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We hosts northern guy and southern girl in today's episode we got a bit of a a mystery we do we do a bit of a doozy i'm actually pretty excited about this episode yeah and i'm excited about it because i don't know what we're going to talk about. Yeah. Me either. So this episode, what I asked Lacey to do was to just take and write down six things that she found attractive in the opposite sex. Yeah. Then I'm going to do that.
yes I will say that this is hard because yes I have six things that I'm into but the cool thing about the lifestyle is the variety these are my favorite things to look for and someone to fuck these are the top ones but there ones but there are people guys I don't know if mine are top ones I don't know that mine aren't either but these like I would say six things I don't know I spent all 10 minutes putting this list together I feel like they're pretty good I mean they're not like 100% the top ones but remotely I mean they're pretty close but like I've slept with plenty of people that maybe don't have these but are still like fun people to fuck and i had a great time and i think that's what i love about the lifestyle so much is the variety yeah and i think the interesting thing about this episode for me is if you know you were to say let's take a lineup of 10 guys right we're gonna take 10 guys and we're gonna put them in the room here with us and one at a time they're gonna walk by and i'm gonna say lacy will fuck that guy or lacy will not fuck that guy yeah if i was to do that i think i would get half of my answers wrong yeah right i'd be like oh no she's not gonna fuck him you'd be like yeah i'd fuck him yeah because we do this in real life like we walk around and you're like oh he's hot and i'm like seriously the bald guy with like that looks like grandpa like he's hot like sometimes bald guys wink wink a few i know are are super attractive i'm just saying you you surprise me all the time with like who you think is hot so i don't really i don't understand the categories that you have that you're putting these people in that you're hot or not criteria is not clear to me correct i don't know if it's clear to you it's not it's not it's also like a vibe you know like they could be the hottest guy in the room and they could meet all of these things but they walk by me and I'm like something you know an instant box you have like insta radar like if they're no not necessarily sometimes it's just a conversation because I mean we do again we do this day to day right we might be in a bar or in a restaurant we might be we're not actually trying to fuck these people just like they're cute right Lacey would be like oh he's hot and I'm like I don't see that like I don't if you that guy had walked by I never would have been like Lacey thinks that guy's hot well on the flip side I know exactly who you Thank you.
hot and i'm like i don't see that like i don't if you that guy had walked by i never would have been like lacy thinks that guy's hot well on the flip side i know exactly you know exactly my type yeah to be fair though if we're being completely honest you have about an 80 chance of getting it right because you because i will i want to fuck about 80 of the girls in the world yeah right So your odds are much better off Where you probably only want to fuck 20-30% want to fuck about 80 of the girls in the world yeah right so your odds are much better off where you probably only want to fuck 20 to 30 percent of the guys 30 yeah yeah out there so like if you were to just throw a dart out there you're more likely to hit somebody i want to fuck than somebody you want to fuck yeah um but i still don't know the criteria so let's i'm very curious to see how these cards fall.
I don't think this will make it clear. Just like. That was the whole point of the episode. That was. So I better understand who Lacey wants to fuck. Sorry. I don't know. I don't know how to tell you. All right. So if you can try. If you've listened to our podcast in the past. You've heard us do this. We did like the fuck it list. I'm trying to think of some of the other things we did where we like made a list of things and kind of read them out. We did our fantasies one time. list.
I'm trying to think of some of the other things we did where we, like, made a list of things and kind of read them out to each other. We did our fantasies one time. Fantasies. That was a good one. That was pretty eye-opening. Okay. So this is one of those type things where I don't know what's on Lacey's list. Lacey doesn't know what's on my list. We're going to just kind of read them off to each other and discuss. Yeah. Discuss. That was the invisible one. Yeah. It sounded like I said disgust. Yeah. Okay. It's okay. All right.
right give me you want to start first yeah um first one a good clean nice smelling man when you said a good i thought you're gonna say dick oh yeah that's that's good i thought i thought you're gonna say a good dick and i I was like, well, I know that. No, but like somebody that has showered, who, you know, like smells good, put in a little effort. Yeah. I mean, a good smelling man is. He has to smell good. He doesn't have to. So what? Say, what is it on your list? What is the thing? Read it one more time.
Good, good clean smelling man but he doesn't have to smell good what he doesn't i don't want him to smell bad you know i don't want you to smell like what if he just got done cutting firewood that's that's pretty hot yeah what if he's dirty because he's been outside working okay see this is in the garage that's fucking hot i hope he throws me on the hood of the car and fucks the shit out of me but that's why this is so hard because i like it okay you're saying at a swingers club yeah or at you know if you go if we go to an event you know what's even better it became good smelling clean and then my car broke down and he went out front and fixed it This is not the intro to a porn movie okay this is we're talking about what you find attractive in a man we're not trying to think of i'm saying okay at a swingers event if a guy is clean smells good as you know like that well put together yeah yeah just like you know so you know know not smelling bad okay so let's which is kind of funny because you're not a huge cologne wearer and i'm not a huge perfume person i mean we don't both try to wear it but like we're not the type of people that you walk in i have one type of cologne yeah you bought it for me yeah and i have like a body spray that but there are guys that have like but yeah you know collections yeah i'm not that guy no neither one of us honestly i don't think i own cologne up until we got married and you bought me so you used that i used axe body spray but but i've never felt smelled bad no you know you think like oh my god this guy smells like you didn't smell bad at all but there is something to be said for like a good smelling man like he's got his scent down he knows what he likes he walks in and gives you a hug and you're like you smell nice that's kind of what i was thinking in my mind all right so good clean smelling man all right so let's just contrast that so what is not that like in your experience when you've gone to swinger clubs and you've seen men, the way they're dressed or their outfits or the way.
