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We are your hosts hosts northern guy and southern girl in today's episode we're going to talk to you a little bit about a uh a semi-recent experience we had yeah at the red room in nashville yeah it was kind of like a spur of the moment type situation yes kind of kind of not yes i think before we get into that though we kind of have a Oh, we do. There's a big thing that's about to happen. Do you know what I'm talking about? No. You have no idea. What this podcast episode should push us to what? One million downloads. One million downloads. Sorry, I didn't know where you were going with that.
I like to surprise you. I like to get the real reaction from you. Yeah. So that's pretty exciting. We are almost at our exact two-year mark. So our first podcast was released on August 27th, 2001. So it's what? Like the 20th right now? I don't even know. Something like that, yeah. Yeah. It's the 23rd. The 23rd. I lost a few days there. So we we're exactly two years. It was two years to get 1 million. Yeah. And as of this morning, we were 1400 downloads away. And usually since tomorrow's Thursday and when this podcast episode that you're hearing right now, it will be released.
Um, usually in the first day we do, you know, that podcast gets at least 2000 downloads.
So it's almost undoubtedly that we'll hit it uh tomorrow if not tonight before it releases yeah it's exciting very exciting it's crazy to think about we were talking about it earlier like a million hour or a million people listen to an hour of us talking like that's yeah and they that's download it's not even plays like that's people that saved it to their device somehow yeah that's crazy yeah i don't know when we thought when you started this two years ago did you think you would think we'd be here god no no i didn't really have an expectation i did not have any expectations i had no idea where this podcast would go and you know would we do one podcast or we do a hundred we do five i had no idea i definitely did not think it would be as successful as it as it has been and i can thank you for that because I literally just sit down and start talking all the behind the scenes is you so thank you for that yeah well you know you're the face though without your pretty face we would be nowhere near where we're at today well it's a team effort yeah all right so I just want to touch on that so thank you to all our listeners it's really because of you guys yeah that we're here and that you guys come in and tune in every week.
I get, you know, we go to events where we're traveling now and going to events pretty much full time. It's a full time job and more and more people are coming up to us, I think, at every event and saying, we love your podcast or your podcast got us started or you helped us navigate our way into the lifestyle. You know, we don't know where we'd be without your podcast. It's just really refreshing to hear all that.
we definitely appreciate the people that are listening and downloading and uh leaving reviews and comments and all that because without all that nothing nothing would be possible yeah and it's kind of cool because we lose tiktoks and instagrams and all those all the time so it if we ever hit a milestone we're like scared to right yeah yeah we like celebrate and then like a week later it's gone well we celebrate and we like hold our breath because we know it's gonna go and this is different right i feel like this can't be taken away i mean i guess it probably could we could take it down i mean things i'm sure but um it just it feels a little more concrete it does it does feel a little bit more permanent and that is a strange feeling in the swinger realm yeah social media realm so um super appreciative of that and then we get to feel this because it's kind of crazy all right so congratulations to a million downloads babe you too babe good job all right so now we're going to talk about the red room in nashville uh and this was not this is not a swinger society event i should should note that right no this was personal we didn't even really say we were going to the red room i mean i kind of casually mentioned it on tiktok live um a few times but we kind of we really didn't decide we were going to the actual red room until the week of or that that same week we kind of just not on purpose but not not on purpose well i think our life was busy we weren't 100 we want to commit because we weren't 100 sure but we wanted to go and then it just kind of worked out so that we could yeah it was kind of like last minute we started you know mentioning it kind of like in passing that we were going so but i was supposed to go down on saturday to take pictures with several photographers that a friend of ours had lined up like three three or four photographers so um that's the whole reason that we were going to be in the natural area so so we knew we were going to at least be there saturday day so it was like do we make this like a whole weekend thing or do we just go down for the day and then come back but we figured out to just do like the whole weekend right so yeah so you were going to national because you had to take you had a photo shoot set up um but then organically um had nothing to do with us but the discord members are starting to do meet and greets all over the country we're in and this is kind of great it's a it's a i think something we should talk about maybe celebrate a little bit is you know the discord's almost gotten bigger than us and it's 100 bigger than yeah and what the members are doing is instead of waiting for a swinger society event somewhere in their area they're almost just starting their own events they're saying hey we're going to the club this weekend in texas or hey we're going to the club this weekend in nashville or you know you name you name a city or a region um and the members in that region are starting to do get togethers and meet and greets uh and so they had started one in nashville nothing to do with us no and i kind of put two and two together i'm like hey we're gonna be here this day and then a bunch of the people from discord are gonna be at the red room that night like right why don't we just make it a night of it and then somehow make it a night of it became let's make it a week this is like how our lives our lives go.
Make it a weekend. I get blamed for this, but this is 100% Lacey. This was me. No, this was me because I really wanted to go take those pictures. But originally, I was like, if I have to, I'll just go drive and come back. That's not a big deal. Like, I really wanted to be a part of the pictures. So, at the very least, let me just go down for that portion of the day. But then once we realized there was so much more going on in the area, we just decided to make a weekend out of it. That's right. Okay. So we went Friday.
And initially, and this is another thing that we tacked on, is we have a friend, a couple actually. And we call him Farmer in her K. And you've probably heard us talk about them before.
Well, Farmer has just recently started an Only started an only fans page he has with the sole purpose of he just wants to he just wants to fuck hot girls like to fuck all his friends on camera yeah he's like i was born for this i was made for this this is like my life's role um which is like super cute and hilarious and he's right i mean he like he's kind of like a sex machine i mean i don't know how like he has a high sex drive and more so than you like he comes like four or five times a day and he's 40 years old like 41 like a lot yeah um so he had mentioned and it started out as like a joke like you know i'll get only i was like get an only fan you can come over here Because he is very fun to fuck.
Right. And his wife is gorgeous and super.
