Send us Fan MailThe Swing Nation PodcastReal-Life Swinger Stories: Tantalizing Tales from Trapeze | Episode 51 In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy spill the tea on all the naughty fun they had with their friends at club trapeze in Atlanta. Dan shows a sexy friend the wonders of a magic wand and Dan and Lacy get to play solo with a beautiful lady in front of a crowd of onlookers. If you like naughty swinger stories this is the episode for you! GoFundMe: Legal Fees for The Crackenbeards_______________- The Swing Nation -Main WebsiteQuick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links more!)Follow us on Facebook!The Podcast Website_______________ - Swinger Society -Our Website to meet, connect eventsSwinger Society DiscordOur Facebook Group_______________ - Swinger Websites -SDCUsername: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl_______________ - Merch More -The Swing Nation MerchThe Swinger Pride FlagsSwinger Society Merch_______________ - Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans_______________ -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Pinaq Liqueur; The Official Drink of The Swing NationUse Code TSN at checkout for 15% off!Non-monogamy Couples Course and Single Guy Mastery CourseUse Code ATLANTA for 50% off!Support the show- Thank you for the support! -
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Speaker1: This podcast is intended for adult audiences. Over the age of 18, it contains adult language and situations. The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed in this podcast belong solely to us, and not of any employer, organization, committee, or other group or individuals. This podcast is not intended to be taken as professional advice. welcome to the swing nation podcast a podcast by swingers for swingers where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe interview the experts learn and grow together join the nation so lacy people are asking how do they get to go to a party or an event with us they check out swingersociety.net you create a profile profile, you sign up for an event, and you come hang out with us. It's super easy. That's right. If you want to party with us and the other faces and names that you know from social media and TikTok, head on over to swingersociety.net. Can't wait to see you there. Lacey, we get approached by couples all the time and they want to know, like, where can they learn the one-on-ones of non-monogamy? Yeah, I totally get it. You want to get in the lifestyle, but you just don't know where to start. We recommend Sex by Sue's class on non-monogamy. She really helps couples learn how to communicate and do the lifestyle the correct way. Yeah, I think this lifestyle, you know, it's crucial not to step on the landmines that a lot of us do. Speaker2: Yeah. Speaker1: And you kind of learn the hard way, you know. So having a class that you can take online, you know, in the privacy of your own home and kind of learn the ins and outs, learn, you know, how to approach the lifestyle, how to communicate with your partner about it. You know, I think it's something worth taking and we highly recommend it. Speaker2: Yeah. Speaker1: So click below in the show notes. You'll find this link for that course. it out guys bye hey there pineapple people and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl in today's episode we're going to talk about some tantalizing tales from Club Trapeze. We are. We had a good experience in Trapeze. Yeah, it was fun. I was a little drunk. You were in a different world. I know. It's been a while since I was quite like that. Probably fall. So it's been a while. I guess I was due, maybe. You were due for? Yeah. I don't know't know how it happened it just happened very quick i don't know if it was a combination of just like not eating a lot during the day but we'll we'll make our way through this we'll bear with me it's a little as we're making notes lacy had some uh some issues recalling uh yeah so like we try to make notes right after things happens because it's actually pretty hard to remember everything especially one night's easy but when you have multiple days it's really hard to keep all the details straight so um but we didn't we didn't write anything down and so before this we were kind of recapping and it was very very foggy i'm not gonna lie we got through it though yeah so we're gonna we're to tell you what happened at Club Trapeze here a few weeks ago. But first, I think we have some housekeeping to do. We've been interviewing a lot of people. We've been on the run. We had Nadia in New Orleans. So we haven't had a chance to really talk to our listeners about what's going on. So I think we're going to spend the first half of this episode kind of going over some things that are kind of going on in our lives and are important to us and kind of our community as a whole um and then we're going to save the naughty stories because we've got a naughty story for you we do we're going to tell you maybe a little more details than we normally yeah we kind of usually like skirt over a lot of the sex part i don't know i guess there's plenty of podcasts out there that do that yeah so we kind of like let them do their thing and try to do something a little different here. But, you know, every now and then we like to sprinkle it in to keep y'all entertained. Those are always their biggest episodes. People love the episodes with the stories. So we're going to give you one, but let's talk about these few things first. All right. So the first housekeeping thing is we have to go over events that are coming up. Yes. So, we are doing our one-year podcast anniversary at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida. It is August 26th through the 28th. We still do, as the time we're recording this, we still have a few more rooms available. There's like 20. Yeah. There's not a whole lot. You can book those through swingersociety.net if you reach out to secrets directly they're going to show sold out or hopefully they'll send you directly to us but because we actually are taking over the property for this weekend you have to book directly with us right so if you go online on secrets web page it's going to say not available no rooms available but that's because you have to go to swingersociety.net. Swingersociety.net. And we'll link that. And you will see the event. Yeah. The one-year podcast anniversary. And it's a big deal. Like, we're going to have party marks there. Some awesome themes. Friday night is midsummer night, which I can quickly kind of give you a recap. Because Dan always asked me when we picked that, he was like, what the hell is midsummer night? I was quickly kind of give you a recap because dan always asked me when we picked that he was like what the hell is midsummer i was confused by i was kneeling there was some people on there was a few i get it i get it but i guess i grew up in like the playboy um girls next door we're the same age um generation but i watched that you didn't that's the difference um and they have um a midsummer night party every year late august and since this was late august it was kind of the perfect time frame basically it is ladies think lingerie lace satin flower crowns fairy wings um just very romantic outside a hot summer night um you know you just don't not a lot of fabric not a lot of clothes you know probably less is better men same thing pajamas silk robes yeah robes and silk pajamas yeah so that's that's what midsummer night dreams is and then we're doing cosplay which my understanding of cosplay is any movie or tv character is that correct yeah it's characters cosplay you're you're dressing as a character yeah so it's saturday night that's gonna be fun yeah it's gonna be a blast we're actually getting down there early a lot of people are so if you're there please come say hello it's gonna be yeah a lot of fun giveaways lacy has her way we're gonna be there like a month early yes i mean you have i showed him i was so we we're going down wednesday and i'm like can we go down tuesday and he's like it's a friday to sunday event she's like well can we go thursday i was like yeah that's fine and she's like well can we go wednesday i'm like well i mean that's two days but okay and now she's trying to get like monday or tuesday she wants to go and i'm like you live such a hard life you get to go on vacation and fuck bitches in Florida. Like, oh, boo-hoo. I don't want to hear it.