Some men smells like BO. Hell, you sometimes do. I mean, like. Because you're in a hot, sweaty club. Yes. So that happens. Notorious swinger clubs are hot. You're packed in there. There's 500 people. You're dancing. Honestly, we pack deodorant in our bag because occasionally I have to to be like hey babe go you know put some on um so that would be the opposite i'm okay if you don't have any smell like if you just smell like neutral neutral but there's something to be said for that like a a hug, embrace, and you just smell good. Yeah. So is part of that what they're wearing? It can be.
So if he's wearing like Walmart jeans. No, I don't think that matters. As long as it's clean. It doesn't matter where it's from. Does he have to be like matched like his, you know, like his clothes? I mean, like, I'm not going to not fuck you if you have a brown belt and black shoes on. I mean, like, that's not, you know. Thank you.
like his you know like his clothes like i mean like i'm not gonna not fuck you if you have a brown belt and black shoes on i mean like that's not you know as long as you look put together and you try it i mean like i'm not it's not i'm not that shallow you just can't stink that's your bar no i'm just saying like you're saying not you're saying what i'm attracted to like like i'm attracted to someone who smells nice and you put a little effort into what they have on that's that that i'm not saying i'm not it's not that i'm not attracted to you if you don't do those things i'm just saying i'm if there's two guys standing there and one is super nice smelling and the other smells neutral i'm probably gonna be more attracted to the smell okay all right so now i'm gonna give you mine because i have one on my list that's very similar to that i have a female that takes pride in her appearance um and when i thought of that it's not so much the way they smelled um i don't think i thought about the way a female smells i don't think i smelled too many bad smelling females if i'm being honest uh but this was more like their hair is nice like they're bougie like they're make they have makeup on you know they're wearing lipstick you know like somebody you know maybe they're in heels like yeah like a bougie bitch yeah like you appreciate someone who took a little time and put into their appearance yeah yeah no 100 that's what it is and i don't know what that is um and because there's like you know we can go through the list of people that like i've been attracted to in the past and some of them you probably describe as like a tomboyish kind of girl and so like you said it's not this isn't like the end all be all list um but generally speaking if we were at a swingers club and there was 100 people there and you said dan point to a girl that you think is hot in this crowd the girl i would point to would probably have hair and makeup and heels i'm guessing or some kind of get up like that because generally speaking those are the type of people that i'm initially drawn to yeah like off the bat and that's kind of what i was saying about this smell like like if there's two guys standing there i'm probably going to go towards the one that smells and looks nice opposed to the not stinky me over here well yeah but you know what i mean yeah no i completely get that which is really funny because you give me shit about being bougie about hair nails and makeup and i don't think you can be bougie on a budget you can that is correct um lacy's bougie on no budget she thinks she has kim kardashian's budget like there's times when lacy spends money and i'm like who the fuck do you think we are like that is not okay simmer i didn't mean for all of that okay damn you paid for the jugular there i meant like no essentially what you're saying is like it's okay that i spend a bunch of no no no i'm just saying like you like a woman that's a little bit more like a little bit more expensive opposed to somebody that is a little bit more natural um is all i'm saying and unfortunately nails hair makeup heels outfits it costs money no it could cost various levels of money and that's something that maybe we need to talk about not on the podcast but right that's all i'm shouldn't equal your mortgage okay i'm gonna we're gonna get okay that's all i'm saying.
Shouldn't equal your mortgage. Okay, I'm going to ring it again. Okay, that's all I'm saying. Moving right along. So anyway, it is interesting, though, that we both had general. And this is like, take care of yourself. And it really wasn't like physical appearance. It wasn't like you need to have a face that looks like this.
It was more of just like someone who cares that they're there and they want to put a good foot forward and like attempted to make themselves look nice yeah because i'm you know and you know this i'm attracted to women of all body sizes but usually the woman that i'm attracted to doesn't matter if they're big or small or somewhere in the middle usually they're the kind of woman that takes care of their hair and their makeup and is just looks feminine and cute yeah no i agree okay number no that was oh okay it's my turn okay um i like someone who is good at or i'm attracted to someone who's good at finding ways of letting me know that they're into me without coming across overbearing because I like a chase.
I also struggle with if I'm into someone showing that I'm into someone like I struggle with that so it helps me when the guy is a little bit better at it than I am so that is attractive to me like if I have two guys let's say I'm equally physically attracted to them and one comes across overbearing and is a little much and the other guy like has a really good way of like teasing and flirting and letting me know he's into me without being, like, too in my face. I'm going to go towards the one that is a little calmer. So we used to call that game, right? Like, he's got game. He's got game, yeah.
Is that what you're saying? Yeah. Like somebody who's artful with the way they flirt? Yeah, yeah. Like, me know that they're interested, but does it come across like. Desperate. Desperate. You know, it's like playful. I, you know, sometimes I enjoy not fucking someone because I like the chase and I don't want that to go away.
I can think of some of the guys you've most been into over the last couple of years years and some of the guys you've been the most into are the guys that you've not fucked for the longest yeah and sometimes i'm like a little sad when that's over not that like i'm excited that we finally had our moment and we had a good time but i like i genuinely enjoy the flirting aspect of the lifestyle I'm not super good at initiating it from the start. I struggle with the, if I'm really into a person, I will overthink the situation and become somewhat awkward.