She is like the best wingman because she's always like lacy you know um so it was kind of started as a joke but we kind of was like no if you if you want to make an only fans we will we will make some videos with you so originally he was going to come to our room friday night yeah and that's what i'm gonna say so he's going to come to our room friday before um the dinner and all that stuff um to make some content with you we had that all set up um we failed to uh i guess program into that as as we're driving to nashville um it's like bumper to bumper standstill traffic and we're like what is going on and then we thought about it and there was like three concerts going on in nashville huge concerts like one was at the bridgestone arena one was at the titan stadium um there was all kinds of stuff going on we did not know until all of a sudden like traffic was at a standstill and i started googling and i was like oh shit this is what's going on so it took us like what should have been like a two-hour drive maybe it's like almost five i think yeah it was insane and so we ended up not being able to meet with them and so the goal was we were going to do it before the weekend ended but it's now been like not quite a month but almost a month and we still haven't done it we do need to reschedule that though yeah we do because that would be super fun selfishly i just i mean i've fucked him several times since then but i think it'd be hot on gary all right yeah so okay we get stuck in traffic we eventually get to nashville and the funny part is um mike and daphne were coming from atlanta we were coming from just two hours south um and we left around the same time and they had like a five-hour drive I'll see you next time.
part is um mike and daphne were coming from atlanta we were coming from just two hours south um and we left around the same time and they had like a five-hour drive we had what was supposed to be a two-hour drive but we ended up getting to nashville about roughly yeah well we literally got the hotel almost exactly oh yeah you're right they were sitting in the lobby when we pulled in yeah you're right so um we actually got adjoining rooms because usually we're like trying to talk the hotel staff into putting us side by side. So this time I was like, screw it.
I'm just going to book them adjoining, and so that's easier for us. So that's what we did. We just stayed at a local hotel near Red Room since we knew that a lot of people were going to Red Room Saturday night.
And in Discord, they have, like have like chat if you're not familiar with discord they have chat rooms where like everybody that's going can kind of plan and chat back and forth and somebody had said what hotel everyone was staying out of staying at and so i just booked so it was cool because we were literally at the hotel with everybody yeah so i mean it wasn't a hotel takeover but man i don't know how many there might have to be yeah the hotel ended up being sold out um it was like completely vanilla we couldn't you couldn't run up and down the halls naked but there were friends just down the hallway but yeah everybody was like you know very very close which was really nice and everybody could uber together and it was just and it's a nice hotel so it's just kind of kind of nice to have everybody in one spot right so we checked in basically together with Daphne and Mike uh and because we were so late it was basically like we need to change and head to dinner because we had well not not us but part of the discord thing is they had um arranged a dinner meet and greet downtown Broadway Nashville yeah so we and because there were so many concerts and stuff we knew we needed to leave early.
So we essentially just kind of changed into our Nashville outfit, which consisted of boots, cut-off shorts, cute little tank top type shirt. I don't remember. You wore long sleeves, and I remember that because it was hot as fuck. It was hot, yeah. So this, I mean, if you live in the South, you know, this summer has been kind of, especially in August, there's been record breaking highs and heat waves and all that stuff. And definitely Nashville was part of that. Yeah. And this weekend that we had chosen to go to Nashville, it was one of those. And you didn't think about it.
You were just thinking like, oh, I'm in Nashville. I need to wear my boots and jeans and a button up the front shirt which makes sense but anyway so we all get ready we all drive well daddy mike drives us in his truck which ended up saving the day because there was much debate on how to get downtown nashville because we knew all these concerts were going down it's like well so do we want to uber there so we don't have to dd and then if we uber we don't have to worry about trying to find a parking spot if it's crazy. But then we're like, yeah, but then if we're trying to leave there at 2 a.m.
and everybody else is trying to leave there at 2 a.m., getting an Uber out of there is going to be nuts. So there was a lot of debate. And we decided, screw it. We're going to take – Daddy Mike's like, I'll take my truck. At least then we know we have a ride and we won't get stuck for hours waiting for one. Yeah. So we all met at the assembly. Food hall.
Food this is we've actually ate there since then but we've been there several times and if you have a large group this is the place to go i think if you're downtown nashville and you're trying to get food quick quick the assembly food hall so if you don't know it's it's kind of near the apple store on broadway kind of in that area it's like upstairs it's the second store yeah and it's essentially it's like a mall yeah almost like a mall food court except for nicer food right yeah and a lot more like the food court at the mall has like maybe five to ten restaurants this has got like 50 yeah there's a lot and a little bit of everything so we met there and and it just and what i love about discord is everybody's a little different you know you you see all different types and so everybody was just hanging out eating it was we somehow we sat in like the breezeway it was just there's never any seating in there and it was so fucking hot like i was pouring wet at some point we just got up and went inside like we were trying to be like a part of the group but like even the group if we all ended up going inside because it was just so uncomfortable right so there was no seating in the main dining room like in the air-conditioned park because it's so freaking hot and so the breezeway like which is just like bridge between two buildings was open there was open seating there but because it was 100 degrees outside so initially we sat there because we kind of all sit together but very quickly like people were like i cannot sit here and eat i'm gonna throw up it's so hot so we finished eating and then as a group we walked to florida georgia line which this is the second time that we've been there my favorite it's my favorite it's not on the main roads you have to turn off just like a hair so i guess that's maybe why i've never been because we just kind of do that main area if you have never been to nashville you might not you know if you're just walking down broadway you're not going to see it yeah um and it's like a restaurant there's like three levels or two or three i don't know so like one's a restaurant one's like a bar slash restaurant i mean the top is like a full-blown like club club and then when you first get there they're usually playing like live music and at some point it changes over to a dj and it is like a country rave yeah is that the best way to describe country right i mean they play like it's almost it's like a club it's like club music it is but there's a country yeah yeah um so we went there and let me tell you it was hotter than like satan's ball sack what's so i mean this is you know i don't know by the time we got there it's probably nine o'clock at night or something like that nine ten o'clock at night and it's still but it's like enclosed so it's an open air club so a lot of natural there's rooftop bars and roof this is like a rooftop club almost so like half of the building is inside half of the building is like a balcony um but there's no doors i mean it's like no air is moving yeah like there's no air Thank you.
like a rooftop club almost so like half of the building is inside half of the building is like a balcony um but there's no doors i mean it's like no air is moving yeah like there's no air condition they had giant fans but it still wasn't but then because like half of the space was open it was no air was moving and i mean like i was pouring sweat so like the only way you could kind of stay cool is stand next to these huge like almost commercial type fans and so my hair was like oh my gosh and yours was bad too ever it was like that's the only way you could say cool but it was it was a lot of fun like you know like was trying to we all migrated to fans so it's like you know like half the groups in front of one fan over here and half the groups in front of another fan over there and um but we made the best of it despite it being almost 100 degrees probably in that club yeah people were still having a yeah we had a blast i mean like but i was completely drenched and i had tied a um i think it was like a flannel around my waist to like be country cute and like that was hot and then i wore um no yeah i wore my boots but i wore some like wool socks underneath them just so that way my feet didn't like to protect my ankles and feet because i just don't wear them that often and my like my legs were sweating it was that bad i was dying you ended up taking your boots off i did and every thought like thought, like, my feet hurt.