Speaker2:
Yeah. I mean.
Speaker1:
I'm thinking more of the budget than the fucking bitches part. But, you know, that's me. I mean, most men are like, fuck the budget. I get to fuck bitches.
Speaker2:
We're going.
Speaker3:
I'm just saying.
Speaker1:
You need to get your shit together.
Speaker2:
It's a hard life.
Speaker1:
You need to get your shit together.
Speaker2:
All right.
Speaker1:
So, you got to come to see her.
Speaker2:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
It's going to be the event of the year.
Speaker2:
Yeah. Undoubtedly.
Speaker1:
We have Pinyak. We have Promescent.
Speaker2:
Oh, yeah.
Speaker1:
I don't know. Right, so you've got to come to see here. It's going to be the event of the year, undoubtedly. We have Pignac, we have Promescent. We're giving away baskets, we're doing raffles in support of ATF, so the Adaptive Training Foundation, which is the foundation that helped our business partner, Jeff, who lost a leg when he was a police officer. That's an organization that helped him. He basically grants them for saving their lives. So really helping him get back mobile after having a serious injury like that. And this group helps not only first responders, but military personnel. So it's very, I think, near and dear to us. And so we're going to be selling raffle tickets. We're going to be giving away a few thousand dollars worth of prizes. So it's going to be a good time. Yeah, there's merch. Also, if you follow any type of swing talk on TikTok or social media, pretty much all the influencers that you see will be there. I mean, there's a handful, maybe two or three that won't be there, but pretty much everybody's going to be there. It's really the first time we've got this, you know, we don't have everybody there, but this. We have like 20 something. Right. This is large of a group together from social media. I'm already anticipating being overwhelmed. It's just because like usually when we get together as a group, we make TikToks and we do so. So I'm like, how are we going to manage 20 something people? It's going to be very overwhelming, but nonetheless, room crawls um liquor tastings pool parties pool parties club parties naked parties you can do all the things all the things you want to be there you do and uh hopefully when you hear this there's still some rooms left and you can you can book so head on over to swingerside.net and get that booked what's the next event we're going to do club col's in Dallas, September 10th. Those details are still being worked out. They are. That's sneaking up on us. It is. Actually, this is what we're doing. We wanted to do an official meet and greet. Some secrets just took up too much of our time. This is right on the back end of secrets. We should have probably spaced them out a little bit better. Basically, we're going to stay at a hotel. Dan and I have to pick that tonight. So we'll get that information out. We're going to stay at a hotel and probably just go to a bar on Friday night and just tell everyone where we're going to be. So stay tuned to all of our social medias. We'll announce that. If you know of a bar in Dallas that you think is a good fit for us, definitely let us know. And then Saturday night, we're going to be at colette's um the thing is like theme is western right and that's the 10th of september the theme is western night me lacy and a few other not there's not a big group but this is definitely a smaller group but if you are in the texas area in that general this is we don't have anything else out that way coming up nothing else is planned so if you want to meet us even if you're vanilla that's kind of why we're doing friday night all right you can come to the club if you want to yeah yeah you can come wherever you want but we i me as somebody who's been planning our events you said you can come wherever you want you cannot come wherever you want but somebody who's like i'm kind of in charge of in charge of planning the events i've tried to incorporate more non-swinger events within it because i do realize that we have a following that is not swinger and i don't as much as i would love for them to come to the club and get to experience that i do know that that may not be the best setting for everyone so i'm trying to incorporate some more non you know more non swinger events so you can feel comfortable right so the 9th of september will be somewhere in dallas at a bar stay tuned to us on facebook instagram twitter we'll put out what bar we're going to be at on the 9th and then on the 10th we will be at club collettes in dallas so uh if you are a swinger and you want to come out that's going to be a heck of a party people have been asking us to come to texas for a while we have yeah and i'm i feel bad because i've kind of we we tried to book this we've kind of got the runaround with quite a few hotels which is kind of part of this we should have probably started this a month ago planning it but it just kind of got away from us with the summer and schools kids out of school and everything so yeah just stay tuned we'll be there so we'll see you okay and then right on the Thank you. away from us with the summer and schools kids out of school and everything so yeah just stay tuned we'll be there so we'll see you okay and then right on the this is back to back to back so yeah like literally two weeks after each other we are going to be at splash fort lauderdale fort lauderdale so if you've listened to us you knew the splash atlanta event that we went to just not that long ago yeah uh and And this is the Fort Lauderdale. Everything I hear is the Fort Lauderdale Hotel is bigger, better. This party's already sold out. But you can still get day passes. So they do have an overflow hotel that they're booking. And they're going to run shuttles from the overflow hotel to the main part. Yeah, and I would say if I think Splash is such a good event, I would go even if you can't get the hotel. And I wouldn't say that for many See you next time. the uh main main part yeah and i would say if i think splash is such a good event i i would go even if you can't get the hotel and i wouldn't say that for many places but for splash i would say that like it was so much fun that i would stay in an overflow hotel and shuttle back and forth yeah and a lot of that ideal a lot of the splash people are do kind of we're involved in the naughty in new orleans and so i think they're used to this having multiple hotels and getting everybody together for one party so i think i think they're going to do a good job at that we'll i mean we'll see we'll let you know we'll give you an honest review but i would not hesitate i think to stay in an over hotel especially if they're running shuttles back and forth yeah and especially for like a three or four night event when if it's just one i mean that's kind of different you know but for this this type of event i i said you know i support it right so that's the 22nd through the 25th