So, if a guy can, like, kind of start that for me without being overbearing or pushy or too much then that is a huge turn on for me so a guy that's got game is that what i'm hearing i mean i feel like that's what i'm hearing right so that's pretty much it um because like i've i've been attracted to guys that just come across a little pushy and they're not maybe not they're not actually pushy but maybe it just kind of feels like they're just there you know or um they just are always saying something or you know just like i feel like there's like an art to being flirty and and turning me on without being too much yeah i could think of the same thing like i've had girls you know we're on the bliss cruise and even like i think this last secret's girls that just walk up to me and like i want you to fuck me you know i mean yeah it's like well okay yeah you know i mean like and that's a very odd situation to be in this is our first conversation that we've had you walked up to me and you said i want you to fuck me like yeah well i can think of like hi my name is dan like like even before the podcast and stuff i can remember one time we were at paris valley do you remember that years ago and we had literally just walked in we had been there five minutes and this couple was like hey so like we're down to fuck if y'all are interested and we're like, like, we just walked in.
Like, we have, like, they're not even done making our drinks yet. You know, and, like, they were an attractive couple. But, like, give me some build up. Yeah, flirt with me a little. Give me something.
So, I think, like, because I tend to overthink situations and be in my head, if a guy can kind of find that balance i i really enjoy that but guys that doesn't mean don't fuck me though okay just psa well i think you know especially it's almost a red flag right like if people are just because we've seen those couples and those people that just go into a swingers club and walk up to somebody and say you want to fuck and if they say no they go to the next person and say do you want to fuck and they say it almost is like i don't know i wonder if they're getting tested for stds you know i mean like you're just kind of like it's just too much it's a little gross yeah needy it's a little because like what if you had said yes and then you and then and then that was you and you i don't know i want to feel special you know i don't want to feel like somebody's just walking a little bit of chemistry yeah you want to build a little bit of chemistry with somebody before you fuck them yeah um and i i think in those cases uh you know somebody that after they got divorced was on tinder and showed up to a few hotel rooms like without that foreplay it's still hot i mean that's hot in its own different way uh but but i would prefer the chemistry yeah okay your turn so this is somewhat related but not totally related i am attracted to submissive women you are i agree so this is not like you're saying you know it sounds you know you're saying you want a guy with game and a guy that can flirt you know maybe there's even like a little bit of a dominance kind of aspect to that um for me i'm attracted to women that are submissive and not like it doesn't like let me beat you up you know it's not really like a bdsm submissive but it's also i want to be in charge yeah like i want to be the one in the control of the situation i want to be the one putting you in positions where i want you i want to be the one that's fucking you you know fucking you i don't know don't know.
Am I saying that the right way? You understand what I'm saying? No, no. I think you're right. And as someone that loves a dominant man, my pussy is wet as you're talking about that. I mean, because I'm thinking about, like, that's hot.
I found, like, when I have sex with, like, a new partner or even somebody that I've played with before, because I tend to like a dominant man I'll even ask them like how do you want me where do you want me because I like the fact that you make those decisions and put me now of course like if I want to get on top of you know I'm like I would like to get on top and you're like yeah sure 100% but hot. Sorry, I got distracted and turned on. Sorry, I don't know where I'm going with this. But, yeah, no, I totally see what you're saying.
As a submissive woman, I am attracted to men that are more dominant. So I can relate to that 100%. Yeah, and it's even something. So, like, when we first started dating, you were very submissive. Very.
and as our relationship has kind of progressed now that we're an old married couple there's sometimes there's things that you'll just be like no i'm not doing that right like if i'm like let me fuck you in the ass or let or do some other kinky dirty things that like we used you know go out on the back porch and squirt like well yeah like when we were dating like on a random tuesday night i would go on the back porch and squirt but like now that we're like an old married couple like it's thursday night and you want me to do some like weird shit sometimes i'm just like i'm not doing that tonight you know it's just not happening i'm not in the headspace but when we were dating i wanted to, make you like me.
Win me over. Yeah. I was like, I'll do anything you want. Well, and the interesting thing about this is in play situations before, you've seen me to be dominant, a little bit dominant to other women before. And it seems like when I've seen that, when that has happened, you, one, get very turned on by it, but two, get a little jealous from that. Yeah, yeah. I think that I know that I do fulfill some of your needs and wants because I am somewhat submissive. I mean, I'm submissive, but I do not let you just beat the shit out of me.
You know, there's some girls that are definitely more into, like, BDSM and into that, yes, daddy, no daddy, like, tie me up with me with chains and stuff. And I'm just, I'm not that girl. I'm like, you can say me, but not too hard. You know, that's kind of, like, how I am.
So sometimes when you play with, like, girls, you know, there's not been not been many that are super like you know we're how far to push and there's been a few girls that just are those type of girls that just want you to beat the shit out of them and i do get a little jealous um it's more so because i feel like that's a need that i can't provide for you you know like i see you light up?
Well's not that you can't you you won't i don't want to i won't anymore yeah um and so like there's a part of me that worries that you're not getting that and that you need that and you want that there's also part of me that's like happy that you're getting it and turning super turned on and also like i know how it feels and like if she doesn't say yes daddy or whatever i'm like oh my god he's about to be the shit out of you you know i don't be that sounds you've said beat the shit out of a few times that that's never happened okay. Okay, with consent, spanking, within rules and boundaries.
Yeah, I apologize. That's just me being dramatic. Yes, so I'm sorry for saying that. But yeah, so I struggle a little bit with it. But when I say struggle, I'm aware of my feelings and can communicate that.