And they didn't. Literally, my cows were sweating. It's one of those. I can remember thinking, like, I wish this was a swinger party. Because we could just get naked. Yeah. Like, I want to take my pants off. I want to take my shirt off. It's so fucking hot. Well, and everybody's, like, wanting to be sexy and rub on each other and stuff. And you're disgusting.
You're so yeah but it was fun i remember like at one point we me and you went outside and i like took my lashes off and everything i was like fuck this like at some point you realize there is no being cute right you've given up on that yeah like we're just gonna we're just gonna have fun and it was funny because one guy like that i had never met before was like why does your hair always look so beautiful and by the end of the night i was like you're like this is my windblown look it does not look beautiful but it was fun he probably just wanted to fuck you he was all right i would have fucked him was that one of the group i'm trying yeah i don't i didn't catch his name but but I've seen him around.
But yeah, if he's listening to us. Hey. If you told Lacey her hair looked nice, she wants to fuck you. He was good looking. Yeah, he's a good looking guy. There was a lot of good looking people. And it was a small group. Southern Bella is an influencer that y'all would know that was there. Daphne and Mike. Daphne and Mike. Mandy, who works for us, was there.
Yeah, and then Nicole daphne and mike that's really mandy who works for us was there yeah and then nicole and kriz who nicole's a host um they were there so there was a lot of other people that are just not public that we just won't mention their names but yeah it was a good group it was a lot it was a lot of fun so at some point we're like we're getting the hell up out of here i like that like um having a broadway night when we go to nashville because that's fun broadway is honestly in my opinion funner than the swingers club because we can go to swingers clubs all the time and to me broadway is just like really cool in nashville i think that you know what i like about it is having a group of swingers in a vanilla space it's always funny oh yeah and that's a good place because you can push the lines like if you're at like a local hometown bar you can't really do that especially if you're in your own hometown but if you go to Nashville where you don't know anybody and everybody's there just having fun you can you can make people think like what the hell's going on like are these people together are they not who's married to who that's always fun remember when we first got there and there was the there was a band playing and it was a female singer yeah and um daddy mike took one of our bracelets that said swingers and he went up and gave it to her yeah what did she say i don't remember at first she put it on and then she gave it to somebody she read it and she was like she's like sugarhead and she handed it to some old man in the crown i think he wore it like he put it on i don't know if he read it or not but yeah it was funny and then we were sitting with those i say vanillas but that couple the older couple that when we first got in remember and you know we're all a little bit we've been drinking and stuff so we're being funny but we're like oh yeah we're swingers and he was like cool and his wife was like no not cool like i felt like he was into it and she was not yeah she was like he was laughing and thought it was funny and then she was she was like stay away from them honey that's funny so but at some point we were like okay let's go a few people had already started to break off and go fuck that we're together but like our group i think there was us daphne mike and southern bella and her husband um we all rode together so we left and then everybody else was ubering and like as we're like walking out everybody's like nobody's fucking until we shower like it's we're all that gross you know it's it's the classic like as we're leaving everybody's like okay where are we going for an orgy whose room we're like oh i don't know text me let me know the room number right and that's like everybody in the groups right this is what this is a conversation as we're leaving the bar and like going to you know kind of getting ready to go back to the hotel room it's like yeah we're gonna we're gonna you can use my room we got the two king beds and yeah oh yeah so that's the conversation as we're leaving the club right um and then luckily for us taking the the truck into nashville was a hundred percent the right decision now we did have a little bit of a fear factor moment because we get to the parking garage where we had parked yeah and the door to the parking garage is closed yeah and there's a sign there that says like closes at 8 p.m which i don't that sign i feel like that sign appeared there after we left yeah because i did not there's like a giant sign that says like uh parking garage closes at 8 p.m which which parking garage in natural like this is the stupid but what's funny about it we're all freaking out but we're freaking out we cannot get in there and daphne of all people the blonde who never gets anything goes walking right up just Walks up and pushes a button.
Opens the door. Just no. And we're like, oh all people, the blonde, who never gets anything, goes walking right up and down. Just walks up and pushes a button. Opens the door. Just, no. And we're like, oh. Like, we were all freaking out. There was a bell that said, like, ring door for service. And she touched it, and the door just opened. Yeah. So, I'm assuming there's somebody singing at the other end of it. It's like, oh, these idiots, like, parked in there and, you know, didn't. So, we got in, and we were able to get the truck.
