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We are recording our podcast for Thursday. And we just got back. We got back late on Monday. And so really this is just like we've been home a day and a half, essentially. And we've been dead for that day and a half. Yeah, our truck is still in the driveway completely loaded. loaded like i had to use your toothbrush because my toothbrush is in the truck yeah i think these secrets events man they they uh they take it out of you it really does and this one i think i don't know i feel like every time we do it it's more more wild and more crazy and more exhausting but but a good time oh 100.
But, yeah, just a whirlwind of a week. But, yeah. Okay. So let's get into everything that happened last week. So we went down Monday. And it seems like Lacey keeps trying to back up our schedule and go down the secrets earlier and earlier and earlier every time. No, that's not true.
We usually go down, like, Sunday, Monday, Tuesdayay tuesday so like within those few days yeah we didn't go down any earlier this time oh okay i just feel like before we would go down earlier to do fun things like go to universal or disney or something and i feel like it's gotten to where now when we go down early it's more work than it is anything else yeah maybe that's maybe that's what I'm referring to. It felt like more like it wasn't. Usually we have like a little time to relax before we get into it. I felt like as soon as we landed at Secrets, we were go. We were.
We did have kind of a half a day to relax on Tuesday, but still was go. Okay, so we drove down Monday, and we didn't get into Secrets till late. I mean, I think it was 10, 11 o'clock at night when we pulled in. We got checked in, dropped the trailer, unloaded our personal stuff into our room, and then it was kind of just crashed for the night. Yeah, and we actually, so if you have been to Secrets or if you've heard about us talk about it, they have two suites at Secrets. And we always stay in one, really not because we want to be bougie, but because we need the space.
We have so much stuff and we host so many things in our room. It's kind of hard to do it in just a normal small room. But since we were going down on Monday and we really didn't need to be in the big room until thursday we stayed in a different room than our suite just to kind of save a little money yeah i don't do you think it was worth it no yeah that was my next question no it wasn't so but the price difference i mean we're talking about a hundred dollar a night room versus like $300 a night room. So we were just trying to be smart, but truth be told, we were, we had stuff on top of stuff.
Like we didn't have anywhere to do anything. And it may be the room that we picked, we were in the mermaid room, which has a giant bathtub, which is super cool, but I feel like you lose some room space because of that. Yeah.
I think when we've've gone down early before it was nice to get into our room because then we can unpack and decorate our room and that's like done yeah and then you don't have to try to do that like the day of when you're trying to you know organize the event and all that stuff so i don't know you're right it is quite a price difference you know but i don't know't know if switching rooms in the middle are right. It was essentially, like, half off. Yeah. So, or more than half off. So, I mean, it was a pain in the ass to kind of have to move everything. It was only, like, four doors down.
It wasn't, like, far or anything in it. Really, it just took us, like, not very long because we didn't unpack. But it was kind of a pain in the ass. Agreed. Okay. So that was, uh, so Monday, so Tuesday we got up early and we had a meeting with the management staff there at secrets, uh, to try to kind of go everything over everything that was planned for the weekend. Uh, you know, DJs and entertainment and MCs and, uh, all the kind of the fine details, um, just kind of make sure we were all on the same page and everything was good to go for the weekend. It was a great meeting.
I think every time we do this, we've got a little better about being organized and communicating with secrets and they've definitely stepped up their game as far as organization goes.
So I feel like this one was a lot smoother as far as I say that every time, but in I think, but every time I felt like there's something to take away like this secrets we were really focused on food getting food to people quickly and also people not having to wait in line at check-in those were our two big takeaways from the march event and so those were very like on our mind and i feel like even this one we now have a new takeaway which i don't know what it is but if you give me a little bit i can probably think of what it is i just haven't I haven't even this one, we now have a new takeaway, which I don't know what it is, but if you give me a little bit, I can probably think of what it is.
I just haven't, I haven't even thought about it, but I feel like there's always something to be taken away. And that was kind of the things that we were talking about. No, I think, yeah, I think, you know, this, this, every time we do an event, we learn something and we take something away and there definitely is some stuff. I think maybe getting some of our staff down there a little earlier would be my takeaway from this event. But, yeah, I think we always learn something.
But I definitely, if you look back over the, you know, I don't know, this is what, the fourth or fifth secrets we've done at this point. I think every time we kind of, it gets a little more well-oiled. I agree. Yeah. So we had a great meeting with them. And then we just kind of hung out for the day. We really, we were talking about like, oh, we should go out of the pool and lay out and do all this kind of stuff. But I think we were in such a like whirlwind getting ready to go to Secrets, like packing the trailer and getting all the merch done. And I mean, it was just go.
That we kind of were like ready for a day to just not do anything. Yeah. Well, and we had to be somewhere at 5, and I had to wash and dry my hair, which takes a couple of hours. So by the time we got done with the meeting and had lunch and you had the podcast to edit, there wasn't any time, so we just kind of took advantage of being in the room. We actually hadn't even really had sex because we were so busy just trying to get everything accomplished and finished at our deadline and get it in the trailer and get there. So we had sex. We loved on each other. You did the podcast.