It's not like I'm pouting in the the corner like i'm aware that this is hot and it turns me on but that you also um are not gonna leave me for her right and the interesting part we've talked a few times about do we find a person to to use together like or me to use with you involved that sounds awful use not you know i'm saying i find a person to to explore those fantasies a little bit more yeah that is also craving that right that wants that right some women just love that you know and they want to be spanked and they want that they they enjoy that yeah we've talked about it i think that's something we would pursue but we just don't have the time right no we do not have the time yeah okay anyway moving on does not beat the shit out of people unconsensually but yeah you do like a simon okay i'm actually not super into even uh impact play like that's i mean i am a little bit but you know you've seen it's more yeah yeah it's more of a control thing it's more of a control than an actual the actual pain okay I will be what's the word superficial for a second pretty much all my stuff is not physical like attraction or like mine's pretty you know like has to do with other things but I do tend to like a man that is bigger than me and that doesn't necessarily mean like six foot five or you know like super abs I mean like they could be taller than me they could be you know heavier than me i just like and i do think that that has to come down to like something about like feeling safe i also like feeling protected i like feeling small i don't like feeling like i could whoop somebody's ass that i'm fucking you, like I want to be the feminine being in that relationship.
So I think like if you're bigger than me, it's a huge turn on for me. Like if I see it, like if there's a super tall guy or, you know, something like that, like I'm drawn to that. Now that with that being said, I played with plenty of guys who are my high high they're even shorter and have no issues with that but like i said before if there is five guys lined up and one the taller one would probably catch my eye first yeah and uh i think i've struggled on this is one of the things where i was like i don't get what who she's to. And this is one of the areas where I struggle with that.
And I think what confused me was some of the time you're into this six-foot-tall dude with abs and biceps and just jacked dude, right? Some of the time that's – you're like, ooh.
And then at the same time, you're into these guys that are – I don't want to say overweight but but like a big teddy bear yeah you know like a little bit guys that are not in super shape they're just yeah because it doesn't really matter like about their shape it it's like just being larger like and that is it she's not talking about your penis no i mean like that's good too that is good too but um just like larger in statue so not always heights it could just be a bigger guy is that because that's masculine because you think they can pick you up and toss you around why is that i think that's part of it is it like an instinctual safety thing where they can protect you if that's part of it i think that's part of it too um but at the same time i've i've been with guys that aren't super masculine so i don't think that's like an end all be all but i do feel like i'm more attracted to that opposed to the opposite okay also don't I like feeling small i like feeling dainty because it makes you feel feminine yeah yeah like daphne is like tiny and she always is like all the boys picked me up i'm so tiny you're like fuck you bitch yeah and i'm like well i want boys to pick me up you know like i like feeling feminine feminine yeah vulnerable whatever And'm not like let's be honest i'm not i mean i'm i'm five seven five six five seven but i'm not teeny tiny woman i've got curves i've got boobs i've got an ass so i mean like there's a little bit more of me than you're you know than i don't know i don't not average but there's a little bit more of me and so that takes a little bit more of me than you're, you know, than, I don't know.
I don't, not average, but there's a little bit more of me. And so that takes a little bit more of me. Gotcha. I think I've started, it confused me at first. Yeah. When you like chubby guys and you like in-shape guys, I'm like, those two things make no sense to me. But what you're saying is as long as they're bigger than you. Yeah.
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Welcome back. appreciate our sponsors we love our sponsors we do all right when we left off lacy was just telling us about some characteristics in men that made her little pussy wet i like to climb that big tall tree what oh the tall tree yeah and you're talking about the height of the tree not the length of the branch yeah okay um all right and i think it was my turn right it was yeah okay we're supposed to do three in the beginning whoops it's okay uh so the next thing i have on my list is i'm attracted to a female that's outgoing. I find it difficult and I'm an outgoing person, right?
I'm a pretty extroverted person. When we're at events, I don't really have much of a problem going up and talking to people I don't know. That's not an issue for me.
So when I say I'm attracted to outgoing people, I see it as when I have a conversation with somebody somebody i need you to participate in the conversation yeah right if you're introverted and i feel like i'm having to pull teeth from you like to get to know you and and chat with you and flirt with you if you're not engaging and outgoing in that i just can't imagine what sex with you well you're probably going to lose so you're probably not gonna get to the sex part yeah no i totally get that i think that i think most people would say that's something that they're attracted to at least i would think i mean you don't like to me if someone's into me and when i'm engaging with them if they're not like outgoing and chatting back to me that's like a way that you show you're interested so if you're not doing that i'm probably not i'm gonna shut down yeah and i don't even think for me like you don't have to be an extrovert like you don't have to be the girl that's running around and the loudest and like getting all the attention out the bat i kind of like finding those cute little girls that are sitting in the corner somewhere but I think when I approach you and start talking to you I need you to reciprocate and like you know I mean like yeah like to engage in the conversation and like tell me about you and flirt and be put yourself out there um because if it's like if I have to just drive that conversation step by step by step again i don't want to have to do that in the bedroom also you know i mean like yeah it just like you and you said i now i don't even i'm going to probably walk away and assume you like not into me well i just think like in the lifestyle we have to basically like learn how to flirt you know again because most people that are in the lifestyle have been married to their spouse for a significant amount of time.
I mean, you do find occasionally it's a new relationship. But for the most part. So you almost have to, like, relearn these, like, things. And so I think that's, to me, that's, like, at least I feel like that's kind of, like, a way to flirt back. Like, be engaging, chat, like, show interest in what the other person is talking about. Agreed. Agreed. All right. What's next on your list? I like somebody that doesn't take themselves too serious. Like, they're just there to have fun. So. You seem confused. No, I guess is that I said outgoing. Is that is that similar to that?
