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Yet that's the only way to check for oral gonorrhea or chlamydia which are often asymptomatic you need a better doctor you need shamelesscare.com use coupon code tsn at checkout hey there pineapple people and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and today we have a very special episode for you we are going to be recapping our backstage past takeover of uh secrets hideaway we are we just got back what yesterday day before yesterday yeah something like that monday we got back monday today's wednesday so it feels it feels like yesterday like i don't think i'm fully recovered i'm not recovered nor have i had an opportunity to even try but we're home we are and we made it out of florida in time um if you don't know the hurricane is like making landfall as we record this yeah so we actually got super lucky with that this is maybe something worth talking about just for a second um there was a hurricane the weekend before our event and the weekend after yeah and both affected not not the first one what didn't super affect the uh secrets orlando area they got hit a little bit but not too bad but this one's like going right by there yeah and we had beautiful weather for this event so i'm super grateful probably some of the best weather that we've had um out of secrets but i'm thinking of everyone that has been impacted by both storms yeah for sure uh and we booked those the resort like a year out so we have no idea yeah the weather we have no way of predicting yeah i feel like we've had like july was extremely hot i think the one before that it rained so i was i was grateful for it was still very hot for october but it was great i was grateful for nice pretty weather okay uh all right so before we get into traveling down to Secrets, we had a little bit more preparation to do this time because of our new life situation.
Yeah. Do you want to talk a little bit about that? I can. We knew we could not. To go to Secrets, we get there like we really need to be there at least by Wednesday because the event starts on Thursday. We normally leave on Monday, and that kind of gives us like a day and a half-ish of, like, downtime before the event starts. But that was too hard this time with everything going on with my parents. So we left Tuesday, but we had to find a caregiver to stay with them for 12 hours a day. So after interviewing several companies and people, we finally picked one company.
And she came and she stayed with mom and dad while we went out of town. Yeah. We have cameras in the house. So you were checking your camera. Yeah. You were texting. Your mom was texting. But overall, I think it went pretty well. Yeah. I mean, one hospital visit, but it wasn't anything serious. One fast food debacle. Because my dad really shouldn't have fast food. But overall, it went extremely well. And I was super grateful that we were able to go and have fun and relax.
But relax because this is work if that makes any sense um but i knew he was being taken care of so yeah and they would i think another thing i've never really thought about before is that the amount of expense that goes into if you have parents that need a caretaker it's very that is not a cheap you know it's more expensive than trying to get find a babysitter oh yeah i mean like it was more expensive than our room for the way that's for sure yeah um but super grateful that we we found someone and we got it all taken care of and and everything worked out great all right so let's get into our little trip to secrets hideaway So we didn't leave until like 2.
Because you had appointments to go to. With my dad, very last minute, he has a port for his dialysis. It looked to be infected or something was going on with it. So they got him in an appointment the morning we left. But I just didn't feel comfortable leaving until I knew that everything was good. Because I knew he might have to have surgery to flush it out, clean it out. So I didn't, I didn't want to leave. And then two hours later, find out he needed surgery. So I got up, I took him to his appointment. Everything ended up being great. He was fine.
They, they said they, it just kind of looked funky, but there was no issues.
So by the time i got home and then got the caregiver settled and everything loaded up it was just it was almost two which kind of sucked yeah so it was a long trip um down to florida and um when we plugged in the address into the gps it actually said like flood warnings around the route so that hurricane had just come through a few days before we left um to head to florida and so there were still some like traffic road warnings flood warnings well we go through a lot of georgia to get to florida so that we were concerned about the drive and we actually drove a lot at night because you know we left it too so we didn't see a lot of damage a lot of we didn't see a lot but we did actually see it coming back right so we drove back in the daytime and yes through florida and parts of georgia there was all kinds of trees down and um houses that were damaged and stuff like that so i'm definitely like you said still thinking of those people that were affected by that for sure so we got to secrets like 12 31 would you say yeah at least super late um so we really just like crashed we unloaded our personal stuff packed the or you know you parked the trailer and we went to sleep essentially um there's not a whole lot usually going on on Tuesday night.
But it was kind of crowded because it was Pride Night. Yeah. So, like you said, we normally get there on Mondays. And I actually really enjoy Tuesdays at Secret. So, if you don't know, it's Pride Night. And they usually do the drag queens go out and do a show. Which we kind of missed all that. We got there so late.
all that was but it was still even you know when we got there there was still a decent amount of cars there and stuff was going on people were at the bar which if you go like on a monday or wednesday you don't get a lot of that not like on your average week maybe if it's like a holiday week or something but um so we basically just went to bed that was kind of the bulk of our two cents right we got there we got that yeah we arrived okay so wednesday um we slept to 11 which was wonderful we have not done that in a while no we have not um and then i knew that i wanted to take some bikini pictures and stuff by the pool because, you know, Slingit is one of our new sponsors and I get in trouble in provocative things on social media.
And usually if there's a body of water, it kind of helps me fight that and, you know, they won't take it down. So I plan to do these pictures on Wednesday because Secrets has a pretty strict policy on photos being taken inside of the gates. If you follow their social media, if you've ever been to Secrets, you know. But there is like a big red chair that you can take pictures of. And if you are in that water, usually they'll let you kind of get away with it.