of september um the link to that you can find on swingersociety.net uh to buy tickets for that okay all right and that's it for events for well that's not it but that's it for the near future yeah uh we still still have the october secret sensations uh event coming up thinking about adding one in November. November, we're going to probably be in the Smoky Mountains area. So, stay tuned for all that. And the best places to be checked for events are where? Swingerssociety.net. Yep. And if you're not on Swingers Society, which you should be, you can also go to theswingnation.net under the Events tab. We try to keep that up to date for you as well yeah uh okay and then so that's the first piece of housekeeping the second piece that i want to take a little time and talk about is our friends the kraken beards okay let's do it this hit like near and dear to my heart i actually like teared up a little bit before this we were talking about it i don't know i guess it's like a mom who has a kid from a previous relationship it's just very scary but basically um the cracking beards the husband of that couple you know them from tiktok if you've been to events they've been there we've made very good friendships with them they um both of his ex-wives filed emergency what is it called ex parte that's what my understanding we're not lawyers guys so if we've messed up any of these words please just bear with us we tried um but they filed ex parte orders one of them was granted an emergency um they took the kids out of his home and gave custody emergency to the ex-wife the other one to my knowledge has not been granted been granted yet at this point yeah at this point so a little an ex parte order is essentially an emergency and again not lawyers but this is my understanding it's an emergency order that a court can issue um without having a hearing yeah it's typically for people with like severe neglect drugs in the home um weapons in the home stuff like that where they're like we got to get these kids out of this house there's something's going on and we actually got to see this paperwork we we did amongst our group we were they shared it we didn't share it publicly because it's not ours to share but i mean there was some pretty hefty allegations in there one being them being swingers them being in the bdsm community right they also um yeah there's a lot of allegations associated with that uh but but a lot of them are like hand in hand with um i think the stigmas that follow the lifestyle they do um yeah so this this court order got issued um their son was you know he was with his mom at the time that the issue happened and so he couldn't essentially he couldn't go home um the Kraken Beards did have primary custody so you know this is the house he normally lives in so uh they lost custody um of him temporarily temporarily right and so and the issue is you know the Kraken Beards they're a normal everyday couple know, they are just like us, living paycheck to paycheck. You know, they don't have thousands of dollars. Essentially, they were scared. They were. And they came to us, like not just Dan and I. Like, we have a group chat. And they were like, this just happened. We're freaking out. And we financially can't afford to go hire a $5,000 lawyer. You know, just to speak to someone, I think was like a hundred dollars just to speak to them. And so as a group, we decided to make a GoFundMe because we knew them personally and we knew their heart and we knew we got to see the paperwork and we knew that the things that they were being accused of were not true. And y'all really showed out for us. Yeah. It's amazing i think this is you know we've taken to these platforms and we've said we're going to push back against the stigma you know we're going to kind of end some of the discrimination and in my opinion this court order is direct discrimination against against this couple because it's largely based on assumptions about non-monogamous people about swingers uh without any evidence without any documentation it just they made some wild accusations and the judge read it not knowing you know much about the lifestyle i think the ex did provide some screenshots of tiktoks and stuff like that which so you know she was able to verify she proved that they were swingers and that's about all she proved, right? And so, you know, anyway. But she didn't prove any neglect. So they, so we were, luckily enough, we were able to raise close to $7,000. Now, GoFundMe does take a pretty good portion of fees, but they were able to hire a pretty awesome lawyer and we actually just changed the beneficiary to go straight to her. And so I think, you know know they were able to pay her about like fifty five hundred dollars once you take out the fees and everything and so they had court this monday and the judge did reverse the ex parte so that was canceled so they actually today's wednesday we're hearing this on wednesday they actually got their son back today so they had the hearing they asked the ex the ex. She made all these allegations. The judge said, okay, show me some proof of this. She had no proof. So the judge said, hey, I can't uphold this order because you essentially have no proof for any of the things you made. So he was forced to reverse this ex parte order. But now they're going to have to have a full child custody hearing. So, yes, the order got thrown out, but it's not over. They're going to have a full child custody uh hearing yeah so yes the order got thrown out but it's not it's not over um they're gonna have a full child custody you know court battle essentially um the judge you know from what we got uh from the people that were there um has lots of concerns about them being swingers yeah and i get that i don't think that's too far-fetched especially you're not if you don't have a lot of Right. He was not happy that we raised all the money on GoFundMe. Yeah. He essentially said that that put his ex-wife at a disadvantage. Yeah. Right. And because of this GoFundMe, the judge has essentially said, okay, since you were able to raise all this money for your lawyer, you should have no problems raising money to have a guardian ad litem, so to pay a lawyer to represent the child the minor child so basically we have about a week to come up with two thousand plus dollars because we have to again account for the gofundme fees so um we would love if you have it to help um we would love for you we did increase um the the amount for the gofundme and there is some like we we had the Kraken Peers writing their own words, what happened. Of course, we're not lawyers. We were not at the case. We talked to them and we were trying to explain it the best we know how. But you can definitely go to that GoFundMe and read their writing and see exactly how they explain it. I'm sure they do it a lot better than we are. yes and uh so this is gonna you know this is the prime example of the type of discrimination that swingers face