So what do you what do you mean by they're not too serious? Like. Trying to think of a good way to explain it. Like they're just kind of go with the flow. They're just there.
they're gonna have a good time regardless if they fuck anybody or not they you know they're just there to have fun and so whatever that looks like you know like i don't want to like have sex with someone and then we get done and they're like talking about like going to the gym and working out and how many calories I would prefer to have sex with someone and then we get done and they're like talking about like going to the gym and working out and how many calories i would prefer to have sex with someone and then we get done they're like let's order pizza and we're like yeah we all sit in the middle of the bed and we like order pizza and have fun and like chit chit together you know like i just i don't know right so you think some guys take themselves and their appearance and their looks and the whole situation there's two like yeah like just it's just a lot you know like a little bit like a lot and i just prefer like just like a fun easygoing person okay i guess like i think i can relate to that yeah i think it's hard to like what does that mean you know i mean yeah i get what you're saying and i understand what you're saying but like you like you're saying there's such a why yeah i mean it could mean a lot of things like it really could it could be like we get done he starts talking about politics and like and stuff like that don't do that whatever i'm like oh this is too much this is too heavy i don't want any part of this or religion or or a company pissed him off and it's that fix his house and he didn't like you know like i was like like to me the lifestyle is like fun and happy and light and you know like that's what i want to talk about i don't want to you know take it too seriously okay yeah no i get that okay cool i think it's hard to like but how do you figure that out like you don't i don't it's a feeling it's a vibe it's like you know like when i meet someone if they're you know like you said outgoing and chatty and they want you know make me laugh and stuff like that like i know and that could look 10 different ways for 10 different people you know so it's hard for me to explain that but if i had somebody like that opposed to somebody that's like yeah we're gonna get up at 8 a.m we're gonna work out we're gonna run five miles and we gotta go get a protein shake and we gotta do this and like to me i'm gonna go towards the guy that's like let's have pizza are you who wants to go to waffle house at 2 a.m yeah you know like if i choose between those two guys i'm gonna go with a fun one that's just there for a good time who doesn't like waffle how fat to it i know i'd love it all right anything else about the fun guy all right so my next thing on my list of what i like in a female is some a female that's sexual that's not afraid to be like i like having two dicks in my vagina but don't you think like most women less are like not necessarily two dicks but like whatever thing they're into like most women life's all pretty forward with what they're into i don't know i don't think so i think i think in my experience at least most women i've been taught since they were young that if you are open about your sexual wants and desires especially if they're not like the normative you know like basic if you if you have these slutty wants and desires then that's not you can't be a slut basically right like isn't that what we're taught to like repress that so like you need to have want to have sex with your husband but not too much that you're a tramp or a whore you know like we're taught that yeah growing up and so that's like a hard it's hard to break out of that It's hard to own your sexuality and be unapologetically yourself.
Right. So we.
yeah growing up and so that's like a hard it's hard to break out of that it's hard to own your sexuality and be unapologetically yourself right so we've met women over the years that like will be like I'd really like to do airtight tonight you know or or you know I want to get those I want to get fucked like hard like I want all you you know 10 guys to fuck this shit out of me tonight and I think that that's refreshing like it's it's you know and not not just because like i'm a horny dude and i want to like find me the biggest slut that i can fuck but i think a woman that's not ashamed of her sexuality and that is open to express her sexuality and wants and desires especially when they're outside of the norm that we're taught to me that's attractive well can they take it too far though that's my next question though like is there at some point just being like the biggest slut in the room when does it become unattractive i think it can go too far but for me too far would be like you're not being safe right so if you're like fucking a bunch of guys and they're all none of them wearing condoms and like at some point like i want you to be a big slut as long as you're smart and safe about it yeah right if you're unsafe then that's too risky for me like i'm not gonna i'm not gonna miss that more power to you go do that if you want to do that but i'm not gonna put myself at or you at risk like that yeah so i think there is a balancing act right is you have to do it smart and you have to play safe um but i also think it's okay to be a slut and to celebrate wanting to be slutty or be you know promiscuous um and kinky and whatever the things are um as long as it's within you know being safe yeah so as women age and like especially in the lifestyle i feel like they get more confident they become like they can own it a little bit more and they're like not afraid to be that do you feel like that plays like i mean it obviously plays a role that's probably why you like older women well you're stealing you're stealing things off my list oh no so the next thing on my list no i don't know the next thing but one of the things on my list is older women and i think you're right i don't think it's that like oh your wrinkles are so hot or oh man your gray hair really turns me on or like oh you know it's none of those things you know like oh you probably ever you're not physically attracted like a lot of them are beautiful yeah yeah but you know i yeah it's not right the physical characteristics of you being an older woman it's the fact that most older women that i've engaged with and played with are not afraid to lick your asshole or suck your balls or to do it or to say some whisper naughty things in your ear.
They know how to touch you and where to touch you. And, you know, they know what they want. They're not afraid to be like, fuck me like this or do this to me. Which is like really funny hearing you say that because earlier you said you like a submissive woman. That doesn't sound like a submissive woman. That sounds like a woman that knows what she wants and is not afraid to tell you yeah that's interesting i think there is a i don't want her to tell me what to do to her i want her to express her needs maybe right well i think it's like please fuck me daddy is very different than i'm gonna.
You know what I mean? Yeah, I know. Yeah. Or I love it when you do that thing, daddy. Yeah. I guess, yeah. Yeah. No, I mean, I don't know. I just, hearing you talk about it, it just kind of dawned on me that you like to be in control, but you like a woman that knows what she wants.
So's it's interesting yeah i mean i think i think if we're gonna learn anything i know some of the best sexual experiences i had because let's be honest all women are like a damn rubik's cube right yeah no two of you are the same how much pressure you want on your clit how much pressure you want on your g-spot how hard you want to be fucked how deep you want to be fucked you know do you want to be kissed do you want to be patted do you want to be slapped do you want to be choked like there is a combination of things that you can do to a woman and it's different for every single fucking one of you yeah so when you give me the keys a little bit right when you give me the combo when you say one four five six five here it is do what you will with me that's hot to me you know what i mean can we pause are you trying to fuck yeah but you you get what i'm saying like i think especially with a new partner i think you know once you play with somebody two three four five times like you start to you start to figure out the combination on your own but i think when you go into something initially and this is what i've had women older women be very good at is you know they'll be like do you like your ball sucked oh yeah i kind of do like that oh is it okay if i play with your ass well i don't mind if you play with my ass but just please don't penetrate my ass like you want to rub the outside a little bit i do like that but don't penetrate and they're like okay cool and then magic happens right yeah and it's not that they're like let me fuck you in the ass and i'm at charge here it's like they just know you know i mean they just know how to manage themselves in a sexual situation yeah no i love that's hot.