If you've been to Secrets, you know kind of in the back left left corner there's a big red chair up against the fence and that is their like official photo taking area um and then just in front of that there is like a shallow like almost wading area of the pool um and historically speaking that same area if you wanted to take bikini pictures or something like that because it's kind of got the photo backdrop still behind it, that's the area we've used previously to take photos. It's kind of like a gray area.
You know, you're like, I don't think technically you're supposed to take pictures there. And I wouldn't do it on a Saturday or any day that the pool was filled. But like a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, when no one's in the pool at all, you can usually like like, get a few in without, you know, anyone saying anything to you. So, it's basically, like, what we did. Right. So, actually, it's funny. So, it was us. It was news winners on the block had got there. They're on TikTok. They're public. And Heart Shaped Nipples had got there. Well, she literally has Heart Shaped Nipples. She does.
Go check her out. She's pretty's pretty hot. They're both hot, but I'm just, I guess, caveating why she's called heart-shaped nipples. So we're out there and we're taking little pictures in that area. And one of the staff actually came up to us and said, hey, you can take pictures in the chair, but you can't take pictures in the pool. And it was literally, we were about, I think we were the only ones in the pool.
Yeah, I think there was one couple on the other side um but not on our side at all right and i don't think they and so we kind of did the uh we're dan and lacey and for the swing nation podcast i didn't do that well i did and i'm like you know we we help promote secrets and we do a lot of promotional videos and you know obviously these will will tag you guys in we're like so historically it hasn't been an issue and the person was like it's zero now that you know they've they had a few issues with people in the past and so they've they've really kind of enhanced their policy and so i was like okay well is is the manager here is it okay if i talk to him and so mac styles if anybody knows secrets or knows the management there he came came out and we talked and we said, hey, we're trying to make some TikToks and stuff real quick to help promote you guys and promote some of the stuff that we're doing and do you mind?
He's like, no, not at all. Just make sure you shoot this way. Which we were. Of course we were going to. Which the haters are going to really get you for that. For saying we're down on my seat. Because we try to help promote secrets. It's beneficial to them.
It's mutually beneficial to all of us to do that and like you said we would never do it with random people actually and we were explaining to the security guy because he was like we could be sued i'm like well you don't realize it like we also could be sued um we are super careful with our pictures even the you know i was thinking about it because i was we're totally on a tangent here now um but i was watching um a promo video for another lifestyle event group and there was all kinds of people being shown i was like oh my god all those poor people and then i thought about it those people might be okay with it i'm just assuming that they're not because people could look at our videos and think the same thing even though our videos every single face that is shown we have a like a model release for um but we're very very careful about people's and we have images of so much that we we would never show just because it weren't more respectful than that yeah no 100 and once once you know matt came out he was like no absolutely you guys are good um and he kind of explained to the other guy that hey this is a little bit different situation but good job for doing what you're supposed to be doing yeah for sure um and we we moved on from that yeah so after that we had scheduled um to make content with new swingers on the block because we don't normally make content it's especially not at secrets because that's like our big thing so we try not to do anything at secrets but because my parents are living with us now and we're not traveling quite as much as we used to or at least we don't have the opportunity before we could just hop in the car on a wednesday and go somewhere but at the weeks we didn't have your son we'd do meetups and collabs and stuff like that for for only fans where now we can't leave as easily as we could so we knew going into it that we had to try a little bit harder to do this so we um we had scheduled to make content with them because we knew they'd be there on wednesday we'd never made content with them so it's a great opportunity but we've had sex with them we've swapped with them a half a dozen times yeah yeah we have yeah um and we've known them for over a year i think the first time we met them was like august the grove i think was the first one so um we so once we got done with those pictures and stuff we then went and got ready and we made some super hot content with them yeah they had a super cool room so they have the like the pirate's cave room or whatever it's called but um it's super aesthetically pleasing all the raw walls looks like rocks and stuff like that we were a little concerned because it's kind of dark in there but we had brought some lights and stuff i think you know from what i've seen i haven't looked at all the footage yet but it looks it looks pretty good yeah um and so we did a swap with them and you actually asked her if it was okay if i funk just her on camera i did because we've been trying to so i've had an only fans page since we started doing only fans basically well since they made it mandatory that the the all participants had to have an only fans page but we've never really promoted it or pushed it or had many subscribers to my page um but that's something we've kind of tried to push a little bit more here the last couple months and so you're like hey dan's dan's kind of trying to get some more content so basically if there's a wife that i know the husband doesn't really care you know you kind of get that vibe i'm like hey dad needs content for his page so basically it's just like him fucking wives you know um how do you feel and she was like sure so you and her had sex really quick well i don't know if it's really quick no i mean like it was a solid 20 minutes yeah i mean like not for hours yeah um and which was.
Which you kind of caught me off guard. I didn't know you were going to do that. You didn't? No, no. I almost did it Sunday, too. Did you? Yeah, but I didn't. But you did well. You didn't seem to be too off guard there. And then, so I don't know if you saw this, and I don't think we've talked about it. But while y' were making content, me and Mr. Newsworkers on the Block, he was like rubbing me and kissing. Like, it was kind of nice to like get us in the mood. Right, get you going. Yeah. And so after y'all were finished, it was our turn. You guys were ready to go. Yeah.