um since going public and helping raise money for the cracking beards we've had i don't know a half a dozen dozen more couples reach out to us and say we're going through something serious similar you know i mean kylie sexy swinger check is also going through something very similar with her fiance's ex-wife so it's it's obviously common if you think about how many people in our group text so we have maybe 10 couples and two of them are going through this so that just shows you how common this is right and and so you know me and lacy are very passionate about this um we're going to continue to fight for the kraken Beards. You know, we've been in contact with NCSF and the Woodhull Foundation, which are advocacies for non-monogamy, you know, advocacy groups, you know, for sexual freedom as a whole. But, you know, non-monogamy falls into part of that. So, I mean, we're getting in the trenches and kind of trying to fight this, especially with the Kraken Beards case, you know, because they are part of our influencer group. They're part of the Swinners Society. You know, we have intimate knowledge of what exactly transpired. You know, we're going to try to raise as much awareness to that case as we can to really highlight the types of things that Swinners are going through. Yeah. I wish we could raise $10,000 for every family that is going through this. um you know and if you are if you have issues if you if you're going through yeah i wish we could raise ten thousand dollars for every family that is going through this um you know and if you are if you have issues if you if you're going through some kind of custody case like this if it's especially if it's you know largely due to discrimination because you're a non-monogamous person please do reach out to us we can at least give you resources and point of contacts at some of these advocacy groups uh but you know we're especially on the cracking's beard case and as much as we can we're going to continue uh to engage and push back against this type of thing when it happens yeah perfect so yeah so don't forget it's linked if you could help even if you can if you just want to read about it we'll have it linked um so yeah we have i don't know how much we've raised yet i haven't looked in the last day or so but it's pretty close to seven grand i think it's like six thousand nine hundred and fifty dollars or something like oh okay so we've just raised a few hundred dollars since we've opened it back up so yeah so if you could help we would greatly appreciate it right and then uh as we continue um on our platform you're going to hear more and more about advocacy you're going to hear more and more about um discrimination if you are a member of the non-monogamous community if you are a swinger out there and you want to be involved if you want to partake in all this if you want to hear the latest if you want to find ways to volunteer ways you can give back to the community the ways you can help uh you know we're going to be doing you know writing letters and and you know signing petitions and things like that um the ways to get involved with that is really to join us on our various social media platform because we'll be posting stuff and you can do it anonymously you I'm sorry. petitions and things like that um the ways to get involved with that is really to join us on our various social media platform because we'll be posting stuff and you can do it anonymously you do not i know that we're public and i think that probably intimidates some people that choose to be private but we very much respect right your privacy and there's lots of ways that you can get involved and help and can remain completely private right so uh we have the swinger Society Facebook group, which will be linked in the show notes. We have the Swinger Society Discord server. So if you don't know, Discord is this fancy kind of chat app that all the kids these days are using. But it's not just for gaming anymore. We've kind of built quite a community on there of Swingers. We have over 15,000 people on there. So we'll be posting bulletins. We'll be posting links. We'll be sharing information. We'll be providing updates for the cracking beards and any other cases and things like that. We'll be putting out information on how to volunteer and how to get involved. If we do do writing campaigns or petitions, all that stuff is going to be posted on Facebook, on Discord, in our personal website and places like that. So please uh if you go down to their show notes follow us everywhere our personal facebook page you know the swing society facebook group the discord server um you know if you want to be involved and help make some change for this community i think those are the places we want you to be yep all right i think with that we're going to take a little break and we're going to hear from the partners of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we get back, we owe you guys a sexy, tantalizing tale from Trapeze. Okie dokie. We'll be right back. We'll be right back, guys. The Swing Nation podcast is proud to partner with Shameless Care. this was an easy partnership right they reached out to us these are lifestyle people who are looking to help the lifestyle right they want to they want to be able to provide lifestyle people with std testing and at-home ed medication yeah so the std testing is super awesome you basically fill out a survey and they tell you how often you should be tested. 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And as swingers, we're all about making sure our partners are well taken care of and Promescent Delay Spray is the perfect product for that that click the link in the show notes below to get yours today all right guys welcome back we appreciate you staying tuned um now we owe you we owe you a sexy story we do and uh well dan does because it's what do you mean it's foggy i'll try i'm gonna try guys you're you plead the fifth you don't recall i have no knowledge no i have some knowledge okay it's it's fuzzy though okay let's do it though all right so we're gonna talk about club trapeze and if you don't know we went to club trapeze on july 30th and we put this out this was kind of a last minute decision right it was well because you know i had surgery on the 12th of july and so we kind of left that open because we didn't think i would be fine but surgery was easy i had no complications i felt great for three days later so and trapeze had reached out to us and wanted us to come so i was like let's do it let's go yeah so liz the manager reached out and said dan when is your group coming back where do you where you guys been i was like oh well you know lacy had surgery we had not in new orleans she's like well can you come you know so we were like yeah we're coming we made it work so it's pretty last minute but it two weeks before. Yeah, but we were able to get like 20 couples that went with us, not to mention the ones that were just there.