And that's when we were in the truck, and it was the six of us i was like i'm not sleeping with anybody until i shower like this is disgusting and um get back to the hotel of course we just crashed by the time you get out of nashville and get back i mean it's probably only like a 15 minute drive but it takes 30 minutes with traffic and everything it's like a good 30 minutes so by the time we get back to the hotel everybody's like exhausted we're just tired i mean it's probably 1 2 a.m at this point we're just going to bed we showered because we did because we were that gross yeah um the funny thing is we get in bed and we're done we talked with daphne and mike for a while and we end up getting in bed and we're you know sitting there playing on our phones and stuff and then like it's probably a good like hour hour and a half after we had left and the group texts us and say we just got in an uber yeah we had we had walked to the parking deck drove got there got in a shower got changed everything got in the bed and then i opened my phone and just checked the discord channel to see like whatever i was doing and they had just left from downtown i was like oh my god thank god we drove yeah so that conversation we had had and what's the best way to navigate nashville with a billion people there for concerts um it turns out that driving was the best idea yeah and i come to find out i don't think anybody played now i could be wrong but i think i talked to a few people the next day and everybody's like oh no we just well if people did fuck it was not the it was like everybody was ready to fuck and then yeah if anybody did it was that was the hardcore ones i mean they were dedicated because i think like by the time they stood there for an hour and you know getting got back and then if they would have showered it probably because we're talking about like 1 to 2 a.m at this point yeah so all right so that's friday night that was friday night okay i think now is the perfect time to take a little break okay and hear from the partners and sponsors of the swing nation podcast and then when we get back we'll go over all the things that happened on Saturday okay all right guys we'll be right back we here at the swing nation podcast are proud to partner with promessant listen guys we've all been there you're having a hot night with a hot chick maybe a few hot chicks but you need to kind of delay the time before you pull that trigger that's where promessant comes in they have this awesome product called the delay spray you literally spray it on and it delays the time that you orgasm so you can make sure that your partner is well taken care of and as swingers we're all about making sure our partners are well taken care of and promescent delay spray is the perfect product for that click the link in the show notes below to get yours today anxiety can cause ed like the kind you get while watching your partner with someone else.
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Welcome back we appreciate you listening to our sponsors lacy loves our sponsors i do we got some new sponsors we do that's exciting yeah happy to have them it's always good to have um people supporting us and especially companies that like align with our our goals and sex positive and all that stuff agreed all right so we left you we had just gone to bed friday night sweaty gross tired no fucking correct okay so now we wake up saturday and this is the day where you scheduled to do a photo shoot in nashville with some of the hosts and influencers from swinger society um this nicole kind of set this up right she had found some um photographers in the nashville area that were willing to essentially do photo shoots for free if you were willing to sign photo releases that they could post it on their social media yeah and i think there was six girls maybe if i'm counting right two of them were not public they were just discord members and then four of us that are influencers and hosts right so um i knew that we had until like we didn't have to be there till one so we slept in because i just you know so no reason to get up and rush especially because we went to bed late so we got up and um i took a shower and we kind of piddled around and then i text nicole assuming i guess in my thought like everything in nashville is probably like 30 minutes away so i was thinking like we probably need to leave here by like 12 30 maybe a little earlier if we want to grab some lunch at this point it's like 11 and she's like yeah this is the address it's an hour away and me and daphne are like holy shit like luckily i think my hair was either almost dry or but I mean I was close but Daphne was like literally still in the bed so we had to get up and kind of scramble because we had to leave like in less than an hour and we were doing a photo shoot so it's not like we just throw some clothes on and go we wanted to look our best because we were doing our own hair and makeup and stuff like that so um yeah we really wanted to use the pictures so we were just like let's do this right so it's a mad dash to get to the photo shoot yeah yeah because i mean who would google how far away something was before the morning of the event just i didn't even ask the address well it was one o'clock it's good planning i just didn't think anyway that was my mistake and i i told daphne i was like i just assumed it was you know close closer than an hour drive so we get ready we leave we get some chick-fil-a on the way and you guys help us we went to this amazing studio and i don't even know what part of tennessee it was in because it was a cute like old town like a little downtown area and like one of the old buildings they had converted i don't know what it was originally i have no idea but they had converted it into a photo studio and it was a beautiful so nice yeah so the guys dropped us off and then you mike and southern bella's husband which is fire daddy i think it's the same on tiktok y'all all went and we went to a dive bar yes and when i say a dive bar we went to a dive bar so i don't this was a pretty small town in in tennessee uh i don't even know which direction i think it was east of nashville um but we you know we just like oh let's find a bar and there actually wasn't much around we had to drive like a good 20 30 minutes to get to this bar um and you pull up it's like in a strip mall and i don't remember you know what the place was called but we walk in and there's a couple pool tables um there's lots of cigarette smoke which i didn't know you could still smoke uh in like bars and stuff but apparently in tennessee it's still legal yeah um and they were definitely doing that and it was definitely like you walk in and like everybody kind of turns and looks at you like what are you doing here yeah who are you and i think of course we're wearing like i think we had a bunch of swingers like yeah and stuff because that's we were there for that that weekend and didn't really we don't really care but we also didn't think about like walking into this bar in the middle of nowhere you know you weren't wearing like a polo and khakis no we didn't look nice but and even if we had looked if we were wearing a polo and khakis we still would not have fit in oh we would have had to have like you know i don't know ripped jeans and like gotcha shirts you know gotcha i don't know but anyway we walk in and people but we sat down and we ordered some beers and some food and the waitress was really nice but okay we definitely did not fit in that's okay to that crowd that's okay so while you were doing that um we were taking pictures it was a lot of fun so there were um three photographers and so they had all these different setups throughout the um.
So, we kind of just rotated out. So, I started like in this beautiful white room with these sheer curtains. It was just so pretty. And then there was a bathroom scene and another bed scene that was a little darker.
Then there was a stripper pole and like a black wall so it's really cool to kind of like you basically like would see a photographer change outfits and then go see another photographer and they had an entire bedroom full of stuff that we could wear of course we brought our own but we were able to use some of their stuff and i guess probably for me the highlight was i got tied up what do you call that um what shabari is that right yeah i think that's right i don't know if you say at least yeah and everyone was kind of ready except for the the photographers were happy to keep going like he would have probably tied up every girl there but nobody was really interested but i was and so we stayed and that was super hot i was hitting on the guy yeah like so i we had come back from the bar um and, about the time Lacey was getting tied up and I hear her in the other room and she's like, so what's your relationship status?
And she's like, so you just do this for fun or do you guys do this like in the bedroom? Are y'all swingers? Yeah. So it seems like that guy, I mean, I don't, it seems like they had some kind of BDSM. They have some sort of, yeah, they were not swingers, no. He was married or had a girlfriend or something, right? Yeah, I think he was married. But yeah, I was just a track But Lacey was definitely trying to But Lacey was trying to I mean, I don't seem like they had some kind of BDSM. They have some sort of. Yeah, they were not swingers. No, he was married or had a girlfriend or something.