So all four of us got on the bed, and it was just, like, some oral, some swapping. Yes. What? And then what happened during that? So I look down, and I pull my hand up, and it's covered in blood. This is towards the end. This was the end. Yeah, this was the end. So I think I was playing with myself. Like, I think you were finishing up with her, maybe, and I was playing with myself. And I pulled think you were finishing up with her maybe. And I was playing with myself. And I pulled my hand up. And there was blood on my hand. Well, if you don't know this about me, I had a hysterectomy at 28.
So, I'm not bled from that area in a long time. So, immediately, I was like almost in a panic. I was like, where did this blood come from? And I think, like, everybody else was like, oh, nobody.
But, like wait no i'm bleeding something is bleeding and so you know of course i got like you know napkins and stuff and it stopped bleeding pretty quickly like it wasn't like a long or even a ton of blood it was blood it was bleeding but it wasn't it wasn't like murder scene bleeding or anything like that um but i was able to get it stopped and we decided okay well let's go to dinner and we didn't think anything else really of it yeah well like you said you're like oh it kind of feels like i got scratched yeah that's what i thought and bless his heart he was like looking at his nails and his nails were not long they were not sharp or anything so i genuinely was like that's so weird and because it didn't bleed a ton i thought well maybe just nicked it like a little something because that's happened to me before i think any woman who's been fingered by a man at some point has like been cut have you ever done that to a girl not that i know of yeah maybe my next boyfriend years I'm sure it's possible.
An ex-boyfriend years ago, like Vanilla, did it to me. So I don't, you know. But it doesn't, you know, it doesn't happen all the time. But it. Right. You said he wasn't being super rough. No. Yeah. No, not at all. So anyway, so after that, we went to dinner.
We went to the Italian place next door, which is, you know, we have to go once every time this time it took a long time it took well the funny thing is we came in well we we rolled in there with like 10 people first of all and then like as soon as we came in like four other groups came in and it seemed like there was all of like two or three people working in there yeah again like the italian food is excellent so it's in the uno hotel which is right next to Secrets. It looks like. I don't. It looks scary. Yeah.
But I promise you, if you go in there and eat the Italian food inside the hotel, it's excellent. Yeah, but it was like us, Miss New Swingers on the Block, Mr. and Mrs., Heart Shaped Nips, and her husband. I think he has a name, but I'm not sure. Like, I mean, he hasn't. You're not sure of his username.
Yes, I don't know his username yes i don't know his username you know his stage name and then a couple that we met in hito um what are their names beauty and the beast or something like that on discord yep um and then arouse which works for us yeah is that how you say that it's around arrow arrows i don't know arrows i think It's like-o i guess you would say arouse she worked for us so she helped us plan secrets with us um so it was all of us and it was a great dinner it took a while but it was a great dinner and then after that we decided to go back and do hot tub we did yeah so we quickly changed again i was like I'm not gonna get in the water because one you know it's secrets hot tub it's like any hot tub at like a lifestyle thing it just seems like a little sketchy we got in the pool at first yes and then like you're like i'm not getting the hot tub but i'll get in the pool and so we all get in the pool and everybody's like freezing and we're like screw this let's get in the hot tub so we got in the hot tub so i said i wasn't going to because i was like i've got a little nick i don't want to get you know an infection or anything but so i sat on the side of the hot tub for a while but finally i was like just screw it i got into the pool or into the hot tub and i mean it was we had a good time we sat out there for probably an hour or two would would you say?
Mm-hmm. And then we went in. It was probably close to midnight, I guess. Right. So as we're sitting by the hot tub, we're talking to Beauty and Beast, and I'm like, a little backstory. Yes. So they had booked this entire takeover weekend. Yes. When they booked this entire takeover weekend, they realized that one of, I won't say who, but one of their family members. They saw them on the RSVP list.
Also booked this entire takeover weekend they realized that one of i won't say who but one of their family members they saw them on the rsvp list also booked the entire takeover weekend yes and so they actually got in a slight fight with their family member on who was gonna because they knew they both couldn't come correct that would be awkward yeah um so they're like who's gonna cancel and i think it was this family member's like anniversary or something yeah it was some sort of big something they were celebrating and technically his family member did book first yeah and so they had to gracefully bow out and um we actually refunded them their full refund because we just felt bad we felt bad yeah but anyway so as we're talking to them so they came out early yeah because they're they are like a dry distance away they're not like super far away but they're not super close so right and this is a couple that we met at hedo they were at the last secrets we've we've played with them we were supposed to see them at splash which we had to miss because of your mom right yeah so they had messaged us and said hey if we drive around over on wednesday and we like have dinner and hang out and stuff we were like sure great so um when it was time to go in dan was sly and was like hey do you want to come back to the room with us yeah in full disclosure it had come up in conversation during the day that she was unable to play yeah because of the time of the month that it was for her she wasn't able to play so i was kind of like hey we really want to fuck you guys we realize she probably is not comfortable with that because of that but if you still want to just come back and we can kind of he can fuck you or you know we can just kind of make out whatever you guys want to do if you just want to come back let's just go back hang out have some fun and they're they were kind of looked at each other and they're like yeah let's do it so um we that's what we did so we went back to the room it was pretty hot All right.