It was a good, like, reset day. Yeah. It really felt like it was the first time we had a few hours to, like, catch up on everything else work and you know everything and um because we were so focused on getting everything ready and getting down the secrets i agree yeah so we had to be ready by five to go to wings of glory if you've been around the podcast you've heard us talk about them for a while um so i got in the shower.
like a nice long shower like I said before we fucked twice we sent some naughty pictures to our friends um but got completely ready and then we headed over to their studio and they are awesome photographers we needed new headshots done for the podcast and for some of our graphics and stuff and every headshot or kind of picture we've ever taken we've done it ourselves other than some like sexy pictures that we had had done by them at the last secrets we needed something professional but also sexy professional sexy but not naked yeah correct yeah and not in lingerie so dan got a suit i got a suit but mine was shorts and i wore it was like stilettos and no shirt underneath it and like this really cool like bedazzled jewel thing hanging down underneath the jacket so i think they turned out really really good i can't wait to see them i'm excited for all theings of Glory uh photos especially the ones we did there at the uh the studio yeah they do such a great job but then they also have all these cool sets so um yeah I'm excited to see it and I think it'd be good to get some like you said some of those professional photos we've never really done us together in a professional looking setting so I'm interested to see what that looks like and that's gonna be great for the podcast and our website and kind of all these different promotional flyers and things that we do, having some good photos like that done up.
Yeah. And while we were there, she was like, can I take your picture at a few of my new sets? Because I'm having trouble finding people that will let me share their images. And I was like, absolutely. You don't have to ask me twice.
so I got to take pictures in their Barbie set which it's not Barbie but it's it's like all hot pink they have a hot pink above ground pool in their backyard and it is adorable so if you haven't seen those videos Dan took a few behind the scenes there onok you can go and find those i got to do that and i got to do a shower scene which i was like completely naked it's not a real shower but damn it's so crazy how they can like make that look like a real shower yeah no they do a great job so that was pretty much it we were there for several hours we left there we hit up the liquor store because some of our friends were flying in.
So we offered to do a run for them. We went and got Chick-fil-A. I mean, that was it. We went back. It just went to bed. Normally, we would have gotten in the hot tub. I don't even think there was anybody out there on Tuesday night. No, I remember, I can't remember if this was Tuesday or Wednesday, but they had the karaoke or something. That was Monday. That was the night we got there. Oh, that's what it was. Because we were unloading the car, and they were out there singing Disney karaoke. And whoever was singing, I think they were a little drunk. And it was right in front of our room.
Like directly in front of them. And it was late. I mean, I don't know. It was after midnight, I think, and they were still out there singing. And I was like, well, they are having fun. And they were singing like a whole new world. I mean, I was singing along with them, but, yeah, it wasn't. I feel like she was good and maybe he wasn't. I don't know. It was funny to hear Disney tunes karaoke at Secrets. Yeah. But I think Tuesday there was not anybody out there. Like, it was complete.
I don't even think they had the bar open it was that dead out there i think i think that was wednesday i think tuesday was still it almost was like the calm before the storm i think that was wednesday night it was maybe we're like i don't know if anybody's here we might be the only ones here yeah it was pretty empty there so um and that was pretty much our tuesday like super calm super laid super laid back. That was it. Yeah. Super calm. If super calm is having a work meeting, then doing a bunch of work, and then going to a photo shoot. That's our calm days. Yeah.
Just to recap that back to you.
Like, if you get up, have a work meeting, plan an entire takeover weekend with staff, then come back, edit a podcast, catch up on social media posts uh and emails and all that and then go to a photo shoot and then come home that that was that was our super chill day yeah yeah it was exciting too it actually felt like a chill day it did it did so the next day was wednesday and we actually had to get up early we um were invited by trapeze fort lauderdale they actually reached out to us several months ago would you say and they wanted us to come and do a tour a youtube tour and make some tiktoks and stuff kind of like we did for trapeze atlanta or exactly like what we did um so they had reached out to us months ago but we were like well we're already coming to that area in September can we just wait and do it then so we didn't have to make two trips down there and they were like sure so it's about three hours would you say you two and a half yeah almost three I think two and a half 245 maybe um from Orlando down to Fort Lauderdale.
Yeah, so we got up and we drove over. But since we were in the area, we got to check out the Hotel for Splash Fort Lauderdale. Yeah, I don't, did you say Splash to start with? You might have said Splash. Okay, so yeah, we were driving to Fort Lauderdale for two reasons.
One was to go, initially was to go down and see Club Trapeze, we're real close with the club trapeze here in atlanta which is kind of closer to us but because we did the youtube tour and stuff in atlanta the fort lauderdale location reached out and wanted us to do similar things right and because we're coming down for secrets we said okay we'll go down there and do that and then in conjunction with that we've been working with splash they want us to host most of pool parties going forward.
But when kind of once we came to that agreement with Splash, we'd already had our secrets take over at the same time as their Splash Fort Lauderdale takeover was happening. So we were unable to host for them for the pool parties for this event. But they said, hey, if you guys want, you can come down and check out the hotel, kind of get an idea of the layout and stuff.
That way we're better prepared for next better prepared for next year we're like well just so it happens that we're driving down the fort lauderdale to do the the tour of uh club trapeze down there and so absolutely we'll swing by and check out you know say hi to all the splash people and check out the hotel down there um that way we have a kind of an idea of the layout for when we host there next year for the Splash Fort Lauderdale. So, yeah, we drove down and we got there pretty early. It's about noon. Noon, yeah. And then we went over to the Splash Hotel and got a tour of that.
It's very nice. It is a very nice hotel and a very nice location as well. Yeah. It's in like a fancy, I mean, I don't know what part of town it is but it seemed fancy to me everybody was driving like bmws and mercedes yeah audis and yeah and they had like compared to atlanta and houston it's by far the what appears to be the biggest hotel i don't know how many rooms they have but the pool was bigger the vendor space was bigger it was in an atrium So all the rooms looked in and had a glass elevator, which was super cool. So it made me excited for next year. I agree. Yeah.