No, I love that. Okay. That's all I had. We're going to fuck after this. Why is that turning you on? I don't know. It just is. It just is. I don't know. If you couples that are listening to this, this is actually a fun, pretty fun exercise.
So like, it's like a way of communicating and you don't realize that you're doing work but you are it's like kind of therapy without therapy we've always said that the podcast is yeah it's like a good way to talk about things that you're into without being like i like this because sometimes it's hard to say that you know and so i think like doing, you learn a lot about your partner without like, I don't know. So homework assignment, write down five things that you find attractive to the opposite sex. Both of you do that separately and then go through your list together. Yeah.
I mean, it's actually, I mean, not that I didn't know any of this because I did, but to like hear you talk about it on like a deeper level makes me understand it more. Thank you.
together yeah i mean it's actually i've left i mean not that i didn't know any of this because i did but to like hear you talk about it on like a deeper level makes me understand it more okay would you agree no i i do agree okay it's my turn uh confidence yeah um just knowing what you got what you and you know how to use it and in owning it and feeling good about it i just really like that we've been in situations where a guy is just like not confident in himself and so it makes me feel like i need to like build him up and i have no issues building a guy up like i think we should all build each other up i just don't need to i don't want to be made to feel like i have to i want to do it because you deserve it i want to do it because that's hot and you are amazing and i want to tell you how amazing not because i feel like you feel like shit about yourself and i need to say these things because i need you to feel that so we can have a good experience yeah i can think we've actually been in sexual situations where guys are like apologizing to you for the size of their dick prior to like as they're taking their clothes well and i can think of like group messaging like where we're sharing naughty pictures and the guy's like well it's not you know it's not i know i'm not the biggest yeah but this is what i got you know almost like downplaying themselves and i would much rather regardless of your size i just want you to be confident and know that regardless of the length or the girth that you know how to use it and you're we're gonna have fun regardless um and i think a lot of guys struggle with and I mean not that girls don't struggle with confidence because we do but it's different and I can only speak as far as like what I'm engaging with a male this is what this is about um I just I wish more guys would just be happy with what they were given and and use it to the best of their abilities and have a great time and on the flip side of that i've played with guys who struggle with erection and it happens to the best of everybody it's happened to dan it's happened to all of my friends um at some point yeah if you play with them multiple times yeah it happens and it can go one of two ways right right?
You could say, fuck the dick. Let's have an amazing time. I'm going to make you cum. I'm going to make you squirt. We're going to have a blast. And we're going to do everything but penetrate you with my dick because it's not working right now. You know? And, like, I could have some of the best, like, sessions and, like, as far as cumming multiple times that I've ever had.
Because you're really focusing your energy on me instead of like jerking your limp dick in the corner you know because on the flip side of that that's what the only other option is is you are spending half the night like stroking your dick while you're simultaneously getting mad at your wife because she's having hot sex, you know, and you're not, you know. So I just wish guys, like, would just be confident in whatever the situation is, whatever, you know, it just makes it a lot better experience for everybody.
Yeah, so as you were saying that, I was kind of thinking, when I was an instructor in the Army, when I went through Army basic instructor school, one of the first things they teach you, I don't know if it's the first thing but one of the one of the things they talk about is and you can probably relate to this if you've had to sit through classes and instruction and stuff like that is you don't want to be the instructor that gets up on the podium and the first thing you say is i know this class is boring but we have to get through it right or like set you up to know it's like for the next two hours we're going to talk about this but most of this information is outdated and irrelevant but we got to get through it because it's you know like if you start that way you've lost everybody in the class at that point in time you're already you're putting out these negative expectations before you've even said a word right and i think it's very similar in sex if you start if you're talking negatively about yourself before you've even gotten naked right if you're apologizing to people in group text before you've even why would that make me want to fuck you if you're saying i'm sorry that i'm not as big as your partner or i'm sorry that like i know i'm not in the best shape and like you know it's okay if you don't really want to plug me are you like any if you're negative making negative comments for yourself before anything's even happened why would somebody want to fuck you like yeah well it like it makes you feel awkward because then what do you say to that no your dick is the biggest i've ever seen you know it just puts everybody in like kind of a weird situation so i appreciate men of all shapes as we've learned from here i like you know it doesn't matter if you're fluffy if you got a six i like a little bit of everything and that goes for penis size as well or whatever i mean i'm i'm pretty open and i can we can do a lot of things with a lot of different size dicks and it's i just rather you just be confident what you have agreed was that your six or you um i think i have one more yeah i have one more yeah um and the funny thing is we've kind of talked about this with with other things i like somebody a partner that's vocal and this kind of it could go two ways like when i'm having sex with and this is kind of like i guess we're saying like what what i'm attracted to and this is kind of like we're already in the in the act but it could be before too i guess but like i want positive feedback right so like if i am touching on you or if i'm dancing on you and i start rubbing your butt like you doing something that tells me i like that right so if i start rubbing your butt and you start grinding like putting your hand on my dick or like you know i mean if i kiss you and you kiss me back you know i mean i i need i want positive reinforcement for whatever i'm doing is is attractive to you or is desired by you um in this and i think that even then transitions to the bedroom and really when i wrote this down i think that's what i was thinking about yeah um who i've had sex with women with women and i'm having sex with them and i can't tell if they're Thank you for having a good time or not like i have no idea because a lot of men are not very it's actually pretty common for men to not be vocal people and it's funny because i saw something that like somebody said that men are like basically like learn to masturbate in complete silence their whole lives because you don't want to get busted and so like then when they have sex they're just used to being quiet because don't women be quiet when they masturbate their whole life i just don't think we're masturbating as much as like think about it you're like every day yeah since you were like pretty you know adolescent and i don't think you know girls maybe once women once when they get older and they're a little bit more comfortable with their bodies that they probably do it fairly often but not most teenage girls make themselves come every day i don't think and where teenage boys do so i just think like men are just like i just heard somebody say that and i was like it makes total sense because most men do not give positive reinforcement when you're fucking like you don't even do it no i'm not very good at it so that's really funny to me that that i mean like i get it i it me too i want to hear that i'm doing good i want and i think there's been times that i've even like said stuff to you like do you like that you know or like I think I mean you're not terrible at it you do give me some but it's just not like most men don't so I think that's funny.