of fun and they were kind of looked at each other and they're like yeah let's do it so um we that's what we did so we went back to the room it was pretty hot um i fucked him you fucked me some orals she gave me yeah she was she was definitely involved she wasn't like sitting on the sidelines or anything like that we kind of cuddled and watched you too far it was cute it was cute because it was like i could tell you were like super turned on and i wanted to fuck her yeah so it was interesting um i don't know if we've ever really done that where like i physically didn't fuck anybody like i couldn't i couldn't fuck anybody and you could and so that was kind of fun yeah because it's usually for us the other way around you fuck lots of women while i watched her right yeah for whatever reason it does seem like that happens i mean you've you've met a few bulls and we've made content with them and stuff so it's probably happened one or two other times but in this case there was a girl there that i wanted to fuck but i couldn't fuck me or her were kind of like hot and heavy like we're making out and touching and she's like sucking my dick and i'm like my god i wish i could fuck you she's like no no you can't but she's like i wish you could too and yeah it was pretty hot yeah it was very hot and i fucked and my where i had gotten cut earlier didn't really bother me super bad and so really it was almost like over once the situation was over i was like oh now i'm starting i think what had happened is that we wrapped up with them and said good night and they left and i was like i am fucking you yeah i'm so turned on right now i need to fuck you i probably went a little too rough with you and then me and you finished you're like my fucking pussy hurts yeah this is not like something's going on here you need to look at it i'm like you need to need to look at it.
And I'm like, I'm not a fucking gynecologist. Like, what am I looking for? Like, and she's like, I don't know. You'll just, I think I have a scratch or a cut. When you see it, you'll know what it is. And I'm like. So he's like down there with his flashlight on his phone, like trying to find this. He's like, I don't see anything. I don't see anything. I'm like, I swear there is something down there. So finally he saw it. And it was a pretty good. You had a pretty good. It was a cut. Yeah, it was a cut.
Like a scratch scratch and it was a pretty good i mean it was a good like one inch like scratch so we don't know if it was from like his wedding ring yeah so later i talked to him later on he's like i have no fingering else the only thing i can think of um is his wedding ring was a metal ring and if you kind of like touch the side of the ring it was kind of sharp like it kind of had a little bit of an edge to it he's like that that's the only thing i was thinking of almost like damn you must have been all up in there you got your wedding ring but it was kind of where the scratch was kind of on the side yeah on the end on the outside so it kind of makes sense yeah um so men if you have a metal wedding ring on you might and it's sharp the edge, you might want to be careful.
Maybe take that off. I wear the rubber, I don't know what you call that, but just the, they're like the stretchy rubber elastic band ones. I did that in the army because I think you almost had to because if you got it crushed in something, you know, it was like a danger to wear the metal bands.
And so I've wore the rubber ones my whole life but also works good in sex because you cannot hurt anybody with a rubber pointing ring on the good thing is like it really didn't bother me um like to just wrap up that i was able to i did you know actually engaged throughout the weekend i didn't have yeah we were a little worried at first yeah we were we kind of realized like once we saw this rash realized, like, once we saw this rash, we're like, ooh, that does not look good. And so we're worried about, like, oh, I hope it doesn't get infected. And then you're like, oh, I hope it doesn't.
Like, I don't wake up tomorrow and I'm just super sore and can't fuck anybody. I did DoorDash some medicine. There's a brand that sells, like, an over-the-counter UTI rescue kit, which has been life-saving for me a couple of times throughout the years.
and i like i even travel with that when we go international just because you never know what could happen and so i door dash new one and just and you get like enough medicine for two days it's like just to kind of get you out of the situation so i immediately just started taking those because i knew i'd been in the hot tub i'd had sex i mean obviously with the condom on so you're like give me some antibiotics give me something let's start this so i think i just kind of got a little bit of ahead of it too because we were a little worried so that kind of wrapped up our wednesday that was our wednesday yeah so that was kind of the prequel to um secrets and so really wednesday when we did meet with um with max styles and kind of talked about and we talked to justin jordan on the phone a little bit and kind of figured out the djs and stuff that's really why we go down there a day early lots of times you do do like photo shoots with wings of glory and stuff like that but it's really kind of just to make sure everything's prepped and set for the next day uh we did forget we um we did raffle baskets or the swag bags we did we stuffed so we came back from the italian restaurant we actually took some time lots of friends helped us and everybody that was in the hot tub helped us stuff uh the swag bags so that was we're grateful for that but uh yeah definitely that was that was the wednesday that was the pre the prequel okay i think now's perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners on and sponsors of Swing Nation podcast.
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You really need the good stuff, especially if if you're a swinger because we're having a lot of sex so make sure you check out the swing nation dot info click on the promescent tab and you'll take you there all right guys welcome back welcome back thank you for listening to our sponsors we love our sponsors we do um they're always front and center at our events and our takeovers and things like that um you guys probably got some from freebies from them and your swag bags and they're they're super grateful to them they help us put on a good event okay so when we left you we just finished out wednesday night a little a little uh fun with um beauty and the beast although i couldn't fully participate um but you survived and it was still it was kind of hot i felt like i was in high school again where it's like i want to fuck you but um you know we can't yet like uh you know it's kind of like when you soft swap with a couple and you realize how hot soft swapping can be.