No, it seemed like a real cool hotel. Uh, and of course splash, you know, they throw great parties, um, their playrooms, their club. I mean, they, they go all out. They bring all the things, um, that you could want at a, at a hotel takeover. So yeah, super excited about that. It was nice to meet them. Nice to see the hotel. And we are super excited for Splash Fort Lauderdale next year. We will be there. Yep. So we finished up there, and then we had to go to Trapeze. But the thing about it was is we had like four hours or like three. How many hours was it?
Yeah, a couple, two or three, something like that. And I told Dean we didn't need to leave that. He didn't listen to me. He was worried about, like, having enough time to do everything. So we ended up finding this restaurant that was, like, a knockoff version of Margaritaville, and it was terrible. The food was not good. For being such, like, a bougie, fancy area, you know what I mean? Like, you would think it would have good food, but it did not. it was terrible. The food was not good. For being in such a bougie, fancy area, you would think it would have good food but it did not.
It was not good but we ate it and then we literally just sat in the truck for like two hours. I took a nap, I think. Well, I think I closed my eyes but I didn't fall asleep but we were working. We were just working from our phone and doing something like that. Exactly. Then we finally made it over to Trapeze. We'll see you next time.
but we like were we were working we were just like working from our phone and doing something that exactly then we finally made it over to trapeze what did you i want to know your honest opinion what did you think when we pulled into the the parking lot of trapeze uh so i think if i remember correctly you kind of almost had to do a drive-by of the area because you had to go down and like u-turn and come back so as we drove past it you see the trapeze sign and it's in a strip mall and i'm pretty sure it was next to a pond it was shop it was um this strip mall from the outside looks kind of run down a little bit sketchy and i think we kind of both looked at each other and we're like what the fuck yeah i i guess because trapeze atlanta has such a great building and we've always said that we love how it's like not in a strip mall and stuff i just didn't expect it to be well i mean to be fair trapeze atlanta is kind of in a like industrial area it's not a great it's not the nicest area in atlanta so it's if you could have a similar feeling pulling into or around I know but it's not in a pond like next door to a pawn shop and there was literally like right it's at least its own standalone building there's people in a sketchy part of atlanta standing outside and at one point i like i forgot my shoes in the car and i had to go back out alone and i was getting cat called yeah this is in at fort lauderdale yeah they were like hey baby girl i've been waiting on you all day long and i'm just like don't make eye contact don't make eye contact so but we're not here to scare you off no no and this is you know the truth is we're like oh fuck we were because you know we we know trapeze atlanta we we love that club and we're you know we know the trapeze brand and we've heard lots of great things about the fort lauderdale location but certainly when we drove past it we were like we just weren't expecting this is not this is not what i thought it would be this is not looking this is not looking good um initial reaction now what was your reaction when you walked through the front door when you walk in it is like the lobby was very much trapeze like you could have closed your eyes and it was like you were in atlanta and like we're going to talk about the club in you know in a few seconds but i did not feel like i was just drama it almost felt like you had like entered some like secret dungeon club like it yes 100 did not right and the reason we bring this this up is because we've you know we talk to people all the time and we've heard this story again and again it's like well we were gonna go to the swingers club and we did a drive-by and it looked super sketchy and so we were like no fuck this and we left yeah i mean i we probably get those messages on social media all the time we've talked to friends of ours that have said that like and i get it with this one a hundred percent like like really trapeze and light i mean honestly you could say that about probably the majority of the swingers club that we have gone to is the outside is never really a good indication of what you're going to see inside we could say that about red room we could say that about atlanta we could say that about i mean there's several clubs correct but i would say that this i i the drastic like between the outside and the inside was substantial and it was like amazing and you did not like it's almost like you stepped into something else yeah i don't know maybe we're just more used to the other ones too though because i can remember the first time i went to red room we were kind of like what the fuck yeah yeah but to me i don't think there's such a like i love red room and i think it's a great club it's not a trapeze though and we've been very clear about that so i still feel like at the red room you still kind of feel like you're in a strip mall even inside you're right now you walk in the trapeze and they have marble on the floor and on the walls it's amazing So it just, I was shocked that they were able to get that from their location.
And they've been there for like 25 years in that same location, he said. Why? I think they've been in Fort Lauderdale for 25 years. And I think it was less than that for that location. Oh, but a long time. But I think it's been over 10 years for that location, yeah. So, yeah. So we want to talk about the club now. How do you want to do this? Like, what are we? No, absolutely, yeah. Let's talk about it. Okay, so we walk in. If you've been to Trapeze Atlanta, it is very similar. You have, like, almost like a closed off, like, office front area type situation.
So, you've got two computers where you type in your information if this is your first time there because tribe is is different than a lot of clubs you cannot do anything before you get there which is different um i'm not sure if i love that or not me either i think i mean i think it's good for a few reasons right is it's very good at protecting people's identity right it's it's its own system that's not really connected to the internet, so you don't have to worry about your information getting stolen or shared or any of that kind of stuff. But it can make for a long, crazy...
Well, I wonder how they do the Halloween parties and the New Year's parties. You just go wait in line and see if you get in or not. Because they've got to cut that line off at some point. I just like, if I go in line and buy a ticket, I go in line and buy a ticket, I know I have a ticket. Yeah. I don't know how when they throw their bigger parties, you would know if you had a ticket or not. That would suck, though, if you like bought an outfit and everything and you were in line. Or I planned your whole weekend. Yeah, that would suck.
And then you got to stand in line for two hours and they're like, oh, sorry, we're full. It feels like that's kind of like the old school way of doing clubs. Yeah. You hear about that. But the owners are older men. So, I i mean it makes sense that that's what they're doing but um so like i guess what we learned from this is get there super currently so that doesn't happen to you but anyway you walk in you fill out your information if it's your first time and then once you're done there you go to like a counter with people and they check you in and everything.