One of the funny things is I think I've learned that a little bit and I've tried to especially like when you're giving me oral sex I've noticed that when I'm like oh that feels good like you go a little harder yeah for sure you're you're telling me that you like that like how else am i gonna know that that feels good unless you like say that and the same for for me like if you're going down on me i try to like you know because honestly it's probably better for me if i just lay there and like concentrate on coming you know i could probably could come quicker but really like i think like me rubbing my hands through your head and like grinding into you and all that it's like positive like you want to know that you're turning my body on well and you know another interesting i've had sex with women and i cannot tell if they've came or not like i'd have no idea if they had an orgasm i've finished having sex with women and they've been like oh my god you made me come three times and i was like i i fucking did i didn't know you i i thought i failed completely you know i mean and and that's why like i like fucking you because you you know when you come and you're very very you you know we call it releasing demons like well sometimes i do release demons yeah not every time but sometimes But what I'm saying, very normally you're very vocal yeah when we have sex and i can tell like when other men have sex with you that maybe aren't used to that it makes a man feel like a rock star because you're like i am doing look look at her she's moaning she's coming her legs are shaking she's squirting like like i'm the fucking man you know i mean and then the opposite of that is like these girls that just laid there that have like a blank expression on their face and you're like i don't am i having sex with a blow-up doll right now yeah what okay you feel that like surely you feel that yeah okay so like on the flip side of that what about girls that are super loud just, like, they're just loud the whole time.
I don't know. Would you rather have that than somebody that was supposed to say? I would rather have that than somebody that doesn't. There is a point where it's too much. And then I don't know if this is true or not. But I do feel like sometimes in playrooms, women, like, play it up sometimes. Do you think so? I can think of a few situations where there's, like, that one girl that's like, oh, my God. Oh, my. Oh, fuck. Yeah. Like, that was hilarious. Was it good? Yeah. We should, like, play that over and over. Like, that should be our Tuesday talk. But you know what I mean.
Like, and you're like, is that? Yeah. No, no.
I can think of a few people that um have done that a little too much but then again all right i don't know what they're like at home with her husband so like maybe you know because okay so the guy who you were just talking about that feels like a rock star with me let's say his wife is one of the non-vocal ones she probably thinks that about me oh that you're yeah you're not wrong yeah so it's hard to say you know like so again i would rather especially if i'm the one fucking the girl that's being loud like if i'm fucking you you fucking you orchestra that shit like you make sure the people in the back of the fucking club hear you right like you but if i'm not the one fucking you sometimes that can be distracting yeah no so i get it i can get both sides but definitely if i would side on the go with the vocals over nothing yeah yeah you need some feedback okay my last one um i am really turned on by a guy and a girl this can't go both ways that is really into their spouse i love seeing couples that are into each other that are in the lifestyle to just enhance what's already amazing um that is a super big turn on to me and you know i i like seeing the husband glance over and watch his wife like come or you know get i can see that he's getting enjoyment from her um that i just think that's i don't know that's awesome we've we have both ways we've been with couples that as soon as you swap they don't look twice at their spouse like they're like who is that over there you know and it's almost like you wonder is is there more to this is there more that we don't know how are things at home you know it they may just you know not like to pay attention to their spouse well you know that's perfectly acceptable um but you just i don't know i just like to see some interaction some it's just to me it like it's warm and fuzzy it makes me no i agree like if you go to a swingers um club event and you see a couple and they don't dance with each other yeah they don't kiss each other yeah they don't really talk to each other and then they go to a playroom and they don't fuck each other it's like are you guys just like are you just here just right did you just split the room and the tickets like what is going on here like um and i will say over the years we've been good at that like yeah i think we have had a good connection i think i think it comes and goes i think yeah've had events where maybe we didn't fuck each other but usually you know um especially when we were you used to do week on week off because sometimes we wouldn't see each other for a week and then we'd end up at a swingers event and people would be like why don't you guys just go back to your room and fuck like why are you in the playroom right now it's like no we we well one we like fucking each other and this is hot but i love fucking my wife in the playroom so like i'm not gonna go to a room this is makes it much that much better experience um but yeah i can definitely relate to that and i i can think you know when you see couples that you can tell when a couple's with each other and they touch each other and they look into each other's eyes and they kiss and they dance that you can see that spark and that Thank you.
But you can tell when a couple is with each other and they touch each other and they look into each other's eyes and they kiss and they dance. You can see that spark and that energy. And I've seen it from couples from in their 20s to couples in their 80s at these events. And you're right. It's a super turn on. I really like it. Agreed. That's it. That's all I got. That's all I have on my list. Do you think people think we're crazy after this? I think people probably thought we're crazy since episode one. Oh. Yeah. But this actually was fun, and I did learn a lot. All right. So to surmise.