Yeah, I think he was married. But yeah, she was definitely trying to figure out exactly. He was cute and it was fun.
Like I was very turned on getting tied up, which that's something that you and I have talked about before, because for play, Bella does a lot of another podcast, does a lot of her outfits outfits she incorporates the rope into her outfits and i just think it's very beautiful and i've actually asked you to learn how to do it so we could play around with it but you we just haven't had i would love to learn yeah but it takes you know effort and time and we just time is of the yeah it's a scarce resource around here so i was super into it and he like tied me like between my legs almost in like a doggy style position we'll have to drop some pictures tomorrow maybe on instagram yeah so when this comes out maybe you can go to instagram and you can see them but um i was totally turned on like i need you to be fucked and I kept trying to get you to stay in there with me and like be a part of it and see it and stuff and you were not interested well i just i don't i don't it wasn't that i wasn't interested i just didn't know like you didn't know like that how that guy felt i just didn't want to get in his way and then like i was tied to a pole i was tied to a pole i'm sure he would have been like man do your thing that you were trying to get me to fuck you i would have loved i just didn't want to be just I don't, you know, I was tied to a pole.
I'm sure he would have been like, man, do your thing. You were trying to get me to fuck you? I would have loved you. I just didn't want to be disrespectful. No, no. They're photographers. He's married. They're vanilla. I just didn't want to bust in there and start fucking you in front of this dude. I did not want you to bust in there. Had I been in there, I probably would have wanted to fuck you. If you would have said, can I have five minutes with her? And he removed himself. That was kind of what I was thinking.
It was that lady's studio i don't know i'm trying to be respectful okay so basically what i'm trying to say is we need to buy some rope and you should it was hot it was super hot yeah no i would love to learn because honestly like listen if i learned then like that would be a totally a party trick oh we go to a swingers club and all the all the girls would be like time me up you know like it would be a thing i need to learn all right googling that you just sold yourself now i'm doing it hold on let me look this up uh yeah but no i'm well you know we've talked about this before i'm i am a more dominant person yeah you are so i have dabbled a little bit in restraining people and playing of that you've restrained me some right and i can do some basic you know boy scout knots and i mean i can tie somebody to the bed if i you know i can do that um but the the whole that shibari thing i think it's like almost like a work of art it's an art yeah and it's like you don't just like pick up a rope and start doing that you have to practice and i mean you're talking hours and hours and hours of practice probably to be able to get to the level that that guy was at you know maybe longer so um yes definitely something i'm interested in i just don't know if we have the time to really fully um and it's also dangerous like if you don't know what you're doing and you tie somebody's arm the wrong way that because too tight you can hurt somebody yeah even while i was getting tied a couple of the girls were like does that hurt because it it will it's tight it's tight.
It's very tight. But if you don't want to restrict somebody's blood flow or twist their arm in the wrong way or – yeah. So you have to know what you're doing. But there are – if people are into that, a lot of the BDSM clubs offer lessons and classes and you can go and take it. There is YouTube videos and stuff like that where you can learn. But definitely, you know, don't just grab a rope and start tying people up if you don't know what you're doing. Okay, so that was pretty much the photography, that whole part of the day. And then after that, we had the hour drive back.
I don't, you're smiling. I don't, what happened? Nothing. I'm just smiling at you because I didn't, I was going to like. I'm like, wait a minute. Did something happen? Like.
No i didn't fuck daphne in the backseat that never happened like what are you about to say no i was just gonna let you leave oh so we basically get in the car and i open my phone to a horrible reddit post and i don't want to it wasn't even right it was a tiktok post it was a tiktok post but i didn't see it on tiktok yeah i didn't see it yeah because i had the account that was on i was blocked and or had been you know it which is fine but i saw it like on a reddit and essentially without like i don't want to talk about it i don't want to give power i don't want to give power or we kind of touched on this was it last week's episode we kind of touched on it a little bit but essentially was attacking me as a mom as a human as um it just it hit below the belt like that's just let me just say that like human being to human being it was dirty and it hit below the belt and i immediately lost my shit i i was hurt very hurt like i knew social media was rough and people were mean and the world is mean and i i knew that but i lost a sense of like hope that maybe it wasn't as bad as i thought it was does that make sense like how do i like i knew that there were bad people out there and i knew that somebody could I'll see you next time.
of like hope that maybe it wasn't as bad as i thought it was does that make sense like how do i like i knew that there were bad people out there and i knew that somebody could come out and do horrible things but i i really and i and it's it's happened to us the entire time we've been on tiktok but this just was again below the belt yeah no it's definitely you know we, we've been doing this for two years plus now. And it definitely what you don't you don't think about those kind of things, right?
People using personal information to attack you or or using your family or, you know, people that are almost like innocent bystanders in this. Like, it's one thing that, OK, if you don't like us because we're swingers and you want to attack us on the basis of that, that it almost feels fair, right?
Like, I mean, it's mean, right, but it almost feels fair or like even the body shaming stuff like okay you know if you're wearing skimpy clothes on tiktok and you want to say whatever about our bodies and stuff like that cool um but it definitely does seem like people that have nothing to do with our platform that we don't you know we're not sharing them you know we're not including them in our stuff to attack them even in this case it was like you thought this attacking me through them right well in this case it was a person that you thought was your friend that you had shared something personal with and then they used then you know because they had a falling out with somebody that had nothing to do with us then they use it and turn it against you it's just i don't know it's just dirty play it's not cool um and you know again we don't want to get too far into this we talked about this last podcast but it definitely has it's a hard lesson for us because we feel like we have to you know and more so you than me but retract from people like you have to really when you have a platform like we have and people essentially can take an all like a take a sentence that I sit in a group setting and twist it and twist it into something that is way bigger and make it into something that it you know that they don't know anything about but they they feel like they do so that is a very hard situation to be in it makes you not want to trust people it makes you not want to let people in and we've got some criticism about like how we've tightened our group and we don't we're not as open and free as we once were and this is the reason why this situations um so i don't i don't want to give too much to that i really want to move on past that because we talked about last week we do not use our podcast for that but it definitely affected our night and if we completely skipped over it i don't think that we we would give a true representation of our day um but you know literally as soon as i opened that it was donezo like it was donezo i was a mess and we were in the car with daphne and mike and we i think we had ordered um mexican like right before i think i picked up, ordered Mexican, and then saw that.