It did seem like that area was bigger than Atlanta, which was nice, especially when it's cold out. It seemed to have a little bit more space. What's Fort Lauderdale? I don't know. Does it ever get cold down there? Forgot about that. Or maybe if it's raining. Yeah. Maybe if it's raining, yeah.
The difference at Fort Lauderdale opposed toanta is you take your own bottles to the bar where atlanta they take them for you right so same thing they put a numbered sticker your club number on the on the bottles of alcohol but they hand them back to you here and you take them to the bar yourself and that's probably more because they don't have the diamond club so all the bottles are kind of going to the same location there's three bars though that's true there are three bars so i guess it just depends on which bar you want yeah so you you walk once you're checked in you walk in and you literally just open into this like really cool like a big open room the dance in, yeah.
Yeah. But around the dance floor is couches and chairs and almost like a little bar that lines the dance floor. Mm-hmm. Plenty of room for seating and stuff. I was very impressed. Yeah, I would say, so the Trapeze, Fort Lauderdale location, it definitely is a more open concept club than the Atlanta location. In Atlanta, it's like, you know, they have like the seating area for the buffet is kind of closed off from the, you know, I mean, it's a little more sectioned where this felt a lot more open.
Even the, you know, in Atlanta, the seating that's around the dance floor is more, there's more walls and stuff where Trappee's fort lauderdale it's all it's all pretty open concept yeah i mean you can see clear across the the entire club you know to the buffet line so it's all kind of in one big area you've got a bar i guess would be to your right and then you've got a little dining area that. And then you've got the buffet. And then you've got another bar. Then you've got this really cool glass playroom that you can actually see in. Of course, you enter it from the actual playroom.
But you can see the glass, you know, that part. And then you've got a door that enters to the playroom. And then you come back and you've got like all of this seating so it's pretty cool and in the middle is the dance floor stripper pole dj all that yeah it's probably hard to follow along with us but definitely go to if you go to the swing nation on youtube you can see lacy do an entire uh tour of the club uh and yeah it's it's well laid out and i did i almost want to go just for that glassed in playroom thing and see that in action. I do, too.
Because I've never seen – so we go to Colette's and stuff like that, and there's a lot of clubs that have this – they call it a fishbowl room, which is like a big room with a bed in the middle, and it's kind of glassed-in, and people can watch. But usually those spaces are inside of the playroom, meaning you have to go into the playroom to be able to see it. At Trapeze Fort Lauderdale, the Glaston area is glassed in between the normal side of the club and the playroom side of the club.
So you can see literally from the dance floor into this orgy playroom that's in the playroom side of the club. So it's really a cool concept.
And then, you know, as we're doing the tour, we were sitting in the inside of this Glaston in area and it's kind of a cool view from in there too right you're in there on the bed and you can see all the leds and lights and stuff in the dance floor so i think it would be really cool fucking in there i think would be feel cool oh 100 i also think it's really cool for like people that are newer to lifestyle and maybe want to go to a club but they're a little intimidated by the playroom. They don't want to go back because you do have to get naked or wear a towel or lingerie.
That can be intimidating, especially like your first time.
So this is kind of cool because you can dance, you can sit on the couches, you can even sit at the bar that's literally right across from it and watch people have sex, fullyed you know no pressure no one's going to touch you yeah it definitely would be a cool club to go to to be just kind of that voyeur and get a feel for what a club is like because yeah you could literally be fully dressed in the dance floor area and see what's going on at least part of the playroom yeah through that glassed in wall which would be cool yeah yeah so definitely uh so What else any other takeaways from trapeze fort lauderdale um well we didn't talk about the playrooms so they they don't have diamond club so that is different um but they have a couple side that um was pretty big i mean i was kind of surprised how big it was and they then they had a single male side, which was cool.
And they had a bar back there. Yeah. I like the way they did this. So as you enter the playroom space, there's literally a taped line on the floor. And on the right-hand side, that side of the playroom is for couples and single females. And then on the left-hand side, they allow single males. And then obviously couples or single females can go on that side. But if you're a single male, essentially you are limited to the left side of the, of the, the playroom space.
Um, and I guess when you come into the club, they put bracelets on people to, that helps determine if they're part of a couple or if they're a single. And I particularly like that because a lot of clubs you have to, you know, a couple or a female has to bring a male back to the playroom and not in single males can't go themselves.
And with the worry from that is if you're a partner of a couple and you leave the playroom for some reason to go get your wife some water or something like that, or have to pee or whatever you, they will not let you back into the playroom because they think now you're a single male um so this way at least they have bracelets and you can differentiate between who is a partnered male and who is a single male so you could kind of come and go to the playroom you know and leave you know if you want to go get your partner water or go to the bathroom or something you wouldn't have to worry about getting back into the playroom space without your your partner with you so i like that one and then two it definitely you know it breaks up that area because i don't know they're most of the clubs do make it so you at least have to bring the males back a single male back and they can't just go i don't like about trapeze atlanta is the single males are not allowed in the playroom at all right they line the walls and it is it's uncomfortable it makes well it makes me feel uncomfortable for them because it's like they're positioning themselves as if they're like a piece of meat and then um and then as a couple you have to walk through and it's almost like you don't want to make eye contact with them you know because you don't want to like hurt their feelings because you're not interested so i i think that that eliminates they can go in there they can sit they're not like on display does that make sense yeah i would i would be curious how that vibe feels on like a friday night there and see how it's different than some of the other clothes um now i will say trapeze um fort latterdale on saturdays is couples only so that entire play space is then couples um i will say i was there's a lot of group or public play space you know i think they had a total of six private rooms but they had all kinds of orgy beds and big beds and i mean there was all you know i think we're always when we go to clubs and stuff we're always kind of competing for that space like finding finding those bigger space.