Surmise. Summarize. Yeah. Just list out what you said. A man bigger than me. A bigger man. Bigger man. Doesn't take himself too seriously. Fun guy. Has confidence. A big, fun, confident guy. Okay. Who balances that like I'm flirting with you. I'm into you, but without being overbearing. All right. So, a big, fun, confident guy with game. Yeah. Okay. That loves his spouse, loves his wife. Big, fun, confident guy, game, loves his wife. And took a good shower and smells real nice before he came here. A big, fun, confident, clean guy with game. That loves his wife. That loves his wife.
That's your summary. Big, confident, clean. That's a lot. You said it like 10 times. You did good. All right. So now.
I'm not doing that for you just fyi i love a submissive outgoing bougie yeah sexual yeah local older woman well babe you got it right here Think about it That pretty much Sums me up That's true I mean I'm 40 I mean i'm not i'm not older older but i'm old enough sexual vocal older woman babe you described me i didn't subscribe you you did not describe me yeah i did but i still love you well i mean yeah you're bigger than me you don't take you do take yourself pretty serious you do you do but like in the best possible way you're confident i am confident um you do a really good job about you're not overbearing in my opinion you're very you do a very good job of that um you you love me which i appreciate um and you are always really clean.
Maybe you don't wear cologne. We need to step that up. But you're at least not wearing Axe anymore. So I feel like we're doing something good. So I'm too, out of your list, I'm too serious? That's the one thing? You're too serious and you could spray a few more spritz of cologne. Okay.
I did describe you, you're not older than me though that's probably the one baby what i'm one day older than you okay so you're keeping that i'm a cougar let me live okay all right so i'm into lacy lacy is not into me that's what we learned from this podcast episode i'm into everything what are you talking about all right so i think we got some stuff coming up, right? Yeah. So today's Thursday. I am in Houston. You are. You are not. I'm not. I will be at Splash Houston on Friday. It's the first week back to school. So I'm staying home, doing the mom thing. So I get to go be a bull for a night.
Well, you know, you don't. But good luck with that. You know, you think whatever. The funny thing is Lacey's like, no no you can't be a bull while i'm not there then you're like well maybe there's one or two girls that you could be that way and then you were like i don't give a fuck like i'm gonna be in bed by myself no because i thought about that today i was like actually like it's gonna be nice i think i'm gonna go to tgmx marshals and hum goods you're gonna be crazy. I'm going to be at a swingers event without you. You're going to be driving yourself fucking crazy.
I'm going to sleep in the middle of the bed. You don't think you're going to be texting me every five minutes worried? No, I don't. Really? Hmm. Interesting. We'll have to report back. This is our first swingers event that I will not be at.
So he's only really there like a day and a half without me but um okay two nights but one night it's not a swingers event he's just in a hotel room so um i guess stay tuned we'll report back on how this goes will dan get lucky without me no i mean if i had the green light i totally would yeah and to be honest with you this totally took a turn like this is a whole nother podcast but um there is someone that i would be totally okay with it our life has just been really busy to plan it out and i feel like i if we decided now it might freak me out like if i had to, like, really process it and plan it and talk about it, I probably would have been totally fine.
But I feel like we didn't do that. And I feel like if we did it now, it would be, like, rushed. And I wouldn't feel comfortable. That's really not a big deal. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And then the other thing I want to talk about is Club Tempted. So, we have that in the end of August. Yeah, I can give the exact. 23rd, 24th. Yeah, 23rd, 24th. Yeah. And Louisville, Kentucky. It's actually, you know, I'll be honest. I was not sure about the themes. It's Alice in Wonderland. On Friday. On Friday. And Saturday night. It's essentially like a steampunk.
Yeah, and con yeah they have really cute names i just basically uh they're probably the girls who work for us are probably like you just totally fucked that up but it has really cute names i just don't remember i thought it was steampunk and i kind of kicked and screamed that it wasn't my favorite but now that i have my outfits i actually like them and i, you know, sometimes you've got to be pushed out of your box. And I'm kind of excited to come up with something different outside of Alien Glove.
So if you're listening to this and you were within driving distance of Louisville or, hey, come fly out. There's still time because you've got you got still a couple almost a month right uh so august 23rd 24th um saturday night usually sells out so definitely go on swingerside.net and book your tickets while you still can um definitely come see us i think this is gonna be fun uh if you have not been to club tempted in louisville kentucky it is up there on our a top list. It really is. We actually have a YouTube video on Facebook.
in Louisville Kentucky it is up there on our top list it really is and we actually have a YouTube video on um on YouTube that you can watch a tour of it they've updated some stuff since then so when we go back we're definitely going to do a new one but you get pretty much yeah there's not a whole lot that's changed just a little bit here and there so definitely go and check that out so you kind of can see what it's like. And then go to Swinnerscited.net and purchase your tickets and come party with us. And then we also got October Secrets. And so we have October 3rd and 4th that weekend.
I think it's actually the 2nd through the 4th.
You can book for any of those days with the third and the fourth there's the friday saturday um come to come to secrets with us yeah that event always sells out um it's going to sell out early so don't wait to buy your tickets swingerside.net if you want to go to october secrets and you're hearing this go book your room now before they're gone i don't think there's a ton of rooms left so um the earlier you book the better you don't if you wait too long you always end up with those last couple of basic rooms that nobody not that nobody wants but they're just not as fun as the rooms with the sex swings and stripper poles and all the led lights and orgy showers and good stuff so definitely if you want to have room if you want to come party with us at secrets that's some of the best parties we throw every every year um go book that yeah all right can't wait to party with you guys i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-starstar review wherever you're listening.
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