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Showed up. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker1:
So, we reached out.
Speaker2:
We put it out.
Speaker1:
Hey, guys, we're going to go to Trapeze. Anybody want to go? And, yeah, we got about 20 couples from the Swinner Society that went to Club Trapeze with us.
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Yeah.
Speaker1:
And so, that was great. So, we all stayed at the same hotel. Yeah. Then we went to the club. It took a minute we had to get everybody in yeah um some of the couples were new and had never been uh we got them upgraded to diamond if you if you know if you ever go to club trapeze in atlanta show up early so that you can get an upgrade um if you know i highly suggest you yeah we have a few episodes on trapeze. If you, if you've never been, and you want to go, go back and listen to those. Cause we really talk about diamond club and there's just really no need to re talk about it, but it's definitely the way to go. Yeah. We tell you the whole layout of the club and how it's set up and all the details and why you shouldn't do diamond and all that. So go back and listen to the club trapeze overview episode, but definitely, you know, consider diamond club if you are headed that way. So so we got everybody in got everybody in the diamond club on the nice thing about diamond club it is like sit down and eat um it is i had to get back earlier than because you had to check everyone in and i kind of did more of like the tour right that's typically how we do it we kind of divide and conquer so i give everyone kind of the lay of land where to go this is the playroom you kind of got everybody checked in right i ate waiting for you yeah i didn't realize so when i got finally got back i mean it took me an hour or so to get everybody checked in and through the through the doors uh and then when i got back you were uh waiting on me and you had already ordered me food i did well okay truth truth what i ordered you food and then i ate my food in wait what i ordered you food i didn't even know this you're you're spilling the beans right now so the servings are not huge it's kind of like an this particular thing it was like chicken and shrimp yeah i got like a shrimp kebab a chicken kebab and then a macaroni and cheese i know those don't go together but just we're just going with it okay so i was just gonna eat like you know like this one of the kebabs and then a few bites of macaroni and cheese i figured you can have you know whatever i don't eat well i ended up eating everything pretty much yeah so anyway i get in there lacy's sitting there she's like oh you food, babe. I ordered you more food. She didn't say that part. She said, I ordered you food, babe. I was like, oh, great. Awesome. I think I shared it with a new couple. They were there. So like she had ordered two. She liked the girl. I didn't like grilled pineapple. And she was eating the grilled pineapple off the plate. So it was more than just me eating it. It was a community plate. I like to share. Yeah. You do. Thankfully. So, anyway, I got you food. Brought it to you. So, the whole group ate. And, again, trapeze is food. Excellent. No complaints. Portion size, apparently, a little small for Lacey. But, you know. It was one skewer. Or maybe two. It was two. It was two? They're little, though. So, I had four skewers. That's not a lot lot and i probably didn't even eat the vegetables and stuff okay so just the meat moving right along yeah and then after this is pretty typical of us ever after we eat um around 10 o'clock it's time to go dance right yeah uh and so we did that we headed up front yeah um so the diamond club's in the back the dance floor is up front in the in the public part of the club uh so we headed up there and some dancing. Yeah, I don't think we stayed out there too long, did we? It's hot in that part of the club. Yeah, and I feel bad because I know a lot of people come to see us, but it's so hard to stay out there because Diamond Club is so much better. But yeah, we did go up front. We danced for a while. A while. We were up there for a while. Okay. This is where things got fuzzy. Long enough for Daddy Mike to do his stripper pole moves. Yeah, which is becoming a staple of- And now one girl. I don't know her name. I can't remember her name. Oh, yeah. What is her name? We wouldn't say her name anyway. We wouldn't say her name anyway, so that's fine that we can't remember. She had some moves. High energy girl. High energy girl. Right. She knows who she is. So, didn't you ask her- Somebody asked her husband, and asked her husband and he's like she's always like yeah somebody's like what is what does she take is what they said which is if you've met this girl it's a fair question because she is it's like high energy yeah like she's a energizer bunny yeah like and so somebody's like what does she take like what is she on he's like no this is her like 24 a hundred percent natural and this is how she is 24 7 she was getting it she was good she she's a hot she's very hot yeah she's very hot we've seen her there before um and they stayed at the same hotel that we stayed at they came with us yeah i know i know i'm just saying um so yeah i mean dancing was fun and then we kind of made our way back because we just got too hot and so we or we need to refill whatever. So we made our way back to Diamond. And then we didn't really leave much other than breakfast again from Diamond. We ate breakfast out front. Yes. But other than that, we pretty much stayed back in Diamond Club. Right. And so once we got back, I think we got hot dancing. We ended up going back into Diamond Club. And typically what we do in the Diamond Club, so if you're familiar with that part of the club, there's like those three big red couch sections that are kind of in the middle there. We always try to take the furthest back red couch section because it's right next to a big playroom. Yeah. So then our friends that don't want to play don't have to. They can sit on the couch and watch. So people are like