At Fort Lauderdale, there was plenty of open play space. A lot of it. I mean, quite a bit. Yeah, I agree. And I was impressed with that. And I also liked their locker rooms. They were very well spaced out. They weren't like, I feel like the Atlanta ones for the, not Diamond Club, but for the regular area, they seemed very bunched.
Like you always have like a lot of people standing really well and it's the traffic to get to diamond club goes through that space too so i think that's part of it as well as like to get back to diamond club you're kind of like trying to step through people that are trying to change to go back into the normal so yeah i i like their layout was it was good for sure was good for sure. So we basically did the whole tour video and then we sat down and had dinner with, what is he like, the general manager? Yeah, little Alan, who is the general manager.
But we did meet the owner, which I guess there's two guys that own it. Big Alan is one of the partners that own it. Yeah, which we met the one that was primarily in Atlanta. We met him numerous times. We have, yes. But never the Fort Lauderdale. So we got to meet him. But we got to sit down. I thought it was really cool that they feed their staff before the club opens. Yes, I was impressed with that as well. So we sat down with the manager and we were eating dinner.
And then as we're kind of eating with him, you see all the staff start to come in because it was probably like an hour before they opened or something like that. And as the staff is coming in, you know, they're saying, oh, get some food in here, guys. And so they fed everybody, which is it had a kind of family dinner feel to it. It did. And they treated each other that way.
I mean, I don't know how it really really is but it definitely gave off like a family group link kind of vibe it's a good it was a good you know like you know as far as work environments go and how they can feel hostile sometimes or you know like this was definitely they felt like a close-knit group yeah so we did not get to stay for the party for that night we wanted to but it was a three-hour drive and it was like seven o'clock at night and we had to be up at nine the next morning i think yep so we just were like we felt bad but we had to leave you could tell they wanted us to stay yeah and we really wanted to um but it was a wednesday night so i don't know how busy they would have been, but it still would have been fun.
And we knew that even if we had stayed two hours, it would have been like midnight before we were even rolling in. And we actually moved rooms Wednesday night. So we knew we had to get back. We had to move rooms.
Daphne and Mike were coming in later that night, so we were like, so sorry but we're gonna have to excuse ourselves yeah but i think the sum up trapeze i was super impressed with the club very super impressed with all the staff and and people there um the club is you know they take care of it you could like you know all the cushions were uh reupholstered and you know the walls they had put new wallpaper on they had these 3d projectors that were projecting on the wall i mean you could just everything in there was nice it was clean it was well maintained um which you know probably one of the like i would say the only comparable club that i've been to is trapezo atlanta which makes as far as like their cleanliness and everything like being up cap.
I feel like, um, they were top notch. Yep. And when you go to a swingers club, that's, that's important. It's important. So, uh, I had a great time there. Um, okay. So I think, you know, then we did our long tune to almost three hour drive back to, uh, Orlando, to the Kissimmee area, to secret sideway resort. Um, so I I think now is the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we come back, we'll talk about our event at Trapeze. We'll talk about our event at Secrets and getting that kicked off. Okay. All right, guys.
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Appreciate you listening to our sponsors. We love our sponsors. We do. Each and every one of them. Mm-hmm. Did you have a favorite you wanted to talk about today? Well, I have a WISP story. Oh, tell us your WISP story. I hurt my toe, which we're going to get into that later. That's a whole story. Hurt my toe, got infected. I ended up having to take some antibiotics that I had with me at Secrets. And, ladies, if you know anything about antibiotics, what does it do? Causes a yeast infection. It happens to me every single time. I got on the WISP app and in two hours I had medicine.
This was yesterday. So today is Wednesday I did this because it started Tuesday morning. I got the medicine to me Tuesday afternoon. I'm already feeling better. Yeah, that's super handy. So, yeah, when we talked about this, I think when we talked on this doctor store app, and she was on the podcast, the last podcast we did with her, and she was like, no, I would rather you can go online and do that than have to come in. And I should have known when I started taking those antibodies.
You should have just jumped on there and got there and got i should have because we had a lot of nurse friends and they you know i should know i know my body well enough but i guess i just didn't think that that would happen so quickly but got my medicine yesterday i mean so easy they called you into the pharmacy like five minutes from the house i couldn't be more pleased and honestly it was cheaper and more convenient than me going to the doctor right so if you're interested in that go to the swing nation dot info and click on the wisp banner to go check out wisp okay all right so we drove we were left off before the break we had just driven back from fort lauderdale up to orlando uh and landed late i think we i don't we got back what nine ten o'clock at night something like that yeah i think it was closer atn and then yes we were able to get keys to our our suite and keys to the uh our storage room and we moved our stuff over into our new room so that we were all unpacked and ready to go for the next day and then also we had the keys ready for the storage so we could unload the trailer and do all that fun stuff yep so i mean like i said earlier it wasn't wasn't a huge deal it took us maybe 30 minutes to move everything over but we did we moved everything over we got our room all set up as best we could we still have a few things in our trailer but pretty much everything else was set up we unpacked our suitcases so that way we could put our suitcases away, did our cooler and put everything in the refrigerator.
So we were good to go. After that, I think I showered and we kind of got cozy in the bed. And Daphne and Mike, their hotel room was booked like Thursday through Sunday, I think yeah but since they decided to just drive on after work we were like just come on we have an extra bed just sleep with us because they didn't get in until like one or two o'clock in the morning and they could check into their room the next morning right so they got in i don't know one or 2 o'clock in the morning. Did you help him unload? Yeah.
