but just know that that is not who I am as far as how I am.
I think once you get to know you, and you hear your story, and you hear the things, it all goes away, but just surface level. Did you think that? I'm curious. I wonder if that's maybe the male-female perspective, because I never thought of it as like you being a prey or you being like a trophy. I guess from the male perspective, that's almost kind of hot in some ways, though. Lacey, to that point, I will tell you this. I get a lot of DMs that play into the term, who are you hunting this week?
And honestly, the creators have leaned into it that i've worked with yeah in their episode they're like i want to be they say i want to be hunted yeah and who are you hunting this week and can i i've had them reach out in dms creators and say can i be hunted lol yeah i'm like well and i don't even i personally don't even have an issue with unicorn hunters or hunt because as a unicorn that I wanted to be sought after. I wanted that. Yeah.
So but I think it was worth bringing up because I know that some people in the lifestyle automatically have a negative thoughts when it's been hunted is put in the title.
So that was, you know, one of the yeah maybe to wrap all this up and and say it from what i consider to be a a positive and a mature outlook that we all three have a lot of things i feel like you guys will agree with this a lot of things negative in anything from the lifestyle to the current state of taylor swift everyone brings their own filter and their own prejudice so i say to a lot of people that's a you problem yeah i was honest yeah i said up front you know and the good thing about that for the with unicorn hunting too if someone says that up front you already know that they've led with they've led with their app you know the marketing is in front of you but i do agree that what you put together it hasn't been my experience but i don't discount it as a possibility for someone to think so yeah thanks for no thank you for bringing it up and and i feel like a bitch no no no i think it's it's fair to give him a because you're right and this is you know my take on this is in today's day and age it seems like everybody's looking for a reason to be offended and a lot of times you can understand right if you're saying oh i'm hunting hot wives and they're just trophies it's another notch notch in my belt if you look at it from that perspective it can be offensive it can seem degrading that also can be hot like for me that is a little hot right it's like two-sided you know like i can take it a little offensive but it also can be hot as well if that absolutely but if you're here and you've listened to george and you've heard him talk you know that he a single man that comes from a respectful place.
Obviously, if he's making content with females, it's all consensual. They've signed a release. They've set up a scene. So I guess I can understand that it being maybe seems a little degrading. But I definitely think if you play it. I think it's all surface level.
If you play into it, it can definitely be pretty pretty hot and some of the content i've seen has been pretty hot so i have an episode i have an episode coming up that will i'll work with uh a creator couple that he and i are going to be out on a hunting trip and she comes by like she's backpacking the pacific trail and she's lost oh that's not so it kind of does that we will be hunters actual hunters that's cool you know we won't yeah so i mean we're gonna do the whole camo and face paint and all and there she is and it's so perfectly porn i mean you've got this this sexy hiker with a backpack on and she's lost and has a map and she's got her little short shorts and her hiking boots i love it i mean what's not so what's not to love about that kind of yeah that's hot all right george yeah guys we're starting to run out of time uh so if people are interested in you in uh your work and the hot wife hunter series how do they go about finding you sure um my uh ex is at hunter hot wife the only fans is at the hot wife hunt my instagram is at the hot wife hunter i would love to have had all of them be the same but the world we live in there's too many getting urls can be difficult nowadays but i was really pleased to be able to get that much of the same brand out there as my tags so yeah so those are those are the ones that'll get you to me um facebook i am mayor george um i know we're running out of time i didn't know if you wanted to share that as fast as i could we could but it's entirely up to you if we're out of time we're out of time what did you want to share the mayor george story you brought up the you brought up that there's there's the lifestyle name, there's the hot wife Hunter in the creator world and mayor George in the lifestyle world.
And people asked me where that came from. And I was on a podcast many years ago and they said, it's like, you know, everyone and everyone knows you. And I was on, uh, uh, a cruise with them as well. I'm sorry. No, it was at one of the, um and we got to talking about it. And as we're walking, people like George. And they're like, my God, you know, everyone, you're like the mayor of swing town. And it stuck. And that was what they, they coined that, that name. They gave me that name on their podcast. And that was a national podcast as well as yours is. And so I guess we'll be reinforcing it.
But I didn't come up with that for myself. That is not ego-driven at all. I was looking to make a lifestyle profile separate on Facebook from my vanilla profile or the one that has my high school buddies. Again, there's no vanilla in my life except for when I go to do something with my family, which is not all that often. But I wanted to make as a lot of people have. They've made their Facebook accounts that are separate, the couple's account or just a separate account. It's all lifestyle. And I named it Mayor George.
And so, yeah, I guess it was certainly self-promotion, but I didn't name myself that for the record. But they all now almost say mayor when they see me. So and I'm proud of that. I mean, I'm grateful. I'm gracious that that's how this community sees me is I am not that single male. I'm the mayor. And that's kind of cool. That's cool. That is cool. Well, we definitely had a good time meeting you on the Bliss Cruise. I'll see you next time.
i am not that single male i'm the mayor and that's kind of cool that's kind of that is cool well we definitely had a good time uh meeting you on the bliss cruise uh and uh getting to spend a little bit of time with you hopefully well we get to do that again sometime i don't i'm interested i want to know like if we do a full hot wife hunter episode with lacey what's your what's your skill gonna be about it what is my skill i don't know what is shopping like is is that gonna be is shopping can that be a skill ordering from amazon you could be the amazon package guy you could be the package so lacy what do here's how here's how that would go lacy what do you do do do you sing do you perform do you have something in your history that you're that you've done you play an instrument why the hell are you laughing this could be a long this could be a long conversation, but uh what do you do like i don't do a lot i don't do a lot she shops yeah i have to think about it i'd have to she spends money can we do a like a uh we're getting ready to go to hito and shoot what's your one of your outfits the uh i'm a gold digger can we do a gold digger hot wife hunter episode is that so we could do we could do an episode in the in the hamptons very much like um just got off the yacht in your multi-million dollar mansion that your husband has you housed in i like it that's more my style yeah yeah all right i like it we can we can do that for sure rings on every finger the mink you could have the mink on oh god yeah i need to know you're talking her language yeah now we're good that's good okay all right that was easier than i thought it'd be we could do um we could do like uh succession one of my favorite shows any show that's like schitt's Creek.
A show that's about these wealthy people. Yeah, that would be Lacey. Yeah, that would be me. But not really. Yeah. She wishes. Okay. All right, George. Well, we appreciate your time to sit down with us and giving us your perspective on being a single male in the lifestyle. I think it was definitely a good conversation. We look forward to seeing you again here in the near future.
Thank you guys for me this has been an absolute honor and it was a blast i i'm so glad that uh we got to spend our time on the cruise before we did this too i feel like i know you guys well already so thanks for having me thank you all right i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat twitter instagram only fans and more in the show notes come join the conversation with us and other swinger content creators on our swinger society discord server if you have questions or feedback email them to us at the swing nation at gmail.com make sure you head on over to the swing nation dot net and keep up to date on all things swing nation we thank you so much for joining us and we'll see you next time goodbye