involved, but then they don't or they don't have to be involved so it's just which is funny because before we kind of went with like swinger society and all this we never really played in that we used to sit at the the tables up by the bar and then we used to go back back to that other bedroom so we've kind of changed it up a bit but i do like the sitting kind of having a social area and then the playrooms are right there so like yeah one couples can go play and like you know you're kind of still all together yeah you know you don't have to go like pick up your stuff and go somewhere yeah um so i really like that setup you can leave your drinks on the coffee tables and stuff like that right yeah it's all right there yeah yeah and uh so anyway we we took over that area um and so i think to explain the next parts we should kind of explain katie and Ryan a little bit. And we did have permission to use their names. We always ask, and we did have permission to use their names. So, Katie and Ryan are a couple you guys have heard about before. But we didn't say their name. No, you've never heard their name before. No. I think the first time we talked about them was in episode 40, when we did the mansion takeover, and then we went to Club Trapeze after yeah she lined up to make dan make her squirt she was right she i think listened to the podcast when we talked about her in episode 40 it was she was we called them i think a new couple who had never squirted and she was interested and she's like can you try to make me do that and i tried and she did well ever since then um that couple katie and ryan have come to like every event yeah yeah they've been and we've got to know them personally they're great people oh so nice hot couple she's the exact same age as us he's a few years older they're just cool people she could almost be your twin like you guys are look very similar you dress similar you act similar you're kind of both bougie like we're very similar both naughty but they're newer to the lifestyle they are new yeah that was what was that was back in may yeah and that was their first experience ever so now we're looking at august right so they're still really new yeah so this is so if you want to go back and listen to that episode this is the couple that we're talking about right but then i think we talked about them a little bit and splash because they're the couple that bought pizza oh yeah we mentioned that they bought pizza for everybody so they've been on the podcast now a few times we just have never said their name yeah and it was funny in the middle of all of this like before we really get into it she's like did i make the podcast and we're like i was like yes you made the podcast i'm like is this what our lives was this your goal it was not it was not they're genuine they've've been around enough times now that we can. You know, that is a weird thing. Well, it takes you a minute to feel people out and feel like, you know what I mean? Yeah. We don't just like let anybody hop in. No. No, we're pretty. We're selective. I mean, I'm a whore, but we're both whores. You're a selective whore? I'm a selective whore, yeah. All right. So the reason we had to explain Katie and Ryan is because they're kind of highlight the rest of this event. This story is basically about them. They're really the only couple, but they were the main show of who we played with this night. Yeah. So anyway, we get back from dancing and we're all sitting on the couches. And somehow you guys start discussing wands. said that katie had never used a magic wand the blue and white the original the magic wand and i said and she was saying that she kept telling her she needed to try it she needed to buy one well a few weeks ago if you know if you listen to this podcast that's my favorite that's that does it for me just give me a wand and a penis and I'm good that's all I need forever but I had recently bought the mini wand um it's still about the magic wand it's just a smaller version Daphne of Daphne and Daddy Mike had one and so I bought that as kind of like my traveling wand so I keep it in like our swinger bag and stuff like that so I was like hey I have my wand here with me and she was like you do and i was like yeah so i went and got it and i handed it to you yeah so she handed me the wand and said katie wants to try the wand and i was like okay yeah um do you want me to try it on you and she was and she was all about it she was like hell yeah i think she was already in lingerie at this point i don't know i don't know she was wearing lingerie when we put i never even changed in lingerie i skipped that part but yeah somehow i looked up she's like on the bed she's ready for it so yeah there's this this big playroom that's right here next to the couches so she goes and gets like middle stage right in the middle of the of the. And so, I approach her with the wand and start using it on her. Yeah. And she was a big fan. Yeah. Her husband bought her one. She messaged us and she was like, yeah, so I have a new wand. Thank you for that. Yeah. We went and bought one. And so, obviously. Yeah. So, me and her kind of put on. It was just. didn't other than using the wand on her and maybe a little finger or maybe a little oral in there i don't some of those things yeah um but yeah she uh she liked it she liked it a lot she had her back was arching like almost to the point where you're like what do you call like an inverted plank like like a back bend like a back bend yeah she was pretty much and she just had a mommy makeover not that long ago so i was a little nervous when she started like really arching i'm like are you okay she's like i'm good like i am fine i'm great yeah yeah she liked it it was pretty hot very much so yeah i love that how everybody just like goes to you yeah i don't know how that's i mean i'm not complaining that's become a it's recently is a more recent thing. Yeah, it's like Dan does the party tricks.
Speaker2:
Hey, I'm all about that life. So if you need a party trick, ladies, and you want me to perform that, that's fine with me. Yeah.