Well, I don't think he unloaded everything, but it's a little bit of stuff just for the night. I had fell asleep, so I don't really remember. I mean, I got up and said hey and hugged and went back to bed, though, basically. Daphne's always so funny. She loves a good sleepover. She does. She wants to chat and talk. And it's always funny because Lacey's always falling asleep, and then it's like me and Daphne stay up all night. And Mike's asleep, and it's me and her. Thank you.
sleepover she does she's like wants to chat and talk and it's always funny because lacy's always falling asleep and then it's like me and daphne stay up all night and mike's asleep it's me and her and mike's snoring and i'm over there like i'm i don't feel like i'm like asleep asleep because i can hear y'all and maybe that's me watching you making sure you're not up to no good what if i what if i did something bad i don't know you probably cheer me on if you like was like hey babe hey babe this is happening this is happening but like if i woke up and she was like riding your dick i'd probably be like what the fuck you can't wake me up yeah probably we didn't fuck we this is funny we've talked about this was us we used to always fuck like all the time and i feel like now it's like we're an old married couple with mike and daphne yeah they came over spent the night in our the night in our room, and we didn't even fuck.
Which that's never, I don't know if that's ever happened before. Yeah, there's been a few times lately that we've not fucked. So are we like past the honeymoon phase with them? I think so.
And what's funny is maybe like two weeks ago, Daphne messaged and she was like, okay, we have to start sending a sexy picture every single day because we're like an old married couple and we need to get back to the sexiness so we did it for like a week we did yeah but then we've it's kind of died off it's died we are like an old married couple though yeah i don't hate it you don't hate it no i miss the sex well i mean you can all you do is say hey babe let's fuck and i'm sure she would hop on yeah you just gotta get it i guess so i'm just too tired you know it's too much now too much going on there's a lot going on but anyway yeah so they came they spent the night me and daphne stayed up late talking but then everybody eventually went to bed and then we um we got up right and early we had to unload everything from our trailer and luckily if people our friends people like in discord so that they see us unloading they always help yes and that's super like because it was hot as hell it was hot yeah um luckily now we have um our own carts and stuff like that we probably need to get a couple yeah we do um but it's a whole 18 foot trailer like and it's getting fuller every time yeah and so a couple people um nc beard and his wife mermaid something.
I can't remember her name on Discord, but it's Mermaid something. But they helped us unload. Chris helped. Trying to think who else, if anybody else helped. A lot of the husbands. Yeah. So, obviously, we have our staff, but then their husbands always chip in, which is great. Yeah. So, we unloaded. I mean, it was pretty quick, the unload. No, it wasn't too bad. And the room we chose was like super convenient. The storage room was convenient, yeah. And I think they even opened the gate on the backside of the pool this time, which was nice as well. Yeah, it was.
So we weren't selling merch or really doing anything on Thursday. So we basically just put everything in our tent and zipped it up.
Which nice so we you know we have this swimmer society tent that we brought uh we bought we actually learned this from southern sass what they did at the grove is they put sides on it when they're when it's you know when it's time to close up shop they have we used to unpack that whole thing right we used to take that whole tent and move it into the storage unit and we saw them put sides in the tent we're like that is genius why are we not doing that with our tent at events and so we did that and that made all of the difference because i can even think of like the splash event how handy would that be to just so handy instead of packing everything in the trailer just put the sides on it zip it up and um so yeah thank you southern sass for that tip and we're going to be using that from here yeah you're And then Dan went and, like, started putting up all of our banners and all of that.
Me, Daphne, Daddy Mike made the swag bags for everybody, which was hard but not hard because it's a lot of shit in those bags. Thank you to everybody who contributed Life's Buys. And I had some older stuff from like NC Hot Wife that I'd put in there. Like stickers. And Splash had Cassidy. Trying to think of Promescent. There was some good stuff in there. Yeah, Promescent always comes through with like the condoms and lube and all that stuff. And then, yeah, the various influencers and then the various sponsors always come through for us.
I think it's nice that people like those swag bags a little something you know um so once we were done with that there really wasn't enough time to go to the pool because this was like two three o'clock would you say probably yeah and we had dinner at six but we were leaving at 5 30 because we wanted to get a good seat. So I just kind of socialized for that little bit of time. Yeah, so we've been traditionally doing this pre-secrets dinner at the Mexican restaurant down the street. And it's crazy to think about.
Like the first time I did it, I think there was like 10, 15 couples with something like 70, 80 people showed up to this one this time. And I think every time it feels like it gets bigger and bigger and bigger, uh, Kylie, uh, and Joe, uh, always host it. And they've done that traditionally. Um, and they, they did it this time.
And, um, this time it had kind of, uh, Kylie labeled it the, uh, NCSFf consent kind of dinner she got up and gave a little speech and talked about consent and uh i really um i've come to like appreciate that that time at that dinner i think we missed the very first one that kylie hosted at a secret event but uh you know it's always there's always so much going on and it's hard for us to break away and kind of go to that dinner but really like that. This is the second one we've been to.
Yeah, I like that social where people kind of get to connect, and you get to meet each other, and you get a little bit of time, little one-on-one time. It's kind of like the calm before the storm.