And so Mike went and got her food as I, like, cried in the car. We got back to the hotel, and you kind of shut our door, and we kind of had a conversation. And I was like, there's no way I can go to the Red Room. No way. I mean, at this point, I was crying. My face was swollen. I was like, that kind of breathing.
I was just, no way I could you said okay so i got up you know we were like sharing or you know had an adjoining room i think we had talked about leaving or going home yeah yeah i think we were just gonna go home so i knocked on the door and i was like hey guys we're just gonna go home like i can't do it and she was like okay that's fine we're not gonna do it either and daphne and mike yeah and when she said that like it meant so much to me not that i didn't want them to have fun like obviously i wanted them to go and have fun but it made me realize what like true friendship looks like and is um and she was like no we're gonna sit right here all together and we're gonna laugh and we're gonna have fun and we're it's going to be okay.
And she hugged me and Mike hugged me and I cried. I ugly cried in front of them, which I don't normally do that around anybody but you. But a lot of bad came from that, but also a lot of good. It makes you see who the true people in your life are. Yeah, and there were several other people that were staying in the hotel.
Mandy came down to our room with her husband and uh what brought you some maybe what no they brought you some baked goods right like cheesecakes yeah like there were several people that were in the room the hotel that that are close to us that they would know what was going on and they came in and hugged and honestly i guess it had probably been like two hours three hours maybe at this point since that happened and seeing people and then like being around Daphne and Mike I was laughing I was like okay you know like I kind of felt like my fight was taken out of me when I opened that post but being around people that love me I was like okay i said guys i think i can do this yeah you know and i think because you weren't pushing me to like if you were like no babe we gotta go we gotta go um but because you kind of let me lead with it i was like i think i can go i think i think i can get up and go at this point it was like eight or nine o'clock so it wasn't even that late and so um i was like the only condition is i'm not putting on fake eyes Oh my gosh.
o'clock so it wasn't even that late and so um I was like the only condition is I'm not putting on fake eyes um so uh we got a we I had a really cute um outfit because it was like a rainbow theme so I just my outfit was actually really simple which was probably really good because it didn't require a lot. It had, like, a little black skirt and a little, like, rainbow crop top type of situation. And so, we literally changed and got ready in 20 minutes, would you say? Yeah, not long at all, yeah. And we went. And we were – because we had gotten a hotel close by, we were 10 minutes away. Mm-hmm.
So, we went. Yeah. So, we showed up at the Red Room.
I don't know if i like you said maybe 10 o'clock at this point we're definitely late but we weren't like not horribly not horribly late at all but and by this point the word had gotten out um i'd gotten a lot of texts from privately from friends that had seen it or had gotten wind of it um there was just a lot of I had felt the love from inside um my friend group and so people were starting to hear and so I was already feeling a lot better because I felt like I had my friends on my side like I'm not crazy like this is not okay this is not how we behave and then I we walk in and we had told the people that we were close to that hey we're not coming and they were like okay it's fine we get it we love you you know let us know we can do anything but when we walk in and they see that we made it they were so proud and then it made me a couple of them like hugged me and I was like y'all I'm gonna cry if we do this we cannot do this let's just let's just have a good night and we'll deal with it tomorrow and honestly i'm so glad we went yeah because there were so many people there that were that had never came to an event or had been listening to our podcast and they thanked us and i don't know if i was like hyper sensitive or what but i felt the love from all those people and I needed that love and they were all so kind and they had no idea what I had been through that day, but they were just, just how, so happy to see us.
And it really warmed my heart. Yeah, no. And that's, you know, as we were walking around the red room, there was several people that came up and talked to you and, um, a few couples that were, you know, I think one couple was from out west somewhere and they had flown there.
I think there was another couple down from like Louisiana that had flown there, which is crazy because again, not our event and you announced it like a week ahead of time that we're going, but people are like, oh yeah, we heard you were coming and we just said I wanted to come and see if we could talk to you or just say hi to you, which is just, you know, that blows our every time that happened and i do think you know had you not gone or have we then you know we would have disappointed those people right yeah even though we were not committed to go it was not our event we bought our own tickets so it's if we would have missed it we had the right to miss i guess is my point but i did realize how um i don't know what the word is because i don't want to say like i don't want to come across like conceited or i don't know it just it made me feel like it's very easy to want to quit doing this stuff especially when shit like this happens it's very easy to be like i just just want to throw in the towel.
This is not worth all of this bullshit. But then when you go to something and you have all of these people thanking you and just happy to meet you and give you a hug and just chit chat for a few minutes, it really makes the shitty times a little bit less shitty. They're still shitty. I don't want to take away from that.
They're still shitty, but it kind of, I don't know, it makes it kind of worth it in some way if that makes sense no and i agree that whole night i felt the community rallied around us and you know particularly you and that it was a good feeling it was and i needed that and if i would have not gone i would have missed out on that feeling and i at that point i really really needed that but anyway so anyway once i got in and kind of got my bearings about me and so we were good um started dancing yeah we got a couple group drinks indoors you felt a little bit better yeah you're still off i mean i was completely off yeah but i still had fun um we um i think we only danced like one song it was sold out so it was packed in there so it was kind of hard to get to the dance floor and stuff but we did dance a little once we got to the dance floor we kind of kept getting pulled aside for people saying oh i want to talk yeah so we got which is fine absolutely fine yeah totally fine i you know we enjoy it and we got to dance a little so that's fun and somehow we um made it back to the back i think we said so i think what happened is we were like let's just walk through the playroom and just because we tend to do this a lot like let's just go walk through the playroom and see what's what's going on we just see what kind of naughtiness is going on back there right let's go check it out um i don't think we like walked in and it was busy like there was a lot of people fucking there's a lot of playing i think most of the playrooms were had people in them and this is early i mean this is i don't know maybe well and i think like bella well and was busy like there was a lot of people fucking there's a lot of playing i think most of the playrooms were had people in them and this is early i mean this is i don't maybe well and i think like bella had her eyes set on this couple the whole time southern bella and she was playing with them in that room that had the glass walls around it so a lot of us were like go girl because like that she said that's her mount everest and so we were happy for her that that worked out so we got to see that and i think that's kind of where it started and if you've never been to red room we've done several podcasts like talking about the layout of the club but they have a couch we have a youtube tour too yeah see the visual there is a couch like kind of entering and that's a really cool space it's kind of like you're not in the playroom but you are in the playroom so it's kind of like an in-between area and so we ended up just like hanging out there the next thing i know you were fucking daphne no no that's not what happened we were all sitting on the couches and daphne sitting beside me and you said daphne you should suck dan's dick i tend to do that that.