Speaker1:
Yeah, but I'm a selective whore, obviously, clearly. Yeah, I have some class. Yeah, if you approach me, I'll be very selective in whoring you. Oh, geez. Right, and then, I don't know, we put on a show and people the funny thing is like everybody stopped like and watched you know and that went on for i don't know 10 15 20 30 minutes whatever i don't know how long it took but um then once that was done and she uh tapped out we uh took a little break and then we started talking again and then next thing i know ash came up to me of ash and beau and there was another new couple there that was there with us and like ash came up to me and said hey she thinks you're cute she would like you to try things on her right essentially this is where things are really fuzzy this i didn't remember you don't remember that no yeah so. Yeah. So that's what happened. I'm sorry. I mean, that's what happened. And then, like, but this time, I was like, okay. And this girl was drop good. Oh, she's smart. Absolutely stunning. Yeah, gorgeous. And her husband's attractive, too. And, you know, I was like, are you okay with that? And he's like, yeah, no, this is great. Like, let's do this. And so I start playing with her. But then, like, as opposed to when me and Katie played, like, this time, like, everybody came to the bed. Yeah, it was like that time of night. Yeah, well, it was still early. It was only like 10.30. It wasn't like the normal time. Maybe 11. I have no concept of time. It was earlier than we would normally start playing. So then pretty much a lot of group members end up on the bed. Yeah. You ended up with Mr. Fireball. Yeah, so it's been a while since I've played with Mr. Fireball. You know, Mr. Fireball is one of my favorites. And so me and Daphne, like, before we even got there, we were like. Scheming. Yeah, we were. Because she's actually never played with him. So she definitely wanted to play with him and i of course always would like a little little fireball you know and so it was kind of like playful you know we're like hey you know kind of just like well you did that for the minute we got in the door yeah i think like we're in the door like two minutes and you and you and daphne were like sitting on his lap yeah so that was kind of like the theme for the night to get mr fireball going and so i did i did play with him a little not um we didn't we didn't have sex but we did i got and he's a giant man he's like six five his hands are huge so i had a good time plus again y'all i was completely i don't know how i got so shit-faced but i was completely shit-faced so i probably must have been all you know those five skewers and a whole bowl of macaroni you didn't eat enough food clearly hush it's a small portions but i still got to have you know my time with him which was fun and the next thing i know is while i'm finishing up with mr fireball you and katie started playing again yeah i don't and again this is where it gets fuzzy for me but somehow it went from me and the newer couple back to you and katie back to me i think i actually got up to go to the bathroom i think i played with the newer couple for a while i got up went to go pee came back they had broken off on their own and then somehow me and katie ended up together yeah and her husband just like sat back and watched like he was just like really enjoying her yeah so we've talked to them we're in a group chat with them now he's pretty shy he's very interested in you i think he wants to you know i think we're headed in that direction maybe he's not quite ready i don't know the exact uh where they're at with that but for now it seems like he's content with watching her yeah because she's definitely of the couple she's very outgoing he seems to be more shy and maybe not not that she's in the aggressor but she definitely seems to be more willing willing yeah i mean usually couples that's how it works oh yeah there's always one that's more yeah more so somehow it's me you and her which honestly we've never truly had just me you and a girl the husband is usually i mean he was there don't get me wrong but he was fully clothed sitting back and watching typically we have the husband there he may not play with me but he's still like actively involved in the playing yeah it's it's weird it's so you know this play session was very much me you and katie you and her me you and her all made out at the same time at one point i mean there was a lot of like just threesome-y stuff going on it's the closest thing that we've ever had to a unicorn right um but we named our our um group chat our first unicorn which you know i don know. I still don't think that counts. It doesn't count, but it's the closest thing that we've ever had. It's the closest thing we've had thus far. Yeah, so the three of us ended up playing. He was, again, right there. Oh, yeah. Totally there. But that was really hot. It was very hot. It lasted a while. I mean, we went for a while. Yeah. I remember at one point you were sitting on my face, and she was riding me. I think she was reverse cowgirl, and you were sitting on my face. Yeah, I think so. And she was wearing her honey birdette, you know, girl after my own heart, looking very, very beautiful. I don't think you and her really got much. We didn't, and I think it was – I was just, like – I mean, what's crazy is I wasn't sick or anything, but I just was, like, almost in another world, just, like, kind of out of it a little yeah um but i was still very much engaged but for some reason her and i didn't play which is like very disappointing because she's fucking hot and i totally would play with her yeah i mean lots of light touching and stuff yeah yeah so we've already like chatted maybe that's how it's different it was more like me fucking you and me fucking her, but all three of us playing together. Yeah. It was definitely different, but it was super hot. I wish I wasn't quite as drunk. I mean... There is secrets. The funny thing is you always say, like, I learned my lesson this time. I'm not going to do that the next time and then the next time. No, the last time I did that was, like, nine months. I mean, there was, like... You which was in october chemistry wait no i did it at the red room which was in november last all right the red room okay so it's no it's been a while it's august babe yeah so i did good okay leave me alone so you know so i got it out of my system before secrets at least right secrets how we're going to summarize. I don't know. I'm going to have to like. Especially if we go there on a Tuesday or Wednesday. I know. I'm going to have to limit my alcohol consumption. Especially the early days. Because we are kind of working as well. So that's going to be interesting to navigate. But yeah, so we have plans to redo this. With Katie and Ryan? yeah oh yeah she's definitely mastered the squirting thing yeah you taught her well and she even squirts now with her husband it's almost like once you unlock that i think it's i think the girl has to realize what that sensation is to and that it's okay to let go you know i mean like i think once you get that mental block away you can then i agree with that yeah and yeah and then you could stop it or you know but and then there was a lot how many people were in that playroom i mean that playroom was shoulder to shoulder which is i like that like that's my kind of play it's just people everywhere having sex no nothing you don't have to nobody's you