And it's nice because when you're sitting and you're eating dinner with somebody, and you're not half naked, and you're completely sober or or mostly sober it's just you kind of get a little bit of time to connect with people that i feel like you don't get at secrets once the party starts you know correct yeah yeah and we make it a point to try to walk around and speak to most everybody and just thank them for coming it's just like a good way it's like a kickoff like we kind of joked so we wore so let me talk okay let's talk about our outfits okay so we have a group chat and somebody in our group chat was like because the theme is pineapple wear so somebody was like oh i think i'm gonna wear this outfit and they have shirts that have their spouse's picture on it like with pineapples it's like kind of like those bathing suits so you can get with your spouse's picture on it it's sort of the same thing so then somebody else was like oh i may order that and then someone else was like oh me too well then somehow it became like a thing it quickly became like a thing and there was like 10 15 couples doing this so we all walk in with like our matching outfits to the mexican restaurant yeah with pineapples on our clothes that has our partner's face on the pineapple and it's funny because some people chose like good pictures some people chose like funny pictures so it's just like really funny and like none of it's made for like to look nice no like.
No. Like, most of it, like, the girls wore usually their sport. They had a sports bra. You done karate chopping the microphone? Keep going. Sorry. The girls, like, a lot of girls had a sports bra. I had, like, a bathing suit cover, but it was completely sheer. So I had to buy on, like, a baby blue.
I thought it was kind of cute, though, that dress thing dress thing yeah it was cute um and then some of the guys wore swimming trunks and then some had like a tank top and then a couple guys had like a button up the front shirt but they were cute and everybody loved it it was fun to wear that so we ate at the mexican restaurant took forever it always does because there's a big group we ate we mingled after that we had to go pick up some platters at chick-fil-a so you and i did that right so once the dinner finished up you know it was like everybody's like okay we'll meet back up and we'll you know we'll go to the club or pool or whatever at secrets and we're like okay um but we had But we had to go break off to get the dinner.
What was it? Snacks? Yeah. Was it for breakfast? Was it for? No, we did shots with the bosses for Discord. And we did two filet platters with brownies and cookies. That's what it was for. So I went and got, we went and got those. And we came back. And Thursday night was a very chill night.
We danced in the club but there was not a lot of people in there now i will say it's the most usually we don't even go into the club on a thursday night because there's nobody yeah there's like 10 people a lot of us did go yeah good we had probably like 50 people or something in the club 50 60 people took a bunch of group photos in our outfits and then what was funny is we swapped our outfits. So like every girl swapped and every guy swapped. And we didn't even make it home with our. I have no idea who has my. I have no idea who has mine. No. No idea.
So somebody in like, it was funny because like we have Boston male and you have girl jersey. I have jersey. Yeah. Couples. And I have Boston couples. Tank top. And you have a dress with, yeah, Boston on it. Mm-hmm. The joke was kind of like whoever's shirt you end up with at the end of the night is who you're going to fuck that night. But then we're like, well, wait a minute. The couples, like, you didn't switch couples.
switched individuals i don't know it was funny though it was funny though i think we should have stuck with that plan though we could have like an orgy and it's like started like okay you're gonna start with whoever's on your shirt kind of like drawing the keys out yeah but it was a group it was this was a friend group though yeah i would have been good with that group yeah yeah i would have fucked anybody that i had a shirt on um but so that was fun it was a lot of fun and then um we didn't even go to the pool no i think I'll see you next time. But I had my shirt on. But so that was fun.
It was a lot of fun. And then we didn't even go to the pool. No, I think we did. We closed the club down that night. We were in the club for quite a while. No, we didn't because we were done fucking by one. OK, so I think we were going to like change to go to the pool or something.
And somehow we just decided that we were going to go to our room and fuck yeah so it are we going to say who was there uh i don't know if you have to necessarily list them all off but i think we ended up with one two three four five couples in our room yeah um on thursday night and all great couples oh yeah uh and we had fun yeah it was a lot of fun. It's funny because it was like, I think it started with like two couples. It was just us and Amy and John were in there. And then J-Dubs came in. And then we kind of all looked at each other like, we can just close and lock the door right now.
Because we weren't sure. Nobody knew who, you know, this is what always happens.
When you go to to go fuck you end up with like a bunch of people are like yeah we're coming and then you get to wherever you know whether it's a playroom or whether it's back to somebody's room you never end up with the same people that say they're gonna go you always have these stragglers that yeah chicken out or quit or i don't know whatever reason they don't end up coming um and so for a minute they were like oh it's just us three couples which those are those are good that's a good that's a good core group right there completely happy with it um and so i think Thank you.
coming um and so for a minute they were like oh it's just us three couples which those are those are good that's a good that's a good core group right there completely happy with it um and so i think when we were about to shut the door and like start fucking then everybody else showed up um which is good yeah which was no problem with that and yeah so it ended up with i think five couples total uh and i don't know how many were you how bad bad were you that night? I think I fucked four or, can I say? You didn't fuck five because one, one is the vanilla couple.
One is our vanilla friends that were in there and I did not fuck him, but I fucked everybody else. So four. Four. I think, I think the same for me. Yeah. Probably four. Yeah. No, cause you didn't fuck. Oh yeah. Farmer's wife. So it's three for me. Yeah. And Farmer had given himself a dick shot, but somehow gave himself the reversal twice. So if you don't know what a dick shot is, it's Trimex. I don't know if he's using Trimex, but it's similar to it if it's not. I don't know what actual prescription he has, but somehow he had given himself the antidote to take it down.
Well, I think he had had sex earlier in the day. Yeah, but he was still able to get hard, at least some for us to fuck, which I thought was pretty fucking impressive. That you took a reversal of Trimex.