And I don't think people realize that because we do talk about, hey, people. It's not Dan just started fucking Daphne. All right. So let's get the record straight. It's we were all sitting on the couch together and you said, Daphne, you should suck Dan. I think I was hard. I don't know. You were playing with my dick and I got hard. Yeah. And I, because I was off, I actually didn't think I was going to play at all. So I was like, you know, let's pawn my best friend off on it. So you're like, Daphne sucked Dan's dick. Yeah. And so Daphne starts sucking my dick.
And then Heather, who is a girl that we had been talking to through social media. Her username is Bite-Sized Hot Wife. And we actually recently just saw her on our own.
But we'll save that for another episode yeah um she came up um which we had met her earlier in the night the bar type area and she had introduced herself and said we were the one who had been talking to her so it wasn't like some random girl just came up i wanted to make sure that people realized we had had we had been communicating with her on facebook and she had came up and we had introduced herself right yeah but anyway she comes up and says like do you mind if i help you to to daphne and i think well and she's like yeah it's fine with me but ask lacey but i like kind of got up or what was i doing you had got up to go check on the what the southern bella situation i think you were watching through that window so you're kind of like and that whole couch area was crowded i mean it was like standing room only in that whole area and so i was like well hold on before you start like let's just make because she had half daphne yeah and but definitely yeah but we need to ask lacy wait so let's pause here because this is like a swinger 101 tip like in that case the girl asked and dan's like pause's ask my wife.
And as a wife of a husband who plays a shit ton, that is very respectful, and I very much appreciate it. And, of course, she didn't ask me. That would have been ideal, but I wasn't sitting there. You weren't right there. So the next best thing is to happen. So just guys, pro tip there.
Make sure get the the wife's nod right so it took us a minute like so then there's like this awkward moment of like daphne's sucking my dick as we're trying to flag lacy down and like and i wasn't far i was like i could throw a piece of paper and hit you i was just right there but it was just there was because it was crowded it was just hard to get your attention yeah so eventually we get your attention and she's like do you mind if i help and you were like yes so i don't know somehow i end up i'm sitting on the couch with two beautiful women sucking my dick and then of course this is how this always happens once that starts like everybody starts all hell breaks loose um and i don't know what happened from there i don't know i mean i think some people were fucking um i know daphne fucked you right so that the blow jobs ended up into daphne fucking me which then ended up um into heather fucking me but it was like a very beautiful like they were riding you as you sat on the couch and that was like a joke we were talking about with somebody else they're like dan didn't even get up he just sat there and the women came to him like all he did was get hard and he just like i just handed him his condoms but no then i think uh uh farmer and k started fucking and then mike fucked daphne after she got done right so she got off me and then the heather got on me and then mike starts fucking her because he loves that he loves you know he loves yeah oh yeah he loves getting her after so somehow i ended up with farmer right yeah basically it turns into an orgy on the couch kind of yeah a low-key orgy I don't even know who all no i don't either i can't either um but yeah so that's kind of what happened then we ended up moving back to the actual playroom for a bit i think somebody wanted they were like let's go use i think they wanted to do the glory hole thing the female was too busy.
Like, we got back there and it was still busy. Somebody told me a different name for the glory hole, the female glory hole, the brick oven pizza thing. What do we – we call it the Vagina Castle. Vagina Castle. I met the guy who built it. He was there. And, yeah, we call it the Vagina Castle. What's the other name?
He called it, like, a pizza oven because it looks like when you go to, to like an italian restaurant how they have the ovens built into the walls that's what that is very much what it looks like yeah yeah uh yeah so we ended up back there and then then i ended up with k on the couch yeah fucking her because me and her i don't think we had ever fucked no you had played around with her and stuff and you didn't end up fucking her that night yes i did oh you did i fucked her on the couch okay whatever i didn't know i mean like you did know you were right there yeah i mean i know y'all played around i guess i didn't realize that you were okay that's cool i mean like i'm down about it but i guess i thought that it was more of just like i didn't realize you were fucking her my wife didn't realize i was fucking somebody no i didn't but like me and there, like, taking in the view.
There was a lot of people back there. It was busy, yeah. Yeah. So, it was fine. I mean, that kind of wrapped up the evening. For the most part, I mean, we kind of, like, chitchatted a bit. And then, so, we were there. Like, we probably got there at 10. We probably left at, like, 12, 31 o'clock, maybe.
So, we were there for, like, there for like three hours but it was i was glad i went um it was a lot of fun yeah went from hugs and love to couch orgies all in a matter of three hours i know right um so we went back to the hotel uh i was done though i was just emotionally spent you know like it took a lot for me to even get up and go like i've been crying you know how you feel when you've like cried your eyes out that's how i felt like i just was like i'm done the show's over so the cool thing about having a best friend that loves fucking your husband i was like hey come fuck dan yeah so it often happens i mean i i had played with a few girls at the club um but i didn't come because they normally don't It's just, it's...
hey, come fuck Dan. Yeah. So it often happens. I mean, I had played with a few girls at the club, but I didn't come because- You normally don't. It's just, in that environment, it's very difficult for me to be able to relax enough to come. I don't really know the exact reason, but basically that's why. And so it's very typical for us when we get back to the hotel room at the end of the night, I'd fuck you or you jerk me off or whatever. We come together. That's kind of like our thing. And I don't know.