Yeah, it's like that not being able to do everything that you want to do is kind of sexy. Yeah, it's kind of fun. Yeah. OK, so Thursday, this is like our prep day, basically, like everything starts, but it's also our prep day, if that that makes sense so all of our staff is there at this point and usually by like 11 we're in full setup mode we have all of our signs all of our our tents our 360 if the the flags and the cabanas all of that is set up on Thursday day. So as everyone's checking in, getting to their room, all of that, we're out there working like crazy people.
Yeah, so we basically, I mean, our meet and greet and mingle games start around 5. So we basically have fun from somewhere around like 11 a.m. till 5 p.m. to get Secret hideaway in swinger society mode didn't get all the merch 10 all the 360 all the backdrops all the all the decor everything that makes it a swinger society takeover we have those couple hours to get it up and ready and i will say i felt like at this event it went smooth as butter and i really think it's it's a lot of the preparation that you and d and Mandy and the whole team really put together.
I mean, we've done this so many times now. I don't even know which takeover. We're on 10, 12, something. I don't know how many takeovers we've done at Secrets. But it's really got to where it's getting to be a well-oiled machine. And Thursday, for me, I thought it was super slick, getting everything put together. It was extremely hot for October. But outside of that, it was super easy. Also, all of our stuff is black, like black tents, black signs, black banners, black. So not only was it hot, but now there's everything black around you.
Like you're underneath a black tent with black walls, and it's, it's just hot. Um, but we managed and we got everything up and situated. Um, there's always, you know, a handful of volunteers. A lot of them are the same people every time. And so super grateful for them for jumping in and helping us unload and load.
And, um, I thought it just went, like you said, it just went really well well so we got it up relatively quickly um which was good because it rained yeah yeah so i don't know what time maybe two three something like that would you say yeah it started raining so um i actually went in um with the intentions of coming back out and then it started pouring so i actually really enjoyed this time because daphne and daddy mike came in and we hadn't seen them trying to think the last time we saw them splash maybe no i don't know the last secrets we saw them in eros yeah for one night Um, but it was, um, you know, it was just really nice for me anyway to just not have to be anywhere or do anything i got like two hours just to catch up with that catch up laugh chat do all the things no that was good yeah no setup was great i think it was excellent like you said huge shout out to everybody you know we have our staff and they're on the ball obviously but the volunteers that always step in and kind of help with all that stuff and the husbands yeah most our staff is female but all their husbands their husbands are always um probably working just as hard yeah um and not getting paid for it so we appreciate that they're like i'm here to fuck bitches and then load trucks yeah um but yeah it was great um and because it was raining and stuff we did get ready for the night portion of thursday but we were able to make tiktoks and and do some fun things which i i enjoyed so probably around 4 45 5 we went out to start the thursday night portion and thursday nights have changed over the years a lot of people are new that come to our events because they listen to the podcast, they see our social media, they find our discord, and so they feel comfortable coming.
And we do a survey after each secrets. And one of the things people had said was they needed opportunities to meet people like not in a club or half naked you know they wanted a chance to have like games just opportunities like not forced interaction but kind of right um so that's kind of how thursday was born so thursday night we always set up several games that kind of encourage you to talk to one another. Icebreakers. Icebreakers, yes. So this year, we did bingo, which we've done that in the past. And it's essentially a card that has, like, all these different random things.
Like, have you been to Hedo? Have you done DVP? Have you had a threesome? Anal sex. Anal sex. Are you vanilla? And it makes you, like, you have to have somebody sign it. And it makes you have. That has done that thing. Thank you.
have you had a threesome anal sex anal sex are you vanilla and you it makes like you have to have somebody sign it and you makes you have that has done that thing yeah right so you have to go around and ask people hey have you done this which is kind of fun and then you're like well tell me about it tell me about the time you did that crazy thing yeah so that's kind of the it's a very conversational starter thing and it also does a few things so it starts conversations you have to ask people like have you done dvp and then what ultimately happens is somebody figures out that lacy has done dvp and so then they're talking to other couples and they're like oh we just can't find anybody that's done dvp and they're like oh lacy's the dvp girl go get her so it's like you kind of get to know people and then people start like referring people to other people and like so it's kind of it's kind of fun it is fun we have done it this is like the third time in a row we've done that one i really like it but i don't i almost feel like we need to come up with a way to mix it up a little well we did change the card this time okay yeah it wasn't the same card like i know hito with bliss cruise was on there and it wasn't on there last time.
Okay. So, we do change it up a bit. After that, we did the lock and keep game. It was not only a game, but the girls get a log. Sorry. Yeah, a log. The guys get a key. You have to unlock the key. I will say, it ended up being great, and I think a lot of people liked it.
They kind of got tangled yeah so we put string so we saw this at trapeze one night and this is what gave us the idea to do this and they they did this hanging out logs handing out keys when they did it turned out like the majority of the locks opened the majority of the keys and this ours helped kind of happen similarly um but what we didn't account for is we had put in a lot of the strings that got put on the locks and keys back here and then transported the secrets and it got kind of tangled in that transportation and so we're sitting there trying to like detangle locks and detangle keys to pass them out um we had like five or six different locks and different keys um but many of those keys because they're like almost like diary kind of keys were pretty cheap and they weren't like individually keyed so one key probably opened a dozen locks or so so it wasn't but which made it good though because almost everybody found somebody that they unlocked yeah when we did it at trapeze years ago like five people unlocked my key and it was like a funny thing we were like i guess we gotta have sex now like it was like this huge like joke not joke and so it was fun i was like damn i got all these guys i gotta fuck tonight you know i didn't i don't think i fucked any of them but it was so fun you know it was so fun and again a reason to talk to each other no 100 yeah it seemed um once we got them untangled and actually passed out, people seemed to really enjoy the game.