Two reversals, and still, and it was funny because he wanted to fuck more, but it just wouldn't't like wasn't working it wasn't working and i and he was just like come on come on you guys but you didn't fuck her but because she was she was working on the vanilla she had a project going on well and the funny thing is for that session i think me and you started so in our suite there's like a front um living room area in the kitchen area and then it kind of goes through a hallway and then into the back bedroom area we started in the back bedroom area I came to the front then you moved into the front where farmer and the vanilla couple were and you started playing with I think farmer yeah and so I couldn't it's almost it's almost like the bunk beds again where i couldn't see you but i could hear you yeah uh and i was playing with you know um j dubs a couple other other girls in the back bedroom there and i was i can remember like hearing you moaning and being like this is kind of hot because i i can't see her but i can i can hear her i feel like we had a lot of those like we've been chatting over the last few days about like things that have been you kind of like things dawn on you like oh do you remember this and I feel like we had quite a few of those experiences this weekend where we weren't because we are being pulled in so many directions it's hard to be right there when everything has happened and I think we've somehow and we're definitely still a same room couple, but I feel like somehow we've kind of gotten to where as long as we're kind of in the vicinity, things are okay if they happen.
Does that make sense? Yeah. No, I think, I think so. So like, you know, I think what you're referring to it. So like I hosted the pool parties all weekend. And so a lot of the time I was kind of, like, up front, center stage, you know, talking on the microphone and making announcements and then playing the pool games and stuff like that. And your role for the weekend very much seemed to be going around the pool and talking to people one-on-one. You got a little drunk. Talking to people one-on-one might have ended into making out with people. Might have ended up with a little.
Because they give you shots when you go talk to them. Right little handsy little touching things like that what will happen is i'm over on one side and stuff is happening and you're like front and center in front of everybody and stuff is happening and neither one of us know but we're still kind of in the same area i can remember there was one time i i came to the uh the cabana and you were like-and-so just went down on me. Is that okay? And I'm like, yeah, that's fine. Yeah.
But it's just because like, we're just being pulled so many directions and it goes against pretty much everything we say. We're like, you know, same room, but I feel like the more we are getting into the hosting and we're around, it's almost inevitable for that to happen. But I'm also okay with it. Like, I was never once jealous all weekend because you were doing something. Does that make sense? Like, it's kind of like, we're evolving.
Yeah, no, well, I think ultimately, for me, what it comes down to is, is I i trust you and i know that you know our rules and boundaries um and i know that even if i can't see you or don't know what you're doing i know you have our best interest you know i mean like you're not just gonna go sneak away and go fuck somebody yeah like if somebody like sure you might make out with somebody sure you might suck somebody's dick or whatever you know but it's never you're never going to do it in a sneaky way to where you're trying to sneak off with somebody and suck their dick even if i was in like let's say i went to change or something and somebody like wanted to do something like that i would 100 percent say no let's go back and let's find dan now if they like kiss me or something like that i wouldn't freak out and be like no we have to stop i would just encourage the behavior when you're around if that makes sense yeah because anything that i think happened this weekend it was never like in a closed door private room it was just the other person might have been too busy to see it yeah basically but i think that's like important to like talk about because i've noticed that at the grove that that happened as well um so and i feel like it's happening more and more and i just think it's important to mention that i feel like we're evolving we're growing yeah well yeah and i think you know we've been doing this for a while now you know i think we've kind of one we've grown more comfortable with some things and then two we also i think have that trust and faith in our each other in our relationship and we know that we're always going to have the best interest of mine and even if something happened that maybe you weren't 100 comfortable with or knew i wouldn't be 100 comfortable with i think you'd come right back and tell me oh 100 yeah but anyway that so we finished our thursday night our room with five very, very sexy couples having lots of orgasms.
The squirt blanket got used. The bed we weren't sleeping in, I'm pretty sure, got pretty covered in squirt. What's funny is we had two squirt blankets and we only used one. Yeah, that was a mistake. But it worked out. Our bed was, we actually didn't sleep, at least not in too much. Might want a little squirt like on the side of the bed, but not so sheets like we've had in the past. Yeah. But that's the beginning of our Secrets Hideaway weekend. That's like essentially day one of secrets of like our events. So it's pretty hot. And it only gets wilder from here. Yeah.
This is probably one of the wildest events we've ever had yeah um both personally and like just in what happened yeah i don't think what happened i've ever even seen happen at an event um never mind us personally being involved with a lot of it yeah so uh excited to talk to you about that so stay tuned for next week we'll get into all the craziness that happened Friday and Saturday. In case you missed it, if you missed Secrets this time and you want to go, tickets are on sale for our March event. And you can go to swingercuddy.net and get those right now.
We're already halfway sold out, over halfway. It's our Forever Young Party. And I don't know the exact dates, but it's sometime in March. And, yeah march and yeah if you want tickets i'm telling you i say this every time we post tickets um they are going to sell fast i think we sold close to 100 rooms already and there's only 150 rooms at secrets on the best day um and i think with condos and renovations and stuff there's only like 135 rooms or something like that so that that means there's not, there's not a lot of rooms left. So definitely go to swing society.net.
If you want to come party with us at secrets and March, this one was off the chain. I can only imagine what March is going to be like. I feel like every event it, it builds more and more. Um, um, so definitely go get your tickets. Do not wait. Do not wait.
If you email me us in a month and say how do we get tickets to secrets and they're sold out there's there's nothing i can do for you i think we had close to like 40 or 50 we cut off the wait list for this secrets because um we had we knew there was no way we were going to be able to get everybody a room so definitely um go get your tickets if you want now so not only do we have secrets coming up but we're doing several club takeovers across the country so um head on over to swingerside.net set you up a profile come out and party with us we look we look forward to it okay any other thing you want to say to the the swingers out there the pineapple people the swing nation listeners that's him all right guys stay tuned for next week where we share all the wildness that happened on friday and saturday and i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat I don't know.
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