I think I was starting to try to fuck you or something and you're like oh i don't know babe and i'm like babe i need it like like i'm too worked up after all that to not fuck you and you were like daphne come fuck dan he needs to come yeah and they came they came over that is not the first time that's happened nor will it be the last i'm sure so she made him come and then she actually got on top of me and rode me until i came which is pretty pretty good yeah and then in the next morning when they went to leave didn't she fuck you for a minute before they left i think so yeah yeah you've got a hard life we got good friends you know good.
It's me and Mike are just sitting there, like, watching. I think you equally love it, though. Oh, we do. I love it. I love it. Like I said, you were always the instigator on that. Oh, 100%. I think you were the instigator that next morning, too. I don't think people realize that, though.
I think they just assume that, like, I'm this shy little thing in the corner that and you just go i'm just like this man whore fucking everything i'm gonna fuck all the bitches yeah like i don't care about my wife i just want to fuck all these sluts whatever which is actually kind of like see see you guys that's why she gets off yeah it's kind of that's all right can we role play that you. Yeah, that you put me. This is probably something we need to like tie you up or blindfold you or something while I fuck somebody else. You'd probably be super into that. It depends on who it is, but yeah.
I'm also still a little crazy. Okay. He's giving me the eyes. I mean, you can't see this. No, it's hot. That's hot. Okay.
But yeah, that's that's how we ended our night and then i think yeah i think we did i think we did fuck around a little bit the next morning uh and then they had to go and then we we got up pretty early and left and went home yeah to deal with life to deal with life to deal with all the shit that happened the day before always something but we made it through it and you know i think that's this is a good podcast episode because it really shows you that like you know this whole social media influencer thing and being public and having a platform there's it's a roller coaster i mean there's ups and downs um and when you you know when you get attacked and stuff like that it hurts and it's hard not to take that stuff personal uh especially when people make it extremely personal when they they go after, you know, your family and stuff like that.
But thank God for our community of friends and people around us that are able to kind of rally around us and help get us through that. Yeah. Because without them, we probably would have quit a lot of time ago. You know, like I did personally, I didn't feel alone. I felt like my friends had my back.
And that was like, if you're listening to this, thank yeah thank you uh thanks for the red room and the photographers in nashville those pictures are out and we're tagging those people on instagram so definitely if you're in nashville area and you're looking for some boudoir uh photography there um there's three great photographers and you can see some pictures and the tags all on instagram so go check that out yeah um we got some events coming up. So, you know, we've got about five more minutes here. Our next event is September, the Weekend to Remember at Secret Hunaway Resort. Yeah.
That's a sold-out event, but they tell me they've never ran out of day passes. Yeah. Which is kind of surprising to me that they've never run out. It is.
But with the new pool, I kind of get it um but you can't stay off property and come so i don't want you to be discouraged if you would like to come um you can still have a great time by staying off property we are doing a lot of fun things we're doing a vow renewal so if you're married or heck i don't even care if you're not married you can still do it with us um of ethical non-monogamous people whatever you are you can join us you can be nude you can wear bathing suit we have um little veils and bow ties if you want to join in i think it's cute to have a little white bathing suit and dan being his little bow tie and get a picture of that but um who doesn't want to renew their vows like half naked with a bunch of swingers well i think you know there's so many people especially you know from us so many people are like how dare you be how are you married like that's not a real marriage or you know like your marriage is fake and you guys just want to cheat on each other so i think getting together with like-minded people who understand non-monogamy and understand that this can be a very rewarding relationship and a very valuable relationship and a valid relationship, um, you know, we can celebrate love, but also be non-monogamous and be swingers or whatever form of non-monogamy you practice.
Um, and we can celebrate that together as a community. And I think that that means a lot to me. And so I'm really looking forward. I mean, I love mean i love secrets i love partying um but i think this weekend to remember i think there's going to be you know a little little emotions to it i think yeah it's all about love i mean friday night we're doing um like a bachelor bachelorette party saturday night is the wedding rehearsal i mean the wedding reception we're gonna have cake we're to have strippers, we're going to have wedding dresses and bow ties and all the things. It's going to be fun.
Let's just celebrate love and that we found this awesome way to love. So I'm excited. I'm excited too. Okay. And then in October, we have a Halloween event at the Red Room. And if you don't know, Halloween is like, it Bowl for swingers, right? It is. Like swingers love getting dressed up in theme. And so when you combine that with an actual themed like holiday, it's like the Olympics or the Super Bowl for swingers. So we're celebrating that at the Red Room. I don't know the dates, but it's in October.
Yeah, it's like the 20th through the 22nd, I think right just before halloween so you know you still have time to be you can actually celebrate halloween with your family and stuff like that but come celebrate swinger halloween with us at the red room um all of our events all of our tickets you can find on swingersociety.net swingersociety.net um saturday night's almost sold out i think we only have like 20 something tickets left for saturday so if you were considering if you want to come to nashville with us and party and do the red room thing don't hesitate on buying tickets because yeah i know a lot of people because it's a club they're like oh i'll just get my tickets there and because it's a takeover you you can't do that for this it's going to be sold out it'll be sold out there won't be tickets at the door and we're going to meet fire code capacity so there's nothing we can do to get you in if you show up so you want to buy your tickets ahead of time if you plan on going because if you come to the door and try to get them you're going to get turned away correct all right I think that's it it was a good episode it was I really appreciate you and everything that happened at the red room and you kind of rallying and pulling yourself together and making uh making it a night no you know to remember i guess uh a weekend to remember a night on that theme but you know what i'm saying yeah no it was good i'm glad had we just gone home i think it would have felt like a defeat yeah um because we ended up we took the power.
We took the power back and I felt like it was small victories. Yeah. And now here we are at 1 million. 1 million downloads. I know. It's crazy. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples. Be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys. Bye. Bye. If you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us, leave a five-star review wherever you're listening. If you want to see more of our content, you can find links to Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans, and more in the show notes.
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