Yeah. After that, we did speed dating. And the first round was pretty successful. There was a lot of people. I think we ended up having a turn. It was successful. It was full eventually.
But I felt like the last time or maybe the last two times, it was easier to get people to go do it yeah this time i felt like we had they took some they took some bribing it took some some time to get them to go yeah um which honestly like it's a really fun way to meet people it is it's great yeah um and then we did naked speak dating later and nobody like half of us were naked see i was trying to make everybody get naked and you were being nice on the mic you were like well you don't have to be that naked oh two things i think one there's so many of the people were new they were just uncomfortable so i didn't think we were gonna we barely got enough people to do the full speed dating round with clothes on i was like i don't know if we're gonna get anybody to do this naked thing and so i was kind of like hey it's it's naked speed dating but wear what you're comfortable with if you just want to take your top off or your bottoms off or whatever you know and people are like okay i'll do it then i get it so it was a little harder but we still didn't get everybody no we didn't we probably got half yeah um but so that was our thursday night games I think you and Daphne did that we were a couple yeah we were um and then around that time you and life of spice started djing together right so i did like a back and forth thing we did yeah so me and life of spice went back to back so me and life of spice you know if you've had if this is your first podcast episode life of spice has been djing for years we actually started with him three or four years ago and he was just DJing like our house parties and, you know, different parties at Airbnbs and stuff with us.
And he's gone on now to DJ some of the biggest lifestyle parties in the world. He does Bliss Cruise. He's done Hedo. He's done Naughty New Orleans.
He's kind of a big deal in the lifestyle now as far as dj go djs go um so recently here in the last couple months last six months or something like that i've been trying to learn djing not really because i want to be a big lifestyle dj more so that because we throw events and if a dj didn't show up or if their plane got canceled or if they showed up late like i I would know how to turn stuff on and make sound come out so that we wouldn't, you know, get hung up at an event not having music. But I've kind of got into it a little bit. And, you know, Life is Pices taught me a little bit.
And I actually got to DJ with one of the DJs at Secrets the last time we were there. And so it's kind of become this thing. And so he's like, hey, let's together and so we did that it was super super fun yeah i will say it was on thursday night it was cold and unlike july when everybody was in the pool kind of with us when we were when we were djing um this time everybody stayed up at the bar which yeah i was a little disappointed that nobody was in the pool like i envisioned i know cold. I know. Not cold, but it was like in the low 70s.
Which I'm not blaming the people, but I guess I envisioned it to be like a nighttime pool party. And it wasn't. It was like a hangout at the bar party, and the DJ was going. Right.
So as the DJ, I kind of felt like I'm over there by myself in the corner and i didn't get to see every like you feel like you're djing to nobody even though there was a couple hundred people at the bar yeah well and i ended up just like kind of floating around chatting i ended up sitting on the side of the hot tub which you'll hear more about that later But I i was you know so eventually i think daddy mike and daphne went in um eventually i was just like i'm going in i'm tired because like i was over socializing and i knew the next two days were like nothing but socializing at this point it was like pushing midnight so i was like in.
So I did. I went in. And I realized that where I had sat on the side of the hot tub, my whole booty, well, not whole booty, but underneath, had broke out in a heat rash. So I was just like, I gave up. Now I got a cut in my pussy. I got a heat rash on my booty.
I was i was like are you freaking kidding me so then i'm like in our big group chat or work group does anybody have any cortisone cream like of course nobody responds because everybody's drunk so this is actually when i door dashed the medicine so i went ahead and got the utah medicine just as like a a pre and i got cortisone cream and because i was like, how am I going to be naked at the pool tomorrow? But I loaded my booty up with my cream, went to bed, woke up. Yeah, you came over to me, and I'm still DJing. You're like, hey, I'm going to bed. Give me a hug. But I woke up, and it was gone.
That's actually not uncommon for me. I think I have super sensitive skin, if you don't know. So i sit in a like a car a seat in a car in the summertime it'll do that so anyway anyway so lacy went to bed with a butt rash and a broken vagina yeah i stayed up djing by the pool i only dj'd i probably stayed until like 12-ish. Yeah. And then I put a playlist on because the music goes at the pool until 2 a.m. And then I just like, there was literally maybe like 20, 30 people at the bar at this point. I'm like, you know what, I put a playlist on. I actually came back in, checked on you.
Posted some pictures. I was still awake when you came in. Yeah, posted some stuff on social media. And then like when 2 o'clock hit, I went and turned the music off.
But that was kind of our thursday night was pretty chill yeah we didn't have sex we didn't swap or anything again i was a little worried about a cut i didn't know how the weekend was gonna go so i was like let's just let's just take it easy agreed yeah okay so that pretty much was our thursday um friday started bright and early for me because it's super hard for like a lot of girls always want to take pictures and stuff with each other.