know everybody you know again Everybody was consenting. Before anybody touched anybody, they said, can I touch you? Is it okay if I touch you? Is it okay if I do this? Is it okay if I do that? There was a lot of that going on, which is always, I love seeing that. Yeah, it was a good time. When we left there, we tried to go get Krispy Kreme. We didn't leave there until, it was earlier. Oh, skipped over we did eat breakfast i think i probably ate breakfast with my eyes closed you're done huh yeah i couldn't even tell you what i ate i don't know i do remember going to the buffet but that's about it right yeah and then we hung out and just kind of say goodbye and all that stuff yeah and then daddy mike usually dds for us he doesn't drink yeah not much anyway yeah uh and then you and daphne wanted to go get crispy cream in our drunken state the funny thing is we found one and we thought it was open but we drove there and it wasn't yeah it wasn't open yeah i thought it was like under construction or something i don't know they were close i don't know covid i don't i don't know what happened i don't know they were they were not that was the bummer of the night no crispy cream they were not open yeah um that was a good that was a good time yeah i like how like almost you know with two weeks notice now we can get a group of 20 couples together hot couples and yeah smoking hot couples all great people and just go rock out and have a good a good time and a lot of new couples too um we had you know quite a few of our you know favorites ashton fireball um who else was there mac and daphne uh mass swingers um mass swingers a hot georgia couple i mean like kind of like the staples were there but there was a lot of really new people like new to the lifestyle new to trapeze so that was yeah new to us that was a lot of fun yeah and everybody was good like you know like it melded good like it was a good you know everybody was comfortable no i didn't see anybody just like sitting in the corner being awkward like i think if it seemed like everybody was very involved and felt comfortable and yeah i had a good can we talk about um the rumor before we went to trapeze this is not on the agenda no but let's talk about i think that is important so i noticed on trapeze uh instagram that something like we don't condone photographs or live any kind of live streaming while in the club and this is why it struck a nerve with us because it said no video or photograph which every club says that okay or live streaming and i kind of like when i saw it i was like wait a minute what we're going in three days that's oddly specific which is really funny because if you've been around our podcast any amount of time you know that we have gotten a lot of kickback because I guess people assume that we are public on TikTok. That that means that we're going to go to these clubs or these resorts and we're just going to film everybody's face and we're just going to put it on TikTok and stuff. And we, you know, I'm good. I would be lying to say that we haven't ever made a mistake because I'm sure we probably have at some point over our lives. We, I mean, we've definitely learned a lot.
Speaker2:
Right. Yeah.
Speaker1:
And what you're saying by mistake is have we ever taken a selfie and there's somebody way off in the background that maybe you could make out there.
Speaker2:
That's what I mean.
Speaker1:
I mean, we made that mistake was probably before we got public.
Speaker2:
Right.
Speaker1:
But we've never went live from a resort.
Speaker2:
We've never, I mean, not other than our private hometown rooms and stuff like that um so anyway so when we saw that i was like shit here we go right and she actually had reached out to you right so i was in conversation with the manager because obviously we were kind of planning the event together and she she mentioned to me she said hey i just wanted to bring this up to you she's like because i i think she says she says like i think you're you're probably going to see it or hear about it and i want you to hear about it from me but she said there was rumors floating around trapeze yeah from people that are i guess regulars or i don't i don't know who started the rumors but there was rumors floating around club trapeze that tiktokers were going to come and live stream from inside the club yeah which we have never done right we've never the only thing and so she put they put that out because they wanted you know and rightfully so they want to reassure their clientele that absolutely like no matter like we're not okay with that no matter who you know yeah even if dan and lacy are you know had this big platform and we want them to come here we want them to promote our club we're not going to make exceptions for them either the only time we've ever um record well in track b specifically the only time we've ever recorded was we have a locker with our name on it yes and one night when there was no one there we filmed just a little five second video of the locker with our plaque yeah no people were even in the hallways no people were it was completely we waited until there was a moment when it was completely empty so we have done that but other than that we've we've made tiktoks outside of trapeze yeah by the sign um and taking pictures by the sign but we've never um we've never done anything on the inside nor would we um and the the manager liz was very oh yeah she's like i know it's just people start and bolt and she's like you know yeah don't worry about it she's like i just want to make you aware and yeah and you know we're like oh that does make me sad but i guess because we are public we still very much respect the people that are not public we were not public for a lot longer than we have been public so we totally get why keeping people's privacy private is so important yeah no 100 yep um but we had a great time we love club trapeze um we love the the owners and management and staff there they're all great all great people we've never had a bad time at club trapeze um i know and they don't really they don't i mean we we pay we we go we don't we are fully paid members we don't get a discount um they just encourage us to come because they like the younger crowd that we bring and the people that we bring and we're appreciative of them we love their club and if honestly if you're going to go to a club for the first time and have a really great experience that's a really good place to do it at yeah all right anything else that's it i think that's it guys um okay go ahead make sure you go to swinger society get signed up go to all the events follow us everywhere instagram twitter facebook donate to the cracking beards if you can if you can afford it please please you're gonna help an amazing family by making a donation i'll make sure that go for me links in the show notes um we love you guys and uh almost to a year all right with that guys in a world full of apples beat the pineapple beat the pineapple guys if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat twitter instagram only fans and more in the show notes Come join the conversation with us and other Swinger content creators on our Swinger Society Discord server. If you have questions or feedback, email them to us at theswingnation at gmail.com. Make sure you head on over to theswingnation.net and keep up to date on all things Swing Nation. We thank you so much for joining us, and we'll see you next time. Goodbye.