It is super hard to get it done like in the middle of the day because like for me, I really need to be out at the pool party, socializing and meeting and all that. So we had agreed to do 10 a.m. on Friday morning. So that meant I had to get up at like nine and get ready, full face and makeup, full hair, because we were doing, we did like a Halloween type, like a lingerie shoot. And then we did just some TikToks. And so the girls that were in there were some influencers, some not influencers. Like, swingers side influencers. I mean, like, everybody's an influencer.
But, you know, it's just some other girls that have OnlyFans and stuff like that. So that was kind of fun. Yeah, it was a cool group. I was actually just looking at some of those TikToks earlier. And I was like, oh, you know, Buffy's in that. Yeah, Buffy's in that. Louisiana couples in some. Yeah, there's a couple of people that don't always come to all the swinger societies, like those type of things. So I was excited to get those done. So that was a lot of fun. And then after that, it was like literally just like get ready for the pool.
Because I try to always be out by the pool by like 11 30 12 what about you well i ideally would be out there around 11 i think i've this weekend i ended up around out there around 11 30 is or something like that yeah so by the time we got out there like the merch booth was up and running and they were selling stuff and everybody was already having fun so it was good um did you play any games on friday you were you did not you We'll be right back.
selling stuff and everybody was already having fun so it was good um did you play any games on friday you you did not you were not feeling the games this weekend you know why because we were having fun yeah so i don't i have a mixed emotions with the games i think the games are good if people aren't engaged right so like if the crowd's kind of flat and dead i think games are fun because it's like oh draw the attention especially if you do something kind of sexy it almost like lets people know like it's okay to be sexy because look dan just made somebody squirt or you know whatever the case may be i like games for that but when the crowd is turned up and there's energy i feel like sometimes the games can like flatten that right because you stop the music and you kind of like try raise attention you know i mean so so i don't know i have mixed feelings about the games so on friday i felt like people were turned up like they really were like the crowd we were in the pool right like when's the last secrets that we were in the pool i don't think the last two two secrets, I touched the water of the pool.
You and I seemed much more relaxed this time. I think we kind of like let everyone else handle things and they kind of like took the lead on it and just everything kind of fell into motion the way it's supposed to be.
Also, I think we desperately needed like adult, like you and I like around our friends time so we really got to have fun and hang out in the water and chat i mean i genuinely enjoyed it no so i got in the water um and i was making out with girls i had i was getting my dick sucked like i kind of forgot not forgot but i was like oh i have to go host this pool party i can't just play in the in the water and have fun with all my friends and not say all my friends but some of the people are new people that i just met or yeah or you know had maybe met before but didn't really know that well so some of the highlights of the pool party um for me is on thursday night you had told me you're like hey did you meet that lesbian couple well i knew i had met two different lesbian couples so there were there ended up being three three that i know of that i like personally had conversations with which honestly you know just to say we've been saying for years now like what is up with it seems like swinger the swinger community in the lgbtqia plus community are like two different communities yeah and there's a little bit of crossover but i'm like i'm i feel like there needs to be more for sure now secrets does do a good job at this because they do their pride night every tuesday and on tuesdays there's a huge influx of lgbt community In like, I've seen several transgender people openly, you know, fully nude.
It seems like a very safe place for people um yeah so we've seen some of that at our party but but not a lot now this party it seemed like there was a lot more of that which made my heart happy yeah me too i was so excited like when me and daphne did the speed dating we that's how i met the one lesbian couple and then i met another lesbian couple when i had when you were djing they were up there by the bar or up there by the dj so i chatted with them for a second so we get back to the room on thursday and you're like did you meet that lesbian couple and i was like yeah and i thought it was the one that i i just assumed it was the speed dating couple and you were like yeah the one wife said she was just here to watch her husband get railed by guys and i was like not her husband or what her wife sorry i said it wrong um and they were gorgeous the lesbians that i had um i feel bad calling the lesbians but i don't know that that's the only thing i'm sorry you know if they're listening you know i love you um so i assumed it was that couple and i was like fuck yeah they're hot as shit did you get in line like come on i want to watch this and you were like no i didn't know what to say so at the pool so my side of that is this couple that was a female female couple had come up to me and they introduced me And I talked to them and she's like, yeah, we're sort of excited to be here.
And she was basically like, I'm bisexual and I've been wanting to get railed by husbands, but the wives always end up getting mad at me if I do it. She was like, so will I fit in here?
And I'm like, one, there's more to that story that I'd like to hear, but two, yes, I think you're in the right place that's why i told you about her and you're like i'm gonna find her and i'm gonna like so i'm gonna tell her that you can rail her all right i was just down for this next day yeah so i'm in the pool and this lesbian couple just like fit in with all of our friends they were just like right in the middle and i was like um the one i went I went up and I was like, so I heard that this conversation happened. And she looked at me like I had two heads.
And she was like, no, I'll fuck you, but I'm definitely not fucking Kim. And I'm like, oh, I felt like such an idiot. It was not the same couple. No, it was not. It was a different lesbian couple. This lesbian couple really liked their ladies.
They were not the same couple but it was funny it made for a good story i was like very embarrassed that i just walked right into it they were great sports and like she even told her wife about it and then we were laughing about it later you pointed me out and you're like yeah i went and talked to her she said she's not into i'm like that's not the same couple that i talked to i don't i think i had a drink or two at that point so like i wasn't drunk but like you know i felt a little courage to be like hey you know but it was like then it turned me on because she's like oh i'll fuck you but not him and i'm like oh you will you'll fuck me um don't threaten me with a good time so that had that was a good thing that i remember i do remember i ended up going to have my hair braided because i was spoiler i was taylor swift for rock star night and which she's a rock star to me so that's all that matters um so we got my hair braided um to wear my wig and when i came back from getting my hair braided you had a line of girls and a wand what how did that happen um so traditionally on fridays we've broken out the magic wand and done it like up on the stage and had girls come up to the front of the dj booth and like you know either i use the wand on them or they use it on their self or their partner uses on them something like that um but that's always like i feel like it's intimidating to like go up center stage and do it it is um and so this time i was like you know i'm gonna grab the wand and just kind of walk around the pool and just see like if i can get people to do it and i knew i could get like our friends to do it so i'm like i'll get a couple of our friends to do it and then see if i can get like just trying to get like the sexy going you know a little bit um and so i think i don't know i grabbed buffy or somebody first i don't know if it was buffy but one of our friends i grabbed first and then um new swingers on the block and then all of a sudden like girls just kept coming like they just kept coming up and be like can i try that can i try that can i try i had the cleaner i had all the white i had all the stuff so that it was completely safe uh yeah and then you're like you had gone i think at some point think at some point they're like, where's Lacey?
I'm like, I should get her hair braided. And you came back. And yeah, there was, we were having girls come on the side of the pool. I was like, live your best life, but I'm going in. Yeah, you literally came up to me and you're like, looks like you're having fun. I'm going to go take a nap and get some food. Well, because, so on Friday night is the room crawl and it starts at at 6. And at this point, it was like 3.30, pushing 4. And by the time I got myself ready, we got the whole room ready. Like, I need – I didn't get to nap. Like, there was no nap.
Like, it took me that long to get everything set up. So I knew I had to, like, go make myself go in, even though I was having a blast.
But what happened with you and a certain couple certain these i'm a lesbian couple yeah yeah so that the lesbian couple that did not want to get railed by guys came up and she's like will you do that to me and i'm like well i don't and to be fair i'm like hey your wife can do it doesn't have to be me like your wife can do this and she's like no it's okay you can you can do it so she like you know and the way i was sitting is i was sitting on the edge of the pool and the the pool at secrets has like a step down ledge and then it steps down again into the water and so like i was sitting on the edge of the pool the girls were kind of sitting on the edge of that step down so they're almost like sitting in my lap but kind of between my legs then i kind of was reaching around and giving them a reach around so they're kind of like in my like i'm almost hugging them as i'm playing with their their clit with the the so anyway i do that to her and her wife comes up and it's like playing with her clit while or i think fingering her whatever while i'm using the wand on her and she came and she's like you were the first dude that made me come in like 20 years or something her wife ended up coming up to me and saying that since they've been together that's the first man that she has seen you know i don't know obviously i don't think they've been to a lot of swinger events but um that she's seen her with and it was so like it was so hot um which is like super awesome i love that so it was those were just like a few of the there was a lot like the pool parties um i genuinely enjoyed this this secrets pool parties they were a good time yeah people were turned up for sure like it was it was good lots of making out lots of blow jobs lots of sex lots of lots of positive energy yeah going on in the pool.
And I had a blast. I was in the water or around the water. Most of the pool party, we did play, I think, one, I think we played the clicker game or something like that. But really good energy. Yeah. So I guess we're going to wrap it up here, kind of leaving you. We are out of time.
So I think we're going to wrap it up here, leaving you at friday pool party yeah and then next week we'll come back we'll talk about friday room crawl and then friday club night and then into saturday yep um so if you are listening to this and you're like i want to be there i want to do that i want to have all that fun um we're actually doing it again in april so april 3rd through the 6th 2025 we will be at secrets hideaway again and this event is going to be treasures and pleasures a little pirate theme meets tiki luau theme so it's going to be a good time um the tickets for the public go on sale October 18th.
So that's like a week, I think, from this Thursday. So if you're listening to this on Thursday, it's a week away. So mark your calendars, make sure you get booked. I know we've already sold a good chunk of room.
So this is something that you're interested in and you want to pick a really cool room i would probably book sooner rather than later we have low way options plenty of ways that you can you can get yourself there and not come out of pocket a ton of money up front yeah we've tried to make it as easy as possible for so we have payment plans where you just put a hundred dollars down that reserves your room and then you pay on the room um monthly yeah until it's paid for uh and yeah this secrets was the first time we let only the people at secrets rebook for the next secrets and i think like a quarter if not more the rooms are already gone um so yeah definitely if you want to come with to us to the next secrets um swingerside.net on what do you say october 18th?
Yes. Uh, so go hit the refresh, grab your room. We can't wait to party with you. Again, that's April 3rd through the 6th, 2025. Okay. All right. We'll be back, um, next week with the rest of our secrets hideaway backstage pass takeover. Yep. I think with that, in a world full of apples. Be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans, and more in the show notes.
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